The Keys to Happiness & Fulfillment ✨

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@lavendaire Год назад

Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

@conradorondera3054 9 месяцев назад

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@conradorondera3054 9 месяцев назад

😊😊

@notpearll 3 года назад

"Happiness is not something you need to achieve. You can still feel happy during the process of achieving something " -Kim Namjoon

@lavendaire 3 года назад

yesss

@user-xb7vt7pk7l 3 года назад

Omg I was like "hey this quote seems familiar"

@jntluv 3 года назад

PERIODTTTT YESS BTS YESS ARMY!!!🥺💜❤️💕❤️💕💜😍🤩🥰😘🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼!!!

@taehyungtaetae1242 3 года назад

Yea 😭

@vbgcfan 3 года назад

💜💜💜

@joymae 3 года назад

The secret to happiness is learning to be in the present moment.

@nathaliacampanario7733 3 года назад

The power of now it's really powerful. This have changed my life

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

Be you and let your light inspire. That was one of the pieces of advice that will smith gave us in our dream! 😄; we collab with Will in our last video, and we share things that we have been doing to build happiness in our life.

@ElectricLegend14 2 года назад

The present moment is where we have our ability to be, improve, change, heal, win :)

@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 года назад

“When a person can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure.” ― Viktor E. Frankl

@simplyredislandgirl 3 года назад

True statement!👏👍

@hy930807 3 года назад

Me right now...

@karnagequeen 3 года назад

I love Frankl! Mans Search for Meaning changed my life

@stellajang2870 3 года назад

@James Two weeks after applying his method to my life, my life has completely changed. Public speaking, social anxi ety problems, and various types of addi ctions have begun to disappear. search youtube "paradox of I can do it"

@omyunseo5342 3 года назад

And that’s how my lunch break became a meaningful break 🥰

@Mattar55 3 года назад

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@sun-wo9vp 3 года назад

Same!! I just ate my lunch.

@lavendaire 3 года назад

@annaando6167 3 года назад

🥰

@Gabriellabnd 3 года назад

Same, i‘m watching this in my break and I feel so relaxed 🥰

@VerenaSatriani 3 года назад

"Focusing on what you can control". I totally agree with eveything Aileen said here. Most of all I highlight that part, we need to focus on what we can control rather than what we can't.

@lavendaire 3 года назад

yes always!!

@veganlunchmom 3 года назад

💗

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

Totally, we need to focus on what we can control; in fact, that's one of the stoicism tips that we had been applying in our lives and brings us incredible results. We focus on what we can control and put all our energy in that; we got really into it and actually made a video on our channel about the 5 stoic hacks to reduce stress! If you want to learn how to be happier and deal with the stress, we would love to check it out! 🤗

@auralunaa 3 года назад

A lot of unhappiness stems from a lack of awareness within, and not having a northstar of your life 🌱

@QuestforBeauty 3 года назад

yes, lack of awareness and a mind either in the past or in the future.

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

Yes, I agree with you, dude, when we have a Northstar of our life, we can focus on following that dream and be happy; in our last video, we collab with Will Smith in our dreams, He Gave Us His Top Life Advice 😄 You should check it out if you are interested in that topic!

@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 года назад

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

@sarahkabir176 3 года назад

Omg, you are looking like a cherry blossoms flower.🌸🌸

@feylovemgk7281 3 года назад

I love her color schemes

@meamela9820 3 года назад

In my pedagogic studies the hirearcy of needs has thaught me one important thing: I child can't learn it they don't feel safe. When they are struggling with learning, you must first make sure that the child feels safe, then after that, they have the mind space to begin learning and growing.

@ARYAN-iv7tx 3 года назад

'You dont need a reason to be happy, choose to be happy' ❤️😍🥰

@na0m1fes51 3 года назад

💯💯🙂😊thats right

@aaishaharfan187 3 года назад

True

@priscillajimenez27 3 года назад

Amen

@minoalymeg 3 года назад

Lately I’ve been asking myself why I haven’t felt fulfilled in so long and this video just popped up. A coincidence? I don't think so. THANK YOU

@botanologia841 3 года назад

I really like the part where you explain that Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs has to be commented because the catergories can be different from each individual. Sometimes, the need of self-accomplishment (put at the top) is more fondamental than financial security. Very interesting to create our own hierarchy of needs !

@PAULAOGETheChosenOne 3 года назад

Shout out to all new RU-vidrs and viewers, I love you

@rituparna4370 3 года назад

"Happiness is a journey of small gifts of joy and smiles". Such an inspiration, love ya Aileen !💜

@jlnbhl 3 года назад

Growing Up🥺 Glowing Up🧚‍♀️

@ReynaSingh 3 года назад

Happiness is the product of our outer and inner environment. Even if everything around us is perfect, we still may never be happy. Happiness comes from within.

@Dineshkumar-ve4dt 3 года назад

Lavendaire channel is just growing and spreading positivity all over the world .....

@QuestionEverythingButWHY 3 года назад

“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

@learnwithme2330 3 года назад

But now all of us have become very selfish .. ( kadva such hai )

@dhanalakshmik7519 3 года назад

We think why should we

@waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

You can not help others before you help yourself first ...

@pm4594 3 года назад

@@waelfaraj6705 I think you can, A lot of people do and they dont realise that they want to help and they're helping from an empty place. That does not in the end negate that they actually helped the other person

@waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

@@pm4594 Yes , possible ...However, the better you become , the more you can help ...

@QuestforBeauty 3 года назад

It's so true. The beauty of the present moment. When we just let the 'I' dissolve, and we trust in the now. We trust the creator, this beautiful force that lies inside of all of us.😍

@CrisSaur 3 года назад

true

@babbybrenner8945 3 года назад

"beauty of the present moment" love it!

@lavendaire 3 года назад

the most powerful place to be - the present

@rudig5698 3 года назад

I think happiness is in all of the small moment of life :)

@twilight3304 3 года назад

True

@chanelamber218 3 года назад

I honestly didn't known about maslow's hierarchy of needs especially about the "aesthetic need" I didn't know that aesthetic could be a need but now that I think about it I think I do have the need for aesthetic. Thank you Aileen again for this video I love your content so much!! 😭💜 Lets all do our best to feel happy and fulfilled! 😊

@lavendaire 3 года назад

thank you! yes aesthetics do matter esp if the other lower needs are fulfilled too :)

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

💜 Maybe as she said in the video, "Aesthetic" is not the primordial thing to do but is so please to see when you come to your house, and you see all in order and clean and beautiful, maybe with your favorites colors and the style you like, that makes you feel good, makes you smile. In our last video, we share how he learn from will smith and apply his tips to create a better life and a happy life for us; if you are inspired by Will Smith, we would love for you to check it out on our channel 🙌

@ughrowie 3 года назад

Yes, it was mentioned in his actual theory. I study Psychology and we learned about it. I didn't know about the expanded version but those were mentioned in the textbook I've read. Self-actualization is hard to achieve because of the complexity of the concepts there. All in all, his theory is really amazing to learn even if you're not majoring in psych. 💜

@MoonSignInsight 3 года назад

I haven't looked into the hierarchy of needs in so long. It's really interesting how it got developed in the expanded version! I definitely struggled with self value and worth, but I really feel like that's changing for me so much this past 2 years. Now I'm currently struggling with Safety. This was so helpful, thank you!

@lavendaire 3 года назад

happy this helped! yeah it was a good refresher for me too :)

@katymason1222 3 года назад

Aileen, I so appreciate all the positivity you put out in the world. Do you ever think about the ripple effect your work has on the world? Just watching your videos helps me to be more engaged and kind throughout my day. 💕

@lavendaire 3 года назад

thank you so much

@TheCosmicBaddie 3 года назад

True happiness comes from within. When we are happy despite our external circumstances, we come to understand that we are in control of how we feel at all times :)

@prernajha8522 3 года назад

This whole year I've dedicated to self growth & personality improvement , this is the year when I realized my true essence when I came into spirituality. I feel I'm getting fulfilled at every level . This is the year I found you answering exactly the question I was asking universe about. I learnt & realized & accepted & changed so many things about me through introspection. When I came across your worksheets I was super super grateful now I know what exactly to ask myself to grow. Thank you Aileen❤️

@RobWill5864 3 года назад

Knowledge is the best tool against fear and feeling unsafe..

@cblessymaria1060 3 года назад

Happiness overloaded when I saw your chanal notification

@arinikusumawardhani1630 3 года назад

After I tried your "what makes me happy?" , I tried to think more deeply and suddenly I cried. I don't have many things that make me happy. but I am grateful for what I received in this life. Thanks Ailee

@yaseensinsights 3 года назад

I don't believe in searching for happiness, I believe happiness is in this moment, in being present!

@Cristinaplanters 3 года назад

Youre absolutely brilliant ❗thank you..

@ojaswitaramteke3775 3 года назад

I get so excited when she posts because I already know that it's going to be so good! 💙

@DoodlesintheMembrane 3 года назад

Honestly, I needed this, for the past 4 months I have been creating multiple educational infographics every day to help students study online throughout these difficult times. Yesterday was the first day I did not create a new graphic, and I went to bed feeling terrible and anxious. I really needed this video to start off a new and better day, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@brennabeloved8540 3 года назад

I tried flipping the pyramid upside down. Now, I don't mean to minimize the reality or importance of our physical needs and what a struggle it is for many people to feel safe. However, I found it much easier to work on these things in my life when I started from a place of transcendence. I'd love to hear others' thoughts on this idea! I realize it is definitely a more privileged perspective to take but as someone who lacked a lot of safety, love, and esteem in their life, this perspective was extremely freeing.

@maezeu3358 3 года назад

I'm struggling with the level of Esteem. I used to be a bright student in school but now in college, with all the competition and not being able to do upto the mark like before, with time I have lost all my self confidence and even if I knew I'd do well in a particular exam, somehow I just couldn't make it. I started procrastinating a lot in these years but before I used to be a lot sincere. I've been working a lot with self love since last couple of months and still healing. It still seems a long way to be back with the same believe and confidence, that I can do better and be good in studies. I just hope I can be back soon. Your videos have helped me a lot. Lots of love to you❤️❤️

@narcoticm7165 3 года назад

I feel you, i am also going through this self development process, dealing with lack of confidence,social anxiety, fear of failure and low self esteem... Hope we both can grow out of this situation we are in. Wish you all the good luck 💜

@maezeu3358 3 года назад

@@narcoticm7165 yes I hope that too. We just need to be more forgiving to ourselves and dont let negative hit us. Even if the progress is slow, let's just keep working on a better self. Lots of love and energy to you❤️❤️ Good luck 🤗🤗

@laurine1263 3 года назад

@@maezeu3358 I also feel this way, and seeing your comment made me feel a little better :) So, thanks for that, I'm sure we can get through this all together ❤️

@maezeu3358 3 года назад

@@laurine1263 I'm really glad to hear that🥺🥺❤️ We'll get through, we just gotta be brave and consistent. Sending you energy and warm hugs🤗🤗🤗

@laurine1263 3 года назад

@@maezeu3358 thanks a lot, sending you positive energy too ! ♡

@mukulikamukherjee5754 3 года назад

You don't know how you have helped me through a very bad phase in my life. I will always be grateful to you.. Keep doing the good work... 🌼🌼🌼

@powermeditation4445 3 года назад

Thank you for using this platform to change someone’s life! You’re an angel 😇

@cebj7121 3 года назад

Thank you so much for caring! Blessings to you! 😷🙏🙂

@DebraWilderMeditation 3 года назад

I think a person can have only the self-actualization and spirituality needs met and be very happy. It’s about mindset with so many unemployed living in tents or cars yet enjoying simple things like meditation and laughter.

@sushmasharma8324 3 года назад

I've been waiting for a week for your video.. you just made my day💜💜💜💜💜

@lifeonedge2664 3 года назад

Honestly this is an amazing video girl

@vanessalandrock 3 года назад

it would be really interesting if everyone put the 8 levels into a different more personal order. I love all the levels but the higher the pyramid gets the less I identify with its order. I looooove this video, you are so calm and aesthetic 💖 I think I am currently working on mastering the fourth level „esteem“ 😊

@Rg-es9kv 3 года назад

I love the reasoning behind these videos, it's real empowerment not idealising a lifestyle or obtaining things or being an identified with a group that's better than others, those things are fake happiness. 😖

@misssuga6259 3 года назад

I want to thank you for helping me make my life more worthy .Thanks Aileen Xu .

@vijaypatil8702 3 года назад

She deserves a lot more subscribers! ☺She inspires so many people💖 and make our lives a billion times better!😉 I was missing you babe! 🥰 Love you as always😍.

@LisaTran 3 года назад

Omg Aileen! I literally just posted up a video about my career journey and my made-up 'maslow's hierarchy of CAREER needs' 😂 I've noticed how negatively I've looked at my own career - how time after time, despite changing careers, I still felt like my 'needs' weren't fulfilled. When you spoke about 'growth needs' though, it made me realise that this whole time, it's not like my needs weren't fulfilled, it was that I had fulfilled a need and was looking to satisfy the next! You've put a positive spin on this and I'm sending you much love for it!

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

I will check it out your video right away - We are trying to grow our channel as well, We actually collabed with Will Smith on our latest video...in our dreams 😅 We shared some of the most impactful life lessons we have learned from him, if you are inspired by Will we would love for you to check it out on our channel 🙌, our mission is to make self-improvement fun and create a beautiful community there!

@KellyMorita 3 года назад

There's also the Ikigai Self actualization pyramid which I LIVE by!

@sushma150690 3 года назад

Couldn’t get over how your skin is glowing in this video

@mamatasalgaonkar3116 3 года назад

Can u make updated version of the foll. A. How i organise my life B. Home tour C. Desk tour D. Ur journal connection

@Niffringo 3 года назад

I really needed that Aileen sister ........................ I really needed desk tour please

@she_was_here 3 года назад

Hey Aileen! I love your videos! You're an inspiration! Stay happy & Healthy!! Loads of love from India 🇮🇳

@Nardi_ta 3 года назад

I love you when I see you I fell inspired

@ayanorika5766 3 года назад

I just started studying tourism management and got hyped when I saw Maslows hierarchy of needs. Just knowing that I understand something hyped me up lol

@TrishBlackwell 3 года назад

"Focusing on what you can control". totally agree, Thanks lavendaire.

@priscillajimenez27 3 года назад

It is true that our basic needs can come into play into our happiness but like you said I think it's mostly a state of mind or mindset. Like I feel like many who lack in their basic needs or don't have them consistently are more prone to looking to the spirituality/religion in the transcendence level to find inner peace and joy despite what's going on around them or what they may be lacking because of their inner peace and faith that keeps them going and appreciate what they do have and experience. I love how you keep reiterating to make changes in what you can control which is ourselves and to go forth looking to do what we can despite what obstacles (life) come in our way.

@am4nhays 3 года назад

This video saves me,I'm actually crying,and I opened the video to feel better,and magically,I am. Hahah thanks Aileen

@em_ik1956 3 года назад

Send you too much love !!! You're not alone sister❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@AHuve 3 года назад

I love your content! You seem like such a centered intelligent woman. Thank you for this. I think this hierarchy should be imperative in all of our lives in order to reach that transcendence, but apart from that, let’s focus on living in the moment of now and awareness! I’m also glad two more levels were added! Those are so important as well! Love and light to you!💜✨

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

Love and light to you too!💜✨ Those two levels make a huge difference, and you are right; she's so intelligent - We are trying to make self-improvement fun! We are building a likeminded community in our channel of people who wants to bring happiness and fulfill to their life, we would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to have similar interest.

@mahimag1148 3 года назад

Take a moment for appreciating her video skills😍So aesthetic and calm-full🥰

@samiramani1799 3 года назад

Thousands of hearts to tell you that you're my idol .......

@niahjoe5341 3 года назад

Right now I’m struggling with Esteem as well. With a lot of tragic family events that recently happened and being pregnant , I just don’t feel like I’m good enough or can’t do anything right. Holding on to any ounce of happiness has been difficult. Thank you so much for the video! It really brightened my morning

@andreyaaugst4805 3 года назад

love this video!! thank you for sharing

@jamy2622 3 года назад

Omygosh thanks Lavendaire! I've been waiting for your upload!!!

@specsNsarcasm 3 года назад

Thank you for this content 🌻🌻🌻

@DaphneGsell 3 года назад

Loved following this break down, thank you❤️

@angeltv8208 3 года назад

For me the level of showing them ability and skills to be known.

@khaylasalin5191 3 года назад

omg new vid!!! 😍😍 thank uu for this 💗

@tonyc200708 3 года назад

Thanks Aileen. I am somewhat familiar with the original Maslow Hierarchy of Needs but not the expanded version. My pyramid is interchangeable especially the growth level. I also believe happiness and fulfillment is inner feeling not just by choice.

@lsou4592 3 года назад

thank you for being honest and inspiring !!! :)

@ruth.joanna 3 года назад

Love watching your videos

@lateekatandon4368 3 года назад

Love this ! ❤️

@RoannaFernandes 3 года назад

Thank you for this offering (and for the worksheet too), Aileen! ✨✨✨✨

@stevenhamilton801 2 года назад

And to add to being present as a key to happiness, we must detach from material possessions and emotions in relationships.

@azbahansari 3 года назад

Connection makes me happy, be it with self, family, friends, strangers or nature. The sense of being able to connect with something or someone, that makes me happy.

@CassieWinter 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing the expanded hierarchy of needs! I hadn't heard of that one before.

@plutolip319 3 года назад

You are an inspiration 💛

@ruqayyamateen2513 3 года назад

Thank you, Aileen I really needed this and I am soo grateful to you for it your videos come at the perfect time.

@pushparao4316 3 года назад

Just love you , girl you are doing a great job . You will reach great heights in life and be really successful . For all the good things you are doing and the positivity you are spreading in the world , the almighty will definitely bless you and your family

@SteAndRach 3 года назад

Love the positivity you are spreading and totally agree with you! She is amazing, she actually inspired us to create our own RU-vid channel last month!! Which has been one of the most fun experiences of our life so far 🙌☺️ Would love for you to check it out if you have time 💛

@MoreLoveNow 3 года назад

Such important information to be sharing at this moment in time! Thank you for putting this out into the word.💖✨🦋🌺

@ambarosaky4916 3 года назад

Thanks for this video Aileen, I really needed to hear this❤

@whiteflowercrownmusic7124 3 года назад

Fantastic video as always, thank you for the good vibes🌹

@Michaela-sh9mw 3 года назад

oh yes! loved this so much! 🍒💕

@millennialgeisha2192 3 года назад

Been sharing this with others, but you’ve explained it SO much better that I ever could 🙌 Mahalo & shared 💗

@stephaniesmile941 3 года назад

Thank you for this video

@akshatasharma7249 3 года назад

You're a beautiful person!💜

@fauziaphyu491 3 года назад

Your videos always come at the right time

@NasiaGeorgakopoulou 3 года назад

Such an inspirational video.I definetely struggle with estime!!!

@SuccessOsato 3 года назад

I learned this in business management,but I never considered how I could apply this to my life.Thanks for the wake up call

@ICEcoldJT 3 года назад

Glad I came across this channel, lots of videos on how to raise vibrations and become happier💜

@virys.m. 3 года назад

She just made my whole day a lot better ❤️

@meerasharma1534 3 года назад

This was so much needed ❤ Thank you favourite 😇

@natsuna920 3 года назад

Thank you so much Aileen!! love ya ❤️❤️

@gaganam8201 3 года назад

I was really waiting for your video. Recently I lost my grandpa and I'm currently searching for happiness. This doesn't make sense but listening to your video makes me calm and silences my negative thoughts. Love you Aileen!!

@alishakhuranaa 3 года назад

I have said this a lot times but again saying you really inspire me so much you changed who i am and i wanted this video just now and here it is Tysm ❤❤❤ Also you made my day today love you so much😍

@Sagalayy 3 года назад

my favorite videos ❣️ always a dose of fresh air that makes my day that much better 🥰

@KiloKaizer 3 года назад

Ur videos are honestly the most inspiring..I am so glad that I found your channel..Wishing you all love and success

@harmylie4413 3 года назад

Thank you for this. Your videos are really interesting, helpful and peaceful. Have an amazing day ❤️

@LucaPainOfficial 3 года назад

Love and self esteem are pretty a mess right now... Thanks for your support!

@missladylexi 3 года назад

Your videos always realign my energy and get me so positive and motivated. Thank you 💜✨

@dwightbrown7777 3 года назад

Thank you for your videos! I just found you. You were very inspiring

@rynautumns7601 3 года назад

Could not have come at a better time! Thank you

@ff444f7 3 года назад

Thank you for this video Aileen!❤️ I found your take on aesthetic needs quite relatable as it’s always been similar for me growing up struggling to make ends meet. It was only later in life that I realised aesthetics mean something different to everyone and we can do a lot with what we already have!❤️ Thank you for this✨