''What Do You Have To Offer A Man?'' 

Women are not worth a man's time, money, and peace. I checked out of dealing with women.

This is so spot on but I'm sure people still don't see the cartoon like scale of the misandry and nonsense. I'm surprised you hold these truths and the idealism you have promoted at the same time.

@@DiamondDM13 the intent value is true but if say it requires that they are minimum level of not a terrible person

But they DESERVE .........

BASED

"I'm not an object" What do you bring to their life? "Myself, I am an object"

Right

They only have one brain cell 🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆

She describes herself as a series of holes

Women these days are dumb af seriously. Men want more than a stanky slit

Just being a woman isn’t enough when you have all these demands. There are plenty of females out there. A hole isn’t uncommon.

Never really heard a man with a long list of demands.

​For long term relationships: Every man's required list: Don't be repulsive to look at Don't give me a headache Sex Additional options that set you ahead of the rest: Cooks Cleans Intelligence Humor For short term flings: Various physical attributes Sexual availability Hope that clears things up

lol I love how we always have to bring up "well men better have this and that TOO!" newsflash, this is predominantly a FEMALE issue, not male. We arent talking about men right now, but delusional modern women.

​@@johnfisher8401yeah. It makes about as much sense as saying that men _also_ need to stop expecting women to pay for the first date.

Dear Sir, you nailed it. Being a team is the center of a relationship. Being best friends, have anothers back and support, working together for a good, lovely life, stay loyal, loving, tender, interested and willing to solve obstacles. Listen to each other and try to meet the needs. Respect and gratefulness to have each other. That's love and that's what works.

Amen, brother. And great job achieving 80 years old and 56 years of marriage

No sir. From the day of marriage until you age out of the ability, sex is an absolutely critical component of love. Modern women use their sexuality as leverage instead of sharing and growing it with their husband. You did not marry in 2000, 2010, or 2020. Economics are a huge issue. Men are the problem. We continue to do all the infrastructure and standard of living maintenance jobs for less and less money. For now. Our sore backs and stress keep everyone air conditioned and eating. For now. Young men are not entering skilled trades in large enough numbers to replace those retiring. Women have been lying to and using men at a growing rate until younger men have pattern recognizied it and simply pick video games. Sadly, everyone will pay. If you think men aren't the problem, ask yourself, why isn't paternity fraud a crime with mandatory prison time? Why do we allow income based child support? Why do we allow women to vote, but NOT be legally required to register for selective service???? The 45-80 year olds allowed society to collapse and seem content to blame spoiled entitled kids. Y'all bred an epidemic of single moms, inflation, stagnant wages, television addicts, sexual dysfunction, moral bankruptcy and get to enjoy your golden years as the youth pays for your apathy. Oh, and thanks for that national debt too.

@@ppheard1254yep, because it isn’t ever going to happen again.

Yes it is more than just Sex, however a successful relationship isn't one with little or no sex

Outlook not good. We may be the wrong kind of screwed.

At 60 I am married for thr second time ….15 trips to the Philippines "..ideal wife is zero bodies .. strong male role model slender with slender mother 20 to 24 , seek global

As a fellow man, my list of requirements is steadily growing. Not because I think I deserve it, but because I’m making sure that by the time I meet someone who meets my criteria, she will have many more much better options than me. This ensures my monk life remains on track.

Fully agree brother. 43years old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible 304s women were since high school. I still till this day dont understand why men get serious with women if women are such trecherous creatures?

The holy trinity right there rayray

Better than gold 🙂

I bet you could say the same about yourself. What tangible things does she bring to a relationship besides being a decent human being which is the bare minimum.

@@anonymoust3611 You're absolutely correct. In fact, my wife took a gamble on me. I was a piece of work and needed some counseling at the time. (I had family issues and was not long back from Desert Storm with the Marines.) She must have seen something worth working with. In fact, I had some ambitions I was pursuing and she told me she was afraid that she would hold me back from those. Since then, we've raised a family and have both helped each other with our own ambitions.

@@elgoogsucks9005 Still winning. Every day is a joy.

Sounds like you have a KEEPER !! You are so blessed, brother. Be grateful, for sure.

They all want drug dealers then?

Gold diggers looking for a human ATM machine

Superior rights without accountability.

It's feminism. Femininism is different.

-equal- more rights -without equal- but no responsibilities

Hypergamy is not feminism. Women have been doing hypergamy long before feminism.

No it's not@@Ou8y2k2. *Feminism is only the amplification of the bad side of female nature.* Every woman is a feminist when it gets ROUGH. Ever heard of a woman taking it easy on her man in Divorce court? Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeit mofo. I'm 60. Heard about 5 examples. Lifetime. Feminism is just projection. You know what the patriarchy is? *It's what women **_would do to us_** if they could* because females are in-group biased & have no idea that men are biased _towards_ them... mostly because they have VERY little empathy for men (women w sons / lots of brothers often excepted.) As for responsibilities? hahahhahahahahahahahahjaHAhahahha. Female kryptonite. Let me think back on the times I've heard a woman say a bad relationship was her fault..... still thinking.... you be here in a week? The median man vs. the median woman? Oh, that man is a LOT better person than her. Men dream of being the hero. Women dream of being shitty & getting away with it. Doubt me? Watch a dozen rom coms. (men may be worse on _average_ though. Our outliers really drag us down there. There are some SUPERSTAR shitbag men.)

The notion that women are better at emotions and consolation is absolute bullshit as well. Women bullshit eat other when they are emotionally distressed in order to make them feel better, not to solve the problem. Men have much better empathy.

Yep. I just can't be bothered anymore. I'm about having fun and can't be bothered anymore. Not worth it. Start asking for therapist pay rates and set the clock.

I agree. Most women are just like distressed and needy children.

Yet, they say that they are more "emotionally intelligent"......

​@@clownshoes6137 women love to virtue signal. Truth is they aren't what they say they are. No emotional intelligence or intelligence at all for that matter.

All of these things you mentioned are what is supposed to happen in a relationship no matter what for both the man and the woman..with that being said so a woman is just supposed to bring the things that are supposed to be a given in a relationship while the man has to do them as well plus everything else the woman demands from him and she does the bare minimum and thinks that is all she has to or is supposed to do..this is why men are staying single they don't have time or want to deal with it because it is insane for a woman to think that she is enough for someone..why don't women see the man himself as enough but expect us to see a woman as enough when they offer nothing but themselves..women don't use the same logic for the man as they do for themselves because it won't benefit them to do so..

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"Intense" Yeah I'm gonna say no to that.

Good luck with that.

And now, what? They’ll give you divorce, take your children and all your stuff 😡

That's cognitive dissonance, live.

If you're above the average range of attractiveness, whether a man or a woman, you WILL GET prince/princess treatment from women/men that rank lower. If anything you should have phrased it differently and ask her if she has anything to bring to them other than her looks, which I presume were pretty good for a 14 year old girl to get guys her age attention.

the thing is women don't really *need* to offer anything; hence all the attention while offering nothing.

Can you blame her? The reason she sets the bar so high without bringing anything to the table is simple: it's because she can. Men set the bar very low, and that's why they get scraps.

​@@raytracer5726BS, look at how men are shamed if they claim any standards...

He's a bit wrong though. I can't love a woman if she doesn't provide sex

Unconditional love is absolute B.S. All love is conditional. No one is Jesus.

​@markalbert1283 that's the expectation of a lot of women these days.

@@markalbert1283 Women want to be with Jesus and behave like Satan.

@@markalbert1283 You think Jesus had no conditions? Are you kidding? I can't even list them all.

My Grandpa to his dying day, literally put the needs of my Grandma above his own.

Sounds wonderful. Why did you part company?

Update?

@@TPGGGG__ Yeah, she is trying a little more but it's not to where it needs to be yet, I will keep mentioning it so complacency does not set in. Failing that walking away is always on the table

@@thisorthatquizzler the best way to keep your wife/gf interested in relationship is by keeping her on her toes all the time. The moment you give up control of ur relationship to her, she will deffo derail it.

My wife cooks cleans and pays half the bills. She covers the rent. She often tells me to take a nap while she makes dinner. She will do anything I ask her. We've been married for 15 years. She's my best friend.

@@friedfrawg congratz, you hit the jackpot bro. You belong to the top 0.01% of the lucky men on earth.

Good for you, brother.

Good job brother 🤜🏾🤛🏻

Well done, Sir!

It is the same when a women demands a gentlemen and you ask want does she in return. They know nothing to say... expect "themsevles"

Mixing solipsism and feminism was a fatal mistake

You better stay in Asia because once they get here they will see opportunities and become just as our women.

How do we organise? Can you send me an email?

​@@alexandergrace5350oh yeah, put it on the books! This podcast will be one for the ages. Let me get my popcorn ready tho

any chance you can leave a link of the podcast AG commented on in this vid, would like to hear her laundry list of requirements lol

​@@alexandergrace5350this is one episode i wont miss

@@blairrighton6270its the podcast of the op. Called whatever podcast

Sheesh man. Some of your stories scare the crap outta me 😅

Women want unconditional love. Men want unconditional respect. If she doesn't give you respect, she doesn't get the love. Move on to the next!

Here is the thing I have noticed with mom's and dad's as well that further proves your point. Once you get to about 10 years old your mom telling you good job means absolutely nothing. "Mom I could have sucked and you would tell me how well I did". Your dad on the other hand tells the truth or at least doesn't lie to try to build your "self-esteem". That unconditional love and unconditional approval are toxic without a counter balance.

Or her father drilled into her head that she is a princess, deserved the best and could do no wrong.

Sadly, I've experienced women like this, so as ridiculous as it sounds. I truly believe you

What drives me nuts is how they present the data in the rare instances they do cover it. Women: “Men aren't economically attractive” Reporter: *Zero follow-up questions* The reason why there is no follow-up is because the narrative would be dismantled. How are men outearning women, but are not “economically attractive”? Oh, it's because the “economically attractive men” are making twice as much as the average man and the women don't want the men who are making only slightly more.

To a controlling tyrant, mutuality, fairness and decency are offensive. It's not really surprising.

"Privilege is invisible to those who have it" A catchphrase of feminists who constantly tell on themselves through psychological projection.

@freudianslip2192 women want the luxury of being able to quit their jobs and stay home and raise the kids. If she is living comfortably on 50,000 then x2 is 100,000. Add in how many kids each at 250,00 for 18 years and that's how much the man needs to make to provide for the family.

@@stewiesaidthat The keyword in your statement is “luxury” Most people are average. This idea that we just have the “luxury” of having things is destroying society. I would love to have the “luxury” of driving a Lamborghini instead of my Honda, but I'm an average person and that's not in the cards. I would like to have the “luxury” of retiring at 40, but again average. I would like to have the “luxury” of a beach home, etc. I think people need to start understanding there's fantasy and reality. I can certainly strive for those things and I do, but just that being the baseline expectation is ridiculous.

Facts. I own a home mostly paid for. She probably comes with nothing. Therefore she can divorce me a week later and have half a house.

Never jump out of an air plane with a parachute that works 50% of the time.

@@KhallDrake Dat prenup doe

Prenuptial. Yours, mine, ours. 1 page. If you're 7 digits, or over half of 6, there are many, many ways to protect yourself.

​@@queasyweasel The paper it is printed on has more value than the actual prenup. Any judge with half a brain can nullify it. You will end up losing half anyway AND pay for her lawyers expenses. The winning move is to not play a rigged game.

And you got the WRONG impression of that 18 year old girl. It is what Alex wanted you to get by how he cut the clip off where he did. He did her a disservice and she'd be mortified is she saw this video because none of it represents her true self. Alex might even get sued for defamation if this were viral. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. That girl's goal is to be just like your Filapino wife

I married a Filipina, now been 35 rotations of the bright orb

I agree, I spent three years in Subic from 89 until the bases closed. I lived most of those 3 years with a woman who, although stunningly beautiful, was an absolute nightmare. I met my wife right after I left the Philippines, who is also Pinay, but was a 3rd year student at UNLV at the time. We've been married 31 years, and I never look back.

@@mjn3544 Ah yes, showing women the words that came out of their own mouth is defamation. Women and accountability. Less compatible than oil and water.

There is no god. Richard Dawkins.

/r/thathappened Did they all clap?

Tell me more haha, how did she react to your laughing? I would love to hear

Actually "I have a vagina" is a perfect answer. I would take that as meaning "I provide sx" which is really just about all many men need.

Her: "Ummm, I have a vagina." Me: "Yeah, most people do."

Woman 😹☕️

how many College Grad girls ever changed a diaper

@@reasonablespeculation3893 they all loved babies and dolls when they were kids, and wanted to help mom and learn. But they get brainwashed out of it.

@@customsongmaker Bingo. Anyone who has daughters or younger female family members will notice how girls get LESS feminine as they age. They start off nice, sweet, caring, nurturing, easy-going(relatively), play pretend mother, pretend to raise babies with dolls. Even their mannerisms start to become much more masculine as they pass 15-17, these are things which are biologically engraved in them. So it's most likely cultural or environmental pressures that are changing them. Females are most feminine around 11-14, which biologically makes sense, they're starting puberty. But then something happens and that starts to reverse, and they become MUCH more masculine. This to me is evidence of Societal pressures(brainwashing)

Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. It is clear from the actual Podcast that that 18 year old girl thought about it a lot.

Except that girl is NOT one of those women. For an 18 year old just out of high school she was quite practical and clearly has thought about marriage and children extensively. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it

​@mjn3544 You're the exact kind of person no one wants anymore

Dayummm. Sorry. For a second there I thought she was the special needs child.

💯👏

Exactly. Women mature more quickly but level off, IMO. So at 25 the guy marries what from his perspective is a woman more mature than he is even if she's chronlogically a few years younger. Then at age 40 the guy realizes his wife is emotionally 30 at best.

And if your comment is about that girl in the video and then got the impression Alex wanted you to get and it is WRONG. First, she is only 18, was fresh out of high school and just starting college. You listen to the podcast and you learn that girl has thought a lot about relationships and her role in them. She is not a feminist, has more traditional values, does not sleep around, believes sex has a sacred element to it to be shared by a husband and wife n love, exclusively. Does not believe in hook up culture. Has never used dating apps and never will. Thinks is is wrong to treat sex as a pleasurable recreation. She went on just a few seconds after where Alex cut her off to give a very well thought out, realistic, cogent response that was bang on. To quote you with a twist, she is actually a very mature adult in a child's body. Alex should never have done her wrong like that. She deserves respect. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. Watch it in context.

​@@mjn3544 I've seen your comment multiple times on here, yet there's no link. Why?

Man also contributed to that, because of simping for woman just because they are beautiful.

not education. de-socialisation | malign infestation of 'mind'.

@@alberts4541 I agree simping is a big problem. Just watch be sucked into whataboutdomendoh arguments as they distract from the issue of the modern woman mentality.

@@jamess6656 men have been bwashed into believing that they are sugar and spice and all things nice which they are at the beginning until the trap closes and then it begins...they know that the gov and media are backing them up over he rights of men..why?..because its part of the plan to take down so saiety along with massimm

​@@alberts4541actually! It's far worse than that! We are the one who gave them every advantage in moderation society. Women had no one in Congress, Senate, or any other aspects of government. We helped them become like this every step of the way.

Would like to hear about this way more.

Sounds like a made up fable

In spite of all the feminist crap you hear, women are fundamentally different from men, and their behavior has been dictated by their biological role for thousands of years: they are the prime caregivers of the offspring, and always will. Their role requires a dependable man to rely on, a good provider. This is all in the interest of the offspring. That is were their primary love is and I - as a man - thanks god for this selfishness that I have observed so many times.

It takes having a son for a woman to really understand a man

@@siewmj1 this is a real thing The only thing a woman has unconditional love for is her children, so only her children can force her into a position to sacrifice/grow.

Maybe she had to make coffee. That is slavery.

Taylor the Fiend made videos about her.

​@@edheldudeThe funniest part was when she mentioned how bad SC divorce laws were for the very reason that she couldn't fleece her betrayed husband out of cash and prizes.

I feel so sad for her, NOT.

What next?

It's the income that provides freedom. Btw not everyone works in a office.

my ex used to hate on me for taking a 12 hour break working (2h travel each way). How dare I take a break from my family duties...

The freedom to betray your spouse by having an affair with a coworker.

@@kitdewd329 Your spouse can have an affair when you're not home but at work. You yourself can have an affair with a co-worker . Is that what's happening so you assume she would do that as well? Were you having an affair at work?

@@wyleecoyotee4252 No, I avoided that by marrying a traditional Korean woman while living in Korea as a professor….. been married 23 years. I wouldn’t marry an entitled, spoiled western woman.

TBH it sounds like a set-up. Either some sort of cheap game or to use you in some way. Probably to make her boyfriend jealous. It wasn't legit whatever it was.

LOL. I don't think you even understand what you did. When you asked "what's in it for me?" it wasn't a question to her of what are her qualities. I entirely disagree with guy above, this woman obviously really liked you and was flirting with you. 100%. But women like that embrace their value so closely to the simple fact that they *exist* , that when you asked "what's in it for me?" you actually crushed her entire viewpoint of herself. You instantly made her feel worthless to you, and they both had no reaction except to move on, because essentially you just wholly rejected her outright. You rejected her by face alone, and there was no going back. There's no introspection, no afterthought on her part, except total confusion on how she couldn't possibly have been "attractive" enough for you to just want to wife up in an instant. It's honestly hilarious.

Was that a real marriage proposal or them just playing a game? She should have asked you out on a regular date. Weird way of trolling for level of interest.

@@xrfa7422 Not a serious marriage proposal, but she does flirt often with guys; both colleagues and customers. As for how serious she is, I think it's like fishing to see who'll bite using ego stroking as bait. Guys who respond with genuine interest usually end up dating her a while, including 2 colleagues who won't talk to her anymore since.

Did they check your teeth?😁

Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. She is anything but naive or think that just bring her body is bringing enough to the table. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. Watch it yourself, in context. I just unsubscribed because no honest person takes a clip of an 18 year old girl just out of high school and starting college and misrepresents her so horribly in order to exploit her for his video. It taints what he goes on to say. As a Gen Z girl, she deserves respect.

True, but without teaching what they must do in order to be valuable.

That's known as cognitive dissonance. That look is also anyone that watched msm or social media.

Actually it’s communist brainwashing.

Agreed

If you dont have anything real to offer, you could get the idea that your existence is the special thing no other woman has to offer. Oh, wait....

I'm sure you've heard this before: You're lucky she ended it before you married her. She would have still left and taken 1/2 of everything you own.

An introvert answering one word answers... You may have never given the right questions. But, I can assure you, one word, dry answers mean she never viewed you as close enough.

@@kepler_22b83 You're kind of missing the point. Her expectation was that I provide every ounce of excitement and happiness for her. I was expected to be her dancing monkey. Meanwhile, I'm also an introvert and was perfectly comfortable with whoever she had the energy to be on any given day. Too many women believe their partner is to blame if they're feeling anything negative, be it boredom, discontentment, or unhappiness. If I'm bored, I don't expect anyone else to fix it. I'll find something interesting and invite my partner to join me.

@@johnconstantine1604 That's absolutely true. I'm so glad she ended it before actually getting married. I really did dodge a bullet on this one.

@@fallen546 I didn't miss the point, :p I clearly stated that she didn't appreciate you enough. She might have been expecting perfection or some other bullshit, and you didn't deliver. What I meant by saying that you didn't give the right questions is that you objectively failed to attain her interest. But when she failed to communicate or at least try and pretend to be interested, that means she had never cared for you, or was too immature to do so. Introverts have much to say, and when they don't let you in, you are outside. Communication doesn't even have to be verbal, or could even be indirect little things. But the kind of behavior you described hints at a total apathy. That isn't just introversion, there is more to it.

Some men are happy with just open legs and get a cleaner for the other stuff.

its your fault, increase your standards

At least you still got "open legs". I assume you were not married.

Why would she change? You put up with her the way she was. Sounds pretty much like the flip side of all the women who are shocked that they guy they've been dating for many years doesn't want to marry them. Why would he? You never required marriage. Same deal for you. Why would she do anything? You never required anything.

There’s a saying, fool me once it your fault, fool me twice it’s still your fault, but fool me 3 times it’s my fault. If your not satisfied then why did you choose that person as a part of your life, if you were truly happy doing all those chores then maybe you found that trait attractive in her.

She clearly indicates in the Podcast, by the answers she gives, that even though she is only 18 years old she HAS THOUGHT about this extensively. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. Your impression of her is 180 degrees off from how she really is. Her intention is to be a great mother and a great wife, to be her husband's partner, all in. She does think about other people. She doesn't do social media as she reveals in the podcast. Thinks hookup culture and dating apps are an abomination. In short Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it

if she says she is the table, she is saying she is good for a short time for multiple people only on all fours frequently (like a dinner table), and good for nothing else, I actually taught my wife how this question is answered "household help, cooking, cleaning, kids, teaching kids at home, nurture, care, kindness" good women bring many good things to the table

@folkishappalachian6827 very true. She also called a slave because I'm married.

The "I am the table" response is meaningless nonsense as far as I'm concerned. The table is a metaphor for negotiating grounds, it is neutral territory between warring factions, a meeting room where different company representatives gather to discuss business, etc. If you're one of the involved parties then you cannot be the table. And if you are the table then you cannot directly participate in the debate, at that point you're a non-neutral moderator at best. "I am the table" thus basically means that you are giving up on the guy and will instead facilitate relationship discussions between him and other girls.

she means i have something that u want..ie. the box

@GeneralProfessor the 'I am the table' response is her saying that I am the one getting pregnant with your child. I am the one stuck raising them while you are off working or hanging out with the boys. Marriage is primarily about procreation. Bringing children into the world, raising them to adulthood. Males need a female to propagate their DNA, Females need a male to provide food, shelter, and protection. Only in modern society where male and female are equal did this 'table' culture take root.

I saw some comments here of men writing the women should contribute by working outside too (as a way to do her part). It depends on the job, but this way of doing is unlikely to preserve her sweetness and good qualities. As you mentioned, it is all about money... If a man has enough I think preserving his wife from 9 to 5 jobs really worth it.

Lucky man. I envy you

you are indeed lucky. I thinks thats unusual for a wife

🦄 unicorn

your one of the lucky ones..she is a keeper then..

you are the selector. must be. your problem was you made her a selector/examiner/leader and became a candidate selectee/follwer.

WOW well said

In Italy the entire world of work is so structured.

So is everything you bring tho.

​@@GlobeofBeauty No, it's not the case! Have you ever heard the concept of Alimony?

Minor quibble: themself is not a word and shouldn’t be treated as such. “Them” is plural. “Self” is singular. They do not go together.

​@@GlobeofBeautygood luck trying to remove your stuff away from a woman in the western world, what you bring she keeps half or more, what she offered was never truly yours

​@@GlobeofBeautySo tell me what is the % of men getting half of everything the woman has worked for,what % get the children and 18 years of child support?

insightful comment, thankyou.

I feel the same way.

I wish you find a woman that will bre worth marrying. I agree marriage is transactional. My husband does take care of providing I do everything else I think this correspond perfectly to his masculinity and my feminity with a lot of respect. I have a lot of admiration for him. We have both grown in our love for each other and set up a business together . Marriage is an adventure we are a team anything I can do to help that team to reach the top I will. I wish you to experience that complete trust and love with somebody one day. I guarantee you will notice the difference. There are women out there who are worth the life journey , not all of us are empty of substance .

We cannot blame the wahmenn too much. They weren't raised well or at all. Smart young women would qualify young men based on values and virtues and invest in them with their qualities. Now they just results/money/resources without bringing anything to the table themselves other than bobs and vagine.

... WTF??? "Hey I know we met at the bike shop but you got a car right?"

You can just adopt, skip the phases of childhood you want.

For a guy in your position, you might try a matchmaking service. They'll put you in touch with more sober, serious girls who are seriously looking to get married and have kids.

Try looking too homeschooled and Christian girls they will have a more serious head on their shoulders and understand work

​@@susangriffith9818most are playing the game pre programming from the church and then you get the opposite after no one sees them

And your reaction is what Alex was going for, but he took the clip entirely out of context and thus created a false impression. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it

Narcissist. Only about her, and she thinks her "appearance" is sufficient.

And if there is a guy like that he's banging a different model every weekend and has no reason to commit to the woman with those requirements.

Was that Dr Phil and was the woman hitting her 30's, slightly overweight with brown hair and a red dress?

Probably some of those requirements would be waived if the lucky guy she picks is earning over $500K per year.

I saw one video on here of a vvoman that had a 25 page list.

Same with my divorce. I didn't write a list, but most of the stuff I did was unacknowledged.

I did that w a live-in GF. I mowed the lawn, did all the cooking, paid for everything, kept the house clean, dis the laundry, washed the cars, fixed anything that broke...WTF???

​@@billreddy7593 don't ever do it again. Push back on feminism. That's the only solution

I feel you. I was the same and continue to do more, caring for our kids and working, when she sits on her ass at home. She's single handedly ruined my life, financial and career prospects.

Women, nowadays, bring an important thing to the union initially. Then the law of diminishing returns slots in, and so for greater effort, there is less and less (!) until there is 0

Error: equality

Agreed. I actually wrote up a contract for my female roommate to this effect. I wrote out ALL the bills, I wrote out all the chores, and then I wrote out who does what. It was laughably lopsided.

You can pay all the bills but you still don't get away with splitting chores. Such bs been there done that. Never cohabitating again ever

And half the repairs, the planning, taking care of the finances, fighting home invaders….

And that is NOT the 18 year old Alex featured. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. See for yourself

The pressure to make sure they are never board is real.

⁠@@FreedomTalkMediabored*

It’s ALL on the guy, resources, food, entertainment. Then she MIGHT decide to show you some love in return, if and only if SHE feels like it. I see this as a total loss for the guy.

True, they dont have any interest or something going on with them, they just come and that all what they can do

If that's true, she doesn't get to say no

@TRUTHandLIGHT4809 well that wasn't my option because I actually thought she brought a lot more! But I could've used that..😉

At least she was honest, most women's brain malfunction when you ask that question.

What was her follow up answer?

Thats the answer.

Wait... you had ghey grandpa's?

"Consoled in", did you mean "consulted with"?

@@gregorydamario7977 I meant to say she consoled him when he was in doubt. Sorry for poor grammar.

Men create the conditions for the sustainment of life. Women are supposed to make it worth living. One of those is not happening anymore.

If women aren't accountable for their behavior, then they are not capable of making adult decisions. That means they have no business making decisions without a guardian (husband, father, etc.). They can't have it both ways.

@@donovanwilliams5424 Yep. If you can't take on adult responsibilities then you can't have adult privileges. Goodbye home and land ownership, goodbye driving license, goodbye alcohol consumption, goodbye voting privileges.

I think you meant to say expectations, maybe auto correct corrected it to expectorations which means spitting. Not trying to be a grammar nazi just thought you might want to know.

@@donovanwilliams5424 For most of human history we have operated on exactly that basis. The exceptions that gained power in history are notorious (mostly).

they are all feminists and marxists, I've been "taught" in different classes about things like the wage gap (studied economy) and one of my teacher is now one of the more far left deputees in the country

Sir, STOP MARRYING!

I beleive I did over 30 years ago@@snowfrosty1

Thats why it should be written in a prenup.

Hopefully you will not get married again.That will resolve the problem in the future.

And this is what angers me about what Alex did to that fine young woman, carefully clipping the podcast to leave people with the impression you have of her. Go watch the podcast. She is very realistic in what she is looking for in a man and what she will contribute as her man. Alex flat out says she's never thought of that, and her mind is a blank because of that. Telling you now. That is a lie and that girl deserves some respect rather than the impression you have of her thanks to clever editing. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. Watch it yourself. She is very realistic in assessing herself and is quite clear in how she wants a man with whom the town of them can build their own lives, family and empire. She actually WANTS to contribute to his success, is supportive, loving, a nurturer who wants kids and to be a great mom and wife. She'd want to live up to your standards too. It pisses me off that he leaves all his followers with the wrong impression of a good girl who gets it.

Love that movie... as depressing as it is. It wasn't a complete work of fiction, it was a prediction based on what were current events at the time, their trajectory, and likely outcome.

​@@beeman7711science fiction has never been just a prediction. Science Fiction is rooted in the philosophies of communism, eugenics, technocracy. If you look into the writers of major science fiction works they always seem to have connections to organizations that promote such philosophies. Even as far back as H.G. Wells, the father of science fiction, he had direct connections to eugenicists and transhumanist of his time. Everyone knows his fiction writing but if you read his nonfiction it all promotes eugenics and transhumanism. He even received an award at the White House for those writings.

Few generations ? Few years more like.

@@beeman7711It was very anti-white, complete trash

Government is even better at that than women.

Same here. The only break I ever got was when Covid moved half my industry on line. I now spend a max of 5 hours per week commuting instead of a usual 18.

In older times they did the washing together.

@@danielholden5847 Maybe in some places. Not in others.

You forgot about the milkman, the fireman, and policeman. Vacuum cleaner sales, encyclopedia sales.

Which begs the question... why do you men want to live such difficult lives just so that women can live on permanent vacation? The math ain't mathing

​​@@abigailcosta1716 Because what women used to bring to the table was valuable to us. Now that it is missing we indeed don't want to anymore.

True privilege.

Spineless weak men simping and falling over each other to please her for nothing more than being pretty her whole life has taught her as much.

Acutally not - but he cut off her insightful longer answer . And: she is 18, just finished school when she gave that interview.

Wrong impression of her and Alex is to blame. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it. Watch it yourself and you will see she is not the impression you got of her and for an 18 year old just out of high school and just starting college, she shows just how much she's thought about this. Alex deliberately misrepresented this girl. She went on to answer that question quite extensively but it didn’t fit his narrative and he thus cut it off, and then had the gall to derisively laugh at her naiveté. Read my recent comment and get full disclosure. Included is how to find the podcast and the clip within it

Never estimate a woman's self worth, or her need for attention. Words from my father, who told me it was words from HIS father, and I told my sons. lol