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Stuff Enneagram 4s Say 

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Things that Enneagram Type 4s say ALL the time 👀
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@deedsreadswithtea
@deedsreadswithtea Год назад
“I’ll do it when I’m in the mood.” Story of my entire life 🫠
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
And the mood always happens at the most inconvenient times
@keneshapike3773
@keneshapike3773 Год назад
It’s me!! 😂
@beigekitten89
@beigekitten89 Год назад
Exactly! Story of my life. Abby is right only happens when it's inconvenient
@benjulesrun9057
@benjulesrun9057 Год назад
"I don't fit into one of your nine little personality boxes"
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
Hehe
@maddiethegladiator
@maddiethegladiator Год назад
“I don’t want you to fix it I just want you to let me vent!!!” Every argument I’ve ever gotten in with my mom lol
@jessicatroyer3472
@jessicatroyer3472 Год назад
I've said this to my husband so many times!
@angelasmith3037
@angelasmith3037 Год назад
SAME!!! My mom is a 6(I believe) and keeps wanting to fix things and tell me what to do, and I always tell her I don’t need you to fix it 😂
@madamechillman4072
@madamechillman4072 Год назад
My partner and kids laughed so hard through this that we had to play it three times. I’ve said just about all of these things in the past 24 hours. (But seriously, why am I so obsessed with the sky??) 😂
@marianaduque7301
@marianaduque7301 Год назад
"I'm overwhelmed and I don't know why" omg this is so me lol
@trinaq
@trinaq Год назад
I love how Type 4s exude a chill, zen vibe. They're most likely to be ISFPs or INFPs, there's so much FI emanating from these statements!💞
@bethanythatsme
@bethanythatsme Год назад
4w5 who's an INFP 🥰
@OHsopositive
@OHsopositive Год назад
INFJ 😉
@keneshapike3773
@keneshapike3773 Год назад
5w4, ISFJ 😊
@LilacSnowBun
@LilacSnowBun Год назад
Intj (for reals)
@jessicatroyer3472
@jessicatroyer3472 Год назад
INFJ
@Benji-dt6ch
@Benji-dt6ch Год назад
i think you might be the only creator i've seen make type 4 content that i relate to
@_ojosdegato
@_ojosdegato Год назад
Creepy how accurate this was 😅😹 are the majority of 4’s INFP’s like me too?
@tylerharris7469
@tylerharris7469 Год назад
I’m a 4w3 and I’m ENFP so probably 😂 but I’m only 1% extrovert
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne Год назад
Been waiting for this one! Chocolate, coffee or a nap. 'I need all three.' Absolutely! Though the coffee never lets me nap! The tree scene was so me. I get like that in nature. I definitely always want the deep soulful, type. Love this one! 😂🙌💜
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
Thanks Stephanie! ♥️
@erinpassarelloptcst6856
@erinpassarelloptcst6856 Год назад
"I'm feeling overwhelmed and I don't know why." Yes! I love that the books are arranged by color. It's one of my tasks for this weekend 😅 I love your videos Abbey- so accurate and entertaining 😁
@blight9815
@blight9815 Год назад
Still deciding between 4 or 9, but goodness I say most of these things on a daily basis externally and internally
@KKTanaa
@KKTanaa Год назад
I literally cried looking at the moon 😂
@Scarlettx90
@Scarlettx90 Год назад
thanks. I hate it 🤣 I feel a little too seen for comfort. I died at that last line, because I literally said that last night to my husband. You did such a great job with this video ❤
@Sica210
@Sica210 Год назад
Type 4 here 🙋🏻‍♀️ Love having a good cry-why does it feel so good!? 🙃 Yes, just let me vent! 🙌🏼 Meaningful gifts are my love language and so is nature ❤ “I’ll do it when I’m in the mood” is my best used excuse. And I say, “I’m feeling some type of way” ALL THE TIME! 😂 Loved this, Abbey! 🫶🏼
@keneshapike3773
@keneshapike3773 Год назад
Omg when you mentioned the print from Etsy I lost it 😂😂 I love Etsy. I’m a 5w4!
@geegee587
@geegee587 Год назад
I feel relieved after watching this 😂 I feel seen, understood, and appreciated. Half of the time I wonder why the hell do I feel so much and need to devote so much time to regulate. At least I’m not the only one. I literally use barefoot shoes all the time to help me ground 🤣
@lisastevens2607
@lisastevens2607 Год назад
You NAILED it! If I ever had a doubt… it’s gone. 😂
@angelasmith3037
@angelasmith3037 Год назад
Right?! 😂😂
@creatrix_child
@creatrix_child Год назад
Bahaha why is this so accurate?? 😂 I’m trying to decide if I’m a 4 or a 5
@beigekitten89
@beigekitten89 Год назад
Ur probably a 4w5 with a very strong wing 5.....at least is what im thinking because I have been dealing w. This same decision lol i act waaay to 5ish but i also have the 4 in me lol
@fusedxman
@fusedxman Год назад
This is so much like what my fiancée says I had my mouth open in shock for almost the whole video 😂
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
Woah!!
@tgn987
@tgn987 Год назад
why must you call me out like this 😂😭
@fusedxman
@fusedxman Год назад
@@tgn987 because I love you 😘
@michelehaan3738
@michelehaan3738 Год назад
My favorite 4 just said,”This is embarrassingly true.”😂😂
@sweetxnothing13
@sweetxnothing13 Год назад
"i hate you summer" thats literally me
@sweetxnothing13
@sweetxnothing13 Год назад
speak of bon iver, evermore is the best song from evermore just saying :)
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
And my 4 husband. The minute it gets cold his true personality emerges
@sweetxnothing13
@sweetxnothing13 Год назад
@@AbbeyHowe im a winter boy, sadly lately winters are getting warmer and the snow disappears way to fast if its even happen... i miss the old time winters 😔
@fatimajn5033
@fatimajn5033 Год назад
@@sweetxnothing13 Same here I wish we could get back that old winter again :(
@elphieofkiamoko
@elphieofkiamoko Год назад
I drive shoeless because it makes me feel connected to the car, how dare you call me out that way lol
@bethanythatsme
@bethanythatsme Год назад
Yes! All of this, yes! Thank you from this 4w5
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
♥️
@mattcwatson
@mattcwatson Год назад
Coffee, chocolate, and naps - the trifecta.
@carolinemanley9216
@carolinemanley9216 Год назад
As a 3 with a VERY strong 4 wing I can SO relate!
@lhananas8875
@lhananas8875 Год назад
Im a 4 and let me tell you something important, summer is the BEST season all time. You can have naps in park until 22 not any longer because after that time, the park is extroverts only.... (Ps: i love extroverted people, 1h per day)
@EternalGalaxies
@EternalGalaxies Год назад
Agreed - Summer is where it’s at
@theadora1693
@theadora1693 Год назад
Okay OKAY i was going to write a comment at different points, but then the "this tree probably knows so much more than I do" part came on and. I was having a very emotionally heavy day once, and went by this tree I always pass and touch, and I literally cried, held it, and said "thank you friend". 😐
@EternalGalaxies
@EternalGalaxies Год назад
Aww 🖤
@margaretjudice8944
@margaretjudice8944 Год назад
This was very good and funny! I am a 2 and we look like a 4 in health. I could relate to saying and doing some of this. Thank you for sharing!
@nathanreedy4380
@nathanreedy4380 Год назад
I have been waiting for you to make a "stuff Enneagram 4's say". Mostly Abbey, This is me. Except I love Summer & I am not really into art, at painting arts. Other than that though 100%
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe Год назад
Hi Nathan! 👋🏼
@aominelaw981
@aominelaw981 Год назад
This is more like a 4 fused with 9 traits.
@artsyanne1192
@artsyanne1192 Год назад
I’m a 4 and I can really relate to this! Brilliant!
@OHsopositive
@OHsopositive Год назад
All of this!!! Totally nailed it - as usual!!
@beigekitten89
@beigekitten89 Год назад
I literally said a few minutes before seei g this video: "i feel a certain type of way, not sure why" to one of my friends 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@frederickhunt5020
@frederickhunt5020 Год назад
I love summer! My birthday is in the summer. Summer is the best.
@lilblondiebear
@lilblondiebear Год назад
So...there ARE actually other people in the world like ME? Where are these people and can they please be my friends? 🥺
@OUTSPOKENWALLFLOWER4444
@OUTSPOKENWALLFLOWER4444 Год назад
I feel attacked.😁💕
@himetako5525
@himetako5525 Год назад
"I hate you, summer" is something I say often, despite being a person named Summer 😂
@Avionne_Parris
@Avionne_Parris Год назад
Gosh, Abs, you did it again! And can we appreciate Abbey tapping into her 4 wing to get this video done? Her main type 3 must've fought at every turn to suppress those same emotions so work could get done. "Main character vibes" and a moon reference... I feel so called out! As an INFJ HSP (highly sensitive person), I really didnt wanna be a 4 due to potential emotional overload. Thank God for my 5 wing and the ability to detach and analyse things logically or I'd be a blubbering mess every 5 minutes :P
@nikkismith1093
@nikkismith1093 Год назад
Im also 4w5 and INFJ!
@Avionne_Parris
@Avionne_Parris Год назад
@@nikkismith1093 Awesome! Nice to "meet" you 😀
@putthitanimsawaeng4476
@putthitanimsawaeng4476 Год назад
“i like bon iver before taylor swift did a collab with him.” lol
@gozzywozzy485
@gozzywozzy485 Год назад
ahahaha, you made me gasp so many times in: "OMG I DO say that!" realisations lolololol
@adamferencszi797
@adamferencszi797 11 месяцев назад
That Mary queen of Scots hit home 😂 ouuuuuuuch
@13thravenpurple94
@13thravenpurple94 Год назад
Great work Thank you
@hanaya5409
@hanaya5409 Год назад
Not gonna lie, I didn't expect that I would relate to this THIS much.
@Lensssss1806
@Lensssss1806 Год назад
Amazing work as always Abbey 🥰
@loralubimaia2783
@loralubimaia2783 Год назад
"I just want you to understand " yes!
@EternalGalaxies
@EternalGalaxies Год назад
LITERALLY
@abhishekpandit2261
@abhishekpandit2261 5 месяцев назад
This is fantastic work, Abbey! I'm talking not just about this video, but too many for me to name. I'm a writer of fiction, screenplays, and musicals... and in all three media, I've applied some aspect of your Enneagram videos. Please keep up the great work!
@Jeffing_Around
@Jeffing_Around Год назад
“That’s why I mostly date actors.” As an 4 who’s also an actor: OOOOOOOF.
@Clickrbee
@Clickrbee 2 месяца назад
How can you do this without cracking up... its hilarious! I'm a 5w4 but this totally sounds like my everyday thoughts and feels... I relate to every single thing you portrayed... I need to watch 5 to see which one is a closer match... love all your videos!
@mohamedhamdalla9508
@mohamedhamdalla9508 5 месяцев назад
You are brilliant. I watched all your videos about the 9 types and you described my type very well. Awesome
@AbbeyHowe
@AbbeyHowe 5 месяцев назад
Glad you like them!
@sara.the.muggle
@sara.the.muggle Год назад
My husband looked over at me and asked why all of the things you were saying sounded like me 😂
@randomgaygirl
@randomgaygirl Год назад
100% me. 🤣 I literally -say a lot of- all of this on a daily basis.
@eliotopian
@eliotopian Год назад
finally, an honest review of Crescent City! ;D lol
@jayathakur8643
@jayathakur8643 Год назад
I just got out of my house to look at the sky.... And the full moon 🌝 rising.... And now this 😍😍😍 main character vibes ❤️❤️❤️
@icystorm9968
@icystorm9968 Год назад
I've never read about the enneagram personality types but my god do i feel called out 😭
@cassandrarolin9962
@cassandrarolin9962 Год назад
This is my mother 😂
@lemejohnny
@lemejohnny Год назад
YEEES! Nothing described my type more than this 😭
@CkloLabella
@CkloLabella Год назад
OMG, totally me xD Abbey, you've described lots of E4 things not only being funny (which helps to to de-dramatize), but also being warm and kind, so I feel supported right now. Not joking, thanks for this kind of videos!
@afilmbee
@afilmbee Год назад
Accurate.
@Jessicaunarex
@Jessicaunarex Год назад
The part with the books is just how I am.
@maddiethegladiator
@maddiethegladiator Год назад
Any other enneagram 4s out there love summer? I like every season (except the dead of winter 😅)
@EternalGalaxies
@EternalGalaxies Год назад
Where I live it’s super temperate and I look forward to the cheerfulness of summer and the illuminated twilights every year! ☀️ I also love snow days but not winter itself as a whole lol - from a 469 tritype 6w5 4w5 9w?
@killiansmith6349
@killiansmith6349 Год назад
This is therapeutic as a 4
@demonxkiller1
@demonxkiller1 2 месяца назад
3:15 Was not needed. That is a threat.
@fatimajn5033
@fatimajn5033 Год назад
If you never said that fours would be thinking if they really a four i wouldn't have believed i am four 😄
@trixi1608
@trixi1608 4 месяца назад
I definitely like being weird as a type 4.. ;-)
@carolinethompson376
@carolinethompson376 Год назад
Wow, many of these really resonate with me... "my home is my sanctuary... probably why I'm still single" - very true!! I'm a type 9 with 4 in my tritype. At the same time there's that part of me that says- 'what the hell, I'm a unique individual not a sequence of numbers!' Though the enneagram makes a lot of sense and helps me understand myself better. I feel things deeply, emotions connecting with music- loving autumn days and deep conversations over coffee - perfect!
@jayathakur8643
@jayathakur8643 Год назад
Seriously 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤣🤣
@quinntessentialreads6496
@quinntessentialreads6496 Год назад
Whelp, thought I was a 5w4 but after seeing this I might have to face the fact I'm a 4w5 !!
@mwatson4970
@mwatson4970 Год назад
"I hate you Summer..." why did I die at this?! 5w4 here and I feel this is way more me than I accept about myself... when I'm being vulnerable and fully honest with ppl (my 5 barrier and logic).
@JustinHeronMusic
@JustinHeronMusic Год назад
Yep, hahaha!!!
@colleen523
@colleen523 Год назад
I didn’t know it was a 4 thing to hate summer! I’m a 4, and I also hate summer.
@jeremyandhannahyoder5914
@jeremyandhannahyoder5914 Год назад
The most actuare type four video from you get Abby! This is totally me (Hannah) 😂 I’m married to an 8. It’s hilarious and obnoxious all at the same time 😜
@Jun-si4db
@Jun-si4db Год назад
i am an enfp type 4 hahaha
@thenondualisticmystic
@thenondualisticmystic Год назад
Why is this so accurate?
@jeebock2061
@jeebock2061 Год назад
I haven't watched yet because I'm mentally preparing myself to be personally roasted Edit: Im 7 seconds in and i already have to stop!!!..."I'm not doing that if everyone else is doing it"....the amount of times I've been attacked for that....so true it hurts
@chuuyaxo
@chuuyaxo Год назад
i can’t figure out whether i have a 3 or 4 fix
@fml2247
@fml2247 Год назад
im a 6w5 but i actually relate to this so hard lmao wtf
@kellikakes81
@kellikakes81 Год назад
It's so weird that I relate to all of this although I'm a 9. Well we relate to all numbers right lol? (I always related to 4,5,6,7 lol that's all lol)
@mariilatorre
@mariilatorre Год назад
ok thats me
@treehugginmama
@treehugginmama Год назад
Omggggg 😂😂😂 YUP
@b.b.b.b.b.b.b
@b.b.b.b.b.b.b Год назад
this is so relatable as a 5, what do i do with this information
@_angelindisguise_
@_angelindisguise_ Год назад
Me😆
@eskaywai
@eskaywai Год назад
okay this is a bit too accurate-
@lady_icarus
@lady_icarus Год назад
How do you know me so well???
@user-yc1vi7pu6w
@user-yc1vi7pu6w Год назад
Piss off! I'm the counter type! (I may have said and/or thought some of these at some point).
@larrycheek3588
@larrycheek3588 Год назад
Hahahahahaha 🤣💀🤣
@tetramegistus
@tetramegistus Год назад
the person who made this video has never met a 4 in their life. jesus.
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