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The HIDDEN Wound Destroying Your Love Life 

Greatness Clips - Lewis Howes
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@roccocarlino067
@roccocarlino067 9 дней назад
I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to follow celibacy, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is sooooo much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.
@KimJilene
@KimJilene 8 дней назад
What made you decide to follow celibacy? I always wonder about why men take it on - I don’t find many men going down this path so I am very curious ☺️
@roccocarlino067
@roccocarlino067 8 дней назад
@@KimJilene Read my comment as its states very clearly why celibacy is total self power.
@hannahisrael7577
@hannahisrael7577 6 дней назад
Waiting till marriage is slowly gaining traction haha
@LoveandGrace
@LoveandGrace 4 дня назад
Celibacy is not the solution, it’s like avoiding the core issues that need attention and healing which are triggered in intimate relationships for the purpose of resolution❤❤
@milicavelickovic2968
@milicavelickovic2968 4 дня назад
Amen.
@rosalee1624
@rosalee1624 15 дней назад
Dr Tara Swart -Neuroscientist, Oxford graduate. Psychiatrist and lecturer at MIT I believe.
@selinsu5790
@selinsu5790 6 дней назад
Neuroscience convinced me, no hookups
@soydansogukcesme470
@soydansogukcesme470 13 часов назад
That is studied in mise not in humans. You can use that kowlege only halfway for humans.
@Sezfluffy
@Sezfluffy 19 дней назад
Inner child work is really hard. Especially abandonment .
@EdelweisSusie
@EdelweisSusie 12 дней назад
So true. Parents, husband and ex all abandoned me. I’m done.
@RitaP41
@RitaP41 9 дней назад
You don't do it alone. Either with a therapist or in a relationship.
@gatorssbm
@gatorssbm 6 дней назад
​@@RitaP41Id argue you dont have to but it definitely helps. In my case I had enough good experiences to combat the bad ones after I was at a low point when someone I cared deeply about just up and disappeared. It was after really looking at all the bad avoidant and anxious habits I formed and it took over 2 months to really feel like I found peace with myself. But on the other hand I dont think I couldve pushed myself if I didnt have at least those good experiences where I felt like I actually mattered for once in my life, its a decent balance between wanting to have support but not overdepending which I only do if I actually get attached hence me driving someone off via anxiety despite before that being very hesitant to rely for my needs being met. But who knows everyone is different but I know its possible to some extent for some to resolve their issues in private albeit these things werent as obvious until I actually got into a relationship.
@RitaP41
@RitaP41 6 дней назад
@@gatorssbm sounds like you are pretty securely attached. For people with childhood Neglect and Abandonment wounds it's a completely different story that takes Years even with someone there.
@gatorssbm
@gatorssbm 6 дней назад
@@RitaP41 I feel like I am now but trust me I was an anxious mess with very avoidant tendencies lol it near ruined my current relationship. My partner was as well but thats what motivated me to better myself and now I actually feel confident to support them vs getting my fight or flight response triggered.
@lisesin1
@lisesin1 6 дней назад
I blocked out negative things that happened to me as a child, and it interfered with my adult relationships until it got so bad, memories came back in flashbacks. Still working on healing the wounds and focussing on my purpose in life to bring me purpose. Love happens when we are living freely, happily, which attracts positive people.
@doesntmatter9571
@doesntmatter9571 4 дня назад
Going through the same thing, it's the worst thing I've gone through.
@tyska1
@tyska1 20 дней назад
Please put her name in the title! Or at least in description (not enough;)). To good to not be known❤
@sandrataylor9568
@sandrataylor9568 19 дней назад
Go to Lewis Howes School of Greatness and you can find the whole podcast
@sandrataylor9568
@sandrataylor9568 19 дней назад
Dr. Tara Swartz
@MelissaDeLaRosaLVDM
@MelissaDeLaRosaLVDM 16 дней назад
Agreed!
@edithl8625
@edithl8625 15 дней назад
@@sandrataylor9568 Thank you!!!!!!! I will post it so everybody can know instead of looking for it! Thank you!
@the.toxic.phoenix
@the.toxic.phoenix 6 дней назад
Yes, he should credit her in the title or very least description
@ellebelle3812
@ellebelle3812 19 дней назад
Why is this woman’s name not shared in the description? She’s brilliant 👏
@sonjaglasklar7624
@sonjaglasklar7624 6 дней назад
She is Dr Tara Swart
@EdelweisSusie
@EdelweisSusie 12 дней назад
This woman needs to write a book with all this info in. I’d need at least 40 copies for my friends alone!!!
@elizabethbarefoot1111
@elizabethbarefoot1111 11 дней назад
I think she has.
@sreekalavijayarudran4810
@sreekalavijayarudran4810 5 дней назад
Book - the source
@nicinikita4911
@nicinikita4911 4 дня назад
she did ❤
@tnmaxim5109
@tnmaxim5109 7 дней назад
Love listening to Dr. Tara! She has such a soothing voice and charming personality 😍
@Artbynbru
@Artbynbru 13 дней назад
I don’t think I’ve seen Lewis laugh this much. They have great chemistry.
@chippychick6261
@chippychick6261 5 дней назад
Agreed. I love seeing Lewis smile so much
@jasonmiradoli8900
@jasonmiradoli8900 13 дней назад
When Lewis asks, and I'm paraphrasing, "if the man isn't driven by testosterone when she's ovulating, could that hurt the relationship because she isn't getting what she wants?" I wonder. Why not ask, "so, since the bad boy isn't what she wants the other 3 weeks of the month, does that hurt the relationship because that's not what she wants?" The stress on sex and bad boy for the short time she's ovulating, and the endless relationships that were created based on the heat of that time of the month, amazes me. I wouldn't partner with a lover, friend, or job that was great for me 1 week per month, but lacking the other 3. Makes no sense.
@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico
Smart brother, I've done it more then once, and, THE JUICE ISNT WORTH THE SQUEEZE ,
@Twenty10sMedia
@Twenty10sMedia 6 дней назад
You both are bantering like two young teenagers. Sooo cute
@jrb4347
@jrb4347 21 день назад
‘I’m not getting jealous’. Lol 😂
@bvirginia312
@bvirginia312 17 дней назад
The law of attraction described through biology. Fascinating
@summmer77
@summmer77 12 дней назад
12:15 WAIT LADIES WAIT!!!!!❤❤❤❤
@hellodolly9840
@hellodolly9840 5 дней назад
My idea of love is a friend that can actually be trusted. Not a xes interest.
@the.toxic.phoenix
@the.toxic.phoenix 6 дней назад
"prairie voles..." "what's that?" "a rat like creature" "a prairie dog?" "no. A rat like creature" Dood. LISTEN to what she's saying. And then he continues to call them rats or mice... They're voles. It's really not that hard.
@sandrarenner4402
@sandrarenner4402 21 день назад
Who is this woman? What is her name? She is fascinating
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 21 день назад
She is Dr. Tara Swart
@gypsism
@gypsism 20 дней назад
Why do you need to be asked about her name? Can't you leave a complete information about your video? ​@@GreatnessClips
@MissOJAY
@MissOJAY 3 дня назад
​@@gypsismfair question but...
@kellynichols3124
@kellynichols3124 19 дней назад
This woman is brilliant
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 19 дней назад
🙌
@InspiredAction333
@InspiredAction333 21 день назад
The part about oxytocin & testosterone & peak fertility. Holy moly. Mind blown. This is intense. So when in a Woman's cycle is it best to date!? Lol Probably not when I'm in the peak fertility part of my cycle. 😂 Amazing conversation. Thank you to everyone involved in making it happen.
@aurelien5861
@aurelien5861 21 день назад
Correct ! I personaly stay home - no parties or similar - when ovulating. And men can smell it too ! They run after you too which makes it harder to resist lol 🙂
@Cclearly9
@Cclearly9 19 дней назад
Imagine how being on hormonal birth control can thwart our mate choices 🤯
@dakine4238
@dakine4238 19 дней назад
I notice it too. Certain times of the month I just wanna hook up with a hot man but other times I just want a cuddly partner
@cherrylane79
@cherrylane79 18 дней назад
@@Cclearly9 It can really mess up the way a woman chooses a partner.
@haleykristin
@haleykristin 19 дней назад
Enjoyed listening to this conversation. New dating approach. The going slow approach specifically in the beginning
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 18 дней назад
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening!
@xolalalo
@xolalalo 12 дней назад
It’s over for me. Until the next time…
@mariamb344
@mariamb344 День назад
Your chemistry in this video is so great ❤️ thoroughly enjoyed the laughs
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 17 часов назад
So glad you enjoy the channel! Thanks for watching!
@Lovemoneyabundance
@Lovemoneyabundance День назад
“Im not getting jealous🤨” lol
@c.o.4054
@c.o.4054 20 дней назад
There's no contradiction between the man's testosterone going down and the woman's needs. In the time they are having a small baby she would naturally be breastfeeding throughout the night and waking up periodically to check on the baby. All those things suppress ovulation in a woman. So when she's not ovulating and she's not fertile she doesn't want a man with high testosterone. She wants someone dependable to support her and the baby. Later when she begins to reduce breastfeeding she'll start ovulating again and then she's gonna be interested in physical intimacy again.
@Cclearly9
@Cclearly9 19 дней назад
Ovulation still occurs while breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is not the birth control that people think it is. So many women have fallen pregnant while still nursing a little one and end up pregnant 6-8 weeks after having given birth.
@c.o.4054
@c.o.4054 19 дней назад
@@Cclearly9 Read what I wrote. I mentioned several things that all need to occur for ovulation to be suppressed. I've breastfed for many years, believe me, I know what I'm talking about.
@tamarbatyah7
@tamarbatyah7 18 часов назад
The oxytocin in the breastfeeding process drives her phsycial desire
@dawnf2z1
@dawnf2z1 6 дней назад
Love the BSA C15! A gorgeous beastie that deserves to over winter indoors. And who wouldn’t want to sit back with a cuppa or glass of something, admiring this beautiful piece of technology ❤❤
@stephensegal5187
@stephensegal5187 2 дня назад
Just like anything else you have to take in the good and kick the bad aside. Some of this is great, and some not so much.
@annadonahue4119
@annadonahue4119 2 дня назад
Totally agree about the bonding
@ashleydeanda2743
@ashleydeanda2743 20 дней назад
I’m so tickled by your responses! 😂
@LianaBuzea
@LianaBuzea 17 дней назад
Here's to science for explaining what people disn't know: sleep with a guy soon and he's not into you after that. Wait a while and thus have increased chances of a committed relationship. Which will ensure stability for the long run. ✌🏻✨ P.S.: I like her a lot, but science itself is sometimes... knocking on already open doors.
@ivapetrovska9986
@ivapetrovska9986 23 часа назад
This is a neurological explanation to a phenomenon we were familiar with from a behavioural scientific stand point (within sociology or psychology). Different sciences confirming the same occurrence.
@user-ol7ux6ne9h
@user-ol7ux6ne9h 5 дней назад
If one partner is healing and growing is exclusive to them leaving the other party that's not, does that explain people who leave their married partner whom they share children with? Usually it's the wife that leaves. Does this mean she has decided to grow where the husband has not... even though the divorce will often greatly hurt the children? What about when someone is trying to grow in the relationship and the other person leaves because they don't want to grow?
@R-Will
@R-Will 2 дня назад
Very good question. I've seen many woman leave because of desire fulfilment not because their actual desire to grow.
@francis363
@francis363 20 дней назад
.... create yourself!
@alvideos2145
@alvideos2145 16 дней назад
You are awesome man, this was a great discussion.
@karenhill2174
@karenhill2174 4 дня назад
I did it already!
@fireroum
@fireroum 20 дней назад
Is there a full interview please?
@devs4806
@devs4806 20 дней назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-lzvE0Z-g5m4.htmlsi=Q2OTHSe80xyZlLGC
@sandrataylor9568
@sandrataylor9568 19 дней назад
On Lewis Howes School of Greatness
@victorianilsen763
@victorianilsen763 2 дня назад
Another way of saying that you are healing and growing and others are dropping away.Is your vibration or frequency have changed or your personality.. And now we once were attracted to something now we are repelled by . I continuous Pendulum Of contrast and growth. Lif is school
@taiwoal
@taiwoal 8 дней назад
Thanks a lot for attaching the science to it.
@mylittlecornerofdevon
@mylittlecornerofdevon 20 дней назад
Amazing discussion ❤
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 20 дней назад
Appreciate you for watching!
@RitaP41
@RitaP41 9 дней назад
Basic psychology
@katrina2553
@katrina2553 День назад
Make them all wait
@russianaudiobooksinenglish6703
Her name is Dr. Tara Swart
@purewisemarian
@purewisemarian 13 дней назад
This is so helpful ❤
@agi.kitchen
@agi.kitchen День назад
@6:30 curious if pets also lower man’s testosterone if they sleep in same room in same way as babies (obviously not the gross thing of having pets around during everything )
@vlads.1
@vlads.1 8 дней назад
how many people do you think lived in caves? i dont buy that
@tiffany7698
@tiffany7698 8 дней назад
😂 this is a great one!
@arabelapalea8572
@arabelapalea8572 5 дней назад
Best Video ever 🫶👍
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 5 дней назад
🙌
@Cynthia-rt2mz
@Cynthia-rt2mz 21 день назад
Amazing interview. Love is the same whether man or woman 😉. It is true too, when you realize you are NOT the victim in your life, instead you ARE the adult making the decisions and standing accountable for actions creating for repercussions of words or deeds- Life is extremely pleasant. And yes, a partner attracted to victims, are no longer happy campers with people with boundary lines, no excuses, and non-compliance to victimhood.
@GreatnessClips
@GreatnessClips 21 день назад
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you liked it!
@Cynthia-rt2mz
@Cynthia-rt2mz 21 день назад
@@GreatnessClips my pleasure...her wisdom was reconfirming. Appreciate your kindness in sharing such valuable knowledge!
@njah1590
@njah1590 18 дней назад
Name the Woman in title pl
@ranodolo9558
@ranodolo9558 3 дня назад
Is kissing and hugging classified as sexual activity?
@ivapetrovska9986
@ivapetrovska9986 23 часа назад
by themselves - only if they lead to s. activity - representing foreplay.
@VTUL92
@VTUL92 5 дней назад
Basically ladies listen to your grandmas
@CarrieMHB222
@CarrieMHB222 7 дней назад
💔
@Omnislupus
@Omnislupus 21 день назад
Firsto🎉 xD Letss gooo on another Segment of wisdom!
@katrina2553
@katrina2553 День назад
Make them all wait F-O-R-E-V-E-R jk...long-time works ;)
@annaholden2406
@annaholden2406 21 день назад
🌟
@EmpressDivineFeminine
@EmpressDivineFeminine 19 дней назад
Lewis Howes hahaha man stop deriving facts for humans so ardently from her so as to apply to your real life. hahaha very cute.
@Jason1985-r1p
@Jason1985-r1p 15 дней назад
Woman want a loving stable relationship overall? 🤣
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