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Like does this dude not realize he likely got to play football for a living because, I dunno, the dough mommy was bringing in? And luck? He's not even the best athlete.
@@unknownunknown5822 yeah it is all these movies that they write about these male characters and depicts a woman as a love interest and nothing more than that. they think women just exist for them. so obviously they are not gonna think they have a life outside of them.
@@timelyferry that's not totally true. This is not 1950s anymore. The film industry makes all sorts of movies. Many film makers make movies about women's struggles and their experience. It's the people's decision what they choose to watch.
If she met him in middle school, then she knew him through a majority of her formative years and all of her adult years married to a professional football player. Their experience is very unique and in no way a general guideline to try and prescribe to college graduates during their celebration of enhancing their career prospects lol
if mommy wasn’t a physicist he likely wouldn’t have had the opportunity/resources to get into professional sports. if my son said something like this i’d disown him.
Exactly, these types of people are so hypocritical. Im 18 going into physics next year (hopefully) and i thank my single lawyer mum for this opportunity she allows me to have. I would never turn around and be like "Aalll wooommenn need to be hOmaKeRs".
Imagine paying tons of money, working your ass off for a degree and on your graduation day a guy who kick balls for a living tell you that your biggest duty in life is to be in the kitchen. What a slap in the face to the women in that crowd, I feel so bad for them
Awww.. sweetie don’t worry about the highly intelligent graduates in that room.. feel bad for the brochure cut out stick man who was dumb enough to ruin his career and probably his marriage in less than than 30 minutes ..
Apparently a lot of ppl clapped and applauded his speech but I wonder of many of them were women and how many were genuine and not an "so many ppl are clapping so I guess I should but wtf"?
@@TheLafandemangas I'd refuse to clap, but I know that awkward moment of "OMG wtf ok I'll clap pls end this." If we didn't pay to walk across the stage (bc sometimes there's an additional fee to do so) I'd have walked out and BOO'd him. What an entitled PoS. :/
because society didnt react strongly enough to the atheist youtubers suddenlt all becoming mega mysoginists a decade ago and now andrew tate is more influential than the pope
@@highdefinition450 I have to disagree. I genuinely think he believes what he's saying wholeheartedly and thinks he's speech is necessary and will help "lost" women
I remember my wedding day. My first day sentient as a woman. I didn't even know how to talk until I said my vows! So grateful for my husband who was willing to make me sentient!
This is the reason i'm on my 6th divorce. Need to give sentience to as many women as possible.🙏 It's hard especially on my bank account but need to pull through, their lives depend on it💪
It's always funny to hear people talk about how women have been lied to and deceived into wanting careers when I have literally never heard anyone tell me I have to be a career woman and that I can't get married or have kids, but I have had many people tell me it's selfish not to have children and that if I start a career I'll be unfulfilled and miserable.
There are plenty of people that want to be a housewife but can't, not because someone tells them to, but because they have bills to pay. Economics have shifted from requiring 1 income to requiring 2 incomes in most cases. In that sense, society demands some women to be "career women", through cost of living.
They are angry because their privileges are being endangered. It is like whites opposing ending Jim crow because they don't want their privileges to end
My favorite part of this whole thing is when the sisters responded. Y’know, women who aren’t married, don’t have kids, have spent their life teaching the next generation?
@@jessodepresso sisters as in nuns! here's a quote from npr: "The sisters of Mount St. Scholastica do not believe that Harrison Butker's comments in his 2024 Benedictine College commencement address represent the Catholic, Benedictine, liberal arts college that our founders envisioned and in which we have been so invested," the nuns wrote in a statement posted on Facebook.
@@extraneousnaz a lot of older nuns experienced first hand the benefits of the women's rights movement and a lot of them are extremely grateful for it. My grandma who's a baby boomer always tells me how she's very grateful she was able to get an education
The dude is an idiot. He should be trying to build them up, but in a proper way, not the weird, sexist way that he just did. Plus, I just think it's kind of weird to have a pro football player to give the commencement speech. I know this may not be a popular opinion, but they don't legitimately earn the majority of their money (meaning way overpayed for what they do) and likely hasn't had many struggles in life. I could certainly be wrong, but that's my guess.
The gag is that his mother is a highly acheived academic and MEDICAL PHYSICIST. An intelligent, capable, well-acheived woman who dedicated her life to saving other people's lives yet her OWN SON completely dismisses her work and tells her that her and many other women's worth actually lies being a domestic slave and incubator. This "man" makes me feel ill.
That's the point though isn't it? Most of you don't have accomplished parents let alone mothers so it's a better fit to advise mediocre people like you to be mothers rather than delude yourselves into trying to be something you're not.
the balls on a guy who plays a game for a living to say to college graduates that they would be better off without a job is painful. YOU DO NOT HAVE A JOB YOU GET PAID A MILLION DOLLARS TO FUCK AROUND IN THE DIRT
he's gonna feel really stupid later in life when he can't physically keep up with the sport anymore and needs to switch to something more mentally challenging. Something like 60% of all NFL players end up bankrupt after they retire from the sport because they don't have the same level of income that they're spending
@@OctoMatoe it’s a pathetic useless job that amounts to nothing in society. A football player is getting paid more than social workers or doctors. What a reality.
@@manahil8746 Its in the name of entertainment... why pay people who save lives more? that would probably lower the heavy healthcare costs HEAVEN FORBID THAT EVER HAPPEN!
@@pillage_party_and_papacy just gonna ignore the various articles detailing the group of nuns that denounced what he said? Not all religious people agree on every thing about their religion. There's always gonna be groups that agree and groups that disagree, you can't just ignore the fact some groups disagreed with a statement because other similar groups agreed with it
@@pillage_party_and_papacy The nuns of this very college denounced it. Did you not watch the video? The article is literally in the video at 8:24 and Chad Chad even points to it
@@pillage_party_and_papacy Dude. This Catholic College has women in its student body. It obviously values putting women through higher education. Read the room.
I imagine in a similar way as one refers to 'degeneracy' on a stage, in public, and does not immediately get booed and pelted with rotten fruit. The entire speech was like if a dog whistle sounded like a fog horn.
This story has an epilogue: One of his teammates had a stroke at practice recently, Harrison ran inside and found a trainer to help until an ambulance got there. Luckily for Harrison’s teammate, that trainer was a woman who went to school and got a job.
@@yellowoctopus4729 No one said that. The point was that without education (which this man thinks women should not do) she would not have been able to help the player. So he is fine with an educated woman helping his teammate while telling women not to get education
What if men were told that their only purpose in life was to be a father? To cook, clean, and take care of babies? Changing diapers in the morning (or hell the kid has night terrors). What if men were told to be pure, and their sexuality was seen as "gross" or something to fear? Or what if they were taught to be like a purse, something a woman can have on their arm? They'd hate it, and be angry if a woman told them that. Also imagine hating pride, when your name has "Butt" in it and you kick balls.
as a gay man.. yeah I've experienced most of that.. not very fun 💀god forbid everyone is allowed to have their own lives and do what they want with it, or in his words "tyranny of inclusion"
I’ve seen so many people say “BUT WHAT ABOUT FREE SPEECH” like girl he said it. it was definitely said. like it’s literally the reason he’s getting clowned on
People always seem to forget that free speech doesn't mean you can't get clowned on or deplatformed or fired for the shit you say. It just means the government can't lock you up. It only affects what the government can do to you. Individuals and businesses can respond in any way they see fit short of assault or murder.
It’s because they don’t understand what free speech means. Public backlash isn’t a violation of free speech, it’s literally one of the most common expressions of it.
oh no they're including people who were historically, harrased, SA'd, graped, beaten, tortured and humiliated and keep being so to this day on my media, NOOOOO
Diversity is tyranny. No one likes it, not even poc. They complain about feeling uncomfortable about being around other groups all day. Diversity is also tyranny because it's the ideology of the US and the US enables genocide in gaza. So really your views on diversity lead to genocide in gaza and hurt the rest of us.
A womans life doesn't begin until she gets married and have children??? My moms life ENDED when she was forced to marry my dad and have me and my brother. She is now 39 and works as a security guard when she could have become a top employee at companies or a college professor and more. She had to slave away at house when her peers went on to have successfull careers. She was a brilliant student and all this happened just because she married my dad. As someone who grew up in a middle class Indian household and saw my mom suffer her whole life because of marriage and kids this man makes me absolutely furious. He lives in some kind of fantasy world where poverty , domestic abuse and such doesnt exist. Who let him on to the stage honestly 💀
Excellent point, that guy really does live in a fantasy world. The concept of stay at home 'traditional wives' isn't realistic to most households in this economy. And of course domestic abuse unfortunately always persists. Great comment, I hope things get better for your mother
@@MichelleHarris-zf6wn real. My dad wants my mom to quit her job when he wastes all his money on alcohol. Our needs are getting met pretty smoothly cus my mom is working too. (And thank you my mom is so much better now that she has a job)
From the first sentence itself, I knew this was another Indian woman's story from the 90's. (coming from another Indian girl whose mom's career got sabotaged because of marriage)
Every person that promoted the "traditional wives" thing act like domestic violence don't exist in the real world, act like no man ever betrayed and abandoned the mother of his children after decades for another woman, act like no woman ever forced to live in poverty because her provider husband died and due to her ignorance in the financial details she was mugged by his brothers
Wild how a dude in the most replaceable position in the NFL can spout sexist shit and get a reaction of "We allow our players to have their own diverse beliefs," meanwhile one of the top QBs kneels respectfully to protest police brutality and he's "a disgrace to the game."
@@BigMike566 How does that mean he did something with his life? If that's how we guage if someone is a valuable member of society, that means a lot of NECESSARY workers aren't useful; teachers, construction workers, retail, etc. And not weighing your material possessions above morality is like a huge point in Catholicism.
@@BigMike566 I wouldn't equate accumulating money with contributing to society in a meaningful way. Conflating those two is an extremely shallow way to view the world.
@K.C-2049 Are we going to ignore that the role of an actively involved and loving dad could have mitigated some of that? You know, hence the role of a second parent? 😂 But by all means, let's once again act like it's always a woman's fault.
“Millions of women want to be homemakers” speak for yourself Brett, that’s my worst nightmare. I want to be the rich aunt that’s traveling everywhere and has a nice mansion with at least 2 cats 😄
I have never wanted kids. I thought pregnancy was a bad word when I was a child and I was actually horrified by pregnancy and birth. I never understood why people called it a miracle. I didn’t know that I was allowed to feel that way because when you’re raised female you are basically primed to become someone’s wife and someone’s mother from the day you’re born. You’re taught that you only have value when you are being used by another person. I’m so glad I was able to grow out of it and find my own path. I will never have children and I thank god every day that I was able to get sterilized. I would rather help the community in my own way. I can make a way bigger difference in peoples lives with the job I have that I worked my ass off in grad school to get than I would if I had one biological child.
fun fact: he gave my commencement speech at Georgia Tech last year and told all of us to become wives and mothers too… the other ceremony had the us secretary of state
Yeah but like I was in the afternoon ceremony with the secretary of state and that guy told us a fun story about a man who decided to kill himself and said well I guess the only way I won’t kill myself is if I’m able to contribute to society. Lmao at least butker said go enjoy your family. The secretary of state just perpetuated GT’s tradition of “you’re worthless unless you’re the best”
@@RosePeyster “but also I will devalue all that like it isn’t laborious and employ financial coercion as though I would be able to accomplish the same without a woman doing all my homework and child rearing and she needs to be chill about it”
This is how I found out about this situation. By seeing this head line The commencement speech giving by the teammate of Taylor Swift’s boyfriend…… And that told me all I needed to know about this guys opinion. His rise to fame is being known as the teammate of the man who is dating TAYLOR SWIFT. Without a woman not one person would care about him.
if he’s anti-IVF i find that so funny. the only way my parents could have children is through IVF. otherwise my mum would’ve had to continue being a career woman and might’ve gotten her PhD years ago instead of having to put it off until now (shout out to my mum she’s working on her PhD right now i’m so proud of her)
“Woman should be in the kitchen and have babies!!” Okay I do want children but i need ivf to do so “N-NO THAT THE RIGHT WAY!!1!1” Also congrats to your mom
It wasnt a commencement speech. It was a dude on stage with a captive audience talking about his beliefs and insulting half of the people who were being celebrated.
For real. Like even if he wasn't homophobic and misogynistic, his speech was basically "I love my wife". That's not a commencement speech. Nobody cares about your stupid wife. You're supposed to be telling these people who just went into lifelong debt for four years of useless education that they accomplished a lot and encourage them about their whole lives being ahead of them. It's not a time for you to talk about how great your wife is like you're at an anniversary dinner.
Everyone is talking about the terrible advice that he gave to women graduates but come on, he also gave braindead advice to the men in the audience, like "stay in your lane". He bravely advised EVERYONE to be mid.
men always forget that women have only ever wanted a choice. why is it so hard for them to perceive that even women might be humans with interests and goals and dreams. i personally wanted to be a homemaker but the lack of security i have felt from men has made me want to choose a career and pursue a degree.
I mean even if we want to see things through a Christian lens, the Bible says that a good bride works jobs in order to maintain the wellbeing of her home. Same Bible also says that there's absolutely nothing wrong with wishing to stay single, as much as there's nothing wrong with getting married. But of course these people always like to pick and choose what fits their narratives
Yeah butthead's views aren't even like a traditional Christian view. Even back in the Victorian era they were like "Hey it's better to be single than to be married to someone you hate." I mean an actual contemporary source from the Victorian era advised women that "spinsters" actually contribute a lot to society and that there's no shame in being a hardworking single woman, and there's no shame in being a hardworking married woman.
Literally tho. I grew up Catholic (not anymore I'm gay lmao) but even the strict scary evil Catholic people in my lives said "single" was always an okay vocation (as long as you stay "married to God or whatever it was still stupid) so But literally has NO idea what he's saying 😭
The Bible even says that it's BETTER to stay single, because being in a relationship takes away time for God and all that jazz 😭 that's literally why nuns EXIST, they aren't just "staying pure" or whatever, they're dedicating their entire being to God.
literally - and the bible isn't against women getting an education. it shows that ppl who claim to be from a certain religion have never even studied it
He offended conservatives too. I know Catholic/Christian families who send their kids to this school. They were all offended by his speech and were very confused why they asked a football player to speak. The standing ovation is an example of following what the rest of the crowd is doing. The overall community is questioning Benedictine's choices (the ones who are not obnoxious on Tik Tok)
I graduated from a conservative Christian college in 2001. I would have been livid if this dope had spoke at my graduation. So would my parents who spent a lot of money for me to be there
Something that's extra sad, I've seen a few of the kind of sexist, religious fundies he's trying to appeal to criticize him...for crying and giving his wife credit for his success. Even this level of blatant misogyny and cocktail of other issues wasn't enough, apparently.
I worked with a freak who told our 19 year old co worker more than once that she should probably be looking at settling down and starting a family coz “time’s running out”
Not to distract from the misogyny, but I wanted to point out his thing about "the Biblical teaching of who killed Jesus." He means Jews. He's complaining that he can't blame Jewish people for killing his god. This was an old teaching that the Catholic Church has gotten away from and that people like Butker want to bring back: holding all Jewish people, past and present, accountable for the death of Jesus. He's whining that he can't be an anti-Semite.
I'm also very sure that's what he meant. There's a difference between teaching the content of the bible and slandering an entire religion and its followers. No idea what the US thinks of that, but in Germany that's highly illegal and to me that makes perfect sense. I strongly believe that freedom of speech needs a few limits where it is harmful to others. And I think his entire speech belongs right in the trash.
I grew up in a super conservative Christian area and that's one thing that never made any sense to me, even when I was deep in it. Like the whole point was that Jesus HAD to die for people's sins. And since he was living amongst Jews because he was a Jew as well I'm not sure who they were expecting to be the ones to kill him. Like a random person from Egypt wasn't going to travel there to kill some dude they'd never even met. So actually they should be thanking the ancient Jews for essentially enabling Christianity to exist.
also that reading of the Bible is so BULLSHIT like the dude who actually said to kill Jesus, Pontius Pilate, has literal blood on his hands from Jesus and everybody is screaming at him for it, and in front of them he washes his hands of the blood, both literally and metaphorically remitting himself of the blood of Jesus, and basically says "stop yelling at me, isn't this kinda your fault, all you jews? my hands are clean!" I genuinely think one of the only ways to read this is as a joke. 'Hey look at this guy and these people so foolish they think if you wash the blood of your hands, you are clean of the sins you've committed to get it there'
As a guy, I dont get why so many men are obsessed with women just getting married to them and having no ambitions and goals. I would want my wife to live the life she wanted, and I love me life the way I wanted with her.
@zippedmouthgaming5637 guys are just jaded because if women have options then they can leave their average ass since they don't have to be financially supported by them to live
@@Halo4beatsB02Pretending that such a perspective was somehow okay, I seriously doubt that most men spouting off such talking points are financially independent
Those are the kind of men who never grew up and need someone to hold their manbaby hands every step of the way. Real men can stand on their own and want a relationship with someone because they love them, not because they want a mindless slave to help them wipe their ass.
@@Peloponnesia666not every culture is sexist, what a weird thing to say. It’s giving victim mentality lmaoo, there are entire cultures dedicated to worshipping a female or females in general. America just sucks.
i actually am an npc and i'm waiting for a strong male dragonborn to approach me in the whiterun market wearing an amulet of mara and ask if i'm interested in him
I'm a dad, and the primary caregiver of my two kids, while I work part time, and my wife works full-time in a career she's passionate about. I see guys like this and just think, "What a cvnt."
@@yellowoctopus4729 Why are you defending this clown? He talked shit about the lgbt, he clearly thinks womens fate is to be wives and mothers while he clearly only cares about himself. Are you his burner account? If not, he is not gonna notice you. Like ever. So stop sucking his dick
Right? It's like saying "the evilness of fluffballs, rainbows and smiles"... like... how do the words even give "tyranny" let alone the concepts behind them?
Hes a conservative Christian so anything that isnt Christian theocracy with the oppression of jews, islamists, athiests etc is "oppressing his rights".
Sadly the pushback against DEI is a big thing in the gaming space right now and it makes enjoying them utterly miserable when idiots complain about the lack of white men and how every new protagonist is black, a woman or god forbid both. It's like we are going back in time
As an asexual, 24 year old, studying woman who got her uterus removed 3 days ago, I suppose people like me are this guys worst nightmare. And I can't help but relish and smile at that thought.
He's appreciating his wife. People are so confusing.You'll weaponize parts of his speech "belittling" (not what he was doing but I digress) women, and then when he's appreciating the one he's married to you'll chastise him for that as well? Pick a side.
@@AvaMCSi’m not trying to fight with you, but when the speech is to women who’ve put time, money, and effort into higher education and saying how their only real purpose is having a husband and children, (among other incredibly offensive things, no matter who you are), then it does become incredibly ironic when he decides to attribute his success to a woman in his life doing things for him. it’s especially ironic when he explicitly states (he believes that) his wife didn’t have a life before being married to him.
@@AvaMCShe doesnt appreciate HER tho- she could be any woman in the world as long as she make dinner and push out baby and its painfully obvious he sees all women through this lens
@@AvaMCS i dont understand how anybody can be on his side and NOT understand that he’s literally telling women that they shouldn’t have lives outside of being a mother and having babies. What are you thinking??? Please elaborate.
I was at my sister’s graduation ceremony yesterday. She got a Master’s in Education. The speakers at the ceremony spoke about how the graduates will be going out into the world to improve the school systems and the lives of the youth of tomorrow. No where did they talk about how their accomplishments will mean nothing without a man by their side. How this guy wasn’t booed of the stage I’ll never know
Yeah did the people who gave him a standing ovation who had daughters who were graduating not think "wait he's saying we wasted all that money sending our daughter here, that's not right"
@@luiginastro8831Even the nuns that are part of it rebutted his speech _Might sound surprising_ but nuns don’t like when the fellow women and students they’ve taught are told they’ve wasted time Balance is key He could have stayed classy and do a speech for both family and work life and this for both genders You know, men are fathers too… But these kind of men forget about it until they have to complain about divorces and divorce arrangements
@@eaglestown4609 the funny thing is that nuns are also unmarried, career oriented women. so imagine putting so much time and effort into teaching these students and then watching as some random ball player gets up onto the stage and starts yapping about how all the women in there were worthless and wasting time
That speech had my very catholic parents and all their very catholic friends absolutely up in arms, because he spit in the face of two very major beliefs in catholicism : the dignity of the person, and the importance of the sacraments (including marriage). A group of sisters (nuns but actually not) wrote him a letter very politely saying "kick rocks" because he very much insulted every nun/woman religious on the fucking planet for not getting married. He also implies that marriage is the most important sacrament (big deal in catholicism) which would be kinda icky for a catholic to do about any sacrament, but even if he did, most catholics. If forced, would rank the eucharist at the highest because that belief is like... a defining feature of catholicism. ALSO, he's implying the whole "the Jews killed Jesus" which is NOT accurate to the Catholic teaching on the subject, which is that Jesus' death was a willing sacrifice on behalf of all of creation. (And also you won't go to jail for saying it anyway) In conclusion, bad man is also bad at Catholicism, his own damn religion. In conclusion 2: ChadChad should have interviewed my mom for this video because my mom is great and I love her and she's the best
Idk why anyone even thinks the Jews killed Jesus. It's extremely clear in the Bible that the Sanhedrin were worried about Rome basically massacreing everyone in Jerusalem if Jesus got too popular, and it was ultimately Rome (through Pilate) that put a stop to him. Wasn't it the sabbath when he was crucified?? You know that one day a week when the Jews aren't supposed to be doing any work?
This dude isn't Catholic, he's an Evangelist at this point. Everything he said was Evangelical talking points. Heck, I'd be writing Pope Francis to get this dude excommunicated at this point for attempting to use a religion he isn't even following well to try to harm others for no reason.
Benedictine Catholicism is one of the least conservative types of Catholicism I've ever encountered too. I'm not Catholic but went to a Benedictine college right out of high school. I was able to get to know a couple of the sisters through a program the school did and they were extremely open about supporting women's rights. The whole deal with sisterhood is that they get to choose to do it and they can leave at any time too! One of the sisters was even in the process of leaving so she could get married to this guy she was dating and have a family with him. She had spent decades as a sister and didn't regret any of it. She just felt it was right to have a family now, even as an older woman. And everyone was happy for her and fully supportive too! It was the only Christian environment I've been in where they actively celebrated career women. Do I agree with all of their values? Absolutely not. But they were the least sexist bunch of Christians I've ever met.
Fr, like... Did Kaepernick ever do anything wrong? I search him up on tiktok and see people hating on him and saying he has a "black victim mentality"? 😭
@@artzyalicia5546 Kaepernick did everything wrong. He sucked as a player, acted as if he was Malcolm X despite the fact he's half-white and was raised by a white adoptive family. Kap has never known the struggle.
If he's gonna talk about how women should be "traditional" he should've also given a speech about how the men's degrees don't matter cause its just a pitstop on the way to becoming a soldier or farmer or miner and nothing else
“Congress passed a law where if you talk about religious stuff in public, you can go to jail.” Meanwhile Louisiana: Literally passed a law where every classroom must have a poster about Ten Commandments in school.
@@Leftistmushroom It is a personal choice and should not be in public at all in what you believe in - nor should religion ever get involved in politics or any public afair. Just believe in what you want but don´t bother people with it. As simple as that. - Not like the Jesus NPCs about the return of him and blablabla - those people are so annyoing - anyone who does that no matter which religion is very annoying. Those people sound like puppets on invisible strings with no brain of their own..
For the record, the entire Catholic world was PISSED at this guy. The school had no idea he was going to say all that stuff and released a statement condemning it. And there were articles roasting him from OSV and other Catholic newspapers and media sites like that. (Source: am a Catholic woman who works for a Catholic newspaper.) The speech was insulting to average women, but it was an even bigger outrage to us Catholic working women who do a ton of work every day to give him all the things he thinks of as a modern Catholic life. We're in every diocesan office, every parish, every canon law office, every Catholic media producer, every campus ministry team, every Catholic hospital, every Catholic grade school, middle school, high school, college and university. Modern American Catholicism would COLLAPSE without working women, especially women with advanced degrees. The Church does NOT teach that women need to "get back in the kitchen." All the Church teaches is that parents need to decide, together, what's best for their child and family. Sometimes that's one or the other parent staying home, sometimes that's both parents working; sometimes that's having 10 kids, sometimes 5, sometimes 2. And it also doesn't teach that women need to get married; there are many many Catholic women who have intentionally chosen to remain single, even perpetually so. Mr. Butker must have forgotten about nuns. Also, he can shove his antisemitism where the sun doesn't shine.
Yeah I don't know much about the Church even though I was raised Christian and even less about Catholics but I can from like one year in a Catholic school- I'd feel like women have every part in running the Church. Especially when they call the Church the "bride of God" in some descriptions, therefore making women bridesmaids
Yet your religion is used to restrict women's rights further and forces them into the unwanted role of motherhood. It's beyond me how anyone could seriously support forced birth.
Thank you for saying this. I got annoyed seeing comments defending him with “well he’s just saying Catholic beliefs to a Catholic college”. Those aren’t my beliefs.
As a straght white man, in Texas, who wears cowboy boots every day, who lives in a conservative state, this shit was so stupid, that speech was bs, women deserve every right men have, and every other thing he said just made my body physically revolt. ANYWAYS this was a good commentary on the speech 👍 love from Texas 🤠
I think my main issue with his speech is the fact that he basically says that this education that these women have worked so hard for was pointless, like it's so disrespectful 💀
@@minecraftnerd2175 Especially when that person talking down to you has a career in kicking a BALL around for entertainment. 💀 It's wild how he didn't show even a shred of embarrassment, I wish my self-esteem was that high lmao.
The Bible says he who finds a wife obtains blessings from God 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ that literally means the man is lucky to find a wife, not the other way around. They only remember the Bible when it serves them. Prophet Hosea was in the old testament, before Jesus and he married a sex worker who kept stepping out after childbirth, guess who told him to marry her🤷🏾♀️. There's no where in the Bible that says a woman should just be at home with no career and Paul said it's better not to marry but since we have raging hormones, get married to avoid fornication, not for the woman's life to begin 🤣🤦🏾♀️
It's also insane that he singled out women in his speech. You know at the graduation the speech should usually apply to all the people that are graduating.
8:30 as a gay man... I would 100% choose that 3 floor victorian Home of Phobia over that dinky little Home of Sexual. That Home of Sexual is so small, you could practically fit it inside the Home of Phobia. 'Internalize' it if you will.
@@sarahyoon3069Only his wife was worthless until she decided to marry him and be a home maker. Before he got married and decided to be a father, he was still inherently valuable because of his gender. Oh and he is good at kicking footballs
@@Meduwusadon’t compare a random comment on the internet to a powerful man spewing misogynistic hatred publicly which has very real consequences and gets people murdered.
“Congratulations everyone on earning your degrees. Except if you are a women. Your only purpose in life is to have a babies and change their diapers while the men go out and make the money. Thank you” sick speech bro. I’m an NFL fan and this off-season has been insane for the chiefs lol.
Outside of the obvious misogyny, what really gets me is the little repercussion Butker faced on a professional level compared to Kaepernick. Both exercised their freedom of speech, yet only one was blacklisted. Hmm, I wonder what the main difference was... 🤔
Right? Why is not a conservative telling him to just play ball, when they had no issue telling The Chicks to shut their mouths, shit themselves over a trans person being printed on to a singular can of beer? I could go on for literal months over these complete dipshits.
@@tdrb42 Yeah, one of them totally disrespected America. Telling half of its population that they're useless without having a husband and kids is very insulting.
One of them chose to slander and disrespect America on the football field in the stadium, on the clock at his place of work in front of stadiums and live on televisions of paying fans who came to watch sports and love America.
@@alexisoutt1428 Why is it bad to criticize a country, we do it to other countries all the time. Is the United States that "special" that any sort of criticism or call out of it's bad past or continued bad actions is considered slander? Is that how sensitive we have became as its people?
Well, people who've claimed to have gone to uni with him have exposed that he used to hook up with male cheerleaders 😭😭 So, does he *even* love his wife?
as someone who decided a long time ago that I want to be childless, few things disgust me more than a man saying "a woman's life is meaningless until she becomes a wife and mother"
@@cacophonousantiquarian8803having kids is a horrendous decision if you are an average broke college student in the US. Even as a working graduate, you are dooming yourself to poverty unless you have rich relatives to support you. Money aside, you really need to THINK long and hard. If you are traumatized and mentally ill, you need to be able to have healed quite considerably. Many don't do enough healing before having kids....and that just results in the trauma cycle continuing. Not everyone should have kids. Few are cut out to be parents. Good on you for making wise decisions.
Way to read the room lmao "Let me go to a college GRADUATION and tell the women in the audience that they should be homemakers." That's like going to a modeling agency to talk about the wonders of butter. Like, wrong demographic, my guy
@@deaftoyourtonesguy When he talks about Congress passing a bill about no longer talking about the 'biblical truth of who killed Jesus'. It's an antisemitic belief that the Jews killed Jesus, one of the sources of a lot of hate Christians have for Jewish people
I’m ashamed to share the butt in my last name with him fr 😔🙏 it’s reserved for comedic effect only not as a personality indicator but it seems my guy forgot
It's crazy to me to say that someone else's life didn't begin until they met you... Like it's sad if you say it on your own behalf about your spouse but to make that claim about someone else is truly baffling.
Anyone who wouldn't be concerned about a person's mental health when they say that is a vile individual. How narcissistic do you have to be to accept everything as positive as long as it puts you in a good light? Historically, a woman's life ends when they get married, men avoid responsibility and leave it for the woman to completely have to devote her life to, because men don't want theirs to end, because they know that if they were good dads, it would.
Oh hey, I fact checked that bill he's referring to, and you ABSOLUTELY cannot be jailed for it, he's just straight up lying/wrong about that. So, I imagine he'll be announcing his presidential bid any day now.
tbh I expected him to throw in a sprinkles of lies into his speech to somehow “backup” his points by making it seem like he is very well educated and not just paid to kick balls around because his mum is very wealthy 😭🙏
When he says that you’re not allowed to talk about who killed Jesus, he’s not saying the Bible is banned, he’s saying you’re not allowed to blame (currently alive) Jewish people for the events described in his religious text. So you can add antisemite to the list too. (While who is actually to blame can be debated, blaming Jews for Jesus’ crucifixion is a very common way for Christians to justify their antisemitism. I assure you, he is not upset that he can’t hate on the Roman Empire now.)
Which is EXTREMELY blasphemous LOL!! Not only was Jesus Jewish, but He was killed because of the wickedness in the hearts of men - not Jewish people. The way Christian Fundamentalists love to point the finger is so counter to everything he stood for. The NFL guy would've tossed a stone at Mary before Jesus finished speaking.
The absolute wild cherry on top is that he refers to Taylor Swift as "My teammate's gf" amd quotes her sonh "Bejeweled". Which is a whole song dedicated to the fact that Taylor doesn't need a man to shine
@@Xxboomcrew41xXI think they’re just providing an example of the sheer audacity to be reductive to Taylor swift, who, like it or not, is one of the most famous people in the English speaking world.
I went to this school. This speech 100% didn't shock me. For those saying "didn't the school see this first?!". Yes. Yes they did. They signed off on this.
The phrase really just exposes him as an oppressor. I can't imagine being so stupid and disconnected from the world that I would say such a thing proudly in front of people.
You can let it simmer, most people don't need to and understand it right away. The US's ideology is inclusion and diversity. The US is responsible for enabling genocide in gaza. Those views directly lead to genocide and hurt everyone else. You have to own it not us!
my ancient teacher did my graduation speech last month and he spent the entire time talking about how the world is now a hopeless place and we might as well give up because everyone has switched up truth and sin..... so i can relate to this one....
"The biblical teaching of who killed Jesus could land you in jail" He alludes to The Antisemitism Awareness Act which passed on May 1st. This bill gives certain legal relevance to the IHRA's definition of antisemitism. One of the examples for antisemtic hate speech that the IHRA gives is: "Using the symbols and images associated with classic antisemitism (e.g., claims of Jews killing Jesus or blood libel) to characterize Israel or Israelis" Blaming Jews collectively for the killing of Jesus is a very old antisemitic/antijudaist stereotype that was very common in the middle ages. While obviously, Jewish people were involved in the death of Jesus, it is absurd to blame anyone other than the specific individuals who lived 2000 years ago of that deed. Not to mention that the actual crucifixion was carried out by the Romans. While on first glance this example could seem like it would prohibit stating that Jews were involved in the killing of Jesus, this is not what it says. They only consider it antisemitism if the claim of "Jews killing Jesus" is used "to characterize Israel or Israelis", i.e. doing exactly what I described above. EDIT: However, there are valid criticisms against the IHRA's definition due to it's unclear stance towards criticism against Israel. For example, it defines that the following two examples are antisemtic as well: - "Drawing comparisons of contemporary Israeli policy to that of the Nazis." - "Claiming that the existence of a State of Israel is a racist endeavor." While both things certainly can often be antisemitic, it is also easy to see that valid criticisms might get caught up in this too.
Thanks for the details. I didn't know the specifics but as soon as I heard "mentioning who killed Jesus" my first thought was "oh this is an antisemitism thing isn't it".
Hmm, definitely valid to try and stem the anti-semitic rhetoric that seems so prevalent in today's america. It feels kinda fishy to drum up so much protection against criticizing Israel though. That's not great. No matter how one feels about a nation, everyone should agree that criticizing it shouldn't be unlawful.
It should be noted that it is considered to be problematic and non-allowed by the USCCB (the conference of Bishops who make choices for the whole USA Catholic Church) that for example, you may not sing any hymns that make blanket claims of Jewish people as a whole killing Jesus. You aren’t supposed to say it in Catholic Mass, so why does he think this law is a problem?
I think the part about him “not being a professional speaker” is actually a little bit of a trope for conservatives as well. There’s something about being a professional with experience in knowledge in something that makes conservatives’ skin crawl like knowing what you’re doing is a bad thing
Imagine needing to be qualified in order to tell orders what to do about something that requires expertise. Imagine your audience being educated enough to be able to filter and analyse the words you are speaking to them. Jesus was the biggest expert about God (being God himself and “those who see me, see the Father”) and he used that knowledge to bring the message as close as possible to people’s reality (analogies with farming animal, agriculture, social norms, laws, everyday occurrences, etc) so they could understand it. But some conservatives seem to try their best to make access to education and knowledge as restricted to their demographic as possible. And some of them call themselves Christians? A real follower of Christ wants everyone to have discernment and understanding of the things of Heaven and the things of Earth. That honours God and enables the church to do the will of God on Earth as part of the Kingdom of God. I’m saying all of this as a Christian that hates to see the good name of Jesus to be used to create the oppression Jesus died to set us free (so we could also be used to free others once we receive this freedom from Christ).
Imagine your tuition paying a dude who can't even pretend to know what he is doing. Also, even without the blatant bigotry, his speech was piss poor. All over the place, no real thesis statement, boring and monotone, centering around himself and his beliefs rather than the student or even issues they more likely care about like the trash economy they will have to seek jobs in. Major peaked in highschool, never paid attention in class energy.
The gag is. My life 100% ended after having kids. And people INCLUDING women treat you like kaka when you become a mom. Im only 30 and a girl 5 years younger called me “a miserable old hag whose husband isnt cutting it anymore” like absolutely gross. Women partake in this gross behavior too
That's insane. You're 30, not 75 and a crotchety old woman threatening people who step on her lawn. My life tentatively began the moment I divorced my first husband but it would only truly begin once my kids finished high school. Then I started taking care of myself and doing things for myself. I bought nice makeup, started using good skin products, and started a couple hobbies. I finally feel like my own person. It helps that my husband treats me as an equal so I don't feel like I have to facilitate his career. We just enjoy each other's company. The 23 year old is still at home, but it's not remotely the same. I've had long covid since last August and I still feel more alive than I did before the kids grew up.
@@_Kuma_ we have the highest life expectancy ever and people talk like 30 is the end of the world. Dude, dudettes, you're likely to live to 80-90. You have a lot of time.
Oh look another women spreading misconception about life ending after kids Lmao that's on YOU booboo, no one else. Plenty of women like myself still have a life after kids, why? Cause we made it work. You're just using it as an excuse to stop trying in life 😂😂😂😂😂
He said that "stating who killed Jesus" would put you in jail. That's thinly veiled good ol' anti-Semitism, because these people love to excuse their prejudice by saying "b-but Jews killed Jesus 🥺" (don't tell them who Jesus was, they may not survive this). That's not very surprising, considering that he called stuff he doesn't like "degenerate", another thing that one specific group in history was particularly fond of.
I am all for women that want to be stay at home mothers doing what they want, as long as they are happy and fulfilled, then I am happy for them. That said, that was SUCH a tone-deaf speech. That was NOT the time to push traditional ideals. And what about we women that CAN'T have kids??? He basically said our lives will never start, that we will never be fulfilled. That has to be so hurtful to those infertile women in the audience, because I guarantee there are at least a few. And he basically negated all the hard work the women in that audience have accomplished to graduate. That speech was a swing and a HUGE miss.
What about the mothers in there that wanted to better their finances for their current or future kids too? And the women who want to be child free because they know they couldn't handle kids, so they opted for putting more time and energy helping the public (which includes kids)!?!? Like it doesn't matter if they only help their own kids or any kids that come into their workplace. They are still putting in at least a little help out into society which benefits the kids too!
Plus he demonized IVF (literally, calling it ungodly), which is the only way many women are able to have biological children. According to him, all women should be pregnant all the time unless it's through IVF in which case they're evil and God hates them.
I thought my graduation was terrible with the kids in my grade 12 class burning the pride flag as the “senior prank” But OH MAN sitting through that speech would have soured my mood just as much.
@@DonnieCBearDownYou must be _so_ popular with the ladies Donnie I bet you’re one of those that spits divorce statistics the moment the word women is whispered
@@eaglestown4609 i think some men have forgotten then women are equally human as them, and we are allowed to be offended when we are told we only exist to be wives and mothers?
@@matiganschumacher2259 I swear What happened to live and let live? Why should they be angered if some women choose to live a different lifestyle? Different lives, different dreams I swear sometimes these kind of men just see an enemy I feel like they don’t even like spending time with women, they just do it because “you need to get married and have a family”
@@eaglestown4609 exactly. i have no qualms with women who want to live this lifestyle, because feminism fought for the choice. i have issues with people who tell me what i have to do with my life based on their political beliefs. i don't get why my life choices make some men and women so mad tho. and yes, it does seem like a lot of (specifically conservative) men seem to genuinely hate us, and only marry us because they "have to", i've had to weed so many of these men out of my life.
ohhhhh noooooooooooo. and the Romans killed him. they were in charge. they asked the crowds what to do to shut them up. but they accused him, and jailed him. and they tortured him to death.
Was just about to comment this. If he’s insinuating what I think he’s insinuating about the myth that the Jewish people were the ones who killed Jesus (hint: they weren’t) then dude needs to have his internet history checked by the FBI. That’s some tiki torch carrying type shit right there
That is such a common stupid thing in general Women being presented as "my girlfriend" instead of their names Totally insane that even beloved celebrities do that, let alone some ignorant priveleged guys
