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❗ *6 GUIDELINES FOR LIFE:* *1) When you are alone, mind your thoughts.* *2) When you are with your friends, mind your tongue.* *3) When you are angry, mind your temper.* *4) When you are with a group, mind your behaviour.* *5) When you are in trouble, mind your emotions.* *6) When God starts blessing you, mind your ego.*
Why do we have to mind our thoughts when we are alone, i just want to know what will happen, because im alone 24/7 no friends no family nothing just a flesh walking and i speak negative 24/7 about my self to myself but i am loving caring and kind to everyone else i see around
You need to learn to speak kindly to yourself. After every negative thought that occurs, try to see something positve, something you are grateful for. This will switch your mindset over time and will basically change everything.
*Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. Keep putting in the work...*
Can’t believe the universe just delivered this video to me after me just done a deep meditation few minutes ago feeling that something is gonna happen to lead me out of my current miserable situation.Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Your openness to life will dictate how much joy you allow into your life. Taking responsibility for myself was a big step in attracting someone for it showed I was willing to commit to love. Great insights here Aaron, I love the part of thinking you needed someone to fix in order to love them. -Much love from a growing RU-vidr
Can totally relate to this. Growing up in a home where I was emotionally neglected resulting in emotionally abandoning myself and now finding I'm attracted to emotionally unavailable types (cos I'm also unavailable!). Do you think there's a fear element involved here? Like feeling afraid of emotionally available people? I always feel so relieved when things don't work out. It's weird. However, I totally get that once we can love ourselves fully and show up for ourselves is when others will too show up in the same way.
Hahah friend, your comment spoke right to my soul. I also feel relieved when things don't work out. One time I started facing my fear of approaching girls on the street and I was relieved every time they rejected me. I was not afraid of rejection, I was afraid of acceptance . Its exactly what Aaron was talking about, this feeling of rejection was home for me and still is to this day, except now I'm trying to change that.
You can find on RU-vid a book "he's scared, she's scared" which talks about this commitment fobic dynamic, which is often active for men (they leave) and passive for women (they withdraw their energy, take distance, to until HE leaves!) And then we all feel "relief", as long as we are driven by fears... Otherwise we would value what we have built up with another person: a special unique relationship, communication, ...
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RU-vidr
Sorry aaron, but why people have to find someone to feel loved? We are living strange time and unfortunately people are weird by the concept of what is love. Toxic relationships this is what I see everyday. Praise to the one who can bear loneliness and find the self love. From France thank you. Namaste
Its because the whole society construct is like that and the majority dictates the rules. For the majority finding a life partner is one of the main goals in life and also you'll notice how in social situations man that are able to attract women have higher social status than man who enjoy their solitude. Its how this freaking Matrix works unfortunatly. But I'm on the same page with you regarding being able to leave alone and feel at peace with yourself. Perhaps people need in the begining to have this experience of having a partner and see all the shit that comes with it (because its not just sunshine and rainbows) and then people are able to feel at peace alone because they had the experience.
Well, I agree. I personally must feel comfortable alone before even thinking about getting into a relationship. But I think this video is more for the ones that are trying to attract someone or feel like they want a partner. not those who feel perfectly fine being single.
Omg Aaron, you are expressing exactly how I feel. I’ve never heard anyone explain it this way. I’ve listened to this like 5 times, like I’m in therapy or something.
I always thought there was something wrong with me or I needed fixing. I would avoid people that showed me they did like me and think “how could they like?” “why do they like me”? . Amazing video! It really freed me! I am ready to be courageous and be myself.
Thanks so much for this video Aaron. You really make me open my eyes and also very emotional when you say that we are worthy and that is not our fault. Muchas gracias!!
This is very healing for me to hear others with similar traumatic childhoods can have an abundant and successful life and relationships. I've been feeling like I have to be perfect to serve others and step into my purpose. Thank you for sharing these difficult parts of yourself.
Aaron, your videos are so authentic and honest... very easy to relate to... so much of what you say resonates with me. Thank you for your honesty and courage.
Aw man! Looking back on my past experiences something's just hit me square in the face... 25+ years ago, someone was emotionally available for me and I didn't even realise... I remember the conversation like it was yesterday (I've got a really good memory) This was in the late 90's so by SMS: I said... "I'm just waiting out here in the rain for a brighter day to come" to which the other person replied "I'm happy to stand out her in the rain with you" and I did nothing about it. I don't even think I acknowledged it at all.
Aaron Aaron Aaron you nailed it! what amazing episode!!!! I cannot begin to tell you what a blessing you’ve been in my life. you reach out from your heart and heal mine!!!! You heal. You get a leg up for yourself and then show us where to step. Your generosity of spirit it’s so phenomenal!I wish I could fill this whole world with spirits just like yours. To everyone out there on this journey Much Peace, Joy & Aloha 🕊🤍🕊 & Love 🕊Love🕊
WOW AARON ❤️ I've been following you since the beginning. Can't even describe your change, it's beautiful! But this video right here is one of your best and most authentic work as yet! 🎉 Congrats 👏🏻
Yeah my relationships are way better when I’m just in my body, instead of being in my head in some sort of unconscious fawn response. All the answers are inside! Also I’ve got a bunch of comedy skits on my channel about the paradoxes of spiritual stuff you might enjoy too! ☯️
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤.
You have no idea how much you have saved my life. On this topic and many others. You are helping so much people to return to themselves. Thank you, Aaron.
Yeah my relationships are way better when I’m just in my body, instead of being in my head in some sort of unconscious fawn response. All the answers are inside! Also I’ve got a bunch of comedy skits on my channel about the paradoxes of spiritual stuff you might enjoy too! ☯️
Aaron, I can’t thank you enough! I have been going through this series of videos about codependency, manipulation and love. This is helping me become aware all this baggage I’ve been dragging my whole life! Its amazing how relieved I’m feeling just after a few minutes of this. Thanks again and keep spreading the good vibes my friend!
Aaron I really listened deeply to your video. Going back to the start, our shadows. Our background of our parents. Blocking love. Being who we attract. Thank you so much / love & light ✨️
Thank you Aaron. I'll watch the rest of the vid later but I love it so far and love IS like a mirror and the #1 reason people can't find love? I AM love...I don't need to "find" what I already am, I just need to be me..LOVE..then like attracts like..and BTW you ARE lovable. Namaste
Love is always with me. Everything else is a experience I choose. How bout we love...love. Don't chase it, just be it. Don't seek a title to strap on it or you will but it in a box. Things in boxes are CAUGHT. I don't like that feeling of capture. Allow people to flow for as long as they last in your life....no titles required.
My son is 26. Conservative. Organic gardening farming firewood. A VIRGIN. HE OWNS a farm. Liberal woman are total nutjobs. Today they are stapled. Punched inked and. They dont think country boys know any thing. 4 four wheelers. Two snowmobiles. 84 acres. Two ponds. On the prettiest land in canada. Manitoulin island is the prettiest place in Canada 🇨🇦
I'm a liberal, have no piercings, no ink, and admire the hell out of farms. Life's not all black and white, not every single person will fit a category.
Broooooooo!!!!!!! Blew my mind when you said if you are trying to get them to like you you are trying to manipulate and you’ll attract people like that!!!
I struggle with self worth. I woke up from a nap a few years back and an external voice said in my head "to know all of one's worth would be to be selling oneself short". Still trying to figure out what I am suppose to take from that.
Aaron, your videos really took my life and made it so much better. Thank you is an understatement, you're the first youtuber making this type of content that I return to time and time again... NEVER STOP DOING WHAT YOURE DOING
You are magnetic indeed. But when I first saw one f your videos a couple of months ago I felt a really big resistance in me. I guess I wasn't prepared for your message. Now I am and I'm really glad
i wish i had found these videos a few months ago when i was in the thick of being really clingy. i felt this person distancing and yup you bet i did everything i thought i could to cling and serve him in every way when it was not reciprocated. i kept holding onto words he had said in the beginning and actions and trying to get back to that. this gives me some understanding of it. embarrassed and shaming myself for being so clingy and blinded and afraid that i completely ruined it or any chance of ever seeing him again. it’s been really really painful. thank you for providing some light. there is a lot of work to be done within me and the feeling of abandonment growing up. i’m not sure if it might have something to do with how often i moved around as a child. constantly being pulled away from people who were important friends and loved ones. always the new girl in school. i guess i never thought about that having an effect on my adult relationships.
I felt every word you said and can so relate to you cuz I'm going through something like this now. Thank for sharing. I hope your feeling better and getting to doing your work like me to. I would love to know how your doing today cuz I know it's been a couple months now for you. Thank you again
@@susierae590 sending you good vibes, i know it feels really painful in the moment and like it will never get better, thank you for commenting on this. it was a good reminder of how far i have come. i’m doing better, there’s few days where something reminds me of him but it isn’t constant torment and agony. acceptance is a huge part. being able to look back at the experience in a different light and realizing my worth. i did a lot of work there, talking nicer to myself and showing compassion toward myself in that relationship instead of hating myself for feeling dumb to fall for everything he said. if it provides any hope at all yes i do feel better, continue working on you and appreciating yourself. i realize how stressed out and actually sad i was in that relationship and i am grateful that it is over now.
Studying spirituality for 5+ years, the #1 cause I have been noticing is people having trouble tapping into the frequency of the Law of Seduction due to subconscious fears and conscious beliefs.
There is nothing wrong with the reflection. I see a handsome young man, who has been through some tough times but was able to withstand the test of time. He works so hard on himself and as he is learning and growing, he shares what he learned with the world. The universe rewarded him abundantly for his generosity. The universe loves generous people. All the inconveniences and obstacles were just learning curves that taught him how to defend himself and how to tell whom to give his trust to. As people show him who they are, he gets to pick the right ones for himself. There are always going to be people who hurt others, but he learned how to trust himself to chose wisely. There is nothing wrong with the reflection. No scars to YOU beautiful!
Im at 18:38. amd I just came from Ryan Holiday's The daily stoic video: "Become a master of Yourself" and your line of:"Be contagious by doing what You Love and that self assurance line: "I AM CONTAGIOUS" just illustrates the last point of Seneca's teaching that he discusses which is: MAKE OTHERS BETTER BY BEING YOUR BEST SELF IN YOUR BENEFIT AS IT MAKES YOU HAPPY" I hope you had a great thanksgiving and be safe and healthy always 😘 thank you for always giving me positive vibes and for keeping me sane in this pandemic
This is really insightful and helpful. I think this applies to every area of life - not just romantic love..... Every area of life is a mirror reflecting back to us what we think and feel inside!
Yeah my relationships are way better when I’m just in my body, instead of being in my head in some sort of unconscious fawn response. All the answers are inside! Also I’ve got a bunch of comedy skits on my channel about the paradoxes of spiritual stuff you might enjoy too! ☯️
OMG...Icame across one of your videos today and...now everything is so clear to me!! S**t...this was an epiphany. Take me out of here !! Listening to your videos all afertnoon, I can't believe you could explain what I have been trying to understand in 56 years. Thanks so so so much
Yeah my relationships are way better when I’m just in my body, instead of being in my head in some sort of unconscious fawn response. All the answers are inside! Also I’ve got a bunch of comedy skits on my channel about the paradoxes of spiritual stuff you might enjoy too! ☯️🌈😈
20:16 I've been saying something similar about being nice versus being kind for a long time and you saying that here definitely gave me pause and a very "whoa" moment. I loathe the connotation that nice brings and it is far too commonly used where I would see I have to make clear delineations. The way I've been laying it out is that being kind is a conscious and active choice being made not only without expectations being built around it, but is also more passively rewarding on it's own. Being nice is doing things with the explicit purpose of getting something back from it, putting people in the position of having to or feeling obligated to be active for the sake of rewarding your nice action. Receiving more and more confirmations that I'm getting it and have been on my own for a long time, but I just need to put more things into practice, is really enlightening about where I stand in this world, where my head is and the path I'm on.
Thank you Immensely Aaron for sharing this Amazing Video with us for that we are immensely grateful My Soul Embraces your Amazings Souls Divine Souls of Light Namaste 🙏 💝
*The crypto market has been favourable in the past weeks, I keep missing out on this opportunity, I'm most certainly very impatient how can I ever make a profit in the crypto market*
Wow I know Mr Gregory Robert. I met him at a conference in California 2019 where he introduced us his business strategy, he helped me cover my student loans
Yes I’m “nice” and yes I try and fix things that’s why I quit trying to date because it was making me bitter, all I wanted was to find someone else like me. I’m still the same in my platonic relationships but it seems that what made me unattractive as a partner makes me a good reliable friend and that’s going to have to be enough.
So many things you have mentioned resonate with me. Thank you for the great videos and I really like how authentically you behave, some words do sound cocky but it doesn't feel like that , it even amuses
I have this same pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable people... which means I'm emotionally unavailable...but I don't know what to do to become emotionally available....
I’ve been trying to really do some inner child healing . Talking to my child self and resssuring her … I think it’s i healed Trauma that people can’t see from the outside but when I’m in relationships by thoughts and head get to me .
I used to be the fixer. Some of them came to me and the ones who worked on themselves later married someone else after it didn't work out with me. This last time I was with a fixer. That was weird to me. I found some valid reasons that it didn't work out. Now I am not sure if maybe my checklist is too high but I'm pretty sure my heart isn't open. I'm too stressed. I'm working on it but I'm going through an extremely stressful situation at the moment. We people can be such silly creatures, can't we compared to others in nature? It seems we can do a great job of overcomplicating things. The more I'm around people sometimes, the more I enjoy retreating with my animals for now. I will be meditating again.
Hi Aaron, you talk about opening your heart is important. Can you please specify what you mean by that? How does that work in practice? Many thanks for the great video 😊
