@@chrisg.7625 stop contemplating, just do. deleted facebook, instagram, and snapchat in 2018 and havent looked back. still have plenty of work to do and honestly it just feels like the first step but it was worth it.
*Social Media has been awesome. Before SM it would take months to get to know people for who they really are. Now, Social media allows people to freely demonstrate why they should be avoided.*
No one needs to be told this. It's common sense that social media isn't good for us but like many things that are addictive and bad for us, we often find reasons to justify continuing the behavior.
Shitty men nutting and bolting with women who then raise kids as single mothers. Those kids don't get raised properly. Men need to stop making so many single mothers
@@jamesr8584 that’s dumb advice. You can be a gentleman and go out of your way to compliment or make advancements or do nice things, but putting someone on a pedestal expecting no reciprocation is a low self esteem move and is unhealthy
I love the fact that this woman is actually helping men instead of some women who are against men. This is how men and women come together. Both genders help the other and speak up for each other.
@@correctthatfilthygrammar Yeah I am saying there are only two genders. Ants horses dogs every animal you could think of only contains 2 genders. This there is more genders. BS really needs to stop. I am for transgenders but not for the let's act like there's 20 or 30 genders.
She shouldnt help women bcs women are against men? And you talk about men and women should come together? The problem is you with you view over women. You watch too much youtube where 5% of women are some crazy feminists or gold digging bit*hes. Thats whats making your picture of women. Istead you should go outside and talk to one of those 95% of the other women.
I'm 25. 6'3. Been playing sports and been athletic my entire life. Never have women been interested in me and that's fine. We, as men, need to learn to be single, without using porn and insta models to fill that void. Better yourselves gentlemen. And whether you get a high value girl or not, who cares. Be better for God, for you, your friends, and your family. Stay strong and avoid that poison.
only tall guys say that and only rich guy say it’s not about money. Ultimately if you’re tall and wealthy you still have to make an efffort of course but you’re in the game. Guys who are neither are struggling just to get playing time. Also money never became an issue till I was about 32 years olds and up. Before then women didn’t talk much about it. Now it’s sometimes the first question I’m asked.
My advice to the woman speaking why not address the women who create this content. Or the women who date only small percentage of men based on looks income height across all dating apps?
Turning this around, I might as well conclude: The presence of YOUR life is to birth children 😅. You like it if I throw your traditional gender model right back at you? 😅. Probably not.
@@jasondeaver2117 It's destroying culture, not humans themselves. Even if the 1st world nations implode the 3rd world nations will pick up th pieces and be all the richer for it without our baggage.
Deleted instagram for this reason. I use very little social media, period. I have less people in my life than before, but the people around me are pretty high quality. Guys- listen to this woman!
Yep. I also deleted this crap and only made it again so my enoying friends can send me unfunny meme which i wont even watch. But they leave me alone with annoying me why i deleted this crap and they *really* wants to send me memes.
I had a negative experience of social media back when myspace was a thing, I consider that early experience a blessing. Because of it the insidiousness of social media was apparent to me long before anyone was talking about algorithms, I have never had (or even been on) Instagram, tick tock or most of these platforms. The problem is we live in a world where you need some of them in order to participate in a deeply flawed society. Most people have made the choice for everyone else, and they have made the objectively wrong choice.
Have you not seen her other videos? She is right on some and blatantly wrong on others. How about just think critically and take everything at a case by case scenario.
I know how you feel. It seems useless to even try anymore. They won't even hold basic conversations with me. Let alone go on dates. It's cause we don't look like Chris Hemsworth or own a yacht.
Totally agree. I deleted my social accounts, all of them (Insta, Snapchat, Facebook) and I felt better. I have to approach and talk to girl in real Life, because i have no other options. Plus, I stopped looking others life and focused more on mine.
Lol, the irony of a physically attractive girl talking about how social media manipulates men by showing them physically attractive women can't be ignored.
Since i started my MA, ny social media presence has decreased a lot. And i find myself after very few months of less social media persuing girls in real life and finding them extremly attractice rather than comparing them with fake ig models pictures. So this is my experience and my advise to you guys to spend less time on social media if you wanna find your soulmate
It's funny to see the same guys that would call you a dork and a virgin for having an email account 20yrs ago compulsively scrolling social media on their iPhone's all day long when they are supposed to be working.. ...and supposedly "happily married" with families, but you see them creeping other women's Facebook profiles or oogling booty models on Instagram.
I agree...I used to go into chat rooms and talk to people all over the world in the early 2000s. There was such a stigma to it. It was mostly nerds talking to other nerds. It was a fun place. I grew tired of it after a few years but that's when it became increasingly more mainstream and everyone from jocks to pedos to soccer moms were chatting online. The only things I have now are Facebook that I look at around once a month and a YT account. My husband goes a step further and has no social media apps. He charges his phone every 2 or 3 days since he isn't on it that often.
dude i literally pressed “do not recommend channel” TWICE and it still shows me her videos youtube is the opposite of the matrix which is literally the exact opposite of what you think it is
Women do not better themselves for anyone. It is always men that need to change who they are. Women think up their Pixar Prince and pick the guy who is closest to it. They love that part of you the way you are, and seek to conform what is left to fit their model. None of them though seek to change for anyone, they are perfect just the way they are, and not because that is how we view the ones we like already, but because we are expected to like them as they are, and they're not expected to return the favor. We don't have any Pixar Princesses neither ladies, nor do we try conforming those we like to fit our images of them. It's never about us and what we want, it's always about THEM and what THEY want.
@@NoMoreWhat-Ifs Not really, my brothers ex actually came out and said I guess my dad was wrong when he said I would grow up to be treated like a Disney Princess. I do not think any other example can be more relatable to what I typed. So okay Dr. Phil. No one but you claims I try at all to add. I do observe however.
@@torylivingston8368 So if she said things weren't as disney Mackey as her father told her they would be, doesn't that debunk the theory that girls are accepted as they are? Sure, on social media, you might see a lot of low quality people being told they're fine the way they are, but IRL, the best and most feminine women will improve herself for the best and most masculine man. I do agree that men have to improve themselves more, and they way we do so is harder
Well as long as there is a buyer vvomen are going to do it. Supply and Demand. The only way to stop it is to put constraints on female nature which western society is not prepared to do. If there is a demand, humans will fill it. In this case its men’s desire for vvomen that leads to this demand where vvomen profit. Men either need to stop their desire and lust for women and stop watching such visual content (probably not gonna happen) or vvomen with their independence need to stop producing it for attention and financial gain (also probably not gonna happen). We are probably gonna ride this crazy train all the way to the end. 🤡
@@BlackRoseThornEtna its true. Blame modern women's liberation. It seems when you give women this kind of liberation they all without fail decide to universally dress like sluts. Seems there was good wisdom in moral institutions like churches to enforce modesty in dress.
Well she's right. A good question is: where would we all be without social media? How would reality have differed if people unanimously ignored YT or FB when it first appeared?
bruh, she's just wearing a dress, sitting on a chair and talking like a normal human being. Her looks and outfit are totally socially acceptable. What's she's talking about are IG thirst trap accounts that show pics of women in seductive poses and showing off their bare a$$ wearing a micro g-string (or sometimes nothing at all but not explicitly showing g*ntials to not get banned). What those women post is basically soft core p0rn. Her appearance and the appearance of the women on those IG accounts are NOT AT ALL the same - you are not even comparing Apples and Oranges, you are comparing Apples to god damn Semi-Trucks or some sh*t
I'm getting real sick of women telling me what a "real" man is and what my purpose on this earth is (hint, hint.... it always has something to do with giving women free stuff).
As far as i'm concerned, a "real man" is a man that is so insecure in his masculinity that he let somebody else dictate how he lives his life to prove his masculinity.
Just like there are men telling women how to be women. Imagine getting annoyed by some random woman on an app. You bothered to watch the video and then bothered more to comment on how much you're bothered. Irony much?
Exactly sir. The simps don't understand this. She is just convincing men to use their energy on her. It is an ago old story of women convincing men that women are not parasites. Don't take advice from a fish on how to catch fish, ask a fisherman.
I wouldnt want a woman thats on social media, not for the long term anyways. It corrupts them. Im an older guy and Ive dated women in their early 20s to 50 since my divorce. And none of the women can seem to put their phones down. It would be funny if it wasnt so sad. The smart phone is one of the most damaging things ever to happen to the world, both socially and environmentally.
and how did it damage us exactly… cuz this just sounds a lot like the old guy yelling at the young people for doing young people things instead of the old people things they’re used to
@@L7Fx people don't trust anymore. So they lie. Even about stupid things. And any relationship built on lies, platonic, romantic, business or whatever will fail. Most of things people post on social media are a lie. And it corrupts everyone who buys into it. It doesn't matter if they are older or young. The older just remember how it was before. I can't blame the young for something they never experienced.
@@L7Fx it makes people numb to their experiences amd gives them thoughts and ideas justifying their behaviour which itself comes from you negating all that is not in your comfort zone
I deleted all my social media and dating apps ect. for well over two years now and honestly, I could never of imagined the transformation. I went from super high anxiety and low self esteem to being SO comfortable in my own skin and fully embracing my duty and soul's purpose as a man on this Earth ❤️🔥 Thanks for the clip,uch love!
She wants OTHER men to stop accepting OTHER women at face value. I'd bet that's not how HER men are supposed to relate to whatever it is that SHE is projecting as reality.
I’m 23 and porn has been a constant issue in my life, I want to feel intimate and desired and I only got a left hand to fill that void. It’s hard to quit a decade worth of addiction one day at a time, I’ve been trying to quit porn for years. I’ll go for a few weeks or a few months and jump right back into it. I genuinely don’t know how to unwire my brain from it but enlighten me because I’m tired of it
Listen to me when I say, it’s not worth it. It may feel good in the moment, but it’s not what you need. I respect you doing what you want in the privacy of your own home, but you can do better.
Simple question. If you could choose between rubing it out for the rest of your life, or having a girl who you love and who loves you, which one do you choose? Because right now you may think you are ok with jerking it.. but once you're 45, none of your friends have any time to hang out at all and you are alone, it will be pretty hard to start getting into finding that girl.
@@Peanutbutterboido better how by having the cops caught on this just for saying good morning how are you doing to try to start right up a conversation to being accused of SA just by walking by somebody by verbally being assaulted and physically assaulted by women for standing in line to pay for groceries how are we supposed to do better if we are always on the defensive and can't even approach women without having the cops called for sa or grape just buy approaching a woman
That's true, don't be driven by your urges, but instead seek virtue, purity and strength. Purity of your character will elevate you beyond the ones who follow their urges and behave like animals.
The same women that tell men to ignore face value are the ones that do it themselves smh , But I dig what she’s saying though IG models are getting way to much clout for having no talent or brain cells
Most are saying one thing but choosing another.Dont think they are any different than men.They want money ,they exploit men sexuality to gain things ..
@@relaxwithme__ yes it is. You're assuming I'm speaking about every single one which is impossible, therefore a silly assumption. Do you or do you not realise you are fairly unique if it's true you changed for the better for your child? Do you know how many women don't, or are you oblivious?
@@DirtyJamesUK then you should have said “some women” or “most women”. You made a blanket statement about women and I had to chime in and say that it’s simply not true. I’m not here to argue, just to shed light to the fact that there’s women who care about bettering themselves and take accountability for their actions. Please don’t lose faith. We exist…
She has actually really good advice and points in this video. I would add that for women it's doing the same thing or even worst(it feeds and inflates artificially their ego). Like you have a 4/10 getting the attention and expectations of a 9/10 because of this. But yeah I agree they're very toxic for both men and women. And fully agree that they should be a tool to connect and better yourself.
Bigger problem for women is the low self esteem you can get for watching a lot of social media. Same for men tho. Your constantly looking at some fake ass pictures and compare yourself to that. Until you get off from your phone and compare urself to real people and think, well where was my problem again?
What's worse is that there are people in the world who think there IS something wrong with finding people physically attractive. Also, the simps are making matters worse for guys.
@@moneymakinmitch8130 lmao why you acting like that makes me a simp and like you don’t do the same. When you pull up IG and a 4k booty pops up you’re telling me you don’t look?
Like that’s why I don’t take advice from women when it comes to male problems. Even other men is risky too. It’s better to ask a man who has overcome this problem.
You forgot to say the quiet part out loud. "Become the MEN that WOMEN need to better themselves" is missing the final piece, which is, "because women won't become better versions of themselves on their own."
Dating apps have ruined dating. People find a good match but keep on swipping just in case there is something "better"...when what they have is damn near perfect
I'm glad you mentioned that women need to better themselves for the self-improved man. I feel like no one ever says that women need to self-improve, like she's just perfect no matter what and any man is lucky to have her bs
