SINGLE WOMEN Talk DATING after 40, Self-Sabotaging Behavior & SEDUCTION Tips .. 

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@@robertrios1732no they don’t 😂. Now if only we could get the same from our government 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is this your first time or are you Janie come lately?

Fr I need a podcast am tryna go viral I have so much to say

Your story proves exactly what men have been saying, black females have no clue on how to pick a man, as indicated by TWELVE FEMALES having a restraining order on him.

Best advice on his page not doing your background is asking for problems

Actually..background checks should be required for BOTH genders..many covert narcissistic women are out here too.

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Yes that is gold.

And that's facts that is just the truth...when they understand this in real life things will be better...people go through phases as they age and change/grow etc...

What's Not being said...is that...as the lady said around the 8:15 mark... how she Wasn't doing the things in her 20's? To prepare her to be Married Too many you use your peak yrs, when At your Best? Playing, running around And giving the best of you to dudes who was just smashing... like you were Then you get 30,40's, and get mad that the men you want? Don't want You. Nothing... increases in value with Age and use. You get older, more used ( Aka more sexual partners) mostly for Nothing of value. Then you are older, Heavier, often w kids from another Man, bad experiences and trauma... And then the Good guy? Gets to pick up the pieces? Pay a higher price ( lifestyle, bills, your needs Are different etc) for an older more used, thus less valuable version of you? That's why it's harder for you guys. Your Best matches, Husbands? Are in your friend zone from your 20's. That's just a fact. Women are Born w their million dollar Value, ..aka her youth, fertility and beauty ...y'all are supposed to cash out for the best man you can get then Value goes down with age, weight, kids, the more dicks, experiences, Expectations you have Men? Have to Earn their value to get the woman he desires Women are born with her values As the gals said ..they thought they had more time. You Don't

Please don't leave out the fact that bw tend to push us away and often reject/punish good hearted Men with strong moral compasses.

I'm happily single...being alone is not lonely... it's time used for self improvement ❤

You don't know wtf your daughters will do.

Exactly... Teach them now...

​@@AngelaElikyano we don't but installing morals and values, integrity and a code of ethics goes a long way

@@AngelaElikya The keyword in her comment is Epidemic and her making it a promise to self and family. That the epidemic will not invade her household and to continue it's devastating destruction of self and family structure. And you are actually talking about something non contextual to her recognition and promise. She clearly recognised that it is an epidemic,and her promise to self and family is that she and family wants to be the solution and not the casualty,victim and collateral damage.

@@rafaelw8115 My grandma we often say I do know what I'm doing,but i don't know what is doing me,ie what is behind and responsible for my choices/decisions,actions and way. Something got to awaken you to self awareness, and that's a sign of nature, and you follow that intentionally,to go back and down to the deep:source and foundation. Do you have anything and place ancestral,if you do bring it forth and take her or them there. And use that and your life's journey and story as a point of contact and connection to awaken her true nature and structure behind it that she is been hiding and might even be running from. When that connection is established and she is comfortable,sober and free to express that true nature of self. You lead the interaction and conversation and do not be pushy nor touchy, otherwise you come off adversarial. Ask critical question ranging from the superficial and relatable topics of sex,money and material,then unto the depth of her idea,concept and purpose of self, marriage and family. Use simple and relatable words,terms and language and you pay keen and invested attention to her words, expressions to guage her fears,pains,lack and scarcity to see and understand where the resentment is coming from. This is a discovery journey and process you are to take her on,to get her to open up because nature of the mind/self is normally veiled,ie closed and locked. Thank you!.

Exactly! If a woman is going to be led/submit to a man…at the minimum, they should be aligned spiritually.

Thank you so much! How can two walk together unless they agree? That’s an absolute deal breaker and what’s the point of wasting time and going further in some thing when you know it from work for you.

Very well said!!!

I totally agree with you. YOUR spiritual belief is literally your lifestyle (life foundation) how can you lead me as a woman and you don't know what religion/spiritual beliefs you believe in?

I totally agree with you

this is crazy. If spiritual growth, and headship was actually a barrier for entry she wouldve never spoke to the man. She was still attracted to the outside. This is the downfall of our community. Yall say you want headship but only if hes 6 ft, only if he has tats, only if he has the right beard etc. Because bw, more than any other group, choose aesthetics over substance they are constantly getting played. She was already a babymama, but now is seeking a spiritual leader? No the truth is she was seeking a man who looked a certain way. Gave him access and later on was upset he had no character. If you are seeking men who are 6 ft, make good money (6 figs), and 6 down below, you are seeking out the devil. The mark of the beast is literally 666 but women seek out three 6's from the men in they want. when black women stop looking at aesthetics and start seeking character , within 1 generationall the thugs would be gone. Men do what is necessary to gain access to your womb. Our grandmothers were chaste women, who were not seeking multiple men. They went to wholesome dances, met men at church, through family, and community. Yall want your grandmothers results but didnt evaluate the men the way they did, nor are you seeking men like your grandpa. If only 15% of the global populace is over 6 ft. it means most of our grandfathers were not tall, yet thats the number 1 factor for most women.

@@Ghragle- respectfully, u didn't make any sense. She didn't even mention his height so... 🤷🏿‍♀️

Totally agree. A serious woman whose life style is faith based understands that her partner absolutely has to share thesame faith base as her for a relationship to have any hopes of working out. Him not seeing the big deal in it is telling that up until now, he hasn't figured it out yet because if he had, he'd understand why she had to leave. Faith is never enough to leave a relationship to people who don't consider faith a big deal and that's exactly why faith is an absolute reason to leave 😊

@@comfortmengot9493 he made plenty of sense

@@Ghragle-one of the most ignorant comments

Learn to be a better person how??

Who in the world is going to be crazy to marry most of you HIGH RISK American Women, in these ever-increasing perilous times, that we now live in!!!????

Yes my thoughts exactly ❤️ that’s the only thing I didn’t agree with. But other than that, this was a great video 🙌🏾

Great point!

Great point!!

It sounds like the type of women you’re describing aren’t actually women at all…they’re little girls. Don’t let the immature behavior of some girls prevent you from approaching and showing interest in a real woman with standards.

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​@@sassyone82It's going to... because it isn't logical to keep putting yourself through undeserved trauma... when that's more than likely to be the outcome. Nobody should torture themselves for exceptions & outliers... that are barely possible to experience or encounter.

Yes! I said some overly similar.

You can’t ignore religion when you’re dating to be with someone long term!

The woman is the same religion as their MAN. That should be an easy fix. Thanks for sharing

you were disobedient.. Your MAn religion is your religion if you were really a Godly woman, that would not have been an issue in the first place. you just told on yourself

Uh that's a no for me. I am my own person. I will not conform to a religion that I don't share the same belief in, just because he's my man. But please...do what YOU feel is best for YOU 😊

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Same here. I was 33yrs old when I finally had my breakthrough. Blessings to you!!

Stay single no man wants to date a 35 years old in this era again

Totally agree as long as you accomplish your goals, a gym is a gym lol but other than that I l really enjoyed this video❤

It is... just like rejecting men that have an android. But it's based on caliber or quality/level of fitness training that is ASSumed by the kind of gym you go to... even though 8x Mr. Olympia trained in a whole in the wall gym in Arlington that looked like a mechanics garage. 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

Better late than never, I Guess?

THIS is what I’m in the process of learning and applying to my life now. Happy no matter what or who.

That actually doesn’t work, to be successful at anything you have to pattern yourself after folks who have the success that you are looking for in anything in life whether it’s marriage or business. Just being yourself is what got you to where you are, and if you are not happy with where you are and desire something different, then obviously you are going to have to do something differently. You can’t just be the same person and expect different results, that’s not how life works. When you learn better, you behave better and intentionally change to be a better you. There are lots of little things we can do to continuously improve ourselves and make ourselves assets that others can see value in, things like improving your health and fitness, the way we dress and our overall appearance to the world, our appreciation of what we have and giving back to less fortunate etc. These things require effort, you can’t be lazy and complacent and expect better results. That’s just not how life works…

@@iudoka I've seen it work many times. And for anything to be modeled, there has to be a first.

Actually you have to become the person you would want to be with. Make an actual list of the qualities you want in a partner. When you are done, write your name as the heading of the list.

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass I agree to a certain extent. I am somewhat reserved but prefer an assertive man. I tend to like the balance between me and my man, opposites attract. Of course i like us to have certain similarities but there are some qualities in which I enjoy the variance.

@@nenajay3174 Sure. You can't bring chaos and expect peace, though.

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That woman in the blue dress doesn't look anywhere near 44 yrs old,she looks every bit of 23/24 yrs old.

Yes! I second Mr. Gaskins 🙏🏿

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Adversity builds bond, and so connection is built together. Especially for females,as experience on the part of a female is not valued by men. Because her purity, fertility and youthfulness is highly valued by men. She going through the experience alone and adversity taking a torn on her purity, fertility and youthfulness costs her,her inherent lure and bond pairing and hosting -ability, which is consequent upon her purity. These are sublime and subtle issues and concepts that cultures that are proactive and strategic in nature know and transfer orally in house as oral tradition. Study traditional values and rituals of passage for youngmen in ancient and cultures that are creative, leadership and production oriented. which is conceptually known as circumcision or Initiation in some cultures.

​@@fabulousswag6683I totally agree with your analysis of home talking of values grounded in tradition going a long way to productive and appreciative accountable life as value adding in long term. I watched dating and a wedding in Turkey where family values and tradition are so strongly spoken to both men and women and respect is mutual. Men know their value adding productive professional and providing role and women are hard working and home builders yet professional without a blur in home values passed on. Initiation differs from culture to culture but there's a lot of positives one can home talk to our offsprings I have raised my boys to respect women but take leadership and be productive even before graduation by being active in my business and save to buy first house even before graduation. That's home built shaping and value add they grow with

I am culturally astute but proactive and strategic in Positioning my boys for a value add life, I studied other cultures over a period of time and productive nature of nations, e.g. German work ethic, Chinese creativity, Turkish dating and handing over of a woman ceremony and we discussed it elaborately I'm the house over the years. It has groomed me and my boys

@@normansindana4366 , That's keen observation and as you should notice, ownership is never taught in schools,rather it is transmitted orally in oral tradition. Study their TRADITIONS. For example,the Christian tradition coded as and in " The Seven Sacrament". The sacraments being: 1)Baptism,2) Confirmation/Chrismation, 3)Eucharist, 4)Annoiting of the sick,5)Penace,6) Holy orders and 7) Holy Matrimony. Now wait for it,the first 3 of baptism, Chrismation and eucharist is grouped as : Iniatiation. The second 2 of Annoiting of the sick and Penace is grouped as : Healing. And the last 2 of Holy orders and Matrimony is grouped as Profession, Vocation or Career. That's the principle/structure, and process of passage of rites into Manhood and Godhood/Godman.

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@quinntheqt- I agree with you and her too, prayers can be answered within a week or two as well as within minutes. I completely understand.❤

It was self sabotage when she gave access to her womb to a jumpoff. only a women would say having a kid from a man who did not care for her isnt self sabotage lol.

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We are in the End Times, that's why!!! The demoralization of society is at hand!! Breakdown of the family structure, rise of single mothers, babies being born out of wedlock, more young men and women going to jail at alarming rates on unpreceded levels!!

Both men and women

The culture has shifted dramatically since then

Well our grandparents had far more limitations. As we revolve as humanity, we desire more from our partners. It’s much harder to find a partner who can meet you emotionally, mentally, and physically, where as earlier generations were only really requiring the physical provision (at least for women).

Many of our grandmothers/great-grandmothers were living trapped. They couldn't leave, no education, no income, birthed so many children, put up with abuse and cheating. They passed down the warnings. They wanted better for future generations of women.

That’s one good way to weed an unserious man out

other stats say, sex, finance and communication but i feel ya

@adrianjeffrey2897 those are the areas of challenges & manifestations within a relationship - the areas in the relationship where the problems show up. I was addressing the root. Most singles are not prepared to give or receive the (embodiment of) love they say they want or think they deserve.

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