THIS Is Why You Don't Ask Women On Dates 

@Alexander Grace Could you please make a movie on where to invite the girls in this pandemic situation? Most of the places are closed, and even if they are not they require you the "green certificate" to let you in. In winter months you loose like 3-4 months of dating because there is no place outside where you can meet somebody or take her out, because you cannot take her out in a nice parc when it's raining/snowing or there are minus 20 degrees Celsius

Dude for real I have been using Tiege for 5 years. Best skincare stuff ever

Lol how do you all complain about women not wanting to pay on dates but then also say that a woman is too feminist because she pays on dates and stuff and isn't trad anymore.

@@selenophile5256 Works the same way when men say they don't want to hook up with a girl with lots of sexual partners, but then the first girl that presents herself as "easy" is now the number one target.

@@revolutionaryshooter5001 lol

"iT iS nOt CoMpArABlE rEeeee!!"

Dying with dust in your lungs from digging coal at the age of 40 while the wife stayed home and complained about doing the dishes and getting to live to 70-80. Men have alowed these talking hens to profit from their grandma's hardships while pretending grandpa who sacrificed for the family was "the abuser".

Tell us you abuse women without telling us you abuse women.

@@checynhadi2815 Considering you're probably the sort of person who thinks expecting one's wife to have dinner ready and the home tidy when you come back from a 12 hour shift is abusing women, you are correct. Simply not in objective reality but rather your own garbled mind

@@checynhadi2815 Found the victim playing leech

Maybe the problem is their bodies inherently remember dating is a subset of courtship which occurs after a proposal.

if you bother,you are part of the problem

Keep in mind "Asking a woman" out means different things to people in different countries.

I have asked hundreds of women out to dates and I have never been to one. Actually, its just easier to invite a chick to your house for drinks. I have never understood this!!!

@@DC... yeah but take all the banana they want before marriage, no congruency either way

That begs the question, what exactly was that? I'm pretty sure she considers herself dating material but I have no understanding of what her goals may be. Obviously not long term judging by her words.

Naaah she aint even 5/10

There always a man that only thinks with his dick so this girls will just keep acting like this

A man who never smelled a coochie will smell something he likes and would put up with it 😭

@@MrTchupam Or whose self esteem is rock bottom

Modern "freedom" in a nutshell.

They are just trash now days. I see why men talk about smash and dash now...that's all they are worth.

women don't want to be responsible for ANYTHING but want every "advantage" that men have. They want the top level positions in Corporations but don't want to put in the sacrifices that it requires. She wants the same pay as men even if she doesn't do the same work or quality of work They want to have a military career and its benefits but cannot do the physical requirements or risks. They want to get a professional education but drop out of the job field when they start wanting a family and kids. They want to choose the man they want to be with but don't like it when he has a choice. They want a man to be responsible for the child when she is pregnant but she can abort it if she wants . She can lie about whether he is the father and con him into paying for a child that isn't his. And lastly she wants half (or more) of a man's pay when she files for divorce regardless of if she had anything at all to do with his financial success.

Makes sense why they love horoscopes so much

D'oh!

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which is even sadder because she isnt pretty, its the makeup

And hence these 304s preening while complaining in the click bait vids.

Tell her what you expect next time. You expect her be a good mother to the children you both are going to raise. That you're going to provide for her and your children a fantastic life-style, but she has to work to maintain her health and your childrens' health, and your home's health; Tell her if she can't meet these goals then she's brought nothing to the table.

She seems worthless then poor choice

👌 spot on.

Totally nailed dating/relationships in the 21st Century,with that statement.

Don't be fooled my man...feminine and gentle women know how to pimp the mind of their guy too. Their softness makes you want to be her protecter. And when they have you being their protecter they can weasel things out of you too.

Yes, women never become adults.. I am seriusly writing a Surrogate-Contract for when I want kids..

this guy is generalizing all women based on one tik tok loser.....what did you expect? lol........ women in other cultures still like dating and taking them out for dinner not here in north america.....it's done. Don't give up the fight though.....and stop listening to this guy.....he makes some great points but i don't take it to heart....if you are over 40 and still don't know the name of the game then you haven't been around women too much......

I disagree, women should have their guard up to unknown males. Seriously, they are vulnerable to us. And, yes, there is a sense of entitlement, but that orbits around the exaggeration of their gender importance. Maybe the matriarchy is a real thing, dunno.

Paying for a date has always been the role of a man. Sure. The issue is that beta males have engraved into women that they deserve expensive dates. The more expensive the better

@@williammentink i agree with being cautious when it comes to going out with men, but they think they're a universe's gift for being just born, and they inflate their ego by thinking that being asked out many times = being important, is not.

@@darklaw7635 chivalry was for chastity, you were exchanging your resources for a pure feminine woman(or at least not pair bonded to the whole bar). Those women are no more............

@@mercenary1881 yes and man STILL living in that fairy tale. You pay for the date but not to a fancy date until she proves herself

And what's funny is that men still have to adapt

Yay.🏳🤸‍♀️💣

Yes one TikTok has truly put the nail in the coffin and represents all women’s opinions.

@@revolutionaryshooter5001 like he said, the reason a lot of guys don't bother approaching or asking women out anymore is because it's so easy to come across as needy, a lot of women will not give an average guy the time of day, but they''' break their own rules for "hot" guys. all of a sudden "needy" or "creepy" behavior becomes just flirting

@@KerrBox92 This happens to both sexes though, more so with men because they’re more shallow and have less standards. If a girl is hot, she’s on the menu no matter her personality flaws for most guys. If a guy is hot, he’s only met half the criteria because personality actually matters to the good-natured women you want to be with, whereas with guys the only dealbreaker is if they’re clinally deranged. The way I see it most guys are creepy assholes and most girls are materialistic, cuz that’s the behaviours celebrated by society. The reason why there’s this idea that “women don’t know what they want” is because what they really want is at odds with what society pushes them towards wanting.

You got it

Get your passport men

If you're lucky, she'll divorce you before you end up paying for Chad's kids.

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If she's smart, she'll have kids with you, be a stay at home mom, and wait until you've been married 10 yrs so she can get child support, alimony and your house and car. Just remember to marry the dumb ones so she doesn't take you for everything you've worked hard for.

Tell us you a broke cheapskate without telling us you’re a broke cheapskate 👏🏽💀🍿🤣

@@checynhadi2815 What is your problem? 😐 He doesn't want to risk himself to be the provider of free food on a date with someone who has probably already settled in their mind that they are not interested in him. That's his decision. He has the right to make decisions about his resources. In the same way men are not entitled to control women's sexuality and reproduction, women are not entitled to get men's resources and protection. 🤷‍♂️

@@checynhadi2815 it's a good 1st sh*t test. If she demands an expensive meal, she just wants the meal.

@@checynhadi2815 That's an idiotic response to a guy guarding his wallet from useless dates and bad behavior from women. I see women would prefer men ignorant so they could play these self-defeating games.

and yet your still dating hmmmmmmm

thx

Stay single for life.

FACTS!!!

FAX

It's not true, Alexander is speaking on the women he dated or surround himself with.

dude, that's what I'm saying. someone or something has corrupted language to cause confusion. why would you need to get to know someone before going on a date with them? isn't that the point of the date? it's not like we wouldn't be able to schedule something in a public place in the daytime if safety is a concern.

As Alex said, it’s the responsibility of being interesting enough, pretty enough, on time, cordial, funny, and showing that they’re a grounded, well balanced human being that scares them. It’s often been said, Women’s kryptonite is responsibility. When they’ve got to be deeper than the layer of makeup on their face it frightens them to their core.

Absolutely keep it casual no pressure on them. Make sure she knows you don't need her.

ya i don't use the word date as well

Mutual hobbies and new activities can be awesome ways to get to know each other....money you are already spending. A dance class would make a great weekly occurrence and traditional dances have traditional roles...add practice at home once or twice...and you're well on your way to a great divorce.

That is wild.

😂😂😂Facts! Lol 🐓 🐓 🐓

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That's an insult to chickens

Lmao 🐓

I'm spanish so you can imagine 😂

It is less outrageous to me for a man to say well we fought all these wars so women should pay for dates, how would that go down? It would be chaos

When women got the vote in the 1918 Representation of the People Act in the UK it was also the first time many men also got the vote. If you did not own property man or woman you didn't have the vote up to that point. Of course f-ists will always say it is only women who are the victims of social injustice.

@Etienne de Vignolles We should go back to only property-owning men being able to vote.

@@matthewcoombs3282 I think it should go back to that. People who do not own property should not vote.

Another thing ignored is that all the men that fought in WW1 also didn't have the vote unless their had assets/property over a certain amount . The whole 'women were oppressed sermon' is flawed as it ignored the equal oppression of men in the same times. Additionally it ignores men's oppression to this day.

Alex is delusional here. He is assuming that these men have ALREADY a great social circle and that they are respected in that circle. Most men these in the lonely atomised west do not have access to a robust vibrant social circle. If they did they would not have to necessarily ask a person out on a date, as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM. And men are sadly so thirsty these days his FRIENDS, if he has any would never big him up, they would be conspiring to see how they could relive him of that lady, for themselves.

Not really laws would have to be remade and a lot of other things

Accept the problem is this might not increase human population united pacci I say Because that's why I got a lot more that I've followed with women than that Stuff you Think is right because guess what there's a whole lot more out there than that it's not just anything else say you won't date.

@@Gmal51 ??

@@kamrudkd "as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM." That's a very big assumption. I'm not looking for only friends.

Maybe, just maybe, our species is not meant to survive. Considering our penchant for war, the proliferation of nuclear weapons, the inevitability of global warming destroying our planet’s ability to sustain life, and the soon to be exhaustion of our planet’s supply of petroleum and methane, our species is on a downward spiral that it probably won’t escape. Given a long enough timeline, we’re done for.💀

Actually, asking the second time was too much, legally . I'd recommend not asking the first time.

I work in HR. Forget asking twice, basically you should just ask once. Maybe I'm overly cautious, but I ask once, and then if I'm told no just shrug and say "well if you change your mind let me know." And then leave it at that. The ball is now in their court and I no longer need to even think about dating them or not.

if only

FACTS

Nailed it.

It seems as most women in the past wanted a man for mostly material wealth and security she couldn’t achieve on her own. And while I think that is a bad situation for them to be in, why is it when they get elevated and liberated- the desire to commit to a man disappears? Evolution and biology has failed us. We men are supposed to find a woman, protect and provide. Now that our job in the relationship is removed, the women feel free to sleep around, being independent leaving a trail of men (that either are sociopathic and could care less about them) or men that realize what messed up entitlement and resource heavy desire they have. This has essentially been the game since the dawn of humanity. Women look good genetically and produce genetically viable children and men will be strong, capable, and provide food, secure shelter, protection, and literally anything the women and the offspring need to survive with or without him. We are wired to give up our own lives and be exploited by women/children. It’s a curse. *literally just now* I was sitting in my car writing this in a parking lot during a windy rainy day. The car next to me door swings open and hits my passenger side. And a dreadful anger starts to pour over me as they begin to leave. I hop out to check the dent. And lo and behold the car comes back and a modern attractive well spoken black women comes in a high pitched voice asking me if there was any damage saying that the wind pulled her door. Instantly I feel my anger diffuse. My car is a total beater anyway and I’m not one to feign some kind of grudge. But she knew how to play her cards right. In this simple interaction you can see how easy it is to be a woman and manipulate the world around you. In all honesty being parked where I was put me at risk. And that how men feel in life, constantly risking every fiber of their being to prove their love and court a woman. And a woman just has to sit pretty, act innocent, feign or pretend interest/love. It’s sick the way it is now. What is the next step? We all become independent and no longer care about healthy sexual lives or loving relationships? That’s a recipe for hell on earth where everyone is depressed and unwilling to love each other.

@@shotglassanhero ... Very well said brother. 👍

Alex is delusional here. He is assuming that these men have ALREADY a great social circle and that they are respected in that circle. Most men these in the lonely atomised west do not have access to a robust vibrant social circle. If they did they would not have to necessarily ask a person out on a date, as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM. And men are sadly so thirsty these days his FRIENDS, if he has any would never big him up, they would be conspiring to see how they could relive him of that lady, for themselves.

I understand the general idea but I don't think women should do 95% of the work. That is lazy, unrealistic a trying to take her out of her femininity because of the man's dear of rejection. It's up for the man to chase and pursue. And it has always been like that. Modernity is trying to blur the lines and that starts a relationship on the wrong foot. With unclear gender roles.

Checkmate.

Oh yeah, I'd like my protection money from services delivered, retroactively, effective immediately. Loosen up your purses and pay up, ladies.

we're better off dating Christian women that want to be mothers and respect their man

Even today, women's safe, comfortable, easy lives are provided by men. It's just that those men have been abstracted to "society" at large. But single women are net takers of all forms of social services.

@@misterysylver The only kind of woman worth dating today.

Seriously, life as a women really is as hard as they think it is, in their own minds.

Its because young women have tons of dating options

Pressure is all on her head though, if she doesn´t wanna to go on a date with you, just say no. If she wanna go out with you, what is the pressure?

@@avppr3451 shes texting 12 other guys so even if she 'really likes you', 'like a lot' she will forget about you 2 seconds later

I disagree on that love That I got for love women Because guess what there's a whole lot more They just taken all the abuse and suffering No need for aggression This there is a whole lot more different personality that I like It's better than I stuff you with think This is better because guess what there is a personality like that tha but I've got that will only change me.

@@avppr3451 Well Hey that's our choice for choice that's why I'm still a nice guy Yeah I've seen a lot of women that don't matter Guess what they have said yes That I say wins out everyone Altogether with yours

This is exactly it friend! You are only risking your own chances of doing those things.

Hmmm. But isn't that woman being prescreened by you? If you set up one you're friends up, should they then do the same for you?

@@williammentink The assumption has to be that they're all hypergamous. I don't believe in pre-screening when it comes to this.

I personally think if they're presupposed to looking for a higher tier man and always monkey branch up, there's nothing you'll be able to do about it anyway. You can't control her environment forever and I think you should purposely give her the opportunity to monkey branch, so then if she doesn't; you know you've got a good shot.

@@joshy2joshy It's like roulette basically.

That's a really sweet story but in reality you were match-made by that good old doctor friend of yours. Trust me, you weren't introduced to her by accident, an outside 3rd party took a good look at you both and realized you were compatible. Otherwise she'd probably have said "oh we're not married, we're just friends" or something like that, instead of going along with it. And you realized then & there she was the one for you. The rest is history, as they say. 😉 I envy you, you're one lucky sob. 😂 Wish someone took that pressure off of me and just introduced me to the one I'm compatible with.

I had that same exact feeling a couple months into a relationship. I thank God daily that I didn't propose. What a nightmare she turned out to be.

Lol. Definitely not alone

Hell no you're not alone, and don't let them enter your space until they make you feel comfortable! Some women out there will 🤡 on u! Keep your peace bruh.

I think that's unreasonably cautious. I've had my fair share of flings, If they seem trustworthy there's no reason not to bring someone home for consensual fun. If you're that worried, record audio, and don't do anything if you or her gets drunk

I never let anyone know where I stay. I'm not super hidden or nothing, I just don't volunteer it. It annoys me people showing up and interrupting my doing of nothing.

Yea I'm cautious about it but don't worry eventually you will meet people you can trust just don't give up and just keep your wits. You can usually know pretty easily if someone is Loco

Exactly. Feels rather extrovertcentric.

Apparently so. Eh.. maybe women should rein in their expectations. I for one am not putting in any effort to build a social network to catch a woman in like a spiderweb. Or to attract a woman with like a bowerbird's nest. Is the juice really worth the squeeze? I'd happily give up a few points out of 10 for appearance in exchange for less work and a woman who brings her own social network.

I'm a semi-retired, financially and professionally successful, highly educated 64-yo guy. I'm also an introvert and don't leave my house that often, other than for bicycle rides. Single since 2008 and in no hurry to mess that up. Extroverts expecting everyone to be like them is as annoying as the unrealistic expectations women have for dating the top 5% guys.

I prefer reality than something that is Inorganic such as social media.

Eastern women are way better. Russians, Europeans and girls in my country are way better than what these RU-vidrs say because they mainly focus on America or Australia. However girls like that are still everywhere and I think these RU-vidrs and internet give too much attention to these assholes. Internet give free speech to everyone and we forget that not everyone is good or smart. There are still good women u have to find and it's getting harder.

@@levi_exiled8579 interesting take

"hey how's your day been?" Tinder 80-95% ghosted IRL 0% ghosted and every time wanted to talk more than I Gotta say i had pretty normal pictures at tinder but still.

To be fair, most of the people on tinder are low quality anyway. It is meant to be a place to hook up with people, not for starting a relationship. If you want a decent girl, she isn't going to be on tinder.

That’s great

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I would never allow my daughter (if I had one) to get the impression she is a special, unique spoiled little princess. The thing that makes a girl transition into the most desirable kind of woman is discipline - her value is given to her at birth, and she damn well needs the discipline to uphold it and only sacrifice it to a man of substance. I would feel like a failure of a father if I were to find out my daughter had been passed around, and it is for this reason why I am praying that if one child is all I can have in life that it is a boy. You can be the best dad in the world to a girl and yet, she can find something bad that makes a strong impression on her and she's immediately ruined. I also wouldn't have children in a Western culture either. I'm not sure whether that is *as* stupid or *more* stupid than marrying as a man.

Reminds me of when my dad called me princess when I was a little kid. I eventually told him to stop because I thought it was too cringe. I would not say it made me entitled because he disciplined me properly.

That's the problem how many daughters are raised today. They are all told they are 'special' and 'unique', and that they 'can be anything they want', and they end up being narsissistic, pampered and spoiled adults who run from any responsibility, thinking they are entitled to everything. Boys on the other hand are told their whole lives that they're nothing special, there's always someone who's better, etc. That they need to work hard and make something out of themselves to be anything special. That's what all men should strive for. Don't bother chasing women, concentrate on yourself and be the best man you can be. When you accomplish that, you can pick and choose a woman you like, there'll be no shortage of supply. But unfortunately today, the supply and demand doesn't match.

Tell us you abuse women without telling us you abuse women….bro stay single…we don’t want your poor future child and wife to become a statistic……

@@checynhadi2815 @Checyn Hadi @Checyn Hadi You're not a real w. You're just a poor version of an m. Enjoy your wine and cats, cutie pie. 🍾🐈

Bro. I don't care if she's not asking me questions. I can do all the asking, I will only be disgusted if they are one word answers. After the I'm ready to clap her cheeks 😬

What's wrong with not having been in relationship at 35? I am sure that If she did and she was on a date with you, most likely there would be a chain of complaints about her past relationships. Or why they failed. I think it's wise to not have emotional or psychological baggage from past relationships

@@dearbrave4183 35 and not a single relationship? Red flags don't get any more red than that.

@@dearbrave4183 HUGE red flag. she is such a B that no man can stand her

@@dearbrave4183 The problem is that women dont count FWB or encounters as relationships, so even if they never "dated", doesn't mean they haven't slept around.

nothing lasts forever.

As a man, getting your female companion accustomed to your male friends is just an invitation for her to cheat with them. It's almost like you're bringing your woman into a swinger-group.

This is exactly why i strongly disagree with involving any girl into your social circle until you get a feel for her. Discernment is an important tool for any man's arsenal.

The woman must be made to understand that the things the guy does for her is not free stuff. These women feel entitled to the hilt.

@@IllDawgable i’ve been saying this for years, it’s terrible advice to bring a girl around your friends and get her used to them, because she will eventually get comfortable with him and all it takes is one day for her to be by herself at a grocery store and run into that friend that her boyfriend brings around, and then they secretly exchange numbers or social media and end up cheating

I hate it here

Yeah, but she's a young woman, and probably halfway attractive, so in her (and society's) view she's still more valuable than a good looking man with a 6-figure income.

Maybe get to work then?

@@checynhadi2815 Maybe read my post. "getting to work" isn't enough, and the amount of work she's putting in doesn't begin to compare. Also, lol @ thumbing up your own post.

no you don't. lol. get a job as a barista. all the girls are dating guys within their league and in their classes. the reason you don't know this is because instead of going out in the real world and interacting with real people you watch youtube videos alone in your apartment.

Agreed! WOW. I just can't believe you put words to this. The look of dread on their face is just astonishing, like they were into you so long as you weren't into them. Would this be considered diabolical or mental disorder? It really does prove that women were never meant to drift through life being constantly asked out, rather they were meant to settle down early on so that they weren't just single and hanging around men all the time. I'm sure talk of arranged marriage will start to pick up more and more.

Well that's you. This has never happened to me. She's either willing to go on a date with me or not.

@Eastern fence Lizard mtcheew. Chads are only a handful

@Eastern fence Lizard exactly. I don't know what that dude is talking about 🤣😂. Why will a girl who is attracted to you (obviously) turn down a date

@Eastern fence Lizard just confirming this is true. whenever they are down they will come, and come easy ;) whenever I have to convince them to go on the date they never put out, and I wouldnt want them to anyways because those are the ones that dont look like their photos

Exactly .

Evan if family law changed their insane to deal with.

On behalf of all women were okay with that.

Exactly. I agree with many advice Alexander gives on dating but not this one. How would I invite a girl I barely know to my circle of friends for the first time? Or bring her to my house? If you ask me that's even more pressure on her than going on a date with you. If she refuse to go on coffee or drink date with you it means she not feeling you. It's just that simple

Agreed. I like to make my intentions known from the start, by explicitly calling it a date, and if she can't handle that or isn't into it, then I don't want to waste my time with her. Seems that Alex is still in that PUA mindset of trying to "get" a girl (almost at all costs, often chasing causal sex once it becomes clear that she's not relationship material) rather than trying to find a girl who is worthy.

What is with this wife and mother obsession?

@@SonOfTheDawn515 A lot of men still want to find a life partner and have kids. Weird, I know.

@@ripace554 To each their own but it isn't universal.

@Nathan Grundler they won't.

It's chad only in 2024

Exactly bro, men don’t just start acting emotional and irrational out of the blue, either the woman is making him chase her more than she’s chasing him, or she’s always flaking on him, so any logical man is going to get emotional sometimes and go off on her to a certain extent to get her to either be honest about how she really sees him, or to change her behavior.

We all know that accountability is women's kryptonite.

Stop approaching women and let them approach you simple as that. Work on yourself and don’t even look at them until they show interest

My thoughts exactly.

@@gbd-oq1rz yes I never ask a girl out unless she has communicated to me in some way she likes me.

Thank you.

🙂@@florenbaron7111

Pretty much sums it up...

Basically

Agreed. I like to make it clear from the beginning that my intentions are romantic. The right women appreciate that, and the ones that can't handle it aren't worth my time, anyway.

Hey you're wrong song this is obvious why you don't have any dates it's not just friend trapped his own that's what the rest of the world wants you to think

@@whitemakesright2177 Wrong He is worth your time and think about it you could have absolutely did better with the guy and treats him better That's why he knows what you're thinking.

Maybe make it clear to her you want a relationship?? You know it’s called communication.

Oh my god, such a PICK ME!!!! Just joking around. You and your husband sound like you have a healthy relationship. Men are pretty simple: s*x when he wants it, peace, and supporting behaviors (cooking and cleaning while he does the "man" stuff you and your family need, and taking care of the children). In other words, optimal division of labor given the innate differences between men and women, as well as managed expectations. As long as he stays on his purpose and mindset, and he takes care of you, everything should work out well. Here's to your happy family!

Well yeah it works, that was the default state of the world for the majority of recorded history. Human beings as a whole only function well with each other when there is a beneficial mutual exchange. You even see this with extroverts and introverts, they both bring something to the table that other one is lacking and they both value those things in each other. Problem is nowadays women view men as some kind of life accessory that has to meet a list of requirements instead of perspective partner to progress through life with (both the good and the bad). The simple fact that 90% of college educated women initiate divorces tells you all you need to know about the state of things.

And this is how it should be! Congratulations.

If I didn't already know of a few good couples like this, I wouldn't be able to believe this.

If you have any sisters/cousins, toss out those phone numbers.

I see how that could be awkward, but if you are just the kind of person who brings new people to stuff, it shouldn’t surprise anyone. Bring guys too! Make parties happen! Invite 20 people to an event. Be the mastermind of the group

Been there, I can speak from experience it can bother friends. They start to feel offended that their company isn’t enough and if it’s a different girl every couple of weeks it can start to look bad or superficial. Friends can also be jealous or just not get along with the girl or guy and it kills the mood. It’s better to have some moderation in bringing new people into a friendship group.

@@PussInBoot414 Communicating/ letting your circle of friends your intent would be key.

And this is exactly why i stopped doing it, taking unknown girls to social events and gatherings. Also, meeting 'MY' friends or family etc, on first date type thing is not exactly what they like. I know from experience. They, (toxic femininity) have really made this whole situation hard for the majority of guys and men

It's only awkward if you don't own it.

Men are objectified financially...wont hear women complaining about that tho

you dont HAVE to have all those things, but the truth is if you are living your life correctly, you would naturally start to acquire these resources. these are signs that you are a mature adult. the fact that you are bitter and angry about this is a gigantic red flag. you dont have to have a girlfriend, but if you want one you need to bring something to the table.

@@kennedyhair8434 the above reply is yet another attempt to deceive and trick men into a trap. According to this womanist, one is _not mature_ unless you have things to provide and offer/give away to a female. One can not be mature under any other circumstance. One is also apparently _not living life correctly_ unless one starts acquiring resources for a future female that will take at least 1/2 of men's stuff while generously offering nothing. One simply can not live life correctly otherwise. How do we know that? - well, it's the truth - so speaks Kennedyhair84. LOL

While the ONLY thing women bring to the table is sex, and even then they don’t need to be sexually aroused to make love, whereas the ONLY way a man can make love is if he can maintain an errection long enough, while all a woman has to do is lie back

@@randommotion8907 "a ReAl MaN sHoUlD bE hOnOrEd To Be My PaY pIgGy"- random feminist

Because they are biologically wired to be gold diggers and children in the head.

@J King I'm only 5ft 8.

If this comment is even real ... They're illogical creatures. No point trying to change their mind with facts, it's counterproductive and a waste of your time. Just say something like "Oh ,ok. Interesting."

@@andrewrobertson3894 I prefer: "You're wrong." And enter into no further conversation about the matter. This was not an attractive woman anyway - quite the opposite.

@@Uvray You should have asked her if SHE would date a short guy. And watch her eat her words. It's likely she was just virtue signalling.

@J King well she was a little shorter than me. I think she herself has a personal psychological issue where she doesn't like to feel dominated. And that's absolutely fair enough. But we all know, especially in the bedroom, most women love it.

if you were truly working on yourself, then you wouldnt have such a toxic attitude towards women. you need therapy.

@@kennedyhair8434 shaming tactic wont work.... but you just proved my point, so thanks for that

@@kennedyhair8434 how is ignoring women having a "toxic attitude"?

Big facts

You slaying out here bro?

and given people were in the same freind circle the fact that a person could socially behave was given because if not that person wouldnt be in that friend circle.

@Eastern fence Lizard yeah definitely i really see the difference the internet is making, socialinteractions are less easy sometimes but we just have to push back and be genuine nice people and show that deep down everyone just wants peace.

Look It's a whole lot more out there than just sitting around doing nothing I have a whole lot more on women And convision about dating and being friends But if they want to be just friends or not And of course women can be friends with men And in marriage what they can do in dating they can also be friends as well.

And me I've been friends with women

And I've been dating women Say there is no pressure about dating and being friends see dating changes people.

Do you mean getting to know the girl through arranged dates? or Do you mean hanging out with the girl and getting to know and understand her as a simi casual friend first before you get serious and take her around you close circle?

Alex is delusional here. He is assuming that these men have ALREADY a great social circle and that they are respected in that circle. Most men these in the lonely atomised west do not have access to a robust vibrant social circle. If they did they would not have to necessarily ask a person out on a date, as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM. And men are sadly so thirsty these days his FRIENDS, if he has any would never big him up, they would be conspiring to see how they could relive him of that lady, for themselves.

Alex is delusional here. He is assuming that these men have ALREADY a great social circle and that they are respected in that circle. Most men these in the lonely atomised west do not have access to a robust vibrant social circle. If they did they would not have to necessarily ask a person out on a date, as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM. And men are sadly so thirsty these days his FRIENDS, if he has any would never big him up, they would be conspiring to see how they could relive him of that lady, for themselves.

Or how about this, put her through the fire, dangle all the fancy crap, social cicle, trips, etc, and see how quickly she dumps you. Saves time and get to know her quick. If she passes, you'll know.

Dude's giving the worst advice possible and acting like he's Einstein.

This sums up how I feel about dating now. I'd be happier living my own quiet life than trying to be a superhero so other people like me more lol

@@HarrisonLanes One of the things that irks me the most about women is they can't be still or allow you to be still. They can rarely do the daily grind and be satisfied. It just seems like if you aren't constantly progressing or otherwise entertaining their whims they become unhappy or dissatisfied with the relationship. They all want a rich busybody who's time and attention is pulled in 10 different directions....but they also want you to point that attention at them whenever they want it.

@@oldscratch3535 precisely the issue, men should draw the line and not conform.

@@denverulland9919 See? You understand how to get women. Just be better and have all the things. Duh.

Alex is delusional here. He is assuming that these men have ALREADY a great social circle and that they are respected in that circle. Most men these in the lonely atomised west do not have access to a robust vibrant social circle. If they did they would not have to necessarily ask a person out on a date, as quality women from within that social circle would have already perhaps approached THEM. And men are sadly so thirsty these days his FRIENDS, if he has any would never big him up, they would be conspiring to see how they could relive him of that lady, for themselves.

So you invite women to martial arts class for the first time meeting officially?🤣🤣

Hello? Based department?

I think this is precisely right. Sadly, this isn't even promoted in christian circles. Most of those girls are either sexually active, or so locked up sexually that they are fridged and scared to to affectionate at all. Either way, it doesn't work well.

I'm more liberal when it comes to sex, but I can attest that having sex too soon ruins the courtship dance because it weakens the sexual tension. Any good love story NEEDS sexual tension. You can't wait too long, or it shows a lack of vitality. Alternately though, you can't do it too soon or else the tension and excitement ceases.

I would agree in a community where sex is expected, but if premarital sex is considered immoral then you have a sign of integrity. My wife was a virgin on our wedding night, but I tell you, we made out often for an hour at a time or more. The tension was real and palpable. It is the road that is tougher to travel that demonstrates vitality.

@@breakingthemasks ....That latter example doesnt exist at all. Its really just women being sexually active.

Ah yea more submissive and easier to control and don’t forget more wives

Once the right to vote is granted, collapse is not far down the road.

I like the sentiment, and taking responsibility is masculine trait, so you are probably a decently masculine guy. However, there is only so much "responsibility" men can take on. At a certain point, we need make women act how they are supposed to act. This is what shame culture used to be for. Now there is nothing keeping women in line.

@@paccawacca4069 AKA unfettered hypergamy.

@@paccawacca4069 those Muslim guys would get them in line, alright

@@paccawacca4069 I assume that's what he means by "stopping this crap" - putting women back in line. If all men collectively said "enough!" then feminism would be over tomorrow. Women have no inherent power over men - they only have persuasion. Our current society is completely upheld by feminist/beta men.

Yes, but the problem that Alexander failed to address is whether the word "date" is the actual problem. I've heard people say you should ask her "want to get drinks?" but don't use the term "date". Something about that word makes women uncomfortable, like you're asking to be in a relationship. So "get drinks" means a low key date without anything more. That's what others here are saying.

Exactly

“That sounds like slavery with extra step”

Oh but men aren’t…🥱💀🍿

@@checynhadi2815 they dont generally

I definitely agree. And yes, it is an odd thing that high quality girls seem to go out of their way to be hidden. I've noticed that as well.

This is one reason muslim women wear hijab. Muslim ppl believe it is protection for society/woman. As they cover their beauty it makes it more important for them to develop their personality, morals, intellect, to be defined by. This makes them plesent to talk to and hold real conversations around shared values, beliefs and long-term life goals. It prevents ppl getting a superiority complex based on superficial trates. Keeps ppl down to earth, modesty. Helps to prevent insecurities trying to maintain unrealistic and unsustainable beauty standards Peace x

@@breakingthemasks It is most likely due to the whole “not trying to attract attention”. If they truly are worth it, then making it easy for any guy is a bad strategy. I fully understand why they would want to be invisible. It’s a control issue. They don’t want to feel as if a man can have power over them even if they are sort of wired to be feminine and open to some “high quality” man that would be her counterpart. They still want that guy to discover her and jump through hoops.

​@@shotglassanhero I think they do but as he says in another video ... women will always be women. She will expect the right man to find her with a hot banter and make it fun/interesting. She expects this guy to show up with the full package. Like women have social rules that they will not break no matter what. This happened to me where a woman was trying to catch my attention but I did not really know how to positively respond so ... nothing happened and it just blew past both of us. Like she will desperately want you to jump through the hoops, but if for whatever reason you do not make it, she will still walk away. So in the context here, this high quality woman will expect the man to find her ... And for a man, how do you find a woman that isn't anywhere to be found(like doesn't go on dating apps or you don't know anybody in her social circle). Well you rely on lottery luck(random bumping) which in its own has a very low chance of success. And sometimes it's this woman who saw you and just put herself in front of you out of the blue because she is interested. This always blew me out of the water because it's at the time I least expected it. Like Alexander explains in his other videos, every woman have a bit of the "Cinderella" fantasy where she expects to be found by Prince Charming. Like this is my experience that most high quality woman will do absolutely nothing to expose themselves and make something happen but yet they still remain single and claim to not be able to find a good man. But yeah like Alexander says, it depends what metrics you use when you say "single". That's obviously if you screen out all the dudes who never had a chance with her but still tried lol.

​@@kamrudkd I agree that's a much more functional and better way to promote respect. Because otherwise like you say, the entire value of the woman is put on her looks(by herself and all her orbiters). Never realized until now that this was the purpose of the hijab.

There is probably a lot of truth to this. In my Blue Pill days, I was dating my second GF who had much more experience with guys than I had with women. A few months into the relationship, I bought her flowers. She was disgusted by it and mocked me for doing it, saying the flowers were ugly. She had so many guys buy her flowers that it wasn't special, and she even took it as a sign I wanted more from her. Honestly, I was just trying to be romantic and brighten her day. Her behavior deeply troubled me that a woman would be that disgusting, and I never bought her flowers ever again. I'm sure that flowers had some kind of trigger in her mind, likely involving getting hurt by a prior guy. But still, if she cannot handle getting flowers, then she's too damaged for me to be with. Women were never meant to date multiple guys or even be in failed long term relationships, it just ruins them. Men get hurt but can recover somewhat, while women cannot recover.

Sounds like a low quality woman..don’t be desperate there are high quality women out there and they sure are not on the internet.

Pretty sure u could physically put them in line too if they spoke out of turn? 😂

@@predata252 and they actually become stay at home moms against 😂😂 this sounds amazing

That's fine but the girl has to be fit, fertile and 20 -25 years old. It looks like you will have to date multiple women [do a Leonardo DiCaprio} to stay in the optimal age range that you would truly desire.

Giving them the vote has effed everything up.

@@thomashowardmd247 "perhaps it should have been the rule of wrist!" Hahaha

The only problem with that is if there really is a conflict. You already picked a time.

Yeah just split the bill

@@sarahjane542 It's 2021 and the media narrative is men don't have to be masculine anymore. Blame the attack on masculinity.

@@sarahjane542 It's secure and masculine if you don't pay

@@sarahjane542 Here are some of the things men bring to the table. Respect, leadership, providing, love, patience, encouragement, friendship, consistency, teamwork, interest, responsibility, security and protection, new knowledge and experiences, sexual satisfaction, laughter, fidelity and loyalty, flexibility, teaching, and honesty is what men usually bring to the table.

@@ccoodd26 got ‘em. 100%

Taught to be separated from reality by cultural Marxism, woke-ism.

Yeah, as soon as she pretended that we were living in a different era and that I owed her a damn thing, I noped right out.