The 9 SIGNS Of An Emotional Affair... 

Hey Stephan, first off your a great speaker and you have helped me so much . I’ve learned a lot about myself and about my ex . I would like to hear from you about “emotional cheating” on social media . Meaning for example my ex , he has thousands of woman on all his social media accounts and it’s nothing but nasty woman if you know what I mean . It was really hard for me when I found out about a year into our relationship. I addressed it and he refused to change it . He basically chose that over me along with alot of other situations that I found wrong and hurtful. We still live together because of money and it’s super hard . I was just curious what your thoughts are on that issue. Do you do online counseling?? I would be interested. I’ve never felt this low in my life and I’m trying to find me again . Thank you !! And god bless

Definitely a red flag

I feel you it's not an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

@@MeetStephanSpeaks yeah. No matter what we still need to do what we have to. Thank you for your reply

Or your partner comforts you with lies and you want to believe it. What am I getting out of this? I must have low self esteem.

I can't count how many times my ex husband dismissed my conversations, tears, affection.. 😔

Every time I try to ask him he gets defensive and says I'm crazy and I'm sure he gaslight me. But this other woman lives in another state. But I know down inside he loves her.😡🤬

@@kimberlyedgett3592 bite the bullet girl...dump him

@@lisacowan2248 ik. But I've been with him for 26 yrs and I love him. I'm hoping by me being happier, praising him and changing my whole attitude will make him realize we are meant to be together. Hope it works.

@@kimberlyedgett3592 good luck.

@@kimberlyedgett3592 Men always say you "crazy" when there's some form of dishonesty. In other words, you're right about your intuition.

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He is the BEST

Facts

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@Vanessa Louis I had to walk away ftom my marriage my husband wouldn't stop no matter how much I tried talking to him reaching out to him and offering marriage counseling he never showed effort or interest 25yrs wasted because he wanted more and I wasn't enough

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

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@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're Welcome And Thank You For These Informative Videos! 🙏

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Never understood the work husband/wife thing! I mean, the very name is just... it's like a work name for potential affair partner

I totally agree! I have heard that term so many times and it makes me sick...if a person I vested all that energy and attention to their partner that they invest in the "work husband" or "work wife" the marriage would be strong and grow

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Most definitely!

Amen

So true 💯.

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My wife joined a gym.Then spoke to a friend that was an upair that revealed to her his worries for her future.Should I be suspicious?

Thank you for sharing, indeed, it would really help if we can embrace that. 🙏

so VERY WELL SAID!!!!! Gosh I needed to hear this. Thank you ♥

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@@MeetStephanSpeaks This happened to me 2 years ago and now I'm currently divorced and going through the effects of it. And that friend has moved on with someone else but found themselves telling me that they want to be with me but feel like they should give this woman a chance to avoid karma from happening to us if we should get together again. This friend got divorced as well prior to me and my ex became an espionage expert stalking my friend and myself and claims that we can rebuild our trust and start over but mentally I'm done with him. The friend left me in my time of need whereby he claimed he would be there for me....but he moved on and says he's mad at himself for acting so impulsively to move on without waiting to see where he and I stood. And yeah I believed him. But it's been a roller-coaster ride and it left me crying every night cause I'm without someone and he has someone. Sooooo yeah.....I often wondered what was the cause of all this in the first place but thanks to this video now I know. This friend was giving me what I was struggling to get in my own marriage of 10 years. I asked him to marry me and 10 years later I asked him to divorce me. And we have 2 kids together. And it's rough!!! I miss the friend and I constantly find myself asking God if this one this was a real thing or think or if it was just a hoax because I felt as though there was a connection there but the only signs I've been given thus far is wait on the Lord. Be patient. So I don't know if that means that we met each other at the wrong time and maybe just maybe things will work out in the end or if it means that this friend is a waste of time and energy and better is coming. Because I'm not gonna lie being with him felt heavenly to me after knowing him for such a short time and we did meet on our job. And though the intent was that meant to be physical physical it happened. I took the initiative to end my marriage because of what a laid my ex husband become and he was someone that I did not know anymore or so I had to end the relationship. It went so far to where I felt threatened for my life and the friend offered me offered me to come stay with him at his house and the time and energy that I invested in him in that space of time left me feeling weak and doubtful and broken because certain things happened whereby he said things that I was unclear about and I got triggers and left his home and went back to my home. And he wasn't opening up to communicate what he meant by what was said and I did what I thought was right. I left. The woman he is with now when I left he met her then a couple of months later he put her out her out and we got back together. Then 3 months later he said something again that sounded like he threatened me me and I left again and she returned. And then he tries to still see me on the side and though it was hard for me I recently had to block him from all communication and social media just so that he can be out if sight and out of mind. He always said that he wants to be with me that he doesn't want to risk karma happening between us if he was to put this woman out again and the fact that he made her give up her apartment and move in with her son actually says a lot more than what he's willing to give up verbally. He also said that now that he is with this woman he is seeing the signs that he has to change but he didn't want to listen to his ex wife nor did he want to listen to me but for some reason he is listening to her and she's older than he is so was his ex wife I am younger than he is. Sometimes he still runs across my mind but I try really hard to stay busy and work on me like I've been seeing in your videos and reading in your books. Sigh but I'm a total mess. 😔

@@sensualshawty Been there , done that and now I’m happily married to a great guy. Also I managed to achieve this through an online therapy session and turns out it was the best $45 I ever spent. I’ll suggest you do the same.

@@merlebrown7664 What is the online therapy link?

@@MeetStephanSpeaks But why do you continue to delete my comments 🤷‍♀️

Absolutely!

I agree.

My ex husband told me thats not cheating thats talking smh although he has a brother plenty of close male friends he reach out to a woman co worker and she told me on the phone they was friends however I never herd of her until I seen a text from her to my ex husband he also said it was harmless and I was over reacting and he didn't cheat on me he was venting to her but the messages was very inappropriate for 2 people who are both in a relationship

This is a slippery slope that declines quickly..... speaking from a personal place

Absolutely. This can be anyone, even male friends/ to your husband. Female friends to you.

You're absolutely right!

It isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best. 🙏

So true

100%

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Goodafternoon real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man will put god first in his life n put you properity , help with bills , keep gas in your car n repairs , take you work on your off days , send you roses , communcations is the key n trust . A real man will work too bones make should everything is good !

💯 because this just happened to me like u can’t even tell me wat I’m doing wrong or wat u need from me wen i ask so how can I fix or address it properly

Just be your self never stop what you doing can I be your friend

@@downbad2874 so sad 😞

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I hope you are in a better place now, sending you love ❤

wow, if he;s allowing these women to disrespect you then he's lying through his teeth. I hope you left that playground -those are games children play

Really good point!

YES!

🙏 It's not an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

I appreciate your feedback, it isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

So true, I learned from experience how to recognize emotional immaturity.

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Glad it was helpful!

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Good for you. Glad to hear of a woman keeping her dignity in a situation like this...

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It isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!

It is immaturity and lacking values on your side! But at least you realised it after, most people don’t learn that lesson ever and keep going through the same pattern all their life!

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I watch all of your videos and Lord, I saw me in so many.

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you so much Stephan. May God bless you too. 🙏🏻

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Nah, it happens every day. You might just be too immature to do this.

@@TomikaKelly yeah that’s it…

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Many divorces stem from online affairs. It will eventually happen to all of us, it’s that common. It’s a joke.

It isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best

@@skyfall1481 yeap! I don't have social media and prefer to date someone who doesn't engage in it as well. It's not healthy whether you are single or in a relationship

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You're a good friend to support him amdnhelp him straighten out

I'm happy that this has been helpful to you, be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

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Amen Amen !! Took me by surprise, I went deep into pray; thank you Jesus !! 😊👣🙏🏽

I'm sure you didn't know. Stop playing dumb.

Wow....sounds like my last relationship.....I gave him options on how to set boundaries, he agreed, a few days later he took it back....I don't regret leaving one bit. Good on You for not settling for that hot mess

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And I wanted to ad...its so much easier to hide behind the word, friend, acquaintances and that's a personal example of when I have been blamed in an emotional affair.

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

The guy used you to have his needs met and he is out here telling you if nothing comes out of it bla bla

@@tabitaeguangs did you miss the part where she said she used him too and that it was an advantage because it got her out if a situation where her needs weren't met?

Damn. Imagine how your partner felt. 🫤💔

Lmao girl your buggin

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Especially if the person is in a relationship. I never message or call any male friend late at night if they're married or in a committed relationship. I don't want their wives or gfs to feel uncomfortable or disturb their personal time

😁😁👍😁so that a red flag for me if I do that🤫🤫🤐🤫

🤗😁🤗😁🤗🤫🤫🤫🤫that me 🤫

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I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

You got this 💪

That's cute. Im sure you will have no regrets. PERIOD!!😍

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