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Surviving Wrong Treatment At Church As A Young Boy 

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Today on Unfiltered Stories, Wendell Wilson shares his journey of breaking the silence on his childhood trauma. Growing up in a Catholic family deeply involved in the church in Granada, Wendell was subjected to CSA by a church leader for 12 years. The trauma left him scarred and he only found the courage to openly discuss it with his family at the age of 48 due to feelings of shame and embarrassment. Join us to hear Wendell's powerful story of overcoming deep-seated pain and healing.
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@EveDallas
@EveDallas Месяц назад
Parents need to stop being so trustworthy just because a mf is involved in "the church"😡
@prayersofrighteousness
@prayersofrighteousness Месяц назад
AMEN!!!
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII Месяц назад
💯💯 Right 😔😔
@ashajeremiahqw8775
@ashajeremiahqw8775 Месяц назад
Especially if they wish evil on the parents
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII Месяц назад
@takitalegrand8893 My goodness 😭😭😭
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
thank you, some of the worst people i have known, are in church every time the doors are open, some of the kindest people i have known have never set foot in a church.
@SongSingsSoprano
@SongSingsSoprano Месяц назад
My older cousin taught me about molestation when I was VERY young. He put it in a way where it wasn't sexual at all. He pointed and said, NOBODY is allowed to touch you here, here, or here (meaning my vagina, butt, or breast.) If they do, you tell me, your mom, or another adult. NOBODY is allowed to take your clothes off, except my mom or his mom (my aunt). If anybody else tries to, you tell them you have to ask my mom first.
@sheambitious29lachelle17
@sheambitious29lachelle17 Месяц назад
I like that! glad you were taught
@thefreequency
@thefreequency Месяц назад
My heart aches for the little boy in him. He deserved better, he deserved protection and kindness. I can't imagine how that moment must have shifted his world. Sending him healing energy 🫶🏾
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
some of the worst people i have known, are in church every time the doors are open, some of the kindest people i have known have never set foot in a church.
@bigjsmamabear3629
@bigjsmamabear3629 Месяц назад
Parents are responsible for this. Quit leaving your kids with ppl.
@jaeeluv
@jaeeluv Месяц назад
💯‼️💔😤
@shebakesitluv9832
@shebakesitluv9832 Месяц назад
‼️‼️‼️
@ceceprincess4758
@ceceprincess4758 Месяц назад
Pp ? People are everywhere. Can't get away from ppl being around your kids
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
quit trusting church people and assuming they are ''good people''
@mks6148
@mks6148 Месяц назад
Absolutely! Parents are not stupid. A lot of times they know and see signs but don’t feel like protecting their child because they don’t want to lose some sort of “social capital”. Selfish parents!!
@user-vj9oz7fx2e
@user-vj9oz7fx2e Месяц назад
No child should ever have to go through these kinds of things. I hope he is healing psychologically.
@moniquem3738
@moniquem3738 Месяц назад
I hope this man didnt lose his faith because of a sick person in the church
@WeshCarroll-Smith-tc9oj
@WeshCarroll-Smith-tc9oj Месяц назад
NO CHILD ‼️ I was jus talk'n about that FACT wit a very gud friend of mine💯🙏 It'z byond sad, it'z PATHETIC
@WeshCarroll-Smith-tc9oj
@WeshCarroll-Smith-tc9oj Месяц назад
NO CHILD ‼️ I was jus talk'n about that FACT wit a very gud friend of mine💯🙏 It'z byond sad, it'z PATHETIC
@taemac10
@taemac10 Месяц назад
The sad thing is that this happens in plenty of families but the adults turn a blind eye or don't get their children help after they have been assaulted. They hold these secrets until they die which is very evil!
@evonza4858
@evonza4858 Месяц назад
😘🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@mobates89
@mobates89 Месяц назад
This is why I teach my children just because a person is an adult and they are the authority idgaf about nun of that. You are the child no adult should be being anything inappropriate to you or any child.
@Queen_-gg5jn
@Queen_-gg5jn Месяц назад
Healing hugs 🫂 Thank you for having the courage to share your story , so sorry this happened to you 🙏
@debbieb1320
@debbieb1320 Месяц назад
This is so heartbreaking. All that he endured at the hands of these evil monsters.
@visaormastercard
@visaormastercard Месяц назад
I suffered abuse in school & in the family setting. I attended church. That was the 1 place it didn't happen. I believe you all survivors that suffered all types of abuse. & I'm So sorry you all endured this. 😢😠🤬🤬
@Bailemos888
@Bailemos888 Месяц назад
Im so sorry this happened to you. Never blame yourself for whatever you felt, you were a child. too many of these leaders take these positions to be close to kids.
@danapuk1922
@danapuk1922 Месяц назад
Just under 2mins in and I am broken for you. A big hug and God's healing rest upon you.
@crissylacolebestlife
@crissylacolebestlife Месяц назад
Thank you your testimony. I prayed for and many others that were victimized by that devil.
@whitneyhouston1122
@whitneyhouston1122 Месяц назад
Oh my gosh this is not okay, I can hear in his voice he's traumatized. I feel so bad for him, no one should ever feel like this especially in the Church! People need to stop trusting everyone just because of a title it's not okay. If someone comes to you and tell you they've been touched, believe them. Who would make that up? He's in my prayers.
@abbakaastralboobaby
@abbakaastralboobaby Месяц назад
I was constantly SA'd by a very popular and highly respected pastor as I worked for the Council of Churches of Greater Washington. The man SA's me at the end of a job interview, right after he told me I had the job. ironically, my mother was downstairs waiting for me... I was really torn because I really wanted a job and here he was hiring me but I was in total shock and disbelief that this man did what he did in his office like it was nothing to it.... At the time, I was fresh out of high school and even though I was barely 18 at the time, I knew that causing a scene or telling anyone would bring problems to me because I understood the unspoken code in the black community and that is to never speak ill of a Pastor or Reverend, whether what's being said is true or not, so we can only imagine how crippling it is for a prepubescent to tell anyone. I am a totally different person today - I will call out anybody's BS; especially if it's involving the harming of children and the weak. Thank you for sharing your story - sadly, these things are far more common than we think!
@FreeThinkingLone
@FreeThinkingLone Месяц назад
I am a man as well, I was SA' d in foster care at the age of 9 by a 19-year-old woman almost every night. You are right it does affect boys.
@dianahdeborah816
@dianahdeborah816 Месяц назад
This is so scary! 😱
@CindyEsquivel-mw3mu
@CindyEsquivel-mw3mu Месяц назад
Oh baby I am so sorry that happened to you. These monsters don’t realize that these sick things they do to children stay with these children for the rest of their lives. And I don’t care how young they are, they DO remember!!! I KNOW!!!!! I pray this sweetheart finds peace in his life and knows he was in no way at fault for this happening to him. May Father God give him an outpouring of blessings over his life for telling his story🙏🏼❤️
@user-ps3yl2dc5w
@user-ps3yl2dc5w Месяц назад
People needs to stop with religious community, if you believe in God, you can have a good relationship with the Lord within be parts of a community. The most important is the relation you have with God and not a community, and a lot of parents forgets that and don’t protects their childs. I wish you the best, I wish you the Healing 💓
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
some of the worst people i have known, are in church every time the doors are open, some of the kindest people i have known have never set foot in a church.
@user-ps3yl2dc5w
@user-ps3yl2dc5w Месяц назад
@@Shannonbarnesdr1 I agree with you 💯 I have an other religion but they are the same !!!
@jobiepatrick6150
@jobiepatrick6150 Месяц назад
The mind bending abuse you went through cracks your brain and a young child absolutely cannot handle what happened to you and the fact that you are speaking out is amazing! These people know how to manipulate little kids please do not ever blame yourself, you spoke about it when and how you could and that’s it don’t second guess yourself💪💪🙏🙏🥰🥰👏👏
@margaretneanover3385
@margaretneanover3385 Месяц назад
Stay strong , well and justify enough to get better past others lack of respect
@kitt7477
@kitt7477 Месяц назад
Children are very shy & scared to speak up; scared to bring attention to so called “trusted” people; afraid to be the one to get an adult in trouble. Its the responsibility of the parents to get involved in every aspect of their child’s life, be nosy, be open with their children; investigate people they are spending time with.
@ceceprincess4758
@ceceprincess4758 Месяц назад
True
@Freeme2024
@Freeme2024 Месяц назад
Thank u for sharing
@tamikopearson6876
@tamikopearson6876 Месяц назад
Really appreciate you sharing your story and getting the word out to parents that might be too trusting!! ❤
@aaishatillman7991
@aaishatillman7991 Месяц назад
I just want to hold him and let him know I got your back we in this together we strong God will get that creep
@Shannonbarnesdr1
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Месяц назад
some of the worst people i have known, are in church every time the doors are open, some of the kindest people i have known have never set foot in a church.
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII Месяц назад
I'm so, so sorry. Thank you so much for your courage and sharing your testimony. Wishing you healing and the absolute best that life has to offer.💖
@virginiasantillan2267
@virginiasantillan2267 Месяц назад
Church should always be a safe place for children and adults and if your experience was to the contrary I want you to know that whoever hurt you was not doing God’s will period and I am very sorry you went through that and I hope you know that God’s will is for us to be Happy and Flourish and we as Christians are supposed to help each other and Do No Harm Ever and Please Trust That Jesus Loves You and if pin a church where you are not feeling Love get out and keep looking and God Will help you
@lokeyme4662
@lokeyme4662 Месяц назад
I couldn’t even finish watching this bc it hurts my heart & honestly I just can’t take it anymore!! Hurting children, the racism, the gun violence, abusing the elderly, etc….church leaders, cops, teacher, day care employees…. My adult children are so right! They don’t wanna have children bc there are more predators than ppl that care about children!!! LORD I’m about to cry!!! GOD help us all! In JESUS name!
@thereasagreen2685
@thereasagreen2685 Месяц назад
I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your testimony!
@tiadekattu9096
@tiadekattu9096 Месяц назад
God Bless You🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@XSmoochies
@XSmoochies Месяц назад
Sorry this happened to you , I’m happy you are speaking about it and dealing with it so you can start to heal . Thank god you didn’t let that stop you from starting a family or hating God. you are strong just protect your child.❤️❤️❤️
@kathylazarou4285
@kathylazarou4285 Месяц назад
Thank you for speeking. Iv lisened to a lot of courageous people like you speek out about this very prevalent evil act, & you made me think really hard about my son. We really dont kw what goes on at schools as they are away for hours in the day. Thank you for this & i am very sorry that you had to experience this❤
@sharndawg007
@sharndawg007 Месяц назад
So sorry to hear this happened to you! Absolutely heartbreaking! How dare these monsters steal your innocence and make you feel so terrified, lost and unsafe in this world! I am so sorry then that your family chose to protect the church rather than help you to heal! 💔
@shanny946
@shanny946 Месяц назад
Sending love 💕
@kayceetaylor2151
@kayceetaylor2151 Месяц назад
Poor kid! That's horrible in every possible facet! I want to hold that young boy and tell him he never has to go back to that awful church again. Then, i want to make sure that awful pastor, or whatever he was, never had an opportunity to hurt a child again in this life. What a monster! It is obvious that he has been ruining children's lives for a long time! 'Out, out! Damn spot!'
@shadowboxcat
@shadowboxcat Месяц назад
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story.
@wanya_telborn
@wanya_telborn Месяц назад
Sweetie church is not a safe place for anyone 😢❤
@gayjesus4461
@gayjesus4461 Месяц назад
it never was
@ceceprincess4758
@ceceprincess4758 Месяц назад
Neither are bars and clubs
@shontanaegreen_lpc
@shontanaegreen_lpc Месяц назад
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending love and light 💜
@deborah5209
@deborah5209 Месяц назад
All I can say is ….. THANK YOU FOR YOUR TRUTH!!!!!
@OneGoodWoman84
@OneGoodWoman84 Месяц назад
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Most predators find positions in schools, churches, or communities to pretend that they live children but they actually prey on them. I 🙏🏾 God gives you healing. I'm not catholic, but the church isn't to blame but they need to start exposing these ppl more, and stop covering up their actions.
@raginbaby
@raginbaby Месяц назад
I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through. I hate that people warp the word of God in the most horrific way and abuse their power against children. You’re so brave to share this with us and shine a light on this issue 💖💖💖
@donaldewert2332
@donaldewert2332 Месяц назад
I have been so done with church. I dont need one to get to God 🙏
@user-hf7pk1ri1f
@user-hf7pk1ri1f Месяц назад
This man violated an innocent child and abuse his authority I pray the Lord heals him deliver and set free. He is the broken heart and bind their wounds. Thank you for sharing your testimony.
@Eye2C33
@Eye2C33 Месяц назад
Such a shame they defended the church!!!! So common….. such hypocrites. I’m so sorry this happened, you didn’t deserve any of this.
@melissakee6821
@melissakee6821 Месяц назад
👀Thank you for sharing, take courage, people REALLY UNDERESTIMATE HOW SITUATIONS LIKE THIS EFFECS THE REST OF YOUR LIFE LITERALLY ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS!, By only Gods grace I’ve been healed and helping others to heal!, God bless everyone and please stay safe!🙏🏾🙏🏻🙏🏽🙏🏿🌎😇
@dionneking8
@dionneking8 Месяц назад
Love and healing
@Tanya-ig5lz
@Tanya-ig5lz Месяц назад
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I am Praying for you! 🙏🙏💞
@cocohodge2962
@cocohodge2962 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry you went through this. I applaud you for sharing your story. Children don’t always have the language to tell what is happening to them or even know that it is a crime. You are giving them the language and the knowledge they are not alone. This is a courage act.
@genniejefferson6588
@genniejefferson6588 Месяц назад
You’re a brave man to do this and good for you.
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Месяц назад
Lots of people hide behind bibles and church its amazing how much goes on and no one address it
@teuilawilliams
@teuilawilliams Месяц назад
I am zo sorry hearing your story man what a horrible experience 😢 i am so glad i never let my kids out of my side and force them to go to these what so called church how sad using poor God and Jesus's names to coverup these evil actions in there 😢 😞
@bodaciousandunapologetic6209
@bodaciousandunapologetic6209 Месяц назад
My pastor has a saying, “don’t check your brain at the door when you come in this church for, Sunday services and/or for classes here. Because if there is something that I say or do on this pulpit and it doesn’t agree with the Bible , you speak up”. My mother would often say to my siblings and I, “ the moment I became a mother I no longer had the luxury of being naive in this world and I adopted the instincts of a well trained guard dog to protect my children.”
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Месяц назад
I wouldnt trust these pastors either though😅
@jaeeluv
@jaeeluv Месяц назад
Damn... 💔
@adirayasharahla984
@adirayasharahla984 Месяц назад
I can see the pain in his eyes
@sentfromheaven2056
@sentfromheaven2056 Месяц назад
I am so sorry
@Itsme-m5o
@Itsme-m5o Месяц назад
It’s sad that so many children have been SA 😢
@kimberlyhuff9617
@kimberlyhuff9617 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry
@stephaniejemerson
@stephaniejemerson Месяц назад
🙏 💕
@trives99
@trives99 Месяц назад
It’s crazy how NONE of these churches (cults) genuinely talk about and teach the Bible…. That’s how u know it’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing and u need to run. It’s sad how parents continuously fail their child… when all they had to do was open their eyes and wake tf up.
@samanthafisher5481
@samanthafisher5481 Месяц назад
❤❤❤
@deborah5209
@deborah5209 Месяц назад
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!!!
@adirayasharahla984
@adirayasharahla984 Месяц назад
The Catholic Church has so many stories like this. Why are we trusting these people
@jennasorscia9044
@jennasorscia9044 Месяц назад
🤗🤗🤗
@dorissykes8469
@dorissykes8469 Месяц назад
💔💔♥️
@bunmiaghahowa8409
@bunmiaghahowa8409 Месяц назад
That teacher was a real monster evil, even having a family of his own. Catholic Church has been a platform for such indecent, evil acts because of the reverence that is meant for God is given to ordinary humans. The abuser misrepresented God and any form of authority in a child's life. I was abused as a child. I can relate to what you feel. It really messes up a child's life
@allthingsnatural3882
@allthingsnatural3882 Месяц назад
Wow this needs to stop!
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Месяц назад
Omg😮🎉😮
@rebeccaoprea9917
@rebeccaoprea9917 Месяц назад
Anything can be used for good or evil; religion, technology, education, government, medicine, etc
@1QYITSTORM
@1QYITSTORM Месяц назад
I pray you seek counseling. I shall add you to my prayers
@dwainebrown7108
@dwainebrown7108 Месяц назад
Yes my brother I am with you 100%I also was a victim being molested as a young child grew up in a catholic church, comun,all of what you said, and this happened to age of adult hood back then for me this was 1970s and we were not able to tell lies on the church or tell your parents u don't want to go ,also grew up in Presbyterian church where, the pastor,so called , would tell the boys come over to his house for choir practice, after rehearsal, he would get two or three boys and say let's take a Pic and then would say take your shirt off, and , then take pics and get two of us ,the boys and make us have sex with each other and this pastor would pay us like young male cookers and I was 12 ,years old ,more to the story and could not tell nobody, also being bullied at the same time then after a while I thought it was normal, didn't have nobody to talk to and it messed me up for life, brother stay strong and remember that it's not your or our fault ,I'm 62 years old now and trying not to let that bad spirit have a hold on me, thank u young man just try to channel that energy to something positive, let's help others in this darkness as much as we can😢😢😢
@thefreshprincessofeverywai4302
@thefreshprincessofeverywai4302 Месяц назад
I am a girl and I was sexual assaulted at 3 years old but I feel like it's harder for boys than girls so I tell myself tht is nothing! Just within the month I went to the library and looked up books on male on male sexual assault. Sadly as common as this is there is little resources especially on black boys. But if u find it more so on gay males like tht book for colored boys...when a rainbow is not enough. I'm like what about the book on boys tht r groomed n have not turned tht route and tried to have a wife and kids n live normally. It's soooo hard to find information even online😢blogs and whatnot. I dont get it cuz it's happens all the time n I feel sorry tht boys don't have what we girls have (books, groups, mentors, resources etc.) I would pay someone a hefty check to start tht. It would give me strength even tho im not a boy of SA. Smh😢 dieing to hear more stories.
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Месяц назад
Yikes😬😬
@ddub2801
@ddub2801 Месяц назад
Was him mom Jamaican? Or Haitian, I bet.
@cynthialake3994
@cynthialake3994 Месяц назад
Be careful of mentors, everybody don't have your best interest
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Месяц назад
Mmm hmmmmm,they prey too👀👀
@1_John_2_27
@1_John_2_27 Месяц назад
I was so happy to find out that God and Christ have absolutely nothing to do with any religion that includes Christianity.
@MSSHARIII
@MSSHARIII Месяц назад
Makes sense.
@yemedemure414
@yemedemure414 Месяц назад
Religion isn’t for nobody!!!! Just be a believer in God and Christ and the Scriptures. B.I.B.L.E. Basic Introduction Before Leaving Earth ❤❤❤
@christinanevils3376
@christinanevils3376 Месяц назад
not at all good, I'm sure it's happened to many times!
@cassandradennard6323
@cassandradennard6323 Месяц назад
These men pick and mess up young boys life just ashame hope You continue with a better and heal life in Jesus Christ 🙏
@user-zs6qf7ob6h
@user-zs6qf7ob6h Месяц назад
Evil speaks the name of Jesus also. I got so tired of people telling children and adults that experienced this to just pray to Jesus about it because there is power in the name. “devils flee at the name of Jesus.” It dawned on me the people violating children also pray to Jesus in Jesus name before, after, during their pedo activities.
@enigmaticladypisces3169
@enigmaticladypisces3169 Месяц назад
These are my exact thoughts!!! Thanks for sharing!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@prayersofrighteousness
@prayersofrighteousness Месяц назад
Really ridiculous
@bajanyaoikaizer6902
@bajanyaoikaizer6902 Месяц назад
It amazes me how priests and higher ups in religion can do all kinds of wickedness to innocent lads and get away with it; but two innocent dudes holding hands or kissing and it has this abhorrent, disgusting thing that everyone has to get up in arms about. Men stay away from the church and faith; instead be free, atheist, agnostic, faithless and scientific; and may this dude have strength and peace.
@1_John_2_27
@1_John_2_27 Месяц назад
God hates all religions, it's written in their own scripture books and in the rejected scriptures as well, but they won't teach anyone that in Sin-day school, it's unprofitable.
@Texas_Made_
@Texas_Made_ Месяц назад
😮😮😮😮😮,they arent ready for this 🎉
@enigmaticladypisces3169
@enigmaticladypisces3169 Месяц назад
What was the purpose of this happening to him? Why wasn’t he protected when he was on “church” “holy grounds” according to meddling Christians! WTF Do crazy religious people have to say about this??????? Smfh
@georgina4874
@georgina4874 Месяц назад
That's sad. 🩵 No sanctity in the church.
@samanthafisher5481
@samanthafisher5481 Месяц назад
❤❤❤
@CJ-xg6ii
@CJ-xg6ii Месяц назад
💜💜
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