I'm 47 and I'm single always have been. I want to meet someone who I would love unconditionally but it's up to God to decide. It is hard not going to lie
I got someone at my job right now who acts like its her job to wonder about why a young guy like me is still single. I'm like damn worry about your marriage, you don't see me crying about it or anything. Then she makes the worst suggestions of people who I should talk too. I've had bad experiences of people trying to hook me up. I will never do it again. My future lady will come so for now I'm just enjoying my single life
Girl age 16: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: " I don't want to hurt your feelings, or come off as a b!ch to my friends, but I'm really much more attracted to Bad Boys -outlaw bikers, the football team's quarterback, basically any guy who appears dangerous and exciting. You're Nice, nice and mundane" . Girl age 22: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Thanks for listening on the phone to me cry, fall into verbal hysterics and drone on for hours about my Jerk BF (oh, and my little dog too). You're really sweet, and deserve a girl (which isn't me) who can appreciate how nice (i.e. mundane) you are." . Girl age 28: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "I know you've always been (an) my emotional tampon, and thanks for sticking with it - any sane guy would've found a far better prospect by now. And while I'm beginning to see that guys like you are stable, dependable and tend to make a lot more money than the Jerks I've dated, I think I'm gonna hold out for a hotter guy than you while my looks still hold up" . Woman age 32: "Why can't I just find a nice guy?" Translation: My jerk ex BF/ex husband left me with this 4 year old rugrat, a stack of bills and a broken down car. Well, actually, I kicked him out, but who's keeping score? I'm screaming toward The Wall at Mach 3, I can feel my eggs dying and my body shriveling up. . Woman age 35+: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Oh, you're a Nice Guy,..here, let me suck that for you. See? Being a Nice Guy does get you Iaid!,..thanks for being there for me when I needed you; my fatherless kids appreciate your generosity too. How chivalrous of you to forgive my past indiscretion and take us in, I wish there were more guys like you. I really pity the women who can't appreciate your kind of dedication - you are so different from "other guys"".
Girl age 16: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: " I don't want to hurt your feelings, or come off as a b!ch to my friends, but I'm really much more attracted to Bad Boys -outlaw bikers, the football team's quarterback, basically any guy who appears dangerous and exciting. You're Nice, nice and mundane" . Girl age 22: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Thanks for listening on the phone to me cry, fall into verbal hysterics and drone on for hours about my Jerk BF (oh, and my little dog too). You're really sweet, and deserve a girl (which isn't me) who can appreciate how nice (i.e. mundane) you are." . Girl age 28: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "I know you've always been (an) my emotional tampon, and thanks for sticking with it - any sane guy would've found a far better prospect by now. And while I'm beginning to see that guys like you are stable, dependable and tend to make a lot more money than the Jerks I've dated, I think I'm gonna hold out for a hotter guy than you while my looks still hold up" . Woman age 32: "Why can't I just find a nice guy?" Translation: My jerk ex BF/ex husband left me with this 4 year old rugrat, a stack of bills and a broken down car. Well, actually, I kicked him out, but who's keeping score? I'm screaming toward The Wall at Mach 3, I can feel my eggs dying and my body shriveling up. . Woman age 35+: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Oh, you're a Nice Guy,..here, let me suck that for you. See? Being a Nice Guy does get you Iaid!,..thanks for being there for me when I needed you; my fatherless kids appreciate your generosity too. How chivalrous of you to forgive my past indiscretion and take us in, I wish there were more guys like you. I really pity the women who can't appreciate your kind of dedication - you are so different from "other guys"".
That is so true I had much rather be happy by myself then to be in a relationship with someone that makes my life hell. Been there done that not gonna do that again.
Some people are more comfortable single, others are better of with someone. Honestly I wish I could find someone to really be with but, its really hard. Really really hard
The real answer from all singles is "its none of your business". Questions like this one is status shaming and scolding them of a reminder directly to a single individual on why they are single or not married, yet. Singles has various of reasons of being single in which its there business its not up to us to figure out why they are. Let singles live there own life its worth just one answer that s going to satisfy what you want to here. Bold and judgmental questions like this kills me.
Steve - Great Advice! UNLESS YOU FIND THE RIGHT PERSON THAT YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT YOU ARE BETTTER SINGLE! YOU CAN BE MARRIED AND LONELY, FROM ONE WHO IS HAPPILY DIVORCED. IF GOD BRINGS MR. RIGHT INTO MY LIFE- GREAT AND IF NOT I AM HAPPY SINGLE!!!
Yah, a lot of people can't fathom someone being single and happy to spend time alone. I hate that. Maybe some of those people are meaning it as a compliment from their perspective - in other words, you seem very attractive, how can you still be single? But that again assumes that being not single is the only goal. At least take it partially as a compliment because if they saw something obviously wrong with you, they wouldn't bother asking the question.
Steve Harvey is on point only if she’s telling the truth. The vast majority of, all the quotation marks, Smart, educated, attractive, independent Women, are very difficult to deal with, they want to lead a relationship, but no self-respecting man can allow that, he can co- lead but that’s not what the woman want. They wants to control most of the situations and usually have a problem accepting a man’s advice or leadership. Oh, if she’s lying, the problem is her obviously, and she has to lie to receive praise for her actions
Genesis 2:18 [And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
I am so sorry if your about what she did there was a vow that said (in sickness and death she be by your side) I'm still young but one thing I can tell you she's missing out and I my not know about love or marriage but if I was married I will stay and support them because u will never find that someone in your life time
my X wife left me because I found out I had a debilitating disease that can't be cured. she drove me to the hospital and left me there. I walked home & she had moved out. came back 2 weeks later and got the rest of her things and that was it. I've been single ever since the "D". that was 13 years ago.so much for VOWS ! I'll NEVER get married again ! that took me 5 years to get over. I was angry and bitter and didn't care about anything or anyone. I attempted "S" twice but I guess I'm still here. Now I get lonely alot but at least I can come & go as I please. love is a waste of time, energy, $ and emotion pain all for nothing ! the woman is going to have to be pretty dam special before I become " vulnerable " again and if I don't find one again before I die then I don't really care.
^ and that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you show a lack of empathy. No doubt she'll start lashing out with ad hominems or long rants because she will try and defend what is a mistake.
I understand your resentment , I empathise with your pain, I accept your reason to be guarded, as the hurt can make you go insane... nonetheless, I pray for your pain to be seen as the most precious thing you've gained, as why would you want to stay married to someone that didn't value you and was selfish and vain? Don't let your hurt define you, but pray and regain the power of yourself and reign .! I do not know your name but I sympathise with your pain. I hope you manage to let go, let God, show you, that TRUE love never comes in vain.
kayla francis True love is proven when you never cross the bridge, but both will still stay and wait at the ends for the other forever. Thus, loyalty is expressed and risk is not borne from standing in the crossing.
Girl age 16: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: " I don't want to hurt your feelings, or come off as a b!ch to my friends, but I'm really much more attracted to Bad Boys -outlaw bikers, the football team's quarterback, basically any guy who appears dangerous and exciting. You're Nice, nice and mundane" . Girl age 22: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Thanks for listening on the phone to me cry, fall into verbal hysterics and drone on for hours about my Jerk BF (oh, and my little dog too). You're really sweet, and deserve a girl (which isn't me) who can appreciate how nice (i.e. mundane) you are." . Girl age 28: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "I know you've always been (an) my emotional tampon, and thanks for sticking with it - any sane guy would've found a far better prospect by now. And while I'm beginning to see that guys like you are stable, dependable and tend to make a lot more money than the Jerks I've dated, I think I'm gonna hold out for a hotter guy than you while my looks still hold up" . Woman age 32: "Why can't I just find a nice guy?" Translation: My jerk ex BF/ex husband left me with this 4 year old rugrat, a stack of bills and a broken down car. Well, actually, I kicked him out, but who's keeping score? I'm screaming toward The Wall at Mach 3, I can feel my eggs dying and my body shriveling up. . Woman age 35+: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Oh, you're a Nice Guy,..here, let me suck that for you. See? Being a Nice Guy does get you Iaid!,..thanks for being there for me when I needed you; my fatherless kids appreciate your generosity too. How chivalrous of you to forgive my past indiscretion and take us in, I wish there were more guys like you. I really pity the women who can't appreciate your kind of dedication - you are so different from "other guys"".
She will find Mr. Right eventually....his name might be Jesus... she's already in her decline and let's face it. Men can't get hard for a fat girl.... we don't expect much out of women...just look good, be a lady and don't be full of drama.. and this is something alot of women just can't seem to do.
Girl age 16: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: " I don't want to hurt your feelings, or come off as a b!ch to my friends, but I'm really much more attracted to Bad Boys -outlaw bikers, the football team's quarterback, basically any guy who appears dangerous and exciting. You're Nice, nice and mundane" . Girl age 22: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Thanks for listening on the phone to me cry, fall into verbal hysterics and drone on for hours about my Jerk BF (oh, and my little dog too). You're really sweet, and deserve a girl (which isn't me) who can appreciate how nice (i.e. mundane) you are." . Girl age 28: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "I know you've always been (an) my emotional tampon, and thanks for sticking with it - any sane guy would've found a far better prospect by now. And while I'm beginning to see that guys like you are stable, dependable and tend to make a lot more money than the Jerks I've dated, I think I'm gonna hold out for a hotter guy than you while my looks still hold up" . Woman age 32: "Why can't I just find a nice guy?" Translation: My jerk ex BF/ex husband left me with this 4 year old rugrat, a stack of bills and a broken down car. Well, actually, I kicked him out, but who's keeping score? I'm screaming toward The Wall at Mach 3, I can feel my eggs dying and my body shriveling up. . Woman age 35+: "You're such a nice guy." Translation: "Oh, you're a Nice Guy,..here, let me suck that for you. See? Being a Nice Guy does get you Iaid!,..thanks for being there for me when I needed you; my fatherless kids appreciate your generosity too. How chivalrous of you to forgive my past indiscretion and take us in, I wish there were more guys like you. I really pity the women who can't appreciate your kind of dedication - you are so different from "other guys"".
