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Stephan Labossiere Talks Modern Dating 101, What Women Want In Men, Finding Your Purpose + More

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@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Watch pt. 2 Stephan Uncensored on Patreon here: www.patreon.com/theroommates

@omozeidehenre239 4 года назад

Could you do a show with Ester Perel? I think she would be excellent and you would vibe with her perspectives. She's really enlightening.

@MsClever26 4 года назад

That 32:00-37:00 minute mark should be a clip on Instagram. A guy walking in his purpose who can hold sensible conversations, reads, practices sex transmutation is GOLD 🖤

@francenealexandre7904 3 года назад

BEVIS & BUTHEAD👌I LOVE YOU DUDES ✊💯

@idawright-gasper4182 3 года назад

Connection, connection, connection . Stop chasing how she looks and the superficial. Yes, attraction is important but connection needs to be there. Love the discussion.

@latishatmiller 4 года назад

Moral of the Story: Heal, walk in purpose, become whole. Build YOU before you consider building with others. Work on your internal self.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Got to heal

@Michelle-qw4pl 4 года назад

100% agree. Love their content. Bottom line is women that are worth the pursuit are more interested in the foundational components of a man than the external fluff (car, type of job etc.).

@sunny2themoon 4 года назад

100% agree with your statement.

@noble604 4 года назад

Stephan is one of the few out here who speaks on having a strong character. This is highly commendable about him and speaks to his own strong character. Well done.

@Ummkelechi 4 года назад

Noble Yes you are right! Character is so important yet many lack that core component.

@Solgotmotion33 3 года назад

I was Abstinent for 6 years. In that time I attained my realtors license, personal Trainer/ Nutrition License, 2 Rental properties that I own and got my degrees and going back to get my PhD this year.

@dennisrobinson8008 3 года назад

Way to man up

@maxkaan5202 3 года назад

👊👊

@BiggieSmalls946 3 года назад

Ur my inspiration

@thorfinnoars1443 3 года назад

Good job man. Alot of red pilled men are actually red pilled boys. To be a red pilled man you have to see the truth and change to have the game play for you.

@joerozay3550 3 года назад

Inspired

@arseneremy 4 года назад

A king doesn't put a woman on a pedestal. He invites her to share the one he's on. ///

@thatonekid9754 4 года назад

Yes he does...if he really loves her He does.

@thatonekid9754 4 года назад

@Health-nerd_ROM definitely sounds like a 50/50...wheres your half of the rent type😂

@amandaslay6045 4 года назад

Bingo!

@ZenofhdTV 4 года назад

This is why y’all unhappy now, all this semantics

@The_Dark_Gentleman 4 года назад

Women don't build they move in

@pausemental 4 года назад

First time I finished a whole episode. When a real man speaks, women & men listen.

@haidenmorgan 4 года назад

For sure! I think we forget how many men NEVER had a man like this in their lives. Every man and woman needs men like this in their lives

@ExistNNature 4 года назад

Absolutely!

@user-wd4oo7zk4o 3 года назад

You don’t really mean it

@pausemental 3 года назад

@@user-wd4oo7zk4o y'all demons in quarantine just be popping up making no sense

@sophiepires792 3 года назад

@@pausemental Don't call people demons, what is wrong with you?

@ScaryToRemarry 4 года назад

I have 3 boys & I’m teaching them not to chase women, but purpose. When they find themselves, the woman will be there.

@ScaryToRemarry 3 года назад

V D congratulations 🎉

@shemarmcdonald 3 года назад

Wonderful bro your an excellent dad wish mine was around to teach me these stuff

@ScaryToRemarry 3 года назад

@@shemarmcdonald thank you sir!

@sophiepires792 3 года назад

Good. Teach them to respect women and not treat them as objects, too. Not enough fathers teach their sons how to be good, respectful and appreciative of women. Fathers don't pay attention to the ways they talk about and treat women around their sons. You can't treat their mother badly in front of them and think that they will grow up to have healthy relationships with women. And teach your kids about sex, talk about it in an open and healthy way so that sex doesn't become an unhealthy obsession.

@ScaryToRemarry 3 года назад

@@sophiepires792 I totally agree

@j-hizzy 4 года назад

As a 24y/o woman who is abstaining from sex/relationships, I really enjoyed this positive reinforcement. (Call me biased😅) I feel like in the black community we're making having children a bigger priority than having a fulfilling life and I'm over it. When I get married, I want to be able to have some personality and experience. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@anonymousjackson155 3 года назад

Exactly we not even taking care of the kids that are already here 🤷🏽

@playerhater948 3 года назад

Understandable. Most men don’t want to marry until the marriage laws are in Men’s favor or at least 50/50.

@maiv991 3 года назад

Stephan says “you don’t have to be an asshole to be masculine. You can be a good, kind-hearted, loving man and still be assertive, confident you ain’t gonna let nobody punk you. Combine the qualities of “good man and asshole“ together. “ Yes, yes! Stephan would be such a great guy to talk to on so many levels. Seriously, guys take notes!

@nanagyambibi7426 4 года назад

Yall wanna know what I really like about this show? Its not surface level, these guys are going to probe and always ask for details and examples. Also that it is open to everybody but clearly geared toward men. Everything on mainstream media is geared toward women(The view, the real, etc), there is no place for men to get information and see mens take on certain topics/issues going on in the world.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Preciate that brother.

@Fay1106 4 года назад

True they had that with the barbershop but haven't seen that show in a long time

@ShortDarknLovely 4 года назад

Another RU-vid channel found is: male vs man. The book of the same name is a good read too. I'm so happy to be able to see grown men's POV. And we women can use this same info in our lives too. The way I see it, this is preparing men for our daughters to marry. And we're preparing our daughters for the sons to marry. Healing the community.

@RoRo-gm7ee 4 года назад

Man vs Male is a good idea but every episode feels unfinished

@ShortDarknLovely 4 года назад

@@RoRo-gm7ee I agree. think that's why i listened to the audiobook.

@amandaslay6045 4 года назад

RED FLAGS when dating: Negative and bitter people, not healed from past, and not vulnerable. It's not worth your time people. Let those broken people HEAL before you date them.

@GorgonDrageil 4 года назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Absolutely

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Got to heal.

@kgabomolele3346 4 года назад

Girl you so right, was me once upon a time ,but I'm healed now lol

@Sharifabc 4 года назад

Amanda Slay facts

@justb.3623 3 года назад

Learned this the hard way; you can’t force someone to be true and vulnerable to you...they have things that they must work to get past

@MZBLACKNBLESSED 4 года назад

Thank you, thank you, thank you for really addressing the ability to have a conversation. It's so important 🙏🏾

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Glad, you enjoyed it.

@SheIsNaimah 3 года назад

YES.

@PressurePoiint 4 года назад

Lmao he never gets his last name right. I'm so proud of the growth of this channel/podcast! Keep up THE GREAT WORK!!

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

I'm trying lol :)

@victorylapp 4 года назад

In other words , music culture , social media, Instagram etc have manipulated people . And people are searching for what don’t exist . Turn those off and find yourself

@Ummkelechi 4 года назад

Truth!

@La-db8pm 4 года назад

This is the most clear-headed honest guest you've had on here. He did not fall for your traps and narratives about women. I love this. He is a straight shooter with great analytical skills. He is a straight shooter.

@sadelove840 4 года назад

Me a 14 year old girl watching this and seeing how this generation really is . I feel like girls/boys around my age feel like drinking, being sexually active, and smoking is having fun which most of them is ( BROKEN 🤦🏽‍♀️) and find many ways to escape it . But I feel like you can still have fun around this age and try to focus on your purpose so at the age of your 20s or 30s you wouldn’t have to worry about finding your purpose because you will already know it or be in it. I find it that most ppl have “fun” for the rest of there life then realize they waisted a lot of there time doing it .. AND I really don’t like how many adults try to hind the word “sex” from teenagers when really most of us already know about it bc of society and schools . Most teenagers that had kids at a young age didn’t really have adults to talk to them about it but there “FRIENDS” . And the ones that did probably wasn’t taught the right way. Most parents say uses protection but don’t tell them to protect there emotions, and the energy they carry. Most ppl feel like waiting till marriage is stupid but it actually teach you a lot of (SELF Control) but I know its not easy for everyone. Sometimes I feel like I’m not the average 14 year old because how smart I am 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️and I see a lot of childish adult and just smh but most of the time it’s not they fault . THIS MESSAGE IS NOT TO OFFEND ANYONE. 🙏🏿GOD BLESS

@rscystrunk 4 года назад

You're right, you're not the average 14 year old. You sound very wise.

@saptab1344 3 года назад

good for you. i'm a 17 yr old girl and don't fall for the drugs trap, don't even try them cause that's a dangerous path, you can see how lots of ppl our age just use it to look cool or use it as an excuse for everything. just try to study hard and watch vids on how to get into a decent college

@Jackbarrany 3 года назад

Ah kid (not being condescending when I say that), I feel for you. Sex is so complicated and no ones their to tell you anything other than “do it!” (Peers) and “don’t do it! and keep everything bottled up! (Adults). There are tons of childish adults and it can really hurt when you’re expected act like they’re a real authority and to treat them with respect, even though they fail so often in their role. Yes, you are wise for your age, but be careful, that can actually cause pain and issues as well as being a gift. I really really recommend you seek out a mentor you can genuinely respect, because everything will be geared towards other kids, and you’ll struggle with not resenting it. You’ll have to proactively seek one because the chances of one just appearing in your life that can actually relate and mentor you properly is very slim. I tell you this because you are promised people, will “educate” you competently if you just follow instructions. Forgive them for claiming this, but for your own long term good don’t expect them to keep their word, and find adults you respect to mentor you.

@salut4396 3 года назад

I am also a 14 year old girl and I’m educating myself now so I can be ready for the future

@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman 3 года назад

You are very smart and mature for your age… I pray that you continue to walk according to the wisdom God has given you. And that you always remember how beautiful and valuable you are. I wish I knew this when I was your age. You are blessed

@arseneremy 4 года назад

The problem with dating is we've lost the purpose of marriage and removed family from the process. Traditionally marriage is something that takes place between The fathers of two families. Its a structured growth of a family, community, and nation. The families are responsible to support marriages of their children and keep couples accountable. What you have now is random dating, random babies, abortions, divorce, diseases, and for some unfix-able mental trauma. and a community growing in chaos. Most high gave us laws of relationship and laws of marriage.

@nessaroberts2945 3 года назад

Thank you brother 🙏🏿

@modern_mind_coach 4 года назад

I love listening to men talking about healing and doing the internal work!!

@Lufefe 4 года назад

Firstly, I highly advise watching the entire conversation.That'll provide very useful context and allow you to understand the flow/link to all of the ideas being discussed. Thereafter, if you need these timestamps as a point of reference in the future, you can come back to these (as I also plan to do so). Important time stamps: - State of male-female relations in 2020 5:15 - Source of modern day bitterness 6:50 - Influence of friends 8:00 - How to know if you're healing 10:00 and 12:00 - What do women want in 2020? 14:45 - Are relationships more common in 2010 vs 2020? 16:25 - Social media and relationships 17:20 - The hype of social media and women not wanting relationships 18:45 - Effects of social media and projecting independence 20:00 - What kind of guy are women looking for 21:15 - More on what women want 24:05 and the disconnect 24:53 - The change in standards 26:10 - What to do about the increase in standards 29:02 - Having a good conversation 32:10 - FINDING PURPOSE 33:40 *(VERY IMPORTANT)* - No fap movement and delaying gratification with women 36:35 - How women can improve 39:15 - Quote 43:50 - Nice guys and spotting toxic women 44:15 - Women who don't do anything for you 49:00 - Knowing your worth 50:32 - How to know she cares about you 53:25 - How to know a guy cares for you 57:00 - A standard for being a high value man 1:02:00 - Spirituality 1:05:00 - Important character traits 1:06:45 Make good use of these timestamps

@charissango4805 4 года назад

Thank you!!

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

I'm not sure why I'm here 3 years later, but not all heroes wear capes. 👏🏿

@The3Kings 4 года назад

Roommates Podcast been killing it this past month. AMS, Kevin Samuels, Rebecca Lynn Pope, Candace Owens and Stephan again🔥🔥🔥

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Preciate it Kings.

@Shipwreck8l8 3 года назад

This guy is a prophet! When he mentioned that a woman wants a successful guy but stresses him out because he works and grinds to stay successful, that is me. Broke up with my ex cause she wasn’t happy I worked 10 hour days sat in commute traffic for over an hour each way. That’s my life I keep climbing and she’s unhappy. We can never win. Life is. It's a struggle and women just don’t get it.

@kokopuffs1986 4 года назад

Love this. Agree at some point about the relationship, I think most people prefer companionship -vs- relationship. He speaks the truth there is a huge misconception due to social media . He was dead on with what a women wants. Its very basic and has been that way from the beginning of time. We want masculine energy, honesty, and transparency. Once we feel comfortable, we can relax in our femininity and give you our love .

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Thanks for sharing Kathy.

@rmercedes971 4 года назад

Robert Drake As a woman you can’t be open and vulnerable with anyone you meet... The wrong man will destroy you if you let him in. I’m a firm proponent of women keeping their walls ALL THE WAY UP any time a man approaches her, because 99.9% of times they just want the 🐈.

@kokopuffs1986 4 года назад

@Robert Drake yes, unfortunately. I think it's funny how we use to be too emotional. Some men didn't like that either. Lol, ugh!!!!

@aishakirkland2198 4 года назад

This gentleman; your guest is brilliant! Smart but not arrogant. Wise, but not cocky... This was an excellent podcast!

@Mori_Shands 3 года назад

The IG Models gives us Good women a bad rap. Not all of us wants a man to fly us out or to have a 6 figure job 😖 Just consistency and a relationship with God 🤞🏾

@idawright-gasper4182 3 года назад

Absolutely! ♥️

@Msalike 4 года назад

This is so true. I use to be vulnerable but now it takes me time to let my guard down. Protecting my heart at all cost. I lost my daddy in May and will be starting therapy next month. I’m believing God to heal me from childhood trauma and relationship drama.

@LIVH_Olivia 3 года назад

I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏽

@MayorBrownn 2 года назад

I hope you’re doing okay!

@kingsmanattraction 4 года назад

Another great episode Roomates. Men, most women will always be more attracted to a man who unashamedly puts his life’s mission as a non-negotiable aspect of the relationship. If she does not support your mission, you must really ask yourself whether or not she is the woman for you. - Kingsman (from Kingsman Attraction Company)

@luxurybuzz3681 4 года назад

Kingsmen are fun movies

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it.

@DiutoAjoku 3 года назад

It’s the 1st day of 2021 and this is THE BEST, MOST INFORMATIVE video I’ve seen since 2020. Thanks a lot! You men are amazing!🙌🏾 Happy New Year!🎊

@bmar_music 3 года назад

Feel you on that 100% 🙏🏽

@coreen9191 3 года назад

Check out Stephan's interview with Lewis Howes on school of greatness. It's just as amazing and informative

@pammy_land 4 года назад

It’s important to take the time to understand the other sex. I have taken my time understanding men and it has been the most liberating experience for me as a woman. ❤️

@vianianow21 3 года назад

Soooo true! And yes, very liberating

@peterssister421 3 года назад

ABSOLUTELY

@beetle-juice 2 года назад

I randomly stumbled across this video. I never watch The Roommates before and only seen Stephan once but never watch him thoroughly. And I gotta say that I'm quite impressed with this man. My dad and brothers were in my life, but I never felt like I had a good male role model to look up to and to help guide me. I'm in my late 20s and now I'm wanting to learn how to better myself as a man. I don't party or hookup, I'm career-focus, love spending time with loved ones, and exploring my passions. But I feel like I'm still behind in becoming the man that I need to be. So thank you for having Stephan as a guest! I learned a lot!

@anthonyp4041 4 года назад

Hands down my favorite relationship coach to listen to. I can listen to this guy forever

@dqzj565 4 года назад

It would be great to find a man that watches these same podcasts to learn and improve themselves and their knowledge of relationships. We all need help and we all have room to improve. No one sat most of us down to teach us about all the many facets of love and relationships, so I'm thankful for shows like this, insightful.

@StephyWephie 3 года назад

I find it so beneficial to hear from the male perspective on things like this

@d.dragonfly1970 4 года назад

I appreciate the guests mature, balanced approach that he brings to this topic. He speaks to the issues of men and women most of the time or at least he doesnt always blame women for the imbalances in relationships. Thanks for mentioning that the issues with the highly desirable swaying the reality of the majority. There is too much energy spend on this subject pointing the finger. Some of these male driven programming focus on women instead of helping men, building men, or helping men examine their view of relationships. I get that men are experts on what men want but they should also be experts on how to encourage and elevate each other on how to be in healthy relationships. I get it...you have to play to the audience.

@Ohheyyall 4 года назад

Thank you Stephan for clearing up that it's not all women that are expecting luxury rather the high end women that many men are seeking after from the get go. As you stated we want financial stability but we're not all living through a social media lens.

@kutloanothebe 4 года назад

The insights of this Channel are astounding because now as a 17year old(turning 18)I put off relationships until I feel that I'm ready, right now I'm more focused on finding and working on my purpose, keep it up with the good content

@sophiepires792 3 года назад

Please focus on getting a good education!!! 👍😊

@jonathanedward5062 4 года назад

This guy talks so much wisdom, what a gift!

@91WriterzStatus 4 года назад

Combining good man (compassionate/caring) and being assertive (asshole/decisive) is definitely the right combination. I used to think why would you want an asshole but Stephan is right about that. You need that duality and I think that goes for everyone, but it really screams masculine on a man and makes him more desirable.

@CeeceeH1819 4 года назад

I agree with the duality part but I wouldn't quite term it as asshole, that's unattractive in a man and can turn me off him in a flash

@91WriterzStatus 4 года назад

@@CeeceeH1819 yeah, I prefer the term assertive. I only used asshole because that's the term used in the video.

@destineejones3055 4 года назад

Its a perfect balance! This combination is achieved through maturity and accepting you may need to grow on either side.

@td9997 4 года назад

I can’t express how much I appreciate content like this!! So tired of shallow/superficial content that only promotes toxicity... It’s about building not destroying!! Great work guys👌🏿

@ianochieng4541 4 года назад

We out here looking for a Queen but the question is, are you a King?

@AccentBwoy 4 года назад

Deep

@peterssister421 3 года назад

Welp

@Haulani808 3 года назад

Thank you!

@fishingdude8393 4 года назад

The issues that we are holding on to is exactly why we’re ending up in messed up relationships.

@kingsmanattraction 4 года назад

You are absolutely right. Without change, these regretful cycles can repeat themselves with uncompromising viciousness. Like it has been keenly stated by Henry David Thoreau: “We must be willing, at any moment, to give up who we are, so that we may be who we might become.” (worth reading slowly twice). - Kingsman (from Kingsman Attraction Company)

@Honeyluvssteph 4 года назад

Kingsman Attraction Company - KAC thank you for the quote

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

So so true Fishing Dude.

@tavogp 4 года назад

Exactly what i been doing taking a break from dating 2020 is the year of awakening

@victoriousayesha825 4 года назад

Some people get emotional due to the compassion that is felt. Sometimes when I reflect, I have such a gratefulness to know that God loved me so much to bring me through and gave healing. Yet many suffer and don't survive, or they have become bitter and hurt others.

@kitamariemartin2069 4 года назад

Yes. Childhood abuse-especially sexual. The reason why I'm going to school to become a counselor. No longer a victim. Survived and healing. Issues are very deeply rooted. Again; love and respect to this channel. ❤😌

@queenie1062 4 года назад

As a single woman and student I really enjoyed the Seinfield analogy. I finally have so much focus on my studies, not dismissing men just not chasing relationships. He will show up in God's timing💪🏾! I reaaaalllly wish I had this knowledge when I was 15. Beautiful message guys...thanksss so much!!!!

@stevec3526 2 года назад

God helps those who helps themselves…

@icleave 4 года назад

For those men who want to go deeper on topics touched in the video, I would recommend research on the following keywords: Adverse Childhood Experiences (for understanding and healing dysfunction especially if you've been in bad relationships), Ikigai (Japanese process for finding purpose), Dave Ramsey's 'Baby Steps' and 'Zero Dollar' budget (for sorting out your finances), Robert Kiyosaki's 'Rich Dad' books (for building wealth), Jon & Missy Butcher's 'Lifebook' (for getting clear on what you want from life, and how to live a balanced life), Alison Armstrong's work on relationship dynamics (to help you understand women), Owen Cook's 'Blueprint' (for game and how to be a natural), Vipassana silent meditation retreat (for learning meditation)

@diplomat2623 4 года назад

Love me some Dave Ramsey!!

@Criz45 4 года назад

Yo the stuff Stephan speaks on, its everything I tell my friends and come to the realization myself. Keep it up 👍🏾

@adamstikida 4 года назад

I can really see why you love, respect, and admire Stephan. This is the conversation our young brothers need 🙏🏽.

@WheresWes 4 года назад

Bro these episodes lately. Banger after banger

@SJtrey 4 года назад

"If she's negative, you will suffer as a man" in my head I said period, Stephan "Period" 🤣

@amandaslay6045 4 года назад

**If anyone is negative, the other person suffers.

@SJtrey 4 года назад

@@amandaslay6045 Thats a fact.

@TheRoommatesPodcast 4 года назад

Lol

@Tyrone-Ward 4 года назад

@@amandaslay6045 Period

@irsanonymous 4 года назад

It was the communication and purpose for me. I find myself disrespecting guys when they are not intelligent, can’t communicate in any way, and don’t have anything going for themselves.

@Logoligi309 4 года назад

Yes, it’s such a turnoff.

@infozone9601 4 года назад

You're probably not intelligent yourself though...

@DianaGarcia-lb9dl 4 года назад

Trust your intuition..women's intuition is amazing..if their character seems off initially run..then you will find yourself better and wont entertain them and be gone before that even happens.

@j-real7233 4 года назад

Why would any man let an insecure person that piles on makeup eye liner & weave & lipstick on their face.....along with waistline trainers & sloppy bodies etc....disrespect them?

@j-real7233 4 года назад

@hiroshima thompson ikr....these broads are a damn delusional joke.

@Onlythenarrowroad 3 года назад

Tip 101 for the Men...Conversation, engaging and being engaged, asking questions to and fro, answers with depth, wanting to know about her, is hugely attractive to women. All about the mind and heart.

@chrissyqueen8407 4 года назад

I love that everything was laid down for man and woman to be in a healthy relationship. 💜

@amarakristen7406 3 года назад

As a person i take time to heal and be mentally sound before i get involved in a relationship because I can’t get someone i love to suffer for my past. If i need to heal, i heal, unlearn negative stuffs and be whole for me to be able to accommodate this special person coming into my life.

@Chevonne8 4 года назад

Y’all brought this fine blessing back on the show!!! I love it!!! He has so much wisdom!!!

@Joshuarcade 3 года назад

My God, I was healed this whole time she left....now all's I need is training on how to not make the same mistake !!

@sharonjohns1686 4 года назад

Great show. This is the type of guests and quality, wise and godly content I knew room mates for not their recent detour dabling with anti marraige/ women hating content. Also very good to see Chris. God bless you guys

@wisdomcounselors 3 года назад

I have to agree about the disconnect between men and women....so on point!!!

@victoriouslivingwithmichele 4 года назад

In addition to what was said relating to what some women want, a man that is sensitive to a women's feelings; who realize compromise is necessary on both their parts. Both ppl must realize personal growth is essential for the growth & success of the relationship. Flexibility.

@christinamarvel9710 4 года назад

At the end, Stephen says that men have to be both nice and also stern. My problem has been in finding a lot of men who have been burned by mean women and when they meet me, treat me poorly (shame me and are very negative) because I'm so kind and generous with love. What seems like is happening is guys are nice to bitches, but cruel to kind women and when they can't find anyone to date them, they blame women. I've been in the dating scene for 3 years since I got divorced and it's been very frustrating with how negative men are and how much they don't respect me for being kind and feminine. Sadly, I had to leave all of them.

@n.amanfu9297 4 года назад

YESSS Stephen and the roommates together is an unbeatable trio

@reefmulkey982 4 года назад

Quality as always. The hosting has gotten WAY better too. Keep it going fellas. We need more brothas doing some good in this world ✊🏿

@GorgonDrageil 4 года назад

From a young age I've never had rebounds. It's kept me a lot more sane and saved me from a lot of bullshit for real. All of my relationships had meaning no matter how they ended. With or without a relationship, work on yourself.

@victoriousayesha825 4 года назад

Yyassss, Teach me something... Heart and Mind stimulation is a plus... And no sex clears a Greater inner path within... I Love Hearing Stephan speak from the Heart.... Ahhhhh!!!

@Melli510 3 года назад

I love your sessions with Stephan Labossiere you guys have so much fun together. You guys have great chemistry!.❤

@biggmonie 4 года назад

Thankyou! My friend won't give himself a makeover but wants a good woman..... I'm. Like dude! You gotta step it up! We are very visual too!!

@citysk 4 года назад

Some guys just don't get it.

@kgabomolele3346 4 года назад

Sexual sin is ruining peoples greatest potential

@amorerobinson4140 3 года назад

Soul ties, everywhere.

@MartialistKS 3 года назад

Absolutely. Not enough people talking about this.

@tyreerockets 3 года назад

DEEP

@rebalkhayyat953 3 года назад

Probably the best podcast I’ve ever listened to and I don’t even know this channel

@shelanel5348 4 года назад

I'm cool with a guy that makes less as long as he has a great work ethic and is smart with the money he makes, but I also prefer to live with with less. I don't want the 5 bedroom house, and the Mercedes Benz sporting a Gucci bag. A kind, hard working, spiritually minded man is far more important than expensive material things. Less stuff means having more time and money to do the things we love to do.

@CeeceeH1819 4 года назад

💯

@thatonekid9754 4 года назад

Keep that same energy when medical bills are due rent, time to senf kids off to college. When the car needs fixing etc...remember itll be hard fir him to help abd a struggle because he makes...less...now nothing wrong with not having a lavish life style but..you still want to make sure your comfortable as a woman

@shelanel5348 4 года назад

@Robert Drake thank you

@shelanel5348 4 года назад

@@thatonekid9754 I have some years of experience on me so i know what it takes to make it and yet my philosophy remains the same. I have chosen a life style that requires less material things and by having fewer and less expensive bills due to being low maintenance and cost effective. In my quest to be found by Mr. Right it is my desire to have a man that shares this aim with me so Saturdays, holidays, and weekend getaways van be spent having fun rather than toiling our life away. It's not hard if your willing to make the sacrifices to do it. No Mercedes necassary ;a good, honest, prayin man ,and a Toyota Corolla will do just fine.

@shelanel5348 4 года назад

@Health-nerd_ROM while I want and need financial stability I'm really far more interested in the quality of the man than I am loads of cash. What is 10, 20, 30 dallors more an hour compared to someone who I can talk to, pray with, have fun with, and share the same goals with. If having more cash means we can't shoot pool Friday night over a few beers cuz he's to tired from raking it in I'm just not interested.

@stuhector3511 4 года назад

Stephan really hits home for me, this type of philosophy for men’s living

@user-it8kw3wy2y 2 года назад

"We live in a world that tries to validate the negative states that we're in." Couldn't have said it better, so eye opening! Healing is the key 🔑

@Jbeloved3 2 года назад

I’m so glad Stephen spoke about men learning to have a conversation . It’s so so important rather there are women that want to admit that or not , I’ll definitely be one to say that’s HUGE because communication is key 🔑 and if you can’t hold a conversation how are you going to truly be able to communicate.

@vincenthiep-vo4818 4 года назад

I love love love this! Ever since the first clip that was shown to me with you guys and Stephan, I’ve always received enjoyment and the satisfaction that I needed through each and every podcast! The wisdom that you guys have and bring to the table to heal each and every one of us who WANT to be healed is truly a blessing. I, myself has been able to use your wise words of vulnerability to project that into a relationship that I got into this year and continue to make it flourish. Thank you for the creative and innovative talks in bringing light upon the tensions that we deal with on a day to day basis with our relationships in our lives!

@arianatweedie6336 4 года назад

"hold a damn conversation" yes! Communication and maybe then problems wouldn't be problems

@michelledenise4222 4 года назад

Really enjoyed & appreciated this interview with Stephan

@vianianow21 3 года назад

Healing is A LOTTTA work, but oh, so worth it🙏🏾

@emmanuelroach6380 4 года назад

Hey I really appreciate what y’all doing. Changed my whole perspective on a lot negative things in my life.

@AChicRevue 3 года назад

If this ain't the realest conversation on the internet, I don't know what is.. he was preaching today!!! Great job guys!!

@christinaward9562 3 года назад

Money, a plan, communication and a nice presentation. Thats right.

@sebastianmancha3873 3 года назад

This deserves wayyyy more views, Stephan does nothing but speak facts that all men need to hear

@odosaoghagbon2567 4 года назад

This Video is one of the best and most informative video have watched this year 👍thanks for sharing

@haselbasil2488 2 года назад

I like this guy, he is balanced and doesn't hate on women

@victoriousayesha825 4 года назад

Aaamen, on the broken people pouring negativity into others hurt. To justify the reason to reject the joy of healing... I truly Love Hear God's voice as Stephan Talks Wisdom of The Father...

@omg703 4 года назад

As a single woman, I can say that this 19:28 statement is the most accurate of ANY MAN I've heard. Happy he knows the truth through the appearance.

@myeattanosike4918 4 года назад

This was Excellent! He came with it! Thanks Roommates and Stephan!

@omozeidehenre239 4 года назад

Chris is still focused on the IG models and it’s shaping his opinion of all women.

@danielgregory5613 4 года назад

Yeah Chris was lowkey telling on himself. Men that don’t struggle with women know first hand that women overwhelmingly (IG model or not) want to be in a relationships.

@Saiyah347 4 года назад

I agree...IG models aren’t the only attractive women out there.

@nikewarrior24 4 года назад

@@Saiyah347 💯. Thank God for that lol.

@omozeidehenre239 4 года назад

@bigjayking24 Hafeez sounds like he may be getting better about this. Chris though... may need some time.

@omg703 4 года назад

EXACTLY! I think both of them are focused on the IG models. Once they shift their focus, they'll be able to gain better understanding. Until then....

@kehanaj411 4 года назад

Chris is not feeling them three months not even a little bit lol .. I do agree with Steph though, there is a period of time where you just need to step away. I haven't entertained anyone since before quarantine and I've learned so much about God, my experiences, and becoming a valuable woman. I couldn't have done this without taking time, alone, to figure myself out. Now I better understand me and where my power lies, so the world better watch out. Moral of the story, Chris needs some alone time lol

@HalfDeadHuman 4 года назад

I love that I came across this channel. Love what you guys are doing. Great topics, great guest, great questions. Thank you for doing what you do!

@emmydsg 4 года назад

A bossy woman is a woman who saw her mother taking care of the household entirely by herself without any help of a man.

@CeeceeH1819 4 года назад

Or she's a spoilt 'princess'

@lynetteclay 4 года назад

@cicichambers3887 3 года назад

What you call “bossy” is someone who is married to someone who doesn’t take initiative. Quit projecting. 😛

@Christo_Coop 3 года назад

Lol

@alohaitsleilani8207 4 года назад

Before I even get into this video I gotta say.... I LOVE the flex in the intro right after the ad for Skillshare! You dudes are coming up!

@SteelTimeify 4 года назад

Hold on right there brother. You know exactly that men are not the only ones who struggle with initiating a conversation or having topics to talk about. This goes both ways.

@SteelTimeify 4 года назад

@Robert Drake Not all, but plenty do. You can choose to play the game or not get involved. Take the red pill and you're set.

@SteelTimeify 4 года назад

@Robert Drake that's right king pick your crown up!

@diplomat2623 4 года назад

So true. I’m a woman and I agree. Too many air heads out there.

@kimallnaturelle 3 года назад

True. But as a woman dating now... the conversation I'm getting (despite my attempts to deepen/ livin it up) is so disappointing. It makes me no longer interested in the suitor. I CRAVE MASCULINITY & GOOD CONVERSATION.

@curiousme7353 11 месяцев назад

******32:15 Learning how to keep a conversation *****55:40 A relationship cannot succeed if the woman can't look up to a man & creating a positive track record of your accomplishments for her to respect 56:55 Qualities a man that good for a woman should have 1:01:45 What does stephan consider as a high value man 1:07:00 One of the traits of being a high value man is to make important decisions quickly

@ExistNNature 4 года назад

He said a mouth full. I agree with this message!!

@ayathandwavikwa6671 4 года назад

Mahn I'm glad I actually found you guys on RU-vid. I subscribed after the 1st video I watched. It's so nice to actually have people speak on such things. Not women but life. I'm all the way in South Africa but I feel like I can relate. I never really struggled with women but I feel soo much more equipped to make better decisions in life and when it comes to women. This channel has made more so much more aware of things we don't usually pay attention to that we should. No other channel has forced self introspection more than this one. I feel like I'm growing a lot as a person because of you guys. As an older brother I never really advised my younger brother on women because he also didn't have any problems with women. I feel like I should start talking to him about women and stuff (beyond datimg and sex). Keep up the good work guys✊🏾

@JrumBeats 4 года назад

This podcast is amazing! Thank you for all your time and effort gentlemen.

@alphawolfjack0599 2 года назад

21 and in my first year of college where I only wanted to start school again 3 years later to feel like I’m doing something or push myself to do better after being in a pit of non-productivity. Looking forward to return back into the work force and break out my laziness as a small step once more. Thank you again for the video!

@TheLilMagic_ 4 года назад

I dislike I'm such a giver, but I agree with Stephan a good convo, with masculine energy can go a long way, I have experience the men I would like to date don't like me as much. I'm not an IG model but I'm not insecure because I know I'm beautiful. I've been to counseling and heal but its a challenge to me to find a guy who likes me back. I'm 27 and never been on a proper date. I still have hope and believe there is still GREAT BLACK MEN out there who likes me back lol. Great Content.

@infozone9601 4 года назад

It's you. No way every man around you is passing off a quality woman. It means the men you think highly off don't do the same for you cause you're not as put together as you'd like to think

@lilrabbitcuz 4 года назад

InfoZone riiight lol. She has to be sleeping with every dude she comes across and toxic there is no way guys would pass on a good woman lmaoo

@TheLilMagic_ 4 года назад

@@infozone9601 First of all you don't know me and I'm very secure of what I bring to the table.

@TheLilMagic_ 4 года назад

@@lilrabbitcuz Soooo I have to be sleeping with men? lol What a joke you are lol. I have time today.

@lilrabbitcuz 4 года назад

Jalen Lawson men don’t pass up once in a lifetime women. And there it is fellas combative. You answer your own question lol. “I have time today” for what😂😂😂

@Alexander-vt3zh 4 года назад

Great interview guys! I love listening to Stephan’s perspective. Thank you.

@SHONSL 3 года назад

"brokeness is being passed on to generations after them" so true.

@happygitana 3 года назад

Thank you for saying Conversation! I am highly attracted to an interesting man, read more men! I've met some physically attractive, financially stable men but they're boring and I cannot bear long periods of time with them wompwomp. Anyone else completely drooling over Stephan?! Wow, tell me more about what a woman should do hahaha!!

@masewindo3902 3 года назад

"Women want masculine energy." - I read the same thing in "Moves: Dating is a Game" about the 3 rules to dating. 1st rule, "Masculinity always wins. " Best advice I ever heard.