Her Plan Did Not Work Out... 

I honestly think in the scenario you described where a man sees two women fighting, the man would choose whichever woman he found more physically attractive regardless of who won the fight, and would therefore choose the winner and loser about 50% of the time. I may be wrong but as a man I don't think my sense of attraction to a woman would be increased at all by her being a victim. For sure, the damsel in distress is a trope for a reason, and men are attracted to that, but I think that is because men are likely to see the situation as an opportunity, rather than the woman being elevated in her desirability. In the scenario you described, both women were openly expressing desire for the man already.

I know that women in today's society will not be accountable if they beat their husbands. But I have a question how it comes about that lesbian relations are the most violent in the world, although in this case a woman is harming another woman?

It's weird that a lot of people are missing the fact that we are living in an ANTI MALE society currently.

Bill Burr was right, they can do all this because no one punches them in the kisser once in a while.

Just walk away. In that very moment it is over and the worst thing for her is that she does not get any reaction. She cannot flip anything. Go no contact, throw her out, block her, anything possible.

​@@wolfgangpagel6989 She most certainly can flip everything. She can say the man was violent, and everyone she knows will believe her. My ex hit me and threw things at me for years. I never once retaliated or did anything physical towards her. But even after years of watching her physically abused me, a lot of her friends, and even my own step daughter believe I'm the violent one, just because my ex said so.

Bloody white knights.

@@wolfgangpagel6989 It was probably over for him long ago, to be the way he was says it all, she ain't even worth eye contact anymore to him. He has switched off for exhaustion and has probably already prepared himself for her further wrath, because it probably ain't over at all and he is batting down the hatches. You think it's a breath of fresh air that you got rid of the thing but really you know she won't stop until blood is spilled. It used to be women planning their escape from partners, now men need to be way more strategic when calling it off because that merely starts them off because they know they just lost all control. Once they know they have gone too far, they can't handle it and will deadset stop at nothing to try and ruin everything about you. Very few times have I seen woman actually cope with a relationship ending without them knowing it. If they are blindsided by your manoeuvre, watch out. That's the worst, planning something big around them without them knowing. Their heads implode.

Accurate post

Of course - he peobably deserved it.

​​@@YellowKing1986 congradulations on proving how sexist and baised soceity is against men, in one comment.

No surprise there since the UK was the first country that empowered them. And it spread like wildfire around the globe.

@@anthonym840 He's probably joking dude. Its the stereotypical response Women say when Women assault Men. He's taking the piss I believe. That, or he's an idiot.

Pigs

It's because they date simps. There to scared to either kick them out or take them to court. Well there a 3rd method but am not writing it

And men are a huge part of the problem because they continue to protect these women from consequences!

Equal rights =equal fights.

Knowing Brazilian Jiu Jitsu helps. You can just grapple her, bring her to the ground and put her in a rear naked choke, give her the opportunity to calm down, talk her through it. Otherwise, it’s nap time 😴 but also, if women know that you know BJJ or kickboxing, she won’t even try you.

Same I would fight back.

The courts will always side with the women

As it should be.

I knew a guy who had a dent in his skull because some chick hit him with a frying pan.

I’ve had a girl, throw knives at me, kick me in the balls, trip to rip my balls off during sex, shoot at me, cheat on me THEN slash my tires of Christmas Day, kick me, try to run me over with her car. Etc. Another ex of mines punched me multiple times during sex just cause she THOUGHT I could be cheating on her.

If we did that, we would be in jail. The messed up double standards of our society. I once had the misfortune of dating a psycho who slapped and punched me because I'd "cheated" in her dreams 😂

@@evoluxsion7339 why do I hear that so often. It’s terrifying

@@qweqwe5186 Careful with that, you’ll be in jail really quick…

Nicely done! 👍

@psluxton Nice piece of work you got yourself there. Run.

@@kirahund6711 pretty much par for the course with women, but at least she DID learn the lesson unlike most. So yeah, she is a keeper. 😆

@@psluxton My older brother's wife did that to me because she realized early on that he's an aggressive a-hole who attacks first asks later, and she manipulated him into causing a massive clash between us. I guess she just wanted to 'show me' who's boss and that I better watch my ass... in my own house I was born in and she married into. 😂🤦🏻‍♂️ But weird as it may sound, I never blamed her for this incident because I expected something stupid to come from her but I didn't expect my own brother to attack me without even asking if what she said was actually true. I didn't talk to him for several years after that and she expressed several times to other people she was sorry for overreacting, apparently 'not knowing' what was gonna happen. 😂 But I know and other people know as well it was just a BS act, she knew exactly what she was doing. I still blame him more than her, he knew her less than a year at that point and he knew me more than 25 years. He should've known better but I realized he either has a deep seated resentment and jealousy toward me for being a better person or simply never loved me as a brother. Whatever it is, I learned a lot about both of them that day and I never let my guard down since. Sadly for them, I'll never be more than platonic around them and I'll never ever think of them as family, only their 2 boys that I love. Women really don't think straight for 2 seconds when they feel in control, do they? They just want to exercise their power no matter who gets hurt. That's why, if I ever get married, I'll let my wife know right off the bat I won't be her striking pin and that I'll hold her accountable for her own words and actions.

@@mickeypopa Thank you for sharing. Wish you the best

Wouldn't be shocked at all. Women have always been used to lure women in to these situations. The true reality of how sinister women can be shows up in what they choose to do with men. Typically they get to play victim afterwards too, reasonably successfully as well.

Domestic violence and sexual herrasemnt done by woman are the crimes with the absulute highest dark figure of all crimes. At my internship at the DA to become a german lawyer i learned, that nearly no men files reprts for several reasons. Shame, fear to loose the kids, no one will believe them, showing even more weakness etc.. Many men arent even able to hit a woman. As stronger themen was a as boy as more likely he is mentaly blocked to harm a woman. In this way they are kind of brainwashed. Every one who is intrested in that topic should go to the next police office and speak with a female police officer. You should ask her how often they are called to a house or appartment and they clearly see a sceene where the women were abusing and violent towards men, and how often those men file a report. I did years ago and i was super surprised what they had to tell me.

@@rapsack7058 I've never been the victim of violence by a woman. But I work in a female dominated profession and have been subjected to inappropriate sexual behavior at work MANY times. Here are just 2 examples: while working at a shelter, my female boss asked a female coworker of mine, in front of me and several co-workers and clients if I was sleeping with one of the interns. My coworker responded, "no I think they're just friends." My boss replied, "oh, I thought Mike was hitting that." Another time, I was working as an outreach worker. My team were absent that day. You can't go out alone. They sent me out with the administrative assistant who was a woman. We were stopped at a red light. In front of us was a guy on a motorcycle with his girlfriend on the back. My coworker looked at me and said, "is that girl's ass turning you on? Because if it is, you should see my ass. It's better." (she was engaged). I've had women make all kinds of offensive comments and tell me info I didn't want to know about their bodies/sex lives.

​@@rapsack7058and what did they tell you exactly?

​@@rapsack7058 There was a study ive seen somewhere that women are 70% more likely to abuse men without retaliation, versus men abusing women without retaliation at about 30%.

Not chasing is the right choice*, there are still good women just like there are still good men. Just don't chase and don't focus on that, focus on yourself, if the right one comes that's cool.

Yeah it's nuts out there.

When my male senses about wanting a female start kicking and starte tolerating bullshit from women, all i need is to watch some videos about reality, too many women are not good people, and being single is indeed the safest for men.

It's not really a choice, it's more of a survival instinct...

Dump her immediately after the first hit, don't wait for multiple. There should be consequences for crossing a line that shouldn't be crossed.

@@ssing7113 Are you aware that felons are wayyy more sexually successful than non felons , they have twice as many kids as their non criminal counterparts. Which means women are actually more attracted to dangerous men, not less. Also who tf thinks about "I better not hit this woman attacking me cause after we break up I might not be able to get a wife" as if that's actually some sort of accomplishment in this day and age.

Note the shaming from one of the commenters here. (eyeroll)

And blame you for it.

I overlooked the first two face-slaps from the first wife. She got those for free. But I lost my temper and defended myself after the third slap. Fortunately for her I quickly regained composure. She got the message and never hit me again. We still divorced months later.

You could get arrested for doing nothing at all. Just because she says so.

​@wolfgangpagel6989 had an ex once come to pick up the last of her things. I left them on the outside of the door. She kept screaming to come in and check for other things, I told her there was nothing. I never opened the door mind you. She literally called rhe police from the other side of the door and told them I had best her and then she head butted my front door. So I opened it and threw a beer on her and when the cops came and arrested me, I had been recording the entire thing, even her hurting herself and me throwing the beer on her. They didn't arrest me or charge me. Several years later I had a background check and they had convicted me of assault on her without a court date, a trial, a hearing an arraignment, nothing. I spent 20k on a lawyer to fight it and I ended up suing my city for a lot of money. I now view women as more dangerous than gang members I have seen end people. Women are far to dangerous to be around.

But it's all good because women now are absolutely worthless. They have devalued themselves into a deficit. Women will be the only victims to their behavior. Women can't be alone men are built for it. Prostitutes are in good quantity now lmfao

@@wolfgangpagel6989 So make it worthwhile... as he said.

@@wolfgangpagel6989 So be sure to do something then. Even if you get "trouble" she will learn a lesson. and if enough "Men" would men up we would have a better society. C´mon i cant be the only one treating women like human beings.

I've said before, I want equality. Unrestrained male sexuality and unrestrained male violence, the same as for women. If they do it without repercussions, so should men also be able to.

IT is not law that protect them. It also is how we, the society, deal with emoutional out bursts of women. Whena boy has an emotional out burst or even get violent, he gets no sympathy, ghe gets called out and even punished for it. When a girl has the same emotional out burst, she can expect in many cases sympathy, attention, and many look who was the person who was causing this outburst. We accept that women are more "emotional". They learn from early age on they are allowed to be emotional. And when they are agressive and angry etc.. then we automaticaly look for the person who made them angry and agressive. It is not the woman who is at fault but the other person. BTW, the law it self is writen neutral and is not in favour of women. BUT how we interpretate it, is in favour of women. And men nearly never file any offical report, when they are victims of womans agression and physical abuse.

@@rapsack7058 "the law" can also mean "the police." If police show up to a seen and a man is covered in scratches and the woman has a bruise on her face, the man will be the one arrested 9 times out of 10. "the law" aka "the police" protected the woman.

@@callanc3925 Tnx....I i know,My point was, we dont need change the law, we need change the how the society is seeing things. It is that men need stand up visibly. We need encurage men to file reports, to hire a lawyer, who dont give in and pester the police and DA's

@@rapsack7058 Thats true, I think a lot of it stems from the fact that the "you let a girl beat you up? What are you a pussy?" mindset comes from a time when there wasnt such a stigma around male on female violence. The stigma around male on female violence developed, but the mindset of being a pussy for getting beat up by a girl stuck around so work needs to be done to get rid of that mindset.

Copy that. I remember very well when I attended a middle school, some of the larger guys tested me, to see if I would be a willing punching bag. I gave as good as I got. They got their answers. The testing stopped.

Most of us don’t accept that. But even if it happens once right before you ditch, it has lasting effects.

​@ssing7113 how is that dysfunctional when he put her in her place?

I wonder how these women get involved with these abusive men and believe this is acceptable behaviour.

They don't set boundarys every woman i have been with i look them dead in the eye and tell them you hit me not playing but trying to hurt me ur dumped if you hit me and keep on hitting am gonna hit and never playing or not hit me in the nuts if they don't like what av sed its because they are abusers and want to keep on being abusive if she says thats fair then i stay and i have never been in arelationship with domestic abuse on any side

@@davidwright9092 Dont get this if as i sad to a mate of mine if ur going to get arrested anyway why dose it matter if you chuck them out on there ass or hit back ur going to get in trouble anyway so just dash them out on there ass

@@MrKingkz can you please use punctuation? and do please organize the sentences in a cohesive manner, im good at understanding gibberish eng but this was nightmare difficulty.

they didnt start off that way. years of a mask then they hold you hostage for years and wont let you escape. i tried to escape 3 years before succeeding. lived 1000miles away from family, she threatened to falsify police reports if I escaped. i had to sneak record and send to my mother before escaping to not end up falsly locked up.

Very often such interactions are part of flirting. It really depends.

​@@wolfgangpagel6989 Yeah I remember when my wife broke a dinner plate over my head and I needed stitches. Everybody at the emergency room was amazed at how good she was at flirting. Seriously, stop making excuses for violence. It's gross.

@@mikey92362 Thats why you never marry anyone nowadays

@@mikey92362 No. You turn the words around. Key word was it depends. If she slaps your arm because your joke was to good there is no reason to involve the security. Don't build a straw man. Try to understand the context.

@@wolfgangpagel6989 show me one example of that in the video. All I see is violence coming from anger. You're the one moving goal posts and arguing the exceptions.

I do not look like I am capable of heightened violence. But then if you speak to people in my circle you find out I'm a trained fighter. A lot of people thought they could harm me or intimidate to find out otherwise. It's taught me to manage aggression because you don't know the capabilities of another and also, you really don't know who is on their last string and arnt gonna do another Monday. Women acting like men now is probably the worst decision females have made in all of human history. It's wild. Not for any other reason than the basic practical. Why bite the hand that feeds? If women were taking jobs from men in the sectors that kept the lights on literally, id pull back, but they arnt. Walked past a construction site and yup, no women. Soooo like, why the vitriol.

It's honestly like women are being brainwashed to be sexist towards anything male. Women have become these demonic sexist males that only existed in their own imaginations. Wild

@@anthonyzullo Someone like you is exactly what I was thinking of. You never know who's a for real heavy hitter just by looking at them. Or maybe they have a gun. Which is a high probability, because this is the United States. And everyone has a knife. It's wise to assume you'll be facing one. Appearances can be very misleading. You never know when you might come across someone who's just found out they have absolutely nothing left to lose, no reason to live anymore, they're in a severely heightened emotional state, and ready to find a target for all the pain inside them. They might lash out without thinking about it first. Nobody likes being disrespected. That can't ever turn out well. It's just wrong to do it. Ironically people who actually know how to fight are usually the very last ones to get into altercations. They generally have restraint. People who provoke and treat others badly seldom seem to understand the horrible danger they're putting themselves in. Some people just don't care about going to prison. They've been there before, and they're completely comfortable with it. It's not fearful to them.

​@@pawwelmussial2916 Exactly! Every guy thinks he's an expert until it happens to him. This is why I never tell anyone about the violence I went through for so many years. Because everyone just blames the victim if he's a man. Every guy who says he knows what he'd do in our situation is talking from a place of pure ignorance.

​@@pawwelmussial2916 having 4 kids can be tough on a woman

​@@mikey92362I rather lose half my stuff and kids than my dignity.

it's normal, we all have this "angels, gifts from heaven" idealization at the beginning, Alexander even made a vid about this . But they are human beings too and can be terrible people like anyone else

It's about 50/50 for couples, but women abuse children, especially boys, way more

Vastly wider. 50-50 that we know of, but most goes unreported. Plus children and elder abuse.

@@johnhammink2716 in fact, most domestic abuse happens in lesbian relationships, and the least in relationships between gay men

....and let's not forget about violence by proxy - where a coward manipulates a stupid dude to commit violence on her behalf.

Sounds like a healthy relationship, I hope your relationship is filled with love, peace and happiness! ❤ 😊

I totaly agree, we have prity much established double standards for men and women. I had this topic, when i made my internship at the district atterney in germany to become a lawyer. The DA, a woman, explained me that from her experience and observation it starts that we dont expect from girls/women the same control of emotions as from boys/men. A girl that shows emotional outburst very often can expect attention and even support. A boy with an emotional outburst can expect to be called out for if not punished. That lead to the situation, that we accept womens emotional out burst as normal and look for the reason by others that cuased that out burst and not by the women it self. Thats why you as a victim get no sympathy. Often enough you are seen as the person who is responsible for her out burst, you are not a victim but the perpretator.

I was there too. Young wife showed such utter disregard and became physical many times. I finally got out and never went back.

I see alot of this in Australia, it seems like yall have a very radical liberal goverment over there, especially when it pretains to the issue of abuse. I spoke to a few aussie women about jhonny depps case, they were so Alethephobic to the idea that Jhonny Depp was ever abused by Amber heard in any regard. She spoke alot about her abuse. And when i told her about mine, she then proceeded to berate me for crying about it. Even though i used my expirence as an example to the argument we were having. Its actually digusting how much side eye this gets. Its depressing and demoralizing to witness such recentful apathy, and open sexism about the issue. Ive seen it here too..quite alot here in america. But this woman was jaded that I had the gall to suggest a woman could ever be abusive. It was like speaking to a true narcisist. I dont have any other way to describe it. At least nothing else kindly written to explain the encounter.

@@rapsack7058 that’s a great observation, thanks for sharing. I realised only recently how we were brainwashed as kids to believe the lie that boys are bad and girls are good. The was a poem the girls would sing out to the boys something like “Sugar and spice and all things nice, that’s what little girls are made of. Slugs and snails and puppy dog tails, that’s what little boys are made of”. The girls were taught to be Sexist and how to hide it in plain sight. No wonder it’s now next to impossible to find a high quality woman

Yep. I've noticed when enforcing boundaries successfully with low-quality women, you'll get "I feel terrible. You happy?" guilt trip instead of actually correcting the behavior.

If I feel like a woman needs to be hit to correct her behavior, I just don't be around that. I have a lot of experience with women so I have a lot of self developed tactics to figure a woman out very quickly. Most women don't deal with men with such deeper levels of understanding from them, so they expect most men they talk to to be ignorant to women's tactics. I'll find out on the first outing who a woman really is and because I'm autistic and my super power is patterns, a humans behavior is pretty easy to see for me. A lot of women I've slept with became very aggressive towards me when they realize they cannot manipulate or lie to me like they can other men. Women REALLY dislike men that cannot be manipulated by them, no matter who the man is, 99% or top 1% a woman will despise you if she cannot manipulate you. But, women nowadays will give their bodies away for these corny ass jokes and 2 blue motorcycles, so who's really the idiots here lmao

Did too. Same thoughts.

You are the problem because you did nothing.

Narcissists are like that...and there are tons of female narcissists...gaslighting is also what they do.

The woman has incentive to leave because everyone is on her side and she will get support. For the man, you will be asked incessantly what you did to make the woman like that because "women are angels". What do you get for leaving angels? Shame and constant gaslighting. And since the chances that you get believed are slim or that a woman acting crazy is normal or taken as a joke, many men just continue in those relationships

Kick her out, she needs to leave.

​@@iamsyourdadiso what!! Why do you care what people think. Once she disrespect you, toss her out.

@@khanhcao3123 I know but lets be honest..many men dont leave. They stay and endure the punishment

@@iamsyourdadi If you stay, it's a you problem. Not that hard to understand.

Yes. Holding them down and squeezing the sh!t out of them is highly effective. When she's immobilzed, whisper in a very low masculine tone,"I think it would be best if you settled down a bit, eh?"

She is supposed to help you with that, not sabotage it.

the fact that you put a ring on her

Maybe you need to man up and put her in her place.

My ex wife used costantly to humiliate and insult me. Do not accept that. This is emotional and psicological abuse. If she does'nt respect you , get rid of her. I speak from my own experience: I lived in hell for 5 years because of her.

Didn’t work. Only thing that worked was dumping her ass and never seeing her again.

They aren't kept in check by anyone or anything. They're children and if you let a child act out without consequence guess what happens?

The fact you wouldn’t let them won’t stop them. I realized I was abused only after it got physical. You know how to cook a frog alive? Increase heat veeeeery slowly.

@@YellowKing1986 I'm way to jaded to be the frog on this scenario. I get that it happens gradually, but I'd be long gone before getting attacked. I'd much rather be alone than be with a low quality woman. My problem is trusting women. It's all a spectrum eh?

The problem is u have "professional victims." U know those crazy types that will litterally take a hammer and bruise their faces. ( actually happened) to accuse innocent men of rpe or abuse. They will either get u to hurt them, or fake injuries to make it look like u did, to manipulate the justice system against u. Theres even a book about how to do all of this that, to my knowledge, is still being sold on Amazon.

How did you foster that notion that you were potentially dangerous?

"The lady doth protest too much, methinks"

Perhaps I should have provided more background before posting this comment. Especially since I’m not sure if you are a native English speaker or not. The quote comes from an old English play called Hamlet- written by a famed English playwright named William Shakespeare. It implies that the person speaking is overly asserting their innocence, which means the person speaking is not as innocent as they are trying to portray themselves. By posting this quote, I’m implying that you are most likely not as innocent as you are trying to convince us readers that you are. Especially since you are watching and commenting on videos that reference domestic violence. You may have been able to have the charge dismissed - but I’m sure you did something.

You are right@@funnyengineer41. I misunderstood your quote. You now come across as a sexist bigot in automatically defaulting to the innocence of women when in actuality both parties tend to beat on each other in domestic violence situations. For more clarification I'll add a bit of context; my now ex wife is Manic-Depressive/BiPolar. I filed for divorce due to recognizing that another 20 years with her would have left me a mental wreck. It got to be like living with an abusive alcoholic. She filed the domestic violence charge,... ...at the insistence of her lawyer over a month after I served her the divorce summons. The saving grace was in her statement she said she filed the complaint at the insistence of her lawyer. Outdoorbikeguy, you need to re-evaluate your position as a white knight and hold women to the same level of accountability as you do men.

Lol! Let’s stand back and analyze this situation. The profile picture on this comment is an elderly man who is glaring at the camera, with his body posed like a cat does in an attempt to look imposing. He is wearing a too big sleeveless t-shirt trying to impress people with his “muscles” and yet hide his poochy belly. This person no doubt watches countless hours of videos to reaffirm his world view that women are the problem and he is but a victim. Both of your comments depict you as such, first as the prey of the system, and second as the dupe of someone who is mentally ill. It is very likely that someone with that mindset would lash out in anger. Your reaction was to lash out at me, which proves my point. Case closed.

Yeah@@funnyengineer41, I'm 6'7" (you'd be amazed at how many low hanging doorways there are out in society), lift weights (a few eye hazards there as well), I retired early as an electrical engineer and divorced my wife as she was certified mentally crazy, burdensome, a PITA and I could afford it. Life is great for me now. Your move.

What did they do, hit you regularly? Boys or girls? Like wtf it's my first time hearing people do this except in extreme fights fueled by extreme hatred.

You dodged a bullet. I bet you’ll never marry not cohabitate again after that experience.

100% this is an awesome speech! I cant tell you how much I love this. Leave violence to people who tolerate it in their lives

One more thing: there is no general division of low quality/high quality women. Their behavior is mostly a consequence of your behaviour. Your masculinity will nurture her femininity. If you act like a pu$$y, she will take charge and a train wreck is just a question of time.

And the men that enable them