Charmaine! you are literally speaking to my EXACT situation right now and believe the Hoover and love bombing have begun to try to re-establish the friendship. I've seen evil in the eyes, and it is evil and scary. 😢
Wow! Really? I'm so glad this content has resonated with you, and PLEASE stay safe 🙏 No hoover shall pass! Once we seen it, it's so true that we can't unsee it. What lurks underneath that mask is scary, take care, and thank you for being a part of this community 💜
13:15 Pets. She initially had me blocked, I therefore could not block her. I don't know when she unblocked me. She liked a video of the dogs where I tagged the person who fostered them. I ignored it. A week or two later, she tried calling me late at night through social media- thank goodness I was asleep, I might have picked up. When I didn't answer, she sent messages, "can I please see the dogs?" I ignored it. She sent another message, "send photos of the dogs." I responded, "You already have photos of the dogs. Look at those." Then I blocked her, and she's been blocked for 10 months now.
Good morning! Thank you for sharing your experience with us, quite similar to mine. This is how they operate - they will say and do ANYTHING! My god! I'm so glad you're standing firm in your position 🙌 there's nothing fruitful or of value coming out of allowing these types back in. I hope you're doing well? A warm welcome to the community 💜💫
I been lucky. i went no contact a year and 9 months and I’ve never been hoovered! I don’t believe my ex narc will. she is more of a reverse hoover type and so since i’m in NC. it would never happen. I deleted social media, changed my number, and blocked on email. I doubt they will show up at my door. So I think i’m safe!
You're definitely blessed to have been left alone, I hope it stays that way 🙏 Thank you for sharing your comment with us, amd welcome to the community 💜💫 Wishing you nothing but health and happiness!
Always reject the Hoover because it’s a re-gaining/assertion of your power, dominance, and control of your own life and free will. My ex once told me they always destroy relationships and I responded by explaining that I never befriend any of my exes. This was around the time I discovered I was dealing with a covert narc, so anticipating the relationship ending at some point, I understood how to effectively weaponize a subsequent hoover attempt against them. Your pride destroyed our relationship, so the price you will pay for devaluing me is paid for with your lack of access to me once I dump you for being a jerk. No more supply for you Buddy, and no I’ll never be a member of your harem because I’m entirely too smart for that. Do us both a favor and go hoover your ex. Oooops, my bad you already did that which means you stepped backwards as I moved forward after ending the relationship. Congratulations! U played yourself( DJ Khaled Voice)!
