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The push and pull thing is very on point. Sometimes I feel like I will always oscillate between love/hate with people. It almost makes me feel guilty - 1 minute I have compassion for all their trauma and inner child wounds, and then the next I just see their shadow as so problematic - usually because they've hurt me in some way (probably unbeknownst to them) and I start seeing everything in the flip way! It's a lot to deal with sometimes.
Possible solution: deepen & expand your own knowledge of psychology. By doing so, you might acquire a nuanced understanding yourself and others, making it easier to sit in non-judgment with the contradictory aspects of the people you know and love. 🌊
I want to give you a ginormous *thank you* for making this video about Scorpio moons. Most videos that are out seem to miss the mark and give off this doom and gloom. Very informative and refreshing.
Wow! Another nuanced way of looking at something that I've thought about too simply. I love the idea of having a sort of secret potential in a debilitation. This series just gets better and better
I'm working on the theorem of Astrology. And the way I understand this ― is that the Fall Sign - is the Compliment of the Exaltation Sign (as with every Opposite Signs). What makes for Domicile|Detriment, Exaltation|Fall, Benefic|Malefic ― is how much that works according to the Natural Reality \ the Most Probable. So with Fall ― it can be as Strong as Exaltation ― but in an Opposite way to the Normal state of things, and most Rare.
It makes so much sense! Is like I feel there’s a war always going on inside. I’ve always felt like I wanted a deep relationship but than when I get it I push it away and always end up hurting someone and also myself. Lately I’ve been feeling like just putting all of my energy, attention, love into my art and healing the people around me but without them knowing. Like being behind the scenes just so that I won’t get no attention. I feel like escaping away from humanity and just being alone because I’ve found that dealing with people has become too much. So much unbearable feelings ahhhhh. You are so handsome by the way. Thank you so much for your insight it helped a lot! 💜
I guess we also need to learn to bring less emotion into our passions and less passion into our emotions. As an example We can be passionate about our work but we can’t really allow ourselves to get emotional about getting interrupted. Or we can be emotional about a certain situation but we can’t let that become the focus of a passionate obsession.
I was waiting for this! I am a Scorpio moon in the 5th house, and a Cancer Ascendent. And I relate with everything in this video. And yes, I am very much into Astrology. And I find myself becoming more and more into phycology in the last recent years. Thank you so much. I enjoy all your content. You are one of my favorite Astrologers.
Lol same.. Sun in piscies in purva bhadrapada .. Asc cancer in Ashlesha, moon in scorpio in Anuradha nakshatra... Wow and yeah.. All that he explains im living it 😅
The question would be.. What the most dominant .. Moon in 5 kona in debility in scorpio with a sun in 9 kona++ in piscies OR a moon in 6 trik- in sagittarius and a strong sun exalted in aries in 10 powerful .. Which combination would be better 😅.... Houses or signs?
Amazing video. A friend of mine has Moon in Scorpio and I now call her the “yes, but” lady. Last time I spoke with her, she was asking for my advice and after an hour of “yes, but” conversation, she ignored/rejected everything I suggested and did what she wanted to do anyways. Pull/push. She’s got a lot going on in Scorpio so far from a generality but a lot of what you said felt spot on.
To be fair that's how 90% of people respond to being given advice, pretty much all my friends regardless of their charts do this. Most people just want to be reassured when they're asking for advice bc doing something else is too uncomfortable and scary, for all of us really.
@@quincefloare I agree, we can never make conclusions based on a single placement. There are a lot of other things going on. Reason I mentioned this example though is because I’ve giving quite a few advices in my life and this reaction has been quite extreme, consistent and atypical. In other words, I’ve never seen that before, at least not to that degree.
This is the best description I’ve heard on the “back bone” of the moon in Scorpio. I have this kind of moon and the push pull scenario you describe is spot on. Thanks I feel Better able to deal through understanding the challenge.
I'm not into astrology anymore, but if there is something that trully resonates with me is moon in scorpio, I can say that is the core of my personality.
Yes love learning the method of resonance/dissonance instead of just the “surface” understanding of planets in signs . Thank you dear Vic ☺️♥️🌞 you always put out great content
Males with Moon in Scorpio, some of the most Narcissistic individuals I have ever come across, usually with deep rooted trauma that they are reluctant to look at. Most of them have either had a controlling and dominant mother, or a mother who was too deeply enmeshed with them, so they tend to have a huge Mother wound that is unaddressed and the results of which play out in their relationships to women. Also, the ‘run away’ thing you mentioned is so true, any time you confront them with the reality of their behaviour or how they have hurt you, they either block you, literally walk away, cut you off, instead of conversing with you and working it out. I’ve seen that most men with this Moon placement are in serious need of therapy & counselling, if they don’t get this they tend to make a woman the recipient of all of their unhealed trauma wounds and difficult behaviour.
@@tdedition2219 it would probably be a good idea to get in touch with a therapist/psychologist for help. If you’re not able to access professional help, then there are lots of free resources on the internet, a quick google on these topics using keywords ‘healing narcissism books’ or ‘healing, controlling mother, enmeshment, books’ - will probably give you lectures on RU-vid and books by psychologists that you can access. Good luck, I wish you healing.
I can relate to this. I have scorpio moon in the fourth house and Jyeshta nakshatra. Scorpios have the ability to transform to higher levels. I always strive to be a Phoenix, not stinging and hiding like a scorpio, a lower level of my self.
Man I appreciate what you just did here. I am a Taurus Sun, Scorpio Moon, Cancer Rising. I have been seeking understand for many years about self projection vs self emotion and actualizations of reality with the mirror and interpersonal relationships. You helped me gain some personal insight. Thank you
Lol. The whole pushing and pulling thing is very true. My ex pointed that out that i would do that. I would be so loving, warm, and caring at one point but then cold, aggressive, argumentative, and standoffish the next. People dont realize that when we are in those bad moods that they need to be soft and patient with us and we need to see if they care because it is a test to see if they are worth it in the long term and can they be there for us through thick and thin. When we see that they are truly worth it we are willing to give our heart and soul to them but they have to be worth it. I completely understand the masculine fighting with the feminine in this moon sign, and it's helped me realize so much about myself so i can get to a place of peace. Im at the point where i just prefer being alone because the idea of a relationship doesn't match the realistic, and I've realized i actually enjoy being alone more than being with people. Love your videos, and i just ordered one of your books through Amazon.
That makes a lot of sense for me, I have an aquarius moon and venus in the 8th house (cancer ascendant) and I really do push and pull people away. I thought it was the aquarius need for freedom (it may also be) I am also very interested in anything related to spirituallity, such as astrology, rituals, sacred texts. It is challenging, but I love it. Thanks so much, Vic!
8th house moon in sag. Thank you, you have shined a light on my recent bizarre behavior with my partner. Hopefully with this new innerstanding I can develop control. 🤷🦂🦅💜
Thank you for a very insightful and lucid description. Astrology is incredibly complex, and I think some people understandably get overwhelmed when they begin to learn the various layers and details, but your approach to teaching the material is inviting without being at all reductive. Reminds me of when older generations used to learn how to diagram sentences. Structure is everything.
Wow! This one was deep and revealed the core aspects of Moon in Scorpio. Was able to connect with it especially the push and pull thing. Sometimes I do feel the challenges are being thrown in order to overcome the debilitation of the Moon i.e. instability of Mind in terms of choices and expression of one's self.
Hare Krishna Vic, I just found you recently and I’m soo glad I did. I have watched a number of your videos and find them all incredibly informative. This one however, without a doubt is the most accurate and descriptive video I have watched about (my) Scorpio moon. I also have Rahu in libra in my first house. I love astrology, all things occult and spiritual. I also find it interesting that you do Vedic astrology using the tropical zodiac. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us all, I look forward to watching all of your videos and possibly booking a reading if I’m able to find my baby book or rectify my birth time 😊
So interesting interpretation... eye-opening.... I have Moon in Scorpio conjunct Pluto and South node in Scorpio, in 3rd House... I pray for a day when my mind and emotions give me a rest even for one second s e c o n d ... beside I have Mars in Capricorn... whole my life I'm on this push - pull axis with balancing my masculine urge and divine feminine... I'm into advaita vedanta for last 3--4 years already... Spirituality is where I found healing... I love your channel btw ...om shanti
My sun is in Taurus and my moon is in Scorpio. I’m incredibly indecisive. I read full moon birthdays mean your moon and sun are always in opposition. That seems to be right for me.
Grate explanation !!!I know one person with the moon in Jeystha setting along with Mars and Rahu(Anuradha) all in 2 house 😎 Pretty intense combo 😂But this person is practising spirituality seriously for a vary long time ,so it is kind of helped Him to deal with the toxic traits which this combo can bring .. but still from his wards ,he does have a lot of intense emotions,desires or even obsessions + extreme anger hitting Him from time to time .
Interesting, yes, even in just a day, doing nothing particularly stressful I feel the pull and push of the calm-feminine and the active-masculine mind happening at the same time. I would add that as a Scorpio moon when I get to live a life where I am both using my mars capacities (being active physically) and my moon capacities (having someone with whom to be soft and nurturing), it seems my Scorpio moon flows much better. And also remembering to just ride out the wave 🌊 of discomfort and the need to disconnect when it comes …
Never heard a better interpretation about this moon! Mine is in Leo but I am surrounded by moon Scorpio individuals. I will know how to better deal with them. Thank you!
Verrryyy Good !!! Thankyou. I am a Moon in Scorpio. I heard you Mention Taurus? I am a Taurus in the 🌞 Sun. I am My own Worst Enemy but trying to Break Free and Stop living in Survival Mode for the past 6 years. This is the first video I have watched of yours and Eager for More!!! What's your take on Taurus Sun Scorpio Moon????
This was really valuable info .I was really confused trying to understand my dad who has his moon,saturn and mercury in scorpio. We have a on and off relationship .
Same for me with my sister!I m enough to be on and off with her until I decided to cut her off because she avoids to discuss and deal with an existing problem!
@@irinadumitru9088 you can only maintain such a relationship is through by empathy and intution.As soon as I feel they are kinda getting annoyed I get away before they push me and then get back this actually makes them confuse.it is like imitating the same behaviour.
@@artfrnd8040 It s pretty much Toxic! My sister has this placement and It s unlikely to maintain such a relationship!One has to deal with his own problems and heal themselvrs!But they first have to understand they have a problem!
@@artfrnd8040 The final thing I had to do was to cut her off and that s all.She did distanced from me!She got married in The U.S and she did not invite her sister at her wedding!She told me exactly on my bay,2years ago!I wanted to make her a surprise and to come from Bucharest,Romania and she told me she has no time for me!That was one of the most horrid thing I was ever done,and I never expected to be so rough to me.My final decision is to walk each of us her own way even she s not on the good path but it s her own business !The worst thing is that she treats me as a stranger and there re so many people in The 🇺🇸 praying for me to move over there and to enjoy my services!I m almost amazed!
My moon is in Anuradha in 3rd pada. My Mars in Leo and Mercury in Virgo, I don’t know if this has to do with it; but I challenge and conquer, I never back down from a challenge, I’m very Martin when it comes to competitive situations < mentally not physically, I’m very direct and stand my ground when arguing, my lesson to learn was “better be kind than right!”Still working on it tho 😂. I’m sending this video to all them people I know who say I’m too much of a “drama queen”, or “very sensitive”.. Dude I have dissonant spin on my moon, leave me alone.. MAN IM LOVING THIS 😂
6:10- done that in college. I still do avoid conflicts at times. When i come off too strong. 7:47- theres no doubt that I do feel my feeling would come across as too intense, too deep, too hot to handle.. so better keep it to myself. Honestly, we'd love someone who could, we havent found anyone who'd look at the fire in the eye, or depth and not run away. 9:6- i wont push if the person stands still for a while staring in my eye, ok.😂😂 I should know they can handle it. 🔥 Ur natal chart determines every aspect, esp in terms wd people ur dealing wd- mom, dad, friends, sibs, partners. The natal chart analysis wd them determines that.
I have my moon in scorpio (anuradha) with jupiter and my potential partner has his moon in taurus (kritika) with Mars (but they r 20 degrees apart) Mars is my atmakaraka and saturn is my darakaraka and for him Saturn is his atmakaraka and Moon is his darakaraka. My atma and darakarakas are at my 4th and 10th axis and his is as well. Saturn in his 4th as his atmakaraka and Moon is in his 10th as darakaraka. The come here and go away thing is so true for me actually I was laughing out loud 🤣
This push and pull is very accurate. Venus and Moon conjunct in Scorpio here. I feel this moon in scorpio stuff is the strongest placement in my chart. Very difficult to deal with.
In regards to push and pull, as a teen and young adult i would say i'm black and white at once but i'm never grey. I have always felt this push and pull phenomenon. I'm still trying to resolve it. I will.
After learning about how avasthas affect a graha in the natal chart, I learned that Debilitated planets can function like an exalted planets through friendly drishti. However, that is not to say that the challenges aren’t present. So it is much easier for the Graha to have some support when it is debilitated.
Such misunderstanding with Scorpio Moons it’s not always about debilitating behaviors and it goes further back God will always have our back.. thank you
I know the topic is different . But still wanted to ask 😀Really would be interesting to hear from you Vic ,about sinastry !!!How is it working ?Wheter it is actually working ?😀Vedic/Western understanding ext 🙏🌞 Thank for your hard work
U just unlocked me guruji...I never knew this about me... I wasn't even aware that I act this way... And why am I in misery... 🙏 I think now I know where to fix it 🙏 atleast 🙏
