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First the trans-vestigators came for Keanu Reeves, and I said nothing because he didn't seem to care about it. Then they came for Margot Robbie, and I said nothing because it didn't seem like she had even noticed. Then they came for JK Rowling, and I laughed my whole ass right off 😆
@@josefinarivia it is! In retrospect it does strike me as maybe glib, even a bit disrespectful(?), which is unintended but I still hope it's taken in the right spirit
I think Keanu Reeves is the kind of guy to take it as a compliment. He literally does not care. Man he got asked how he felt about cyberpunk 2077 players modding the game so they could sleep with his character- because Silverhand looks pretty much exactly like him, and he loved the idea. He thought it was fun. Naturally things should bother him- using AI to use his voice, using his identity to do or say things he wouldn't endorse, stalking him, ect. but the man is so chill I feel like he would look at trans-vestigators and get a chuckle out of the ridiculousness.
Said the word 'transvestigators' to my girlfriend once and they just assumed I was talking about a team of trans people who hunt ghosts together. I really wish that's what it meant 😂
ohmyGOODNESS hell yea once this little 'transvestigator' trend dies down in a few years we RECLAIM the term and BUST GHOSTS!!!!!!!! (well, maybe reconcile their unfinished business, more like)
Well they think every celebrity is trans so when you think the idea (lookswise) male and females are non passing trans people what do they think of average looking people?
It’s WILD to me that people think ciswomen will have small hands and feet no matter how tall they are. How would our species exist if every female had disproportionately tiny feet while trying to escape from a pack of hyenas? I need my size 9’s for balance!
I STRONGLY believe people should look at photos from the 1940s- 1950s of the (cis) women that were in protests for women's rights. Half of them would be accused of being trans today because seeing too many celebrities has really spoiled us for what women are "supposed to" look like.
I am basically a hobbit. I use a large glove and my shoes are size 11 but I am only 5'1" and even at my tallest (before I broke my back…) I was only 5'4" even then!
Luxeria explaining that she has chest implants then realising that Jaime also has a kind of gender-affirming implant was a wonderful moment of cross-gender transness.
Although as much as I love Jaime, I thought "Some people actually *want* balls?" For the record I support gender affirming surgeries & am non-binary myself. I am glad ball implants exist for those who want them because I didn't realize there would be a big enough market.
@@thedevicebook can confirm as a biological male balls are easily the second most inconvenient thing I deal with, right after copious amounts of body hair (which is not a universal experience among men)
@@thedevicebookI had the opposite when they were explaining chest implants that some cis people get “people actually want chest implants a boob jobs” as a non binary afab
as a trans man, it's weirdly affirming to see the "gender markers" they consider male bc I have all of those characteristics. it's so bizarre how obsessive these people are
SAME. I'm a trans guy as well, and my shoulders, legs, and forearms are considered "more manly" than my AMAB nonbinary boyfriend. My clothes hang off their shoulders like blankets or drapes because they aren't as broad as me! Our other boyfriend, another trans man, has "masculine" hands, according to transphobes. It's very funny.
@@catboysephiroth560 right?! I'm 6' with broad shoulders and a pretty prominent bone structure. my only feminine "gender marker" is that I have a pretty tiny waist. my girlfriend is also trans, and she has a very feminine bone structure
Fellow trans man, and same. I almost wish I could show one of those nutjobs a childhood pic of me so I could hear all the ways I looked like a cis boy pretending to be a girl
Frfr, in a weird way, I feel like this could be reassuring for a lot of trans women. No you don't pass, no one even passes anymore, not one cisgender woman
I've noticed a lot with my friends that it's often just that they don't look different enough. I have a friend with a very feminine face shape and jaw line. I didn't understand why it bothered her until I saw a pre-transition photo and realized it's because her face looks almost exactly the same.
@@hiimcrazyfordrwhoIf she's worried that people(who knew her in the past) will recognize/perceive her as former self, they most certainly won't. Especially if it's been a year or more. My girlfriend grew out her hair but still wears the same things and she wasn't recognized by old friends. Her face is exactly the same as it was, just surrounded by long hair. It's okay to look the same.
As a cis woman who many mistook for a boy growing up, who has a cis man relative who many mistook for a girl growing up, I think this type of judgment people make says a lot about what their idea of masculinity and femininity is which is always incredibly reductive and unrealistic. But I also think it points out just how dangerous boredom is, many people really just need hobbies.
YES! What I think would seriously help is if we showed more photos of, say, the women that were in women's rights protests back in the 1950s. I feel like today half of them would be accused of being trans by these "transvestigators"- it feels like all people are ever shown of women is celebrities and women in full makeup.
People thought one of my brothers was a girl and I was a boy when we were little. Because of our hair length. A teacher even tried to get him to use the girls bathroom.
LMAO the part where they think Ru Paul is a woman dressing up as a man dressing up as a woman. That seems like a lot of extra steps for literally no reason
I mean it was a pretty interesting plot point in 2 diff movies ("Victor-Victoria" which also had the shock of Julie Andrews being way sexier than people had typecast her as. And a more recent example is "Connie & Carlie." A film which has obvious nods to "Some Like It Hot" with the "our ruse helps us run from the mob" yet still just as campy and fun.
As a child I was misgendered due to my hair being short and only ever wearing pants. Now it's "your voice is too low," "only a man would have that hair" (a purple mohawk I keep in a high pony), and "you only wear a push up bra to hide that your boobas are fake." Apparently cis women are not allowed to be naturally small chested ever. And gods forbid they actually listen to me talk for a while cause I swear like a sailor and that's apparently one of the ways you can tell someone was born male. I can't even with these people.
I've had similar comments - especially when I was a teenager - I have both small breasts and long hair, plus our school uniform was the same for everyone, so I'd get "Is that a boy or a girl?" (behind my back of course). Why does it even matter?
As a medical professional, I can tell you that there is no such thing as a “male spine.” Skeletal differences between males and females exist, but most people wouldn’t be able to tell. The male and female pelvis are significantly different, but there’s a bit of variation in the way that fat and muscle develop around the pelvis, so unless you’re going up and actually palpating people or your have access to their x-ray images AND you know what you’re doing, it would be impossible to know.
And even if you know youll often be wrong cause biology isnt binary and so not everyone follows those norms. Also the reason of some people's c-sections
Not to mention the “when they dig you up they’ll identify you as blah blah” argument they always use being debunked by archeologists who admit they can’t even tell most of the time without putting literal pieces of bone into a costly machine.
Quite. If a man really wanted to sneak into the Ladies, he wouldn't put on a dress and carry a handbag, he'd put on a hi-viz jacket and carry a mop and a bucket.
And even then, what cis male predator is going to wait YEARS on a clinical waitlist, go on HRT for long enough that he can pass as female, and get surgery done… just so he can go in a bathroom and creep on women? That’s so much time and money that could be saved by… just going into the bathroom and being a weirdo anyway.
@@rosiefay7283or he'd go in when it's nighttime and put up cameras. At my old work we had bathrooms and they constantly broke down no normal people give a shit about men using the womans room. And yes this was a resturant so obviously they are public bathrooms. The only person who ever complained made a joke at transphobes expense. Saying "oh I can't use that, ittle ruin my masculinity."
Right! The s--ualize newborns, toddlers, children, kids, teens, and young people then accuse queer adults of being p-dophiles and groomers like WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!!!!! 🖤💜💙💚💙💜🖤 Much Love even in this backwards world!!!
Tbh the people who think banning trans people from bathrooms would stop predators are ridiculous. If making something illegal would stop people, we wouldn't have criminals. Leave us alone. Yall just transphobic and dumb. I love your videos Jamie. Always a good giggle here. I'm a proud spud. And I hope all my fellow spuddies (spud buddies) are having a wonderful day! 😊❤
What always cracks me up is the logistics that would be involved in such a ban. Like.... Are you going to put bouncers in front of bathrooms? Do i have to show my ID when i want to pee? How will that worl in a Club, where the ladies queue is already ridiculously long? That poor imaginary bouncer wont know what hit tjem 😂
Imagine being able to identify as anything you want and everybody is just expected to play along 100% and not ask questions.... Women do not want to use the bathroom with men... Even if the men call themselves women, they still don't want to. And I understand it... Men who "identify as women" do not want to pee with men either... but are somehow baffled that women feel the same way....... You can paint stripes on a horse but it is still a horse.
Honestly they don't even need 'gender markers' to make accusations, I'm a cis woman, and as soon as some people learn that I don't use the name I was given at birth, they assume it's because I'm trans (the sudden swap of pronouns and feeling like they've been tricked just amuses me).
My mum got once asked if she was pregnant. She was not, she just is heavier. She decided to be nice about it and say "I suppose I will take it as a compliment you think I could be pregnant". This was meant to be referencing her age as she is too old to get pregnant. But the person she was talking to assumed this must mean she was trans and got super rude. Shes also been "clocked" as trans for having a square jaw or body hair. Some transphobes standards of gender are so weird and so specific that I swear most if not all cis people dont meet them, if they were to really dole them out equally. I am sure they found something about you they found suitably non gender conforming the moment you said you changed your name. Because you see "they can always tell".
@@zanthiablue5254The bigots' definition of gender is so binary and so extreme that it _always_ excludes a huge number of cis people. The fascists do the exact same thing with race, too: criteria so strict, nobody can realistically be "pure" enough.
Yep, I'm the opposite, I'm trans but haven't changed my name (still deciding if I want to). I've had people refuse to call me by my name and demand my "real name", because for some reason a stereotypically feminine name and they/he pronouns makes transphobes think I'm a trans woman? And *aggressively* 'misgender' me with the pronouns I said I use. Like bravo, you failed to be transphobic. Good luck finding another name that isn't a nickname.
game show idea: two transvestigators are both shown pictures of a person. one transvestigator is told that this person claims to be a man while the other transvestigator is told they claim to be a woman. the two transvestigators must then go against each other to "prove" the person's "real gender"
People can get so judgmental about gender norms. I am a Cis woman, as a child I tried to cut a ponytail out of my hair and cut it to the nape in a chunk at the back. I had to get a pixie cut. At the time my Cis man brother was a little baby. My mom let his hair grow so he had bright orange ringlets. Everyone would think I was a little boy in public. If I wore a dress, which I rarely did because I'm more of a tomboy, people would get mad at my mom for "dressing a boy in a dress." I started introducing myself like, "I'm Kat. I'm a girl." -- If I as a cis gender person went through that, I can't even begin to image how bad those same people are to those who are trans, non-binary, or gender fluid that express themselves in non-conforming fashions.
This is actually a fantastic way to show how transphobia will *always* circle back around to being misogyny. According to these """"investigators"""", I think I would be the perfect enby 😂🤣😂🤣
I told my cis woman cousins that their surgeries were gender affirming surgeries and they got soooo upset and so transphobic about it (after they talked about my boobs when they thought I was sleeping, and were saying I would be mistaken for trans if I didn’t get a boob job) it’s just wild how people cannot figure out how to be allies when they are actually dealing with the same threat . Our trans brothers and sisters do not deserve this bullshit
We should get them for free too then, since it fits the logic & argument about it. I want GA surgeries to fix my mummy body. What’s that? It’s just cosmetic and I had better just live with it? Yeah, thought so. Remember, women can now have a penis; so GA surgeries are no longer necessary.
@angellennie8250 I’d… rather not. That would make me a murderer, and I already have a pretty high chance of being called a criminal just for existing, so I’d rather not increase that chance to 100%
There is actually an answer here. They first said Elliot Page was a trans woman before he came out, and then - once he did, instead of backing down - they assumed he DETRANSITIONED. It was hysterical
@@geraintthomas4343 Transphobies: We support Detransitioners Also Transphobies: Elliot Page is a groomer 🤨 Like if they think Elliot is a detransitioner why wouldn't they support him???
If i combine my height and the shape of my nose with all the alpha male talk about what women are "naturally" like because InStInCt.... Huh, guess i need to come out to my Partner again. Honey, i forgot to mention, im a dude! 🎉
I've actually been "investigated" by transphobes. I took a picture of myself after getting a hair cut, and I posted it on my instagram with no makeup or filter. All of a sudden I got a flood of people calling me a man and just being very transphobic. I'm a cis woman, btw.
I got something like that too, except it was just some idiot on Twitter stalking me on my posts after I left a trans-positive reply on a thread about something about trans people. I am a cis man (16yo at the time) and this guy kept asking me about my genitals and shit on all of my posts I made after that (I like to draw and I've been putting my drawings on a Twitter account sometimes)
I’ve also been investigated, I posted myself on tiktok as a reaction video cause it was funny (I had on a mask and my hair covered my eyes somewhat cause of the shadow) and they were rather stupidly sayinf “Those boobs don’t make you a woman.” Like you can’t see the he/him pronouns at the top of my account on tiktok. They’re so absolutely obsessed with trans women they think anyone and everyone is a trans woman no matter what even if they have FTM in their username.
The TERFs keep accidentally validating my gender. Almost every little detail they seem to say is an amab thing exists on my body and I can't help but respond with a solid "sick! I was always meant to be a man! Score!" Lmao
Ikr! I was thinking the same they're just affirming a bunch of trans masc people such as you and I 😂. Ofc they never think of us otherwise our existence would ruin their theories
Yep, and they don't even figure it out when you agree with them. Like I've had people claim "success" on helping me "breakthrough the delusion that I'm a woman"...in conversations where I've talked about having a hysterectomy. Like they are right that I'll never be a woman and that thinking I am one is a delusion, but they are completely oblivious.
@StopSin lmao, and? Not like that's going to stop my doctor prescribing me all the things I need for hormone replacement therapy. You're only wasting your own time here, when you could be doing anything else to make yourself feel happy.
She certainly isn’t a woman by her own standards since Joanne thinks menstruating is central to the experience and at 58 it’s almost certain that’s not something she can do anymore. She also thinks gender is a binary so having excluded herself from the female categorization with her own narrow definition, male is all that’s left.
Are you being deliberately obtuse? I don’t care enough to get involved with the discussion but I’m fairly certain she means someone who naturally produces them barring medical complications or age. this isn’t the gotcha you think it is
Yeah, no. You are clearly missing her point on purpose. I’m a medical practitioner….biological sex is an actual fact. Male and female, and the very small percentage of babies born with ambiguous external genitalia or a mixture of male and female sex characteristics. But still…. Male or female. Not “none of the above”. This is not a transphobic statement, this is simply a biological fact. Folks need to learn to critically think and qualify their statements. Calling everyone who disagrees with you a transphobe is cheap and ignorant.
Terf ideology is self harm. It’s a dangerous thing and if they get what they’re asking for (which is the rights of trans women), then it gives their allies (misogynistic men who’d said that they’d be happy to protect “real women” 🙄 which is a stupid statement in itself) the green light to start taking away the rights of cis women… including women like JKR and Posey Parker, or whatever her name is.
I have a family member who does this with people and as a cis woman with facial hair due to having wonky hormones I like to remind him that I’m a woman with a moustache and he knows I’m afab because he literally was standing outside the hospital room when I was born and heard the doctor say “it’s a girl”.
I feel like the ones accusing celebrity women of being a man is just their way of coping with the fact that attractive women in real life want nothing to do with them. It's a cover for being too cowardly to approach attractive and confident women
Yep. I was coming to find a comment like this, because the flip side of it is why they insist men like Ryan Gosling also had the elite gender flip or whatever they’re calling it this week: it gives them the excuse they need for not looking like him. In both cases, surgery is why they can’t have what they want. This gives them permission to rage about how unfair it is that they’re tempted with “unreal” images all the time.
Uhuh very obviously that transphobia is just misogyny with a new name. Theyre shunned by society for being misogynistic toward cis women so they've gone to the next vulnerable group. These people are literal psychopaths
BINGO! They never want to admit they covet or lust after these people, and get so frustrated that they can never be or be *with* them, so they lash out to make themselves feel better. The bullying tactics were never left behind in high school; the TERFs frigging peaked before graduation, if they even got to graduate. And there are plenty of people who dropped out of high school who did SO much more with themselves than the people who need hate to pretend they're "thriving."
And/or, it's a way of coping with insecurity about one's own appearance or gender presentation. You might be a complete dumptruck or look like a Barbie doll who was left on a heater, but at least *you're* the last real cis on the planet! You are LEGEND!
@@dagmarlandI think they realised that something like a third of all the skeletons they found didn't have hip width which placed them firmly in male or female categories.
@@dagmarlandThose would be archeologists not anthropologists in most cases and starting to? They never really did. Gender hasn't been a determining factor for decades in fossil research.
As a tall cis woman with strong features, I have been transvestigated a few times unfortunately... I swear, these people are obsessed. I encountered 3 types of transvestigators: cishet men who are afraid to be gay, unhinged women and teenagers who harass people for no reason whatsoever. My favorite incident happened when I was sitting on a bench, scrolling through social media on my phone. It's important to the story to note that I was sitting with my legs apart, forearms resting on my thighs. (apparently that's a manly position) I kid you not, out of nowhere, this woman comes up to me and screams at me "You'll never be a real woman! You sit just like a male". I asked her what her deal was and I think at that point she understood that I was a cis woman, because she looked embarrassed and swiftly walked away without apologizing. Honorable mention to the cishet guy who went up to me and asked if being attracted to me makes him gay.
@@oranjellofish I probably should have, haha. I just burst out laughing and told him if he needed to ask that question, he’s at least a little gay. He was a good sport about it, thankfully. 😂
The Transformers poisoned the entire well, not them. God told them to never do cross dressing for a reason. But they've instead made it an entire culture, pissing him off. And because he is truth, he exposes it and allows the outbreak to bring more to repent, for more to be saved.
Hey, least the guy had balls xD But yeah, my friend gets mistaken for a guy a lot too, it's silly that people are so certain that AFAB can't be born masculine.
I can confirm that the "everyone in Hollywood is trans" thing isn't a post 2019 thing. I used to work with a guy, pre-plague (maybe 2018-2019? I dunno, time means nothing after 2020 haha), who FULLY believed in this stuff. I mean, he had a ton of other conspiracy theories, but me, a closeted trans dude, found it hilarious. "We can always tell", my left (non-existent for now) bollock 😂
@@Romanticoutlaw I'm not sure which was worse in that particular case, the racism or the transphobia. Maybe a mix of both. At the time, I never understood what people had against her honestly. I still don't really get it. Some people need a hobby.
I think it's just that there's been such an explosion of it, same with most conspiracy theories. Like yeah, it was definitely around, but it's gotten so much more prevalent.
7:52 As someone who lives in rural Christian conservative Texas, I feel like I'm qualified to answer this question. Transphobes don't like to be called transphobic for one reason and one reason only: it has bad connatations (as it should). Saying "I believe in the Christian values of family and mothers and fathers and treating little girls like little girls and little boys like little boys and I don't think predatory men should be allowed in the bathroom with my daughter" seems (to them) more passionate and moral and "protective of children" rather than hateful and bigoted. Saying "I'm transphobic" would be like openly admitting that they hate trans people (which most do, but they like to hide behind the "we love everyone but just don't support the gays" attitude for the same reason of not wanting to sound like a loon). They realize they sound crazy when they say these things, but because they think we're the crazy ones, they try to distance themselves as much as possible from "the bad ones" who share the exact same opinions as them but are a little prouder. One will say "I'm homophobic and gays are all going to hell---and they should go to hell because they deserve it!" and the other, who interrupts with "we don't hate them; we just don't support their choices" while agreeing wholeheartedly, is thinking less about letting everyone know their opinions and more about gaining a following. They want you to change your opinion to agree with them, and they think that (rather than saying "I hate the gays, they're gross and God hates them" right away) pretending to be a concerned parent or a feminist who wants to protect women will give them a greater chance of swaying your view. The idea is that once you agree with them, then you'll be brought over to the "good side" and suddenly realize everything else bigoted that they didn't yet say is also true. Or that they'll be able to change your opinions little by little over time rather than shocking you all at once.
But, you know, it's the TRANS people who are indoctrinating people and trying to "convert" them. Clearly. You're absolutely right, they *know* it looks bad to be openly homophobic/transphobic. That's why they love the alt-right, because they're making it "okay" to be openly hateful again. Until then, they're still playing the marketing game. "If we can frame it as 'protecting kids/women', we can attack them for 'endangering kids/women' if they argue against it. (No matter how valid those arguments are. We don't have to be right, we just have to be louder.) We can get people to do our bidding, even if they don't fully agree with our beliefs. We can get them to vote on legislation we like by threatening to destroy their public image if they don't."
Perfectly articulated! What's wild to me is that I'm pretty sure some bigots aren't even doing that thought process consciously. Like it's an instinct more than an active strategy. Some part of them understands that the way they think is socially and morally unacceptable, but that's not what they were taught to believe, so their mind makes excuses and tempers their speech. Like they sink into themselves just enough to slide by the decency radar. It's like when you yell at a kid for calling someone a swear word. Sometimes the kid will just swear under their breath at you from then on.
I think part of why these people care so much about celebrities being “secretly trans” is because it threatens their own sexuality. If Marilyn Monroe was actually a man and other men find “him” attractive, that would mean they’re gay 🙄 or something…. Trying to rationalize how these people think makes my brain hurt
Its predatory by nature. Why do you think theyre trying so desperately to make everyone believe we're predators? They're trying to accuse someone else so ppl don't figure out they're the predators
I was looking into breast reduction/removal (genderqueer trans masc) and the private clinic I found only marketed the procedure at cis women. And funnily enough if I pretend to only want the surgery because I have big boobs and correlating health issues like sweat eczema and pain from the weight and stuff, having my insurance pay for it would be so much easier than trying to get approved for gender affirming care... For the same exact procedure. Also I'm not sure if it feels different with chest implants but I can confirm that laying on your chest if you have breasts, especially big ones, is wildly uncomfortable
as a nonbinary person i always find the gender marker bs so fun bc I've got a great mix of both the "male" and "female" "markers" and while they're absolutely ridiculous I enjoy sitting almost perfectly in the middle. it's affirming in the weirdest most bullshit way lmao
Most people have some of each, just generally more in one direction or the other. They should really be referred to as “sexual characteristics” though since gender isn’t really physical
Now I've actually thought up a plot for this movie though. Here it is: *dramatic voice over while video plays on screen* Over the past century, technology has advanced incredibly. But one app has dominated all, one that everyone uses, because it is the only way to connect with the world. X, origins unknown, has developed to rule society. On X, you can meet everyone, talk, date, or anything you could possibly wish to do, without leaving the comfort of your home. X took over everything, every app, so all content creators moved to X. *cut to shots of Jammidodger, Luxeria, Shaaba, One Topic and Roly talking in their separate rooms* One day, 5 creators realised something... They had not been off X for a month. So they set off on a journey, to stop X before real life became unnecessary and was abandoned in favour of X. *show their journey and them facing social media monsters like TERFS (the big boss was JK Rowling, they defeated her with reason and logical arguments), trolls, homophobes, and more...* And then at least they reached the headquarters, where Elon Musk was... But then they realised... That he was a robot, mind-controlled and addicted to X just like everyone else. So who was behind the mask of Elon Musk? *The Click laughs in evil Swedish from behind them* *they gasp because the Click has an army of Emotional Support Demons and landsharks* *OT betrays them, because he and Click are lovers* *epic battle ensues with dramatic music* The End...
sometimes i call it xitter (pronounced shitter) but i do wish media companies would refuse to call it X. there is zero reason we should all have to be party to this deeply disturbed man's weird obsession with owning a company named x (he tried to do the same thing with paypal 25 years ago and got booted off the board for it).
I just want to say once more that I'm so grateful for trans creators on youtube. I was raised to be pretty homo- and trans-phobic so just seeing the reality and getting educated on trans issues has been really helpful for me in overcoming that and now I'm an ally.
At any moment they could take a step back and realise men and women aren't that different, but no! Insane! It's also super agist, of course your face won't be as soft when aging. They dangerously flirt with the idea that the standard for women is to look underage.
It's also irritating because due to insane western beauty standards, most celebrities are very thin. Of course these women are going to have defined jaw lines; if they want to keep getting roles they aren't allowed to have enough fat to soften them.
They're literally picking actors who have been in the public eye since they were children. When do they think they had time to transition with no one noticing!?
As someone who will never be able to medically transition because of health risks these 'transvestigation' arguments always give me a weird feeling of euphoria. Yes, I do have broad shoulders, a straight clavicle, a jaw, thank you for noticing :3
I remember in the 1980's when I was a teen, people were transvestagating Annie Lennox. Her mother had to come out and conferm she was a girl from birth. This is not as new as it seems.
Difficult not to revere Annie's androgyny, though. I used to mistake her for a man, but was corrected. Still found her quite stunning, and as someone who uses demifemme in place of demigirl, Annie's androgyny was incredible and had me wishing I could've also been androgynous. (The "girl" suffix makes less sense than femme, for the days I'm feeling more feminine, y'know?)
I think that they just don't understand that being thin can result in a much sharper looking jaw line. It's so funny how they can ignore every single "gender marker" except the one single one that they think looks masculine or feminine.
You bought an LGBT+ flag, giving money to people who likely support LGBT+ rights, and have now increased engagement on an LGBT+ friendly video, helping it be promoted to more people. Well done. @StopSin
Absolutely, that is what I was thinking about all of the critiques on the women with sharp or prominent jaws. Pretty much all of those women are quite thin! The reality is that fat stored in the face is going to make it appear much softer, but when you've got hardly any fat at all, the face is going to be pretty defined.
When my grandmother was in the earlier stages of dementia, every time we went out to eat with her she would point someone out and loudly proclaim “that woman looks like a man” and we’d redirect her attention and if the woman was close enough to have heard I’d make sort of apologetic (and also tall and strong featured) eye contact. It’s quite tragic how many people online are suffering from dementia.
As a trans 13 year old I struggle with finding others like me it's so wonderful to see strong trans adults being such lights in the world! Love you guys❤🌈
You're too young to know who you are, puberty and teenage years, even into early 20's is a horrible time. It's fine to explore your identity and be playful but please don't rush into medicalisation. You have plenty of time to discover yourself and if you do think that's the route for you there's plenty of time for all that when you're an adult.
@@user-jf3lo6ss2i Ugh, we gonna gatekeep knowledge of self beyond the 20s too now? There’s no pleasing you people. Leave the kid alone, and the talk about hormonal treatment to their doc.
My cis brother totally had no way to know he was a man before the magical age of 18. Seriously, what is with this "oh you can't know your gender if your trans before adulthood but you can totally know it if your cis" bullshit? Nobody's telling cis kids they've been convinced by the illuminati that they're cis. I know I realized I should have a masculine body as soon as boobs started growing. You're not alone even if the world sometimes makes you feel that way. I see you, I know your pain, you're valid! Take care! ❤ 🏳️🌈
Hi 👋 cis woman here: straight clavicle, no waist definition, 5'10" and same hand and shoe size as my husband.... also I have raised testosterone because PCOS. Have fun with that transvestigators 😂
You really have a good point with "they've looked at these women, thought they're ugly and decided they are men". I wish women were just allowed to be ugly lol and not be denied of their femininity for it. There's literally nothing wrong with being an ugly woman but women get treated like it's a personal failing or a character flaw. Wish we would stop putting so much importance on appearance
It's definitely a misogynistic thing, because it's not like men get persecuted for being ugly and then it's thought they are not masculine. Even feminine men who are pretty, they won't deny he is pretty, but they'll say he's disgusting or not a man because he isn't masculine.. but they won't say he's ugly.
It’s you women that are pushing all this trans nonsense. If trans wasn’t a thing ugly would still be a thing but there are so many trans now that ugly gets questioned.
I have been completely enamored with this subject since I first heard about it years ago. A group of lunatics totally convinced that all celebrities are secretly trans. It's the ultimate collapse into insanity. What does being trans have to do with somebody's fame? What purpose does it serve for this secret cabal? And the fact that they truly see trans people as inherently evil is very disturbing. Still, so interesting to think about how these people exist.
This reminds me of how when i used a gender swap filter on my transphobic stepfather it looked like JK Rowling Edit: by Dionysus i swear if this comment gets bigger than the one about the brass vs woodwind conflict then i will, uh, probably get excited? Or something?
26:30 - Luxeria might find this interesting: sometimes women end up with receding hairlines due to tight pony tails. If they’re constantly wearing tight pony tails, they lose hair at the front where it’s constantly being pulled back and I believe those follicles just die from the stress so that is a perfect example of why a female would have a receding hairline! I remember seeing a plastic surgery show where someone needed a hair transplant due to this problem
Yep. It's traction something or other (might be traction baldness but I can't recall), and can be brought on by tight pony tails as you mentioned, or tight braids, or any other tight hair style which puts a lot of tension on the roots
Your comment made me think of a video about medieval beauty standards that mentioned women having high foreheads(turned out looking similar to receding hairlines) used to be the epitome of feminine beauty.
I think Jamie Lee Curtis looks amazing for her age but she's was a target for transvestigators before they really got big. I lived with a cis woman who got misgendered a fair bit because she was tall, slim and dressed in jeans and leather with no make up - doesn't take much.
@@leunamreyo3663 I thought you were supposed to be saying women aren't women? You just treated trans women the same way women are treated. You should be saying trans women are the only ones with "real periods" if you wanted to discriminate. But sure keep pretending you can differentiate trans people who have periods if not prevented from those who can experience period symptoms under the right circumstances. This vid is about transvestigators for instance.
I’m a costume designer and I’m also a 5’10” cis woman with proportionally big hands and feet. I primarily work with teenagers, and the number of girls who get sort of quiet and embarrassed before telling me their shoe size when it is ten or larger is gut wrenching. I usually say “I wear size eleven shoes, where’s your favorite place to shoe shop? I like the Nordstrom Rack downtown.” Or, if the kid says “I have really big feet” I say “if your feet were smaller, you’d fall over a lot! Tall people need long feet.” When I was growing up I felt miserable about my feet and also about my big hands! I want a better world for the kids I costume. I’ve dressed cis women with narrow hips and wide shoulders, cis men with full hips, actors of all genders and all sizes. Bodies are fascinating and wonderful and the reductive nonsense of expecting all humans to fit such a narrow mold is infuriating.
One of the funniest things to me about TERFs' assumptions are that they immediately think if a person is trans no one will find them attractive. Margot Robbie as an example - I don't care one bit if she's a cis woman, a trans woman, or a cis man in excellent drag. She's beautiful and she seems to be having a great time in life. Even if it was someone I was dating - if we get along really well and I find them attractive, I literally don't care one bit what's under their clothes (I'm ace/demi though so that may play a part - genital preferences for allos are perfectly acceptable if you're RESPECTFUL and not transphobic about it). Great vid as always, love Luxeria and Jamie, have a great day everybody!
just recently on my side of twitter it became a thing to post a bandman (gerard way, patrick stump, ryan ross, etc) and say something like “look transphobes, this is my trans boyfriend! i bet you couldn’t tell!” and the comments would be full of “her bone structure 😡” “we can tell she’s a woman😒” and it were literally all cis men on the pictures💀
BRUH if they think Satan makes you trans in exchange for fame and fortune I'ma have a serious talk with him tonight in our 3am meeting. Bc why the hecc am I (and countless others) BROKE AND TRANS AT THE SAME TIME??????
@@discordiacreates6669 hmm, I guess I have to, since Satan n his demons are as lazy as one can get. I have to study witchcraft, I have to read the book, I have to make the symbols n do the rituals and summon him 🙄 but he's nice so I forgive him.
That's actually tied to old-fashioned racism. Black women are often seen as too masculine to those who think white European beauty standards are superior. Hierarchical sexists also prefer women to appear frail and meek. Michelle is strong in both body and personality. Bigots know she's cis, but they relish using this insult for the reasons I described.
I like the way that combines with the theory that Obama is secretly gay. So like is Michelle Obama a man in drag as his gay husband, is she his transfeminine beard, or is Obama a transphobic gay who doesn’t recognize her gender and Michelle deserves better?? There’s so many ways you can take this.
Thank you so much of introducing me to the wonderful Luxeria, I did not know about her but am absolutely intrigued to check out more content with/from her! ..Intruiged In a platonic, ace kind of way :D
I'm reminded of the time my Grade 6 class got a skeleton for the classroom. The box said it was a male skeleton, but so many kids insisted it couldn't be, because there was no penis bone.
@@oranjellofish Thank you for appreciating my specific humour. I've been watching a live play where a character uses a raccoon baculum as a cane so it was on my mind.
There actually are people speculating that J.K is doing that preformative "in the closet" resentment with how over the top and obsessed she is. It was in a thread that had receipts and I wish I could remember where I saw it
One of them told me that Tayler swift was trans and j responded with its amazing how she became one of the worlds biggest star's even with the transphobia in the world,they blocked me
"transvestigating" looked different in the 90's. But yes, it happened to me a lot in my 20s. Once, a teenage boy (a stranger) said to me, "You're a woman, right?" I replied, "last time I checked..." He said "Thanks, you just won me $5." He waved to his friends, who had apparently placed bets. That was annoying, but not as bad as getting kicked out of public restrooms. (I'm a cis female, BTW)
A lot of butch lesbians wouldn't be "real women" according to these bigots. Which is actually the point. They're going after trans people as a way to get at gays and lesbians, _especially_ those who can't pass.
I work as an editor for mpreg stories, and one of the conversations my friend and I have a fair bit is how trans men fit into the conversation. Because the characters are men who can become pregnant, so why would these stories not include trans men as well? There is a bothersome amount of people who love mpreg stories, but they do not want trans men included in the genre. And it's like .... if you're into the concept of men being able to be pregnant, then what is your problem with men who can actually get pregnant? I just wish they'd admit to their transphobia already and not try to justify their a-holery.
It might be too real because a lot mpreg is kinda fantasy for them? , but then there is no reason it shouldnt be in the story like it could bring variety and interesting conversations in the story and divesity, why shouldnt it be there. There is no reason not to. Like a story of a transman that can get pregnant and a magical mpreg, could be really interesting. Genuinly.
That's what always made me uncomfortable with people who are, like, REALLY into mpreg but don't seem to give a shit about trans men irl. Like you're gonna tell me you made your love of men getting pregnant into a personality trait, but won't stand up for or even acknowledge the existence of men who can get pregnant irl? It feels weirdly fetishizing, even though they seem to want to cut out trans men from the equation entirely. Like they want to get off to the idea of a pregnant man but with none of the "baggage" that comes with the dreaded trans label. (I say this as a transmasc myself, and I'm not saying I don't think people should have their fantasies, but it just always felt kinda... gross, the way some people go about it.)
Most transgender people do not want to have their transness portrayed as a fetish. It's probably better to refrain from including them in sexual narratives like this.
For anybody who doesn't know: aromatic in chemistry just means the molecule has one or more benzeen ring (6 carbons that form a hexagonal shape with 3 double bonds, which for ease might be drawn as a cricle inside the hexagon). Estrogen has a benzeen ring in the molecule and testosterone has a hexagon with one double bond in the same spot. I love me some biochemistry so I looked up the structure formulas to know the difference. Now I'm wondering if estrogen actually smells or not since aromatic substances often have a speficic kind of smell.
Jammie exitedly announcing his silicon balls and the Lux also being so happy for him, was just so funny to me. Just something so wholesome and yet so comedic.
These stupid "transvesitgators" make me feel bad about the way I look because I am a cis woman but I have a sharp jawline and I cant change the way I look!! It doesn't mean I'm a man!! I hate the way I look, so that just hurts
No worry they are just scientifically illiterate, your body is perfect the way it is. Masculine based on binary references? Maybe, but nothing in science is binary. And its not like we never found a penis, or one oe two y chromosomes on a very feminine woman. Life is special, people are too and its awesome
I feel you, I honestly do. I'm cis, 6'2", flat chested and not terribly blessed in the facial department. I've had the T slur hurled at me many times, even been grabbed by the crotch to "confirm" people's suspicions about me. It's a hard lesson to truly grasp, but these people are the problem, not us, and we do NOT deserve to feel bad about ourselves for any of this shit. Besides, so what if I was trans? Fuck 'em : )
Aw, girl. I'm sure you look a lot better than you think. And other women contour the heck out of their jawlines to define them, so I hope you can learn to accept and maybe even love it. But this is a prime example of these haters not only being hurtful to trans people but to everybody else too. Including some of the gorgeous women featured in this video.
I'm really sorry to hear that! I know that it probably doesn't help to hear this from a random internet stranger, but a lot of modelling agencies specifically look for women with sharp jawlines. Olivia Wilde has a big, sharp jawline and she's just ethereally gorgeous. A lot of instagram models actively contour their jawlines to make them look sharper. Women with sharp, even square, jawlines can absolutely be feminine-looking and beautiful. It doesn't make you less of a woman.
I've never entertained the bathroom argument but I never thought about the uno reverse card angle at all, there really isn't anything stopping a cis man from pretending to be a trans man, but also if a creep wants to creep, I doubt a sign is gonna stop them.
The unhinged "logic" of "I'm totally gonna rope a woman, but with an a instead of an o, but I draw the line at entering a space I'm not supposed - not even forbidden by law, just not supposed - to be in to achieve that. That would be taking things way too far".
20:15 - by that woman’s judgements on what makes a man and a woman, she’s a man herself by the size of the nose. If you’re gonna make the tea, you need to drink it, sis!
