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This is a great reminder to be myself and drop the have or have not mentality. I will practice today in my social interactions. It already feels like a relief to not have to put up a front but rather relax and highlight my actual self. Thanks for the information.
Owen was talking with so much energy at the end and his head was so red that even I at home started to feel the heat as if I shouted like that myself. I really liked this video.
A full-time job and steady workout and sleep routine are the foundation for a social human being. The act of taking responsibility will naturally give you confidence through small accomplishments. No tricks.
This guy has one of the most practical and insightful self help and social skills content out there. I totally felt like I was attending that seminar and it changed me as a person after watching it. Thank you Juelien.
Being Authentic is high value. We can BE athentuc only when we accept ourselves and contine growing to realise our potential. Thank u ao much for sharing this Julien and Owen
The challenge inherent in communicating powerfully while maintaining authenticity is allowing our energies to flow freely and fully into the words we’re saying, and trusting our system to make projective, communicative sense of it without the over-monitoring that kills so much of our power in interactions.
I just want to say that, from all the self improvement video I've watched, from all the tips and tricks I've searched for, and all that wasted fucking time trying to be this person that I wasn't, watching you, the only guy Julien, the only fucking person telling us the simplest fucoing thing everyone tells us just be yourself, and actually elaborating and exposing why we are who we are not, and this this and that, just with all honesty, I fucking thank you, because you no joke changed my life in every way possible by this small thing "Just be yourself".
Dude, it’s wild how much I relate to your content. So many times I was like “I thought I was the only one who does this/feels this way” Fuckin love your channel man 💪🏼
Think that I realized that just 2 years ago. All my life I thought I am strange, ugly, nobody wants me bc of my issues. I find many diagnosis in me like bipolar, ADHD, depression, agoraphobia... It's shows I am the one of millions and there's nothing special about me. 😂
I made 2 new friends today and i didn't filter shit i was myself in the whole interaction and it was great And i was in a embarrassing situation today and i told my new friend and he was dying of laughter it was very funny I love your work🧡 +But i still can't approach girls im still working on it Love you keep it up🧡
Julien’s a genius. Says things that make a lot of sense, and when I watch him, I want to be more like him, so he’s a good role model in that sense. A person I can take advice from. I hate to be negative, but the guy on the left is really annoying and shouts way too loud about fish
This is great stuff, and a way to access that optimal "being" state is to physically write down your inner work every day, whatever it takes - to create the reality of the life you live and the dominant frame/being state you naturally exude at all times.
I have a question. Some day's I straight up don't have the energy to socialize or talk to people at all, because I am so tired from socializing the day before. On those day's I have this voice in my head that says "I know I cold talk to them but today I'm to tired to do it". And then I don't do it. Should I push through on those day's? Or would you say that these moments are the key to complete social freedom?
ATTENTION: Mr. Blanc is right. You can't scam people. Just be real in all that you do where ever you are at. Yes, be humble and not stuck up. Don't be mean nor be hypocritical but be real (but at the same time be nice). College is filled with scammers. Students are scammers. Professors are scammers. PE Coaches at colleges are scammers too. People have to be real and nice (friendly). Don't put up this front; this facade (mask) that you are this person when really you are not. You can be a Chad or future Beta nerd as well as a Stacy and reject this message (because you are in denial of the truth) but colleges are filled with hypocritical scammers. Colleges have to be friendlier. From the staff to the Chair, to the teachers who teach at the college, but everyone has to be friendly because colleges are cold disgusting places. All people regardless of looks and social class should have a great clean college experience. April ,5 2023. USA.
Omg I'm gunna die from "shut up" 😭 😂😅🤣 I luv u guys yall r amazing!!! Need to come to Kentucky...I feel as if I'm the only person living here...people r soo zombiefied it's kina mental!!! They all need to just "shut up" n "win" wth?!!?!? I need them alive hahaha well I hope to c yall both or even one of ya in Kentucky I will definitely advertise u if yall come. Soo many need to hear! Thnk yall soo much for what yall do. I luv me and u!
Hey iam from India you replied almost every comment dude that's very kind of you, 1 week back I've followed you , your content is literally useful thanks ❤, hoping for reply🙃
Right before I Even say hi i take a deep breath with my eyes closed savour everything in that moment with a grin on my face let all the good energy flow through your body like you’re high on life and then let the words come out as you’re exhaling … people Sense your energy right off even if they are in a hurry and you don’t pursue them they will turn and look back at you Being high on life because that tiny 2 letter word came from within an Honest place.
I feel like I am always authentic..in fact, I pride myself in always being "me".I make friends easily and quickly too,but I still have super low self-esteem.. maybe due to some very toxic, abusive relationships..am I just a hopeless case??
But, what if you're an introverted person with zero social skills? You can't just be 'yourself', you have to try to joke around, doing sth that you're not comfortable with. My point is, there's a little bit more to it as just saying "alright, i ain't gonna scam people" (even tho it would be nice if indian scam centers just said that :D) And in general, it's a pretty nice skill to scam people into liking you, rather than ruining the whole evening for everybody, because you're insecure, tired, weak man.
How do I redirect my angst and anger towards others into being a positive person? That's something I've been struggling with for a long time. I feel a lot of hate and anger towards people
Hey I would like to share a nice little secret I have. I find that whenever I am doing activities that I enjoy e.g. playing soccer. I am 110% being myself during that activity. My energy just feels very different, I just feel so care free and relaxed mentally. After playing soccer is almost like I get a runners high for a little. I wish I can hold on to this energy 24/7
Are there that many people out there that are not at all secure about who they are???? Thats epic knowledge to me I thought everyone walked abounding presenting themselves as such,,,as they are. Why lie about yourself people find out.
The problem with me is that when I’m not presenting I’m very low energy, insecure and I’ll start talking to people about deep topics and philosophy and stuff and that’s weird and creepy. Being myself has never generated positive results for me. My true personality isn’t acceptable in the social world. And when we want things in life like friends, relationships, money, sex, etc…there are certain ways you can’t act, and there are certain ways which will give you better results. If I force myself to pop it up a little bit, sure I’m scamming, but I feel less weird talking to people. I mean we can’t 100% be ourselves right?
I used to be like this before I healed myself. Thought my "true personality" was being a cultivated highly logical database, with no soul, no emotions, tired all the time. After having healed myself for the past 6 years, I'm just letting my joy pour out of my body and there is no need for me to speak about my deep interests. The truth is that the "deep subjects" mental vibe isn't the authentic, natural vibe. Genius or not, our nature is joy and fun, and social interactions are ways to enjoy ourselves and the other people we're interacting with rather than listening to ourselves ramble about our knowledge about deep topics
@@guillaumesora5385 How did you heal yourself? I have trauma from not fitting in as a child and all the way through adolescence. This has caused low self esteem in my adulthood
@@nickp3949 by simply getting in a calm / meditative state and allowing yourself to feel directly all of your emotions and let them come up by themselves, and feel them. Cry if you wanna cry, cet angry if you want, etc It's emotions time, take a moment every day to reconnect yourself slowly to your emotions. You just need to want to do it and feel everything that's inside your body. All of these emotions are stuck in your body, and all of this trauma is just a part of yourself that's crying for your acknowledgement. Simply acknowledge this inner suffering, and tell it that yes, it really exists, and be there to experience how these traumatized parts of yourself feel, and let them express themselves exactly how they want to. I cried my traumas out for 2 years, and it was the same traumas as you. It's liberating really hehe
Great content Julien🔥, Been following your content for awhile now. Any Advice for a Stutterer trying to Master His Social Skills but always fear of my stutter during Interactions?
Notifications gang checking in, so we doing it backwards, but if you’re coming from being and becoming vs trying to be? Hmm 🤔 didn’t know how powerful paradigm can be
I think there is a time and a place to be you like for an example I have a friend that curses a lot and says the N word a lot in public or around new people and it's quite embarrassing should he be him or put on a front that will protect his self image.
I'm a good looking guy but a lot of chronic disease and fatigue and self image issues and my house looks like a hoarder's and all my vehicles are not running and I make no money so can't fix my AC to make house a place to make sweet love to a woman.. .. I'd LOVE to have that winner's attitude to change my life but man... Idk what kind of girl I could impress despite my situation
Hey Julien, when i'm trying to let go of trying to be something i'm not, how can i differentiate a forced let go(or rather whether i force myself in another state) from an actual let go? So basically how can i know for sure that i'm my true authentic self?
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I mean, ive got some bad experience when i showed my real side. Not only bad, but it would happen regular that someone would challange me and get disrespectful with time
You can get tested or challenged, yes… People will do this when they see VALUE. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-uDBXVAD4YA0.html
How to talk to her when she is with her friends and giving you signals And the thing is that she is always with her friends in school And (the guy ) who wants to talk to her is afraid to even stand close to her
Julien if you see this let me know if there's a way to talk to you even if for just 5 or 10 minutes, any method that works. Im broke and can't buy your program
Thanks for watching the video! I do this to demonstrate vocal projection, so we do not connect the mics to speakers, just the camera for recording. It's very difficult to do, and teaches something valuable and useful in real life ... but may not translate as well over a video, if you're not familiar with our background and culture of why we emphasize vocal projection -Owen
