Plus By saying that yall are not relationship counselors, relieves any legal ramifications that could happen if someone comes and say "I followed your advice and now my life is ruined and now I'm gonna sue the black of y'all!" Love y'all
This podcast right here! "When you do not do what you're capable of, there are people out there who aren't getting the message that they need to hear, so you're holding other people back." FLOORED! When God checks you through the message! I hear ya, Lord! 🙌🏾❤ Thank you, Melissa, for your transparency (I see myself!), and Kevin for your words of affirmation!
Kevin is right. On the other side of your fear is someone's blessing. No pressure. The transparency you offer is what is needed today. 10k plus women need to know they are not alone. That's what you offer. A reassurance that with all my flaws I'm still worth it. Write a book. I will buy it. Do a podcast. I will listen. Have a conference. I will come regardless of where it is in the country. God has shown me you are good soil. A forever fan.
Insecurities, for me, have been born out of self-talk that says "I don't deserve the level of loyalty that I'm seeking." Insecurities are a direct reflection of what we think of ourselves. I can link about 97% of my insecurities to negative self-talk.
This is sooo good! I definitely pray I have a husband that won't let something he sees in me go unnoticed. I'm single and this podcast is really equipping me.
Watching this today....and considering where Liss is now is encouraging to my whole entire life. Look where you were and where you are!!! GET IT BOO!!!
This was great. I watch, but don't always comment! Melissa, I am the same way. I am almost terrified of quick success. It's like I want it to slowly unfold so I can see everything clearly and so I can be in controller of it all. It's scary when much is required of you and you feel like, at this time, I don't have it, but we always do! We always come through anyway!! But Kev, I'm so glad you observed that she wasn't feeling your approach and you asked her how you can help. I have been emotionally beat down to the ground by someone I looked up to as he told me that I was wasting time and sitting down on my gifts. It actually sounded and felt like he was saying I was a waste of time and that I didn't deserve my gifts. So, I had to do the work as you said. I had to get to know that if these are gifts from God, no one can tell me I don't deserve them, and also I shouldn't waste time being scared!! It was my conclusion. I'm glad you all have each other for support, because it's hard without it.
I’m sad that you don’t have as much views yet. I almost clicked on Kev’s channel for this video until I noticed. I love when you say “ all of the things” it makes me smile every time. It’s so cute. I don’t want to offend you by saying “ cute” when you’re a beautiful and grown woman, but I can’t think of a better word
Melissa!!!! Kev is right I’m very much like you people are always telling me you should do, you would be great at, your so good at and I’m like but I’m not as good, or as great as so and so!!! I say Kev is right Because when we walk in our gift and purpose we encourage others to do the same but it’s hard when you fear failure and fear success. Smh!!! This conversation gave me a little life!
I love how you both support one another. This is what makes a marriage successful. Hearing and understanding each other. You are blessed to have each other its wonderful to watch. Love y'all
I can 100% relate to Melissa and the fear of succes. Fear can be so powerful, especially when it comes to fulfilling your purpose. I think to see yourself in a place of succes you first have to convince yourself you're worthy of it. And then with succes comes the fear of what comes next and when is it all falling apart. But seeing the way Melissa shines in the podcasts, I can see she's doing what she was created to do and it inspires me to utilize my own gift
Wow, this episode was soooooo good!! Thank you both for being so open and vulnerable 🙏🏽 I can totally relate to what they’re saying about being more afraid of success than failure. But like Melissa said, it’s a personal journey where you have to put in the work to overcome that mindset not only in your mind but in your heart. Sometimes we’re more comfortable sitting in failure or not trying, or even just in the thought of failure because we try to control/figure out all the outcomes and wonder if we’re even equipped to handle everything that may come with actually being successful.
This is a super powerful episode that has gotten me really thinking about why I fear success so much. For some reason I've found comfort in failure. It's really familiar to me and has put me in a position to where I never disappoint anyone. But just lately I've been super successful and see even more major successes on the horizon. SCARY. But this episode has helped me identify my issues so I can begin resolving them. Thank! You!!
You have the same thing to day to 1000 women 10 times, Lol! But truly, Melissa, your insight and ability to communicate so clearly is invaluable! You are appreciated, and I thank you for your voice.
As a single woman, I want to go to Love Hour Conference so bad, but I'm not sure how much I'll benefit from it before I'm married. But a Women's Conference???? ZERO QUESTIONS ASKED!!!😘
I just want to first say that both of you are great! Also i can definitely identity that i have believed that I was shattered. But i am believing that as i spend more time with God and listening to great people like you two; the words to formulate what I have believed will formed. Then i will be able to address those things with God. And He will able to fill those areas. Thank you for making these videos! I love you both!
Look Melissa you betta step out on your platform and soak in your spotlight. You can do a vlog Get Ready w/me that incorporate sponsored women products, Vlog of preparing for the conference, create affirmation books/journals, create shirts, pins. Go get what's yours.
Melissa...... Kevin is telling the truth!!!! You're podcast is doing amazing! And very, very helpful! DO YOU BOOBOO!!!❤❤❤❤ YOUR PODCAST IS GREAT! I watch them everyday, with our without Kevin😊 they are very informative!
I am definitely A FAN OF MELISSA!!!! Love her soooo much!!!!! I really relate to what Kev is saying to her because people tell me the exact same thing! (Pumping the breaks on my own success 😩😢) I AM PETRIFIED OF MY OWN SUCCESS! I say this ALL the time! I feel that’s why I relate so much! OMGGGGGG there was so much revelation for me at this point of the podcast! And yet I’m still scared!.... but I’m going to give my SLOW YES and instead of a FAST NO 😩
I love y’all two so much! I look forward to Thursday’s because of y’all lol. I consider y’all my auntie and uncle...Also are those your natural nails or acrylic?
I agree! I found out about you from Kev but I am equally a fan of yours. I so wish you would do more of your own stuff. Your insight is phenomenal! Your authenticity shows through and I love that about you. Even your makeup videos are easy to follow! I hope that you reconsider.
Who is out here disliking on this? How dare you, Get off the pod! I absolutely love this podcast and can't wait for new ones each week. Shout outs to The Fredericks
Not to sound belittling bc Kev is by far my most favorite comedian. And I know comedy takes WORK! However, I would dare to challenge that anyone in Liss's position might feel a bit more pressure bc enriching content affects ppl differently (its levels) than entertainment content. Jmo
Yes, please work on the interrupting. Sometimes your guests, Doboy, the two of you, don't get to finish your/their thoughts and I want to hear it. Thanks!
I'm not sure if this will my Chocolate sisters or not bc I'm slightly more militant than most. But as a child, I struggled with my ligter complexion and narrow nose bc when I looked in then mirror, all I could see was the man who raped and enslaved my great great grandmother. I always thought that to have skin untainted by our painful past would be such a blessing. So if anyone struggles with their dark complexion, I hope that this realization can help plant a seed of pride. We've all got our stuff tho.
