Soul Connection 35 - Extramarital Affair - What to do about it ? - Sr Shivani (English) 

You are perfectly 💯 right

You must be a higher soul,may be going towards twin flame journey dear,God bless

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Hindi me bataye

Hats off to u sister Shivani atleast one person should be there like u in a family

Let it be you

@@abhijeet2902 @

But wat abt being in love feeling that good comfort

Exactly

How true !!

Problem is not that the wife will get bored of the second one too everyone should learn to compromise and adjust a little. Today girls are like that only they find someone good today then tommorow get bored of him and same with second one too.

Exactly my thoughts!!

Absolutely. The answer is religion. Creating guilt and shame for just being human. It is all about social control over women.

In my own capacity as an ordinary person, I PROMOTES HER TO BE A TOP NOTCH OF THE PSYCHOLOGISTS IN THIS ENTIRE GLOBE. DEAR LADY, YOU ARE A STAR 🌟 AND SO DESERVES A TROPHY 🏆🥇🎀. Be blessed more and more in order to carry on with job you do.,🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

You should trust in yourself. Do not make others stories become yours

Excellent solution by this marvelous lady, still solution to such problems can't be generalised. Like neglect from of the couple, many other causative factors too play an important role. Example, sexual deficiency, abnormal lust feelings, neglect and easy going attitude etc. So, no doubt the advice is extremely great, still can not heal all the erring

Iam married for 35 years but it's not rosy my husband is not prepared to let go off me but he had an affair with a woman up until 2008 then she past on I caught him to many times but I forgave him for the sake off the kids they were small at that time

But then he started changing his pin on his phone then I got suspicious again an caught him again with msg s he changed his pin again an he denied it he said his friend used his phone but its a lie I know he's lying an he gets away an act normal again iam now married for 35 years need advice

@@daisymoodley8735 nothing can be done at this stage. If you are able to live alone kick him and file for divorce. Once a cheater always a cheater. They wont change. I left my hell called marriage after wasting my precious 25 yrs😡

Absolutely right💗💗

Yes not applicable for violence....this works in situation where emotional satisfaction is not there....then one is ready to mend....then we can try...

@@manjarishreep

@@manjarishree ll lo

I need help

@@manjarishree but how do someone mend emotional side ? I think it is impossible for someone to try to become like the lover to provide the same kind of emotions.

Yes, you are right, we have no option than to love everyone

For ur information she is married and has a daughter and in laws, she has left everyone and joined Brahma Kumari

@@francisdantis205 oh sorry I didn't knew . So currently she is not with her family ?? Or she is with family ??

@@YathieshHS to my knowledge she stays in Bramha Kumaris and not with her family

She is married and stays with her husband. She does not have any children. She keeps coming once in a while to BK centres whenever there are programmes. However she stays with her husband, who has been helpful to her in a incognito way.

@@shivapriyabk9053 well I am not aware , I saw a video on her long back on utube which stated her life history, she is an Engineer by profession an IIT and worked as a Proffessor, later on her parents married her and after some time of her marriage she decided to join BK and live a life of Celibacy.

What about pre marital affair which was carried on for 36 years even after marriage. Is my husband not cheating on me. I was a devoted wife all these years but he carried on with his own mami NINE years older an intense illegal relationship without sharing with any other person. Now that she has dumped him two years back ours life is in doldrums.

This isnt mental illness this is emotional illness. Your welcome

Aissa practically nahi hota hai

@@manojsharmapcsclasses4627 yes it happens practically too...

@@manishakumari-it2me how can you explain it happens agar Aissa hota to life ki bahut saari problem dur ho jata ex, ek parents Apne bigde Hui bachhe Ko kitna achhi achhi baton se samjhayenge hai Lekin us par koi asar nahi padta hai ek broken relationship ek partner dusre partner ke liye achhi achhi bate sochta hai but uska relationship theek ho pata hai aisse unlimited ex hai to fir aapka law kaha kaam karta hai

@@manojsharmapcsclasses4627 ye law tab kaam karta hai Jab aap thinking level pe pure devotion ke Saath aise thoughts logon ke liye sochte ho......outer level also when u talk with them but constantly on your subconscious level u send and wish positive things and love for them......if someone can do this ...then there is no relationship in this world which can't be healed.......but u have to believe in it or in other person entirely with pure heart .....

Meri marriage life problem ko ek guruji ne solve Kiya hai jinka contact number sabhi ke sath share kr rhi hu +91-8295510157 innhone sirf 2 hi din me mere husband ko wapis Meri Life me la diya mere husband ka kisike sath affair tha uske liye wo mujhe divorce dena chahte the Me bohat depression me thi tabhi Meri ek friend ne mujhe in guruji se contact krwaya or aaj me bohat khush hun ap bhi Meri tarah preshan na ho isliye aap bhi inse contact krna or apka Kam hone ke bad Dusron ki help bhi krna ,thank you so much guruji.. Hhjjk

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Physical illness and emotional illness... beautifully explained...

Accepting is good but the family will not see her in earlier look n in India its doesn't work I'm sure

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But,, it's wrong If she wasn't happy with him,,,then she should break the relationship first. Then go for other man. But relationship with other man while in relationship with husband. This shows what type of character she has.

Wait until more time. You will find out her real face..

@@NFS691 what happens to the guy who gave her happiness ... Dumped.

@@moneyst59 I can feel that pain bro. Just because someone can't give time in relationship,, that doesn't mean he/she doesn't love their partner but..the other ll start affair with someone. Because the entire world is selfish. Right people always tie their knot with wrong and characterless people. When u really love someone,,, automatically u ll never think about love from other person. U ll try to understand your partner's situation....try to relax him/her...try to work on the relationship,,try to remove the misunderstanding dart from his/her brain.

Good

Hi, Aruna can I connect with you please

@@vaniraj-sr9zs Yes

How can one gives positive thoughts to a relationship wen ur better half cheats u n in physical relation ship with number of girls before n after marriage N even now after hvng a kid he is not settling down but continuing the same old stories... After 9years of my marriage n with so much deciet n lies I can't give, am so stressed but can't give positive thoughts now Can anyone help me in this For my sanity

So, have you tried to implement these thinking habits into your life. Could you see any changes in the relationships afterwards?

Agree with you 99%

Wow

She is not here referring to the twin flames. Twin flames reunite for a higher purpose not just for fulfilling romantic desires. Also, reunion takes a lot of inner work. It's a different tangent altogether.

Do you still believe in twin flames?

Samne here brother om shanti

Same situation....and I will definitely try to be patient, forgiving and give my positive thoughts to the relationship.

@@arunarajeev2751 all the best dear. God bless you

Very true 👍👍👍 nice thought

nice .... u quoted sadhguru

@@kabyasrikundu8924 yes, you are absolutely right, I learned from Sadhguru, and found more appropriate here 🙏.

He does

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@@1958pra is it true?

I like Suresh Oberoi ji since my childhood.

Agreed

Completely prejudiced, once a cheater always a cheater is not true in all cases, cheating is a symptom it's not the disease. The disease is something else. There are many couples who understand this reconcile and have a happy life together. The other thing is, ours is a male chauvinistic society, if a male commits this, it's seen as a common waywardiness and the society tries to brush it away. If a woman commits such a mistake because she has been a disturbed soul, the society slut shames her. Ofcourse a male or a female will walk out of a happy marriage and do this, they are altogether a different class. But what if a wife was ignored, emotionally abused, then she did this! If both the partners have mutual respect and the person who committed the mistake is remorseful and ready to do anything to make things work, then they are going to make a beautiful chapter. Humans are so insignificant that even when someone truly apologises, our ego doesn't give way to forgive them. Their actions are lying in the past which the other partner cannot change no matter what. It's the present and future that matters. Remember, one can always wake up next day to be a better person, then whatever happened till yesterday will no longer be significant.

@@pranavom people say they are sorry, yet they repeat the same mistakes all the time. It’s not what they say, it’s what they do. I agree with your chauvinist society point, but it is in the rarest of cases where the man or woman is capable of performing true penance. 99% of the time, they are just looking for a free pass to cheat once again. The adrenaline and the excitement from the experience keeps gnawing in the inside of their minds and most of them succumb to it again and again until it becomes a habit. Change always comes from the inside, no amount of love and consolation from the partner’s end can change a cheater from the inside unless he/she himself/herself wants to. That is the bitter truth of today’s society

@@ananya.a04 I agree with your point also, often the person who cheats does it for the excitement of it. But one should forgive them. It is to be understanding forgiving and accepting them in life back is a different thing. You can forgive and move on, it's mainly for the benefit of the cheated spouse

@@pranavom well studies have found that cheaters are 350% more likely to cheat again. Yes once a cheater, always a cheater

Hi😊😅

Plz hindi me bhi je episode bnayie om shanti

to some extent*

I was having a conversation with my cheating boss (who has been married 41 years and who is currently still married). We were talking around the situation, when he said, "You have to find happiness wherever you can." I said, "Not at the expense of someone else's happiness." His wife, his adult daughter, her husband, family friends, coworkers, etc. I tried to continue to work there for another 3 years but her privileges started to affect my job, I quit. I'm not married to him. He didn't like my disapproval and I didn't like the effects on everyone else.

Do meditation and tell your wife to meditate. It will help you both.

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Yes or

I deeply respect u madam

Then the betrayel continues.

Yeah

What do you mean by acceptance here...? In what way sir ? I'm sorry I'm new to these things. Kindly explain ☺️🙏

Agree with you 99.99%

True, acceptance of the situation is the first step to healing, then seek professional help, that's the way to go about it. As guru says it's an emotional illness, it's a true illness, most don't understand that because it's not visible physically. Once couple decide to reconcile they have to be understanding of the situation and not runaway from it. Like I said before if a male commits this, it's seen as a common thing, but when a womam commits the society slut shames. But if one decided to break the relationship then it should be after healing, breaking it before will only leave with a lot of negative energy.

Hi😮😢

Thats why no point of getting married

CoachVal is the husband abusive? Impotent?

@@Saamla : Your answer is in Islam why is the women kept in burqa and not allowed to in touch with a man.