To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 2 

This man had so much time on his hands. Entertaining his wife and 41 plus women. Yho, sounds like a full time job nd overtime 😮

Dear Owamie. I am a Malawian who has followed you for 3 years now. This side of you is what will make you grow even more. Wow! This "To hell and back" is a masterpiece. I have an extreme good feeling about it. You are carrying it well. Congratulations baby girl! Maturity and growth it is. May God go before you. ❤

Constructive criticism The interview should start by Introduction of guest 2. Then the beginning of real story as to how they met 3 The middle of their life together 4 The Change for the worst 5 The decision 6 Learning curve 7 Parting short I believe it will change with time

This podcast is gonna be a success....

Im loving the new Owamie....she is a bomb 💣, super smart and beautiful

Owami you made it so hard for us to see that she is your friend. The story seem new to you just like it is new to us😱 I'm giving you 100% sana you are the best❤

Its not a counselor's role to convince a person to forgive the offender and take them back in their lives. That counselor crossed boundaries. A counselor guides and allows a client to make their decision.

Ladies, please be careful when letting men know you’re aware of their infidelity or crimes. It can be very dangerous for you. If you KNOW you have proof, move and plot in silence. Leaving a relationship can be the most dangerous time for a woman.

This girl is soo polished,soft spoken and gorgeous even as she narrates her ordeal she does it with such calmness .I wish you all the best babe .Put god first and pray for your person he is out there and one day you will meet him.

Owami I wish you would take us on a journey with your guests. Starting with light questions like How was her childhood Or how did they meet? When did she know she loved him? Where was she in life at that time, when did they get married. How old was the guy. How was the marriage. and and and. Leading us to the climax of the story.. Starting the interview with ‘why are you getting divorced is anti climax because that should be the meat of the interview. This way the questions will not be random. And this was the same with your last interview. Wishing you incredible growth in your journey 🤍.

One thing Iv realised. Women are so desperate for relationships 😢 and the validation that “I’m with someone, look at me, someone wants me”. Self rejection and no self worth is the order of the day.

Representing all the male ninjas....

I love interviewers who let the guests talk without interrupting them, good job Owamie 👏🏾

This guy sounds like an answered prayer shame! We could all fall for him 🤞🏽

Brother was living a double life, ninja. Once a man cheats on you, whether he hides it or not that’s the biggest disrespect. Never take back a man who cheated on you it will mess up your peace of mind. Once you start asking yourself questions if you are good enough or if there is something wrong with you. If you try to over compensate, then you should start running 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

This lady is a good story teller, I could imagine everything she said. She should definitely pursue her RU-vid

Its red flag if phone doesnt ring when a person is with you.

One thing about cheaters, they do not know when to stop! Spirit of lust at its peak!!!

Redflag number 1: Every time a man is obsessively in love...

Tjo I'm scared of Mjolo, these guys are really narcissistic. I think I'll camp in the singlehood cz dzi khou vhuya.

That’s my cousin …. My beautiful sis.

Oh marn she's been through a lot. He cheated from first day of marriage. She is so beautiful, so soft spoken.

I'm going thru the comments and I see alot of constructive criticism from loyal and loving followers but sometimes.. I just feel like sometimes it's so beautiful to watch a person ask their guest normal questions like we do our friends on a normal day.. It's a breath of fresh air to see someone trying to be themselves and not try and imitate what's already working.. She will eventually find her interviewing style as this is not her niche.. But I didn't see a problem with this interview because I heard the most important details from the guests.. But that's just my opinion.. Criticism is also okay if it's constructive ❤

Her ex husband sounds like a narcissist. That’s their modus operandi…

Like guys we are here for the story bro not for childhood stories 😭💔

Be very careful of those men who use their past as a way to manipulate you. Abusers love to use their sad backstory to manipulate people.

Vulry's voice is so calming. I enjoyed this podcast❤

Over spoiling sometimes a person is hiding something, people are sick out there character wise!

It’s like this lady lived in my marriage. She’s smarter than I was. I stayed for 13 years. Kudos to her

Lovebombing is usually carried out by a Narcissist in the first phase when he/she is looking to get something from you. After that you are no longer important!!😭

This goes to show that disrespect can only be forgiven by letting go of those who disrespect us. If someone disrespects your values, it's a value conflict, and the only cure is letting go or establish alignment. People can change, but alignment is not something to wait for. It is either we are aligned or we are not. We do not need people we have to change to love them. We love who we are aligned with. It's sad when others misuse our trust, but we must allow our boundaries to be stronger than our love( or at least similar in strength)

I can see this segment going far. Owami just make tweeks here and there and we will be heading for the prime time Chile. 🎉

Meeting people on Tinder is just a no no. Even Facebook it's a no no. I mean all social media platforms it's a no no

I love that you let your guests speak and theres no awkard silence between the questions, the follow up questions are great too❤

This man was so “perfect” yho!! How did he even pull such off? So scary

Wow, the guest is such an amazing teller of her story, her beautiful aura floods the whole interview as she shares her story with so much and maturity. She is already a healed woman❤. Beautiful lady ❤

I just want to know how he managed to make time for her😂. This man was so crafty. I believe he showered her with all that affection so she would never have a suspicion

As much as we can advise here and there, sometimes we must let Owami be and come as she prepared. I'm sure she works hard on preparing for these interviews. Now we are here scoring her performances and not even engaging on the story brought to the table. We now discuss how she did instead of focusing on the guests and the lessons we are to learn. I know we are trying to help but sometimes it's too much, especially because everyone has their own "what to do" It's not nice with every interview there's a bunch of things she must correct, aowa bathong, give her a break. I'm not against constructive criticism but there's a thin line between that and having a "critical spirit" of just looking out for the negatives so that you can point out! I bet if we focused more on hearing what the story is all about and not her performance, we will even forget with the "constructive criticism"😅😅😅 Everyone gets better at what they do with time, give her that.🙏🏽💕 Keep them coming Queen O❤❤❤❤❤ Interesting interview 👍🏾 👌🏽 👏🏾

This episode is mind blowing, how she narrated.. Owamies interviewing style, camera quality, clean space…. please 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

The start of the interview was a big no for me, atleast if you started with how did you meet your husband, then why you getting a divorce. next time ask some questions like the upbringing, siblings etc anyway it was a great interview

The amount of effort these men put into deceiving women is astonishing... if he put that energy into things that benefit the community, we wiukd all be in such a different place as a people across the globe.

Well done Owamie,u have really grown and I must say I respect the fact tat u take advices from Ninjas tats why u r doing so well❤️

Thee gorgeous Vulry Muthabi. A lady of class and elegance ❤ May God give her the grace to overcome this. Enjoyed the interview. Thanks ninja

Owamie you are amazing dear, your work speaks for it self it speaks volumes. I have also started a RU-vid channel because of you. Thank you dear, we truly need people like you who truly motivate us by being who they are and working hard ❤❤❤

Saze sabaningi who are to appear on the podcast because wow we’ve been swindled ke sana 🥺🥺🥺

Lol husbands and giving their wives their old/other phones💀💀 This is also how my stepmom caught my dad.😭😭😂

Bathong, such a gorgeous woman . He fumbled

Its screaming low self esteem and no confidence for this man.. he was consistently seeking for validation even he couldn’t believe she said yes to marrying him

Owamie. Yho. I could feel in the lady's voice that she actually expressed the feelings like it was happening again 😢

This really proves that there's no formula 😢that guy was really dedicated to his infedelity

I personally dont think the brother was cheating,he is a scammer and judging from the way they met,the guy is targerting all these bussiness ladies and made them to believe he loves them then he strikes ,in other words brother is a yahoo boy,that's why he spend his time on facebook saying the same thing to all these ladies

He behaved exactly exactly like Limpopian men😭those ones are very manipulative

Everything Owamie touches turns to gold, my dhiye❤😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉

@ Owamie, love bombing can last for years. I was love bombed for over a year. They show their true colors once they have you firmly in their grip, e.g getting engaged or married

I hate people who encourage people to stay, forgive etc they dig you deeper 😒 but you are left alone and end up in that ditch for too long maybe lifetime

Background noise got me, nevertheless awesome content 👌🏽

I like that Owamie allows her guests to talk and doesn’t interject.. you’ll grow from here Ninja..

She is a good story teller 😢😢

I’m so sorry to hear about this Vulry😢. Your marriage looked so perfect on social media but I’m glad you put yourself and son first by leaving. ❤

Im not going to repeat what everyone has said about structure but I so beleive that a solid structure does make the story. I would add that Owamie will get better with time at this. No one starts off perfectly at anything.

Owamie your face when she said "thank for accepting my friend request" 😂😂😂

My first time coming across your videos. Im from the UK. I love this. Such a thourough, open and honest conversation abiut her experience. She was very vulnerable and open. You guys left no stone unturned. I felt like i was in the house with my girlies spilling tea and going through the healing process. I need to start my podcast nah

Owamie who dresses you, you've up your game girl you are a heater in summer 😂😂❤❤🎉

She married a serial cheater your thoz ones have innerself problems dat no matter how much u can love them dey will never change. U dd well girl

Wow Owamie.... Best interview ever so far. Your guest was so relaxed and narrated her story so well.😊

Ayt, at this point I’m wondering 🤔Do we even wanna get married ??

My excitement when i log into youtube on a Monday and find the second episode! 😊 Well done owamie! I love the way you handle the guests and the way you introduce the issue at hand. I wouldnt change a thing. 👏 👏 👏

🎉🎉Jackpot Owamie !!! This is amazing…. Fly sisi we see you and your hustle

Owani is a good interviewer, she ask relevant questions and give the guest chance to tell her story. Lovely

This lady is so beautiful and calm. She looks like a sweet and peaceful person🥰

Owamie I used to watched you long time ago and due to my own personal circumstances I have not watched you in a long time, to come back and see soo much elevation on your channel it has made my heart smile if anyone deserves this it’s definitely you! Wishing you much more success and happiness

This lady is a great interviewee. I love how she’s detailed and to the point. She’s open and doesn’t withhold information; even though I know what she went through was very painful. God will be the lifter of her head.

Love the podcast but next time try to limit the noise from the outside people

At the beginning I just thought and felt like Owami was tempted to say “let’s dive into this “Chende” 😅😂❤

How i loved this interview, dated a narcissist for 6 months could definitely relate❤

Good interview so far but here are some of the things you should start doing -don’t dive straight into the issue follow up questions will lead to that Questions should be arranged like this: -when and where did you meet your husband -how long have you guys been dating before getting married - what did you like about your husband -what kind of the person he was prior to marriage -take us through your marriage -then you guys will talk about the divorce after she unpacked her marriage…… Maybe you can also ask about the romantic thing her husband has ever done for her…. Haven’t done watching though…

He fumbled !!!

When your gut tells you, listen and believe

Giiiiiirl you on fire ... upwards all the way, this is the content we need ... something that is relatable

Girrrrllll 😮 I've been saying yoh for 56 minutes and 1 second.

Absolutely no interruptions whatsoever.. Other platforms can learn a thing or two from uOwamie❤

Yoh, she really took us through her romance story...you can feel the love and emotions she went through, takes us through how she felt psychologically and the disillusionment

I am really traumatized 😞 yoh guys....what's happening to this generation

May this podcast be a success in every way🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

Money doesnt equal love....I'm 38 minutes in and all I heard was all the material ish she received from this man....zero info on the character of this guy or why she loved him....but asikho lapho😂

Definitely getting better with interviews! I loved this episode

I hope our lady heals from this horrific experience

Can't wait for part 2. Thank you for the beautiful interview

This guy treated her so well ,I totally get why she never suspected anything. He was always home ,always calling there was literally no hints of it

Beautiful lady 😍 Thanks Owamie for sharing Indaba zabantu siyazithanda shem

First time watching and it was worth it! This is raw and real,great job Owamie!🙌🏽👏🏽I can’t wait for part 2🙏🏽❤️

Owamie Owamie Owamie! This is the ninja I followed years ago. I am not even 5 minutes into watching, but I can see this is meant for you. 🎉🎉🎉 As much as sometimes we dont agree with your opinions but this here is taking you places. Keep it up.

Please speak to the people in the background 😢 they literally are having a full on conversation and even laughing.

Your potcast is the real deal and we really appreciate those raw true stories 🎉🤝

Im sorry cc for all that you went through..God is with you...ALWAYS

This was really great I’m hooked and can’t wait for part 2!!!

That was one of the best interviews I've watched in ages

As women we've been through a lot, to be called izimbokodo is an understatement struu bob🤞 just that we all not saying our stories because wow

New subscriber from Namibia

I liked the video before i even listened..thats how powerful you are ma'am ❤