Stop giving social anxiety so much credit 

“Stop forcing yourself to go into environments that you don’t even like, and then questioning why you’re not comfortable in those environments” I needed to hear that. Thank you!

Social anxiety is something that bothers me every single time I'm around people. I overthink my every move and what I said, how I said it, etc. It's really exhausting and takes away all the potential joy of having a fun time with other people. Thank you for this video, it means a lot!

Social anxiety for me is all about whether I can meet the expectations of other people, especially outwardly confident and charismatic people, they greet me with all of that enthusiasm and then they turn away when they realize I'm not matching their energy which makes me feel worse etc. etc.

I will STOP labelling myself with the phrase " Socially Anxious" . I will now refrase & say I OCCASIONALLY get anxious in a social environment. Your words as always are inspiring. Blessings Hindz. 🙏🏾

I had this revelation earlier, "stop trying to force yourself to be comfortable in every situation." I started to feel like I was forcing myself to be a different person....forcing myself to be an extrovert when I am naturally more introverted when I am meeting new people. Thank you for reaffirming ❤️

I came to this realisation recently, that social anxiety gets way too much credit - particularly having started working in retail. I used to think I HATED small talk but after so many UGH shifts there is always that one little conversation that gets rounded off with "have a nice day" "you too" that I just love. I used to think that everyone was judging me when I walked down the street, this is simply a projection. but now that I have rid judgement from my heart I walk around with my head held high, chin up and shoulders back and I look into people's eyes on the street and either they do that awkward look away or they give a smile. Them looking away is a problem they have to resolve. Also when you look up, you tend to recognise people a lot more. It seems there is way more of a community here than I originally thought and so now I'm taking the steps to build relationships with the community, I want to be the Vito Corleone but way less violent of these streets. I want most of the people that see me when I walk past them as someone to either look up to or turn to for help. I want people to treat me like I'm the fuckin Godfather of this town but with way less crime involved. And so I will treat people like I am the Godfather of this town, respect and service and always up to talk. Invite people in way more often for coffee, tea or food, ask people working on something if they need a hand, tip big to to people in my service, not only look at people in the street but shake their hand and ask if they're doing well. I remember the first time I wore my my nice brown suit in the streets of Newcastle I would get stopped all the time for help, dude needs help reading a code on his receipt, I got time! Lady needs directions to her driving exam, I'll walk with you! And man the confidence boost you get from that. From there I realised the power of the suit and so I've come out of my stoner look and am grooming myself consistently and dressing smart as that is far more approachable than a stoner. In general instead of being worried about how people view me, I worry about people NOT viewing, me as nobody likes a debby downer so nobody views those. Working door to door sales and retail has also made me realise that I am way more skilled in conversation than I thought, I realised that it's not just because I am comfortable around my friends, it's that my friends are also pretty skilled in conversation. That's why they're my friends! The people I have awkward conversations with, I realise it's because they totally lack that skill or aren't interested in conversation and THATS where my anxiety comes from. And again I realised that is from a place of judgement, so instead of thinking "wtf was that" I'm thinking about taking it slow, how to go down into their pace and make them feel comfortable. At the end of the day, it's all about making each other comfortable. From these steps that I take to improve my social awareness/ skill (because it really is a skill, one you have to study and learn) I realise I don't really have anxiety, I take the same steps in my social anxiety to the rest of my anxiety. I was the kid diagnosed with the fucking stuff! Along with depression! And now look at me muthafucka! Suck my muthafuckin dick! It's fuckin Tuesday! Today is beautiful but next Tuesday is better!

I have social anxiety but when I see someone that’s pretty or have something nice I compliment them

It’s crazy because small talk In the grocery is how I started to grow out of my social anxiety too 😭

Working in retail really helped my social anxiety! I was so nervous of making people upset and thought I did not like people. But I learned that I loved to socialize and get to know people. It’s still hard to socialize with some people, because everyone isn’t perfect, nice, or even responds to conversation. I’m thankful for being able to over come a majority of my social anxiety. I’m still constantly learning!

Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️

Love this! I often use self-checkout tills at stores to avoid social interaction. Thinking of all the opportunities I've likely missed to brighten someone's day or vice versa.

i love the way he pretends to pour us tea . So original and cute

That’s wild.. I’ve been struggling with this for a while now & this video just popped up 🥺💕🤞🏼

This video is literal perfection. You said everything so well. I think most of us are struggling with this; over identifying with our social anxiety. Thank you for your message.

Watching this video on a solo trip is a lifesaver ✊🏼

I tend to not like social activities because I sometimes feel overlooked or not liked.. it's frustrating

When I was younger I use to be able to vibe in any situation and talk to anyone. Be a fun person to be around. As I got older and I'm put in room that I am expected to be a certain way. So not being able to show myself or show a part of me that use to be able to relate to you that I no longer want to relate to certain people, I've gotten so anxious in my life and surroundings.

I immediately click the title because I give Anexity too much credit. Thanks for this reminder, your words of wisdom gives life ✨️

Thanks Hindz 🦋 I’ve been playing so safe and afraid with my RU-vid yet again! Every time I go out to try, I get caught up in my own mind and freak myself out thinking I’m being judge by others around me. Nomore playing it safe, I’m so drained with that. You were right on time with this one

Social anxiety is fucking scary. I'm literally on medication and still suffer. Ongoing battle. I hate myself.

I want to be able to meet people from different societies; ones maybe where appearance isn't the main factor. Where we don't have to be a certain way. That values an individual. Where we do not have to fake being extroverts if we are not. I am tired of faking in my society... But, when I feel I am being myself, it's unacceptable. Personally, I despise having small talk. But, I do love when there are people you feel a connection to, and can have natural interactions! It's so exciting! And rare, to me! I hope to be able to have those sparks again where I don't have to think so much about 'what to say' or 'how to act' cause it strains the hell out of me!

This is also great advice for kids! My daughter is so nervous to go into middle school I’m going to watch this again with her later

hindz, you give me such comfort in your videos it’s ridiculous. i appreciate you

crazy I haven’t watched your videos in a minute and I randomly decided to watch one today and you post about something I have been struggling with my whole life 20 mins ago. I really believe I was meant to see this.

After your videos I both feel calmer and inspired. "You are a gift to others" really got me and I feel some resistance in my mind. Despite that, I know it's true: every human being is so imperfectly perfect 🌻❣️

I appreciate your essence. Your videos pull me out of my bad days. Thank you!🌱

You are such a powerful & positive force. This has brought such a calmness that I needed today. A million thanks for helping get out of my and breath🌬🌬🌼

This is the best video EVER I've watched about this topic. Thank you so much

this came at exactly the right time

Was cleaning out my phone and the notification came for your video and spirit made me click on the notification right as I went to delete my trash folder so ya girl following the flow of course 🤪 got my turmeric tea ready already, vibes are immaculate

another great video from hindz !! really love these talks

Such a wonderful video and reminder, Hindz. I have felt stifled by social anxiety for years now. To your point on creativity; More recently I have found that letting others into my world by doing things I enjoy, helps so much. Much love. Thank you ❤️

Thanks for sharing your story and inspiring brother 🙏

Absolutely love this. Thank you 🙏🏼

These videos have been on point ! 🙏🏻 I have found that my social anxiety has gotten a little worse over the years so I’m finally trying to do something about it. I’m starting slow but I try to make small talk with cashiers lol

The editing 🔥I love how it goes from dark and cozy to light .. it’s the balance

Needed this 🥰 thank you

Thanks Hindz! Your videos are a gift ♥️

I really needed to hear this. Thank you very much!

Thank you❤️I needed to hear these words today.

I felt this one within Hindz thank you and Chaaaaaa

Thank you🙏🙏🙏

Exactly what I needed today, thank you

I can tell you're so in tune because you're always so on point with the message 🙏🏾

I love your vibe, honesty, openness, kindness and everything you do.

You inspire me Hindz 🙏🏾 thank you for BEing 💓

This video came to me right at the perfect time. Thank you, thank you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Thank you sm Hindz. Listening this before starting school is so reassuring. Plus, I’m starting college !!! Love ya

So powerful words. Just the right ones. Thank you ❤️

Awesome advice.. thank you. peace and love.

im new to your channel only just the last week have i been watching, and i totally feel connected to your energy and the videos you create. i've had psychosis twice, im medicated now but only just recently have i felt back in myself / my spiritual path (which hasn't left me, but has been on pause), i've had to reground myself since my psychosis experiences and you've inspired me to find new self care and grounding ways, like simply the process of making a cup of tea. i've added to the process for myself, adding mushroom oil to it like lions mane and turkey tail. but anyways i really just appreciate your content, and you've inspired me on one video i want to create for myself, i havent for a while felt the need to create a video, i just create art everyday but this video idea has been recent and im keen to see where this will lead me. keep up the great work. thanks

Another video with impeccable timing! Can't believe you sometimes. I was just talking about this struggle my friend was having yesterday and that I've had myself. Thank you! I hope to find a creative outlet like this one day (':

I really needed this video rn

Thanks!

Love this soo much thank u✨ letting go of the fear and stepping into love has helped me so much in allowing me to be present & let go. It’s so exciting getting to know new people

I needed this.

New to your channel. Good wisdom here brother, thanks for sharing

your videos are so calming.. You are truly amazing 💛

Thank you for this video !

All of Hindz videos resonates with my spirit I must say🙌🏾💯

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING A VIDEO ON THIS❤️

Hindz has such a great presence, he is very captivating. Drinking my green juice and enjoying this vibe!

I wasn’t feeling good today, I had a strong vibration like something is not right today. I was afraid to talk to strangers at the grocery store. I haven’t felt that Anxiety. But now I get it why I feel this way thank you for sharing this thoughtful amazing positive words.

I listen to all your videos and especially when I want to relax and go to sleep. You are a gem of a soul. Please keep posting more content. Love your spirit and channel

i struggle very much with social anxiety, and this is the best, most reassuring and motivating advice i have ever received. thank you for channelling such wisdom

Wow chills. I enjoyed this so much. I have a new perspective to ponder on regarding social anxiety ✨

Hindz thanks for hindzinggg 💕

Hindz! This really inspired me! I am a such skittish person by nature since childhood that when I got older and learned the term social anxiety I didn’t even realize that was the term for what I was feeling, because it was so deeply ingrained in me that I was blind to it. When I made the connection that I have social anxiety, and nearly debilitating at that, it was almost a huge sense of relief to be able to make sense of what I was feeling. But now that label has become a prison and a blanket that I allow myself to hide under and excuse myself from pushing out of that comfort zone. But I feel convicted by what you said in this video. I’m not going to use that label anymore. I’m not even going to talk about that term period. I’m so sick of it I feel like that blanket is suffocating me. I needed to hear what you said because I know I need to make a choice to grow out of this worn out skin that I’m in at this moment in time. You are a light in this world I’m so grateful that you are who you are. Your clarity and sense about self development is filling a massive void in this world. Thank you 🙏

Hello Hindz Thanks for all you do!

I needed to hear this 😩 You are my oracle

Needed this

Loved this advice. I am a really introvert person and used to suffer a lot of social anxiety. Know, I see people as beautiful imperfect souls with so much love

I’m loving the background recently it’s so clean nd rerefreshing !

This is so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏽 💜

thank you hindz for another beautiful video ❤️

I needed your lesson! And i am back and the best thing I did today and you made my day! Thank you!

Thank you Hindz !

So yeah.... you're awesome 😘🥰 Thank you 🙏🏾

We can’t change how we feel, but we can change how we react on that.

Spent the weekend on a shamanic retreat and this is the message sent to me and here you are talking about it

Wonderful video and very relatable.

I'm just in awe at how good the production is.

New sub! Love you already! Thank you 😊

So grateful you’re alive today 🤍 you constantly remind my self (and others) of who I am and what I am capable of. A true voice of Love in this world.

My journey with anxiety has been a very long one, but what got me to start pushing past the social anxiety was actually when my life reached a breaking point. My partner wasn’t happy with me constantly being literally afraid to leave the house and go anywhere and he began to get very cold and eventually he started to get resentful towards me. That went on til it turned into emotional neglect. A lot of really sensitive sh!t went down over the next year or so, and in the end we came back together but with a broken foundation for the relationship. I was so desperate to make things better and prove myself to my partner that I shoved every ounce of myself into a mental box and shoved her to the back of the mental closet. For nearly 2 years I devoted (I do mean devoted) myself to embodying the perfect housewife who was perky and had stores she favored and I learned many things such as how to cook and proper ways to wash clothes and how to keep house very tidy and clean. In the end, it wasn’t sustainable, he still wasn’t committed and I had been devoted, so about 3 months ago, I finally snapped and confronted him and ever since it’s been a very strange but much much better healing process. We’re scheduled to be married in a few months and part of it is both of us learning how to accept the seriousness of social anxiety and how bad things can get when it’s neglected or pushed aside. Never lose sight of yourself just because you THINK you’ll seem like a better person for it, that’s what I learned from that 5 year long story

I love the different visuals and the light vibes

Super new to your channel. I stopped consuming "influencer" content. Started looking for self growth and your channel is such a helpful tool

Love you!

I love love love the intro :))

Love the new background at the beginning there, its a vibe ting🌱

Blessings ❤️

i clicked so fast ♥️ thank you for sharing your gift ✨

You're awesome I love your talks sml❤

Please do more videos from your living room. Love the white color and white shirt!

Love your channel!! Been watching your videos for a while and it’s just clean content back-to-back 🤩…. What editing software do you use ?? And what kind of camera and mic?

you always drop stuff when I need it

Hi Hindz, been a while since I watched your video. Loving your new space and thumbnail.

Man you got a lot of swag.

When I listen to Hindz, I love how it always feels like he's right in front of me.

This message is so perfect! My partner is very social and in a different social group ( age gap and culture), n we go out in these party scenes n I’m very uncomfortable, but I internalized that thinking I’m socially awkward, but I’m not, that’s just not my scene. I’m not going to be so hard on myself