The #1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Socially Unstoppable

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90% of people care too much about what other people think... Here's the most important step I took to overcome this!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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The #1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Socially Unstoppable
How to be confident in any situation! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop caring about what others think about you... This will allow you to feel confident and be confident in any social situation!
Discover how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!
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@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

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@Samanthax1221 9 месяцев назад

Julien Julien, my sister's name is Julie, and her last name starts with an N. I haven't watched this video yet. Your videos are pure gold. I just want to make one point. I was watching one of your previous videos, and in it, you said, "Life is short; you could die at any point. The ceiling could come crashing down on top of you," and that this creates a sense of urgency. I would just like to say I understand the importance of a sense of urgency, but I wouldn't repeat that idea to yourself too often. The subconscious mind can't take a joke. I don't know if you have read "The Power of Your Subconscious Mind." Joseph Murphy tells a story of a man whose daughter was in terrible health. He said, "I would give my right arm for her to be healed." He repeated this to himself often. Anyway, some time later, he was in a car accident, his right arm was torn from his shoulder, and his daughter was instantly healed of her arthritis and skin condition in that moment. I also think that it's possible that the creator of Apple and the iPod, Steve Jobs, who would look in the mirror every morning reminding himself it could be his last day, may have led to his early demise in his 50s. He died. Anyway, the subconscious mind can't take a joke. Anyway, your videos are pure gold, so I just wanted to say this. I am sure you've read this book, but anyway, thanks, dude, for your videos. They are empowering me enormously.

@RandomPerson-mn6rv 9 месяцев назад

Thats so interesting that you’re from Switzerland! Do you still live there? I’m Swiss myself

@Idoks117 9 месяцев назад

Hello i wonder what kan you do when all of the peppole is stuped 9 graders that vandalizes things every week. I Don’t whana talck whit them😅 from the contest of the first ep i imrowe my social skils.

@smokinnplatez1426 9 месяцев назад

You seem like a goofball. What are your credentials

@salookie8000 9 месяцев назад

Living for self alone is antithetical to a self-denial lifestyle. IMO, it's easier to live for self which would be more gratifying. "Oh I like taste of pizza, thus I go buy pizza for self. I like action movie, therefore I watch action move even though others don't like it nearby. I like red pants even though my wife hates color of red, thus I buy red pants. " The one who benefits is one person and self....More challenging to live for others such as family members, neighbors, etc which requires energy and consideration; where self and others benefit at same time. "I like hamburgers and also my family, therefore I buy hamburgers." So I'm thinking of scope beneficiaries based on the action is greater in value than where one self benefits and Jesus Himself taught to love and to do for others, not self.

@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад

Dude makes money projecting confidence while looking like a Hollywood drug dealer who just rolled outta bed. I like this guy.

@Engrave.Danger 9 месяцев назад

Definitely got one of those car beds at his parents house. Straight up Nick Swardson in Grandma's boy kinda vibes. 😂

@cwcpants140 9 месяцев назад

Tbf thats how id look if i had a cool jacket n lack of bad eyes. I need me some sharingans, ngl

@darcyd2680 9 месяцев назад

I think it's part of it maybe, why he wants to show its possible to have confidence even looking this way.

@mesainy 9 месяцев назад

😂😂 I'm dying because that's the perfect description of him

@ernestb7055 9 месяцев назад

He looks like pregnant woman. And I don't know anything about this guy because I didn't even spend 20s on his videos. He who needs, watch.

@Nommyyy 9 месяцев назад

We are all very small in this world, we need to realize that and be okay with that.

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Yes, and embrace the FREEDOM that comes with that! 🙌

@Samanthax1221 9 месяцев назад

@@JulienHimselfis the mindset twofold, 1. one nobody cares about you your not a celebrity and have no fans you, they are self absorbed npc characters, leading to not caring what people think, and 2. i am the hero in my movie, aka i am the most important person, in my world, are both these mindsets combined the key to awesomeness, i think these are similar to david x two rules, who ares what they think, and i am the most important person in the relationship, ... curious if these two mindsets are the key to generaly awesomeness, as exhibited by yourself, leading to automatic shift in unconscious expression of body language, voice, what is said, etc everything, maybe the mindset of a natural and the masses of people have absorbed some other mindset that stifles them, and that this is the freeing unstiflying mindset of a natural, aka someone socially awesome,

@kevinmcmillin870 9 месяцев назад

@@JulienHimself Have you really embraced it, narc?

@neonphoenixoriginal 9 месяцев назад

⁠@@kevinmcmillin870you are mistaken buddy, he isn’t a narcissist, he is genuinely helping others. He approaches a confidence mentality very well imo, indeed logical. Most people are actually covert narcissists, only care about themselves, but will lie to get what they want, while hiding who they truly are. So those of us who have self awareness, and passion for good, indeed should see ourselves as hero’s, and treat the world like it was meant for us, not bad people.

@MADOUT_VPS 9 месяцев назад

Yeah, I heard Mike Tyson say that & that’s what made him a calmer person; is realizing that he is not that special.

@AnyaJones227 9 месяцев назад

As someone who had a brain aneurysm at age 23 totally unexpectedly, heed that warning! We really never know how long we have. I laughed when he said “brain aneurysm” right at the end bc it was so on the nose. 🤣 Grateful to be here, and I still need that reminder sometimes not to wait! Thanks Julien. 💜

@pallmall7385 9 месяцев назад

Yeah you and every other vaggzinated person.

@herokillerinc 9 месяцев назад

Realizing that nobody cares is tremendously liberating. It gives me the opportunity to focus on my own beautiful weird dreams and not give one flying fuck about even the idea that anyone can stop me.

@carriethemarrie 9 месяцев назад

Am I the only one who finds his outfits hilarious? 😂 I have never seen someone wear clothes like these in a seminar

@thirdeyesharp3213 9 месяцев назад

I weirdly loved it 😂😂

@chrishammon14 9 месяцев назад

It directly reflects what he is talking about

@carriethemarrie 9 месяцев назад

@@chrishammon14 true

@medmuscle 9 месяцев назад

@@chrishammon14You beat me to it. I was going to say the same thing.

@thebadgladdadd5218 9 месяцев назад

Yeah, after watching, I think the clothes are part of the shtick

@matyldam 9 месяцев назад

So many smart words, thank you! Its hard to live simply without the need to impress, compare etc. As you said, at first it feels sad but then so freeing to realize that noone cares, (and if ever they do its projections and speculations) nothing to stop us from being us ☀️

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Yes! Glad this resonates! 🙌

@Jess-lr6em 9 месяцев назад

i love the way that Julien express himself, changes youre minset completly and wakes u up

@TrueMG 9 месяцев назад

Ah. This was basically a version of the first video I've seen from you, the stop caring what others think of you. Hit like a thunderstruck back then and started living by it. Now my subconsciousness wants to get back to the sad track (jupp, because misery is addicting and I sooo deserve it, while I don't deserve it). Found the problem. I started to run from my thoughts again and put social media on instead. Make others think for me, doomscrolling is a bitch. Useless. I put this stupid phone to the side. Mind wants to go back there and I actively realize it wants to flee again. Nah, I replace you, social media. With my own thoughts. Because my own thoughts are the best entertainment I can have, and it builds a strong personality in doing so. Don't be afraid of being alone with yourself and your thoughts, you will be amazed how smart you really are. Wouldn't be able to do this on my own without your world changing videos Julien. Big respect for you and your work.

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Glad this content resonates with you so deeply! 🙌

@dak3074 9 месяцев назад

I’m really grateful RU-vid recommended this to me. I’ve been talking to my gf about how I’m just struggling being authentic and free at work or other places. I’ve been wanting this exact help for awhile. I needed this. I’m grateful for you doing this and I miss the part of me that I lost awhile ago when I was confident and free. Thanks for giving me hope again and helping me relearn what really matters. This is just great.

@Gh0s7R1pp3R 9 месяцев назад

Its crazy to see how far Julien has gone from his RSD roots to what he is now. Respect dude. have been following you for years

@jubaber6816 9 месяцев назад

So grateful for your kindness and free content.I am loving my journey and your clear advice and sense of humour just reinforces the greatness of being on earth in this floppy skin suit.❤

@tommybinson 3 месяца назад

Great comment, thanks.

@Samanthax1221 9 месяцев назад

I actually found this video hilarious, tbh! 😂 I laughed a lot. I had to show this to my sister, who has feelings of self-consciousness around people and feels judged. She laughed a lot too. 🤣 When you say, "If you think you are a celebrity, realize you have no fans. You're not even a has-been; you're a never-were, a nobody," this is super funny, I think, because it's the elusive obvious. And yes, the realization of it is super empowering! 🤪 I can also appreciate this video so much more. The fact that you have yourself internalized these messages is super apparent. You're basically a living embodiment of these realizations. 🙌👏

@gerardvanschie7362 9 месяцев назад

Your lectures have been very helpful in understanding why many personal walls were torn down recently! A true eureka moment Used to dream for years of playing piano in public, now I do it for fun (even singing along) eventhough I only started learning since beginning this year. Thanks for your amazing insights into understanding what a healthy way of living is!

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Amazing to hear! Congrats on your progress! 🙌

@nialloconnor1490 9 месяцев назад

I think alot of peoples social anxieties stems from the belief that a stranger is gonna reveal your ultimate truth from that first encounter and that will define you from then on.

@judithmoreno3093 9 месяцев назад

I’m glad I found this guy ! I love listening to him … bravo keep up the great work

@unsoundvoice 9 месяцев назад

Making sure that you know,you are inspiring and changing lives of people all over the world Respect from Assam,India

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Glad to hear it! Thank you! 🙏

@iamjoy888 9 месяцев назад

It reminds me of one of my poems. I wrote it soon after the war started: *** In this world We play different roles. We have different faces, Different stories. Someone lives on the shore, Someone lives on the water. Right now Someone is grieving, Someone is full of joy, Someone lost their mind, Someone is dying, Someone is being born. Something happens, And starts. Something ends, Something changes. Everything runs out, And sparks. In this world we're just actors, That have fooled ourselves. We are dust under the feet of strangers, We are the wind on the skin. When we die, Some will cry, Some will heave a sigh of relief, Some will think "Serve them right! ", Some will be scared. But the majority don't care. When we die, The world will keep spinning. But while we're here, And our hearts are beating - Be yourself to the max. In peace, in war, Surrounded by enemies, Or in safety, When the road is clear, When nothing is seen, Around differences, When celebrating, In bad times, In good times, Stay your true self, To the max.

@darrylbraymore 9 месяцев назад

The little kid comment is meaningful to me. In combination with doing some inner child and shadow work myself I started looking at people as if I were looking at child versions of them. This does 2 things that I can think of now, makes their words less impactful and makes it easier to see who they are at their core giving me the ability to connect with people in a more organic way. A way that is not cluttered by their ego and image.

@buzzaldrin2556 9 месяцев назад

i think this talk should have ten time likes and views as it has now. Really great help to my rumination.

@dragonxz61 9 месяцев назад

I was at first thrown off by this guys attire and image, however, about 9 minutes in I really was resonating with his message and vision. We are all so absorbed in our self image and social media, that we have lost a common ground of mental cognizance. We are all becoming introverted weirdos that don't know how to socialize properly, and its because of what we are watching on our phones and T.V. screens. Learn to love, learn to share, compassion for all human beings, its the only answer there is to prevent our own destruction.

@arthurmurfitt7698 9 месяцев назад

This so resonates. I remember years ago when I used to be a Dr. Phil fan his father said to him “you wouldn’t worry so much about what other people thought of you when you realize how seldom they did.” #DustInTheWind 🤠

@soulestate_5 9 месяцев назад

One way of thinking that surely changed my perspective is at some point all of us who are here now won't be. So I might as well let my radiance shine while I still have a chance instead of being so concerned of what other may think of me. They're going through their one shot of life just like me.

@shayanbeyrooti9633 7 месяцев назад

You have taught me sooo much! Thanks Julien. My take away is that when you allow yourself to be yourself, then you can fill some of the childhood energy and creativity coming back or better say they will become more clear and as you said I do feel more relaxed! P.S: I watch your videos till the last second and I also take notes! thanks!

@Ivib123 9 месяцев назад

Great video with good points but you know there is a reason why we care what others think. You still should try to give everyone you meet a good impression and should present yourself well. It’s a group survival advantage to be likeable. However you shouldn’t let other peoples negative perception of you get to you that deeply because people do only have a surface level understanding of you. Don’t let negative criticism get to your soul and shatter you. And instead of making other people the enemies make yourself your biggest competition, the one you have to become better than.

@pontusgeorgsson4339 9 месяцев назад

I love how you dressed up, like the hangover of fear and loathing in Las Vegas. But what you psychologically bring to the table, is that of a Zen-Buddhist. Well done.

@magg93 9 месяцев назад

Dude looks pretty crazy with his professor style hair, beer gut, Gucci sweater and pajamas pants. Love it!

@TheJargoon 9 месяцев назад

You've gotta have confidence to pull that outfit off.

@thirdeyesharp3213 9 месяцев назад

I usually hate that kind of shit but it was oddly fire . Not sure how to feel about it

@jackson-vega 9 месяцев назад

@@thirdeyesharp3213fr tho, he is rocking that

@ForgingMindset 9 месяцев назад

When he looks like a douche I just don’t wanna listen as much. 🤷‍♂️

@Meow-ds7pr 9 месяцев назад

Key insights 😌 It can be freeing to realize that people don't notice or remember you, so focus on impressing yourself rather than others. 🙌 The key is not seeking revenge, but rather proving others wrong by achieving success and personal growth. 💭 Most people don't think about you as much as you think they do, so don't let their opinions hold you back. 😎 Be yourself and prioritize your own wellbeing because ultimately, no one cares about you and you're the only one living your life. 🤔 None of us truly know anyone else, as we only see parts of them that they choose to show us, filtered through our own perceptions and biases. 💡 "The only opinion that matters is your own. Ultimately, the opinion that really matters is you on your deathbed, how do you feel about the person you were?" 😌 Live for yourself and don't worry about impressing others or proving your enemies wrong, because in the end, it's your own opinion that matters. 🗣 On your deathbed, you won't care about what others thought of you or if you proved your enemies wrong, all that matters is how you felt and if you stayed true to yourself.

@frankyymilkyy9001 9 месяцев назад

He rather said "The only opinion about you that matters is your own."

@JTG313 2 месяца назад

This gave me an ephinany, of course, I would look up things like: How to stop drinking or how to be liked more. How not to be anxious around others. How to have a more attractive personality. The whole time the answer was in the How to stop people pleasing section the How to stop caring about what people think and live for myself section...finding these videos has helped ne so much!

@TrekTops 9 месяцев назад

Much love my guy great video ❤

@JeyFreeze 9 месяцев назад

Yessss I saw you are coming to Germany Munich ! Sooo happy ! 😍 See you there - hoffe Du sprichst Hochdeutsch .. 😅😅

@KeepingHopeAlive 9 месяцев назад

Thanks Julien. I needed this video today. I just had the worst job interview of my life. My mind went completely blank & I don’t think I made much sense due to my inability to articulate myself when overwhelmed with anxiety. The interview was for another better paying position at my job. But, now I would rather not even show my face at work again. It was bad. What’s worse is they were even trying to help me lol. In my mind it will be talked about for ages. After watching this video though, maybe it’s not as bad as I think.

@tadeuszmusic 9 месяцев назад

It never is. People aren’t inherently evil. Everyone is trying to understand life and get by. We all want to help each other as best as we can.

@Samanthax1221 9 месяцев назад

keeping you may get the job anyway, it is a possibility that your mind going black was your unconscious mind protecting you from saying the wrong thing in the moment, who knows you may get the job, would be curious what position it was your were going for, if its a position where you do not require to socially engage with people your lack of social mastery may not even be an issue and could be a benefit and work in your favor, who knows, good luck dude

@Troelslychau 9 месяцев назад

Great video, I also do seek a therapist when I have a problem, and usually my therapist who is like this 70 year old, very direct and not beating around the bushes.. ( one time I was called a fool , which offended me ) she says that most of the things are projections, like people push what they don't like about themselves onto others, but there is a trauma techinque, called Courteau Projection Techinique, and Inner Unity, which makes you realize not on a conscious level but on a deep subconsious level that is something that is within you, and that reaction can be changed. I think that's why there are problems in society because people don't realize what they don't like about others is a mirror into their own souls.

@louislepoulain3652 9 месяцев назад

Can you tell me more about your trauma technique ? I can’t find it on Google

@Troelslychau 9 месяцев назад

@@louislepoulain3652 Inner Unity Home

@Troelslychau 9 месяцев назад

Sure it's like this super fast trauma techinique, which improves relationship, and goes way back in the dna.

@matheusgoularte5008 6 месяцев назад

Thanks for the video man.

@Sungroove 9 месяцев назад

I thought this was some parody skit based off the thumbnail and how he is dressed, but this guy gave some good points.

@fruitsarelife7073 9 месяцев назад

I feel like God is speaking through you ❤

@np5687 9 месяцев назад

All u can be authentically is who you really are not trying to be so follow your bliss where ever that leads you

@gavinpowrie1836 8 месяцев назад

its humbling to be broken by your words and energy .. if it broke you can fix it confidence is somthing you do and can be fake .... confident is somthing you are and dont do

@Yori-editz 9 месяцев назад

YO julien, amazing content as ever!

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@jeant5378 9 месяцев назад

Loved the iPhone analogy ! Thanks for this

@heladar 9 месяцев назад

By being valuable to society you become an actor in many others movies. No need to overthink insecurities or trying to figure out childhood drama. That makes your past the focus of your life. Focus on the future, be good, have impact and don't make a profession of overanalyzing yourself.

@Farhaan_Enigmatic 9 месяцев назад

YOU ARE ATTRACTIVELY FLUENT ❤ GREAT JOB.

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Glad my content resonates with you! 🙌

@nickp3949 9 месяцев назад

The thing with me is that I feel like I need to put on an act to be attractive to women because I’m short, I’m 5’2”, so I feel like I have to compensate for that by not showing any weakness or vulnerability because I already start off looking weak and vulnerable. A big guy can be vulnerable, bring himself down and be a “gentle giant”, which women still like, but a small guy (in my opinion) has to always be strong, because any vulnerability would be a turnoff (if she’s not turned off already) Not sure if this is true or if it’s just in my head, but this is how I feel about it.

@SepiaMaddy 9 месяцев назад

The most important thing to realize (especially for men) is that only vulnerability can create deep bonds between people. The loveliest guys are those that have a way of showing they're capable of being real and vulnerable. That's true strength and what we are really looking for in others.

@iamjoy888 9 месяцев назад

I've had very profound love or turn on to short guys, it doesn't matter at all! I'm sorry that society pushes on our insecurities like that, trying to tell us all that "right now we are not good enough". It goes for everyone, no matter what our looks are. So the most important is to be in gentle relationship with yourself. When you're able to be a safe space for yourself and then, for another person. There's nothing more turning on than maturity. And all who don't resonate with that, well, have to grow up on their on. Becoming a stone is the worst thing we can do here. Then people become so cut off of their senses and empathy , that they start the war. Please remember that true power is gentle. You've got this.

@iamjoy888 9 месяцев назад

@@SepiaMaddyyes, so true! It's not about heights, it's about depth 👁️👁️👁️

@cgab12 9 месяцев назад

So true, people do not think about you- until you try to better yourself. All of a sudden, you’re very noticeable…

@JosephMC27 9 месяцев назад

That’s because your energy becomes more valuable and they want to steal it.

@adamb7120 9 месяцев назад

Reminds of a quote by Steve mcqueen. "I live for myself and i answer to no one"

@achoofficial1 9 месяцев назад

Seeing you live your truth authentically inspires me to do the same, even though it's hard sometimes.

@kevinbrooks9074 9 месяцев назад

There is only 1 truth...

@madboss030 9 месяцев назад

Great video Julien. But I wanna ask u something, do u reckon u can make a video about how to stop stuttering, it's a pretty big problem for most people out there (including myself) and sometimes it's not even an anxiety thing. It's ok if u don't want to make a video about it, i can't force u to, but I keep searching and you're the only person that has truly helped me, so I trust u. Great video btw👍

@kevinbrooks9074 9 месяцев назад

W w what?

@jaywilldoit 9 месяцев назад

The Gucci shirt, and the plaid pants ensemble looks like something straight out of TJ Maxx, but the speech is actually very good.

@DanyeLsanMVP 9 месяцев назад

👍 and SUBSCRIBED for the records 14/10/2023 ... thank you and HAVE A NICE DAY !

@Bergerinio 9 месяцев назад

Julien I hope you know about what happens in Israel right now. What should all the people without their families do with the traumatic events the happened to them??! How can we help them???

@3nterprisevideos 9 месяцев назад

There’s people in History that will never be forgotten though, with his mentality what is the point of achieving anything? Do something great to be remembered for

@gman2015z 9 месяцев назад

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." -Brad Pitt in Fight Club

@UniquelyHerz 8 месяцев назад

This made me stick with my choice of leaving social media forever ! Live for you !!

@jaromirjagr5316 7 месяцев назад

Ive done this since 2015, you made the right choice. Good for you.

@jaromirjagr5316 6 месяцев назад

Whoever liked my comment just for me to get a notification and then for the like to not be there anymore. Ur sick. Ur a sick human.

@michalmisak3672 9 месяцев назад

Big topic for me: Imagine situation, that someone helped me in the past. Shall I sacrifice for him/her by doing something in return, when I really don't feel like I want to? Been in this situation several times, sometimes I want to pay back, sometimes just don't. How to process the feelings that I am selfish (socially adopted, most people see it in this way) and guilt if you don't pay back?

@dylanlawrenceholland3295 9 месяцев назад

this is great and i really needed this

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Thanks! Glad this spoke to you!

@ThatBillmanGuy 9 месяцев назад

Idiocracy was too optimistic...

@RicchyXS 3 месяца назад

Amazing content man!

@LonelyDrake859 9 месяцев назад

I like juliens style he is wearing that so he can show that no one cares how you look everyone is dressed up while he is in pyjamas

@gregh_777 9 месяцев назад

this is the realest shit. used to follow him and rsd back in the day. it was always controversial to admit it, but i always saw the deeper message behind their message. same with eminem.

@zacharyhouser1108 9 месяцев назад

I'm struggling with the whole thing of being to critical and self depreciating. Don't even know why im writing this while watching. Been watching your stuff for a while. I'll poke through looking for any specific lesson.

@j32495 9 месяцев назад

You said that we should feel it fully, but also aim for level up, so how to do both ? I'm stuck on fear, if i trigger myself and let it run in my body, then how to know when to apply mental advise or aim up ?

@nicklombardi2121 9 месяцев назад

Before watching this, I have been contemplating the same realization for a long time. Though too afraid to say it, out of fear of ridicule. How reassuring to hear someone else say it out loud. Thank you so much. Oddly enough, even though I know this, I am extremely socially awkward and have been my whole life. I'm almost 45 and afraid it may be too late for me. I have had moments though, where I felt and was free. Though short lived because as soon I allow myself to feel free It's not long before I get derailed by others through there threats and attacks against me. I think others can sense me feeling free and it causes them to hate and attack me. Sadly, I have no solution to counter this reoccurring problem as I am not a big or violent man. Am I alone in this understanding? Is there a peaceful solution? If you can, will you please help me?

@raphaelmartinsmall5776 9 месяцев назад

Hey Nick! I totally relate. I am 25 and have been socially awkward almost my entire life. But I have been benefitting from the letting go exercise Julien have shared in his videos. I started believing that it is not totally hopeless for me to overcome my social anxiety. Letting go required me to introspect, so I can let go of the past experiences that convinced me that people are attacking me. I realised most of the time, people are not attacking me, I am simply projecting my bullies from the past to the people that I interact with. After regularly letting go of my past trauma, I noticed that the strong sensations I used to feel in social situations no longer come up as regularly. Along with the sensations, the thoughts that people are out to attack me also go away. Hope this helps!

@ajaysihota2299 9 месяцев назад

It's never too late

@nicklombardi2121 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much. I will look into that letting go exercise and hopefully have some of the same success you have had.@@raphaelmartinsmall5776

@nicklombardi2121 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for the encouragement.@@ajaysihota2299

@6drk6mrc6 9 месяцев назад

Other's opinion matters because, we learn and see ourselves through others. We have blindspots.

@nsfeliz7825 9 месяцев назад

i d rather be an idiot of MY OWN CHOICES than be succesful of others opinion. do what youwant. if u doubt yourself so much .....

@6drk6mrc6 9 месяцев назад

@@nsfeliz7825 This is not doubt, this is a fact you can know and decide your core values. But, who you totally are will always be an elusive concept. To get as closer to as truth you gotta see your reflection through others.

@TBassFactory 9 месяцев назад

I wish everyone could get 1000s of hate comments on a you tube channel and respond with thanks or have a narcissist ex that consistently gaslights and used children as pawns. Believe your internal truth and things in this external world we live in become weightless upon your social foundation. I feel like I could give this same tip for living a life as a superhero in your movie. Everyone else is just a background character. Live life as a sigma male and your own rules and ideaologies. Never heard of you Julien but good talk bud.

@Rochelle118 9 месяцев назад

Love it 💯

@marcelamedeiros260 9 месяцев назад

When it comes to working with ppl, how come that doesn’t matter what people think? If people are saying my product isn’t good, they think it’s worthless than how shouldn’t I care about that??

@Arookunn 9 месяцев назад

When I hear "stop caring about what people think of you ,they don't care and they haven't been in your shoes" and stuff along the line , I know what it's trying to convey but my mind suddenly goes in the line of thought of "What if things they're saying can actually help me be better, What if I just stop caring about other people and become a loser asshole" This is the mental dilemma I'm currently facing

@smokingcrab2290 9 месяцев назад

Live the life you want to live

@ethanhahner 9 месяцев назад

I have no issue in front of an audience since my public speaking class last year helped me tremendously

@amaliariganova5181 9 месяцев назад

Julien, i love u, thank you 🙏🥰

@user-uc8cl8xe7e 9 месяцев назад

So true I was in the ICU for 30 days and 2 of my friends forgot. It was only 3 years ago. It was awkward reminding them.

@mindsetmotivation9124 9 месяцев назад

Great way to kick off the day

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Booyah! 🔥👊

@theakramrathod 9 месяцев назад

Thanks this video is so helpful

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

You're so welcome! Glad it was helpful!

@jasonpgallery 9 месяцев назад

Haterade is a powerful tool to propel oneself even if it’s only in your own head.

@colozus_tv 9 месяцев назад

Hello Julien i'm french i supose you speak french, i think because you are from Switzerland. To make short i really like your video it help me a lot especially at the beginning if RU-vid not recommands one of your video and if i hadn't clicked, i don't now where i'll be today then thanks you and continue.

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

I do speak French, yes! Glad to hear my videos have been so impactful for you! You got this! 🙌

@coleyod 9 месяцев назад

I find these videos very interesting. What's your view of the role of spirituality in all this, if any? Interested in getting your thoughts on this? Thanks

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

The more wounded we are internally, the more attached we become externally... This is where spirituality/letting go comes into place! 🙏

@pe9147 9 месяцев назад

This lecture reminds me: Other people’s opinions of your is none of your business.

@joshuabuchanan1141 9 месяцев назад

So what if people decide to bully me and my friends that's none of my business, that's where your wrong, when people decide to bully me and my friends, that's when it is our business, no one bullies me and my friends and gets away with it, so your opinion/argument is irreversible

@spencercurtis86 9 месяцев назад

I've actually always been so concerned with what others think of me. This perspective is fucking W. I almost didn't finish the video. Thanks my guy

@junkettarp8942 9 месяцев назад

Im gobsmacked that we have reached a point where the most obvious needs explanation.......Right

@matthewschwartz3119 9 месяцев назад

Dude you're words are so fucking helpful man

@GregtheGrey6969 9 месяцев назад

That's some raw truth

@Beccasun 9 месяцев назад

Julien reminds me if Bojack horseman had a complete transformation 🐴❤

@destero8853 9 месяцев назад

This is so good!

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Thank you! Glad this resonates!

@Aleks_Mechanics 9 месяцев назад

Notification Squad!🔥🔥🔥

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Boom! 🔥👊

@psiphibrandonhare7120 6 месяцев назад

Dude this video should be on everyone's "Start The Day" Playlist lol it's going on mine

@wookieiam1 9 месяцев назад

Martini, shaken , not stired.

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

Ah, yes! 👌

@rickricky6421 9 месяцев назад

I like how he rolled with the question from the audience asking if anyone ever had blue hair in the audience, which was an irrelevant question.

@Robrette74 9 месяцев назад

This is so good

@omnitainment6358 9 месяцев назад

I go against everything this guy teaches because I have hyper awareness and anxiety so i notice EVERYTHING about everyone around me. From someone taking a selfie to what someone is wearing, eating, even how they walk, etc, and thus my brain makes me think everyone is the same as me. Its extremely frustrating. 😅

@lebronejhames7265 8 месяцев назад

Take some shrooms

@VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes 9 месяцев назад

This first part of the talk made me feel one with the audience and everyone on my household. Matter fact, everyone in the world IS me. We all believe we are the main character haha. Beautiful. I love the nature of consciousness

@GalaxyCommander07 9 месяцев назад

Not when you’re an attractive person. When you’re attractive, you become part of other people’s personal movies. They subconsciously hope something happens between you two.

@internetdeli3379 9 месяцев назад

You proved it right there though. You’re not seeing them as a person they are, you’re seeing them as someone you build up in your head. You see them as a potential character in your reality.

@bmf6845 9 месяцев назад

I think about it this way...most people in movies and tv from 50 years ago (usually even less) are COMPLETELY UNKNOWN to people today...and they were famous!

@thecoldpolarbear 9 месяцев назад

Hmmm if I was bullied I would wan't to work on myself and figure out ways to prevent bullying in the future. There is great sense in working "in reaction" to something that happened to you, it gives great purpose. Nothing wrong with the "never again mindset" imo.

@Florianpimpf 8 месяцев назад

with the never again mindset your running away from the stuff. you have to acknowledge that your hurt. even though IT HURTS.

@Dillonkkk 9 месяцев назад

Good shit dude

@beaub650 9 месяцев назад

Um- I’m supposed to listen to THIS guy?!?!? Lord help us.

@youngtitoallcap9728 9 месяцев назад

Don't shoot the messenger

@ForgingMindset 9 месяцев назад

Always shoot the messenger, to send the real message.

@Winslow_Tech 9 месяцев назад

11:41 - nice projection 😉

@ForgingMindset 9 месяцев назад

@@Winslow_Tech bang

@hartj87 15 дней назад

It appears as though you’re either too lost or too found to take this in with any sort of pragmatic or altruistic nods toward your own being, which is okay. Not everyone is at the behest of fulfillment and joy, such as yourself, clearly! We all should surely be so envious of your ascension in life, as it obviously transcends anyone else that is willing to post nonsense on a comment board that will be buried in a few days. Perhaps you can see this profound fork in the road as a sign to follow the path of least resistance that’ll kindly ask you to beat it, dork, be cool or be gone. Much love 😘

@justind6871 9 месяцев назад

The importance of authenticity and its link to well-being is supported by research. However, the statement "no one cares about you" might be an oversimplification. While it's essential to prioritize one's well-being, it's also crucial to recognize the importance of social connections and support. So, this idea is partially true.

@cressyjohnston3032 9 месяцев назад

This guy is fucking life changing just such an amazing teacher

@Fantaztig 9 месяцев назад

Yeah he's my favorite comedian too

@StephenDoty84 9 месяцев назад

From the opening shot, I thought this was an episode of "Fashion Emergency".

@djebarazidan103 9 месяцев назад

i hope someone responds : how long have you been letting go and did you get satisfying results ?

@JulienHimself 9 месяцев назад

I've been letting go for close to 9 years now and the results have been insane... Watch the last 20 minutes of this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-4CH7gKme9Y0.html

@jncyj 3 месяца назад

I was at a bakery and asked girl behind the counter about the desert for sale she said which one she came out of the counter t look at the display towards me and i backed up to give her room she told me what the desert was then she went back behind the counter. I Asked her what the price was and if there were other flavours she told me the whole time she talked she look at me straight eye contact did not break eye contact the whole time she described the different flavors. Did she like me sending me signal by not breaking eye contact get close to me by getting out behind the counter to see what desert item i wanted to know more about? She did not smile but just straight eye contact the full time she talked to me was she interested what should i have done