The Desire To See Though Someone Else's Point Of View 

I think this is what makes movies so special, you get to see and experience other peoples lives and points of views in ways you could never in real life.

This podcast reminded me of this Sylvia Plath quote from her diary. "I can never read all the books I want; I can never be all the people I want and live all the lives I want. I can never train myself in all the skills I want. And why do I want? I want to live and feel all the shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in my life. And I am horribly limited"

Charlotte, your videos are so important to me. you somehow always put these deep topics that rattle on in my own brain into words that make sense. i’ve never had anyone else in my life feel as deeply or care enough about looking at life in a deep way. these videos make me feel uniquely understood :’)

You’ve gotten more and confident and comfortable I love it! Plus your topics are so good.

Personally, I am way more interested in watching the podcast when it’s just you alone!

Thank you so much for these podcasts. It’s so great to find a space where someone thinks so deeply and has open conversation about it. As much as such philosophical thinking can make us go crazy sometimes 😂 it’s so damn interesting! It can be hard to find other people who want to entertain these types of ideas in a “normal convo setting”. You really create a vibe that presents these concepts in such a non judgemental/ non elitist way. Thank you ❤

Glad to see you back, hope you are well. I think you’re talking about perspectives and how they are malleable. It’s intense when you’re diving into that. Always love your solos. Thanks so much.🙏❤️

i’ve been circling around to how distorted my own perception of myself can be more and more this past year… was confirming to hear you give voice to these thoughts too!

Sometimes i really need to go through deep conversation like that with someone, and then I remember i have your podcast so here i am ❤ i live for it

It's like the universe want's to know how it is like to experience the world from the perspective of all these different people.

Being in a relationship of 8+ years has showed me (kind of) what it looks like from someone else’s point of view (specifically a man). Relationships are so beautiful because it forces you to see from the other persons perspective (otherwise it wouldn’t work). I think also being a sister has taught me a lot. I used to be v judgmental of my sister until I decided one day I wanted a good relationship with her and although I couldn’t control her and her decisions I could support her and cheer her on. Tbh from these experiences I’ve realized we’re all experiencing the world the same way. We all want the best deep down but we all have our own morals and values (like u mentioned) guiding us. But overall I think we see the world similarly. Just some carry more hate than others.

exposing our truths and being vulnerable is so beautiful because of this, we don't need to hide

This is the kind of content I like, when a person just sat down and talk, I need more to find content like this, I work eight hours a day and get too lonely. Your podcast is my company at work, the company I enjoy the most

You are so interesting. I am so glad the solo episodes are back!

in this podcast u said exactly what I think and feel...which I guess is funny given how ur talking about how we see things completely differently

i love the solo podcasts and the ones w your close friends so much

I have truly missed your videos welcome back

Hi Charlotte! I’m a philosophy major and I was really impressed with your grasp of some pretty heavy philosophical concepts. One notion you seem to be puzzled by is the phenomenological predicament. Read Thomas Nagel’s “What is it like to be a bat?” It gives a good synopsis of the innately subjective nature of conscious experience. Also you touch a bit on this concept of “qualia” or the “what it’s like” quality of a thing. What it’s like to taste chocolate, for example. We can describe what it’s like to taste chocolate with as much detail as we want but we will never really embody what it is to taste chocolate. Who’s to say it has a singular taste? Hence, returning to your points on bias and the paradoxically singular yet universal nature of human experience. Enjoy!!

Great observations! Yes, others will see the world completely differently. It probably depends on what you are focusing on daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly. It builds upon itself over time. Just as a boat that turns slightly -will then end up in a completely different place as it continues its journey.

how do u always talk abt the exact shit I stay awake thinking about at night. We love you. You see it . Seriously you are not alone at all

Ily char happy you are back on again I was so bored with life need ur podcast. Helps me not dissociate as much 🤣

I think about this allll the time as well, it would be soo interesting to live through someone else’s perspective

I struggle with communication a lot and sometimes I noticed I'll use my body when I can't speak and that makes this more incoherent. Nice podcast! That was my take away regarding bias. Also I have become aware that my breakdown in communication leads to anger and violent outbursts which makes me think hmm anger management but since it's tied to a lack of being understood and difficulty communicated is it a therapy issue. Anyway glad to see I'm not the only one! ✌️

Missed you sooo much. You look amazing.

This girls heart is absolutely incredible

this is my favorite podcast episode so far.

Very good! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Its also interesting how other peoples perspective helps expanding your own so u end up with a more diverse perspective on how things can be

I like the insights that you gave on understanding someone’s train of thoughts. I can see why you wanted to major in psychology in college as you’re very passionate about this subject

YAAA! i missed the POD my favorite episode was with Sam Dameshek I've rewatched it a few times (:

Welcome back

I think your room has a cool Victorian style. It’s very feminine, soft, delicate and ornate. It seems like a very comfortable space.

i hope you can interview someone on the pod again soooon! loved watching those and i miss them!

Hi. It's very interesting what you're pointing out here. I think of books, movies, even deep conversations with other people; these are, imo, the closest ways to navigate through someone else's mind and to understand (or to try to at least) their perception of life/reality. But one could never understand it fully, cuz even through these means, there would always be a filter which is represented by our own lenses. So being able to enter some else's mind and understand completely their thinking process becomes a superpower that we may never have access to. Nevertheless, we can use this idealistic scenario to improve our understanding of empathy (which is the available version of that superpower) and, of course, practice it.

and this why reading is pivotal.

One way to see the world through someone else's eyes, is to change so deeply and drastically that you essentially become a different person within your own skin...

Please upload more podcast episodes, you’re a great journalist!!!

6:51 i feel like we can get a glimpse of other people’s worlds thru film and music and art

If you want to see the world thru other people's perceptions, don't judge the cover and read "The Road To Character" By David Brooks. It'll surely show you how the world used to think, the shift, and how it thinks now. Keep the pods coming!

All great ideas are obvious, not all obvious ideas are great

'Great podcast and it makes a lot of sense to see the point of view of other people, and I like your viewpoint. I was on a bus trip out west on my way to California to a job that I had been contracted for, being a lot younger, and an old Apache got on the bus and sat down by me. He said that he was from a reservation in Globe, Arizona and was visiting his sister. We began talking about the world and all the problems in it. He told me something I always remembered. He said that you build your own world around you. The world you are passing through is mostly a spiritual world and what other people have done. So, you have to build your own to make it real. I always liked this verse in the Bible. John 6:63 “It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life.” The quickening is a real spiritual thing. The more words of Jesus that you build up and keep in your memory and your heart, the more spiritual you become, and the easier it is to navigate around this spiritual world; sometimes visiting and passing through other people, but not getting stuck in their world. You have to build your own world around you.

Charlotte, yes, it makes sense. I think the question is would we really want to see all it through? To me, it would take things much more difficult. like, as if we don’t have enough shit in our own bubbles to deal with. + would we help those people (i.e. better communication) or be somehow more judgmental. lol who knows

The audio sounds great.

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YAAAAAYYYYYY

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You have good insights; Have you considered a diplomatic career? Wanting to see from another's perspective is a step towards solving differences and making a great mediator.

I was listening to a health pod cast and the lady mentioned a Doctor who when he examines people and troubleshoots ailments and tries to find the root causes he always assumes the person has a broken heart. Because after a certain age everyone has a broken heart and that can manifest into illness.

Twin be THINKIN holyy

char is back:)))))

There she is

I only cry every other day now. Still miss you though 😅😢

you seem a lot more confident and content

Charlotte, Charlotte, where art thou Charlotte? Deny thy video for over a month and refuse thy love from me. For my heart aches without you my Charlotte 😞

how are acting classes going?

you are stunning

I MISSED YOU HI

I think an interesting topic is para-social relationships. For some reason they are so strong. Also do other models think the way you do? I’ve never met a professional model.

I thought your finger tattoo said LIVED

Girly where are you its been 4 months😭😭😭i need my dose of good and evil😂

I like you

I dont know i feel like everyone is still fake but have you ever seen Becoming John Malkovich

I recommend an album by Fred again….. and brain eno. It’s great!

But seriously girl, where are you? You’re really going to make me wait over 2 months? This is an outrage! 😤

OK so I came back after listening to the whole podcast. Basically she realized other people have their own lives and perspectives. Don't you figure that out when you're like six? Also new drinking game. Every time she says "like" take a shot. Maybe the book will be aimed towards kids because the concept she's describing is literally elementary.

keep doing random shit queen, it's the only way

Running into you You are someone so soft Yet it was so hard Speaking isn’t necessary Especially when you run so fast Consumed by actions Just to avoid words What else is there to do? She cried My boys and I Left it all on the plate Empty stomachs Nothing to be desired

I’m a dude so your thoughts on these topics are foreign to me, but I basically watched the whole thing because of how you sound and look 🫡😍

Try reading fiction. Seeing the world through someone else's perspective is the entire point of reading fiction.

Bobbi Althoff Collab??

I have a whole lotta red top with the satan symbol on the back and a Jesus is king top that has words from the Bible.

At this point you’re just yapping

Boring-lack of humor?

I swear I lost half of my brain cells listening to this girl.