STOP being GOOD to BAD guys! 

"You're value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." Thanks for that!

“ letting a man cheat on you is degrading “ that part 👌🏿

Having standards=being single, and STILL worth it, believe me. I don't think it's my job to "teach" or "train" a man for anything.

“Go into a relationship with no expectation that that person will change” thanks for this!

IT's so sad that we're raised to just give and give no matter how horribly we're treated, and we're trained to believe that if you're "nice" enough to a man he'll eventually come around it will somehow payoff, when it does the opposite.

"You can't change a man or teach him to want better!"

My father and my older brother both watched this with me and said she was able to put into words exactly why they themselves have mistreated women in the past. That's not to say that they are excused from their behavior. It just means they are not always good men and even they can recognize that what she's saying is good advice. Bad men prey on vulnerable women. Love yourself and protect yourself from the superficial fear of being alone if you must, because being "single forever" is not a downgrade from being abused forever.

Dating = data collection 🤣🤣 !! A guy wants who he wants. We can’t change that! We should know our worth and walk the other way 🙅🏾‍♀️

They say when you become infatuated with someone, your frontal lobe literally stops working lol. That is vital to our red flag reader and why we go blind when someone we like is showing us who they truly are.

When I met my ex boyfriend I had such a low self esteem. He showed me my worth, my soul, and I praised him so much for it. I acted like he gave me my worth when really all he did was point towards what was already there. When I saw how overwhelming gorgeous and magnificent I was on the inside I wanted to do anything for him because I was so grateful. That still kept me in a place of not seeing how my worth was mine, he didn’t give it to me.

"""Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth"""#mood forever.

Put God first!When you love yourself and treat yourself good first the rest will follow.Self respect is a must.

THE "MENTALITY" OF A PERSON SAYS A LOT ABOUT THEIR "CHOOSING".

ohhhh my god " You're not a victim when you volunteer" Boy did this hit hard.

Dating is for DATA COLLECTION!! Cheeee don’t talk to me no more ... I’m literate now

" Your value doesn't decrease on someone's inability to see your worth." 💓

Breeny you look so good. The darker blond really suits you and love love love your makeup!x

Louder 👌🏾👌🏾

I avoided clicking on this because I knew you would wake me up and get me all the way together. Welp! Here I am - taking notes!

True words. As women we get our validation from being the "perfect" woman for a man. But I seen alot of women who treat a man like he's nothing get the best treatment. Such a weird world

Exactly dating is data collection, you have to weed them out. I tried to tell my friend to date and judge. Don't sleep with them. She doesn't listen to me and now she always complains about heartache and wastes her time being jealous of others in relationships. Women can be stubborn and don't want to accept the truth, please don't be like this! Wisdom is necessary and advice that makes sense can help you grow. Thanks for this video.

Just make the RIGHT decisions. Not what you feel is right, but what IS right.

Women you are responsible for what you are attracted to !! 💯 I miss these videos sis 😩🙌🏾

The hard part is they treat you well until they think they got you and then they switch up. I’m tired of guys wasting my time and changing once your guard is down.

As a guy I've just stumble on to your channel and have already watched a few videos.I dont know if you'll even see this but I just want to show my appreciation for sharing your videos and trying to help people out. I'm just realising there are so many things that I wasn't told by my parents, siblings or friends.

Ladies put your pants on & KNOW YOUR WORTH 💪🏽 - Issa word

Most women go after all of their wants , and none of their needs

Out here saving lives. We love a woman with substance!

I needed to hear this, it's like God told me to click on your video. I've been dating a guy for almost 1.5months and all the red flags are there and I'm still trying to hold on and give him a chance

Great advice.....ladies plse do not settle for something you can't accept because of peer or societal pressures

oooft "you cant be a victim when you volunteer" ... that one hit me lol

All about knowing self worth 👏 some of us dont know how a healthy relationship dynamic looks like based off of our parents.. thats why most people stay. But this about knowing what you need personally is everything 👏👌 thanks breeny

Gurllllll your teeth are soooo gorgeous I can’t stop looking at them! 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰😍 🦷 ❤️

Ugh I love how straightforward and honest you are. Sometimes I feel myself falling in that "dumbass"-zone and then I always return to your channel to get my head clear again.

Thank you for this!! Us ladies (and men) need to pay attention to character ethics in this personality driven world. Personality is entertaining but Character be it strong or weak is what you’ll be dealing with for years. Personality = likeable; funny, ie. they always make me laugh. Character = (good/favored) trustworthy, honorable, attentiveness, self control, initiative, humility, accountability, discernment, discretion, forgiving, or (bad/unfavored) dishonest, insecure, addictive, disrespectful, manipulative, promiscuous, self destructive, controlling, lack of self control.. PAY ATTENTION, don’t ignore the signs. Within 90 days you can “collect data” on one’s character. No one’s perfect, but pay attention and know who and what you’re dealing with. No excuses!! No compromising standards 💯

"Dating is for data callecting." Loving it and loving you, Breeny! You're doing amazing uplifting work! 💖 🤗😍

He said it is too hard to have two women. He cannot treat me like t the other woman. He said I will never be the only one. I pulled my socks up and left. He was putting me at risk. He would not use condoms. I did not want kids by him or stds.

PREACH! You basically summed up every lesson I've learned about guys! Wish there were videos like this when I was growing up so I wouldn't have had gone through so much! :D

Misconception that trash guys are "shiny" on the outside. Average Joe nice guys who don't seem trashy can become trashy after they hook you as well. We also hold on to how sweet they were in the beginning, and don't focus on their present actions.

My friend recommended this video to me and I just wanna say thank you so much! This is exactly what I needed to hear after an awful relationship (and an awful breakup)! You're also Christian and cover so many great topics - and you're so open and honest, I can't thank you enough for making these videos, they are pure gold and so are you :)

dislikes are from the men that your are talking about

Shadow work. Looking deep within yourself. You’re right. I need to walk away from bad people ❤️🙏👸

I really don't want to date in 2019. Just want to focus on me. Enough is enough

i literally needed this video right now. going into 2019 with a fresh mindset for sure ! thank you !! 💞

that hair colour on you😍😭

I want to share this with my cousin but i dont want to get on her nerves. I already sent her something from RC Blakes. Shes dealing w a guy who today demanded her to do this and that after cursing her out AFTER she let him borrow her car and was never given a thank you. He has a child and baby mother who called stupid for whatever reason. On top of that, he handed her 1/100th of a blunt and she took it and almost burned her lip . I was mindfreaking blown. She was trying to figure out the perfect thing to text him after all of this. I told her if it were me, I would never ever respond and he wouldnt get another damn thing from me period.

We need more women like breeny, too many girls fall into the trap of making males their happiness ! Self love/worth is vital for young women, building their empire x

The gold trash tho😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Love this... I’m pretty impatient so whenever someone I’m attracted to turns out to have an iffy character/doesn’t quite fit my standards I check out ASAP. Because of this I’ve never been in a relationship. Sometimes I wonder if I do too much if I should change something but videos like this and stories of how some relationships failed kinda affirm me. ❤️

But then there is the narcissist, incosistent guys, who love bomb at the beginning and are horrible at the end of the relationship. Or just simply up and down. Don't let them get you confused! Don't fall for talk! Only fall for the actions!

Your channel is amazing. Honestly nothing has been helping me w my breakup I've watched all the videos. BUT YOUR VIDEOS!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE? I NEED YOU IN MY POCKET AT ALL TIMES AND NOW I CAN!🙏 LORD I needed to hear how you say shit real and raw and right to the mind and heart and it sticks leaving me wanting more.

You are a woman with a good head on your shoulders... and you are really needed for a lot of people 👍🏼

this video came out at the right time!!!!

Tell them sis 👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 this is so good we need something like this, not everyday make up 🙌🏾

This video is life. So many women need this, especially in the toxic culture with men getting free passes for bad behavior. You need to know your worth. My man knows better than to disrespect me and that’s why he’s been mine for as long as he has. When a man fucks up... 🗣 NEXT!

" Dating is data collection "

I feel like a lot of the women that love these “bad boys” are extremely insecure and have a very low self esteem. There are many women who are turned on by guys who are rude to them, it’s a fetish for them, it can’t be prevented. It’s like the perfect toxic combo, a submissive shy woman who has an extremely low self esteem and is a masochist, with a man who has a huge ego, which is further stroked by the woman. These problems are social problems and will go away only in decades or maybe even centuries, when women know better than to give in to the patriarchy.

Speaking the hard truth! I feel like we feel safe staying with something because it's familiar even if it's painful or not good for us in the long run so this is a really important message

honestly i feel so alone and when i watch your videos i find myself feeling strong, independent and everything in between. i just want to thank you. your words are impacting me and other young women. i love you so much! you’re so beautiful. thank you for this xx

THESE ARE TEXTBOOK FAX, LADIES WE ARE BETTER SO LET'S DO BETTER. Thank You Breeny for saying it !

I appreciate the call to make a “wants list” VS a “needs list”

...i was literally nodding my head to everything you said... can i get a AMEN SIS...Thanks for this video x

I will never give wife duties to a bf! I was a wife once and am not no more so those duties I can't perform lol.

Yassssss Queen!! 😍😁🙌🙌 alot of these Men are sheep in Wolf's clothing. Keep it moving! 👋

U made alot of good points. they should not reward cheating and bad behavior by taking them back, its like saying cheating is ok. Actions speak louder than words. Its not ok to be racist by choosing a bf based on race.

I have been in toxic relationships for about 7 years, and now I can not take it anymore,your videos will help me to change my self and learn how to love my self,God bless u🙏😇

I NEEDED this, I am a big believer in everything happens for a reason. Your video's are in my recommended, for a REASON. this was needed, thank you.

Yes! Trash comes like Satan! A damn wolf in sheep’s clothing 😩

Speaking straight facts!! 🧐✍🏽

"If he does not see [that you're a diamond], he needs to kick rocks" lol Love it!

So true! I used to ignore red flags and see the best in men thinking that they could change for the better, but not anymore 😉 If the man is not consciously improving himself, I am out!

Preach. Loud and clear. Love it.

Yesss, thank you for spreading finally the truth cause many eyes must be open in this time.

This is great. As a man I don’t feel offended. The same principles apply for us as well!

That is Not true! You don't always attract what you are! A lot of times there is a great person who is a great human with loving, gentle, empathetic qualities and did Not learn any boundaries and so unfortunately by default learned to put up with and accept shit and old habits die hard.

I love this. A lot of ladies (including me) needed this!!! 👌

8:39 'Trash' love how simply you put it! Yup, you can put more layers (excuses) on but if you let the trashbag just sit out in your house (life) sooner or later the trashbag is going to stink. #tossthetrash

This video has earned you your graduation, madam! You are now "Dr. Lee"! Thank you so very much, Dr. Lee. Thank you. You are saving my life. Not only am I an avid follower that often starts my day with you, I have also been watching the videos you recommend. Kev Hick is on top of his game - you are even more potent for me having given out a reference for his channel. One of my many, many favorite sentiments from this video: "[Victims absolutely do exist, but] you are not a victim when you volunteer" May God bless your work saving lives, Dr. Lee.

THANK YOU SO MUCH, Breeny! I have listened to this a bunch of times and I will keep listening to it until it SINKS IN! Thanks so very much! God bless you!

I came across the video for a reason, really needed to see this. Amazing video 🙌🏾🙌🏾

okay you are absolutely gorgeous

I’ve watched almost all your videos from years ago and you’ve literally helped me get through a 2 yr relationship break up within a week. I needed to know my worth and now I KNOW. Thank you so much.

i am literally taking notes out of this video. everything she says is just!! spot on!

You are very beautiful. Very honest. Straight to point and genuine. I would love to watch you talk about self-love, self-growth, confidence, law of attraction, stuff like that. Thank you for amazing videos girl!!

Yes ma’am u are so right about this on helping some of these ladies get it together an know ya self worth an be great

I done held my breath so long for a new video but I must say this was very worth it!!!! I may or may not have been on this table you shook.

This is one of my fave videos of yours, very mature & to the point; no coddling, no bs. Thankyou x

You're so pretty. You resemble tika sumpter a little bit

Hi Breeny good to see you back stonger than ever! Couldn't have said it any better! Sound words!😊💜💕💕

We love you soooo much breeny. Your words are so soothing and comforting! Thank you for being such a wise confident woman and sharing your wisdom with us

I’m just dying at every little meme she sneaks in the video !!!!

A leopard never changes its prints. Know your WORTH and VALUE 🙌🏽

love this girl so true these man showing red flags let it go if he ain’t showing you actions that his into you cut it ain’t worth it women think they can change a man people are who they are bruh lol

18 minutes of pure WISDOM! Bless you sis🙌🏽

Thank you, you are absolutely a treasure. I have massive respect for a lady like you who speaks to other ladies the way you do. I don’t know you but I really love you 😘

im in so much pain right now from unrequited love, I am thankful I have seen this, this is so enlightening.

LOVE the concept of focusing on what we need as well as what we want... Also love the trash illustration lol... And bringing up the fact that we can't teach others how to treat us.

Thanks Breeny. Always a blessing.

Omg Breeny thank you 🙏🏾 you spoke straight to me! This is what I needed to hear! I’m currently with a man that treats me like trash he’s so cold hearted and ruthless and he gets with so many girls I’m still with him. I’m trying to move on and be strong it’s really hard. But this video really helps thank you. You’re amazing Breeny! You spit 10000000 percent facts x

Forever inspiring 👑