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Stephan Labossiere Talks Love After Heartbreak, Why Men Become Savages, Superficial Standards + More 

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This week on Episode 100 of the podcast Hafeez and Chris are joined by the people’s champ and relationship expert Stephan Labossiere to discuss how to find love after heartbreak, why men become savages after being hurt, having superficial standards and realistic expectations, being angry at God, + More! If you like this episode with The Roommates and want to see more, be sure to subscribe to our podcast via any podcast streaming catalog to access our full catalog.
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@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you all for your support and checking out this episode! Be sure to check out our previous episodes via any podcast streaming services, soundcloud.com/theroommatespodcast.
@PurelyChas
@PurelyChas 5 лет назад
The Roommates Podcast Y’all should tour colleges and have open dialogue/panel discussions. I can help 🤗 #ProudSpelmanGraduate
@emmanmuruka
@emmanmuruka 5 лет назад
The Roommates Podcast he’s preachin preachin!💎 Get him a towel guys😅
@kayplantin2625
@kayplantin2625 5 лет назад
Will you guys ever invite Derrick Jaxn?
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
@@PurelyChas Send us an email
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
@@emmanmuruka Hahaha lol
@kj5205
@kj5205 5 лет назад
Love didnt hurt you, but a lack of love did. Powerful.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Amen!
@patrynaswritings7617
@patrynaswritings7617 5 лет назад
Yea lack if self love sometimes
@rsunrise7038
@rsunrise7038 5 лет назад
Yes that was Heavy
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 5 лет назад
That is deep. And true.
@Gigilovehugs
@Gigilovehugs 5 лет назад
So true
@ant5281
@ant5281 4 года назад
A relationship didn't do you wrong, a relationship with the wrong person did you wrong. That's what I need to remind myself of so I don't shut a blessing out
@Mimi-6798
@Mimi-6798 5 лет назад
Seek respect not ATTENTION it lasts Longer.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Respect is key
@k.denisejohnson7621
@k.denisejohnson7621 5 лет назад
I'd rather be respected than desired or lusted after. Respect is priceless and can't be manufactured by any means. With respect, trust and honesty will coexist ...how sexy is that?
@user-wr5he7df6z
@user-wr5he7df6z 4 года назад
@@k.denisejohnson7621 A seductress can be both respected and lusted after... which is a feminine power many women are able to harness.🌹
@k.denisejohnson7621
@k.denisejohnson7621 4 года назад
@@user-wr5he7df6z I love your response and wholeheartedly agree with you. I think we are in a time, where people have forgotten how valuable respect when used interchangeably will achieve.
@soystef
@soystef 4 года назад
Bravo - that is my new mantra 👏
@jaszzy26
@jaszzy26 5 лет назад
I wish more guys are self aware, conscious like these men
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
They will be. Starting a change!
@izu874
@izu874 5 лет назад
Lol... We're all listening in. Believe me, there are a lot of us on the wave.
@jaszzy26
@jaszzy26 5 лет назад
Glad to hear that, but idk how to find that
@izu874
@izu874 5 лет назад
Crowd and environment change helps. I used to be very fond of what I know, but I changed my crowd, space and conversation... Next, I found really great women that added value to me. I messed the last one up... But there are more out there.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад
@@izu874 💯💯💯💯
@msprayerwarrior6904
@msprayerwarrior6904 5 лет назад
Finally a man who believes in consistency .
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
We are out here.
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 5 лет назад
absolutely 💘
@Alpha_Negus
@Alpha_Negus 5 лет назад
Alot more than you think.
@GraitBritton
@GraitBritton 5 лет назад
Seems like you keeping the wrong men..a couple brothers in your comment section alone prove your hypothesis wrong
@submissiveproviderstboth9485
@submissiveproviderstboth9485 5 лет назад
@@GraitBritton that's an abusive talking point! put it down and never pick it back up❤
@RMlux88
@RMlux88 5 лет назад
Amazing.... This image of black men, uplifting, supporting, building, healing, challenging, self reflection and acutulization was simply amazing.. kudos to the host on this one. You came in pouring into the conversation and it became so fluid... So many seeds were planted in this video, and thank God you guys did this again.. P.S.If you all need a womans perspective left me know I'll come to the next taping! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙋🏽‍♀️
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks for the support :)
@riannaHermione
@riannaHermione 5 лет назад
If you read the video description, it says their names. Also, they say their names near the beginning of the show. :) @Searra Ann
@mrsbutterflyrainbows6654
@mrsbutterflyrainbows6654 4 года назад
Agreed.Bringing back the hope in mature masculinity.Very uplifting seeing guys talking with wisdom.Inspiring.
@elsiepeanutbutter
@elsiepeanutbutter 5 лет назад
A woman’s attention does not make you a man !!!!!!!!!!!!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Facts!
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
For some it does, attention possibly could be what brings business or income eventually.
@bvernon97
@bvernon97 4 года назад
For many people, including women, it does. Unfortunately.
@shorts26
@shorts26 4 года назад
@@bvernon97 100 percent facts
@carloferretti8956
@carloferretti8956 3 года назад
Coming from a women, 😆 stay in your lane
@loganwhite6173
@loganwhite6173 3 года назад
I'm going through a break up and fell in a mild depression and these videos are waking me up, I've been watching constantly the last 3 days. I appreciate y'all!
@tonileolion9702
@tonileolion9702 3 года назад
Hope ur doing well .. it’s crazy breakups can be harder than going to a funeral uggghhhh
@jasonjones4036
@jasonjones4036 2 года назад
Same. Your comment was 11 months ago. I hope it's going better
@MayorBrownn
@MayorBrownn 2 года назад
@@jasonjones4036 hope you doing well my man
@bananapee86
@bananapee86 2 года назад
@@tonileolion9702 dude knock it off
@tonileolion9702
@tonileolion9702 2 года назад
@@bananapee86 first off not a dude I’m a grown woman …. Secondly I say that as my own experience.. after having a parent passing away (mom) funerals r never the same for me , I rarely even cry at them anymore
@CanishaBoneHarris
@CanishaBoneHarris 5 лет назад
Just happy to see that men actually have these types of conversations and want love just as much as we do.
@izu874
@izu874 5 лет назад
This just made me adjust my 2019 goals to include healthy dates with no love intentions per se, but communication and learning. So many punchlines too.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
That's great.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
Hope you still sticking to your goals.
@djsvideodiarys
@djsvideodiarys 4 года назад
So how did 2019 go? Report back man.
@nweeezy
@nweeezy 4 года назад
that shit sounds foolish
@izu874
@izu874 4 года назад
@@honeys.9579 I am
@sonjadf47
@sonjadf47 4 года назад
He’s exactly right. If you spend most of your life jumping from one relationship to the next without purpose, by the time you’re in your 50’s and 60’s, your options are nonexistent and you go back to ex’s, if they are available, and you start the process all over again. You will never find love because deep down inside, relationships are just a matter of convenience and love has never been you’re objective and never will be. Yet, you break hearts over and over again while you’re on the your path of self-destruction. If you don’t desire love, stay out of exclusive or committed relationships, period. Until you can be HONEST with yourself and face your problems in a REAL way, you do not need to even date. It’s okay to play with toys. It’s not okay to play with other people’s hearts.
@essell5708
@essell5708 5 лет назад
Both men and women are experiencing that same "silent hurt" in different areas. We're way more similar than we think.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Very true.
@cierrab8408
@cierrab8408 5 лет назад
"the Bible even says 'trust no man'. People have higher expectations for people than God does." Well damn...
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Sad truth.
@doreenplischke7645
@doreenplischke7645 4 года назад
God knows his sheep.
@shandinalani32
@shandinalani32 3 года назад
It’s time to get back into the Word.
@bradwoods371
@bradwoods371 3 года назад
People ain't worth shit
@FarrahParis
@FarrahParis 3 года назад
That got me too!
@olgae9548
@olgae9548 5 лет назад
30:51 This just made me cry. Because it’s exactly what I’ve been trough since my sexual abuse a year ago. I used to be a size 2 and hit the gym 5 days a week; after the incident I gained 20 pounds. The reason for that was this one sentence that the rapist said: ‘Wow, I could feel every bone of your body.’ But me gaining weight didn’t decrease other men’s attention; it just made me depressed, anxious and suicidal. The fact that I still get immediate panic attack’s as soon as a male approaches me in public (I even feel ridiculously uncomfortable and anxious if men just use the treadmill next to me at the gym) made me realize something: Self-destruction won’t help, but professional help will. To every woman out there who had to deal with any form of abuse: you’re not alone. Opening up about it is scary but necessary in order to get the control about your life back. Please seek help ❤️
@ta-ku5914
@ta-ku5914 4 года назад
Olga E 💕
@lettieg95
@lettieg95 4 года назад
Please keep growing and healing Queen. You get your strength and power back 10fold.
@jasonkaramo5477
@jasonkaramo5477 3 года назад
I will pray for your continued healing sister. Glad that you were delivered with your life.
@nessava4965
@nessava4965 3 года назад
❤️
@NurseVeee
@NurseVeee 3 года назад
❤️ I am so sorry that happened to you
@onelife5302
@onelife5302 5 лет назад
We need more men support groups so we can grow together spiritually and emotionally. This podcast was a break through for me.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
All it takes is one. To feel understood or relatable is a great thing.
@yolyonyoutube5008
@yolyonyoutube5008 Год назад
Yeah maybe more people would meet their match if this happened.
@Lorenitacorazon
@Lorenitacorazon 4 года назад
I am just madly in love with this legitimate honest, down to earth, Godly, Intelligent, Handsome, mature gentleman. We need more men like you. With all the love, admiration and respect. God bless you!
@Halonablack
@Halonablack 5 лет назад
I appreciate men speaking truthfully about relationships. Our experiences have made it seem like women are the only one who experience hurt -- and it's not true. But perhaps there hasn't really been a safe space for men to be honest about their feelings. So thank you!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Glad to be able to help.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
☮️
@dlo615
@dlo615 3 года назад
Danny Owens fr? Would’ve never knew
@akelawood4329
@akelawood4329 5 лет назад
Let me make sure my wig is secure before I even play this video 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Hahaha
@akuasalaam490
@akuasalaam490 5 лет назад
OKAY!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад
Lol ditto
@tatyanamerezhko2507
@tatyanamerezhko2507 3 года назад
Hahahhahaha
@lteed.4036
@lteed.4036 5 лет назад
“for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭3:23‬ “Trust no man” I felt this in my spirit because as people we expect someone to never do something hurtful to us, but in all reality it’s going to happen because no one is perfect. Our expectations are higher then God’s.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Very true.
@renewedgyrl
@renewedgyrl 5 лет назад
This here preached!!!!
@ThePowerOfOneThePowerOfTwo
@ThePowerOfOneThePowerOfTwo 4 года назад
Facts... I not only that but the ones who expect everyone to be perfect be on some bs themselves and cant even see it
@royalt1113
@royalt1113 5 лет назад
You can’t expect to be repaired by a Mercedes Benz driving a Prius🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂😂 raise your qualifications!!! I got it bro🙌🏽
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Hahah you one of the few that got that joke lol
@appetite4chic878
@appetite4chic878 5 лет назад
Terri Williams lmao I caught what he was throwing 😂😂😂
@karmicperspective
@karmicperspective 5 лет назад
I love how respectable these two are. I love yall congrats keep doing yall thing #speakfacts
@velvetkakellc1693
@velvetkakellc1693 5 лет назад
Agreed
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you :)
@karmicperspective
@karmicperspective 5 лет назад
@@TheRoommatesPodcast nah thank you. Love hearing a guys perspective its always so interesting and enlightening 💜
@eunicegichuki8580
@eunicegichuki8580 5 лет назад
And they're always full of great energy too! I love that
@beneshap
@beneshap 5 лет назад
I don't know how I ended up here, but the Lord knew i needed this. All I can say is wow. Thank you guys so much for this, you don't know how much of an impact this just made on my life.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for the support. Be sure to subscribe and check out the other episodes!
@erikacervantes4489
@erikacervantes4489 2 года назад
I feel like God led me to see this. I now have a different mindset equipped for the next relationship. IF I ever get into another relationship, that is. And when he spoke about wallowing in our feelings/depression, man it hit me hard. Thank God for putting Stephan on this earth. I've never EVER been so amazed towards a relationship coach. I love how intellectual and honest he is.
@soystef
@soystef 5 лет назад
Stephan's back! Can't get enough of him. Can't say enough thanks...
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you!
@timeka30
@timeka30 5 лет назад
OMG!!!!! Thank you so much for this podcast!!!! I truly needed to hear this. I’m a forty-four year old woman who is struggling with finding my purpose in life. I am raising a young black man. This will truly help me help him. Thanks again. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@yoututtime
@yoututtime 5 лет назад
"i just want to be happy, be loved and accepted" i feel you chris!!! i want the same thing too
@doreenplischke7645
@doreenplischke7645 4 года назад
And all humans want that.
@Tazmanian_mma
@Tazmanian_mma 4 года назад
I feel Stephan is well needed at this time in life. Especially with the feminism, the war with men and women and Mgtow momevent, he showing that there is still love out there! God positions you at the perfect time🙏🏿
@delaw2xoxo269
@delaw2xoxo269 5 лет назад
STEPHEN LABOSSIRE WAS A BLESSING IVE NEVER HEARD OF HIM, NOR DO I KNOW HOW I ENDED UP WATCHING THIS SHOW BUT THIS WAS DIVINE
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Glad that you came to check it out.
@acholakuar438
@acholakuar438 5 лет назад
This man Stephan Speaks is the bomb! And he's fine and full of wisdom!! I can't stop listening to him. He speaks directly to men and women. God bless this man!!!
@kreeves7819
@kreeves7819 5 лет назад
Wisdom 💣💥🔥 At some point you have to see your part in your life script. You are the common denominator in every relationship you have so you can't be afraid to review yourself and edit and correct as necessary.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Big facts.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
The mirror is TOUGH! However life gets so much more fulfilling afterwards.
@margueriteraymo577
@margueriteraymo577 3 года назад
What a powerful message! I am a strange breed who will be the first to admit my faults in a failed relationship.
@lady.leo12
@lady.leo12 5 лет назад
Oh man oh man! It took me almost 4 hours to finish watching this! Kept stopping and rewatching some parts to let them soak in. I have a situation at work where my feelings got hurt. After watching the part about 90% good 10% bad and forgiving the person for the isolated incident totally shook me!! I can safely say I've forgiven the person and will walk into work on Monday with a smile and great attitude. 😁 So from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU! Also, thank you so much for all 3 of you being real and having fun on the show. It's so refreshing and nice to watch.😊 May God continue to bless all of you abundantly! Hugs!🤗
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for the love and support. Glad that it can help and speak into your life.
@ParadiseIsGleaming
@ParadiseIsGleaming 5 лет назад
Although this was shedding light on men, it also taught me some things about myself and how my way of thinking allowed me to get hurt.🌟
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Glad it can help!
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад
Me too 💯💯💯
@user-wr5he7df6z
@user-wr5he7df6z 4 года назад
Watch Sheraseven1 on RU-vid
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
@@user-wr5he7df6z she is alright. However she speaks from a marriage standpoint which I respect.
@Kennyarnold16
@Kennyarnold16 5 лет назад
I've never heard this brother Stephan before, but watching this, I share pretty much the same views as he. I don't fully trust anyone nor do I place expectations on people, because we are all one decision away from messing up. great wisdom from the brother!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
He is real great!
@k.denisejohnson7621
@k.denisejohnson7621 5 лет назад
I was just asking someone what's their expectations of me prior to accepting a dinner date. He asked me, "what are these expectations that you keep talking about?" I didn't feel comfortable accepting his offer unless we were on the same page. His initial invitation was to spend the entire weekend with him, I wasn't doing that. Communication must be fostered in the very beginning of the friendship/courtship/friendship.
@jeanineunscripted
@jeanineunscripted 5 лет назад
I just love hearing the male perspective about love and relationships! This podcast was so loaded with information and encouragement!! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! 🤗😍😘
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Glad that we can help :)
@cyndigooch1162
@cyndigooch1162 2 года назад
Jeanine Unscripted Podcast Me too!!! 😊
@ketwannawalker4106
@ketwannawalker4106 5 лет назад
Women making themselves less desirable because they don't want attention is true. I can contest to that. While going through my divorce, I shaved my head bald so men wouldn't find me attractive and I was broken/dealing with esteem issues. I didn't want anything to do with a man. To my surprise, I got more attention from men. They found me very beautiful. So that failed lol
@darbirhian
@darbirhian 5 лет назад
I hear you on every level. I have went through this more than once in my life; for me, it has been gaining weight so I am not looked at. I have went through a lot of emotional turmoil in my life and many times the attention made me uncomfortable. So gaining weight, dressing super casually, limited makeup or trying to look good really has been a layer of protection for me at times in my life. I have gotten more attention now in my 30s than I did in my 20s. Late bloomer. :)
@SmallBobby
@SmallBobby 5 лет назад
OMG! the same thing happened to me. Shaved head and weight gain (albeit, in the right places somehow), and somehow getting even more attention.
@k.denisejohnson7621
@k.denisejohnson7621 5 лет назад
I have to be honest and admit, I have done things or not addressed certain issues to not be attractive or desirable physically. This is a healing video to watch. Love this open dialogue.
@meahgenhall2611
@meahgenhall2611 5 лет назад
OMG! I literally just shaved my head last month! I thought that it was to disassociate myself from everything that identified me as me to him. Maybe it was I sign of something deeper. Thanks so much for sharing your perspective.
@knowthyself31
@knowthyself31 5 лет назад
Yes it's TRUE I did that too. 25 years ago☺
@ephodza
@ephodza 3 года назад
"The reality that we have to face as people is that everyone is gong to hurt us."
@tylynn256
@tylynn256 5 лет назад
I'm learning with my kids at work that their mental age and chronological age doesn't always match. Some adults are very immature. So I am practicing to look at adults this same way as well. I tend to look deeper when ppl aren't using "common" sense.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
True.
@BabeRuthuk
@BabeRuthuk 3 года назад
I have watched this video over 5 times and I kid you not every time I watch it I learn something new. Stephan has a gift, so much wisdom.
@blksoltheory
@blksoltheory 5 лет назад
Stephan again?! AWESOME!!!! #LoveWisdom
@Terry794
@Terry794 5 лет назад
Supernal Sacred Space this came right on time!! Def need this!!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
He is so great!
@tiyanextdoor5752
@tiyanextdoor5752 5 лет назад
I am on my journey toward self discovery and self transformation. The content on this podcast is exactly what I need right now. It's crazy how u guys cover questions and concerns I have. Keep up the good work.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much. Be sure to subscribe and check out the other episodes :)
@exoticlove-sherine1234
@exoticlove-sherine1234 5 лет назад
My thought process towards love and relationships is almost identical to Stephan's... He is extremely knowledgeable in this area and it's a great blessing. I always find the Male perspective on relationships more beneficial.
@voquoncarter924
@voquoncarter924 4 года назад
How?
@exoticlove-sherine1234
@exoticlove-sherine1234 4 года назад
@@voquoncarter924 it gives great insight on the male perspective of things. Men aren't always vocal so when they are it's very beneficial in my opinion.
@voquoncarter924
@voquoncarter924 4 года назад
@@exoticlove-sherine1234 no love that wasn't for you. That was for the guy saying that they were gay. I really like their content.
@exoticlove-sherine1234
@exoticlove-sherine1234 4 года назад
@@voquoncarter924 ok hun. Stephan is a real one. I reported that comment cause I hate negativity in a positive space. He seem like a hit dog! Smh
@bananapee86
@bananapee86 2 года назад
@@voquoncarter924 what do you mean how? You’re so dumb
@Godsimage23
@Godsimage23 5 лет назад
Love Stephan, so humble and intelligent!😍
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
He is so great!
@thegracetofollow4194
@thegracetofollow4194 5 лет назад
Yes
@latashar2252
@latashar2252 5 лет назад
“ Better will come but you gotta do the work” That’s a Word! Thank You 🙏🏾
@LinaDArtistry
@LinaDArtistry 5 лет назад
His books truly changed my whole out look on finding the one and recognizing true love
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
So thankful for that :)
@northpittman8076
@northpittman8076 5 лет назад
the man finds you. a woman should never chase love because it will never workout right. in most cases some type of heartache will happen
@fitforrunway4705
@fitforrunway4705 5 лет назад
Which book did you read ?
@ninjaprincesskristy
@ninjaprincesskristy 5 лет назад
Yessss!!! I love how you mentioned Esther Perel!!! She’s one of my favorites.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
She is so great.
@TashaLJ88
@TashaLJ88 5 лет назад
Wow! Being fresh out of almost a 7 yr relationship this speaks volume for me! Glad I clicked and listened, now time to heal and find myself.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Amen!
@Saneesha92
@Saneesha92 5 лет назад
Thanks guys!!! Definitely in my process of healing and I'm so grateful to see content as this being spread. You guys too can be healed ..start now and you wont have to start later. Go ahead and do that!!!!!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Amen. Thanks for that!
@njaugu6374
@njaugu6374 5 лет назад
🗣🗣🗣🗣TWO HOURS!! Great way to start Monday. 🗣🗣🗣🗣THANK YOU
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you for the message :)
@Autumnpilar
@Autumnpilar 5 лет назад
I love how Stephan incorporates the power of the subconscious mind into his coaching techniques and teaching. Great perspectives.
@desaraej
@desaraej 5 лет назад
Congrats on your 100th podcast Roommates. Thank you for continuing to teach us and sharing so many gems. I have to listen/watch/rewatch every episode. 😊😄 Stephan.... Buying your book for myself and ALL OF MY SINGLE FRIENDS...men and women...
@soystef
@soystef 5 лет назад
Great idea! Congrats, roommates!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for the support. Preciate it!
@revivalifestyle
@revivalifestyle 3 года назад
“What you want, isn’t always what you need.” oof
@dovetales3
@dovetales3 5 лет назад
We get the information we need, when we are ready to "Hear it" and "Receive it". We are never late, we are always on time. This made me laugh...made me gulp...and made me want to be better! Just Be Better!! Sending Love to All!!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks a ton!
@Adam326
@Adam326 4 года назад
Damn I feel a relief listening to you guys talk so openly. I’m one of those that suffer in silence because I don’t want to appear weak. Instead i just end up supressing stuff and it eats me up. This was a breath of fresh air
@aliyahcathey
@aliyahcathey 4 года назад
This video is so empowering. Ik men probably watch and don’t comment but I hope the comment section is not indicative of the main demographic of people who get to enjoy this video. Ladies send this to a man who needs healing 💕 the first person who comes to mind even if you feel they won’t watch. Step out on faith and do it because this stuff saves people.
@AngieeShipps
@AngieeShipps 5 лет назад
Time to begin inner healing!! What a God inspired podcast!!! I'm buying that book!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks Angelica :)
@therealher_
@therealher_ 5 лет назад
I totally agree with this topic of using the same measurement for yourself that you use for other people. ✅
@joycelynsmall9727
@joycelynsmall9727 5 лет назад
I just got out of a 30 year marriage and now I'm working on myself. Learning to love myself after a long abusive marriage is very hard because all the pain and hurt did not just stem from my marriage but my childhood as well.
@lakeshabambury5664
@lakeshabambury5664 5 лет назад
I now work on me to help my daughter get a head start on working in herself. I am dating now and the person I am date knows my goal is to be my best self. And they want to come on this ride with me. My goal is not to be rich, have a good man. My goal is to be my best. If I get rich and have a good man that is the benefit of me being my best self.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Great goal.
@soystef
@soystef 5 лет назад
ATTN People: Give your friends a gift & share this with all your (single) friends!! We all need this healing. We need to be building each other into men and women of character, integrity, and wholeness. I am 100% dedicated to healing myself for myself and (future) relationship, no matter the difficulties. Every word resonates so much within my soul. On point, thanks, roommates. You all are blessing us and delivering every podcast.
@practical.emotions
@practical.emotions 5 лет назад
Not every woman wants a man to make a bunch of money... I don’t care as long as they’re not coming with a bunch of walls up and inner self sabotaging beliefs. Money is just an expression of everything you currently have done and the beliefs you lived out to this point. It changes bc anyone can live out their best lives at any time they want to. I love what you said about what you bring to the table and how you show you up -and also a connection where 2 people keep being their best each other. Thank you for also saying healed and happy people are not going to play games or be hurtful. Hurt people hurt people-it’s just the frequency they are on.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for sharing.
@lochofmceo
@lochofmceo 5 лет назад
Idk any chick who don't want a man with money
@JasonSmith-zv1rg
@JasonSmith-zv1rg 5 лет назад
You must not be that pretty.
@cameronfoster1461
@cameronfoster1461 4 года назад
Full of bullshit
@justagalri
@justagalri 4 года назад
I think this frame of mentality is disillusioned. I’m sorry but as a modern woman in today’s society ( Los angeles dating) Financial stability is top 5 in the dating criteria. I don’t make a “bunch” of $ but i am in a position where I am blessed to pay for shelter for myself and my child, pay for essentials and small joys, and in LA that’s something hard to come by I know ppl who are still in their late 30s who share a family line with their parents and still live with their families with barely any savings in their accts. I’m not saying I’m better than them but when I got out on dates to try and find a partner, I want to know that the man I want to invest my time and efforts and emotional energy on CAN and if willing be a level that I can trust to support himself and if we grow together eventually can support our future family. Which in LA is pretty expensive not saying I won’t contribute to that lifestyle but I want to know that he is able to sustain a livable wage for his children/more children etc. So yes there is the factor of connecting and mutual values but that why it’s so hard to find someone with ALL these qualities. I don’t want to bash your comment I just don’t want young woman out there just thinking that they should find only a emotional connection with someone but bypass the $ part, bc there are LOTS of men out there who pretend to be there for you but then turn around and suck your pockets dry. And I want to warn woman who are lonely and are willing to give and give but then cry when those men take advantage of them financially and run off as soon as they get a chance. I’ve seen it done and i’m not the one. You gotta think about your children and your future children before your hearts needs. Sorry for the rant. Much love and Good luck all the singles out there! Date smarter not harder! 🤞💕💕
@summersday7894
@summersday7894 5 лет назад
Wow... I literally freaked and flipped out when My Long Distance BF of two years didn't call one night, though He continued to stay online and interact with others, and then I saw His green bubble go out with out saying "good night" and blew up on Him, dumped Him, blocked Him, and ranted on My own timeline about it. For a month afterward, I msgd Him frequently displaying a wide-range of emotions and showcasing a lvl of inconsistency and anger until He blocked Me. Like, I was feeling abandonment issues in which (even as unbalanced as I was) I instantly recognized were totally from childhood. Having to step back from the dating and relationships scene to deal with some baggage that I've been carrying around for three decades was initially a huge blow to My bruised and rejected ego BUT I now see HOW much I do need to take time to work on MySelf. Whew! My work has been cut out for Me. Emotionally I Am a 5 yr old. Temper tantrums included :( and that SUCKS to have to admit that but I had better get to work on fixing that. Being this emotionally immature is heartbreaking.
@classylady4606
@classylady4606 2 года назад
As a woman who was raised in the church, what was said about the church not offering much beyond "pray about it", is completely true.
@Claudy2000
@Claudy2000 5 лет назад
So for Real....raise your kids with character and see your vision from a young age and sure does make a difference in later life!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Big truths.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад
💯💯
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
That's the dream. Also with the best possible person. If not then co-parenting in peace with pure intentions.
@princesswilliams5403
@princesswilliams5403 5 лет назад
I have been so emotionally exhausted because I have been the person who didn't speak up about what I deserved even when I knew that I am worth more than an excuse. I feel is a real thing... I should SAY how an action or the lack of feeling make me feel. You guys have us woke and I can't get enough.... #SPEAKURTRUTH
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Glad that this episode can help :)
@princesswilliams5403
@princesswilliams5403 5 лет назад
@@TheRoommatesPodcast Thank you... Can I say that Guys, you are beautiful people.
@porsche_pesh
@porsche_pesh 3 года назад
Y'all laugh with all your hearts. It's beautiful to watch. I really love your podcasts. And Stephan whew, wise man🔥.
@DaughterofAKing2023
@DaughterofAKing2023 2 года назад
Simply Amazing! The fact that you guys can unapologeticly open up about true relationship issues is beautiful! I’m 46 years old and your podcast has helped me understand what I was going through a decade ago! Thank you 🙏🏾
@estherngongi3977
@estherngongi3977 5 лет назад
This is so deep on so many levels...this came at a time where am learning to love me and learning to forgive and flush out the negative. Got to realise we're all humans and we're all going through our own journey so love is gonna have to be the pillar to keep it moving. Stephan your mind is so beautiful i can't even explain...roommate guys keep it up and stay blessed y'all 😉😊
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much!!!
@alicea561
@alicea561 5 лет назад
Doing God's will that's what makes you a man or a woman >spiritually , mentally and physically. Attraction is what gets the person. Your character is what keeps the person. The body ages everyday but your character doesn't. If a person does not fear God you are wasting your time. (Read proverbs 31:30 )To have a wife who is attractive to look at is nice, but the very best you can do is to have a wife who fears God and keeps His commandments; and she will have all of these other things as an extra. True holiness and virtue command permanent respect and affection, far more than charm and beauty of face and form YOU ARE WHO YOU ATTRACT TO. BE HOLY SO YOU CAN ATTRACT HOLLY. 1 PETER 1:16 FOR IT IS WRITTEN: "BE HOLY, BECAUSE I AM HOLY."
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Good point. We all need to improve ourselves.
@FATHERsfulfillment
@FATHERsfulfillment 5 лет назад
There were several things that helped me to enjoy the previous episode with Stephan. Number one was the impact that his insights were making on the two of you. Seeing your responses implies that people are unaware and maybe even oblivious to spiritual, physical, emotional, etc. affects of the things Stephan spoke about. Also I feel that the depth of inquisitive questions proposed by the roommates, greatly encouraged a transparent conversation. Again it was very well accepted by men and women because there was no attack on either sex, but just pure, passionate, sincere wisdom shared by a man who is obviously gifted with the understanding of purpose, self control and true love. Finally, it is impressive to see how Stephan's maturity and wisdom is having an effect on the roommates. Personally, I can recieve the message presented by Stephan because of his confident nature. His posture, tone, and autonomous powerful message. Thank you for the guidance, leadership and encouraging expertise! Your sharing prompted me caring, and I shared that video with all of my friends and loved ones. I'm looking for to reading all of your books Mr. Labossiere. I have subscribed to the podcast and IG accounts of the three of you. Keep up the positive image 🙏🏽Namasté
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for the support!
@justinb3846
@justinb3846 4 года назад
Real intresting podcast! Instead of that stupid and negative red pill bs, you bring maturity and uplifting on a positive and powerful way! We need more of this! Im tired of these channels that learn to manipulate, degrade and disrespect woman. And I say that as a men. Keep up with the good work guys!
@sharlenebrown4129
@sharlenebrown4129 5 лет назад
I can tell that Chris got something out of this and I'm happy that you asked the appropriate questions and you were vulnerable because it helped me. Thank you! I pray that you heal the issues of the past, you are a handsome man and you will be blessed with the right woman 🤗🙏🏽
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Blessings! Thanks so much!
@lovelyny3332
@lovelyny3332 5 лет назад
I just saw Stephan at the I love me summit and he is just AMAZING!!! He dropped so many nuggets. I'm on a journey of healing and self love and Stephan said a lot of things on here that helped me put things in a different perspective. Hurt is inevitable, don't have expectations, do unto others what u want done to u. I mean sooo much stuff! Absolutely love this, God bless u Stephan and roommates.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much be sure to stay connected for the other episodes.
@Virtygo22
@Virtygo22 5 лет назад
When Stephan said that some women are raise their sons to go to another woman thats just like their mother but they can have sex with!! My heart stopped!!! I always say this, nothing but the truth!!!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Crazy truth.
@SAkween
@SAkween 4 года назад
Thank you gentlemen! It’s always so encouraging to see men having these conversations. But especially men who are growing and learning. God bless you all. Let’s become the men and women God created us to be.. one step, one choice, one voice at a time.
@lovemeorleavemealone8764
@lovemeorleavemealone8764 5 лет назад
You can’t receive what you can’t believe. Preach!
@VirgoDluxe
@VirgoDluxe 5 лет назад
Great job on this video guys. The transparency from you both was refreshing to watch. Chris, I know you're going through a storm right now but you'll be just fine. Keep your head up. Always a pleasure to see Mr. LAbossiere :-) Spitting gems as always. I will definitely watch this at least 2 more times as I'm sure I will continue to take something new away each time. I love when you spoke on coming to the "table" prepared to meet what you are asking for. Don't be asking for a steak when you're only serving McDonald's. Also, I agree with the double standards that exist for men, however it does go both ways. Any chance I get I tell people to focus on being their best versions of themselves. It's the most rewarding experiences you will ever have in life. Becoming my "best self" has uncovered blessings beyond anything I could have imagined for myself. It's extremely freeing to be apologetically you. Congrats on #100. Looking forward to more great work from you both! Much love from Toronto, Ontario (Canada)
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Blessings to you in Toronto. Thanks so much :)
@victoriousayesha825
@victoriousayesha825 4 года назад
And when I have attempted to address issues with my folks, they denied their dysfunction and blamed me. Shoot, I was s child. So because they refuse to face their trauma to me, I had to learn to forgive and heal with no accountability from them. I’m so soooo Thankful for God. For He truly has been a Father to this Motherless and Fatherless child. And has enabled me to mother my children from a blank page. And my children are amazing and though I don’t remember a large part of raising them, they are phenomenal. Dag, this is Yyyaaasssss....
@dallin8170
@dallin8170 3 года назад
Perspective is one of the best things to have! I recently made a mistake with my girlfriend, we are now taking a break longer than I ever expected, I now know that this time apart is a healthy healing process and whatever happens happens. Man did I learn a lot from this woman and have only her to thank! God bless everyone out there struggling, it is not easy but it is necessary!
@estsofiercenapplebee2925
@estsofiercenapplebee2925 5 лет назад
This is another amazing podcast! Stephan dropped so many 💎! I love y’all
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you for your kindness :)
@t.tenille4194
@t.tenille4194 5 лет назад
I stumbled across this podcast as I was looking for other videos. This truly blessed me! I also said "ouch" a few times! Thank you for these pearls of wisdom! God bless!
@JojosGems
@JojosGems 5 лет назад
Ayeeeee Chris is back! We missed you man. You are cared about and valued! Don’t stop, y’all are doing a GREAT job. I learn so much from you guys every podcast. Thank you!
@JojosGems
@JojosGems 5 лет назад
Btw y’all should just sell the t-shirts because I’m HERE for it.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
No, thank you for the support :)
@chevysmooth4523
@chevysmooth4523 5 лет назад
Very intelligent brothas !!! This was a dope video but I’d rather focus on my career get my finances and go from there
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
There is nothing wrong with that. Thanks for the support!
@chevysmooth4523
@chevysmooth4523 5 лет назад
The Roommates Podcast keep doing what y’all doin this is what The Gentlemen need to hear ❗️❗️❗️
@Usualspec13
@Usualspec13 5 лет назад
Congratulations on your 100th episode and thank you for standing for the sharing of healthier conversations. You guys are embracing healing from young, it gives me hope for the youngins coming up. Much love and respect to three great men. Some amazing points that make for harmonious dialogue without the finger pointing. You have always led the way and I am supportive of your journey as I walk my own. Three great men 💚💚💚
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thank you so much. We are working real hard to get better.
@Usualspec13
@Usualspec13 5 лет назад
@@TheRoommatesPodcast you're welcome, we don't know each other but I'm really proud of you guys. Lots of love from London 😘
@bananapee86
@bananapee86 2 года назад
@@Usualspec13 pee
@kokobland5087
@kokobland5087 5 лет назад
podcast is so good, so refreshing.. I'm at work rewinding this episode over and over again. I'm a forklift operator so imagine what my driving is looking like right now lol anywho. Congratulations on your 100 episode I definitely want a book so pick me!
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks! Make sure you stay connected and we got you.
@kokobland5087
@kokobland5087 5 лет назад
@@TheRoommatesPodcast YW.. I will
@izu874
@izu874 5 лет назад
Ayyyeeeee!! I love those machines.
@kokobland5087
@kokobland5087 5 лет назад
@@izu874 Ayyyyeee
@elizabethcalero2404
@elizabethcalero2404 2 года назад
It's incredible how much Hafeez has matured. Not sure how old is this video but we can see the difference compared to videos of today. Great job ! 👏👏👏👏👏
@ruthreddick8369
@ruthreddick8369 5 лет назад
Stephan is so the male version of me!!! It's so refreshing to hear someone think and understand life, people, yourself.... Without judging! Great advice and honesty
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
He is real great.
@bdmatchmakinginternational4437
God bless you guys and Stephan is amazing. You all are amazing. Whatever you are going through Mr Below,You will overcome it through God’s grace.And you have an amazing friend always reaffirming the gem within you so that you don’t loose sight. There are truly good men. God bless you.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Amen, thanks so much !
@mochawriterandy
@mochawriterandy 5 лет назад
Congratulations on your 100th podcast 🥂
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Preciate you :)
@ENZAnKAYLIN
@ENZAnKAYLIN 3 года назад
WOW!!! I told my husband over and over that he is the only man I’ve EVER had these kinds of issues with and I NEVER considered the verbally abusive relationship with my mother was the underlying condition behind my angry outburst. Can you say MIND BLOWN!!!! Thanks for these podcasts. I learn so much about myself in a place I didn’t even think I had an issue with at all. Sending much love and positive energy for all that you do to help others look introspectively.
@trafficcontrol2420
@trafficcontrol2420 4 года назад
I've rewatched the episodes with Stephan over and over and over and over. It's not relationship advice, it's LIFE advice.
@Uncle_Sammo
@Uncle_Sammo 5 лет назад
Congrats on 💯💯 BUT 2 Hours? With Stephan!? I'm not ready..
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Neither where we lol
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 5 лет назад
Lol. I felt thesame way..I saved the episode I must have listened 5 times by now. Great stuff. Been following him for years, have his books and he always delivers.
@honeys.9579
@honeys.9579 4 года назад
@@nikkyshamz2696 nice, what have you learned? Just curious.
@joyceray7978
@joyceray7978 5 лет назад
I truly enjoyed this conversation. It helps to know there are still MAN out there as I have thought and believed there are. I know everyone is not my grandfather, but I know I teach my grandson things I like as a WOMAN so that know what you said about raising them to know better.
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks for sharing.
@kimberlysmithcarlson1777
@kimberlysmithcarlson1777 4 года назад
Best part of this video is seeing men tell other men that they are loved!!! So beautiful
@sweetx0vmp
@sweetx0vmp 5 лет назад
I love his perspective and the fact that he‘s so real and direct. Thank you guys too, for making this oriented around men and women - there’s plenty of content out there aimed toward women, but a male’s perspective and introspective is great to hear
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Thanks so much for your support :)
@AshleyNisbyLMT
@AshleyNisbyLMT 29 дней назад
This was 5yrs ago and still is so very relevant and on point. Literally have been self talking amd speaking with my young queens and king about these very topics and life moves. Always mentioning "Love After Heartbreak" to others of all ages , TY @StephanSpeaks and @TheRoomatesPodcast for taking the time to sow seeds.🙏🏽😇🙌🏾
@MsDelicious001
@MsDelicious001 5 лет назад
This was for me and I thank God for this podcast having him again to share with the world. #Healing
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
So glad that we can help :)
@sharlenebrown4129
@sharlenebrown4129 5 лет назад
This is a phenomenal podcast! The questions, the topics, everything was so on point. It has blessed me tremendously just listening. I am buying the book for sure because I agree that hearing it and applying it is essential. I am so grateful for this platform...I love Stephan and his wisdom 💯💯🤩🤩
@TheRoommatesPodcast
@TheRoommatesPodcast 5 лет назад
Stephan is so great!
@beatricemaviti3411
@beatricemaviti3411 3 года назад
I am awfully amazed to watch men being absolutely transparent and willing to interrogate heavy relationship issues that a lot of people dance around online. Looks like there is no topic off-limits here. Growth. Growth and pure inspiration, wisdom and intelligence coming out of Coach Stephan. Am all ears. Roommates ✅✅✅✅👏
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