Top DATING Apps, How to ATTRACT Good Men ONLINE & The PERFECT First Date 

Congrats…did you follow most of the advice they discussed on Match to meet your hubby?

@@andrea48103they going through something right now that’s why she didn’t respond to you

@@andrea48103 I updated my bio based on the dating coach and then listened to KS.

Ahmazing

What website?

Louder!!!!

It's on youtube right now

Yes

Yes it is

That part… bc dating apps is crazyyy

Even without children PREDATORS LURKING 👍

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Right. I remember her being on Tonight's Conversation

Let me know how it goes!

Yess

I am actually considering using a dating app now. This was some great information shared here. If I do,I now know to say longterm partner and a couple of apps that should be good to use❤️💛

God and see if he wants

Don’t do it Sis

As a bro this a lot for apps. I agree praying with my notes also. The lord have way of sending the right person because the apps X. Lol

​@dondrell5033 did you get back on?👀

Bro, I'm 6'5, athletic, I have my own place, I have a good, stable, blue collar job and even I couldn't get decent matches when I was using the dating apps. Bro, stay off the dating apps if you value your sanity!​@@dondrell5033

I think your mission is awesome! I don’t do this for a living, but more for fun and sharing my experiences with women over 40. Let’s see if there’s some synergies and connect.

Whenever is see ppl talk about Christian dating . .. I automatically think about a group of ppl who are lying about their core beliefs. Dating for most ppl are having sex 1 or multiple ppl while they’re trying to figure out if this is someone who I want to marry. Dating isn’t biblical. Do you teach celibacy/abstinence while dating as well?

@@justmontina i would love to connect!

@@justmontina what's your IG?

@@smf427 hey sis! Yes, I do. I am so tired of other Christian dating experts doing this. I don't like the whole "try before you buy" concept. I think they want to fit what the world says to gain influence. I myself, was a virgin before marriage. My coaching and strategy session also deal with the woman as a whole. I want you be married but can you truly say you are ready to invite someone into your life? We talk about "work" before marriage. I can help. My hubby and I have a podcast on my channel encouraging and supporting singles.

I agree! Yes! She walks the talk!

😊😊

Thanks!

Right 😂

What you cooking is the worst

That's great. Where did you guys meet

WHAT SITES??? 👀

I here you sis.. and this is unusual to me, being that Ive been married for 5 yrs.. and don’t use dating apps.. heres my question. Women tend to not look like themselves period after they remove makeup and extensions… what’s the issue there?

@@PrinceInawRakah I think their goal is to look their best, but most women are truly not intentionally trying to deceive men about their looks. Around the world, men are pressured to become rich and women are pressured to be beautiful. So the beauty industry uses this fact to prey upon women to enhance their looks. Beautiful women get whatever they want in life. All doors are opened up for them automatically. Unattractive women are immediately rejected and shunned by everyone, and they are extremely lonely. At least unattractive men who are wealthy can get married and avoid loneliness. Elon Musk is one example. Beauty for women and money for men is the doorway to human connections. Being unattractive for women and poverty plus being unattractive for men is the doorway to lifelong loneliness. At least attractive poor men can still get married. Only gold digger men would marry unattractive rich women, but they would probably cheat. Sorry, I do not understand more than what I wrote above. I have never worn make up, used hair extensions, etc.

⁠@@PrinceInawRakahbeing happily married for 5 years, why are you concerned? She’s on the dating market. She has genuine concerns about pedophiles, being sa’d, and lied to about STDs. Health and safety concerns. You’re concerned about hair and makeup on women you’re allegedly not looking for. I’m confused.

I agree but I feel we're so so long gone...

Yep

Why cause you looking for man who gon spend that bread huh, 😂see you looking for a man for all the wrong reasons, you should be focused on his character, not his cash, the occupation shouldn't matter.

I have a tendency to do the same. Unless through the pics and stuff I can discern something ❤

@@mistahjay8598 it does matter for whether or not you feel you can support and be of service to that person's purpose. Occupation says a lot about lifestyle and availability. Entrepreneurs/people with transient jobs (i.e. trucking or something like that might require a lot of travel) may not be ideal for someone who prefers to be stationary with a lot of quality time.

@@mistahjay8598 Someone like you would assume that! I have a REAL career, building for many years and title starts with Senior xxxx😅. I don’t need nobody’s bread. But if I’m going to be in a traditional relationship, homeschooling and all, I need to know what I’m getting myself into, there’s a lot of unemployed people claiming they have a business. Even if not traditional, I still want to homeschool and move out of the big city, some jobs may not allow that. A firefighter making $120 may not do it for me because he may not want to move out, job is niche. But a nurse (job on demand) making $50 will work. I am crystal clear on the life and family I want to have. You keep judging out here and protecting the money you don’t have😃.

Not having an occupation listed is a red flag to me too. If you're unemployed you should say that and explain what you're trying to do in your profile...I'm trying to start my own business, I'm going back to school etc. Being deceptive about something so basic is a problem.

Crazy something similar happened to me but it was in the same town

😲 glad it ended safely for everyone involved

This video provides great tips. I agree with her on not doing long distance unless its someone you have dated for a while in the same city. Honestly, like the coach in this video recommended, he should have done video call especially for a 300mile drive. There are so many apps that support this: whatsapp, Google Meet, Facebook messenger, skype...I guess in 2023, we should now also ask people their assigned sex at birth. 😒

WOW!

I would have liked to see that on Catfish lol

Good point.

good men don't go on dating apps. you won't find them on there. one because if they're good, they will be taken & two, women have FAR MORE options than men. your average woman has more options than the average male celebrity. so its actually pointless for men to be on dating apps. especially when men know that 80% of women are swiping right on the top 10% of men & swiping left on everybody else... while 90% of the guys are just swiping right on everybody hoping to get a single match. to put it in perspective, the average woman will get 50-100 matches in a week & may even be able to schedule a handful of dates off of those matches, while a man will be lucky to get one or two matches & those 2 that match will ignore him when he messages them, even after they matched... the women will just match for a confidence boost & then never message him. thats the difference between dating as a man & a woman. the smarter men know this & simply avoid dating apps altogether. its a waste of time for them.

I met my current boyfriend on a dating app and he’s the best man I’ve ever met and dated

For real because... I need some internet game🤦🏿‍♂️😂

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I used Facebook dating, Hinge and BLK

Thank you!

are people saved on there

@@user-mz3ii2cr2u I am 😂! Truth is you must vet those you connect with.

@@user-mz3ii2cr2unope

That's great😊

The likelihood is you will be returning unfortunately. It's a revolving door by design for the majority of people. It's a businesses. Doesn't matter which app or anything online.

But did he look it, you know black to crack 😂

You also might have missed out on yo policy blessing 😂

Geez!🤦🏽‍♀️

@@mistahjay8598 🤣🤣🤣

@@mistahjay8598 He looked it and walked it too.

I'm over 50 and state what I'm looking for. 90% of Men don't read

Are you going back to online dating?

Youve done nothing wrong. Most of those apps are full of married men. Those appa are 75 to 80 percent male. Youd do better to meet people out and about. Too many liars time wasters and game players on those apps.

This is basic information. That she is stating in the video. Online dating or anything online when it comes to seeking a serious relationships is a waste of your time.

Whatcha learn?

@@awillis244 to start with be specific what you want in your profile like marriage etc

Online dating can be just as a dangerous playing field as conventional dating. Supermarkets and malls are a tad better. But, 'referrals' are best. Edit: In my most humble opinion, I believe working on oneself to become what/who it is you may be looking for or may be attracted to is essential; someone with self respect, has integrity, is courteous and considerate. Someone whom you should hope to become. Healing from previous relationships and loving yourself in ways that are noticeable WILL attract like-kind individuals...generally. Having expectations that are too high for a person on your perspective level of 'readiness' may cause one to miss out on an ideal mate.

I'm on a break cuz it emotionally drained me

I have one better. A man told me to call him to make the first date! I said no, but he insisted. I never made that call…next!😂

My husband gave me his number first and I just responded with mine and he told me that he would text me after he mopped his floors. It’s that simple.

When they do that im bold n tell them i never initiate contact to a man

I would immediately text back and thank him for sharing his number and tell him to reach out if he’d like to continue talking.

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So now that pookie and ray ray got it before hand, you expect the Good man to come along and wait 😂😂

@@mistahjay8598 I have been married for 17 years and had my kids and is not looking for no man period . I am divorced not single I don't want no kind of relationship from no man and I'm not dating .but if I decide to he will be biracial like my ex husband period . Not in no relationship and don't want none 😂 but l types of other races like me are interested but not right now been married already done that .periodddddd

@@mistahjay8598 and I don't date pokie and ray ray s my preference is biracial men Latinos and Cubans my grandparents are Cuban and mixed race thats my preference no pookies and ray rays lol

@@mistahjay8598 I'm divorced my husband is biracial was married 17 years been there done that never waiting on a pokie or ray ray they never had sex with me my husband is mixed race I guess you mean Brad with some mix 😂

@@mistahjay8598 don't want no relationship with these narcissist demonic demons . No kind of relationship with them dogs . I'm at peace ✌

This means making sure young men AND women are ready to be married in their twenties. Because if one person is broke while the other is in the middle of their career, this can set up some toxic environments. Growing together isn’t a problem. But trying to grow someone, bc you’re so far ahead, is.

Women couldn't even work and were stuck in marriages they didn't want to be in because of it. Stop using our grandparents as an example when half of them were miserable.

The highest divorce rates are lesbian couples.. I believe they’re at a 76% divorce rate.. highest domestic violence rates as well, sisters.. Not bashing women, that’s note worthy.. Now check this out… the average time of a black marriage is 5 yrs.. our marriage rates have dropped 50% in the last 65 yrs.. over 70% of black children are raised by single mothers.. and they’re raising boys.. Y’all see the correlation? Brothers are being raised by women and they are raised with the mentality of the BW.. creating lesbian-like relationship dynamics.. The boys are emotional.. flighty and indecisive.. narcissistic.. impulsive.. obsessed with consumerism (cloths, bags, shoes, jewelry).. they hate male authority.. they hate correction.. etc.. So being that the BW has lived in this dynamic for the last couple decades.. they have no respect for their male counterparts.. making it IMPOSSIBLE for them to pair.. because they don’t respect men.. and if they do, for superficial reasons. On the flip side., when BW marry wm, according to the handful of those marriages, they stay together longer.. So the BW can override her disrespectful nature that she has around the BM.. and adjust to be with a wm.. why? Because her and the wm have the same nemesis.. the BM.. and their relationship is fueled by the desire to humble him.. and the BW doesn’t care as much about the wm’s money or looks.. they have a common mission and a common enemy.. Y’all may not have made it this far but the point is.. many BM don’t like BW as ppl (still attracted to them tho) because of their upbringing.. and BW don’t like BM.. because he’s just like her, psychologically.. Idk what mechanism outside of The LORDs instructions that can fix this mess.. so it looks like The LORD is who we must seek to bridge this gap. Y’all sisters say y’all Christians so this should be an easy concept to grasp ❤ #unsolicitedtruth

I am a widow I meet my husband we were broke buil together and later what he did put everything in trash by teaching with other girls but coronavirus gave him his karma very quick today I have my peace

@@chimenedjousse2273 wow this is funny 😄 😆

Ill be back, Thank you!

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Your right

Facts

It's like finding a needle in a haystack.

#thatpart

Cause your picky

Wow, that's a huge difference. I guess he could always say the extra 1 was a typo.

Maybe it was a typo… 😬

@@POOLIN751 nope he lied lol

Me too! She made me want to get back on with these tools.

Thank you!

Thank you! I'll be back!

I agree… crazy times

😂

Digital dating is especially hard for men bc dating apps have way more men on them than women, and women have to sift through tons of dudes using mostly photos as the rubric. I feel like a man like yourself may fare better with a matchmaker. It costs more upfront, but all of who you are will be taken into account when the matchmaker sets you up on a date. In any case, good luck to you.

You make no sense. If you work on yourself and have a great career but dress like your homeless, it would be hard to sell that you are not homless lmao

lol what’s your socials?

Do it!!!

@@crespeakslife I’m thinking about it 😬

I was as well, I recently got off but my experience was a lot better this time around since my focus and intent was more clear.

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