This Clip Will Disillusion All Young Men 

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Growing up with 5 sisters, I quickly overcame the 'women are wonderful' bias that puts women, especially the pretty ones, up on a pedestal.

The more I understand women, the less I want anything to do with them

"When you looked at her, did you actually believe she was capable of psychopathic behavior?" Yes. Yes I did.

Pretty face does not mean she has a pretty heart

Modern dating to find a good woman is like dumpster diving to find a good meal

I have never been screwed over by my worst male enemies more than I have been by women in my life who supposedly cared for me.

My son was at the gas station and saw three women in what looked like they were putting antifreeze in the oil He approached the and asked if he could help. He got the “were INDEPENDENT women”, he laughed said good luck and turned around

"Just be nice and get as much money as you can before they realize how dumb they're being." -The thoughts of every woman ever.

I’m 42 years old. Never married and no kids. I’m 5’10, educated, successful, goal driven, fit, with average looks. I’ve had many relationships in my life and zero have been marriage material. NEVER put a woman on a pedestal and don’t allow women to deter you from your goals, and values. It’s better to be alone and happy than to allow disrespectful behavior. Young men, don’t get it twisted. There are good women out here, but don’t let women be your focus. Stay strong, aware and focused.

Men are in love. Women are in business - Many men are clueless about this...

I've been married to the same woman for 33 years, no divorces for either of us. She's highly imperfect, so am I. We've fought, yelled, recovered, and made a life together. I've always known I could trust her. I'd bumped into the bad ones in high school and college. Finding someone you can absolutely trust is critical.

Traditional gentlemen: no modern woman is good enough for you. No exceptions

When you start understand women you most of the time just feel disappointed.

girl: like bruh just take a chance, I am tired of men thinking they'll get rejected men: hi girl: uhh I have a bf They just want you to engage so they can get the attention and the ego boost of rejecting you

I'm not intimidated because I think they're greater than me, I'm intimidated because I think they're dangerous.

The rejections some of us get are so rude, that avoiding contact seems completely legit strategy.

It's truly over fellas

My wife's best friend about 30 years back was very bold with me, she said "women can be so mean that men have no idea how wicked and evil they can be." She also brought out women are extra jealous of other women. It opened my eyes, she was speaking the truth, the older I've gotten the more I've come to believe her advice.

I grew up with the same illusion. I thought women were virtuous, virginal, creatures. I worked hard at being an upstanding young man who always treated them respectfully. Boy was I in for a rude awakening. They will manipulate and walk all over someone like me, and they did. I hung on to the illusion for way too long because I wanted it to be true. Religion also took hold of me and I held a strong moral ground for many years. Maybe there is some small group of women out there like that, but I have yet to come across them. Looking back, I wish I spent much less time chasing women and much more time working on myself and my own goals.

As a woman, I also held this false perspective. Women can be awful, even as friends. I have learned to keep my distance and stop being so open and trusting towards other women because I wrongly assume they are sweet, kind & harmless.

Looks like an angel, behaves like a demon.

never underestimate a woman's ability to play you. I was messing around with a coworker in my old job, she was 19, I was 26 and even though I had 7 years on her, she still tried to finesse me and manipulate me. It didn't work, was kinda cute, but also shocking how she would straight up lie to my face like the best actor. It was very eye opening.

To quote a classic: "Don't try to understand women, Women understand women, and they hate each other"

Wifing up an American woman is like drinking toilet water from a Walmart bathroom.

Two reasons I don’t approach women. 1: I don’t find any worth my time. 2: I like staying at home.

I don't approach anymore, I've been disgusted out of it

Years ago, my friend and I had just relocated to NJ from MD after graduating college. Soon after, about a month or so after settling in, his girlfriend came to visit from MD. She was sweet, pretty, charming, etc, etc. One day, she and I were sitting in the living room, chatting. My friend was at work. I could sense from the drift of the conversation that she was ready to jump my bone. Thinking about my friend and the fact that this young lady took a bus from somerset county MD all the way to monmouth County NJ, I asked her what kind of man she was really looking for. She said, without hesitation, that her mother told her to make sure to find herself a good white man so that when she gets divorced, she'll make some money. That moment and that statement are still emblazoned in my memory, like prehistoric cave drawings. For the sake of context, I am Biafran - Nigerian - and so was my friend. The young woman in question was African-American

Men aren't scared of getting emotionally hurt when rejected, they're scared of the social administrators that swoop in to expel or destroy them when princess is offended that they tried to ask her out.

Someone asked me why I don’t go to bars to meet women. I said women that go to bars are not the type of women I want to meet.

The difference between Alexander and myself is that as a late middle-aged man I have learned not to assume anything about any woman, and before I form ANY kind of impression about her I need to see the video roll and see how she behaves. Getting older and having your testosterone settle down to a dull roar is a WONDERFUL thing. And I wrote this comment before he rolled the video on her.

The definitive moment came for me, not from the two train-wreck long-term relationships but from years of being a heavily invested father. Like raising a duckling in the palm of my hand, taking long walks around the town, telling my daughter everything about life, and investing in all her projects and endeavors. Trying to be a friend. Guys, even if you are there from day dot, you cannot change what is in their DNA. That's precisely why I don't date or meet anyone because I learned from my own daughter that they don't change, nurture sufficient introspection, or ever apologize or take responsibility for wrongdoing.

I had almost the same experience in my 20's. Girl I was dating for almost a year. Told me she was going to Florida with her married girl best friend because the friends grandmother had cancer and was in the hospital. Called the best friend's house to talk to the husband and get the grandmother's phone number. This was before cell phones. The best friend answered, and I got her to admit that my girlfriend was in Florida with an older man she used to work for. She had me drop her off at the airport. Broke something inside of me that day. Good lesson about what women are capable of.

"Guys, take a chance" Said a girl who prolly never really got rejected or approached regularly. 😂

Unfortunately, I'm so jaded that I was completely not surprised at all, and indeed, it just confirmed my negative view of modern women.

I was raised in a family where my father was abusive and I always wanted better for my mother. Now as a man, I've been taken advantage of by women over and over because I let them hoping they wouldn't. I'm usually always disappointed. Women are just as capable of horrible actions as men are.

My ex fiance used her gpa having cancer to cheat and get knocked up by her drug using HS BF. Now shes stuck with 3 kids and gained 75+lbs. Her friends say she's miserable AF.

It's like that quote "Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other".

8:50 we're not affraid. Many of us are simply disgusted.

I love the over-used 'just get some confidence!' like that's such a simple, or useful or eye-opening tip we'd never thought of before. Oh yeah, I'll just to go the confidence store and buy 5lbs of confidence, boom, done.

brutal. It hasn't even begun and it's already over

Being treated badly when you're young damages you for the rest of your life

This is why I like men 💀

Literally had the first clip scenario happen to me with my first gf who i had known for 7 years. I have never NEVER heard of a man going through that kind of effort to cheat, and they say men are trash. I'm starting to think the Muslims are onto something lmao

I'm South Asian, if you have aunties, you're redpilled very early. usually the lessons are taught on accident, but observing their behaviour, you learn everything you need to know.

A few times in life, I witnessed something bad happening to a man, the situation was truly tragic. What was puzzling was the gaze of their women; it was empty, expressionless, as if there was no human behind those eyes. They showed no sympathy or empathy towards that man. They seemed disoriented as if experiencing a lag. It was downright terrifying.

Its a real quandary. Attractive women can be so disappointing, to say the least, and unattractive women are, well.....unattractive.

Never never never use your mom or grandmother as an excuse or a lie that's a major red flag.

Sick and tired of men who don't even approach them? As if MeToo never happened.

Most are like the Mona Lisa, the closer you get, the more cracks you notice.

People are people. And power corrupts. And women have all the power in today's world

After a certain threshold of attractiveness, I begin to assume that someone will be arrogant/superficial. Not necessarily true, but it counteracts any other bias I might have otherwise had towards them.

How do we know she didn't make that up? She had a $700 incentive. Regardless, I don't trust anyone, women or not, until I start seeing patterns of behavior.

Satan himself is known as one of the most beautiful creations ever made, yet simultaneously the most wicked spirit to ever exist. Beauty does not always equal virtue.

My first girlfriend broke this feeling. When I realized she could be a huge asshole. Also love the girl complaining about not being approached. Girl you’d prob me too that guy for talking to you.

Right on Alex. Most women you see in person can be nervous to be around, but once you talk to them, that all nervousness goes mostly away and can make a friendship or relationship come to be.

I also thought women are better than us. We are fed with a myth about good and virtuous W and a myth about terrible toxic M.

I have lost all faith in women, love and relationships.

I was under the same impression about the morals of women. I grew up with morally strong parents and a sister who had a high standard of morals. Only through her friends' behavior and what she said about them did I find out that my moral stance wasn't appreciated nor reflected by most of the women that I encountered.

I knew this woman in my neighbourhood and after many years I decided to be her friend. She had an online profile without her face. The profile was first name bubble last name gum and description said "if you have Coco you can have a piece of bubblegum". Basically she sleeps with me for cocaine. And she opened her chat for me. 500 men from around the area. People I knew business owners, waiters, construction workers, married men, my high school bully and even a friend of mine. So eye opening. A bunch of them were haggling a price or asking if weed is ok, if money is ok. Or the ones that did have cocaine were asking for special play, especially sensual message

Damn it's valentines day and we already suffering. Love yourself fellas. Stay cold out here

When I looked at her did I think her capable of this? Yes, absolutely.

I actually did expect her to be a narcissistic creature. No shock there

A girl in my class was flirting with me so after class I asked her what she was doing for Valentine’s Day (today) to see if she was single. She said she wasn’t doing anything because she was seeing multiple people and didn’t want to give them the wrong idea. Was pretty shocked, kept the conversation going and it seemed like she expected me to make a move after she told me that. I walked away the first opportunity I got and hopefully won’t have to talk to her again. Dating sucks so much man.

🙏what I learned at a young age: there are lots of beautiful faces, but a beautiful face with a beautiful soul is rare.

I pretty much expected exactly this fatherless behaviour when I saw her 304 attire

Spot on Alex, what you say in this video is on the money! Lucky for me, I figured all this out in my mid 20's. When I now see a pretty women, sure I admire her looks, but have no interest in speaking with her or wanting to know her. At work, I talk to them as if they were a friend or family member and don't think of them as superior, they all have their own issues. Anyway, since figuring this out the hard way all those years ago, I feel confident and relaxed around women and am not intimidated by them in any way, especially the pretty ones.

*"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality." Seneca*

"A society can only rise to the level of the morality of its women" -Kevin Samuels

This is such a great video. Spot on. Salute 🫡

That particular case isn't about women. She is just a sociopath

8:41 Sad when you know that girls really can't fathom getting rejected over 100s of times. She says she is sick of men not approaching her but has no idea that men are 200 times more sick of approaching. And the guys that she wants is less likely to approach because he never needs to as he is one of the few out there actually getting approached by girls.

Nothing new under the sun I know it will be a bitter pill for youngers guys but this is the reality of modern women and dating in general

GREAT VIDEO BRO!!! THIS VID IS SO F-ING TRUE!!!

I love the examples you show us.

This Clip just confirms what I have Learned over time (I'm 61), women show a pleasant face to the world but when it comes to being intentionally cruel they far outstrip men, and the prettier they are the worse they are.

This video is pure gold for simps. But they won't accept it.

Evil women are why good men are long gone. Bravo. May the box wine and cats keep u company

These video clips represent very low quality women: disgusting hearts. Guys, please know a lot of women do not behave this way. I do have to say, Mr. Grace, that I am pleased with how you presented everything here. A lot of channels on You Tube encourage misogyny, ageism, etc. I thought I was going to find a bunch of, "hitting the wall," comments both within the video and in the viewer comments, but I was pleasantly surprised. Too many videos on You Tube encourage hating women north of 35, especially mothers, which is just a form of fear-mongering control and manipulation. You, Mr. Grace, presented content without encouraging hate speech. Kudos to you!

For me as a woman I know there is a shitload of bad men out there and also a shitload of bad woman. I feel like there is more bad than good. I’m engaged but find it so hard to trust completely. There are seriously people that marry to people they don’t like for benefits. I hope for the loyal and good ones like myself that we will find each other. Not all men are bad the same for woman. I think we really need to stop choosing our spouses for good looks. And look for the good souls out there.

Sugar and spice and everything nice; that's what little girls are made of. We all grew up hearing that while also being told that little boys are made of snips and snails and puppy dog tails. So even from childhood we're being taught that girls are better than us; they're made of nicer things than we are. From childhood girls are told they're special, a princess, daddy's little girl and it seems the world is centered around them. Boys are told to be quiet, to not run around so much, to not play so rough, especially by mom, who seems to want us to be more like our sister. Less so with dad but how often is dad even in the picture anymore? And even if he is then we're constantly told that we have to look after and protect our sisters. That if dad is away, or has passed on, that we're the man of the house and have to take care of mom. Girls are told how special and precious they are. Boys are told what they're responsible for, what their role\job is. To protect and take care of girls and women. That we're secondary to them and it's drilled into us from the start that our purpose is to take care of girls\women. Provide and protect. Is it any wonder so many men have something of an inferiority complex when it comes to women and tend to pedestalize them? We've been told for most of our lives that girls are special (and by omission that we're not) and that our purpose is to take care of women and to make them safe, secure and happy (I'm convinced this last one is impossible). That our wants and needs are secondary to theirs. It takes a long time to grind away a lifetime of programming if it ever happens at all.

“A rare spoil for a man is the winning of a good wife; very plentiful are the worthless women.” - Euripides

hi, im an unmarried woman here and this video shocked me as well. ive made mistakes and hidden things in relationships before that i shouldnt have out of fear of rejection (and immaturity too) but....this is crazy guys. i felt guilt and never took weak behavior lightly like this. ive never been willing to go this far or be explotive of my boyfriends just for the sake of power or fun. this was so cold and unfeeling. inhuman even.

I need to write my comment in Italian, my native language -" Che troiacce inutili, un mozzicone di sigaretta vale di più".

I agree with Alexander Grace - I grew up thinking women were more ethical and morally superior. Over the years that has changed. After my 1st divorce and the multiple times my ex cheated on me, left the kids home so she could go party... that disappeared. Then the internet got big and men started posting content on helping each other. Showed me all the red flags were there I just didn't know any better. Women will continue to lie to each other, but men are doing a fantastic job of trying to help each other. Everything Alexander says is true. If I had this advice back in the day you would have saved me so much. Money, time, a family that wasnt destroyed by divorce, and a lot of depression. I did remarry and have been with my wife for 18 years now. I was 28 she was 18 at the time we met. She isn't a feminist, amazing friend, and a wonderful wife. I wish more women were like her. She seems to be a unicorn among women out there.

Treat her (them) how you'd treat a suspicious homeless person: if they ask for money for food, offer to buy them a meal and if they turn that down and ask for money instead of what they claimed it was intended for, leave that situation - dude should have bought her plane tickets to and from FL and if she got upset, he should have realized it was all BS.

Very good thoughts! Thank you so much!

You are a very brilliant man. Thank you for putting out this information. Young fellas need to know the truth about what's being done and how we are being viewed and taken advantage of in society. Great work, brother.

Love when you said " go up to that pretty girl and you may find her annoying, she may not be as special as you imagine" ( well said and true )

She was exactly as I expected. The only green flag was no tattoos.

Awesome video, thank you.

In Brazil we call her looks a "standard girl". By the hair, makup, clothes, you can see she means business woman. She's no shy innocent girl. These standard girls are the ones going after the same 10% of men that all other standard girls also go, in hopes of a relationship.

This is such priceless info! Really appreciate you Alexander, FR!! 🙏

Thanks for the reminder

Every day I'm happier about being alone.

The grass is always greener to people with no grass...

GREAT summary of what is the difference between the illusion of what you believe versus the reality of what exists.... thank you and guys PAY ATTENTION.. All the VERY BEST!

When I eventually moved in with my GF and her 2 daughters, all my models, posters, collectibles didn't "fit" her tastes to be on display in our shared home, so I had to keep them in the garage. But when she tried to force me to get rid of my beloved cat, I put my foot down and said he stays! Years later, my cat WAS STILL WITH ME, when she and her brat kids were gone! My cat was the only loyal one in my life. Thus no matter if they are a dog or cat, they are more loyal to YOU than any human female ever will be, period!

My confidence and self-esteem improved when I stopped taking constant "hits" to it. I quit trying about 1993, long before the internet existed. I was an anxious wreck because I was constantly reminded by women that I had zero value. Then I realized, I had zero value to the New York Yankees or Chicago Cubs and THAT didn't bother me. Dating was just another game where there was no place for me. I concentrated my efforts in areas that made my life better. Work, the gym, fishing, golf. 30 years later I'm mentally and financially sooooooo much better off because I quit pursuing games where there was very little chance of success. An old adage in the trading of markets is to do more of what's working for you and less of what isn't. That works in life too.

My last relationship ended 5 years ago and this past week I decided to venture into online dating. First day, I got my first match. I sent a carefully crafted message to my first match, guessing the answer to her profile question. She told me I was wrong, but felt the need to call me a loser too. Then I remembered why I didn’t bother for 5 years.