Your message was spot on for me Charmaine. Thank you for sharing. Please feel better soon. To know that if I gave into this hoover, I would invite more chaos, confusion, and destruction into my life, tightening my resolve to never experience that nightmare again! So appreciative of your work.❤🎉
Thank you for this comment, and yes you're definitely doing the right thing by resisting the lure of the hoover - there is nothing good behind that. Keep yourself safe and stay strong 💜 I hope you're well.
Wow, this made me feel uneasy to be honest. Quite unnerving for you I can imagine. Stay strong in your position and prioritize your safety, these people can be relentless in their pursuit to regain control. I hope you're well ❤ thank you for sharing x
I quickly discarded the narc who moved in next door and thought she had a slave because I was helpful and polite. The depth of toxicity in her is something beyond anything I had ever seen. That was 5 years ago. The predator has since laid countless traps, baits and provocations, lied to police about me, constantly slandered me everywhere to anyone who would listen and stalked me cunningly and relentlessly. Her rage - self loathing - is volcanic and I am the target she projects onto. I have spent the last three years keeping careful Journals and photo/video evidence of her obsession. I realise that obsession will never end and that my best response is no response at all. Not a word, not a glance. It can sometimes be difficult not to give her a lesson she'll never forget, but I know that's just getting stuck down in the mud with a pig - it will never end. The obsessed enraged narc is a stain on our lives.
Oh wow! This is possibly one of the worst accounts of obsession that I've heard, it's definitely up there. I can only imagine how mentally and emotionally draining all this has been for you Wayne. You're a VERY strong person to keep composure through it all, and you are 100% correct - no response is the best response - the pig absolutely loves to play in the mud, even better with another. They are relentless, consumed by the need to 'win' their own twisted mind games, and totally preoccupied with manipulation, power and control. I really appreciate you sharing your story with us, God bless you and keep you safe. Welcome to our community
