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Therapy & Theology: The Stages of Trauma | Part Two With Lysa TerKeurst

Proverbs 31 Ministries with Lysa TerKeurst

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Is This Going To Hurt Forever? Part Two
Welcome to "Therapy & Theology." When you've experienced something devastating, it's easy to question if you're on your way to healing: Is it normal to feel this way? How do I stop hurting? Is this going to hurt forever? Maybe you've even said out loud to a friend, “This has been so traumatic, I’m not sure I’ll ever feel like myself again.”
Is it really possible to move forward after we’ve experienced significant trauma?
With theological research and therapeutic insight, Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and licensed counselor Jim Cress will help you understand the stages of trauma so you can process your pain in a healthy way and move toward healing today.
Make sure you watch [Part One] and [Part Three]!
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Related Resources:
-We can’t assume the broken pieces of our life circumstances are terrible and pointless - not with our God. Gain healthier ways to process your pain and learn to see even your most hurtful situations through truth-based perspectives with Lysa TerKeurst’s new devotional, Seeing Beautiful Again: 50 Devotions to Find Redemption in Every Part of Your Story. Get your copy here. www.p31booksto...
-Check out our [RU-vid channel] to watch these episodes in shorter installments. • Therapy & Theology: 10...
-Ready to take the next step in finding a Christian counselor? Here’s a good place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances: American Association of Christian Counselors. aacc.net/
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@marthavaldez9184 2 года назад

In the last 3 years 3 of my siblings have died, I was by their side and I wiped the tears from my sister eyes as she was dying and everyone expects me to act normal. I'm having a hard time. There doesn't seem to be anybody to talk to that would understand. Please pray for me.

@janm9610 Год назад

Deepest sympathy

@dawn5315 Год назад

Thank you for vulnerably sharing, seeking prayer and opening yourself to God's healing in you. I am praying for you to surrender your mind's way of thinking to God, seek His wisdom, that He may work in you, lead you to greener pastures (bring you clarity-- healing-- in your perspective, and guide you through a healthy processing of emotions). God is with you in your suffering. ❤️

@littlegmmom Год назад

I've been there there is hope stay connected with godly people that will pray you through and will encourage you through it all.

@christinewright2829 Год назад

I am praying for you.

@samg2570 Год назад

Praying for you , I understand your pain, as I’ve also lost my sister & my mum in the past two yrs. God is with you !!

@jessicapaschall5786 2 года назад

I am so thankful that you are being transparent and sharing this with the world. My father walked off and left my mother 3 months after the death of my younger brother, and after 42 years of marriage. She is in so much emotional distress, but will not see a counselor. This series is the first step for her to get “through” this. Thank you, Lysa. Thank you ❤

@jld4870 2 года назад

I can’t imagine being your mother, being you in the midst of this disconnection, rejection and loss of your brother. Hold on tight to Jesus, hold on tight daily to His promise that he will never leave or forsake us. My family too is disconnected due to a horrific event this last year. I too give thanks for you Lysa, Joel and Jim. I pray the body of Christ wakes up to all the suffering and learns how to take of the the mask of superficial spirituality.

@RoseyWhosoever 2 года назад

Praying for your mother & family 🙏🏼

@snobunni4808 Год назад

2 seconds in and i'm just floored at what I needed to hear today. god is good.

@OfficialProverbs31Ministries Год назад

We're glad you enjoyed it!

@karlapenera3187 2 года назад

Thank you so much for this word! My husband passed away May 2, 2022 and this helped me immensely to understand that everything I’m feeling is normal and that God is still doing a great work in me and my family! God bless you all!! 🙏🏻❤️

@ohidontthinkso 2 года назад

I am so sorry. Im grieving my husband moving out after an affair and i dont want my marriage to end... im holding space and waiting for him to find God. Its so hard and i grieve so much for him. I cannot imagine him passing away and truly be apart from him. I am so sorry and i hope youre finding comfort. 🥺❤️

@angelasturn 2 года назад

We just need the presence of the Holy Spirit to come and rest on us and heal us and get some deliverance from the trauma and strongholds (deliverance) .., then completely surrender your life to Jesus, ask God to help you renew your mind through his word but really his presence. The best healing is spending hours in his presence, human logic can sometimes make you stay in limbo longer, rest in his presence, find a prayer room set, get in your secret place, allow God to purge you don’t let him go until he changes you, fast, intercede, minister to Jesus, he’s the healer, he’s the deliverer, he Makes all things new

@Webbgurl2000 2 года назад

God doesn’t zap us. These things are helpful, but don’t remove the necessity to go through the healing process.

@lauriefaasua8777 Год назад

We are not made just of spirit…. We are made human as well. We must understand and learn our human side as well as our spiritual side. God will not do the work he already made us to handle… with his guidance we must navigate the human experience not ignore in a prayer closet. God will do what we can’t. But he will not do what he needs us to do!

@melnelly5918 Год назад

@@lauriefaasua8777 Agree. I have heard many people say all you need is God. When you've been through trauma you also need people. Plus an understanding of how to get well and to process what has happened with keys and tools which psychologists provide. Worship, prayer and bible are definitely the primary things for healing however people who think we only need God have never been through trauma. You need professionals to explain what is going on in the brain because it can be quite terrifying. I can say that God is and has healed me however it has occurred through relationship with him and people.

@dawn5315 Год назад

@@lauriefaasua8777 I love this addition to the post you are replying to-- I believe we need to help one another through broadening each others messages with more thorough considerations. Complex matters are often mistakenly shared with an oversight, often not yet fully developed for some, whether one lacks the skill of analytical contemplating or whatever-- perhaps a disruption interrupted their time or thought process-- whatever may it be-- so every bit of loving support we can give to one another is helpful. The ego can harmfully intervene in this outlook, so I hope to help settle our egos and nurture opening our culture to these acts of loving support. I'd say I'm an advocate of it. I understand there is a skill to it, but if we do not practice (and receive loving prompts of deeper considerations,) we stunt our abilities and our growth...so I encourage us all to practice the giving and receiving of broadening considerations from a loving place. I love Lysa's collaborative sessions and every one of them are so valuable in their contributions and the collective whole of their work. God is doing powerful things through this (podcast? : ) Please forgive me for excluding the names of the on-camera participants of the show, the therapist and the theologian. I have newly discovered this blessing, and the names are not on my mobile screen while typing this reply. Thank you to everyone who contributes to the discussions and vulnerably shares their personal experiences, their thoughts and their feelings!

@TammySquires-sr9ew Год назад

I want to know the truth & that’s why I go looking for it!

@womanofprayer7061 2 года назад

Lysa I have been watching your story, listened to you for years. You are an amazing woman of God. You did everything you could to save your marriage. Your divorce story will be used to help others as well. I don't know if you have considered divorce care or not but it's an amazing program that will help you heal as well.

@missmlb3842 Год назад

❤😢This is what I have been struggling with for years. Sleeping to numb the pain.. Sickness and death of my mother Death of my father Single and never married...49 years old Mostly everyone around me is either married with children or getting married and young...I work and serve at church...but this unbearable pain.

@sherryluxedreamtravels7966 2 года назад

Oh my, figuring it out, is SO ME! I just refrained from engaging in an act of "figuring it out" today. Glad I refrained & thanked God I did not go shopping for an answer that may have hurt.

@beverlydavis6253 Год назад

Thank you for this series. It’s much needed right now.

@OfficialProverbs31Ministries Год назад

Thanks for watching, Beverly!

@leahingraham5509 Год назад

Same!!!💓🙏

@tiffanywhitehouse5887 Год назад

I am so grateful for this

@vintagebeliever5023 2 года назад

Wow.. so nice to hear this from a spiritual view. Thank you!

@kimbers1238 2 года назад

I do the same thing when it comes to future problem solving. I wonder if that is a side effect of having a great injustice laid on you. For me the shock, confusion and heartbreak and to be honest being heartbroken over and over is so gut wrenching that I think we r trying our hardest to not be traumatized again.

@jld4870 2 года назад

Yes yes and yes. I am currently retreating from others due to ‘seeing’ the trauma of others-trauma sees trauma-and how out of their own fears choose to put a spiritual bandaid on it. This causes me great anxiety, it’s like asking me to continue to live in denial. I grew up in denial outside of the church, to find denial in the church is beyond discouraging.

@Webbgurl2000 2 года назад

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

@Webbgurl2000 2 года назад

That band aid is called spiritual bypassing

@Webbgurl2000 2 года назад

Sadly, the Church seems to teach us to “Fake it”. God never said for us to pretend.

@jld4870 2 года назад

@@Webbgurl2000 Aaah Tu just read your comments and am smiling big. I am currently reading ‘The body keeps the score’ it is a God send. I have many questions regarding mental and spiritual health…what I find encouraging from both perspectives is it is about authentic, safe connections. Sadly at this time I am not very successful at finding safe authentic community. So for now I will retreat-am blessed with desire energy and time to read the Bible-to ask God lots of questions and to learn about the pathophysiology of my brain so I can better understand my behaviors that trip me up on my path to loving God and my neighbor.

@marjorymsuku9312 10 месяцев назад

When I'm struggling with a general problem, and finally 'figure it out' - how to fix it, even just how it happened - I do feel much better after the figuring out... However I think I should stop hoping for the same result in trying to figure out "Why did you hurt me?" - like Lysa explained... 🙏❤❤

@coletteplatts7502 2 года назад

Thanks for bringing this!! Lysa why are we never enough to ourselves Always wanting to know WHY it happened how we can keep it happening again Stop shopping for more pain Love this 💕

@jld4870 2 года назад

This is beyond helpful. So many nuggets of wisdom AND comfort in speaking the truth and process of grief. I believe We may try but We can’t hide from it, we can’t medicate our way out of it. Though it stinks, it is ok to not be ok. This truth has allowed me to be not so hard on myself and others. And to stop trying to be perfect or put the mask of denial-spiritual or psychological-on. Much to learn in suffering. NOT easy but if we choose to walk through the valley with Jesus He WILL teach, grow and complete the good work He started in us. Jim you mentioned the body keeps the score-have you read the book? I am midway through and find it so helpful-finally understand some why’s of my behavior and pathophysiology of the brain and how sometimes I do not have control. Kind of like what you all said about we could not handle all the grief or trauma at once we would not survive it. It’s like when the brain literally goes into ‘shock/freezes’ we have no control over that. It has been said it is our brain protecting us but ultimately it is our merciful Father protecting us. Also curious are any of you aware of ‘The polyvagal theory’? Again thank you so much you truly are a blessing, I believe you give hope to so many by sharing the truth-bringing ALL of life into the light. 🙏❤️👆🏼

@denisel780 2 года назад

I cannot thank you enough for these videos. I am making a playlist of them to refer back to again and again. My husband and I are coming out of a season of so much loss. I am doing a lot of things to regulate my physical body but have not found much as far as Christian approaches that really touch on the devastation that you are speaking about here. Trauma. I feel so inspired by everything you shared. And I am so guilty of shopping for pain also. It does come from a place of fear, a false sense of feeling like I can protect myself, as long as I keep shopping everything should be ok. It is exhausting. Very much looking forward to the next video. Thank you!

@Ali76564 18 дней назад

Thank you

@brendarewan7441 11 месяцев назад

“We are not in Eden anymore” powerful.

@yeseniadiaz5146 2 года назад

Wow ! This has been very helpful as i walk through this journey of healing . forgiving and letting go . thank you for these sessions they have been a blessing and have help answer many feelings and questions ive had thank you

@g.siporin4000 2 года назад

Excellent! You look beautiful today Lysa!

@leanneparsons9493 2 года назад

I love this series so much! So much wisdom here. Sharing a thought- Jesus also “needed” To go to the well so that He could meet with the Samaritan woman so that He could give her living water… she became his first missionary!

@faithhopelove7286 Год назад

Thank you for this series... it's very helpful. Thank you for your testimony and bravery... Oh that's beautiful!!!! Grace for today, hope for tomorrow... and trying to figure out how and why? Not helpful... thank you.

@susanjmc8742 2 года назад

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing, so that others may embrace healing and walk out of the fire pits that life can surprise you with. God bless you all🙏🦋🌺

@kimrouse8548 Год назад

Could shopping for pain be things we run to for relief….even if it is just temporary? Like sex, drugs, and alcohol.

@marjorymsuku9312 10 месяцев назад

GOD: God on Demand... Quite appalling... but good to realise that we do do that sometimes. And maybe should do better going forward. Thank you.🙏❤

@viatrisnugent7077 2 года назад

Wow! This makes so much sense.

@catmations5631 Год назад

Instead of turning to the source of pain- turn to the source of life

@heatherfisher6536 2 года назад

Amen thank you

@micheletilton4422 2 года назад

Lysa, do you have the stages of trauma print out you use in these videos available? I believe it would be extremely useful in each persons walk through our own traumas we're trying to navigate. Thank you.

@sultanabutt2564 4 месяца назад

Through Lysa's testimony about finding the Lord as her husband, helped me to find him in that way too.

@shivonnahall8605 Год назад

This series is amazing! Where can i get a copy of the stages of trauma document that was shown through out the series?

@lindafriesz955 Год назад

Back in May of this year my husband ended up having an affair in April with another married woman we were married for 39 years almost their relationship lasted for a month and a 1/2 and he committed suicide when she broke up with him his Siblings are narcissist and he was a covert narcissist and it was very devastating what we went through me and my children and my grandchildren he had me falsely arrested and removed from my home back in April that gave him the opportunity to have an affair with that woman bringing her in-and-out of my home sleeping in my bed but she broke up with him and he killed herself and now I'm trying to put the pieces together but thank God with all his mercy he has given me peace in my heart I still struggle I'm not saying that I'm not and I'm not saying I'm not angry because I am But I need healing cause I never saw this coming

@OfficialProverbs31Ministries Год назад

Thank you for sharing part of your story, Linda. Lifting you up in prayer right now!

@rogerradunz8075 Год назад

Can a paradigm shift also be known as a misconception?

@mtlke09 Год назад

Love this video! Is it normal to feel like God is punishing you for maybe not being perfect in the situation? I know now my ex was emotionally abusive towards me but the last interaction, after 13 years of his in and out, I reacted. He had confessed he had been hanging out with another lady who he claimed was a friend but lied to me about. I had also found her personal belongings in his house while visiting (we were long distance as we had just reconnected). I had this emotional outburst that my ex used against me and gave me the silent treatment instantly that eventually the silence turned into months and I took as a break up. I had prayed to God to bring us back together and it was good for a month but then that fall out. I took all the blame and felt maybe God punished me and ended the relationship because I reacted and sent paragraphs of texts, so God took it away from me. I’m not mad at God but I do ask him often when I pray - did I ruin it God?

@ItsNearMellowL 3 месяца назад

Hello sister, I hope you've been doing well since posting this. I'm obviously not a counselor but I've had the same questions before. I had evidence of an ex boyfriend cheating on me at the time. I was livid and confronted him. This turned to a situation of stone walling and being totally ignored... Like they say hindsight is 20/20. Now I'm married often thank God that I didn't get married before to such a person. Being with someone requires being long suffering. A relationship that can be worked out requires being able to stand. Not to just clock out at the sight of disagreements or confrontation. It isn't healthy to go through that kind of treatment. I hope you have peace of mind, that the temporary outburst was not the reason behind the relationship ending.

@lisagoeke5025 4 дня назад

Not your fault. Reactive abuse. They create the problem by their behavior and when we react negatively they use it against us. Hope you are healing and in a better place.