Seeking God my creator to please Him only. Jesus was perfect, yet many didn’t like Him either. However, God said that He was well pleased with Jesus......and that’s all that mattered.
I wasn't only thinking about you when I wrote what I wrote, I was thinking about what God would expect me to write I is obvious that we are on two different page
Too evasive or too direct Too honest or too dishonest Too passive or too aggresive Too ugly or too attractive Too bussy or too available Wish happy for everyone
I failed bc I'm most of these. I'm ugly. I thought so...😆🤣😂😹. And I'm too available. Ppl find me every time they need something 🙄 I stopped. I was too eager for friendship. When I stopped they stopped reaching out. I thought so. Just using me.....no more!! I was always there!! Not anymore. Nobody is nvr there for me
I’m too direct, too honest / blunt, too assertive, too ugly, too available. When I stopped being available for people they stopped but when I need anything, nobody is there.
Everyone lies. Sometimes they aren't aware of it at the time or maybe they lie to themselves but are convinced that it's the truth. If you dig hard enough, you can find lies somewhere. It's just being human.
May be that’s my problem. I can feel what people feel. I’m a positive person and I’m very friendly. If someone feels down I really want them to feel better. But I have literally no friends. People seem to like me when they fist see me. But once they get to know me they pull away.
Not all the time. I'm extremely blunt with my family and friends and honestly they don't like me. They love me, but they don't like my presence. They roll their eyes when I talk. Call me a know it all even though they had me tested for a high IQ at 6 years old and turns out I have a 133 IQ. I know alot more than the average person. I care so much I push people. I don't steal, I hold my integrity, I don't use anyone, everyone knows my family and friends come first in my eyes, but to be honest outside of my father, no one likes me. They tolerate me, but they don't like. I still treat them like gold, I don't insult them or put them down, all in hopes maybe one day they will understand how much I love them. Never really noticed how much it hurt me until about a year ago, I had a girl I was seeing get me a $20 gift of something I had mentioned months before about wanting and needing it and when I seen what it was it made me cry hard because at that point I realized the people around me don't feel the same way I do about them considering a woman ive known less than a year showed she cared, they wouldn't care to put a thought into doing anything for me. It just hurts so so bad. I really don't treat anyone bad at all. I just really am too blunt and honest with people. That's it. I am decently successful, not overly ambitious or lazy, not malicious, I don't manipulate or use people, and actually I'm always helping people or going without so someone else doesn't have to. I treat women with respect as well. I don't two time women or sleep around. I really have straight morals and respect. I don't belittle. I just can't for the love of nothing figure out what it is that makes everyone put me at the bottom of their list or people they like or people they care to show they care about..... I don't not feel love, I just feel like I'm not liked. Even in the past at previous jobs I've just been the most hated person their, even though I never argued with anyone, never called out, picked up shifts, loaned money to, yes I said I loaned money to a Co worker before 😂. It's DEFINITELY something with me, not the other way around. And now I'm trying to figure it out, but it's so hard when in reality there is nothing wrong with my morals or how I treat people. I thinks it's just my overall personality. I'm also good at basically anything I try, that I've been told is intimidating, but also doesn't justify the reason for everyone so I know it's alot more than that. Sorry. Just had to vent. One of them nights trying to figure out why everyone hates me. I'll be good though.
I have enjoyed a lot of your videos but this is the worst yet! Sorry. Watching this makes the viewer frustrated. 'Damned if you do, damned if you don't'. I think you could have done this one differently. People will dislike you for all kinds of reasons. You can be the nicest person who is generous and well mannered, but still you will have a hater. Whether you are very honest or just keep your opinions to yourself, as Chris Cornell's lyric goes, 'Be yourself is all you can do'.
I actually like that people don't like me. Including my family. lol It keeps certain people away from me!!! When people did like me, they were not for and nearly destroyed me. There will be people that appreciate you, but it is rare. Like yourself. That is all that matters, because people are just people and most are miserable anyways.
Reason 3 got to me. I've always been the type of guy who sees the humour in everything. A few years ago a girl I knew yelled at me - "can't you take anything seriously"? After that, I decided that she was right. Not long after a very serious incident took place which involved the possible suspension of a close friend. I put in my two cents on the matter (seriously) after which the same girl yelled - "can you please lighten up a bit"! After that I had absolutely zero to do with this person as it seemed to me that with her it's a case of damned if I do & damned if I don't. Since then, I don't give a flying fuck if people like me or not.
If you spend your time trying to satisfy everyone. When do you get the time to be you. Everybody doesn't deserve to be in your circle. Having (true) friends is a must but, if I'm constantly bending myself to fit another person's box. How do I grow. A true friend is someone you can learn from and, they can learn from you and in tough times they've got your back.
Everything you said is true, but regardless of what you do, there will always be people who will not like you because of their insecurities, inferiority complexes, or jealousies, or because of your education, class, race, financial status, appearance, achievements, or material gains. It took me most of my life to realise this. I believe you were created to be who you are, and no matter how you try to change to suit other people's needs and desires, there will always be those who will not like you because they have an agenda that you do not fit into. When people try to put you down and start criticising you, there is a problem with them, not you. Be observant and study their behaviour. If you are not happy with them, move on. Everybody has an agenda, and we are all from different homes and upbringings, and are not the same. You must learn to be strong and not needy because, regardless of what you do and how you try to change, not everybody will like you. But thank God, there is something called experience. This is your teacher.
OMG!! I ALWAYS THAT I SUPPOSED TO STUDY PSYCHOLOGY, PEOPLES MINDS ARE COMPLICATE! I LIVE IN A FARM, MY FARM ANIMALS ARE NOT COMPLICATE 🙄 THANK YOU MY DEAR BROTHER, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.💖🙏🏻💗
This is excellent! So truthful. Why waste time with people who are negative? Daniel, you are very good looking, and your wife is beautiful; but who you are as a human being is even better.
I don’t think I like people much. The older I get the less I want to be around anyone. I can’t stand gossip, I can’t handle small talk at all. I’d rather be around dogs and other animals, they don’t care what you have or don’t have. Too many people want something from you.
Lots of comments here saying they don't care if people like them. I understand they want to be their genuine selves. However when it comes to the workplace, there may be some fine tuning required in order to keep a job you love. If your boss doesnt trust you, or if your coworkers find you irritating, you may find yourself slowly pushed out of that job. As i watched this, i realize that i'm too vague, too laid back, and not available enough. I have no idea how to be different, but i can be more aware while i try to work it out.
I am not here to please anyone.I live my life according my rules and I do not follow the crowds. DANIEL I am happy with me and that is all that counts.
doesn't matter how great a person you are, people will always find a reason not to like you. people don't like me because i'm confident and honest and don't cater to people's feelings
I wasted many years trying to please others especially neighbours until i realised that those who do not like you most probably do not like each other.
Most people are self-centered and want to be the center of attention for building clout, building self esteem, or repairing mental and emotional damage. Anyone who intentionally or unintentionally interferes with that illusion or reality automatically becomes a targeted individual of envy by one or many.
Daniel I’ll be honest with you. The advice that you provided in this video is one of the most necessities that I need in my life it’s very helpful thank you. But in the long run PLSS CHANGE YOUR HAIRSTYLE!!!
@@danielallyway I never understood that. I'm not rich but I went from homeless to make an $1,000 a week and I've never been so happy in my life. It's like a million elephants have been lifted off of my back. Keep in mind, I feel this way with only 52,000 a year. Imagine if I was making 52,000 a week
Loved this. It's so true But how many of those who don't like us are of God? Though I get your point Fight worthwhile causes Oh, and you're a poet and you know it? 😁😅😇 Shalom 🙏 Have a beautiful day ‼🔥
A terrific eye opener by you.! Keep up your good work. I only wish my late Dad and late Mom had told me all this earlier but they never did. May be they never knew ! And they and I committed the same mistakes as the 5 points you just explained.! Thanks. 👍🙏
What folks thank of me i don't give a damn about them i keep my distance far away from them I'm a positive person I'm a honest person i got a lot of sense i forgive people that doesn't mean i don't appected their behaviour or i don't trust them at all that will never happen i forgive them for me so i can move on with my life.
SOoo True! I’m very straight forward, very athletic, very aggressive ( because I want it done now and I’m also a perfectionist.people think I’m really good looking - ( but only because I have a great body ) I’m a vegetarian and I’m also working all the time ( really busy ) So yeah people dislikes me because Of those reasons oh well.. as long GOD and my animals loves me that’s all I need ♥️
People never like me especially at a work place. And I am nice to them though.. I am straight forward but sometimes I am quiet and they just don't like me. I am very brutally honest🙈
I'm right there with you. Most people don't like me. It hurts, but I don't think I can do anything about it. I've tried and nothing improves. I have lost everyone I know. It's pretty sad. All I can do is just be me.
What others think of me is IRRELEVANT. I honestly do not care about whether people like me or not because I am my own best friend. 💯 I do not need other people. It's not my job to please people, it's my job to live my life for myself.
Yes, I'm liked by most but looked down upon by some for being disabled. Since I've become disabled some people who liked me have basically thrown me away like a piece of trash.
I have been through exactly the same. It's sad, but at the same time better to know who your real friends are. I have very mixed emotions about my life and circles, the older I get the better I know how to handle it all.
I feel so shitty I’m 20 and I’ve been reaching out to people to hangout to go out everything and anything and struggling with anxiety this has been a journey because I don’t like being alone but why don’t people want to hang out with me, I just been trying so hard and then not trying at all but it’s so hard for me, then I see people that are horrible to there friends but seem to have all the friends in the world, and are always accepted. This sucks I hate rejection because I’m really trying to put myself out there but I keep getting rejected.
Stop trying so very hard. Try to find peace alone, with the universe. You aren't alone. I get lonely too. God is all around me. ( Whatever you see as God)
Not no more I’m done being honest done being straight forward I j lost a good friend I had known for 7 years and told him a friend told me that he seen his wife at the bar with one of his homies and my friend lied to my friend about what he told me and I’m the lier lmfao starting today I’m doing shit for me and done with people putting me last I’m j gonna keep to my self and let life happen on it’s own.
I'm probably gonna get hate if I say the truth but I'm gonna do it anyways I dont give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, all my life I always been the outsider and the odd one so it's like a walk in the park for me. I been teased, called names, I can go on and on All my life I only had male attention its not fair to me cause then I get called a whore I only have one good male friend and honestly he is my only friend but I'm satisfied with that
Give me my dogs over people any day. I might be lonely one day, but today, I'm ok with not having to "like" every social media post, or feel obligated for birthdays of friends, blah blah blah....... my husband, my parents, my dogs, and my home are all I truly need and want frankly. I like to think that I don't care what people think, but really, we all do if we are being honest. I feel the negative vibes from other women because I am attractive, and I think I carry myself confidently, but I feel others take that as arrogance. I have tried working on that, and have found, sometimes a smile goes a long way.
Let’s face it you can’t win you’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t I don’t care what anybody thinks about me I have to be happy with me
Love it, at the age of 55 y I totally understand what was said cause I’ve seen these traits in humans, and you should adjust yourself to certain situations 🤫😬
When you punch a bully right on the mouth that punk may really not like you. But when everyone else is shaking your hand, probably not a bad thing. (He was twenty years younger and 50 lbs heavier so fu"""""ck it. .
I wonder if one of the reasons people hate me is because I go to a party, show up three hours late, and throw everything on the floor. I did this at the last party I was invited to. It was about 3 years ago.
Mr. Ally great advice. I been reading the comments and will state having less people in your life brings less transgressions for baring fault witness against your neighbor.
Dear Daniel Ally, thank you very much for nice, wonderful, very useful video talk. This is 100 percent true, we agree. 5 reasons people do not like, we have to change, we will follow these reasons. God bless.
Ally, good morning. Very useful message given by you. In sanskrit proverb " athi sarvathra varjiyeth" l learn that always there is need to maintain " balance " in any situation. Thank you.
If your close to God people tend not to like you tho they don't know why. Its Gods light in you. Remember they hated him first. I have a very close relationship with Our Lord and people don't like me as soon as they meet me. As long as he loves me that's fine with me because he does so much for me that others could never do.
omg thank you.... i have been hated all my life for no reason... im sooo nice to people and they always abuse me, hurt me, betray me etc .... you shed some light for me ... thank you
