Sub-Conscious Brain - Part 1 - Complex Trauma 

Tim is incredible. He has a manner of speaking and presenting complex issues in such a comprehensive way. His messages are so interesting and informative. He has helped me to understand CPTSD so well through teaching me to have self-awareness finally, in my life. It’s imperative for recovery. His messages are realistic and very factual. I applaud his efforts and hard work in sharing his thoughts and experiences with us all. He puts his info out to those of us who need it, so generously. Thank God for him and a couple others who are as good as him but in a different way. They started me on my healing journey and pretty much saved my life. Tim’s speeches are special and so helpful. I keep learning from them. ❤

I just finished your series on anger. I would love to hear more about how to comfortable around someone else's anger or upset without trying to fix it or being negatively affected by it. This is a big challenge for me. I am wearing myself out.

I'm really thankful for your channel. I grew up in a very dysfunctional alcoholic home. I've done alanon. I have two siblings with ALD. I've dated toxic people. I've read and read and read. I suppose everyone is always a work in progress, but your info actually has info on how to heal! Not just educate myself on dysfunction. I know I am dysfunctional and working on me now instead of being in the midst of chaos. Took a long time to recognize my codependency, my toxic reactions, and boundaries. But I'm learning. It is painful but long over due!

So good to see this channel gaining subs more and more rapidly. Needs to reach a billion more.

Tim your channel has rearranged my understanding of myself and the reasons why my life was out of control and caused me so much pain. I’m in the healing phase now after 4 years of therapy your content is keeping me aware as I drop all of my personas and grieve the losses in my life

Thank you for sharing your insight 💜🙏 have been struggling with Complex PTSD since early childhood (am now 62). TIS a lifelong process & appreciate your channel 😊

☮️❤️ Greetings from Oregon! I thank God that he led me to find your channel! You are a most excellent teacher! Thank You,! ☮️❤️

Interesting start with the perceptual set stuff. I've healed a lot but still get some of that unconscious negativity bias kicking in more than I'd like. The learned associations thing is really hitting home. It doesn't feel good at all. I'm in therapy for it. Yoga helps. Forest helps. I'm also studying this in undergrad again. Hoping to take your coaching course when it's open.

In a world where people have to pay thousands for even a small peice of this info , putting it out for free on RU-vid will save lives. It's helped me understand some stuff I didn't know even existed in my brain . - someone who can't afford his sanity

Everything that was terrible in my childhood was red....worst was the red leather belt with which my mom used the very thick buckle to beat me when she was in a bad mood. Nothing had to be related to my behavior. Next was the horrible tasting red liquid phenobarbital I had to take twice a day for epilepsy. Not only did it taste horrible, but much of the time the spoon was a bit aggressively pushed into my mouth. Lastly I was forced to wear ugly red corrective shoes to correct flat feet. I was laughed at by my classmates all the years I was forced to wear them. I don't buy or wear anything red. I also don't buy belts. I just can't. It holds too much trauma. I am an odd person out here in St. Louis, MO the home of Cardinals baseball that I don't own any team related item because of the red. I also won't put pepper in or on anything or eat food like peppered bacon, pepper steak, etc. On a family trip to Florida when I was five we stayed in a condo owned by my dad's friend while he was away. I said something dad didn't like. He reached in the kitchen cabinet and grabbed a can of black pepper, held my mouth open, and dumped it in my mouth. Pepper is traumatic.

1st time that I've heard this. Very interesting. Truthful. Thanks ❤

Thank you for all that you do! Learning to understand thanks to you

"living is easy with eyes closed" Paul McCartney

❤❤❤much BLESSINGS from Germany ❤❤❤

Thank you Mr. Fletcher

beauty - thx Mr. Fletcher

Two to ten years. OMG. Yet, the alternatives are longer and harder.

I love you Tim! You are amazing

Just had a dentist appointment for teeth cleaning. Didn’t drink coffee or have pastries. Did half an hour zone 2 on an elliptical machine. Calm not hungry. Now making a meal. The cycle of coffee donuts and American eating out which is all crap pretend food - keeps me in the trauma.

Thank you so very much for your dedication and support. 😊

I really had to rejoin your channel because you are putting the pieces of all my learnings together. When you add the right words, phrases, and logic of what has been going on with me, you help me reach some of the major conclusions of my life! And a lot of the new ones are much more flattering to me than all the old ones.

Bias is so important to understand.

Thank YOU!

I love your teaching ability Tim. Thank you for blessing us with your gifts.

I did not realise I had some aspects of complex trauma till I happened to stumble upon one of your videos🙏

So good! I always relate this back to toxic Christian teachings and how it becomes so engrained in the subconscious brain that it becomes “normal” but causes so much damage. 😢

Meditation helped me observe the links on what surfaces from unconscious to awareness. Thank you ,amazing teachings .

My subconscious brain seems to me in control part of the time.

Hello Pastor Fletcher. please post the full video where you are in a black shirt with gold pineapples pattern

Thanks, Tim Fletcher❤

Fascinating, thank you!

You have just described in detail how the mind of our soul reasons based on taking impulses from our environment through our five senses to create emotions. We make decisions based on emotions and not reason. This is the mind of our soul. Yes our soul has a mind, a will and emotions, which need to come under the rule of the Spirit. What I’ve been wanting to understand is how our dreams trigger similar responses within the soul’s emotions. Because our dreams bypass the conscious mind. When dreaming our soul’s 5 senses get triggered, our emotions respond similar and independently as if conscious and aware of our circumstances. Just trying to figure it out… Things can be going well, but a bad dream can unleash a whole lot of unexpected and unwanted emotional responses. You think you’ve overcome certain things, then you are back to square one because of a bad dream.

Your are an excellent teacher!

This was a very good study

My family has it's own language built on these subconsious bits of information. An example: my sister was coming to borrow something. I'm an hour away so i asked her if she wanted to have lunch here. No, I'm too busy, I'll grab a burger to eat on the way. When the time came my husband asked why i was setting a place for her for lunch. It was obvious to me but I had to explain, she was going to get a burger. She HATES burgers. She said she was in a hurry because she didn't want me to make a big thing. We made a bet. Sure enough, she arrived, hadn't eaten anything and gobbled the sandwich greatfully. I've been married 53 years. My husband is a saint for putting up with his wife and in laws!

Mulțumim!

Where do we find surrogate families. Everyone has given up on me, and with good reason. There is just no one left and I don’t like church. I’m trying to get by daily by myself but it’s exhausting to move.

Tim did u teach a class in Kingston many years ago??

How does this fit with our knowledge that the eye also does not focus or even see most of what our brain interprets to be what we are looking at?

Wonder if spilling my guts in the comments is helpful? I spill my guts on News channel comments too. Then sometimes I go back and delete it out of embarrassment 🥴🤨🤔🧐🥺

What do you think about EMDR ? Thanks for your videos

Ethnicity makes no difference to my perception.. sadly simply jealous of the 5million house owner & sad/sorry/symapthetic for the homeless.. but I'm autistic & have noticed with other autistic folk that generally we see people as simply people & don't understand all the divisions 🎉❤

We would scatter and hide when we heard the car

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What do you mean by "...the person wasn't white but you find out that they're Russian? In your mind, what color are Russians then? What is a white to you that excludes other fair skinned people? What does that say about YOUR sub-conscious biases?

My trauma has made me a loser. I can't have new experiences because nobody will spend time with me.

These talks cause anxiety 😢

Probably NFL or NBA player or Oprah Winfrey or Beyoncé or Morgan Freeman. Maybe a personal injury lawyer. They make big money where I live.

Dear @cathywestholt5324 My heart is responding with sadness to know how cruelly you have been treated. You were an innocent child who deserved to be cherished and protected and made to feel safe and secure. What was done to you was wrong and reprehensible. It is so understandable how you react to the colour red, pepper etc., given how it relates to your history. l hope you receive all the informed trauma support you deserve to recover and heal.

Hey just so you know, you can say "black people/person(s)" - really hope this helps!!

An African Canadian. The guy who wrote this is a sarcastic amateur comedian want a be. Or I never thought of an African Canadian, it's always African American isn't it?

Why do everyone being in colour

My following comments probably prove that I deserved to be a victim of complex trauma?🥴

I don’t think that at all, about any poor person, no matter their background!

I dislike old spice

tons of people u subscribe cause he has member only video💩

40 million bits of data/second; how would anyone be able to assemble that finding? i dont buy these unproveable submissions, and what is the prophet of knowing such useless info?

my sleep is rarely restorative christianity is toxic. people should never worry about a fictitious place called hell.

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