Theories of Aggression in Social Psychology 

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ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-t-aGutWa4Sw.html Best video on anger management must watch

Nice that these videos are simplified so understanding abstract ideas is made easier

I love that you could share this! 💖

So you had a bad childhood and now you are gay. Like clockwork

@@ceoofracism9625 Ouch. Feel better being mean?

Get in the army, lad. It worked for me. I don’t think Ive lost my temper since I was 17 unless I actively chose to go into that mode then just flip the switch and go back to normal

Patrick Teahan's channel is great for the childhood trauma! I've grown so much from his content! He's a therapist. 😉 He does role playing ...it's hard to explain...but WOW! crazy bullseyes stuff!!!

According to Freud humans have a life instinct (eros) and a death instinct, called thanatos. This death instinct compels humans to engage in risky and destructive behaviors that could lead to death (remember, it is an instinct for personal death.)

The BoBo doll does explain a lot about what we witnessed growing up and how the cycle can continue. Like you mentioned, there are many who come from these backgrounds destined to repeat the same things in their lives. Those who do not become violent and aggressive are likely to be the ones who grow into the other end of the spectrum and become perpetual 'victims' because it's what they learned to be. I believe that it's a sound theory. And yet, only one part of a whole. If we are fortunate in our lives, we will come across a few people who can show us what healthy is...then we are truly blessed and can begin to heal and change the cycle. Because this is in the realm of social learning, I believe the cycle has a better chance at being broken if govt's could see the advantages of offering more resources for learning how to parent in healthy ways.

@@hi.moriarty what do you mean by “who can show us what healthy is”? do you not know what healthy is or you do know but just haven’t had first-hand experience with healthy people?

@@FruityHachi What a great clarifying question, Dom! Thanks! I meant that I hadn't experienced, as a normal dynamic in my own life. What I thought was healthy from my childhood, has actually turned out to be a cruel misinteretation of what I believed was supposed to be loving qualities. I was my Mother's favorite. That says a lot right there. I'm 54 years old now and have, in the last 2 years, formed a great network of healing and growth-oriented people in my life. Seeing what honesty, sincerity, empathy, compassion, support and a genuine appreciation for me in who I am as an individual WAS NOT what my Mother has done in my life, even up tp 2 weeks ago. There was no personal connection or encourgement with her except in what I was giving to her. Does that makes sense? Without these peoplereinforcing what I knew was "good" by actually showing it to me, selflessly...without those conditions, I would not have been as confident in building what was good and healthy in myself. I KNEW inherently I think, because the her psychological and emotonal abuse created 52 years of e believing that there was something wrong and broken about me for who I was. I knew I hurt. And hurting is wrong. But I didn't know why. Covert manipulation and the abuse that my mom has been doing to me has only come to full light in my awareness through what I had learned on my own over the years, and was reinforced in my comprehension of that knowledge from The people who I have established HEALTHY relationshps with. Mom is not one of those peop anymore welcome to be in my life.

sociopaths ussauly grow up in abusive homes Also growing up with an abusive father with a mother who shames you for being agresive When that's what you learned I am blamed for my emotions as well as my siblings emotions It's torture It's gotten to the point where being agresive or assertive enjoyable because doing something exciting with adrenaline calms me down And anger feels the same as bordem

Wasn't it a queen?

They deserve punishment and i deserve to be the executant - someone angry

@@ashRAFKSALIM I think he's referring to Killmonger the pissed off antagonist from black panther.

I was referring to Aerys Targaryen, the Mad King.

@@naughtyskywalker9292 Haha , Like Father Like Daughter