How I completely changed my life (and you can too!)

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I thought it was important for me to share this story with you because it’s probably the most significant one that shaped me and my whole outlook on life. I hope that it can spark a little inspiration or serve as a reminder that it’s never too late to change if you are not happy with the current trajectory of your life.
"We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection." - Brené Brown.
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@LizzieOktambe 2 года назад

“Don’t just be yourself, create yourself.” Very powerful and it really got me thinking. Thank you for this wonderful video. ♥️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm happy to hear that :)

@LearnWithLilibeth 2 года назад

8:17

@kulwantvig9226 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife qqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqqq

@malehuseng8196 2 года назад

Maex. St ging

@nawee6801 2 года назад

Yup.. always thought that it's an overrated/overused advice.. " Just be yourself" what if you are a jerk.. do you keep being a jerk...? 🤔🤦🏽

@calistaj2284 Год назад

I love her voice. It's so soothing and can help when you're having a bad day and you just need some advice from a big sis.

@MalamaLife Год назад

♥️♥️

@Myeternalperspective 2 года назад

"to accept what was and finally move on."....that's powerful.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@mom4peace919 2 года назад

I was widowed 5 years ago at the age of 54. I've spent 5 years clinging to the widow title and living safely in limbo. I needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story in such a thoughtful way.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Big hugs ❤

@SuzannesSimpleLiving 2 года назад

Hi Tammy… I was widowed nearly 10 years ago and also had the widow title, I learnt to move on because I didn’t want my life to be wasted the same as my partner dying young. Happy to say that I am now in an extremely amazing place. Good luck in whatever you choose to do 😊🇬🇧💕

@shabnammago183 2 года назад

Same story here but you have to move on as you have one life to be lived and if you have children you have to consider that you are a source of inspiration for them

@Gabi-wm7yk 2 года назад

My patient told me she just found love at the age of 64!!! Now she is 86 hopping to get well soon in order to reunite with her partner.

@libinsalal429 2 года назад

"You are the author of your story" . True words. I hope everyone feeling lonely here will build your life better.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@155books 2 года назад

“We are not just the main character in our life, we are the author” 👌🏻🥺💗

@emoses Год назад

We are both!

@ussliberty4631 Год назад

Watch Europa the last battle it completely changed my entire life

@BeDangerousGroup Год назад

We are also the antagonist, the secondary characters and the setting. Only you can decide how many pages are in the book. What you don't control are the volumes.

@mandylaplante4985 2 года назад

It's amazing how 8:59 minutes can have such an impact for the rest of our lifes. I can't imagine the amount of energy you put into each video, but please know that they are timeless masterpieces. ❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@christinam6430 2 года назад

I agree. I have a few of Sophie’s videos saved in a favorites playlist because there are so many wonderful lessons that I like to revisit

@lazytales722 2 года назад

Love the way you narrate and it's important to be a narrater of your own story.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

😁❤ thanks!!

@amandal8404 2 года назад

Sophie, this is so timely. I've been talking to my hubby a lot lately about "changing the narrative", ever since we moved to a new place. 5 years ago, I couldnt code, rollerblade, bake, or dance, and all that changed because I decided to rewrite my narrative. This is so encouraging as I continue to navigate change and growth in life!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm happy for you! the narrative we tell ourselves is so important! it can be life changing ❤️

@jayjuan919 2 года назад

Did you learn to code on your own?

@LaureninGermany 2 года назад

Maybe you were more fun, but fun for whom? Thank you for sharing this. You have added to the honesty that makes RU-vid so special, and proved your authenticity once again. I do hope you somehow know how much you are inspiring and supporting people all over the world with your content. Btw, I started my channel after watching your video about starting in 2021 and not only has it changed my life so much for the better, but I went over 1000 subscribers a couple of days ago.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you for your sweet comment Lauren 🥺❤ that means a lot. And so happy to hear about your YT journey! Congrats!!

@LaureninGermany 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife thank you, Sophie! I remember watching your video and feeling so inspired, and I really wanted to tell you. It’s made both me and my husband happier - it’s a beautiful addition to my life, gets me out and about so much more and I‘m meeting some wonderful people here on YT. ❤️🤗 Thank you for all you do!

@nicholajayne 2 года назад

You now have another subscriber Lauren :)

@coco-bz3kp 2 года назад

You’re so sweet

@LaureninGermany 2 года назад

@@nicholajayne thank you so much!!

@acadaemian 2 года назад

is it not wonderful that there is always a possibility for us to change, to grow, to turn our lives around? it's so inspiring to me that we are just one good choice away from starting the avalanche of other good choices that will benefit us. the journey doesn't have to be rushed or flawless, but it needs to be genuine and healing. lots of love from your new subscriber 🥰 your content really resonates with me. thank you so much!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Yes! I think the choice is always there :) Thank you for your comment and for supporting me❤️

@jonetsu8890 2 года назад

"Because everyone's battle is so unique and different." How right you are. I used to play down my mom's narcissm and the pain and trouble she sends the family through and sometimes, I still do. "Hey, some people don't have parents, you do." But it is painful, it is difficult. And accepting that it is a vulnerable part of your soul is the first and most important step. Sending you my support and love!

@sarasaeq3446 2 года назад

This is literally a piece of art and I’m so thankful I made this incredibly beautiful and amazing message for us! Ily!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥺❤ thank you

@emmalimariyel8401 Год назад

I decided to change my life recently but never thought it would be that hard. It feels like even my body refuses to leave habits of old life and begin to do things that I really want. I spent about three years in depressed state, and still overcoming it, that's what's making things harder for me. But I know I will get over it. I know I can. But it's harder than it seemed. Your story really is inspiring, and I think I just figured out some things for myself. Thank you.

@TheMaribel1981 2 года назад

“To accept what was and finally move on” super powerful!!

@shackeriabrown2378 2 года назад

So beautiful, the narration, the graphics, the message... love what it embodies 🥰

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much :)

@anomiwijesinghe 2 года назад

Perfect content. Thanks Sophie! You being 31, so brave and found the true life so early in your journey. I am still struggling to break the walls of tradition, culture, acceptance and yet seeking the peace in mind, happiness and I’m almost 10 years late than you!

@682sunidhibhardwaj7 2 года назад

The Change was Scary but also Freeing at the Same time!- It felt like..these words were said SPECIALLY for me to hear them!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@poppycalliope 2 года назад

" I want nothing but the best for me" such strong words, we should always remember to do what's best for us cause at the end of the day we tend to be the most strict with ourselves. Thank you for sharing your story. All I see is a beautiful, strong and capable woman. ✨️💕

@jisuhong2987 2 года назад

"Don't avoid it, embrace it." It was the best line for me. 진실한 이야기 전해주셔서 고맙습니다. 목소리만 들어도 치유되는거 같아요.

@SaraBiancaBentley 2 года назад

Sophie, this was so elegant in its honesty… I already greatly admired your channel and everything you have accomplished with it, yet now I find myself just completely in awe. Thank you for sharing your story… what an inspiration ✨

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

aw thank you so much Sara. I appreciate your comment so much

@thenakitaharris 9 дней назад

I absolutely loved the part where you said that "our vision, will power and perserverance hold so much more power to the storyline of our own lives.". And the Jean-Paul Sartre quote nailed it. breathtaking and deeply thought-provoking video, thank you.

@tessn6471 2 года назад

Your lifestyle is literally what I'm working on creating. Thank you for creating such a beautiful video and for providing encouraging words 🙌

@tonyvalisky4856 2 года назад

I still hear sadness in your voice. I hope u can continue to build a beautiful life

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I appreciate it. I'm not sad, just emotional :)

@ericeichstaedt2357 2 года назад

Sophie, we share a similar story. Though I'm much older now than you, at around 11 going on 12 my family moved, and it was very traumatizing and shocking, and I did things that created more destruction. I too knew I deserved better, and I've spent all these years creating a life worthy of me. I know I haven't always been as conscious as I could be, but I do think I've created a pretty decent painting so far. Thanks for sharing your story and process. I know what you've been through on sone level. We're so vulnerable and like you said don't have the tools yet. Not many at least. But every day is the first day of the rest of our lives, always another chance.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Every day is the first day of our lives. I'll remember this :)

@kimgordon3695 2 года назад

Love is a Tapestry; Success is a journey. You are precious... 💞

@Georgi343 Год назад

I am not gonna lie, you are such a good painter I’ve never seen such talent

@mumbis1845 2 года назад

Thank you Sophie, you're one of the most genuine people that I have ever come across on RU-vid! Thank you for sharing yourself with us, for being vulnerable, authentic and realistic, addressing real life issues head on, without fear! Compared to most millenials of today, you truly are a breath of fresh air.....I hope that those young people who will be blessed to see your videos will know that they can change the trajectory of their lives. Thank you so much, keep on keeping on :). Love your two dogs by the way!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

You're so sweet ❤️

@thea1rachiel 2 года назад

This is a synchronistic message. I’d been feeling as though I’d been thru ‘too much’ trauma to come back from it ever. Just last night, I realized what I now wanted was to gather myself away from this idea and leave it behind. I deserve not to have to keep carrying the story of how much I’ve been through.

@mariemarzan1716 2 года назад

The courage for narrating your own story and the powerful messages you shared definitely touched a nerve. Thank you for creating this channel. You are inspiring people beyond measures.

@KatrinaKavvalos 2 года назад

You have such a beautiful voice! I felt completely at ease listening to you tell your story. Congrats on breaking the chains to your old story and embracing the new one ❤

@wl5721 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your experience. I could not appreciate it more because I had a similar experience, that I was fostered since an infant and it was an indigenous community. Though I lived with mostly relatives and family friends and not complete strangers, my upbringing was quite turbulent that I had to frequently switch schools, and rotate families. Our physical conditions were very coarse, however, it was mainly the emotional needs of a child not being met. For a long time, I never questioned the way I grew up, always thought it is the way my life is, and internalized my pain and frustration, which led to many negative beliefs in me, such as "I don't deserve to be loved", "others have it better than me" or "no one would listen to me" and difficulty in expressing myself, etc. Your writing and videos are so beautiful, the way you articulated your story has also helped me to process mine. I can resonate so much with your words!

@robreeves4059 2 года назад

I seldom comment on anything but this time I am motivated to make an exception. I'll begin by saying Wow! what a beautiful, artistic, intellect she is. Wise beyond her years in her views. She has been given many gifts and is willing to share them with us through her narrative. How refreshing and inspiring even for a budding senior like me. Thank you Sophie.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much for you kind comment Rob. Appreciate it and happy you enjoyed the video

@ananyasharma2834 Год назад

literally the only video about changing your life that makes real sense

@freewillietoday 2 года назад

Your story today is compelling and pictures an excellent outlook on how each of us can create our own narrative. I have steadfastly maintained to be myself and not worry what others think. That mantra combined with respecting others-humans, animals, and the environment is what I try to keep foremost in my mind.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks Wilfred. I appreciate that! I agree with you on your mantra

@hagarmohamed7890 2 года назад

You inspire me . Its really not late . start now and get out of your comfort zone

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@mihaelaclaudiap..2 2 года назад

Sophie my lovely you made me cry! I adore this video, my absolute favourite from you! And even if I wasn't adopted I can relate a lot with your pain, I had my own share as well and I also had to choose at one point, do I want to keep playing the angry victim or just start working on my self and accept my past. I chose to bring out the best of me and see my past from an observer's point of view, without judgement, it was what it was, I cannot change that but I can change my present and my future because I deserve peace and happiness. i am glad I did that choice, my life it's much better now and same is my relationship with the ones around me. The change was very hard but was worth the pain! Thank you Sophie for reminding me all this! Much love!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm so glad you can relate to this message Mihaela! I think it's really liberating that no matter what happens, we always have a choice on how to view it. much love to you ❤️

@NoraBuruberi1742 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this video. I am in the lowest point in my life after losing my mom 5 weeks ago and I really needed to hear this. This is my only life and I don't want to lose it by playing the victim. I'm going to change and become happy and truly comfortable in my skin. ❤️ Sending love and light to everyone reading this.

@larkfly9273 2 года назад

Thank you SO much for allowing us to get to know you better on a deeper level. Please do more of these if you feel like it, I really liked this

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks for being here to hear my story 😁

@zacharyhooley Год назад

“I’m not perfect, but I feel like I’m on the right path... and that counts for something.” To wholeheartedly “feel” you’re on the right path, no matter the narrative we grew up in or the circumstances around us now, that counts for EVERYTHING. We miss out when we don’t live from our own hearts!

@kim.mie. Год назад

I am so sorry for what you had to experience at the age of 11 😔 so much love to you and your sister ❤

@MalamaLife Год назад

❤️

@TheGlobalTravelr 2 года назад

I just completed an amazing Leadership program with Michael Bernoff. Part of this event, Michael would have the audience listen to peoples stories (within the audience) that they were reliving on a daily - weekly - monthly basis. The transformation of the event was the letting go of their story. Thank you for sharing, Sophia.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

that's powerful! sometimes talking about it and sharing it with others is healing

@whtvr_clover Год назад

This is beyond inspiring, Sophie. Thanks for sharing your story. You are courageous and resilient.

@MalamaLife Год назад

❤️

@olaalgadi959 2 месяца назад

you don't know how much your words affected on me .thank you 💌

@mj1111 2 года назад

After 20 years of marriage I am getting divorced and was having a pity party for myself because my husband is trying to cut me off financially. I saw myself as a victim but after watching this video I realized I should change my narrative to empower myself to make my own money rather than complain that I don’t have any. Thank you!!!❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ wishing you all the best

@lalletate7204 Год назад

your voice is so calm , makes me feel good and relaxed i loved this phrase don't just be yourself create yourself

@thats_nice_canada6283 2 года назад

You are wise beyond your years and thank you, I needed to receive this today 💗

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️

@keentoknowher 2 года назад

Much Needed Thank you so much, I was at my low, and didn't feel like doing anything. It comforted me after a very long period.

@dinuli2494 2 года назад

This came in just in time! Thank u for this!😇❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤🥰 thanks for watching

@jahnavijammi8464 2 года назад

Your story really moved me, thanks for sharing this. I think you are whatever you transformed in yourself, after all that you went through. Hardships are our true friends in life as they give you courage and chance to explore yourself. Thanks for being a great motivation to everyone through this channel. I really look forward every week to hear your soothing voice and some motivation in life, take care! ❤❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

aw thank you very much ❤️ I'm so happy to hear it

@kashmirakaya6557 2 года назад

This was just what my soul needed to hear and feel. Thank you for creating and sharing you Sophie 💜

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thank you

@poojabhat4269 2 года назад

Cried while watching dis vlog... Uve evolved.. Changed as a person... Suffering makes u stronger they say .. I'm inspired... ❤️

@theloveyourfacegal2773 2 года назад

Sorry for your loss in the past 💕 beautiful area where you live live love the photography. So glad your mind set changed for a more positive out look thanks for sharing young lady :)

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much Mary

@Tamanganjali3199 2 года назад

I just love the way you are living your life🌺🌺🌺🌺

@lamialabadi9744 2 года назад

I teared up at the end of the video 🥺🥺 , thank you for sharing this with us, it came at the exact time when I was thinking that we always believe the story we tell ourselves, so we must be careful with the story we choose to embrace, changing the narrative of our story might look like a meaningless step, but it's the first step into changing our lives, it depends on everyone but the foundation of our narrative should come from a place of gratitude not a place of entitlement, a narrative where we feel as the hero and the survivor of our circumstances not a victim, that's what changing the narrative means to me, and as I am writing this comment I am reminding myself of it because it's easy to fall back into the past narrative if we don't constantly remind ourselves with the new one. Have a good week Sophie I am looking forward to seeing your next video 🎁

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I think it's so important to remind ourselves :) I love how you phrased it. I'm so happy that you enjoyed the video. Thank you ❤️

@choosetoshine2610 2 года назад

The only constant in life is change. Thank you for sharing your life's experiences. You're so amazing! ❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤

@TubeDeviant 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing something so personal with us. Once again, it helps us on our bad days to keep things in context and in perspective. I definitely needed to hear this as a reminder because sometimes we just feel helpless and tired of whatever situation we are dealing with at that moment. Feeling lost or without direction. While I'm not adopted, I had parents who didn't want me, was abandoned by my "father", and had a mother who made it clear that she didn't want me as a son. She took care of me, (I say that loosely) but the result of her not actually wanting me was verbal, emotional, psychological abuse. It could have been worse, so I'm thankful it wasn't. I guess the point is that everything is a double edged sword, even in your past experiences with your parents. On one side of the spectrum, your parents left you and your sister, and on the other side of the spectrum, they may have been abusive in every way possible if they didn't leave. I don't think you have an idea of how your videos actually affect others in the world, and for that, I say thank you.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm so sorry to hear about your family. I hope that you can see past it and still create something beautiful for yourself. Sending you my love

@TubeDeviant 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife Thank you..! I send you some love too..! =) Trying to make the most of the rest of my time, but who knows.. I wasted a lot of time in the past, not caring/not trying, being discouraged, with low confidence and ambition, but it's a lot better now. I need to GTFO of here.. haha.

@alekhapurv7650 2 года назад

Ur story is so inspiring..... the first step of improvement is to identify the problem and then accept and ur video taught me that.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ I'm so happy to hear that

@tanatom11 Год назад

This teared me up. Thank you for this. I needed this ❤

@MalamaLife Год назад

Thank you for watching ❤️

@almab1044 2 года назад

I have thought that my discomfort was telling me that something was wrong with me, it never occurred to me that it’s me growing and becoming the person I should be. I’m glad I found this video exactly when I needed it, your story has inspired me more than I can describe.❤️

@KishaMacalino 2 года назад

As I am still young, I'm worried about myself and about my future. I'm honestly lost but thanks to your inspiring words and story about your life, I am now doing the things that I've set aside for too long. I am loving your videos so much! Thank you sooo muchhh! I'm learning a lot from you! 🫶🫶🫶

@nelifer2826 2 года назад

Hi, you can be proud of yourself to open-up to us about your story. It's not easy well done lady !

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you for watching ❤🥰 that means a lot

@naturewithmarusa3539 2 года назад

And by creating yourself you change the trajectory of your life, you rewrite your story ❤️ I needed those worlds today, thank you!

@empope188 2 года назад

Thank you so much for having the courage to share your story Sophie, it is truly inspiring. Your channel is seriously such a gift and this video has come at the perfect time. It's such a beautiful reminder that we hold the pen, the brush, and the tools to create the thoughts that shape our life and that part of transformation is uncomfortable growth.

@nouha9741 2 года назад

u're totally right , " it never too late to change if you are not happy with the current trajectory of your life "

@haseena1001 2 года назад

Hi Sophie 🌸 - It takes courage and bravery to be vulnerable and share genuine stories. Thank you for sharing the gift of yours 🙏🏽 'We are not only the main character of our story but the author too', changing the narrative and writing the story we want to live in whatever circumstance we are in is powerful. The theme and message in this video hit home as it will do for many others. 💛 Stay safe and well 💖👑

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks for watching and listening to my story Haseena. I'm so happy message hit home for you :)

@hitishasharma6014 2 года назад

Got the same exact comment from a supposed “ friend ” who obviously had a lot of remarks stored in during my transformation. I thought to myself: I am here to become the woman of my dreams, not hers or anyone else’s “. I know that 16yo me would be in awe of who I am. Needless to say, lots of things and people were decluttered back then and I couldn’t be happier! It takes courage and you showed it so gracefully! Love you 😍

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

good for you! people don't like change, but the ones who love you will understand and accept your changes too :)

@gloriayouchisonbrown7734 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing your story, yes growth is progress, you are a beautiful person And I am so happy to learn that you and your family are speaking and catching up on All things in your life.🌹

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you so much Gloria ❤️

@maurencarroll Год назад

Instead of calling it your “battle”, try your “your journey” 💕

@mettakaruna37 2 года назад

Live without regrets and leave without regrets 🙏🏻

@irene2958 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing your story with us. I really appreciate your inspiring videos. This topic touched me, because I've changed my life too. Thanks for the encouragement, Sophie!💚☀️😇💙

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm happy to hear that 🥰

@JesBYou 11 месяцев назад

What a beautiful, powerful and emotional story. Thank you for sharing your healing journey. It really hit home as I am in the depths of deep transformation myself. Thank you for the inspiration and wisdom. I could watch this over and over.

@saumyaofficial9797 2 года назад

I hope I grow up to be the beautiful woman that you are.So positive,calm,finding happiness in every second of life and not just embracing who you are but also adding small elements to your personality to fall in love with yourself more and more...

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

That's so sweet of you. I'm sure that you are already that beautiful woman you wish to be

@Cherrycreamsoda1 Год назад

Thanks very much for making this video; I’m currently going through a difficult time and feeling lost and this is quite comforting to listen to 🙏❤️

@oliviafortheocean 2 года назад

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your journey! 💕

@oneof7billion627 2 года назад

You are helping others because I am one of them. 😊

@SanujaJagoda 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us Sophie! Your strength and courage is so inspiring to so many of us out there ☺️❤️❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ aw thank you

@meghabhagat4972 2 года назад

Your Vibe is contagious that i myself feeling so contempt and free now 💖💖thanks for sharing

@mansoor3159 2 года назад

Thank you so so much for sharing this video Malama your videos are truly truly helpful to me in my life you inspired me so so much and I wish you reach 500K Subscribers very very soon!🥺🥺❤️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you for your love and for your support ❤️

@mansoor3159 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife you’re welcome❤️🤗

@dr.alokbhardwaj3378 Год назад

I can't imagine the amount of energy you put in your perfect blogs you are just awesome person. God is blessing you Be blessed

@studiojo280 2 года назад

Thank you for this one - it is so timely and beautiful.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thanks for watching 😊❤

@tanialara6857 2 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing your story, I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed about life and this gave me the peace I needed 🤍. Thank Y O U

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ thanks for watching Tania

@besma302 2 года назад

Thank you you have no idea how much this video and your words and lovely voice help me a lot 🦋🤍🤍🌸 stay healthy and be happy

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Aw I'm so happy to hear that

@SethuChandra 2 года назад

this has to be one of my favorite videos by you, I love the authenticity malma

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

aw thank you ❤️

@karenschmoutz6785 Год назад

I’ve made plenty of unwise choices in my life but… they were mine to make & I am daily grateful that I was free to make them anyway. I see my past from a distance now though it really does not seem that long ago. That’s aging and growing some wisdom as we get closer to the end of life than to the beginning. I’m glad you had a second chance with your mother-a true privilege. Good video.

@saraborgestavares2299 2 года назад

You are so inspiring 🥰🌻

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤ thank you

@alimoghnieh5661 2 года назад

i fairly believe that this is not a coincidence, all the morning i was thinking of the same stuff she's talking about, and when i opened youtube to search for a relatable topic, this video was the 1st on the timeline. omg. thanks for the message.

@midhunamenon6551 2 года назад

Thank you so much Sophie!! This video just changed my perspective and I'm so grateful that you are sharing this with us!! Love you lot! ❤

@lindajackson6959 2 года назад

Like you,I have come a long way and happy with who I am.Very touching story Sophie.Thank you♥️

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm happy for you Linda ❤️

@jill5977 2 года назад

I love your videos and I appreciate how much care and effort you put in your work. The pictures are aestheticly pleasing, and your words are considered and loving. I also love the slow pace of the pictures and your calming voice. All in all very harmonious ❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

I'm happy to hear that :) thank you!

@beautifulordinary Год назад

Your videos serve as journal prompts for me. They're always so insightful and make me really think about what's important in life. Thank you!

@eyuelnegash2681 2 года назад

Thank you sofi you are strong woman💚

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

❤️ aw

@insiyaquettawala1484 2 года назад

I literally cry after watching ur videos because whatever u say it hits different

@gainknowledgeandinsight 2 года назад

Love the story, the vulnerability, and the openness. It’s been a while. 😊 Life moves 100 mph. Thanks for sharing this brief and poignant story. The curious question I have is - the parents you’ve referenced in the past about working at a restaurant - were those your biological parents or your adopted parents? Also, and this may be too personal to share publicly, but why did your parents leave for South Korea without you and your sister? I’m fascinated by your life. 😃 I grew up with 2 deaf parents, and that had its own set of challenges of hardship, difficulty and trouble. We are broken pieces of a puzzle trying to figure out how to connect them, to create a beautiful mosaic. All the best my beautiful friend.

@Manu_0379 Год назад

your voice is so soothing 😇 And the journey of your thoughts in this video is wonderful 😊🤍

@humayrahamid2605 2 года назад

Love your inspirational quotes. Sometimes I feel like you read my mind. The video was just for me:)

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Happy to hear that ❤

@joyetaghosh9675 2 года назад

To accept what was and finally move on.. bravo 🙌

@trufflesmellgood9214 2 года назад

Amazing and inspirational! Curious to know how you overcome all these, and the reconciliation process, with yourself and your family. You’ve certainly come a long way… 👍

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Thank you for watching ❤️

@aizazkhan6358 Год назад

Your words are so powerful.

@petersimcox4745 2 года назад

I sorry to hear your story Sophie , You are a truly honest person. You should be proud ove yourselve, about the style ove living your RU-vid channel portrays, well done Sophie !!!. Great Video!.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

:) thanks Peter!

@petersimcox4745 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife Thanks for replying Sophie.

@petersimcox4745 2 года назад

Thanks for replying Sophie.

@petersimcox4745 2 года назад

@@MalamaLife Thanks for replying Sophie.

@coco-bz3kp 2 года назад

Thank you and thank god that you exist 💜 we love you