To Get to Know Yourself, Be Curious and Walk Through Fear 

He is Amazing💖💖💖 Love Tim Fletcher!

I agree ❤ a complete gift I'm a Healthcare professional and a super big mess and I have never witnessed such a teacher ❤❤❤ ❤ love ya brother Tim

He is not perfect, but he is sooo good that you wonder where he learned all of this. I am grateful for what he offers because I have not found so much helpful belief structure in one place.

Oh we know, lol he is blessed and fulling his Ministry 🙏🏽

He is excellent. Regarding your comment, he himself shows he is heavily influenced by Gabor Mate. Tim is a revelation though.

I’ve had the same experiences in my attempt trying to get help from therapist from the 6th grade. Told by my abusive parent it wouldn’t make a difference. Then getting counseling and told the only problem is I was talking about my problems. Apparently I wasn’t supposed to answer their QUESTION about what was wrong or talk at all during TALK therapy. It made it convenient to deny me help getting into a safe living environment and gaslight me. Years of trying to only be yelled at, have my abuse invalidated, and my distress seen as the problem has made my anxiety worse. I’ve been dehumanized and have anxiety attacks when I have to deal with these angry people using word salads and forcing me to “make a case” to get services I’m denied despite jumping through the hoops. While being yelled at for trying while blamed for not doing enough. Which lead to my recording the verbal and emotional abuse. I have proof that verbal abuse and denial of services is prevalent in the form of hundreds of hours of recording that prove people don’t CHOOSE to not get help. That’s just the victim blaming that DENIES you help, then spends money on behalf of these broke services telling that it’s your fault. Just like the people whose rights are violated and told it’s because THEY don’t know their rights. In fact it’s one and the same thing. Getting healthcare service is a HUMAN right. Especially when the doctor is CHARGING for services being denied. Especially since I’ve had the same issues with care for physical health problems like my collapsed lung. The hospital tried to discharge me without care even though they had an X-ray of my collapsed lungs, denied me answers after I made it clear that discharging me would lead to complaints. Ironically I than had to fight to LEAVE the hospital and get transferred. They only did so when I posted a video of 1 of the many incidents of being yelled at for a doctor for asking questions. Then on the day the transfer happened they said they weren’t going to send the paperwork to the health insurance company because they didn’t think they’d approve it. I had to point out that doctors can’t deny my paperwork on behalf of the insurance company. That goes against my rights. Somehow this hospital never got around to sending their bills to the health insurance company so it became my personal debt even though I had insurance that the facile hospital was able to use to charge me. Getting my medical records has been almost impossible. The people in my building have the same problem getting help with their complaints. Or even being notified about fires when they happen so we can evacuate. It’s a matter of apathy for treating people inhumanely that’s made worse for marganilized communities. People are mistreated and treated like it’s not happening and/or they did something to deserve it. Trying to get help only makes you vulnerable to the same abuse your trying to get help with. Based off my experience the problem with getting therapy is connected to apathy towards people in bad situations. The worse the situation the worse the “mistreatment” is. Which includes being charged for services denied that was supposed to be charge to the health insurance company and constitutes fraud as well as things like malfeasance, and inflicting emotional distress intentionally. Having proof matters as little as the laws being broken. Walking on eggshells begging for care still gets you yelled. Even if I just stick to this problem with getting therapy it’s clear that this is prevalent and systematic. Starting with the idea that all trauma is in the past and that you should depend on someone with the title of therapist blindly and not do your own research. The fact that the abuse may be coming from those supposed to help you and that their is a serious problem with getting care that helps, doesn’t seem to matter. Despite the fact that it’s so well known that many therapists are slightly off that we joke about hem being “quacks”. Even though they are human beings capable of CAUSING distress, people in those positions of authority are treated like they can do no wrong. It hard to get therapy if you can’t talk about your original problems or the difficulty addressing them without offending someone looking for an excuse to deflect and victim blame. I’ve been told the dangerous circumstances that includes 3 fires in 7 years, mice, plumbing problems that makes using the kitchen impossible and the bathroom a gamble, and I’m harassed for making complaints isn’t the problem. It’s the fact that isolate to avoid the harassment, have proof so it’s harder for the people who are supposed to help me deny it’s happening, and the fact that I had problems before. Which is why it’s ok for me to be in an unsafe situation where other people have DIED. that’s the dehumanizing parts. Thanks for mentioning your difficulties getting good therapy. If more people looked into these services they’d see it’s not the magic pill it’s treated as. It seems like we discouraged from talking about our experiences because it’s a way of erasing our pain while claiming people in distressing situations don’t get help because they are too distressed to make a clear case. Apparently the fact these distressing situations are ignored by ‘experts’ who are unable to see the obvious things common folks can see. Like the fact that living in a place with multiple fires aren’t safe. What do I have to say to make that clear to people who act like those things NEVER happen and get angry and yells when I offer to show them proof. I’m glad their are people who share information and encourage you to help your self. Getting the RIGHT information is more important than WHERE or WHO you get it from. These kinds of talks have confirmed what I known most of my life and given me clarity on others things. Being able share without defending my answers to someone asking questions and hear others share their experiences, is like group therapy. Thank you to EVERYONE involved helping to create a nurturing environment. ❤️‍🩹

I so relate to your story! I know what it's like to feel a million miles away from everyone.

My favorite term for this: androvert :)

@@SampsonAndBeasley ambivert

Sounds like ISTP

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Use interaction styles by Linda berens it's more accuraye

I’ve never heard anyone express it as poly addiction but I can see how that would be true. Anyway, praying for you on your path to freedom

Yes, I keep saying, "Oh, wow, oops, humm...."

@@louisestaats234 am like, how does he know me and can explain my life with ease, I couldn't do it by myself. Our mental health services are really lacking. I'm 48 and learning this! 😯

Same with me. Isolated in childhood but very extrovert since my teens. My final trauma which was when I realized how malignant is my family changed me dramatically. I went no contact and now I'm isolated but I think I'm becoming more avoidant. My last Myers and Brigg test said I am infj which spells trauma and the favourite personality type of predator. What I know for sure is; I'm not shy or a real introvert, I have social anxiety due to so much abuse, betrayal and smears campaigns. It feels I can't get out of the scapegoat role no matter where I go.

I relate

avoidant?

Sounds like Ti-Fe user

I seee many people out there with similar problemns like mine! I don t feel so alone anymore!

I don't think in Europe you can be treated with ayahuasca in a safe therapeutic environment. Can you do it in the US? Just being curious because I don't have the means to go there.

@@Lyrielonwind I speak about plant that are not for trip or psychotrope, just excellent nervous system support. Getting out of ptsd was impossible for me without those plant. For exploration there is psylocibin mushroom, which is smooth, no risk (microdosing) and easy to get, even if illegal. But abuse on universal scale is legal, so... Small step are good step.

Most tests are like that because it's about tendencies. What do you usually do/like but don't view what particular people you would like to meet with or the weather (in rainy days you might not want to spend time outside, for instance.

It's not* circumstantial. What do you choose most of the time...that's your answer. Most people know right away.

I think we all have a bit of both

As a 1000% introvert, I cannot see your perspective. Need me alone time 24/7. In fact, solitary confinement is what I yearn for 😂

I think we all are. Very rarely will someone be one thing

The point is to answer as to which one DOMINATES. nobody is straight down the middle.

By that response, I can tell that you're a people pleaser.

I love spontaneous days and trips and I also enjoy planning everything out sometimes😂🥴 Both give me joy. Plan some days especially when busy or emotional but love go with the flow days especially if the day is going well. I am both practical and highly creative. Lol I enjoy life and I enjoy analyzing it too🥴❤️😂 I don't know is the picture fun enough to color in the lines? 😅 I lead and follow easily. I am a big picture gal who like to break down the steps. I love to learn by doing, hearing, reading watching. The personality tests frustrate me because I want to answer so many questions with multiple answers. I think I need to reiterate Perhaps I am just A mess.

​@@Pure.Freaking.Meredith I would so date you. 😁

Sometimes I want to say BOTH or NEITHER.