Stop apologising for being *beautiful* | my honest advice for women | confidence | authentic self ✨ 

I often feel bad for dressing up, so I make myself look small through slouching, or not looking people in the eye so I don't "intimidate" them, so I really am thankful for what you shared in this video.

Yes I hate how men profit off of making us feel insecure 😢😢😢 ladies you’re a whole unique person despite whatever you look like ❤❤❤

Seing such beautiful woman like you speaking about insecurities make me feel so safe and give me a sense of belonging, thank you so much❤❤

I totally came to the same conclusion. You cant dress according to your personality. There are so many "contradictions" in people that arent really ones.

You are such a beautiful, kind well-intentioned soul. You are so much more than just your body 💕

you are such an eloquent intelligent speaker, the passion pours right out of you! ⭐️ that gleam in your eyes is truly beautiful, thank you for yet another amazing video packed with wisdom

I can see how this video can be misinterpreted but it is helpful. Thanks for sharing this and being vulnerable.

I just want to say that when I see your beauty and your grace, it makes me happy. like seeing a beautiful flower or wearing a great quality fabric. it's just a lovely feeling for the senses. wear it with pride

Lol people try so hard to convince me that I’m ugly that I have zero shame in doing anything or the luxuries that I have.

Helpful and interesting. I like how you express your emotions.

PREACH! 😍🥰👏Another amazing, wise and empowering video Lessie, thank you so much ♥

I’m a subscriber and have been loving every message in all of your videos that I’ve watched, but this message is so important and I am very grateful for you for sharing your thoughts here. I think part of the reason why this is such a strong message is, the fact that everyone has their own experiences which influences their perception of it, and in the end it’s all about a very similar thing.. it connects us with others.

Thank you for spreading such a powerful and important message ❤️

this video is so important for me today everytime judging myself for how I look. I really needed to hear this! thank you, Alessia!

Thx for this video ❤ Furthermore, what a beautiful room!

I thought it was amazing on being beautiful you are a good person

Thank you❤

just discovered your channel. thank you ❤

ugh so good 🥺🥺🥺❤️

This was amazing ❤️

Happy Pride Month🎉😊❤

Only watched a few minutes of your video, and I wanted to quickly share my own thoughts (which have been troubling me lately). I have always been very introverted and shy and now I am in my early twenties and still find it incredibly hard to connect to people my age. The adults in my life tried to comfort me by saying "they`re just jealous" but for some reason that did never make sense to me. Now I am studying acting and I happen to be very good at it. A lot of times I feel the pressure not to make the other girls in my class feel bad because I am the designated "pretty girl" of the acting department. We are only a very few people in our semester so you always see the same people. I tried to make friends with them and pretend that we are on the same "league" but they won`t let me. They say passive aggressive comments OR talk badly about themselves so that I have to comfort them. But I feel as I always did, disconnected and strange. I hate show offs and I would hate to be perceived as one but I simply cannot make myself small for other people`s convenience, especially not when they have proven themselves to be very fake. Sometimes I think about losing this position of power, if for example a prettier girl started to study in our school. I have mixed feelings about it, because that would maybe let me breathe a little bit and take the pressure off, but I cannot give up this role, when it is the one I played for years and years. Contemplating on this now and Ill watch your video, very interested on your take 🌸🌸🌸

pls continue making videos becos honestly idk why i just found you right now 🥺 wish ive known you sooner coz i resonate soooo much with your content

Yes I feel like I should shrink myself bcos I shine too much. I have had nothing but jealousy all my life and lost jobs because of it. I have a right to be me but other women don’t like it.

I feel seen

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Bye the way not all women feel ugly as they get older. I’m still beautiful and other women have told me this. Yes I have cellulite but I could eat better and exercise. I have a rebounder so using that. I have good skin… these expensive creams are a con.

Oh god bim Bo is the worst word ever

It truly isn't that deep. Are women really so focused on this? This whole topic is so juvenile. I think about what I look like maybe a few times a year. I'm not a teenager anymore. I can't believe people fixate on such trivial things. Don't you people have lives?