The TikTok Boyfriend Hoodie Drama is EVERYTHING - Who's Right? 

The hoodie was the trophy. The TV was her way in his door & sandwich was the power she was displaying over her friend.

Y’all forgot to mention that the girlfriend said in the comments of her TikTok that the other girl was posting pics of, not just her in the hoodie- but her ONLY WEARING THE HOODIE IN A THONG. YEEEEEEAH she was definitely trying to be a lil boyfriend snatcher

I love Olivia so much! She brings so much to the podcast. A female perspective is much needed.

Dan just getting stuck on the "she stole the hoodie" thing is my favourite part of this thing XD

She was quick to get him a sandwich but not give the hoodie back.. think about it the sentiment behind both.. Joanna.. you in danger, girl

The second friend is a snake! She knew what she was doing lol she was minimizing what she did sooo bad lol “I’m notorious for stealing hoodies” girl bye I’m sooo sure😂 we’ve all had this friend. Boy crazy girls suuuuuuck. Also just because your intentions aren’t to upset your friend, you’re responsible for how you show up in this world. Lacking self awareness is something we all go through, but that’s not an excuse to be a bad friend

Honestly at first I thought it must be a big misunderstanding, but after hearing both sides I think Joanna is shady lol. Or she just has a huge lack of self awareness

Dating or not, girl just give him back the hoodie. It's been weeks.. she's just dancing around basic girl code. Give your friend the sandhwich to give to him, you don't have to make it your mission to personally hand it to him "first thing in the morning"... she likely thought her friend wasn't going to show up that morning 🥪 pls girl. So weird.

I love when the internet is randomly obsessed with petty regular-people drama, it makes no sense at all and it’s always hilarious 😅

Dan's hoodie rage is so valid

Nah cause if you wanted to treat someone for helping you and you wanted to get them food you’d just wait to treat them the next time you saw them. Ethan’s so right if you want to thank someone you wouldn’t ask them to do more work. She most definitely just wanted to see him

I need more low-stakes drama from Olivia and Ethan being a total dad trying to understand it

“here’s a sandwich but you can’t give him the sweater. fuck off!” 😭😭

Girl 2 was definitely inviting him to cheat with her. Good on the bf for not taking the bait

This literally happened to me. The girl kept my boyfriend’s jacket in the back of her closet and showed it off to our other friends.

Hoodie drama >>>>> couch drama

The hoodie thing is all the evidence i need. Lol. I was a teenager in the early 2000s, a hoodie is absolutely a term of endearment, or like a symbol of a crush/relationship. If one of my friends was conantly wearing my man's hoodie, I would be suspicious& i would probably confront them. Then when she showed the hoodie, c'mon! Its the most basic ass hoodie ever. Lol. Im definitely on Girl #1's side. Its Ok to be friendly of course, you want your partner to get along with your friends, and I don't think the sandwhich ALONE would be an issue at all, it's the whole picture that makes it pretty obvious that girl #2 wanted girl #1's man.

Cam is so real for admitting he checks if Ethan looks at his stories

I wish Olivia presented the videos backwards the way everyone saw them on Tik Tok because the stuff Joanna conveniently leaves out of her video is what really makes the drama.

80% of the time whenever someone i know has been in this type of situation, it’s usually over exaggerated and jealous on part of the gf, BUT “seperately treats him to a sandwhich and asks him to come by” instead of just paying for lunch the next time he’s over to visit his girlfriend is shady behavior…AND borrowing a hoodie is one thing, but taking pictures of yourself in it to post on social media is definitely a “i got a crush on you and want everyone to see me in your clothes” behavior

I think Ethan should do a segment like his old Content Court series where they go through relationship drama, like that famous Divorce Court woman on youtube

It’s still baffles me that all this blew up so hard in Johanna’s face all because she came out publicly as being the girl in question 😅 Like nobody but the closest of their friends would have known and now she’s sensationalized all over tiktok and I’m sure all over their college campus. Like girl you dragged yourself all over the internet. I would be so mortified and angry at myself if I did some stupid sh*t like that lol. Just keep quiet and this never would have gained any traction

What I still don't understand is how she came over with the boyfriend to get the sandwich if they were roommates? Wouldn't she already be there?

‘ Warming garment ‘ killed me 😂😂😂

I think as girls we all kind of know when a friend is interested in our man, especially by their mannerisms when interacting with them or by how they speak about them. Too much interest or enthusiasm is weird. Its fine if you think a friend's boyfriend is attractive, you can't help it, but don't start trying to see them alone or wearing their clothes or advancing the relationship in any type of way. That will definitely cause discomfort. It's a blessing and a curse to date a highly attractive man lmao GOOD LUCK GIRL #1

I love how mad Dan got.😂

The problem is that girls do a lot of subtle flirting because of the societal misconception that guys should always do the chasing. That’s why, we girls notice those subtle hints more than the guys. Some guys don’t get it and chuck it off as “ohh you’re crazy or reading too much into it” but most times, we raise those suspicions because we know the game and played the field 😂

Dan’s reaction is so based. Agree, if i paid for a hoodie - no one’s taking that shit home. dont matter who it is

Whenever I'm watching this show with my lady and Love speaks, she asks, "is he the one that doesn't eat vegetables? His opinion doesn't matter" lmao

“Sometimes your heart is like ‘he’s so cute I wanna get him a sandwich’” lmfao Olivia 😂😂

Sandwich is the obvious step over the line. She was making an appeal to him that she knows what guys like: their girlfriend cooking for him or doing something nice for him to show gratitude for something he did for her. She was trying to demonstrate who she would be to him if he dated her instead.

I love how Dan gets so fixated on the hoodie 😂

"Come over first thing tomorrow morning, I have a day-old sandwich you need to come put in the trash" girl no, YOU get up first thing in the morning and deliver a FRESH sandwich to him at work. Like damn can we be less trashy while obviously tryna steal a man

that concerned “What’s going on Dan?” from Ethan had me rolling

Zack needs the “you did it on my birthday” sound bite from Tati’s video

WHy is everyone neglecting the instagram close friends element of it all? If one of my friends added my *NEW* bf to a story where they consistently posted "thirst traps" ??!! I would literally end the friendship too. That is such attention seeking behavior and its disrespectful. i

Had a friend just like Joanna. She inserted herself into our mutual friends life/relationship to a BIZARRE extent. It was like she was literally just trying to absorb the girl's life/bf. She was deeply insecure and unable to find those relationships of her own. It's giving Joanna. Especially since joanna HAD to reinsert herself into their lives with a video. Red flag.

I think them being roommates makes the sandwich detail even more incriminating. Like Olivia already pointed out, (in tandem with Ethan's point of giving someone more work to get a thank you gift) if it were really about thanking the bf, J would've gotten the sandwich before her friend was leaving for bf's place, and asked her to hand it off to him. Even more importantly, it's almost implied that J was not expecting her roommate to be with the bf when he showed up. She only reached out to bf, she didn't tell her friend about the sandwich plan. So if I were being uncharitable, that implies that she specifically waited for when her roomate wasn't home to invite bf over, probably hoping to get him alone, maybe not realizing that they were hanging out together. (Maybe the friend was supposed to have work in the morning or something). The other piece that makes the sandwich incriminating is just how much effort was being put into getting it. I think that's why J threw in the detail about the bakery being right outside her work. To distract from the fact that she rembered a specific sandwich he likes (it was implied that it was mentioned in passing and not something she asked him directly). which is an odd detail to commit to memory for someone you seemingly don't interact with that often (unless you're into them of course). Also the weird amount of effort she's expecting from bf to get the gift. Most people would ask what food place someone likes and get them a giftcard, not something that spoils. And I think that's part of it too. She specifically told him "come get it before it spoils". It being food creates a sense of urgency that prevents him from politely declining the gift or "forgetting" to come get it. TLDR: she knew damn well what she was doing

it's for sure in the girl code not to flirt or be too friendly with a guy you know your best friend is going to date and really likes. it's so disrespectful that she took the hoodie, volunteered to bring the sandwich etc. What a snake 💀

Eyelash curlers are way easier than putting in contacts imo

My ex boyfriend stole my favourite hoodie and then after a while his new girlfriend started posting pictures in it saying how it smelled so nice and I never said anything because hoodie politics in girl world get WILD 😂

I love how serious they take these meaningless issues

putting it into perspective of doing that shit to one of my friend’s boyfriends would be so crazy LMAO like bffr johanna

For me, it's the fact that there is an allegedly deleted TikTok video floating around where she mentioned and talked about justifying why spend money to buy hoodies when you can steal your boyfriend's hoodies. Someone reposted her deleted TikTok video where she associates cute hoodies with the word boyfriend. Besides mounting the tv was an activity they did together as a trio so why didn't she get Kelly a sandwich as well? Why just thank him for something you all did together? She could've gotten her a sandwich too because it's normal for best friends/roommates to treat each other to food. It's not that hard to get an extra sandwich to make sure there was no misunderstanding whatsoever.

I hope the second girl sees this and is humiliated.

I think the girlfriend said yeah let’s go get the sandwich and let’s get it together 😈 so that she could look at her friends face like what’s good. The ex friend is acting way to innocent. Like little old me… I would never. Booo

One of the weirdest parts for me was why is she notorious for keeping hoodies for a long time? Does she not look at the weather and realize it’s gonna be cold? I doubt she has trouble purchasing a cheap one somewhere so she needs to get her own and quit stealing them from random guys.

Is hoodie-stealing still as symbolic in relationships as it use to be? When I was a teenager, it ALMOST meant you were engaged to be in a relationship. When you worse his hoodie, everyone knew where it came from. Maybe you’d give it back and steal it again the following week. Once you got into the relationship you’d cuddle it when you missed him and when you broke up, you cried into it before giving it back. You never kept the guy’s hoodie if you were platonically borrowing it. For me, hoodie symbolism never crossed over into dating as an adult. Does it usually? Maybe it’s because as an adult I almost always dated people from other cultures.

The sandwich is the worst part for me. Gift cards don't exist anymore? You had to get him a fresh sandwich so he would come and pick it up? And even if she did NEED to buy him a sandwich, why not text your friend and be like "hey do you want anything from here?"

Idk if this is just be but calling "dibs" on somebody like their the last pizza roll is kinda weird

This story really unlocked something deep for Dan.

wasn’t she also posting thong pics in the hoodie 😭😭

“You can’t steal a man’s hoodie” “…you can” 😂 BOYS YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO YOUR HOODIES YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS

Can you guys consider covering the Do We Know Them legal drama they’re going through?

Dan was hitting nothing but facts on this one

17:55 "I really wanted my TV mounted and he did it." This hits different after Ethan's joke (17:19) about mounting the TV.

A Nike hoodie is expensiveeee dude why do girls feel like they can STEAL that and think it’s cute ? I’m with Dan on this one.

Ever since I started hearing about this the question I need answered is wtf kind of sandwich you get someone to eat the next day that isn't going to be soggy and gross. What is on this sandwich.

Ethan is sooooo infuriating when Olivia brings this kind of drama to discuss. Dude, just let the girls finish! And then give us ur opinion

I love Olivia so much, she's so pretty with the coolest makeup looks and she has the prettiest most calming speaking voice. Love the energy she brings to the pod!

I am confused.. why didn’t she just give him his hoodie back instead of give him a sandwich? That makes more sense to me.

I’m sorry but what is so cute about about a generic Nike hoodie? lol

Love that it is just a plain blue sweatshirt lmaoo

Zack playing that sound while she was talking about the sandwich had me crying

as a young woman who is in a relationship for almost a year, and i'm here to give my unwanted input on my biggest takeaways from this whole thing. instagram flirting: yes, this is a thing lol. my boyfriend and i started dating in high school so that was the peak of posting things on my story to get his attention. i mean, it worked because we would flirt irl and the things i posted on my story, he kind of picked up on it. close friends: i wouldn't initially see anything wrong with my boyfriend getting added to her close friends, HOWEVER, if i noticed a difference in the way she posted that lined up with her adding him to her close friends would be sus definitely. the hoodie: WHAT?? i would so be FURIOUS if my friend took my boyfriend's sweatshirt and just kept wearing it and posting about it. the friend 100000% knows that there's meaning there. wearing the clothing of the person that you're dating has become a huge thing in today's culture and to wear your friend's boyfriend's sweatshirt for weeks is so insane to me. that's girlfriend type behavior and she is not the girlfriend. the sandwich: this is most definitely just an excuse for her to see him again. to thank someone, you would BRING them something or treat them the next time you saw them in the moment. obviously, not that serious, just some internet fun. peace and love, everyone.

We didn’t know we needed Olivia this much. She’s a game changer

Dan and the hoodie lmfaooooo

People who engage in spiteful boundary challenging, are often very passive aggressive in other ways. That’s why many of us relate to this drama. Sure, the details can all fall within a grey area, but we all know the girlfriend was probably already fed up.

Dan made the whole video worth watching.😂totally agree with him

I love this. Ethan and Dan what does the boyfriends hotness have to do with it? After seeing the boyfriend. Oh I get it yeah she wants him 😂😂😂 Also am I hearing 3 people hung a tv and one person got a sandwich?? Where's your roommates sandwich then bestie?? She coulda just taken her man and his hoodie and left you with your tv. Don't bite the hand that feeds you. Come on now. Also Dan is right stealing is just stealing lol I don't want to be roommates with a friend who has a closet full of other people's hoodies 😂😂 You message your roommates man saying come by and grab a sandwich before work and him and your roommate show uo together and your like well i habded her the sandwich so no shade here. Like girl..... You are not fooling me no no

Don't forget that the boyfriend was pre-med, and a model, so hot, smart, and inclined to caring for others.

The friends story has one big pot hole. The sandwich place was right next to this girls apt. Then she texted the bf she got him a sandwich but has to drive to get it. If he wanted the sandwich that bad he would drive to the shop right next to your house and not see you. Hes not hurting for $8 right. So she wanted him to go to her and that immediately negates her whole story. Before the pics came. She wanted him.

Zach’s sound bites at 18:02 😭😂

Who stole Dan's hoodie? The man is hurting!

18:01 lmao Zach's gagging sound effect during the sandwich story is PERFECTION. 😅

I’m so dead at the cute hoodie

i wouldnt want to be friends with either of them, ngl.

the fact dan was so upset about the hoodie 😂😂 not even what the girl did but the fact she kept a MANS HOODIE a lillll tooo longgg 😭 13:40

Suuuuuch a great segment. Literally laughing so much watching the crew talk about this 😂😂

Olivia is doing the lords work by bringing this to everyone’s attention

Dan's reaction to the notorious Hoodia thief😂😂😂

OMG I made a PowerPoint for this exact drama to tell my friends because I was inspired by Olivia‘s previous PowerPoint, and to see that she made one. Oh my God.💀

if i wanted to buy my friend’s bf a sand where i’d buy my friend a sandwich one too or if i’m on a budget tell them to share it

Dan literally sounds like my internal dialogue

I hope y’all read this! When Ethan was drunk and yelling something like ‘ITSIT’ and everybody said it was nonsense, it was actually Ethan yelling “SAY IT” referring to when Teddy doesn’t enunciate ‘Daddy’ and Ethan jokingly yells say it at him to help him pronounce it properly. Hope this clears up any confusion, PAPA BLESS!!

how are we not talking about how they became roommates in the first place with communication like … this?

This was so goood. I got behind on the pod last couple of months, and but lived it through tiktok hahahah

26:30 the bear sniffing Ethan😭😭😭

In girl code, you don’t the guy that your best friend likes. Unless you discuss it first. For young women, there’s little sense of scarcity when trying to find a man, but there IS scarcity for men that you actually connect with. I know the population of straight/bi men to straight/bi women is basically 50/50, but it doesn’t feel that way as a young woman because men approach you to flirt pretty frequently at bars/clubs/social gatherings. When your friend finally finds a guy she really connects with and you just think he’s kinda cute, you go for the cute guy you met last weekend, or the inevitable cute guy you meet 2 weeks from now. You have other options.

I stand with Dan 😂

I was curling my eyelashes just as Ethan made comments about it 😮 felt like he was talking to me until I looked at the video behind me

Dan was so funny in this 😂

Didn’t the picture of the second girl come out of what she posted on her private story with the hoodie and just underwear ???

I do not want this to end!! Fantastic commentary

So weird she would keep a plain ass sweater when they were roommates! She told the bf to get the sandwich and he happened to show up with the gf, maybe she wanted to see him alone.. Johanna is in the wrong. Shouldn’t have made the reply girl..

Kelly has every right lol

This is literally a tea ☕ drama channel now

"ThAtS SEAliNG behavior!" 😤😂

you want to give your friend's bf his favorite sandwich as a thank you gift so instead of making it convenient by having it delivered to his place, you tell him to drive to your house to come pick it up? or why not just tell your roommate friend that you bought her bf a thank you sandwich for the labor he'd done before, "it's in the kitchen so please just hand it over and tell him thanks again" seems innocent enough. even if you ended up having to hand it over to your roommate (which may not have been the plan but she's on to you), you still woke up earlier than usual just to make sure he gets the sandwich. it's saying you needed time to look pretty, you wanted to give it to him personally but the pesky roommate girlfriend is there and she's on to you so you hand it to her instead, you wanted an up-close personal interaction or at least you wanted to see him and be seen, you wanted to hear him say "that's sweet of you", you wanted to see any hint that your "cigs after s3x" close-friend post made a subliminal effect on him that he starts to reconsider his current relationship and think you might make a wilder hotter sweeter girlfriend

I’m not letting any friend borrow my man’s hoodies they can wear one of mine (: :) but also none of my friends would be mf weird & ask for a hoodie .. I say this because I agree when Ethan said the hoodie has more to it like scent & stuff