I hope you can reach the point when u ll still gonna love them but find the courage to move on and to start heal8ng ur self. It doesnt ned to be a sad story. it happened for a reason and it ended for a reason. and you have all the right in the world to cherish those memories. even with the pain that will never go. but yeah don't look at it with bitter. it was beautiful be thankfull and god bless
I had a same problem, then I realized that you need to be surrounded by more good friends and you can count of them, then it is not such a big problem to loose another because we are loosing good and best friends, this is how it is and will always be. What we can do is invest this pain and use it for work more and harder. Be better ready next time is the best way what to do after everytime you get through this. Then it is like normal thing to you (If it happens again of course). But Im sure that after some experience, everybody knows what exactly to do next time.
Not only did she dump me at a very low point in my life, and i lost my best friend, but I lost a bunch of friends who sided with her. I was absolutely broken by the breakup because she also monkey branched to the "friend" I should not worry about within about a month. I initially was also very broken about the supposed friends that I lost but in time came to realize that no true friends will ever do that to you and understand now that "losing" them was a blessing. Believe me, in time, the fog starts to clear and you see things for what they are and when you do, that is when you start taking your power back
I literally wrote a list of everything bad in my last relationship immediately after the breakup, and I read it recently. My mind was blown away by the number of things I'd forgotten about. We really do tend to idealize people.
Breakups don't bother me anymore. It's the fact that finding consistent and honest people is becoming increasingly difficult. People are getting desperate and forgetting what it means to be a true human being. It's feeling lonelier and lonelier, even in a relationship.
Yep once you survive get pissed, goto the gym get jacked up, play guitar, overcome legal problems and other bullshit that I am not even going to get into. Yes breakups mean shit. All women just want it easy. They will never tell you this and because they are a woman they don't have too. Again you gotta be Alpha male and bring the truth out of them. What I have learned throughout all my years is the time, pain, sacrifice, that you invest in yourself to become a better person is the only guarantee to be successfully person. Everything is contemporary. Talk is cheap. Carrying your own weight, bettering self, and learning from your mistakes takes a lifetime. But yes I can totally agree more. Good people of character and in general are really really getting harder to find in this World where negativity is a constant. Be strong. Stand for your principals. Yes we fail but you get up, fix your problems, and let it be a life lesson for you to not fuck up. Otherwise you will be entraped in the cycle. The idea is you want to break from it and move foward and be an accomplished indiviual. When you look back you can tell yourself. Well at least I got to accomplish a dream against all odds.
I watched this a year ago, at the time the pain was unbearable and I lost all my will to live. For everyone reading this: I know it’s incredibly hard right now and it feels like there’s no way out but I promise that there’s light at the end of the tunnel♥️ I still think about it every now and then but the pain has faded. You can do this!
Hi, get anyone you love or(SP)attracted to you and also get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second Chance through the help of Dr BEN, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship also Dr BEN always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks
1 - Accept that the break up is the right thing and it's happened 2 - Accept that you can not control nobody except yourself 3 - Realize that you cannot invest your well-being in the perception of another person 4 - Learn to let go and move on 5 - Trust that the future is going to be OK for you Print this and put it by your nightstand.
I had the best man but because of insecurity I lost him, can’t live with myself. I miss him every damn day and my biggest wish in this life is us getting back together
Is he, like...a therapist now? I don't know what to think about people not knowing this very common knowledge like they have never been through a break up before.
@@TheSlong123 all I know is this video came at exactly the right time and helped me out. I've never been through anything like this before and the bit about the reality you made in your head together really hit me hard
@@TheSlong123 I think these kind of ideas come more easily to some than others, it depends on what kind of mental tools you've been granted through upbringing, environment etc. I personally find this advice very helpful and it's clearly helping others too.
The hardest pain about breakups is this : waking up in the morning. Especially if you happen to have a dream about your ex and everything seems realistic until you wake up in reality when nothing of that relationship exists anymore. I have been in a relationship for 8 years. After we broke up, I found a new girl and have been with her for almost a year and we ended up breaking up a few days ago. Same thing happens if you don't really take the time to heal guys. I realised that the only way to get better at this, is by waking up and instantly putting yourself in the beast mode. What is the beast mode you may say? Well, beast mode is when you open your eyes in the morning and see a beast and instead of getting afraid of it you attack it. The people who will understand this metaphore will get my point very quickly. Stay strong fellas, you got this.
Hi, How is your breakup. I have really good advice for you. It really works for me. Within 1 minute I overcame from my breakup. Let me know if you need my help. 100% work this trick. Thank you
ONE YEAR ON... I remember watching this a year ago when a 7 year relationship ended. I was a broken shattered man. I was crying everyday and could barely sleep. For anyone who is now going through the pain please believe it gets better over time. Despite not being ready for a new relationship I am over the heartbreak and you will be too. Please reach out to your support network. Please pursue activities your soul needs to live. Dont deprive your basic needs for mind body and soul. If you need medical help or a therapist please arrange it. I had 5 months of therapy which helped me immensely and saved my life. Stay strong everyone you will be okay I promise 😊
I’ve just found this post. I’m 7 months in and I’m a complete wreck. I can hardly sleep and I cry everyday. It’s bad cause we have a son, who I hardly see. So a double whammy of pain. It’s impossible to see a future right now. I hope it gets better. It helps hearing others that are pulling through.
@RskeDwg I'm sorry to hear. I promise things will get better over time. When you are able to try and spend time with your support network (friends and family). Get involved in activities you like such as a sports team. In time you will be okay I promise
Nobody is mentioning ages if your younger 18-35 it's always gonna be a little easier but when it's a break up and your in your 50's it's 100 times harder and the future is bleaker I'm late 50's and just came out of a 20+ year rationship and it's been 8 months and I'm still a fookin wreck and fearing the worst for myself and only my dog us stopping me.
Since the breakup with the woman I loved I’ve spent countless hours on RU-vid on many content creators and dating coaches but none have been more helpful than this. Simple and direct. Thank you Russel, you are a kind man
@@SonyCamry Stay off Facebook! Or at least have a friend put your settings so you don't see their updates or whatever. I quit using FB for about a year and the first time I got on it bam! Looked her up, found out she got married and I felt like ass for a whole month.
Thank you Russell. I’m going through a break up right now and I feel like I’m in absolute hell. The spiritual, emotional and physical pain is literally unbearable atm. I can’t see a way out and I’m terrified. I just hope one day I come out of this stronger. To anyone reading this and going through the same thing, I wish you nothing but all the strength and love in the world. Love you all. Peace ❤️
I watched this 6 months ago. Heartbroken about a toxic boy that didn't care for me.. Now im single and feeling better than ever. Stop settling for less, break up with that toxic person who is ruining your happiness.. Time heals wounds.. focus on yourself and your selfworth and everything will be okay.. May the universe bless you❤️
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@@1970anfield i was mentally breaking up with him while in a relationship... When you break up it's important to not have any contact and delete all pictures or anything that reminds u of them.. that will really help.. after that it's a roller-coaster of emotions but it will get better
I just broken up with the person I thought I would be with forever. She was genuinely everything I wanted in a person but after some time it became obvious that I loved her more than she loved me. I am so emotionally distraught and don't know what to do with myself. I didn't lose just a lover, I lost my second half. Thank you so much for this video. This is just what I needed to see and hear to help me move along in my journey, thank you so much.
I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Dr Steve,, who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance ,I will advise you seek out his help💌💌thanks
Dr Steve also helped me restored mine. I'm so much happy now ☺️😊🥳😇. I might know or not know what you are passing through, but I can assure you that if you are able to get in touch with him things will get better 😇. Sending you positive love and energy 💕👩❤️👩💕💕💓 You are always loved. ♥️♥️💗
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
I brought my ex emotional pain (I brought bad habits from a previous relationship over, which I regret not recognising that they were unhealthy) but she brought very little in that regard. I was the toxic one and it's hard to take, knowing you were the bad partner.
I'm trying to get back on the dating scene but it's very tough, starting over isn't easy, especially when you're conscious of it. But yes, I have almost forgiven myself, mostly because I know I'm a far better person now than I was then, and hopefully someday someone will reap the benefits of that. I hope you can give yourself the time you need to recover. You're obviously aware of your mistakes and that makes you a good person in itself. Don't rush anything, you'll get there.
@@PacificNWGrl You're welcome! When you begin to miss them give the list a check. You'll be surprised how much time helps you to forget. Don't allow that to happen. We always look back on the past with rose tinted glasses!
Going thru my first breakup of 6 years and 1 day. I’m not sure I will survive this, as it is the worst thing I’ve ever went through in my life. I’m not sure I have the strength to get thru life going forward. I cry myself to sleep every single night. Life has lost the meaning. I’m filled with bad thoughts, ruminations, guilty, sadness and emptiness. To whoever’s going through this, im so sorry you’re going through this and I would hold you and cry with you if i could.
It is excruciating and I'm sorry you're going through it. I am currently as well and struggling to sleep and function. It's the second time of breaking up with him and somehow its more painful. Right now, its ok to let it out, to cry and to mourn the loss of the person you loved so much, and the life you thought you would have had. I'm trying to talk to close friends and to express all the pain. Hang in there, we will get through this.
yesterday I ended up losing the love of my life because I was too controlling. Since then the pain I feel feels like it's going to kill me. Everything hurts, even my body hurts. I keep trying thoughts all the time about how I wish everything could go back to normal, but there's no way. How does anyone survive this? I'm so sorry you're going through this
Hey fabio, I hope you're doing okay buddy. It's okay to mourn and it's okay to feel what you feel. I've found the most important thing to remember in all of this is that you are responsible for how you feel. Although it may not be youre fault that you are where are you are, its important to remember it's your move next. Hang in there Fab, Try to stay positive. Dont beat yourself up too hard. You'll pull through, remember that.
My ex fiance and I broke up half a year ago and it's been hard trying to let go and move on after ten years together. This is just what I needed to see and hear to help me move along in the journey, thank you.
@@adelesmith7827 I'm doing good! Since commenting I've met some guys, and am currently dating a really great guy! Hasn't always been easy for us, but we've been working on things together and are making it through together. :)
To anyone feeling any sense of guilt after ending a relationship with someone who you found so hard to leave, remember - it is never your job to fix anyone. Each person is their own, and it’s our own duty to look after OURSELVES. How can you love someone if yourself is suffering in the process? Sometimes you have to hurt yourself by leaving, to then prosper in the bigger picture x
Just wanna say thank you, i am suffering to let her go and moving on cause i feel so much guilt for her. Cant stand if she wont be okey after we broke up
I've heard numerous success stories from friends who turned to Elowen Rasmusov for breakup counseling. Her reputation as a breakup specialist is well-deserved.
Wise words, thank you. Broke up with my boyfriend two days ago. Finally had the guts to be honest with myself and admit that I deserve more than I was getting.
@@io4317 I am doing really good now. Thank you for asking! It definitely was the right decision. After 7 months of radio silence, we talked again. We sometimes still text or call, but it's just that. Hope you're well! Have a good day :)
I never thought Russell Brand would be my breakup therapist 😂 yet here I am. Update: Two months later, after embracing these steps I've truly ACCEPTED my journey and I'm back to being myself.
This was so simple yet so helpful. Throughout my life, breakups have been the most triggering events for anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts. It’s so true that I idolise certain people and my relationships with them. I’m going to get back on antidepressants in the next couple of days to try to find that hope for the future again. I’m right here *virtually* holding hands with anyone else in this situation right now. I won’t give up if you won’t.
@@dangerscouser Yes, antidepressants can help. Make sure you do all the other things necessary too. Start working out, see friends and family, make sure you're happy in your job, consider looking for someone else to date. If you choose antidepressants, they do help. And they don't have to be with you forever.
It’s very difficult when everything in your life is falling apart and the only good thing you had to look forward to was your lover, and now they’re gone, and you have nothing.
Exactly how I feel…she was the one good thing, and my job, mental health, physical, legal, all collapsed. Life feels like a black hole…lucky I have one friend to support me through it. We got this right? Hope you’re doing better
This honestly helped me so much I recently got broken up with my ex boyfriend after he realized that his own personal issues were getting far worse to the point it was affecting us and our relationship. Not only that but I’m moving away for school. It sucks to think that after showering someone with so much love and support, it’ll never be enough when they have their own inner demons to deal with. I’m trying to stay positive and wish him the best, but it’s so hard to do when you saw them slowly lose feelings over time...
Crazy this one comment hit me different because this is literally what I am going through. Same exact story except I am a man and she was a woman, and man it really does and I tried everything to preserve it, it just hurts. I thought I was going to marry this woman!!
@@1970anfield right there with ya. its crazy but i found that the best way to me to not have it on my mind all the time is to not compromise on my work and to get into fitness. over the past two days its been better, as ive been hitting the gym hard and running outdoors. i find that im only thinking about her and the happy memories and the other intrusive thoughts when im not engaging my body and mind in shit thats productive and beneficial for myself. It's been a week, and its so hard. If you need to talk, I'm here along with many other people.
@@moistskipper thanks I did that too. Went for my usual 2 hour walks and blocked out any thoughts of him. About 7pm (his 7am), he texted. Made small talk and didn't talk abt anything serious. He said he was upset about his work and didn't want to explain and that he didn't 'leave'. Whatever it was, I realise I need to be prepared in case he does leave one day. Not to be on guard, but just learn how to cope If it happens. I tell myself it's his loss if he wants to leave me. I'm not perfect but when I love, I love all the way. Good and bad I guess. I'm glad you're hanging in there. So good to hear from so many ppl
According to experience, focus on something you LOVE - hobby or passion really helps. Putting your ENERGY into that rather than in the pain, can change EVERYTHING !
Remember guys, you never LOSE a breakup. Losing isn’t a term in the world of romance and love. Instead replace that word with “learning.” If you no longer have that loved one in your life, no matter the cause, you never lost. Learn from their mistakes or your own.
Everyone reading this you are a fucking animal use this pain to get better go to the gym, you’re heartbroken you have unlimited power and energy you gotta get up and boss up that girl you’re sad about is nothing compared to what you can be you’ve got this soldier I promise you never give up
I have learned the hard way that I have to be healthy by MYSELF FIRST, in order to have a healthy romantic relationship. I spent years searching and my desperation showed. I ended up in abusive relationships for a long time. I haven't been in a committed relationship in years while I worked on myself and I used to be someone who COULDN'T be alone. Now I'm ready to try again. I'm glad I waited and didn't continue to fill my life with just anyone to avoid loneliness.
Ah, a conscious mind. All the best to you. I too have felt like what you describe, and I was like a beacon for vampires (people who suck the life out of you) who just take advantage of you. If you are happy and content within your own space and mind, then you are ready. Now spread those beautiful wings of yours and show the world how wonderful you are!
@The viva warrior she might benefit from being in Sex, and Love Addicts Anonymous, SLAA. It helped me deal with some of the darkest reasons for why I couldn't be alone... That 12-step program is featured in Judd Apatow's Netflix show, "Love." The character Mickey goes there.
@The viva warrior you're so welcome. The show may be triggering so please keep that in mind. SLAA however, helped me deal with and heal some of my most unhealthy behaviors. Good luck to your friend. You're awesome to care for her so much.
Been single for 7 years. Had to respectfully decline advances from women, 2 recently in the last month, who work at the company I work for that all the dudes want, on the purpose that I'm trying to be a better man for myself and my future kids. Was in a train wreck of a relationship 7 years ago and slowly over the years have trying to build myself up. My parents had a toxic relationship all cause my father went out and cheated multiple times. My mother has only been with 1 man which is him. Friends and family members look at me perplexed when I tell them I'm not interested in being in a relationship, cause I'm still trying to mold myself on who I want to be as a man. I'm pretty broken inside from having a traumatic past, 27 years old and still growing. I find it truer each day when I read somewhere that if you're not comfortable being alone, you're not ready to have company. Sorry for the rant, just glad I'm not the only one lol
@Joel Majola right. I live in a new city and I have no idea what dating is like here. I'm in early recovery for food issues, so won't be dating at the moment. Need to put some real abstinence together first. Have you been in any 12-step programs?
Going through exactly this right now, it's such a desperate feeling of abandonment because we were just looking at the relationship completely differently, I never thought this would happen and the hardest thing at the moment is looking back and thinking of all the 'last times' because you never know and never think it's going to be the last time, you feel so lost, but now is about finding myself and becoming better, I hope anyone who is reading this does the same and finds a way to get back up!
if you see this, can you give me an update about your situation? its been +2 years since you posted that, i wonder how much time takes to heal a little bit the pain im feeling
@@NIKO-ul3ge That's exactly why I asked , I want to know if it's gets better . I ruminate all day every day (I have autism so it might be obsessive ) I'm exhausted from the mental torture 💔💔💔
@@Humbledone. broke up with my girlfriend about 3 days ago, after that i realized what was wrong about my part and that made our relashionship end, everyone say to me "use this as a lesson for the next person" but i dont want other person
What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You will agree in time if you don't at this present moment. If personality matches your natural beauty then you'll have no problem finding another person to love. Try to enjoy the roller coaster in the mean time. Life is too short.
Emma, it does get better. I went through hell 5 years ago, after being betrayed by someone I cared and loved so much. I still think of the person sometimes, but not as in the past. My advise, try going through the dating process, even if you have no desire to do it. But dont commit to any relation with a broken heart, unless the person is absolutely the one you have always been looking for.
I've literally watched this about 50 times sporadically over the last 10 months and I always come back to it when I feel the need to text her. I may not be all the way there yet, but you help me get a little closer each time. Thank you, Russell. Not only for this video, but for the wisdom and lessons you share throughout your channel. I hope I get to thank you personally someday, or that you at least see this, as I honestly believe you helped save my life.
Dr Frank can make your beloved come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
It's when they decide to "try again" which is code for sniffing you out and then deciding they were right NOT to come back and then leaving all over again - that's what I've just been through
My heart is broken ...the one I love has decided to not love me back after almost 6 years ... thank you for this video ...I know the medicine to take ,now I just have to take it :(
Thank you Dave I am doing that now 1 week in no contact , hitting the gym looking and feeling better and setting business goals and achieving them ! I do see the light at the end of a long tunnel
I just broke NC about 25 mins ago, good thing she has me blocked on VM and email, as once I sent it, I so fucking regretted doing it....thank god I'm blocked and that shit went to spam......she won't see it, think that I am not contacting her, she will eventually unblock me and never see my asshole insecure comments I made tonight....... sometimes being blocked works in your favor
I’m 48 beautiful and smart gal.. was married for 20 yrs. my life is complete in so many ways, but I won’t deny I miss a companionship sometimes 😆 not for sex bc that’s just a compliment aver all. But to talk to cuddle to tell this person , honey don’t worry I’m here for you.. I promise all will be just fine.. “ I’m loving 🥰 myself more and practicing a better life style, I am the light of my soul, I’m beautiful and I am blessed 🙏🏿thanks for reading though. Oh did I mention I look like a 40 yrs old cute woman and not almost 50? Thanks to my new and brilliant life style.
If you dated a girl or guy with NPD.. Just be glad you got out alive and WORK on yourself.. Sweat it out.. You'll be fine.. Zero contact.. Grey rock, what ever you wanna call it... Move on. You are better.
I think the term gets thrown around a lot. It would even be difficult for a professional to diagnose (In my opinion) let alone an every day person because a lot of cluster B disorders have overlapping characteristics. Not to mention the person might just be up themselves, or passive aggressive, manipulative, have those sorts of tendencies ect not necessarily a disorder. I think its more important to see the red flags rather than getting caught up diagnosing :)
I think everyone has narcissistic traits. Some are more outwardly narcissistic than others though. What defines someone as having NPD? How do you know you or I don't have it?
I just recently went through a pretty traumatic breakup about 2 weeks ago. And I visited my neighbor which I knew since I was a child. And I haven’t seen him in like 7 years. And the moment he saw me he gave me a big smile and hugged me with tears in my eyes I broke down and we started chatting and he gave me some grand advice that I hope helps anyone who’s feeling are just broken. You don’t know how to feel, “can’t sleep food has lost its taste”(thank you being as an ocean for that quote.) he told me that you have to set goals for yourself. Even make the littlest goal for you. Get out of bed. Shower. Anything. Make yourself feel accomplished cause you’ve already made it here. Maybe the person you were with was there but people change and for the worse or better you deserve nothing but someone who wants change but for the better always. I’ve lost my ways as well. But that doesn’t mean imma give up on myself. You’re an amazing person to whoever is reading this and please be your own best friend cause if you put that best friend into someone else that isn’t you it’s gonna hurt when they leave. So please keep going, keep breathing keep doing what you’re doing and improve anything you feel needs to be. You got this I believe in you if no one else does. We got this shit together. All of us. We are random strangers on the internet but with good hearts(most of us) so keep at it and I’m proud of you for doing literally anything today tomorrow and forever from then on! Goodnight and to whoever is still reading this you’re amazing!
Same here (but over my ex GF), it's been just over 14 months and I'm generally better now, but here I am, slipping this evening. Erch. Hope you're doing well now.
Best and realist part of this video is towards the end when you said as soon as you break up you start reminiscing about all the positives and forget about all the bad shit in the relationship! So true! Don’t forget how you got here!
My problem after a break up is that even tho there were some bad times I can’t think about any of them. I can only things about the good memories which makes me miss my now ex boyfriend. Also we didn’t argue and he treated me right. Which was nice. But I kinda think that it would be easier for me if he first made me hate him. Remember guys that having a partner is extra in your life. You’re able to have a wonderful life alone, and then when there is a right time you’ll meet the right person. You’re the only one to take care of yourself so do it and just keep your head up. I live by that rule: if you’re meant to be with someone- you’ll be with them. If you guys don’t work out then that person wasn’t meant to be yours. And there’s someone out there still waiting for you. Good luck you all. Be strong!
This is weird sharing my story with a bunch of people in a comment section, My ex girlfriend and I started dating when I was 14 and she was 15. We spent six beautiful years together growing, blossoming, understanding every feature of each other from top to bottom. We were children and we didn’t know what love meant and what love was but we did. We both came to terms that we understood we outgrew each other as lovers but were the best of friends. It wasn’t a feeling of wanting to be in love with anybody else but a feeling of regret to never learn who were as individuals. We both ended it on a good note but the pain and hole in my heart remains open like a freshly cut wound. I’m 21 years old now and am trying to learn more about me.. more about the world... more about people. Men’s mental health is extremely under prioritized. This video came in at the right time. If you read this, you’re not alone and you’re worth so much more. Love yourself. 💛
I’m in the exact same situation, almost 6 years together from 15 years old we’re now both 21 and with no signs at all she broke up with me 3 days ago because she wants to find out who she is as a person and doesn’t want a relationship anymore. The hardest thing is that it’s not something I want as we both always spoke about being together forever having a dream house and a big family, even a week before we spoke about those things. The hard part is trying to move on from all the good memories and going from chatting everyday to not at all. It will be hard to see her going ahead with life without me but as I told her I’m proud of where shes got too in life. Now I need to figure out how to get over her as I still love her very much
1 week passed since my so left me after being together for almost 6 years. I felt and still feel devastated since then. It just happened without any sings. When I get sad I come back to this video and remind myself that the things aren't as bad as I imagine. This video really helps a lot. Thank you for this.
Mine too, was a hard break up after 6 years. I didn’t wanna leave but he pushed me away, he started talking to another girl and that feeling sank even harder for me. I wanna know, are you okay now? Please reply ❤️
when i saw this a couple of days after a breakup, deep down i knew those things mentioned were right, but my brain just refused to accept it, it was like i couldnt believe in it fully, but now, almost a year later i can see and believe that all of these things he says are true
The thing that keeps us stuck in this gut wrenching heartbreak for so long is not accepting the break up. We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
My and my partner were together 6 years and broke up, I watched this video numerous times. 4 months later we spoke and got back together. I now feel that was the best worst mistake I ever made because 7 months later we are apart again and now I have to start this feeling all over again... I wish I had more self worth without her.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks..
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She left me nearly a month ago. Even though it was clearly my fault for why she left me, I had apologized and realized many time that it WAS my fault. She then after the breakup decided to take shots at me basically saying she was “too good” for me even though I knew I had taken her for granted and had apologized for doing so. She then requested I put down 20 reasons why she should take me back. I listed 27, she responded and said “wow, didn’t expect that” and that was all, completely disregarded the time I took to write out and think about things that would possibly allow me to have my ONCE special person back. Lesson learned, don’t let people play you, be better than them, realize if they can’t give you a second chance, it wasn’t meant to be and or you don’t deserve them if they cannot see how hard you are willing to try and make things right. Whether it was your fault or not, nobody deserves to be treated how I was, especially when I recognized my faults and issues and had apologized for them. It’s not meant to be if they cannot forgive you and see how hard you are willing to try and what you are willing to give for them, regardless of who caused the breakup.
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Wow. This hurts, been with a girl for 2.5years and we brokeup. I must say initially u feel like u can withstand the emotions. But it breaks u down. This is what i did I allowed my self to grieve and feel sad. For at least 30mins, in doing so. Picked up a hobby of recording my self on audio and accepting this was good for me. She brought the worst outta me and she never experienced luv the way i did. At the end of the day, i am the one who has experience luv in my life, i just experienced it with the wrong person. So be happy even if she was the one who asked for a breakup. Respect her decision and know that u have never lost luv. U just gave it to the wrong person. Pick a hobby, make an audio life log and put all what u going thru there. Your phone will never judge u. Do this for at least 2 to 3 weeks and i promise u. U will start seeing changes
It's so multi-faceted. The divisive energy that wants to cause chaos in relationships coming from disconnected younger parts, the breakup, the memories, and learning the lessons so the pattern does not repeat itself again. All of this is what needs to be looked at with love, a different perspective, and healing. 💛 Thank you for sharing so vulnerably in all of your videos. 💛
It's been almost 4 months since I left my then-partner, and it's been so incredibly difficult. This was the video I've been needing this whole time. Thanks, Russ.
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This is fucking hard, I miss her, and I don't know how someone that has received your attention, love, care,trust, faithful for years can suddenly say, it's over thanks for your time, like you were a disposable thing, it hurts very bad on every level, and I don't now what to do to get over, I tried but is overwhelming.
It's not helpful to demonise women, I'm sure they'd something similar about men. Hang in there though David. It doesn't feel like it, but it will get better...hopefully it already is, a bit, by now.
Im in the same situation. Dropped me like a stone a month ago. I already had mental health issues before and its extremely difficult. Women are cruel when they don't want you and when you still love them I don't think there is a worse feeling. I just miss loving her it gave me a lot of happiness, its true the love is within.
@@crikeymos22 Yeah, if you're a straight man and you get your heart broken, it's gonna be by a woman. Likewise with a straight woman and a man. There are plenty of crappy people of both sexes unfortunately! This whole 'red pill' thing, I hadn't heard of it before - another deeply disturbing conspiracy complex. Like Jim Morrison said, 'Women seem wicked when you're unwanted...'
Thank you Russel. I recently saw your quote about the passing of a parent, and how even in a perfect world it will happen. Your words have been so helpful to me. Thank you.
If you truly love someone, and if the breakup was your fault and you are aware and learned from your mistakes, fight for love but remember fighting for love is only possible with surrender. Fight till you either fix it or realize it is not in your power at all.
It's been 6 days since being broken up with, it's such a stange process between the pain, anger and confusion. And yeah, letting go of the idea of the future with that person is so hard as you get older. Feels like you wasted years of your life. I know most likely I'll meet someone else, but it's the idea of having to show them who you are, investing more time, only for what...what if it doesn't work out? Makes me so sad. I also live across the world from my family and friends, and so mainly rely on phone calls for support. The loneliness is hard.
I’ve been watching this repeatedly for 4 months. Just when I think it’s getting better, it feels like it gets worse. This definitely helps in the moment though. Thank you, Russell.
I got a little distracted by how his mustache connects to the hair inside his nose.. But anyways, I'm going through the most difficult breakup I've ever had, it literally HURTS, take away my strength, my energy, even my willingness to eat.. Damn, how come I miss her so much =(
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Just lost a girlfriend and my best friend of over 3 years through an email formatted text. We had a future planned and I've been ripped apart. This helped. Thank you
Hey Jon. I gotta know how you're doing. I'm in the exact same boat right now. 3 years in. She was my best friend. She was my everything. We had plans and ambitions. What's happened to you since? How long did it take to overcome?
@@twinblade63 Hello Melon Head, Took me awhile to get over it. Try and focus on yourself and do things that will make a positive difference. It helps trust me. Turns out we may be getting back together. Being civil with your ex allows for that opportunity. Thanks for your interest good luck with yourself
@@Mc.Jonalds I really appreciate your response after all this time. Glad to hear you're in good shape. You're absolutely right - keeping busy and working towards something positive for myself has been the ultimate healer. I did stay civil with my ex, we parted on what I'd call "good terms" (no mean/angry/vengeful insults or actions taken on either side - it was basically pure sadness, more than anything, for both of us), so who knows what may happen in the future. What I know now is that I'll be alright either way. All the best to you
Thanks Russell. my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday and today has been the hardest. Never cried so easily and repetitively, but what you said made sense. Thanks mate x
Going through a rough moment right now, I'm coming back to this video anytime I feel down or think about her, just to remind myself of what's important. Thanks Russell
Russell is a lovely human being. Really wonderful of him to make this. I wish I could send this video to an earlier me. I totally went the "Oh no, they were perfect, what am I gonna do?" type direction for a long time. Remembering the best bits only, and waving aside the real problems.
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4 yr relationship is over. What’s crazy is I’m the one who ended it. It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I’m 41 she is 32. She wants kids and I don’t so I had to walk away. The hardest part is the morning when I wake up. As soon as my mind connects with my body the anxiety hits. I’ve lost 13 lbs in one month from not eating. I’m sorry to whoever is in this pain right now. You’re not alone and trust me, as much as you’re thinking of your lost partner, they are thinking about you too.
You arent alone and will get over this ! I am in a 2 year + r/s with my current gf and i found this video because i had sudden flashbacks of my ex whom we ended things almost 4 years ago and i had so many memories of her, and all i had for good memories that flocked in my head whilst i discarded the bad ones
My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday, our reasons are the same as yours pretty much, I wanted to build with him and have a family but he wasn't ready. I have this pain and tightness in my chest that hurts so bad 😢
Thank you Russel it’s been a dark night in my life and lost the father of my baby in my belly but I at the serious end of a series of troubling relationships, it a nice to hear the right words from a familiar and much loved English celebrity ❤❤❤ one that gives actual wisdom
One night, after an argument that took like 5 to 6 hours, I was feeling terribly exhausted. Started thinkin about what is best for us, but genuinely. I came to a realization that it was impossible to work it out at this point in time, with that version of ourselves. It wasn't a one night decision, you know, it was a 1.5yr relationship :'. We made the breakup talk in tears for hours, hugged each other maybe for the last time, said goodbye to each other with love and graditude... Maybe, in future our paths will cross again. I'm really struggling rn since it is so fresh. I'm missing him a lot... I terribly wonder if he is okay... I also feel so lost. I was so focused on this relationship that I became so distant to myself. I don't know what is "myself" anymore, you know... It's hard but I believe that "everything will work out in the end". One day I will start to feel ok by myself. I'm gradually healing each day.
Well at least you had a breakup conversation for hours. I got nothing, zero breakup talk with her. No words of warning. I just was discarded as a piece of garbage. Trust me, that's the worst kind of pain that you'll never know. Even so, I've managed to find another chance to be happy with other person. And I will try again, and again, and again... until I find happiness or there's no more people to try. I am a warrior and nothing can destroy me!!! 🙂
@@joemarz2264 It's literally a fight and we are warriors. I cant say "it's a journey, time heal" etc. Cuz what kind of journey is it, I cry everyday, forcing myself to do daily stuff? Congrats bro, i really admire you. breaking up without knowing anything why, without a sensible reason would be terribly confusing and mind killer. i would think about it constantly. it must be hard to go through. glad you're doing well now. We broke up for good, but i knew that it would hurt like hell and it does. But i'm still fighting. I hope i can have a stronger mindset and find some peace one day.
i feel very scared of that i'm gonna die all alone and no one won't want to be with me, no one will accept me completely. but what keeps me going is the hope and my passions/dreams.
This video has been helping me to let go of the future that will not be. It feels like a lead weight of pain is where my heart should be, but I’m so proud of how strong I’ve been. I’m so so sad, but every day will hurt a tiny bit less and I’m so excited for the opportunities that lay before me.
I think it's great that you look up to Russell;I do too. Please remember that your soul is your own guru. Russell Brand does a lot of Kundalini yoga. Check it out. Even if you don't want to do the physical yoga you may resonate with the mantras. Love your way...
Whilst in the midst of all the chaos and pain that a break up seems to have brought me, I turned to Google and RU-vid for advice and wisdom on how to deal/feel and navigate my way through a breakup. I discovered Russell's video...a lot of it hit home. I started typing out this comment, then had to click back to see if Russell had one L or two, lost everything I'd already written and that was enough to set me off crying again, good grief. Then I read Hamza's comment and off I went again...all practicality and logic goes out the window when so tender and raw....love you lot for sharing your pain and reality...May we all be strong enough to find our next steps...
I have watched this video many times 2 years ago, My advice is= In time, You’re gonna be alright. In time, you’re going to realize that your life isn’t over, you realized that they are not perfect, and neither do you. In time, you will heal! In the words of Russell, you are worthy of love. God bless you guys 👍🤜🏻
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Thank you more than words can express. 2.40 of your wisdom is what I needed to hear to start living the rest of my life. Much love and respect to you Russell and to anyone else that reads this ❤❤❤
My wife just left me after 6yrs together. I just lost my mum to cancer, my two sisters are estranged since losing my mum and my work colleagues used to bully my wife which made me isolate them. So my life pretty much fell apart and then my wife left me, which was the cherry on the cake. She’s now started a smear campaign to finish me off as she’s taking me for as much as she can gain, and I just want to move on and forget her completely. I truly believe she’s a narcissist and hasn’t loved me for a very long time. What a way to learn a lesson!
happy to say I'm one the lucky ones that rid themselves of heartbreak within minutes of understanding what this video truly means. you have to find it deep within yourself to accept and appreciate what was at the time it happened and to not regret it but most importantly you have to open the oppertunity to move foward because it's always there. although I still have some sour feelings and regrets. you have to know the difference between having love for some and being in love With someone. and if your anything like me please don't make your happiness dependant on someone else's company because when they disappear and they will eventually, then and only then will you realise that it's not her love that you are craving and needing, its the feeling that you are unworthy of any love at all. Once you know the difference deep within you can then forgive and forget. even if you don't know me just know you are worth all the love in the world and trust me the future will be kind to in time if you let it.
1:54 is absolute truth and it’s so hard to break that cycle. And it’s so true what he says use that opportunity to better yourself while the pain is in you. No better motivation. THANK YOU RUSSELL!!!!❤
This is a helpful and an incredibly concise dose of the main components of moving on healthily I believe. I reckon Russell probably did a load of those bad things mentioned in that documentary, but this is a great demonstration for why he mustn’t be cancelled or rated as a completely bad person. He is complex and contributes a lot of good to the world as well. Just a fallible human.
What helped me somewhat, when I tought I would never be as happy, is picturing a 80 years old single me that is content with life, enjoys it and has several deep friendships. He has done and become what I want and is fond of past relationships, even though they didn't last. Actually not a bad worst case scenario.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
@@joanaferreira7712 Agree, so far its been a week since "the fight". And a couple of days of not knowing of her, given her some time. Septiembre 1 we are going to see, something I asked for, just to talk in person. I hope you are doing ok, and should do something about the sleeping pills
@@roquevelasco2605 that's funny, because I asked to see him one last time too, I don't know when or if that's going to happen. If she's the one for you then you'll work things out, if she's not the one, just know that you're going to be fine.
It’s been 2 months and I hurt just as much as I did the first day. But you’re right. I don’t think I’m worthy of much and put people on a pedestal. I can’t truly be happy until I love myself 😔
Genuinely prior to the break up there was nothing about the relationship or my partners personality that annoyed me or I didn’t like - was beautiful inside and out. Prior to the break up everything was really good and I was happiest I’ve ever been. 10 weeks on and I still feel the same if not worse about it all and can’t see a way that this will go away anytime soon. This was my first and only ever love and I was seeing them for 4 years - I just don’t know what to do with myself.
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
The worst is realize what he said in the begining, all the plans for the future have to be undone. Sometimes the time passed and all the good energy and possibilities was wasted with the wrong person. And that time will never be recovered.
