The Drama Triangle: Why We Step In and How to Get Out - The I Hear You Podcast - E6 

Good episode Michael sad truth is many people love this cycle sooo much they do not want to quit it.

a really clear explanation of the drama triangle - thank you

Michael...this is so clearly explained and I really appreciated it. Thank you 😊

It's amazing how eye opening this is! I can't get enough of these podcasts.

This is all so good. I appreciate this 🙏🏽

thank you so much for good detailed explanation. I actually feel like I learned something!!

This is so so valuable. I learned so much thank you!! I hope this goes viral. The way you teach makes it so easy to understand and I love your Matrix example. You changed my life!

You are so wise man! I can tell by the way you specify things when you say something. Like when you make a statement “XYZ”, then you specify “I know that sounds like ‘ABC’ but I’m not saying ABC. If that makes sense. I know you know what I mean, because I do it too and I would. It’s pretty awesome. It takes superb wisdom, to know that life is all about balance! Keep at these videos! I was surprised the video had just under 10,000 views and not 1,000,000. I want to make videos one day too. Keep at it! This was gold. I think I’ve been being like your friend, thinking my siblings are the persecutors. They have reasonable concerns. But I still honestly feel like they don’t confront the parent in a reasonable way about those very reasonable concerns, because of their own triangle habits. It’s like a thousand fishing lines we’re can’t into a pond and I’m trying to navigate how to untangle the mess! But at least I can make sure to do my part to perform the healthy triangle instead of the destructive triangle moving forward! I subscribed thanks!

Yes!!," seeing it for what it is " when theres drama " .

Thankyou so much Michael. The way you explain these 3 positive changes of roles resonate loudly with me. High schoolers need this info.

Looking forward to listening to your current posts and future ones. 👍 over the past 2 weeks the drama triangle came on my radar. I've been noticing it and reflecting on past relationships. I see myself in all positions at different times. Yesterday, I found myself wondering what my life might even look like if I'm not one if these characters. I will say my victim roles have felt real at the time...now I see that there was a payoff or need I wasnt mature enough identify or to ask for.

wow! amazing clarity about something that is ubiquitous but nearly impossible to see and sort. thank you, michael.

Really good explained thankyou

Hi. Thanks for posting this. I've recently come across David Emerald's the Empowerment Dynamic which seems really useful and I'm starting to explore it.

This is beautiful

Life saving thank you

AWESOME METAPHOR !!! 😼👆👆👏👏👏 Yes!! THE WORLD WAS MORE CLEAR once seeing new slills !!

Can you fall into all three? For example, it you are being scapegoated for something you didn’t do, you tend to be the victim (you didn’t do it), persecutor (you are being scapegoated), and rescuer ( you save the others by being the scapegoat)?

I don't know which one I'm 😬

" instead of persecutor role , assertive instead ...

Can't u do workshops on zoom for us, provide price , time length. Would love to have 1 on 1 what are ur prices.

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