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Enneagram Type 4 Individualists as Children

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During childhood, each enneagram type has a distinct pattern of life-defining experiences that influence the expression of their personality as adults. This is what ENNEAGRAM TYPE 4 INDIVIDUALISTS typically (broad generalization alert!) experience during their earliest years.
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@alcestis639 Год назад

I ranted to my mother about this today. And then this video was recommended. Well played, FBI.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Haha that damn algorithm strikes again. That or our phones really are listening to us...

@christinedjb Год назад

As a 4 in my childhood, I can remember I was never affirmed by my parents.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

🙏

@ashleyching5786 Год назад

Outsider in home Creates world outside family Seeks rescuer Needed imagination affirmed Frustrated with authority

@YouveGotaType Год назад

More note taking? ;)

@ashleyching5786 Год назад

Anytime a 1 winks at me 😨🤩

@shizzle1903 Год назад

Was raised by my dad and grandparent. Not simultaneously, but flip flopped back and forth. Both had different parenting styles and environment to raise kids. It was a helluva ride.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Thanks for sharing that unique experience SL. Did either make you feel seen/understood as a child?

@KaimaVixen Год назад

I hate being a 4… it’s a world of emotional torment.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Only in the lower levels of health - there is always a path towards healing and equanimity 🙌 keep at it.

@codewormprogramming 3 месяца назад

As a 4, I have found nothing more restorative and healing than Jesus Christ and his love for me and all of His children. May God heal all highly sensitive people, for they are his chosen children. 🙏

@Willlly61 Год назад

Holy... I've been struggling with understanding the core "complex" of the 4 for almost a year now. Not saying that it would be quick to do. But I think this might be the most accurate point, and explicit description I've come across. Thank you for that!

@YouveGotaType Год назад

So glad to hear it helped clarify things! Thanks much for watching and leaving the kind words.

@misstryst Месяц назад

Wow, just discovered this and yes to all of that. Literal spoken invalidation from parents as a child. Interesting.

@YouveGotaType 27 дней назад

🙏

@princeofsilence6573 Год назад

As a 4 I was always very close to my mother who is a 2 with strong 3 characteristics and 4 traits as well (she is a painter), even though 4 isnt one of her wings.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Thanks for sharing. And for future reference, creative gifts like painting aren’t only in the 4 space. Many 9s and 6s pursue the arts as well, but really any type can be a gifted/passionate artist!

@Emmywu 2 месяца назад

Okay, you just spoke my childhood out loud.

@YouveGotaType 2 месяца назад

😅

@Lionhearted626 Месяц назад

I’ve always felt aligned with this type but I was always really close with one parent while the other was abusive. So idk what that means. But I was always in my imagination, uniquely and usually alone, even as a child. And the rest of the type has always been accurate.

@mondhoffman 13 дней назад

I'm in tears

@Heyokasireniei468sxso Год назад

yup all of that good job

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Thanks Rex 🙌

@ricard3135 Год назад

Very good and necessary video, thank you. But "loving and ever present parents" who, my goodness!, "dismiss explicitly or subtly the reality of the children 4s". It's always the same tune. The absurd catholic need of justifying parents at all costs, and thus culpabilising children.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Hey Ricard, thanks for watching & glad you appreciate the vid! Looks like you misunderstood what I said though. I didn’t say all 4s have loving and present parents. I said that the feeling of disconnection can come even IF a 4 has loving and present parents. Not all 4s relate to feeling disconnected or upset at their parents. Not really sure where you’re getting the Catholic influence on my perspective? I’m not Catholic, nor was I raised with any Catholic influences, and I am extremely critical of parents (especially as a type 1 who is constantly frustrated with paternal/authority figures).

@ricard3135 Год назад

@@YouveGotaType Your reply is perfectly right, impeccable. To be honest, I understood perfectly your point in the video, which as I said is excellent. I was just using your comment and put it beyond its own limit to stress this aspect of the apologies to parents that gets my nerves on every time I hear it. In other words: I admit to have been unfair with you in order to be fair with this issue, which I think is important.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

@@ricard3135 Oh thank you for clarifying! That makes sense, and I appreciate your desire to expand the conversation to broader issues.

@RagTag-N-Bobtail Год назад

Are these people doomed to a life of hopeless self-expression, being a giant "feeling" processors?... Do I have the capability to turn one of them into a "dull, joe shmoe" farmer without them imploding? ...tough times ahead, I need all hands on deck.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Huh.

@Korany Год назад

Very true lmao

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Glad it felt accurate!

@me_lero Год назад

You're describing type 9. 9w1 specifically with perfectionistic tendencies. 4 is not an attachment type.

@YouveGotaType Год назад

I didn’t describe them as an attachment type. They’re an “ambivalent” type since both parents don’t meet their need to have their identity affirmed. And there are certainly similarities between 4s and 9s as they both are equally tied to both parental figures, rather than having a stronger connection/issue with one parent or the other. See my parental pattern whiteboard here for more clarity:

@YouveGotaType Год назад

Type 4s parental group: ru-vid.comGQgV6LgOaDI?feature=share

@YouveGotaType Год назад

The parental pattern overview: ru-vid.commnx5tLlJ3vc?feature=share