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The #1 Menopause Doctor: How to Lose Belly Fat, Sleep Better, & Stop Suffering Now 

Mel Robbins
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Today's episode is a MUST listen. You won't believe what the latest research is saying about #menopause. And you're likely not getting what you need to know from your doctor.
Did you know #perimenopause can begin as early as your 30’s? Or that symptoms can include frozen shoulder, joint pain, ear ringing, migraines, and body odor?
Today, the #1 menopause doctor tells you everything she knows so you can stop guessing and KNOW how to stay healthy and feel amazing in your body.
Dr. Mary Claire Haver joins Mel on the podcast today. She is a board certified obstetrics and gynecology specialist, a certified menopause practitioner from the Menopause Society, and her latest book is The New Menopause. Her advice today will help you optimize your health, no matter what your age.
You've got symptoms; today's episode has solutions, like:
- 3 types of foods that will stop your bloating
- 2 supplements that will help you sleep better
- 1 exercise that will help you lose weight and improve your bone density
Bookmark this episode and share it with every single woman in your life, because it’s time to change the paradigm: you do not have to live with symptoms that can be resolved and you do not have to suffer.
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I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode.
In this episode:
00:00 Intro
06:10: What’s wrong with our medical system when it comes to menopause.
08:45: By the age of 30, women have lost 90% of these.
09:44: How the loss in sex hormones starts to affect your life.
12:30: What on earth is a WW?
14:50: Surprising symptoms you’d never think were related to menopause.
19:15: How does estrogen help your body run in the most optimal way?
20:45: What causes menstrual bloating and swelling?
21:00: Why do women become depressed and anxious during their cycles?
21:40: Wait. Migraines can be caused by a change in hormones?!
22:15: You’re not crazy if you’re dealing with ADHD symptoms in your 30’s.
24:00: Another surprising symptom of low estrogen levels.
28:10: What does estrogen have to do with your heart health?
29:10: How women are being treated unfairly by the health insurance industry.
29:55: Asthma is another unexpected symptom of menopause.
30:15: Estrogen impacts your gut health.
30:30: Despite what you’ve been told, osteoporosis IS preventable.
33:40: How is a woman’s vagina impacted by loss of estrogen?
38:20: How do women start to experience perimenopause?
42:00: Once officially in menopause, a woman should never have these again.
43:20: Will you have these menopause symptoms for the rest of your life?
44:25: Your body makes 4 types of estrogen.
46:26: How much estrogen you have at 25 vs. postmenopause.
47:40: The postmenopause toolkit you need to start feeling better.
48:20: What you need to know about hormone replacement therapy.
53:12: 3 types of food ALL women should include in their diets.
55:10: What type of magnesium supplement should you take?
56:56: Why you have to take a vitamin D supplement.
57:52: Why do so many women have higher cholesterol?
58:45: Should women take probiotic supplements?
59:30: How visceral fat is different from other fat and how HRT helps.
1:00:12: What type of exercise should postmenopausal women do?
1:01:30: How can you sleep better?
1:03:20: Estrogen dips impact how your body processes alcohol.
1:09:45: How do you find a doctor and how do you prepare for your visit?
1:10:55: What else can you do to manage your experience?
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@1979France
@1979France 5 месяцев назад
Recommendations start at 47:40: HRT (50:06) Turmeric (54:15) Vitamin D (56:56) Top 3 recommendations for nutrition start at 54:27: 1. Fiber (54:27) 2. Magnesium (55:09) 3. Omega 3 Fatty Acids (56:25) Also: Probiotics (1:00:02) Weight training (1:01:00)
@yaki-moon
@yaki-moon 5 месяцев назад
Thanks
@ancientwisdom108
@ancientwisdom108 5 месяцев назад
Thank you! Yes We need to focus on solutions.
@krebzz3166
@krebzz3166 5 месяцев назад
Thanks
@DawnJordan-Crone
@DawnJordan-Crone 5 месяцев назад
Thank you
@cantikkeren
@cantikkeren 5 месяцев назад
Thx ❤
@sharon1934
@sharon1934 6 месяцев назад
I'm 67 and recommend that you start weight training and core strength work before age 40 and don't ever stop. It needs to be a routine part of your identity, above everything else in priority. It is very difficult to catch up after menopause, although I'm trying.
@sharon1934
@sharon1934 6 месяцев назад
Stiff hips and back have plagued me since about age 55 (12 years) and now I'm finding this may be due to hormones!?
@tashabrown8301
@tashabrown8301 5 месяцев назад
@@sharon1934 I’m 54 and the stiffness recently started😒 along with the hot flashes and weird body pains this is no fun I better get back to working out stretching and better nutrition ASAP!
@kellyhudson6452
@kellyhudson6452 5 месяцев назад
I also wish I’d known this in my forties. I tell everywoman in her late 30s to start learning about menopause
@cleanqueen75
@cleanqueen75 5 месяцев назад
I had one gynecologist who was in her mid 30’s tell me bio-identical hormones will give me ovarian cancer.
@nccrchurchunusual
@nccrchurchunusual 5 месяцев назад
Very true. I was doing weight training & core & balance work doing great. Then covid & menapause happened at same time. Covid almost killed me & my husband & recovery was slow. I was a military wife- handled every thing by myself, fixed stuff, cooked cleaned worked raised kids, church stuff etc. Now I am over whelmed almost all the time. Cant seem to accomplish much. I have always been able to juggle alot, build stuff, organize stuff. Im 59- moved last fall. Dont have energy to unpack. Did not make a great decision on the property we bought... I am an insomniac, depressed, unable to handle much, ADHD, gained 15 lbs, developed pain in hips & shoulder, and general malaise. I think alot about dying instead of doing something productive. God please help me get my tax stuff ready for cpa. Cant find a doctor to help me except to give me vaginal crm which helps with that part. I have called alot of drs.
@erikabusser
@erikabusser 6 месяцев назад
Gen X women are not taking this shit lying down. We know we our worth! 💪
@lauriepolden6594
@lauriepolden6594 6 месяцев назад
You think Gen X is something special girl I am a baby boomer and I know what I’m worth. I knew what I was worth the day I was born. You are a bunch of whiny piss ants. They cannot take care of yourselves I don’t wanna work I want to sit on my ass and get taken care of. I was a single parent with two kids making $7.29 an hour raising them with no child support, you think you’re tough bitch I’ve been where you are I can do it standing on my head blind I don’t need a man how many men you got taken care of you you got mommy and daddy taking care of you too you living in the basement, afraid to move out because you don’t make enough moneyyeah I know Gen X my ass
@theresajohnson9817
@theresajohnson9817 6 месяцев назад
😂😂facts
@theperimenopausalnurse
@theperimenopausalnurse 6 месяцев назад
AMEN
@Trixiecrazy
@Trixiecrazy 6 месяцев назад
Amen.❤ I am over it. Tried of being tired ALL the time!
@denyelgarland6632
@denyelgarland6632 6 месяцев назад
And we live in a world with access to a plethora of information unlike our mothers and grandmothers so there is no reason to except the same excuses
@bethanyjacobs6124
@bethanyjacobs6124 5 месяцев назад
I am a family medicine physician, and this is the most amazing thing I’ve heard out of any of the articles I’ve read in the last year. It’s like a lightbulb has clicked on. Thank you.
@MarkMcCormickFitness
@MarkMcCormickFitness 4 месяца назад
I imagine you are not alone in feeling that way. I have had many clients who are physician’s or in family practice and just haven’t had enough current perimenopause to menopause education. Or understand enough what they can do for themselves. Wishing you all the best in your new realization.
@stuffwelike7184
@stuffwelike7184 4 месяца назад
Thank you for watching and keeping up with new research. I have several issues and have been to more doctors than you can shake a stick at. I've found with so many doctors they get to a point where they think there's nothing left for them to learn and this leads them to not listening to their patience and blowing them off rather than admit maybe they don't know it all or that they haven't kept up with any newer medicine
@ShoppingEmail-dr1fs
@ShoppingEmail-dr1fs 3 месяца назад
scary that you get your education from RU-vid?
@michelesteward5170
@michelesteward5170 Месяц назад
Hallelujah
@tiffanyhill9727
@tiffanyhill9727 4 месяца назад
THANK YOU! I'm in tears watching as a 55 year old post menopausal woman who was always in tremendous shape and just felt healthy. I didn't have a doctor the past 10 years and went through menopause about 7 years ago. I feel like my body is now breaking down in every way and gaining the most stubborn weight with zero energy to work out like I used to. My spine is grinding bone, I have tremendous brain fog, extreme exhaustion and after sudden repeat UTI's a doctor at the walk-in suggested a wonderful female urologist who put me on Premarin and probiotics. The relief was IMMEDIATE. This podcast is life changing news and hoping it's not too late to regain my health, power and zest for life. Long live Gen X!
@sabinerette182
@sabinerette182 3 месяца назад
Please use an Estradiol Cream. Premarin is the most horrible animal cruelty to pregnant mares(female horses). it‘s gross and a nightmare. Inform yourself, there really are other as efficient products. Premarin is so 1980‘s….
@thinkforyourselfjohn3167
@thinkforyourselfjohn3167 2 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing with us. Menopause can be crippling. God Bless you.
@LeahBowersox
@LeahBowersox 2 месяца назад
I thought Premarin was horse estrogen?? Might want a 2nd opinion on the type of estrogen you should take!!
@lorirudiger9269
@lorirudiger9269 2 месяца назад
You should try and get on bioidentical hormone replacement therapy. Premarun is not a good option. Also you shouldnt be taking estrogen without progestetone.
@constitutionalcook4681
@constitutionalcook4681 2 месяца назад
Premarin is urine from a Mare- yes horse urine. Your human body doesn’t assimilate horse urine. Find a doctor who prescribes bio identical hormones. Compunding pharmacies ships hormones too so you dont need to have one in your town.
@laraking804
@laraking804 6 месяцев назад
The thing nobody talks about are TEETH! I’ve always prided myself of my nice smile. Once I entered menopause my teeth started to move and I now have a gap between my front teeth. I also needed 4 filling in my last visit something I didn’t need since a teenager. The orthodontist explained that this can happen with the hormone changes in menopause and the lost of bone density in the jaw. I never thought that I’d be needing teeth straightening at 55.
@mzyouknowit8024
@mzyouknowit8024 6 месяцев назад
Yes my teeth got really weak I cut back on sugar started oil pulling and take fermented cod liver oil and vitamin d3 with k2 it works
@NBportofino
@NBportofino 6 месяцев назад
I just got Invisalign at 69. Ive never had braces
@dorothyonyango6575
@dorothyonyango6575 6 месяцев назад
This explains my teeth realignment..😢 thank you for sharing
@portalsandpathways
@portalsandpathways 6 месяцев назад
Thank you! I have a tooth implant that is coming loose from my jaw bone and now I understand.
@GrandmaLM
@GrandmaLM 6 месяцев назад
Me too. I’m 76. Because of front tooth gap just got gap fixed
@terrigodfrey8260
@terrigodfrey8260 6 месяцев назад
Good show. 20 years ago I found a father/son doctor team in Florida who owned an alternative medicine clinic. They were life changing for me. Way ahead of their time. They did comprehensive blood work, gave me bioidentical hormones in cream form and a low dose of natural thyroid (not synthetic). Gave me my life back at 55. They also recommended low carb, high protein, natural saturated fat in the diet. It was a remarkable change for me. I'm now 75 and off hormones and thyroid med. Very healthy. I'm also 90% carnivore.
@janetlittle4362
@janetlittle4362 6 месяцев назад
Do carnivore diets eat a lot of red meat?
@deemurray3658
@deemurray3658 6 месяцев назад
What is the name of the doctor?
@valwk8298
@valwk8298 6 месяцев назад
Please do share what that topical bio identical hormone cream please???? TIA Also, the Dr’s name of I can please get their information 🙏🙏🙏
@SarahLiles5
@SarahLiles5 6 месяцев назад
Yes drs name please! I’m in FL.
@carolinegannon8076
@carolinegannon8076 6 месяцев назад
Dr name and local please!
@over40nfab
@over40nfab 6 месяцев назад
Going to be 57 next week - at about 50 I gained 30 pounds and completely felt like my body was turning on me - stressed, rashes, emotional- freaking miserable - found a functional medicine doctor - started hormone replacement at 51 and two years ago began intermittent fasting - I lost 35 pounds and words can’t describe how great I feel 🎉
@sammyocgirl7411
@sammyocgirl7411 6 месяцев назад
all Dr's want to do is push Meds....
@LivingMyLyfe
@LivingMyLyfe 6 месяцев назад
What type of intermittent fasting are you doing, 12 hrs, 16?
@over40nfab
@over40nfab 6 месяцев назад
@@LivingMyLyfe typically 16/8 now that I’ve been maintaining for the last year - when I started out mostly 18/6 with an occasional 24 - I clean fast when fasting just water and black coffee - cured my reflux which was a huge plus !
@lauramendoza8990
@lauramendoza8990 6 месяцев назад
I love this advice! Intermittent fasting has been a great tool. Dr. Mindy Pelz has some very sound advice regarding this. If you haven’t watched her RU-vid you must!
@peternole5083
@peternole5083 6 месяцев назад
I also started HRT at 51. Now I have breast cancer. Would give anything to go back and reverse my HRT choice. My functional medicine doctor swore there was no danger. She was wrong. And before you debate this, all three of my oncologists said it was the HRT.
@MsStrawberriefairy
@MsStrawberriefairy 5 месяцев назад
This was mind blowing!!! I'm 49 and just went through one of those million dollar cardio work ups for palpitations. Increased joint pain, shoulder joint pain, brain fog, loss of concentration, monkey brain, and on & on. They said exactly what you said, nothing. I have told my MD, spouse, OB/GYN that I don't feel like I am in my body and something is off but I can't explain it. Nobody can help me. I finally feel like someone is listening.
@Hollowmoon007
@Hollowmoon007 3 месяца назад
I went through what you wrote, also, at 46. The palpitations seem somewhat better now that I take magnesium daily, progesterone and have a low T pellet. But the progesterone does bloat me. Alloy online offered me spray estradiol which can be used apparently as needed (why didn’t anyone else tell me that??) during perimenopause, and that will be my next move. Perimenopause feels very intense and I feel “normal” about one week a month. Have you looked in Alloy or Midi? Best wishes.
@elainec5333
@elainec5333 3 месяца назад
@@Hollowmoon007same thing happened to me. what is alloy and midi?
@Learntarott
@Learntarott 2 месяца назад
Look at boosting magnesium so important for heart. Will help
@marychambers7626
@marychambers7626 5 месяцев назад
I’m 63 and every time I go to the doctor and explain what I feel. They tell me I am too old to take HRT. I went through menopause at 56. No hot flashes. But, lack of sleep, weight gain, tired, lack of motivation, brain fog, and thinning hair, All they say is they can put me on an anti depressive. I have a weird insurance through the hospital I work at. I have to go to the doctors in that network. IM NOT DEPRESSED!!
@sarahlong714
@sarahlong714 5 месяцев назад
If I wasn't able to get HRT after watching her on another podcast (& this one) a week and a half ago, I was prepared to go to her clinic, in the Houston area 💯
@sarahlong714
@sarahlong714 5 месяцев назад
If I wasn't able to get HRT after watching her on another podcast (& this one) a week and a half ago, I was prepared to go to her clinic, in the Houston area 💯
@MsRaven000
@MsRaven000 5 месяцев назад
You may have trouble getting HRT from your GP so try a Naturopathic Dr…they are way more flexible and knowledgeable about HRT.
@robemega
@robemega 5 месяцев назад
Go to another doctor, preferably a GYN who’s paying attention to new research. It took me a few primary doctors before I eventually went to a GYN.
@alixayala4832
@alixayala4832 5 месяцев назад
Sharing YT link to Dr.Taylor. She’s a retired GYN from Houston. She has dozens of videos on Menopause and the safe window to go on HRT (if you chose that option). I believe she said the guideline is within 10 years from menopause. youtube.com/@MenopauseTaylor?si=GDB-0MTqLhypEWvd
@TheVenusQuest
@TheVenusQuest 6 месяцев назад
Mel, the problem is not knowing about PERIMENOPAUSE, that phase lasts 10 to 15 years, and starts around age 35, sometimes even earlier. It is not possible for us to maintain this natural hormone decline with our diets. It's not fair to lump perimenopause and menopause together. Perimenopause is one of the most delicate times in a woman's life. On my channel, I interview women from around the world, and we are all clueless about this period of time. During the middle and end of perimenopause, women hold the highest suicide risks, we are losing women to a hormone decline, not to an illness. As much as I am doing in my power to create awareness, one woman cannot do this alone; it takes us all working together. As a society, we should guide the next generation.
@terimitchell5435
@terimitchell5435 6 месяцев назад
Exactly! Had a young doc tell me at 35 I was in perimenopause. She left our state shortly after. That began my 24yr battle with doctors telling me to exercise more, eat less, here’s the newest antidepressant, etc! Recently saw a menopause trained doc who told me most of these symptoms weren’t from menopause. Calling bs.
@sloene72
@sloene72 6 месяцев назад
Oh yes! The mental health, the pressure to 'be' our best self for the world and go through menopause (something the medical industry or anyone really cannot see is huge for us. We need to exist with our body's changes and embrace it!
@nicolephillips2312
@nicolephillips2312 6 месяцев назад
Absolutely!!! I feel this same way! Our doctors are in serious need of true education
@rhirhiros
@rhirhiros 6 месяцев назад
Hey there… I subscribe to your channel and I'm gonna check it out. Good for you! It's so much more than black-and-white I'm somewhere between 35 and 55 and get my hormones test, tested by hormone specialist and they say I'm not menopausal, but I have other situations I guess what I mean to say is if you got your hormones tested every day at the same time for 30 days they could be radically different and for some reason they don't do that they do sleep studies but they won't test your hormones even every day for two weeks I'm looking for a naturopath and/or Doctor Who is willing to try this with me by nature, the endocrine system is not a linear thing, there are cycles there are seasons. so instead of a straight line, it's a big squiggly line and we just have to find a way to embrace this nurture this and maybe educate other people we're on the right path and I sure do hope with these two women and yourself included society changes faster because the 90s may as well have been the 50s let me tell you! Looking forward to watching your videos. Keep up the good work.❤
@strengthbeauty8033
@strengthbeauty8033 6 месяцев назад
So true! I subscribed to your channel.
@PetsitterTails
@PetsitterTails 6 месяцев назад
I guess I was one of the lucky ones. Menopause was the best thing that ever happened to me . all my life I had trouble with my periods and suffered a lot of pain, irregularity, etc. Menopause had no symptoms for me whatsoever except relief from the pain and agony had suffered for so many years.
@lindajones4849
@lindajones4849 6 месяцев назад
Congrats on your minimal symptoms during menopause. But watch out for osteoporosis because it can progress silently. Also watch out for vaginal dryness and frequent UTIs due to low estrogen . That can be treated with low dose topical estrogen
@goldstar846
@goldstar846 6 месяцев назад
me too! my body is so relieved its over. us endo girls thrive post menopause. It is afterall a natural normal part of aging. I think tho its our reward for the hell we been through already. Oddly the women I know who had no dramas young have hellish menopause transition. so weird!!
@blueseptember2174
@blueseptember2174 5 месяцев назад
​@goldstar846 Gosh I hope this is true 😅. I've suffered since 9 years old. Thinking back to high school the agony of being in class. I shiver thinking about it. The inflammation to 😢
@RachelDarleneGilliland
@RachelDarleneGilliland 5 месяцев назад
I'm so happy for you! 🌸
@goldstar846
@goldstar846 5 месяцев назад
@@blueseptember2174 keep the faith. My gyny says it happens alot. 🙂because ...estrogen is fertiliser for endo. good times ahead! xx
@Rebel_AF
@Rebel_AF 6 месяцев назад
Hit full-on menopause at 45, but no one thought it was possible because they said I was too young and on Mirena. Doctors misdiagnosed me for 2 years with rheumatoid arthritis, depression, osteopenia, possible breast cancer, high cholesterol, and tendonitis in my shoulders. I was treated like a hysterical female instead of a woman who knew something was deeply wrong physically. I felt like a stranger in my own body. 😢🤯 It took multiple ObGyns and me advocating for myself for anyone to listen. Now, I have a low dose HRT, am on an anti-inflammatory diet and power lift 3x weekly and I'm BACK! ❤️❤️ I feel like I'm myself again. 💯💪 Ladies, you have to educate yourself and tell your friends to advocate for themselves because too many doctors just are not boned up on how to recognize or treat menopause. It's amazing that half the population will go through this and yet our medical professionals know so little about it. 😢😅 Please share this podcast with all the women you think can benefit from this. Knowledge is power 💝🤘🤘
@nicolemerz1731
@nicolemerz1731 6 месяцев назад
❤ Thank you for sharing and empowering other women ❤
@Sasha-vs6sd
@Sasha-vs6sd 6 месяцев назад
I’m also wondering how I’ll know with mirena. I almost immediately stopped having my period so I am unsure how menopause will be identified besides a group of other symptoms.
@tammychristian1479
@tammychristian1479 6 месяцев назад
I lost mine I believe 42, same experience in that regard. I am now 57 and it has taken me this long to find out what I have been trying to get anyone to hear, that all treated me so repelling, as though they could catch it from treating me with compassion and actually be good doctors, like these women in this video. I am so sad over the lost for nothing years and still not quite sure how to get out of this hot mess. I have a little window of time to pull this together, before having to return to work. I had to retrain for a sit down job, to how bad the back , diabetes, edema, etc. blah blah blah has gotten. And yes, my faith has what has kept me going, provided relief and led me thus far on my own with God. The medical system in this Country is shockingly bad. God bless you on your healing journey, complete healing and restoration I pray, in Jesus's name Amen
@sonyaberkenpas5071
@sonyaberkenpas5071 5 месяцев назад
What anti-inflammatory diet do you follow?
@fabilopez8447
@fabilopez8447 5 месяцев назад
You are describing me. I have had the same symptoms since 42. I am 51 now
@bfreeume
@bfreeume Месяц назад
I’m 62 and have been suffering with much mentioned. I’m pissed beyond measure and will share and fight like a mad woman for women’s health! 💜
@L.A.6482
@L.A.6482 3 месяца назад
I have to share that my ovaries were removed for endometriosis at age 42. I then fell off of a cliff and the age clock began immediately devastating my entire life. Now 60 I had everything you are describing. Had to convince my OBGYN to prescribe not only estrogen in my 50’s and now testosterone to just be able to save my muscles and joints. I was treated initially like I had a mental illness which was tragic in itself and a huge waste of my life and tremendous unnecessary suffering I went through.
@karidavison8907
@karidavison8907 3 месяца назад
This really concerns me. I'm a breast cancer survivor. My ovaries were removed last year due to complications of treatment. It's a battle.
@VanessaSimon26
@VanessaSimon26 3 месяца назад
Me too. Yes depression has been part of my life but this is ridiculous absolutely ridiculous. I need to be put on hormones ASAP.
@joleneotoole4440
@joleneotoole4440 2 месяца назад
Can I please ask did the Ovary removal help your endo?
@gwenjks-1272
@gwenjks-1272 6 месяцев назад
I’m watching my macros, logging food, weight training and rowing. I’ve gained 45 lbs since my hysterectomy. My Dr says, “Oh, your body might just be comfortable at this weight.” “So obesity is okay if that’s where your body’s comfortable? And what if I’m not comfortable?”
@Tyggzz
@Tyggzz 6 месяцев назад
Same
@casperinsight3524
@casperinsight3524 6 месяцев назад
When your body betrays you Menopause is likely the reason
@casperinsight3524
@casperinsight3524 6 месяцев назад
Menopause is no longer the silent epidemic 😅 TY Me & Dr.Shavel for the menopause shout out 📢
@mzyouknowit8024
@mzyouknowit8024 6 месяцев назад
You can definitely lose the weight your gonna have to shock the body for me I did a 30 day no white bread no fries no sugar no fast food no junk food with intermittent fasting I ate at 6 pm a day drank only water and coffee in the day for dinner it’s roasted chicken bake fish lean turkey with salad or broccoli if you must have carbs get some healthy carbs sweet potatoes you will see major difference
@ktvix9234
@ktvix9234 6 месяцев назад
What's your macros.? May not be optimal for you🤷‍♀️
@f.r.o.g.
@f.r.o.g. 6 месяцев назад
Never thought a podcast on menopause would bring me to tears! And this isn’t just an emotional me speaking. I’m not crazy, lazy, and fat! I had a partial hysterectomy in 2001 when I was 32. These last several years have been awful in so many ways and I don’t go to a doc for most of it so no one thinks I’m just a “WW”. I’m definitely passing this on to my sister and friends. Thank you both!
@mariee.5912
@mariee.5912 6 месяцев назад
@IckyIckyOne
@IckyIckyOne 5 месяцев назад
Partial hysterectomy for me in 2008 at 37. Can't lose weight no matter how much I exercise or eat/don't eat. As someone else mentioned in comments my teeth have rapidly gone down hill by cracking at corners & front top 2 shifted position into a slight gap. Lucky to sleep 3 hrs without waking up for hr or more. It's like I take mini naps around the clock. At times I feel like I have narcolepsy. I can even fall asleep at my desk while working esp if I've eaten anything. I can go all day without eating with no issues until my brain doesn't wanna work anymore. If I force myself to eat 3x day the body wants to sleep to digest the food which leads to many occasional daytime naps. That sleep is awesome tho as it's VERY DEEP sleep! I may subconsciously hear ppl trying to get me to wake up or sit back or put something down but can't respond at all. I can even nap on 300-400mg of caffeine! If I don't eat it don't happen at all. Anyone else experience this? I'm 53 now & not diabetic. I'm definitely overweight but been this weight 2 decades & can't lose even walking 100 miles month & exercising 5x wk for last 2 yrs.😢
@TraciWest-MYBODYMYMINDMYLIFE
@TraciWest-MYBODYMYMINDMYLIFE 5 месяцев назад
@f.r.o.g. I like your screenname. @RepDanCrenshaw @StateDept @JoeBiden @CanadianPM @unitednations Thank you for sharing. A nice post.
@kimberc4664
@kimberc4664 6 месяцев назад
I’m only 16 mins in and I’m crying. I have spent YEARS with frozen shoulder. Saw all the doctors, did physical therapy for months, was told it was this or that but no one ever said it could be my hormones. I feel angry, hurt and betrayed by my doctors 😖
@sloene72
@sloene72 6 месяцев назад
They just don't know. My myotherapist mentioned deterioration and I wanted to slap her. My chiropractor doesn't use the word, only focuses on fixing me and telling me off. Who knows more about woman? The one who talks realistically as a woman or the man who blames me ? Choose your alternative therapists and doctos carefully. Some understand woman and some have no idea. Also, the symptoms do disappear. They really do. So hang in there. Treat it, and focus on other things in your life at same time and you will be amazed at how things heal themselves. Don't focus on being broken, focus on healing and getting so much better. Yes the frozen shoulder happens to both men and women so you wouldn't pick it. Chinese medicine brings relief so does Myotherapy over time, but medical doctors always want to operate. What your body needs it will find and so give it time its OK they don't know what they doing with the body anymore than we do. Be your own doctor and keep researching alternative help. Likely connected to menopause as are all of our crazy symptoms. I heard they clear up. Pray for you they will
@Tamar-sz8ox
@Tamar-sz8ox 6 месяцев назад
Frozen shoulder , its stinks ! Really impacts your activities of daily living . Find an excellent chiropractor , if possible a chiropractor that is certified in applied kinesiology
@MM-pe9ik
@MM-pe9ik 6 месяцев назад
I've had it for 4 months, now on both.. so painful. Big hugs, I'm going to my GP to ask for HRT, he dismissed all my other symptoms but I'm not giving up. Good luck
@STate-lt8xq
@STate-lt8xq 6 месяцев назад
Me too! My shoulder has been frozen for 10 years now. I had shoulder surgery, but it didn’t work. At around the same time, I mentioned all the menopause woes to my gyn and she just said, “Well, get used to it - you’re at that age.” Now, I’m 63 and probably can’t get anything back to working condition! I did finally beg my Dr to give me estrogen, but again, too little too late. My poor husband is outta luck. 😢
@donnatremblay2577
@donnatremblay2577 6 месяцев назад
After a hysterectomy, my shoulder froze. I had a failed “closed manipulation” and subsequent shoulder surgery. In hindsight, both surgeries were unnecessary- I needed HRT!!!!! Years later, I tired oral estrogen (to no avail) but finally responded to transdermal distribution of estrogen aka “the patch.” I’m relieved our daughters will be spared the menopause nightmare caused by the debunked Women’s Heath Initiative (WHI) study. Grateful for Dr. Haver & Mel for showcasing her life changing body of work.
@LYCOGEL
@LYCOGEL 5 месяцев назад
Girls I had 70% of all these symptoms and I currently live in a country with no access to treatment. So I did the one thing I could - I changed my diet. I went carnivore! I only eat animal products, I eat a lot of saturated fat and real butter, I drink 4 drops of Lugol's 5% iodine every morning and I lost all the weight, no more hot flushes, brain fog gone, my energy is through the roof, I sleep so well no more night sweats, my frozen shoulder is almost gone, my heartburn, bloating, hair loss, dry skin etc is gone, I've got new hair growth. I eat a lot I'm never hungry and my cravings for sugar (carbs) is completely gone. What can I say other than it changed and saved my life. I was so depressed I didn't think I could continue living if this was what my life would be like going forward. Now I am better than my old self ever was.
@mic1979-o9d
@mic1979-o9d Месяц назад
Hi, how long did it take you to see results and loose the weight?
@TubeYouser
@TubeYouser Месяц назад
Curious what made you change to carnivore, and curious which country you live?
@scaongca
@scaongca Месяц назад
Are you doing keto diet or just lowcarb?
@LYCOGEL
@LYCOGEL Месяц назад
@@mic1979-o9d I lost 1kg per week on average. Some weeks more other weeks less.
@LYCOGEL
@LYCOGEL Месяц назад
@@TubeYouser I live in Turkey and I changed to carnivore because eating low carb still caused me to crave sugar. I didn't like the feeling of needing to eat something every few hours.
@KatJ3st
@KatJ3st 3 месяца назад
I'm staying on compounded HRT as long as I can. 65 now and no muscle, bone or cognitive loss. I workout daily, avoid 'white' food, supplements and avoid toxic relationships.
@thesethreethingspodcast2530
@thesethreethingspodcast2530 2 месяца назад
How much is this costing you /month?
@vanitagomes3794
@vanitagomes3794 Месяц назад
At what age did you start compouded HRT. Does it cause cancer
@vanitagomes3794
@vanitagomes3794 Месяц назад
What supplements do you take and what is your diet like
@vanitagomes3794
@vanitagomes3794 Месяц назад
Also what exercise do you do
@reginacb79
@reginacb79 7 дней назад
@@vanitagomes3794 I'll chime in with my recommendation, I am using Winona transdermal BHRT which is around $200 for a 90-day-dose. It has been life changing. Though I am only 45, I have had low estrogen symptoms since my ectopic pregnancy and subsequent tubal ligation since my early 30s. I was misdiagnosed with fibromyalgia, I had severe joint pain, exhaustion and an awful weight gain that turned me obese while being conscious of my nutrition and lifestyle. After all these years I am finally doing awesome, my joint pains and mystery fibro flares are gone, I'm exercising like when I was young, and weight is slowly melting off..Too slowly for my taste but on the other hand I'm building lean muscle. I am only 9 months into BHRT and I will never live a day without it, period. Please research the cancer misinformation, Big Pharma once again cheated women out of one thing that would help us, to keep us sick with 5 different diseases and cash in on it. Estrogen does not cause cancer. You have a bucketload in your body all your life. It is medicinal however against osteoporosis, Alzheimers, heart disease, and yes, even preventive against some cancers. Lots of good reading on the topic. Good luck!
@belindgo
@belindgo 6 месяцев назад
Ringing ears, sex drive low, hair thinning~ all things~ but there’s HOPE! I’m a nurse~ when we studied this as well there may have been One page about menopause 🤦‍♀️~ so much more~ exercise Helps~ educating yourself and listening to Mel and her guests!! Thank you for bringing the big shiny Light 💡 on this! Don’t just tolerate your symptoms live your life 🫶🏼💜🙌🏼🤩
@mzyouknowit8024
@mzyouknowit8024 6 месяцев назад
oh my goodness i forgot about the ringing ears as well , i have been experiencing this lately, but your right eating right helps big time! change the way your eating and symptoms are less severe.
@MNP208
@MNP208 6 месяцев назад
Same. I am a RN listening to this.
@theresesilvawalker8407
@theresesilvawalker8407 6 месяцев назад
Ear pain when under stress! Really nasty and persistent. I am in Canada so was sent for ear rests etc. Eventually family doctor prescribed Lyrica. I looked it up and decided that my ear pain could safely be ignored and over time it went. It us back again.... I am sharing this with my mum..
@dns1241
@dns1241 6 месяцев назад
Omg I am so used to ringing ears I think it’s normal. At night I compare the ringing to the old school internet trying to connect.. it’s unreal.
@belindgo
@belindgo 6 месяцев назад
@@dns1241my ringing is so loud, I ask my boyfriend can you hear the ringing in my ears, sometimes it gets so loud. 😢
@akiinefaexperiencinglife
@akiinefaexperiencinglife 6 месяцев назад
In my 20s,but I am here because I am learning to prioritise education on women and women related issues....(listening over menstrual cramps,how timely!)
@casperinsight3524
@casperinsight3524 6 месяцев назад
Please bring the Doc back for Part Two 😅 There is SO much INFO that needs to be unpacked So many Truthbombs dropped in this episode Her book sounds like a MenoPausal Bible 👌🏼😎😘
@joanhoedel9641
@joanhoedel9641 5 месяцев назад
Yes! I'd love to know if we can stay on HRT until we die, of if we need to stop atcsime point. Thank you!
@southerngirl9207
@southerngirl9207 3 месяца назад
Had to fire my doctor Basically googled doctor who specializes in hormone replacement menopause etc Love the new doctor She actually listened to me
@elizabethhauserman6613
@elizabethhauserman6613 5 месяцев назад
This is the best interview I've seen featuring this doctor speaking about menopause. I've watched multiple interviews she's given and she's wonderful. But Mel, you are the best at hearing what she says and asking a question that pulls so much more information we haven't heard before out of her brilliant brain 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 wow you are just as amazing interviewer as she is a leading specialist❤
@katherinerotnicki5910
@katherinerotnicki5910 6 месяцев назад
I know you said that you were going to send this episode to every woman you know, but I’m also sending it to my sons. If I, as a full grown 56-year-old woman going through menopause at the moment, didn’t know 99% of this, I know damn sure that my sons don’t know. I think it’s important for men to understand what the women in their lives go through at every stage of life. (If I had a partner he would be watching this as well.) it explains so so so so so much. Making an appointment with my doctor tomorrow. Thank you. 🙏 ❤
@Hello-Stoiko
@Hello-Stoiko 6 месяцев назад
I bought a book about menopause and asked my teen daughter to read it so that she knows more than I when I didn’t know I was entering perimenopause at 40. I’m now 51 and just beginning to understand that everything that is happening is due to hormones etc.
@operamom3303
@operamom3303 6 месяцев назад
Where is the ❤ button!!! Exactly! Your boys will be men and married someday and you are raising real men
@charmaineclayton2018
@charmaineclayton2018 5 месяцев назад
OMG, thank you ❤I live in Italy, and I don't have a group of women to talk to.. I will look at your book. I am a retired fitness trainer, 62 now, and I still work out 3 times a week and cycle, and play tennis 3 times a week, and I still have this damn belly , I do the turmeric hot water and lemon 🍋, my husband even found a tablet that takes away my appetite 😅but nothing helping , I just keep gaining weight ..
@heatherframpton9693
@heatherframpton9693 5 месяцев назад
Thanks for sending this information to your sons! ❤😊
@heatherframpton9693
@heatherframpton9693 5 месяцев назад
​@@charmaineclayton2018I understand first hand about the weight gain. I am more active, more vegetables & fruit, staying more hydrated, more sleep, etc. etc. Weight will not budge...I am at the highest weight of my life at 57 years young. ❤
@sheribukovi7156
@sheribukovi7156 6 месяцев назад
I am just crying this morning, listening to this… hormone appointment yesterday. My new Dr is amazing and aware and we are just beginning to adjust because I feel horrible… No energy no drive and going from somebody who gets stuff done to not being able to function is really messing with my mind and I am only 51 years old and if this was to continue with those other doctors telling me that there was nothing wrong, I would understand suicide😢 I am literally doing all of the things! And I am grateful to hear this, and to be validated! Thank you both!
@belindgo
@belindgo 6 месяцев назад
So awesome~ I was going through rage fists 2 years ago and it makes sense now. I also listen to another podcast You’re Not Broken listen to her too. To me it’s crazy because Drs are brushing menopause off, thank God for Drs like Dr Haven ❤ take care of you there’s only one you 💜
@dianad1639
@dianad1639 6 месяцев назад
I’m the same. I have no motivation to do anything and the depression is overwhelming.
@PhilippeChemla-l1w
@PhilippeChemla-l1w 6 месяцев назад
I did massage and my sleeping and énergie are much better.
@4lb280
@4lb280 6 месяцев назад
I hope you feel better soon.
@leslieh335
@leslieh335 6 месяцев назад
You are NOT alone Sister, your situation sounds like a mirror image of mine!!!❤
@operamom3303
@operamom3303 6 месяцев назад
1. Vitamin D 2. Probiotics gut health 3. Weight training not cardio
@zavino863
@zavino863 5 месяцев назад
And magnesium
@singingsally5601
@singingsally5601 5 месяцев назад
Fiber
@JOJO-ug9ei
@JOJO-ug9ei 5 месяцев назад
If you are going to take Vitamin D, please take Vitamin K2 MK-4, (not MK-7) in tandem. K2 MK-4 is a hormone (signalling molecule) that facilitates calcium uptake into the bones. Big pharma are pushing vitamin D supplements with MK-7 because it has a longer half-life in the body’s plasma, (i.e. it is not metabolised as quickly by the body), but actually you want the body to absorb MK faster so that it works faster and more efficiently. That’s where MK-4 is far superior because it’s a shorter chain molecule. The bulk price for MK4 and MK7 is the same, but because MK7 has side effects, the dosage sold is lower than in that of MK4 which means that Pharmaceutical companies can sell MK7 at a greater profit. Hence why they push MK7 over MK4. MK4 is essential for the body and we would die without it. Another lesser known attribute of MK4, is that it has been known to help kill cancer and prevent its growth in over 15 different cancer cell types, e.g. breast, leukemia, liver and lung. There are no clinical trials for this and you can be sure that this is because pharmaceutical companies cannot make any money out of it. I am not altogether against pharmaceutical companies, (we wouldn’t have HRT without them), I am just saying that they tend to pick and choose what would make them the most profit accordingly as it’s good business sense. Just choose your supplements wisely and with good research. Hope that helps.
@marie.s9995
@marie.s9995 5 месяцев назад
The best Vit D you get is the sun
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 5 месяцев назад
​@@marie.s9995 Sun also makes your quicker older, due to damaging skin. The best is daylight, NOT SUN! ALL THE SUN ADMIRING PEOPLE LYING IN THE SUN AGE HORRIBLY. EVEN THE EYES GET DAMAGED. Vitamin D is more complicated than only getting it from the sun. Btw. Most people work inside, live inside, are covered all over, using sunscreen...so not much exposure to the sun or light. Even people outside in the sun all day can have vitamin D deficiency. How is that possible?
@pattycarroll3767
@pattycarroll3767 3 месяца назад
As a 60-year-old woman who has been dealing with so many symptoms/problems/health challenges over the years with no answers or education through the "health care" system, this podcast was impactful and so important. The medical system needs to catch up - STAT! Thank you, Mel and Dr. Haver!
@ejlegal
@ejlegal 3 месяца назад
Thank you! Thank you! Keep educating women and their physicians. The estrogen-stop was horrific! I ignorantly suffered many postmenopausal symptoms without HRT because I erroneously believed that HRT would cause cancer. Throw in familial stress and high-pressure, deadline-driven job - well, it's a miracle that I am still on this planet.
@sandymelton
@sandymelton 2 месяца назад
Glad you are!
@homeschoolaims
@homeschoolaims 6 месяцев назад
At 38 I developed brain fog and terrible anxiety out of nowhere and my sleep was so bad. After almost two years and being so worried I was loosing my mind or worse yet, dying..... I had so many tests, everything came back Normal. By some miracle I found a wonderful hormone clinic that put me onto Progesterone only. And 8 months on it's been an absolute game changer. I look forward to estrogen when I need it, but progesterone only seems to be so underrated. So it was great to hear you talk about this for us younger women. Thank you for sharing ladies.
@bethannsmith4969
@bethannsmith4969 6 месяцев назад
Good for you! It's most likely what I needed at that same age. You are a smart lady for getting in front of someone who knew how to help.
@LKing-fg7hp
@LKing-fg7hp 6 месяцев назад
Can you please share the name of the clinic?
@rebeccacarraway480
@rebeccacarraway480 5 месяцев назад
Progesterone is if you still have your uterus.
@angeltravelstheworld
@angeltravelstheworld 6 месяцев назад
Regardless of our ages, the importance of adequate sleep, stress techniques, long walks in nature, intermittent fasting and seriously taking a look at what foods we eat becomes vital. The gut truly is our second brain, the foods we eat seriously affect our moods... These past few years I have realized how important it is to become your own doctor. When it comes to doctors, those who work with functional medicine, are so much more knowledgeable. They also seek to address the root cause of all problems. Thanks for an enlightening episode Mel!
@tracyfederman7502
@tracyfederman7502 6 месяцев назад
💯right on!
@jaykaira9939
@jaykaira9939 6 месяцев назад
I agree with everything, but sadly sone menopause women suffers from insomnia, I am one of those woman😢
@Leo-mr1qz
@Leo-mr1qz 6 месяцев назад
​@jaykaira9939 Changing habits would help with sleep. Not eating 3 to 4 hours before bed, taking a DIM amd/or chasteberry supplements. Watching your caffeine intake. Not consuming it after 1-2 pm, depending on your sensitivity level to the substance. No screen time an hour before bed. Taking a walk after dinner to help digest food. Having a healthy diet that consists of whole foods not processed foods. Etc.etc.
@tashabrown8301
@tashabrown8301 5 месяцев назад
great input!!!!❤
@dianasmith1398
@dianasmith1398 5 месяцев назад
Amen to that
@Cheryl-hx6cq
@Cheryl-hx6cq 6 месяцев назад
OMG! I knew it was menopause that was causing so much of my misery, but no one would listen. The frozen shoulder, and hip joint pain and rolling over in bed. just blew my mind. It's me to a T. I'm so glad I found this episode. Thank you so much.
@MM-pe9ik
@MM-pe9ik 6 месяцев назад
I'm in thr same boat. frozen shoulders, living in pain, being miserable, ups and downs. So validating to know we're not just whiny women
@tashabrown8301
@tashabrown8301 5 месяцев назад
ME TOOOOOOOOO!!!!!😢
@sarahnajafi3904
@sarahnajafi3904 5 месяцев назад
I'm like you, my English isn't good enough. Can you give me a brief summary of the treatment she said. I just got the omg 3 and vitamins part and also life style.
@sarahnajafi3904
@sarahnajafi3904 5 месяцев назад
What else should I do besides getting supplements.
@75saralee75
@75saralee75 2 месяца назад
@@sarahnajafi3904 it’s hormones therapy. Estrogen and progesterone. It’s only available if a doctor prescribe it.
@michelefischer1759
@michelefischer1759 4 месяца назад
I had a full hysterectomy in 2012 and started taking Premarin. My doctor at the time told me the study was flawed when I questioned the increase in breast cancer. I have told every doctor since that I plan to continue taking it indefinitely and they have all agreed. I love seeing the benefits being shared! Thank you!
@Agnes-px9qo
@Agnes-px9qo 5 месяцев назад
I am 49 and in full blown menopause! Have been diagnosed with frozen shoulder few months ago and it’s no joke. I haven’t had good night sleep in months. Plus all other symptoms that come with menopause. I am done being a hero and trying to fight this on my own. After this episodes I am making an appointment with my obstetrician.
@lisewang
@lisewang 5 месяцев назад
1:13:55 I also had frozen shoulder. Fully resolved, no pain after 10 sessions of acupuncture (covered with/just a co-pay each visit, thankfully). That was 12 years ago.
@ismabatool6991
@ismabatool6991 3 месяца назад
Mine went away after a few months on the evorel patch. Had two for a year!
@stl2nola72
@stl2nola72 6 месяцев назад
I went 2 yrs with zero hormones after total hysterectomy because of Covid. That bone and joint pain they discuss is real and intense. It is no joke. Was feeling like a truck ran over me every day and being on my feet in the Operating Room was killing me. It was everything from the waist down and my shoulders. All that went away when I started on HRT.
@mbar4555
@mbar4555 6 месяцев назад
Omg ! That sounds horrible . Glad you are feeling better 😊
@Coffeetime24
@Coffeetime24 6 месяцев назад
What dosage of HRT do you take that helped with your symptoms? I am currently on HRT as well but thinking I may need to increase dosage.
@jacquidan01
@jacquidan01 5 месяцев назад
Is it bioidentical?
@stl2nola72
@stl2nola72 5 месяцев назад
@@Coffeetime24 it’s a pellet: estradiol 6mg/testosterone 112.5mg and a progesterone 100mg pill at bedtime.
@sharengustafson4096
@sharengustafson4096 6 месяцев назад
Oh my!! I can’t stop crying watching this episode! Happy tears and a few sad ones (because I didn’t know earlier). God is answering my prayers with this podcast. I’m going to make my husband watch it with me later. Thank you, as always for caring so much about others!! ❤❤❤
@traceyesparza7824
@traceyesparza7824 6 месяцев назад
Thanks so much Mel for inviting Dr Mary Claire Haver on your podcast. Because of Dr Haver, I’m at my goal weight! I turn 60 this year and have been following her for a while now. She gave me courage to ask my doctor for an estrogen patch which thankfully I was a good candidate for. I feel better now at almost 60 than I did 15 years ago. Love Dr Haver. Both of you are trailblazers! ❤️
@tashagnew
@tashagnew 5 месяцев назад
Same!!! I am on HRT now because of Dr Haver. All this changed over night for me. My clothes always fit …sometimes tighter than other times but fit. I was in the best shape of my life from 47-51….then bam…can’t wear my pants. Dr Haver and her information changed my life and I went on HRT asap. I have never been so thankful that I started weight training at 18 but have had to kick it up a notch since I turned 52. Thank you Dr Haver❤❤
@kellyreyes1353
@kellyreyes1353 5 месяцев назад
I’m 6yrs Post-Menopause and still 🔥flashing!!! It has lessened but still living on the equator over here!
@leneskov5184
@leneskov5184 5 месяцев назад
13 years post-menopausal - still get the occasional hot flash😬🙂
@ddb8841
@ddb8841 6 месяцев назад
I'm not living my life like this anymore. This was eye-opening information. I'm calling a menopause specialist tomorrow. Thank You! This is life changing.🙏😱📱
@StephanieW-s7x
@StephanieW-s7x 6 месяцев назад
Same here
@toshikaalick
@toshikaalick 5 месяцев назад
I had to go to a menopause specialist because my symptoms were driving me crazy. I am currently on oestrogen and progesterone.
@aminah761
@aminah761 5 месяцев назад
🙄
@bigred459
@bigred459 6 месяцев назад
So a menopause visit isn’t covered by Medicare, but a man can get ED medications or treatments??
@maryhall4232
@maryhall4232 6 месяцев назад
For real, when its our time to grieve, learn and change for ourselves. Those men are ridiculous.
@mariee.5912
@mariee.5912 6 месяцев назад
That's crazy, right?
@marlatamm2734
@marlatamm2734 6 месяцев назад
On RU-vid so when I seen you were having her on I took notes and I so grateful You have given me hope I will find help
@isis9210
@isis9210 6 месяцев назад
Yeap 😡
@lsfloridagirl
@lsfloridagirl 6 месяцев назад
Wow, just wow
@MarkMcCormickFitness
@MarkMcCormickFitness 6 месяцев назад
Great episode Mel. As a husband, father of four and women's fitness specialist I love spreading this info to more and more ladies, and also to all those men who can better understand their significant other, her needs and health concerns. Yes this info isn't shared or widely known well enough and I love having resources like this to share. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! ❤
@melissaa.7970
@melissaa.7970 4 месяца назад
Where are you located? I’d join right away! Thank you for caring about female health 🙏
@MarkMcCormickFitness
@MarkMcCormickFitness 4 месяца назад
Hi @@melissaa.7970 I’m in Edmonton, AB Canada. Thanks for the reply, I appreciate the kindness. Your welcome by the way. And if there’s anything I can do for you, I’m more than happy to connect.
@MarkMcCormickFitness
@MarkMcCormickFitness 4 месяца назад
@@melissaa.7970 I'm in Edmonton, Alberta. If there's anything I can help you with I'm happy to connect. You're welcome, I learned early on how uninformed the women in my life were about their own health and how much I had to give to help them. And it's been important for me to share and continue that journey as a husband and as a father to my girls. Cheers!
@ElizabethGalarza1
@ElizabethGalarza1 3 месяца назад
It made me think that my husband may need Progesterone and there are some studies on men. It's time for the doctors to start thinking and looking at the whole picture of how hormones affect men and women
@christyjaneliunas1454
@christyjaneliunas1454 4 месяца назад
I am 49 soon to be 50 and I had started going through menopause at 19. To say the least I thought I was going crazy. I was very active in sports all through Jr High and High School so, missing periods were normal. The problems I face today are because Doctor's like her did not exist 30 years ago. Thank you for your continued education and educating the women of the world.
@ryanlynch8013
@ryanlynch8013 5 месяцев назад
That standing ovation at the end put tears in my perimenopausal eyes. Thank you, Mel & Dr. Haver!
@portalsandpathways
@portalsandpathways 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for this! My generation was intentionally not prescribed HRT due to that faulty study. I asked for them when my body and mind began spinning out of control. My DR told me to eat better and exercise more. I already ate well and exercised regularly. I felt ignored and dismissed. I white knuckled it for 8 years until I moved and a new DR helped. I love that we can say “menopause” out loud now. Thank you for bringing this into our conversation.
@SIMpip374
@SIMpip374 6 месяцев назад
I am in this age group. I feel my generation who were denied HRT was made to suffer needlessly. I am still suffering at age 61.
@portalsandpathways
@portalsandpathways 6 месяцев назад
100%. I’m 60 and still suffering hot flashes and I’ve aged a thousand years in a decade 😅 I felt insane for several years with all of the symptoms I’ve experienced. From frozen shoulder to jaw bone loss that nearly caved in my cheek and required a dental implant. I’m finally on estradiol to try to treat the atrophy. Many of my friends still suffer terribly. Huberman had a recent podcast and somebody called the effect of that study on women’s health “criminal”. It’s unbelievable
@debracampbell5501
@debracampbell5501 6 месяцев назад
Yes, my mother is 69 this year, went through surgical menopause at 38 with 1 year of hrt only, and now she has high cholesterol and osteoporosis. I'm 100% convinced that with long-term hrt, she could be in much better health now. It's sad.
@portalsandpathways
@portalsandpathways 6 месяцев назад
So sorry your mom went through that! I was also diagnosed with “stroke-level cholesterol” about 2 years in and the doctor prescribed statins. I went 100% vegan and stepped up my cross training and brought my numbers down. I’m back to a more balanced diet (for me) and exercise but I am still annoyed at the lack of compassion and knowledge about women’s health. Luckily our daughters will get better treatment.
@SusanBohn
@SusanBohn 6 месяцев назад
I’m in tears! This IS ME and I can’t get any one dr to listen, take this for boat , this for cholesterol and your getting older get used to it . Thank you for giving me hope, so I can advocate for ME
@KellyJ.Ruland
@KellyJ.Ruland 6 месяцев назад
Soon to be 60 in July. I've been on HRT for almost 5 years. It keeps me in check most of the time. I see more insurance companies now opening up to covering menopause treatments and therapy. I think it's fantastic. I shared this Pod to my friends on Facebook. I'm not going to beat myself up with who I am now. I'm just going to try to love the new me and keep me as healthy as possible. Education is Key!!! Thanks for putting this out there.
@pauladexter6164
@pauladexter6164 4 месяца назад
Wow!!! As a nurse i have just learnt so so much. I cannot believe we are not taught this in uni. I am menopausal too and i insisted that i had treatment and now have the patch and feel so much better. Please stop talking over the guest, i want to know what she knows and is telling us. When you interrupt her it stops the flow. Thank you
@SashaTuke
@SashaTuke 5 месяцев назад
Thank goodness for GenX women who stand up and fight the status quo, especially for women and their treatment within the medical profession. There is no problem that can't be fixed or at least reduced by working together and actually listening to what people are saying.
@lisasamaniergo1618
@lisasamaniergo1618 6 месяцев назад
None of my Dr’s asked me anything about my symptoms for 15 years! I had to research on my own
@Karikk72
@Karikk72 6 месяцев назад
Me too ! I took a list and they looked at me like I was crazy ! We have to be our own advocate
@LM-qe3fr
@LM-qe3fr 6 месяцев назад
I am a fitness athlete. I had complete, mindful control of my body. Suddenly at 58 it all went haywire. I saw GP's, endocrinologists, obgn's, you name it. NO HELP. ZERO! What I did get was arrogance and dismissal. I was told that's just the way it is. You now have belly fat. Sucks to be you ( from a pregnant 30 year old.).
@julieburkhardt61
@julieburkhardt61 6 месяцев назад
damn. that's cold.😢
@theresesilvawalker8407
@theresesilvawalker8407 6 месяцев назад
Sounds like 30 year old has her own Issues.
@LM-qe3fr
@LM-qe3fr 6 месяцев назад
I think many of these OBGYN's only want to deliver babies and hand out birth control. If that is the case, they need to limit their practice to that and just be honest about it instead of emotionally abusing more mature patients.
@Myspirit904
@Myspirit904 6 месяцев назад
I also had not one indication anything was changing until I was 56 when the hot flashes came on like a tornado…cycles stopped a year later…I have not gained one pound but it sure has shifted around..
@janekiceniuk1578
@janekiceniuk1578 6 месяцев назад
Same, went to my Dr with a whole list of things. He actually chuckled & said "that happens at that stage of life".
@teeareijonen6338
@teeareijonen6338 6 месяцев назад
I am on HRT which stopped my aching joints but it wasn't until I added testosterone (Androfeme) that I started sleeping through the night, lost weight and achieved better focus and energy. Everyone is different.
@butyoulooksohealthy-fibrom920
@butyoulooksohealthy-fibrom920 6 месяцев назад
I am desperately trying to find a dr. to add trt to my hrt. I feel like It would be a game changer.
@Divadoch
@Divadoch 6 месяцев назад
Androfeme is a total game changer!
@Katepwe
@Katepwe 6 месяцев назад
That would be great but I believe that particular product is only available in Australia.
@Divadoch
@Divadoch 6 месяцев назад
@@Katepwe Androfeme is available in the US and UK by prescription only. The product is made in Australia.
@jennifertong135
@jennifertong135 4 месяца назад
How is the Adrofeme, TRT, helpful in our hormone balance? Curious! I am on HRT, and it has addressed many of my more typical symptoms... hot flashes, sleeping, night sweats. But I have joint pain and am holding weight. I will follow up with my gynecologist. I definitely don't work out as hard as I did in my 30s. but in part because my joints hurt and I don't have the same energy. I have been blaming myself for holding on to 10 lbs and belly fat.
@Zhereeh123
@Zhereeh123 5 месяцев назад
I wish she could just let the doctor talk, it’s so hard to hear everything when the doctor was constantly interrupted by the interviewer. I had to fast forward this video to get the most important bits.
@emilia833
@emilia833 5 месяцев назад
I love so much Mel but yes she could work on not interrupting pls Mel and let the guest talk more. We love and we thank you so so much for the amazing content you give free for all of us ❤
@sacredmeditationhall3290
@sacredmeditationhall3290 5 месяцев назад
I agree with you 😒
@robinoudsema8736
@robinoudsema8736 5 месяцев назад
It helps me to realize that it is a conversation, not an interview or lecture. I am being allowed to listen in as 2 people are having an amazing conversation!
@aprilsullivan2405
@aprilsullivan2405 5 месяцев назад
Completely agree with you, I felt the same way. Her over exaggerated responses were very distracting and annoying. This doctor has her own website etc so I suggest going there for more info.
@luciepaimblanc
@luciepaimblanc 4 месяца назад
Hi! You could listen to this doctor on a the DOAC podcast, juste RU-vid "DOAC menopause". I just listent to it over there, I like how the host leaves space.
@TongaLavon
@TongaLavon 5 месяцев назад
Mel - thank you 100s over! I'm 49 and finally feel like I have answers. I understand my mom's health journey for the last 25 years of her life (she recently passed at 78 ) and I'm both emotional and angry at the gaps in her health care and overall wellness. I want to make sure myself, my daughters and all the women in my life are better equipped for this phase.
@arshiaahmedayub
@arshiaahmedayub 6 месяцев назад
When i started reading The High 5 Habit, i was on page one and thought- OH MY GOD mel robbins is reading my mind… and then im watching this episode and want to HUG you for doing this work… im sure since we are nearly the same age it seems like youre describing my WHOLE life right now but i hope it resonates with others younger-you will need to know this!!- or older, so you know you werent imagining these things
@susansimpson9463
@susansimpson9463 6 месяцев назад
I started having an arrhythmia (my heart was skipping a beat) when I was in my mid forties (perimenopause) and it scared the hell out of me. I had know idea it was related to a decrease of estrogen production. This led to severe anxiety because I thought I had a heart problem!! I ended up getting an echo & wore a 24 hr heart monitor, both were benign. GYNs need to inform their patients!!!
@jennieoh8543
@jennieoh8543 6 месяцев назад
Oprah Winfrey had the same thing she went to 5 cardiologists and they tried to offer her meds, she found a meno specialist they replaced her hormones and she is thriving at 70!!!! She has been on it for many years.
@jennieoh8543
@jennieoh8543 6 месяцев назад
Same in my early 40s they put me on sleeping pills and ssri :*( Off of those now and replacing my lost hormones :*)@@kristyholt452
@boonavite3200
@boonavite3200 6 месяцев назад
This was me exactly! I was even scared to exercise! Still have it now.
@susansimpson9463
@susansimpson9463 6 месяцев назад
Same!! I was so afraid of overexerting myself for fear of having a heart attack, and I used to run at least 5 days a week. If I remember correctly, it lasted for a couple years!! @@boonavite3200
@martifechner6072
@martifechner6072 6 месяцев назад
Me, too!
@als239
@als239 6 месяцев назад
When I was in health coaching school an OBGYN was in my class, there were several actually, and she said she enrolled to learn about nutrition, weight loss, and menopause because it wasn't taught in medical school yet every postpartum mom wants to lose weight and everyone over 50 needs menopause help.
@katherinedeweger8363
@katherinedeweger8363 3 месяца назад
Oh my god, everything you have spoken about is me. Sitting across from my Doctor crying saying I don't recognise myself, 30kg weight gain, being told to use the food pyramid, having to take anti anxiety meds, hiding my body from my husband. I am in Australia and refused to leave my Drs appointment with HRT. I have just shared on my Facebook. Thank you so much!!!!!!!
@Barbara-jd5lb
@Barbara-jd5lb 5 месяцев назад
Mel and Dr. Haver, at 74 yrs young, all truth in this amazing dialogue. Saved this to send on to my daughter and other blessed 'peri's' in my life. With gratitude from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤
@NBportofino
@NBportofino 6 месяцев назад
After years of constant UTI’s, i finally found a young, female urologist who performed three consecutive vaginal laser rejuvenation procedures followed by thrice weekly estrogen cream. I haven’t had a UTI since!
@baljithayre1252
@baljithayre1252 6 месяцев назад
..Intrarosa is also reported helpful for genitourinary/uti symptoms.
@valwk8298
@valwk8298 6 месяцев назад
What’s the name of the Vaginal estrogen cream are you prescribed please? TIA
@NBportofino
@NBportofino 6 месяцев назад
@@valwk8298 Estradiol 0.01%. But the laser treatment (1 every six weeks, three times total) precedes this and is essential. It must be repeated one time every year. My 90 year old friend had it done and she no longer gets UTI’s either. When she first told me I thought she was nuts. A laser down THERE!! Ugh>. But it doesn’t hurt at all. Find a urologist who specializes in Vaginal rejuvenation. They’re especially prevalent in affluent areas where face lifts and such are common like Orange County, California. That’s where women spend to stay “young”. I think treating UTI’s is a fortunate byproduct of these procedures. Mona Lisa is the name but there are other ones too. What a game changer!! My gut was rotting from so many antibiotics.
@alexandrapadilla4768
@alexandrapadilla4768 6 месяцев назад
I’m 59 and have been on HRT for 1 1/2 years. Estrodial patch, progesterone and testosterone. Still have periods off and on. Have small fibroid and had a cervical biopsy. All is good! Feel great 80%-90% of the time. Do resistance weight training. So important. Thank you @ Dr Mary Claire. Love your insight and knowledge on this. Menopause is not a death sentence 🙏🏼❤️
@jacquidan01
@jacquidan01 5 месяцев назад
Are they bioidentical hormones ?
@kristinvc349
@kristinvc349 5 месяцев назад
What form of testosterone do you use?
@TLC717
@TLC717 6 месяцев назад
I'm 54 and have been done with menopause for a year. I refused to take hormones and somehow got through it without killing my husband😂. Everything changed for me when I stopped eating meat of any kind(no chicken, fish, etc) and I cut out most dairy. My cycles were not as heavy or as frequent and the pain wasn't as bad. None of the symptoms I had were even half as bad as they had been. I firmly believe changing my diet made all the difference.
@MsLinda165
@MsLinda165 6 месяцев назад
Gosh, I had the opposite experience. I cut out most veggies, most grains, and focused on meat and plain yogurt for dairy; cut out most nuts, seeds, cut out tomatoes, bread. Feel soooo much better. Wow. Can't even describe. Also cut out alcohol. But my diet is mostly meat, beef (no pork) few fish, chicken and good fats like avocado, plain greek yogurt, goat cheese and I don't get migraines, bloating, flu, you name it. I also never got Covid. Plus I exercise by walking 5 k a day. And I floss daily, for mental health. I will have sourdough bread occasionally. Intermittent fasting is key, and also getting 8 hours of sleep a night. I"m 65 and I've been doing this since 38. I look and feel amazing. Had early and sudden menopause due to ovarian cancer in my late 30's. My doctor didn't agree with any of this, but she's on long term disability now, and I'm cruising around like a 19 year old. People need to eliminate what is not working, and treat their body like the temple it is.
@kristiina6897
@kristiina6897 6 месяцев назад
I agree. Stay faaaaar away from hormone therapy!
@sloene72
@sloene72 6 месяцев назад
So many hormones in the animal products, so it's no surprise you felt better.
@sloene72
@sloene72 6 месяцев назад
Good proteins and fats are key I believe and no eating after dark.
@Alaskaventureswithbrodie
@Alaskaventureswithbrodie 6 месяцев назад
I agree so thankful I quit meat and dairy. I dont suffer with symptoms hardly at all. Im on a small dose of progesterone due to the huge drop in it. But I feel pretty good. And I also suffer from Hashimotos. I contribute it to my diet!
@mariaanthony9783
@mariaanthony9783 5 месяцев назад
This is one of the best interviews of ever heard . I wish I knew this at 42 when I had hysterectomy . I’m 58 and have struggled with all these things since then ! Especially my weight . Thankyou so much ❤
@marsfun99
@marsfun99 Месяц назад
Aswagantha helps to reduce stress that helps weight loss for premenopausal season.
@tnich02
@tnich02 6 месяцев назад
This episode is pure gold! Your other episodes on menopause, nutrition, and our aging female bodies have been the bomb, but Dr. Haver leveled up with so much more information and "light bulb" moments. My estrogen hit zero in 2020 and like you, I've been stating my stage of menopause all wrong! Had no idea I'm post-menopausal - thought that meant when it's finally over. After the knowledge dropped in this episode, I now realize it's not really ever going to be over but there's hope! All I could think about was my grandmother, and her mother, and on and on....they were labeled "hysterical". This was just so good...shared with friends, co-workers, and my two adult daughters! Thank you thank you!!
@TPinFL362
@TPinFL362 6 месяцев назад
I literally cried listening to this ! It all made SOOOO much sense and normalized everything for me! I had a collision course of breast cancer and menopause and have not felt the same since. I cannot thank you enough for this INVALUABLE information. I’m going to have my husband watch/listen to this so he has a better understanding of where I am coming from. THANK YOU.. THANK YOU.. THANK YOU!!!!!!
@ChelseaBrown-fz1mj
@ChelseaBrown-fz1mj 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for this chat. Men definitely need to understand what their partners are experiencing or going through. We should not be judged or labeled with unnecessary names.
@cristinaluna6630
@cristinaluna6630 6 месяцев назад
When you mentioned the white blood cell count, this light bulb went off. Every time I get my annual blood work done, my Dr mentions the elevated white blood cell count and says it’s probably just allergies. Now, I’m thinking, wait a minute. My hips hurt, my neck, my elbow, my flipping shoulder! I need to find a Dr who will listen and get me on some kind of treatment. Thank you for such an amazing episode! ♥️
@dianad1639
@dianad1639 6 месяцев назад
I haven’t listened yet. What did she say about WBC count. Mine was high at my last checkup
@cristinaluna6630
@cristinaluna6630 6 месяцев назад
@@dianad1639 she was talking about how losing estrogen could be the culprit. You need to watch it! It’s a great episode.
@jewelk4986
@jewelk4986 5 месяцев назад
In some countries retirement age is 55 for females, makes sense since the health issues due to menopause start around that time. HRT should be covered by insurance since women in US can only retire at 65. All these health issues surely affect quality of life and ability to work well.
@TheBiohackMom
@TheBiohackMom 5 месяцев назад
Exactly that! I am 53 and just now comprehending what has been happening to my body since my uterus was removed 11 years ago. 🥹 So happy 🎉 this podcast was made. We gen x women are definitely excited about the future of our quality of living because of the work being done in regards to health and menopause.
@andreaskitchenbox7030
@andreaskitchenbox7030 4 месяца назад
The same here in Germany
@relocatetoItaly
@relocatetoItaly Месяц назад
I don't know where 55 is retirement age? Here in Italy retirement age is 67 for women.
@toniwaugh1823
@toniwaugh1823 25 дней назад
I'm glad that I retired and was able to retire at age 55 in Ontario Canada from my teaching career. I'm dealing with multiple UTIs and they are damn annoying and painful! Sleeping through the night without having to pee is now not in my vocabulary. I've started estrogen cream last week and hoping that this relieves my symptoms.
@KH-yc8ik
@KH-yc8ik 4 месяца назад
As a man, I enjoyed this episode tremendously. I love how Dr. Haver speaks and explains perimenopause and menopause. I’ve shared this information with my mother and sister, and I hope they decide to give HRT a try. Women need estrogen. ❤
@lucyliu77
@lucyliu77 6 месяцев назад
I turned 47 two weeks ago. I’m a working professional with an extremely demanding job. Particularly after the Covid jab, my body literally adopted every single perimenopause symptom affecting every single part of my body and soul. I didn’t think I could live like this anymore. Despite all the push back from GPs and even the endocrinologist, I insisted on trying HRT. After first night of progesterone tabs last night, I finally had a good nights sleep for the first time in MONTHS! I’m only Day 2 on HRT, but I have hope & I don’t want to neck myself anymore 😅
@LKing-fg7hp
@LKing-fg7hp 6 месяцев назад
I’ve been waiting for someone to say this! I’m a nurse so they forced me to get a booster and I’m not kidding, just hours later I passed a massive amount of blood clots and my periods haven’t been the same since. I immediately started having lighter periods and perimenopause symptoms that have progressed over the last year. But it all started with that COVID booster shot. The lack of research or care about how medicine affects women is why I don’t trust vaccines.
@dollysingh9611
@dollysingh9611 5 месяцев назад
Please can you please tell me what is the table
@icutoy
@icutoy 5 месяцев назад
Same here.
@amandas1356
@amandas1356 5 месяцев назад
I don’t believe that about it being hard to get pregnant after 30. GUESS WHAT, my twin sister and I got pregnant FOR THE FIRST TIME, AT 40 YEARS OLD. The one and only time we weren’t preventing, WE BOTH CONCEIVED. So, with that said…..what are the odds. I’m 45 years old now and I’m on HRT. For low testosterone and low progesterone, normal estrogen. Bioidentical hormones and feeling better every day. I definitely felt emotionally regulated, DEFINITELY SLEPT BETTER, toner skin and muscles, hair isn’t falling out, more energy, definitely more sexual desire, less joint pain. I remember feeling like I’m on top of the world with my age having a 4 year old. I will say it takes longer for the testosterone levels to increase, my levels were below the lowest on the scale. I’m on 18 mg troche, 250 mg progesterone. I could not get rid of the weight I had and I was always 130lb. So when I was continuously gaining weight even after having my child, 173 lbs and I was humiliated. I knew 10000% something wasn’t working right. Sure enough both hormones were on the lowest of the low. Lower than the range on the lab scale. I was so excited when I found out and started HRT. The only thing that stinks a bit is the out of pocket expenses. But worth it.
@amandas1356
@amandas1356 5 месяцев назад
@@dollysingh9611it’s literally a bioidentical hormone made at a compound pharmacy called progesterone. I think it’s 100 mg and up. That is what I started with but now on 260 bc my labs were not increasing.
@sailingcosmo47
@sailingcosmo47 6 месяцев назад
Women without this help are losing their marriages needlessly 😢
@lindajones4849
@lindajones4849 6 месяцев назад
Maybe if the male husbands/ partners came to the ob/gyns appointment and complained they couldn't have sex because intercourse was painful for their wives the docs wld do something. Men's sexual needs are taken seriously.
@amc3964
@amc3964 5 месяцев назад
Why?
@dianasmith1398
@dianasmith1398 5 месяцев назад
Yes and I am one of those. I was perimenopause and didn't understand what was happening. I gained 20 pounds and was very depressed plus had bad sleeps. Sadly it destroyed my marriage and sent me in a tail spin for years. I landed up taking hrt for 10 years but it was too late and I was so sick.
@DianaHarris-w7f
@DianaHarris-w7f 5 месяцев назад
Yes true it happened to me😐
@indianne9781
@indianne9781 5 месяцев назад
@@dianasmith1398I went to the gynecologist in my late 30’s with very painful s*x, the quack told me I just needed more forepl*y. HOGWASH! I needed hormones!
@barbaramelady110
@barbaramelady110 6 месяцев назад
Frozen shoulder is soooooo painful ,had for 2 years ,try everything until one day went away!!! UNREAL!
@ysach.891
@ysach.891 6 месяцев назад
Hi , I m dealing with that :( it is bad. may I ask if you incorporate something to your daily routine that might help the frozen shoulder to go away?
@barbaramelady110
@barbaramelady110 6 месяцев назад
@@ysach.891 I went to OSTEOPATH several times, did exercise I found on YOU TUBE,even massage myself with the other hand, walk a lot and positive affirmation I know sounds like nothing but I always was saying to myself it will heal it will heal! Did not take any drugs even was horrible pain, occasionally CBD oil drops and massage with CBD cream. Stay strong ,wishing all the best to YOU xoxo
@alladukach-lc2ty
@alladukach-lc2ty 6 месяцев назад
Try laser treatments usually done by a Chriproactor
@sophiecariel4181
@sophiecariel4181 6 месяцев назад
My shoulder was completely frozen for "only" 4 months with no treatment, thanks to a few soft home exercises I found on the Bob & Brad RU-vid channel. You should definitely check them up and find which ones work best for you. Good luck!
@barbaramelady110
@barbaramelady110 6 месяцев назад
YOU so right same for me I found help on their channel!@@sophiecariel4181
@Annie-yv7rc
@Annie-yv7rc 5 месяцев назад
From you’re first period as a girl you are told just get on with it it’s not an illness. OMG this is wonderful.it’s not just the years of the change at 70 I’m still suffering brain fog, joint pain, frozen shoulder 🤷‍♀️👏
@ollagardeningwithmichele1144
@ollagardeningwithmichele1144 27 дней назад
I would love to see a program with Dr. Claire and Dr. Mindy together on the subject of fasting and menopause.
@amburetta
@amburetta 20 дней назад
there will be one on October 17 on PBS it’s called The M Factor.
@MsBuffalopoo
@MsBuffalopoo 6 месяцев назад
The way older woman have been medically overlooked makes me furious. 😡
@marci.0222
@marci.0222 6 месяцев назад
I was going to post this exact sentiment!!!!!!
@jennywillis8804
@jennywillis8804 5 месяцев назад
There’s no real money to be made as well.. 😢
@thelaceygirl
@thelaceygirl 5 месяцев назад
When I complained about my “female” problems to my old-school doctor, he told me that females of my age have been dealing with this for centuries, and asked me what makes me so special. I quickly found another doctor…
@lindajones4849
@lindajones4849 3 месяца назад
@@thelaceygirl In other words the doc had nothing to offer so he decided to lash out at you for daring to ask for help.
@northwildlings6795
@northwildlings6795 3 месяца назад
Agreed
@JenJenANDChrissy
@JenJenANDChrissy 6 месяцев назад
I'm 53 and my periods are still occurring 28-29 days like clockwork with no HRT. I started having perimenopausal symptoms at age 43 so I went to my OBGYN (female and around my age at the time). She bluntly told me that my symptoms weren't related to my hormones and suggested I see a psychiatrist! In tears, I told her I will never make another appointment with her and I basically fired her. I found a Nurse Practitioner who specializes in older women's health and she was very understanding and confirmed that my symptoms were very much related to my hormone depletion. Everything I read online talks about hot flashes and night sweats and vaginal dryness remedies. I have none of these! However, my anxiety is thru the roof and I get so depressed in the days leading up to my period. The insomnia is very disruptive to my life as well. Thank you for discussing this topic on your podcast!
@lindajones4849
@lindajones4849 6 месяцев назад
I'm very impressed that after becoming ng treated so horribly you had the presence of mind to fire your inappropriate / verbally abusive former obgyn on the spot
@jenniferbledsoe4311
@jenniferbledsoe4311 6 месяцев назад
My whole entire body changed LITERALLY OVERNIGHT I feel horrible!!! I don’t want anyone to touch me with a ten foot pole hot flashes amongst a lot of other hellish things I’m exhausted this was so helpful!! Now I just need to find someone as knowledgeable thank you
@bodyatwar
@bodyatwar 5 месяцев назад
Spent literally thousands on cardiology, stress tests, mammograms, and on and on and on… then- self diagnosing MYSELF with perimenopause and writing my own protocol along with DHEA and HRT and finally feeling better… my symptoms are going away faster than debt I accrued. 😒 😐
@jThorSF
@jThorSF 2 месяца назад
WOW! I really needed to see this‼️ I’m a 63 woman who’s been on bioidentical (designed to mimic the hormones made by your body's glands) HRT for 10 years. My Estrogen is EvaMist®. Progesterone is Prometrium. Yes, it does increase your risk for cancer. But the studies relied on years ago indicated that risk was much higher than we now know. I still have brain fog at times. But this video makes me believe I made the right decision on HRT, as my risk / family history is much greater for dementia than for cancer. I look forward to discussing this with my doctors! JT
@ChaundraVanNoy
@ChaundraVanNoy 6 месяцев назад
i love this podcast and i follow her already. I loved the "i don't give a s$#t factor" she states is right where I am no. I am 50 in 4 days and i am walking in to this decade as 50 and FABULOUS! Screw menopause. I am taking my life back!
@Tam-Solo70
@Tam-Solo70 6 месяцев назад
Hi Mel!! Thank you again for an AMAZING post! I started going through Perimenopause well before age 40. Long story short, after a long period of not seeing a Gyno I had Cervical Cancer at age 41. I got to keep my ovaries after a hysterectomy but I went through menopause by age 45, I am now 54 and have an amazing all woman’s family gyno team and doing great on Bio identical hormones. What a life savor those have been! It was HELL!!! I am SO GLAD Dr. Mary Claire Haver is out there educating woman and empowering them through menopause!!! You ladies both rock!!!
@pfv1247
@pfv1247 6 месяцев назад
3 years post menopause here and I feel like I got hit by a train. I started perimenopause when I was 47 in addition to all the other symptoms I had Frozen shoulder too. I"m 54 now and I've lost All my energy to work, to self-care, to envision and plan the day, week, year, and future. I fell like sh---. The menopause stage messed up my heart making me unqualified for hormone replacement therapy in postmenopause. Postmenopause f--ked my lymphatic system and caused my leg and head to be backed up with lymph fluid and swell up like. My brain is putty. On top of all that, MDs treat me like a second class citizen. I would describe my experience: perimenopause as being hit by a bicycle, menopause as being hit by a truck, and postmenopause as being hit by a train then shoved off a cliff. I don't recognize myself at all.
@LianaBuzea
@LianaBuzea 6 месяцев назад
Ufff, I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you can take something useful from this discussion and see it bring results. 🙏🏻
@AudreyRooke
@AudreyRooke 6 месяцев назад
I agree with the “hit by a train” analogy! I’m 55 now. At 51 I had a shutdown because I had been fighting extreme fatigue every single day and I finally just couldn’t function anymore. Didn’t realize it was menopause related until Later. The past two years
@AudreyRooke
@AudreyRooke 6 месяцев назад
The last 4 years have been like trying to put together a jigsaw puzzle everyday and ending up without all the pieces!!! Thank you, Mel, and Dr. H for this broadcast to confirm what my gut instinct has been telling me all these years!! I’m starting today with the top 3 suggestions and making appt for HRT as well.
@karendaly4218
@karendaly4218 5 месяцев назад
Missed my period for first time in February, turned 52 in January and since beginning of February can not walk. I have terrible muscle pain and what seems to be swelling in both legs. Saw ortho for knee because inner knee hurt. Now hips hurt. Can't squat without extreme muscle weakness and pain and legs feel wobble when I walk. Is this possibly estrogen and progesterone related?
@bonniesales8831
@bonniesales8831 5 месяцев назад
I could scream!!!! I am 65 and I finally have answers. Thank you so so much.
@reneeshuk7240
@reneeshuk7240 Месяц назад
Hi! Dr. Marie has changed my life with her videos. Watched one, got on HRT patch. No more hot flashes, attitude, working out, I did lose muscle mass and gained weight in the belly. Question, was having a heavy period normal? Mine was out of control, thought that was normal. Mom wouldn't talk about it, she didn't go through menopause. My doctor's didn't listen. Watched Dr. Marie Havers video and got on the patch. Can say I wished I would've got the patch 13 years ago. Started having high anxiety when I started menopause. Didn't correlate the 2, nor my doc. Having bone loss. My vision. Had a need for chocolate. Needed magnesium. Developed UC. Bladder issues. Getting better now. Thank you girls for your hard work. 🌻🌻🌻
@mbar4555
@mbar4555 6 месяцев назад
It’s so frustrating that female doctors are not listening either I was prescribed anti depressants after telling her I’m not sleeping , my hair is thinning I feel different , she said you are not 20 years old anymore you need anti depressants to sleep and that’s it no explanation . That’s why these podcast are so important thank you Mel for sharing this with us , as there are so many of us having to do our own research.
@ParulJain-s7k
@ParulJain-s7k 6 месяцев назад
I watched this podcast at least 5 times and each time I am crying, it’s seems you are explaining my story each of symptoms I am facing from last 5 years, and that frozen shoulder pain has become my part of life from 2015, I lived in at least 5 countries and each place nobody can figured out what’s wrong with my shoulder, in the end I gave up to see doctors and physiotherapist…. Thank you so much for this podcast, I really mean it!!
@kellio8087
@kellio8087 6 месяцев назад
An anti-inflammatory diet along with supplementation is what saved me. I had to do my own research to save myself from debilitating autoimmune disease because doctors didn't/couldn't help. Menopause caused gut issues and chronic stress and a whole host of other symptoms but the anti-inflammatory diet along with eliminating stress got rid of all symptoms within 1-2 months
@mrs.h4484
@mrs.h4484 6 месяцев назад
Mind if I ask what supplements you take?
@marizcampolet2729
@marizcampolet2729 5 месяцев назад
What anti inflammatory diet are you taking. Kindly share..thanks
@sonyaberkenpas5071
@sonyaberkenpas5071 5 месяцев назад
I’m here for the answers as well regarding what supplements and what anti-inflammatory diet
@h.a.s.42
@h.a.s.42 2 месяца назад
The scariest of all is the dementia symptoms. Memory loss, speaking issues, even writing issues (not remembering how to write cdrtain words) at the age of 45. Really scary. Hot flushes, hip issues, palpitations, sleeping disturbances, crazy sweating, constipation, dehydration, terrible migraines - all walk through paradise compared to the dementia symptoms. Ok, migraines are straight next to it. P.S. writing this while having a cute hot flash.
@sabrinafaldett12000
@sabrinafaldett12000 Месяц назад
Yes!! I’m 50 and I feel exactly the same way, I have all of those symptoms, but the dementia symptoms are the scariest even though I went to the neurologist about 8 times so far & everything looks good. Very upsetting. Hard to get things done when you can’t remember what you were supposed to do….The migraines for many days in a row are torture too. Hope HRT will help. Will ask my doctor about it.
@cjrogers8619
@cjrogers8619 Месяц назад
Yes same exact symptoms! This is a bit too much!
@KindraKS007
@KindraKS007 Месяц назад
Ten years ago, at 52, I entered menop and became very symptomatic with crazy stuff incl. rapid onset of muscle loss (noticed in thighs when sitting on toilet/ they went 'splat'), severe muscle/joint/bone pain all over but in my hips/thighs terribly, depression and neurological (I recall writing out a check and gasping at my chicken scratch; I'd always had good penmanship!) I thought I had MS and that's what scared me into doing a deeper dive into what was happening. I never tied these symptoms to menopause! My PCP did lots of labs/found nothing out of the ordinary. Finally sought out a Func Med MD (yes, an MD!) who tested my adrenals, thyroid, ran labs for heavy metals, did a microbiome stool test and a comprehensive Nutrival profile to assess levels of dozens of vitamins/minerals. I was off the charts toxic in LEAD (since learned menop can force lead out of bones where it's likely been stored for yrs), also very toxic in mercury, had high cortisol, low thryroid function, severely depleted in vitamins/minerals. True, my diet had been comprised largely of coffee, Goldfish/potato chips & wine... Stressed with family et al I'd gained 15 lbs, all fat. Was also told I had the musculature (at 52) of an 80 yr old. I had been making all worse by eating kiwis with skin (had set them on a lead-ridden antique dish to ripen). I was not active. Most of my days were spent working or sitting in car running errands. SOLUTION: Over the next several yrs I started to incorporate the following tidbits until they became my routine. Morning - Wim Hof breathing for 10-15 minutes (Wim Hof App guided breathing, best $35/yr ever spent/reduces stress), Qi Gong 10-min Morning (energizing) routine with You Tuber Tyler Trahan [at night to sleep better I'd do deep breathing 4:7:8 with visualization in bed. Also took a couple Magnesium Baths per week to reduce stress, assist in my detox. Ditto for infrared saunas. I bought a pop-up 'tent' on Amazon.] After my morning Wim Hof breathing I'd do a few minutes of toning with body weight exercises/stretching then my 10-min Qi Gong. MOVE YOUR BODY. I took my daily compounded Rx vit/min supplements and bought a NutriNinja and started daily green drinks/berry smoothies. Doctor told me lessening the work my digestive system had to do would speed healing...seemed to work. I also made simple soups to aid digestion and get in nutrients. I took a year off all fish because of the mercury. I took Digestive Enzymes before meals (the alcohol had messed up my gut; I wasn't absorbing nutrients.) I bought a nut milk bag and made my own milk in the Ninja with sprouted almonds, water (then strain). Did same with Hemp Hearts. Same with Flaxseed for a flax 'milk'. I'd use these non-dairy milks in my smoothies. After a year I started back on mostly 'real' food. Can eat anything now, just watch my portion sizes. I just turned 63 and clock 10,000++ steps most days plus lots of stairs, lift weights 2x week, just climbed Beehive trail in Acadia with my 24-yr old elite athlete Navy jet-pilot son and actually kept up with him, just got an 8-lb weight vest to try out, am wearing it around the house for a week before I start walking with it... and I've been back to my ideal weight for the past 5 yrs. I try to consume at least 100 grams of high quality protein/day plus fruits & veggies / fiber is critical for health/diversity of gut microbes. I still have alot of work to do to BUILD muscle at this point but at least I'm not losing ground currently. I feel for all of you who are going through this. Know it can change. Find a NAMS MSCP (North American Menopause Society/Menopause Society Certified Practitioner) at Menopause.org to further advise and do what you're doing... continue to read about those of us who managed to climb out of it and how we did it. Maybe some of these things will help you. xoxo!
@h.a.s.42
@h.a.s.42 Месяц назад
@@KindraKS007 wow, congratulations. That's amazing! Qi going is fantastic. Well done, you truly break your own limitations. Inspiring.
@KindraKS007
@KindraKS007 Месяц назад
@@h.a.s.42❤ Also btw whenever I wake up with a headache, even a bad one, doing that Wim Hof breathing for 20 minutes somehow makes it magically disappear 🎉
@RethaWatson-k7w
@RethaWatson-k7w 5 месяцев назад
I’m 82 years old, I had total Hestorectamy at the age of 27 yrs old, I’m still having hot flashes, so happy someone is helping we women .. thank you so much!!
@Bobawob
@Bobawob 6 месяцев назад
I wish I knew this when I was going through menopause, I’m 75, no HRT even when I needed it. Everyone was afraid it would increase the risk for breast cancer. So doctors didn’t prescribe it. I feel cheated out of taking the optimal care of my body.
@pejisan
@pejisan 6 месяцев назад
me too! i am going to get hrt one way or another - 25 years ago was best, but now is better.
@Bobawob
@Bobawob 6 месяцев назад
@@pejisan let me know if you were successful
@michelelastovica4670
@michelelastovica4670 5 месяцев назад
I’m 65 and didn’t have too many problems through menopause thanks to my acupuncturist and his eastern medicine. However, the past year or two I just haven’t been myself. My body has betrayed me and after watching this podcast, I’m fearful for my future health, especially heart and bones. I recently had my first UTI in over 30 years. I feel cheated as well!
@Annie-yv7rc
@Annie-yv7rc 5 месяцев назад
Me too
@germainenewman8526
@germainenewman8526 5 месяцев назад
It does increase the risk of breast cancer! It's just reduced now due to body identical hrt. There is still a risk tho
@sandravanvalkenburg5502
@sandravanvalkenburg5502 6 месяцев назад
This is so me!! I joke pretty much everyday that I have early onset dementia. I am 55 and my obgyn told me that I don't need to come in but every 3 years for a gyno exam. That floored me. That can't be safe because I feel like there is so much more going on later in life.
@casperinsight3524
@casperinsight3524 6 месяцев назад
💥🎯💥
@julieburkhardt61
@julieburkhardt61 6 месяцев назад
same here!! I think they want us boomers dead and gone!!
@dianad1639
@dianad1639 6 месяцев назад
Unfortunately that is the new protocol. Not good
@SoniaGonzalez-bm9bw
@SoniaGonzalez-bm9bw 6 месяцев назад
I even went to see a neurologist to check from early dementia because of the fog Thank God I’m all good but I get it
@joannesaffer1029
@joannesaffer1029 6 месяцев назад
I heard that also, medical insurance companies seem to be way to powerful with our healthcare needs It’s all about the Benjamin’s 💲💲💲
@karenwhalen5651
@karenwhalen5651 6 месяцев назад
I am 67 and was on HRT until I was 65! My last period was when I was 42! This is an excellent podcast! Thank you 😊
@berniefurlong2840
@berniefurlong2840 6 месяцев назад
Why did you stop HRT? I'm 65 now and have no intention of stopping.
@karenwhalen5651
@karenwhalen5651 6 месяцев назад
@berniefurlong2840 I belong to Kaiser and I was told that at 65 was the limit for taking it!
@carolynpatterson5217
@carolynpatterson5217 6 месяцев назад
I don’t understand - they are an HMO, right? So if Kaiser says to, you’ll just stop it, even if you feel great?? 🤬 I’d pay for it myself and keep on going if there are no other contraindications!
@heathermartin2509
@heathermartin2509 5 месяцев назад
I’m about to be 66 and I’m going to insist I start again. Went off after five years in my early fifties as recommended then. Had the frozen shoulder as well. Hideous.
@jannlittle4745
@jannlittle4745 5 месяцев назад
I take bioidentical hormones compounded since 47.. pay out of pocket.. 65 every 3 months.
@kathystewart2336
@kathystewart2336 5 месяцев назад
….because of Dr Haver , I started HRT at the beginning of March and it’s been WONDERFUL 🙏🙏🙏
@katiestark7527
@katiestark7527 3 месяца назад
I am 44, I had shoulder pain, on and off for the last decade. Shoulder is finally stable. Whole body feels good, knees are getting better day by day. I have been lifting weights, going heavier as I can. Eating more protein, according to macros, for the last 6 months. Still need to loose a little weight that has mysteriously shown up in the last couple years.
@RochelleFlores-w1d
@RochelleFlores-w1d 6 месяцев назад
I'm the one you said you are going to save someone's life. I just turned in the heart monitor this morning, along with other test. My body is falling apart at 54 and I regretful connect with almost 100% of what you described. Never has any doctor suggested this. I was just told by a medical professional yesterday that we all need to really advocate for ourselves. That's just what I'm going to do. Thank you! 53:49
@redfreedme3749
@redfreedme3749 6 месяцев назад
I finally, finally, finally feel heard, not so alone, not as confused and with some hope. I can't thank you ladies enough. THANK YOU
@CCT1988
@CCT1988 6 месяцев назад
As I watch this.. I have to keep rewinding to watch parts again.. brain fog and fatigue at its finest hour .. THANK YOU MEL FOR THIS!!!
@marylougaribay407
@marylougaribay407 4 месяца назад
OK ladies, I’m literally in tears after watching this!! The symptoms started I would say in my 40s and all the male doctors that I mentioned this to I actually did mention hormone therapy and they looked at me like I was crazy and they just kind of shrugged it off. I knew I wasn’t crazy. I knew something was changing and it still has been but at least I feel a lot more empowered started HRC and already noticing a difference. This is insane and I can’t believe that so many women have gone through all this for so many years, but at least we can take our power back.👑👏🏻👏🏻💯❤️
@AprilLinden-ge3sl
@AprilLinden-ge3sl 4 месяца назад
This podcast with Dr Mary Clare was so enlightening and empowering!! I am a 63 year old nurse who knew some of this but not nearly enough! Thank you!!
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