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Signs that Someone is Emotionally Unavailable 

Tess Brigham, Therapist & Coach
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Signs Someone is Emotionally Unavailable / What are the signs that someone is emotionally unavailable? First, vulnerability is like kryptonite to them. Anytime you bring up a vulnerable topic - whether it’s related to the two of you or not, they run in the opposite direction. Another sign is they offer no emotional support. When you're down and in need of support, they’re often gone. And finally, they often can't handle conflict. They respond to everything from a place of anger.
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@LittleBambi777
@LittleBambi777 Год назад
So true, my ex has all these signs and that’s why he is now my ex, being with him feels even lonelier than being alone
@aishwaryaparthasarathy349
@aishwaryaparthasarathy349 Год назад
Same feeling with my so called husband
@Into2020s
@Into2020s 2 месяца назад
Hoping I would have the courage to leave too
@meganpittman0615
@meganpittman0615 10 месяцев назад
Sounds a lot like a dismissive avoidant attachment style.
@noamay
@noamay Год назад
Yes I experienced this.. I just don't understand why it's so difficult for people to be emotionally normal.. I feel lucky I can express myself in a healthy way
@theymissmeagan
@theymissmeagan Год назад
Saying that is ignorant to me because it depends on who raised you and what you were surrounded by as a child
@windermere2330
@windermere2330 8 месяцев назад
So many people have trauma from childhood or adulthood that really affects how they connect with people. That’s why.
@windermere2330
@windermere2330 8 месяцев назад
The dog booty in the background is hilarious!😅
@jeanniefelix6534
@jeanniefelix6534 Месяц назад
My daughter is a psychologist, mentioned that not everybody has the capacity to love, I know it's strange to hear, but maybe it's the upbringing?
@veronicacruzcotten1124
@veronicacruzcotten1124 9 месяцев назад
Okay I have to admit, I can be this way to an extent. But I want to learn to be emotionally supportive. Growing up, having emotions was not okay. We weren’t allowed to show too much happiness, sadness, crying etc. So now I find myself as an adult not wanting to deal with emotion but can be emotional. I really need help.
@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue
@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue 7 месяцев назад
Damn, I am in the same boat... when my ex opened up to me and I showed no care she was done with me... I'm so sorry.
@bigpenguinzx6732
@bigpenguinzx6732 2 месяца назад
i think that realizing that we need help in the first place is a very big step in the right direction
@AverageAufa
@AverageAufa 25 дней назад
therapy!
@LuvableAF
@LuvableAF 10 месяцев назад
Moving the goalposts and lying is also a big one.
@windermere2330
@windermere2330 8 месяцев назад
What does this mean?
@AngelaOwens-z7g
@AngelaOwens-z7g 11 месяцев назад
I love how you just got right to the point and didn’t spend 20 min explaining why you are going to be explaining….. genius, because I DO NOT have the time to listen to a 20 min preface before you get to the meat of what you want to say!! Bravo
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 8 месяцев назад
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@LisaS1
@LisaS1 10 месяцев назад
When I was young I mistakenly, unknowingly got involved with a guy who was very emotionally unavailable and showed signs, to me at least, of narcissism. I ended up wasting years of my life on him hoping I could mold him into a different kind of man. It wasn't going to happen.
@Nina-vv3ev
@Nina-vv3ev 3 месяца назад
True
@cherylrhondamoreland1600
@cherylrhondamoreland1600 2 месяца назад
They also use lots of excuses not to do the right thing. They lie and have no character
@princessdenise8659
@princessdenise8659 Год назад
How to get over someone who was emotionally immature?
@mandolaa
@mandolaa 8 месяцев назад
I experience the same😩 my ex was emotionally immature. You just have to accept the fact and try to focus on yourself and your healing. Time will help to get over them 🙏✨
@erikhorvath4297
@erikhorvath4297 4 месяца назад
Nah they cannot handle a simple funny 1 minutes video either, just because he study, and then he said bye dude, wtf is this?
@cherylrhondamoreland1600
@cherylrhondamoreland1600 2 месяца назад
Don't waste yall time ....run leave pls
@CelestBiohazard
@CelestBiohazard 2 года назад
What about someone who claims to be overtly emotionally available yet insists on changing topics the second their character is exposed (vulnerable)
@rafeeqh_Amaar
@rafeeqh_Amaar Год назад
They are called Narcissist
@TP-vu3tc
@TP-vu3tc 10 месяцев назад
My wife has the last one very bad
@johnnelson7192
@johnnelson7192 Год назад
What would be the difference of a fearful dismissive-avoidant verse emotionally unavailable
@mahaeldeeb9322
@mahaeldeeb9322 Год назад
It's an attachment style
@TokyoBlue587
@TokyoBlue587 3 месяца назад
Had boyfriends like this. Never again. Especially the anger management issues.
@Invoke-me
@Invoke-me Год назад
And what if he hears you out, cleans your tears and makes you smile, gets you gifts, takes you to nice places, compliments the shit out of you, tell you your worth and tells you he would always always care for you deeply and would always be there for you but can’t give you the love your looking for……. He does all these things for you to show you that there are still good men out there and doesn’t want to date you cause according to him he doesn’t believe in love 😭😭😭😭😭 make that make sense, the one person to show you what true love feels like doesn’t believe in it 😫😫😫 how????!!!!
@windermere2330
@windermere2330 8 месяцев назад
Oh my! That sounds so heartbreaking! I hope you’re OK.
@ZoranaKnezevic-p8o
@ZoranaKnezevic-p8o 7 месяцев назад
It’s a manipulation, love :,( I’m sorry, I’ve experienced this too… for him, it was an ego boost and made him feel like a ‘good guy’ to do all these nice things for you without sincere intentions ……….. he had no intention of staying, just wanted to feel like a good guy and enjoy you a for a bit .. ego boost
@JennyJade-h2p
@JennyJade-h2p 6 месяцев назад
I'm scared because this defines me.💔💔
@mshiferaw
@mshiferaw 23 дня назад
I'm here and present for a roll call😶‍🌫️ working on it
@mshiferaw
@mshiferaw 23 дня назад
Also yes I'm a dismissive avoidant
@cherylrhondamoreland1600
@cherylrhondamoreland1600 2 месяца назад
Yelp sounds like my soon to be ex
@moonshineaudios5740
@moonshineaudios5740 10 месяцев назад
It’s me 🥲
@BipolarPumpkin
@BipolarPumpkin 10 месяцев назад
Correct even im trying from 2 years . He didnt even chcng a bit. Im suffering day by day in a hope
@johnsonsharon81
@johnsonsharon81 3 месяца назад
I can't help other people, because i can't help myself.
@evadebruijn
@evadebruijn 3 месяца назад
✌️
@SandyCheeks007
@SandyCheeks007 8 месяцев назад
I feel bad bc this sounds like me. I need help to change but vulnerability is very scary.
@Invoke-me
@Invoke-me Год назад
What is the opposite direction 😢, I understood nothing
@helovesongie3884
@helovesongie3884 2 года назад
I love ur videos u a helper and a therapist,big fan
@lisakukla459
@lisakukla459 11 месяцев назад
What about if when you are down and low, they don't take off but rather antagonize you? Is that the same thing or does it go in a different category?
@rearose8127
@rearose8127 27 дней назад
narcissist
@Kyleforthe3SIKE
@Kyleforthe3SIKE 8 месяцев назад
Heads down and grind men, for us and us only. We get stronger alone- no more 50% divorce statistics. No more letting women walk all over us
@ritubhatt01
@ritubhatt01 8 месяцев назад
Just realized I am an emotionally unavailable person😂
@clich126
@clich126 7 месяцев назад
The guy that dropped off a letter the other day was emotional unavailable
@ChadFreeman757
@ChadFreeman757 5 месяцев назад
The dog is emotionally unavailable 😂 look at the curled tail!
@christinefury1040
@christinefury1040 Год назад
Love your hair and highlights!
@sustainandbee
@sustainandbee 9 месяцев назад
Is that a pug behind you? Jejeje
@SparkyWaxAll
@SparkyWaxAll Год назад
Thanks
@melnewcomb7609
@melnewcomb7609 2 года назад
The pug
@pugscaniche7866
@pugscaniche7866 Год назад
Love pugs❤
@Mutatedcorpse
@Mutatedcorpse 10 месяцев назад
I don't understand why not caring is a bad thing? i've been good since
@0703651000
@0703651000 Год назад
How do you deal with psychological treatment that causes emotional unavailability from loved ones?
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