You are exactly right about the reframing. The narc I was involved with did so much data gathering about me and then used it against me later. After we were married I eventually started having problems with how he was treating me and I was very upset and I left him and went to my mother's house, my husband wouldn't leave me alone and begged me to come back and said that things would change. I did come home again and he suggested that I go to the doctor because he said he was worried about me. To cut a long story short, I went to the doctor and was diagnosed with major depression. At the time my husband encouraged me to tell the doctor about my past childhood abuse and when I got diagnosed with depression my husband used that against me to prove to the world that I was the crazy one with all the problems. In fact it was him who was triggering me all the time.
Wow, a powerful testimony, but at the same time, this is SO saddening to hear. I'm so sorry to learn what you've endured. This reframing they do, is one of the most despicable acts one could ever do to another person. I hope you're doing well now? I wish you nothing but healing, health and happiness going forward and thank you for sharing your comment with us here, your experience is really important for the education of others. Please stay safe, and a warm welcome to the community Susan.
@@charmainespeaks Thank you so much Charmaine for your reply. Your videos are so helpful and so validating for the survivors of this type of abuse. I am doing very well now and I am healing. I finally left my marriage 4months ago and I am never going back.
Charmaine i too was in a manipulationship with a covert narcissists. I become very sick, had heart attack, lung infection and kidney infection. Guys please if your gut tells you something, run for the hills
Oh wow, I'm so sorry to hear of your bad health and how you've suffered 😢 I hope you are doing well now? Agreed, when something doesn't feel right, it more than likely isn't - our intuition is working to make sense of our environment way before our consciousness kicks in ❤ Thank you for tuning in and sharing your comment with us here. Please stay safe.
Your testimony speaks the truth. I met a woman after 3 dates, my gut feelings noticed her covert sneaky behaviors like gaslighting, triangulation and playing dumb. Jer body language was off from the first date, felt her low vibration energy, empty soul, cold heart. Even though she was physically attractive, every time I came closer for intimacy, it felt like kryptonite, I was so sick my stomach. Had no sexual relationship her, I felt like a dark spirit blur entity aura. When my intuitions made me realized it was coming from her. I cut off the relationship. She didn’t like it and acted like a covert bully by hoovering attempt. The most disturbing experience was feeling the presence of dark low vibration energy, total lack of empathy toward others and her empty soul. So glad I dodged a bullet.
Completely agree. That female natcissist is 2 or 3 pieces of work! You had a lucky escape, what great discernment you have. You have undoubtedly saved yourself a world of pain by cutting off that connection so swiftly. Thank you for sharing your comment with us here, such a valuable testimonial 💜 Be safe and well, and a warm welcome to the channel.
I went through everything you speak of, even went to therapy because the narc made me feel like I was the one that needed it. Diabolical indeed. May God forgive these fermented souls
Could you speak on narcissists and their prevalence with using substances and/or alcohol. Also, possibly the narcissist who's willing to use physical harm or unalive others as a part of their npd? Thanks!
These are some very important topics to speak on, of course I will! Thank you for tuning in and putting forth your suggestions ❤ I'll touch on these topics over the next couple of weeks 😊
That was my fiance, he could take someone's life over money. I left him because I make alot more and he started verbally/ emotionally abusing me to give him money. I refused @nazleyvanblerk1703
I gave up my career and then was made to understand via hints that I'm a parasite,I get nothing.That I have to lie cheat and steal to get anythìng.His mother was forever looking to take me and my wealthy mother to court. Of course nobody believed me. My values matter to me.But please,these people never stop,more mess all the time.Exhausting.
How horrible! I'm so sorry to learn your experience, it must have been an extremely difficult circumstance to deal with, and yes, it's all too common for certain people to look at you like you're going mad, when you speak about what's happening to you. The cycle never stops! They are insatiable! Thank you for sharing your comment with us, welcome to the community. I wish you peace, health and healing.
It can be tough going, but the best way to deal with it is to not give in to it. Dont allow them to get their way by using this tactic, it gives them a license to keep on using it against you. Give no reaction, don't rise to it and don't pander to their adult tantrum. Thank you for tuning in and for your comment ❤ please stay safe, I hope you're doing OK.
If they are giving you the silent treatment just give them time as they come back to hoover you but never I mean never take them back. If they go ghost on you and try to text or call remember The Best Response Is No Response. 💯.
Brilliant question, the answer is yes and no. This is definitely a video worthy discussion as there's some unpacking to do on the topic - probably best to cover this in my next video. Stay tuned and thank you for tuning in. Welcome to the community 💜💫