just to clarify!!! raising your kids without enforcing gender stereotypes: YES telling your kid they’re non binary and using they/them pronouns for them straight out the womb: not my vibe personally
Nobody tells their kid they are NB. People use they/them prns for their kids to help them understand their gender. They don't gender them until they tell them how to.
as a cis woman, i feel 10000000% more violated by having to "prove I'm a woman" to use a restroom than I do when a trans woman uses the same bathroom as me. why do people think that other women using a stall affects them so much??????? like bruh just piss and get out of there, it's not that deep
yeah absolutely same. many places don't even have separate restrooms but suddenly transwomen using one is such a big problem. like no sane person cares about this.
My mum likes to remind me shes very loving and supportive of my transition until I ask her about all gender bathrooms. Then suddenly she cant use the same bathroom as a man because "he'd be fertling with his bits in there" I daren't ask her about trans women
Tbh when it’s a single stall bathroom like that I’ll just use whichever is available. I’ve used a single stall men’s restroom on multiple occasions if the women’s is already in use. I’d probably just use the men’s bathroom in this scenario instead of having to ask for a key.
@@superdrwholock Ngl I was kinda one of those kids, maybe not very homophobic but I really thought that I was born in wrong generation lol. It's very easy when your parents always tell you that their times were better in every aspect.
Came out to my bf today and his reaction is leaving me crying tears he literally went :”so I have a boyfriend now? Im gay? HELL YEA!” :’) help- Edit: we broke up due to family complications but we're still friends :)
When your little girl likes monster trucks and you have to force (force being the key word here) her to wear dresses and do girly things. The argument isn't that we think it's transphobic, the argument is that it's ABUSIVE! The only time it's okay to "force" your kid to do anything, is when it's for their well being and to keep them safe. If you're doing it just because you "don't want them to turn gay" or "it's not proper for a young lady to act like that" etc. it's abusive and manipulative and toxic. That's the argument!
its so sad, grown women force their children to wear dresses because they're insecure about their kids gender. wtf it doesn't mean they're trans if they don't like dresses. the majority of my female identifying friends hate wearing dresses and the one friend I have that is questioning their gender likes dresses. the way someone dresses doesn't mean shit relating to their gender identity!
@@greysonholtz Exactly. I love dresses, makeup, painting my nails, pink, and other traditionally “feminine” things, but I’m still trans. Those types of things mean nothing
it's not even transphobic its just deeply sexist " you are a girl so you must wear dresses". I didn't realise I wanted to be a boy as a kid even tho the signs were so clearly there bc i didn't have massive social distinctions between boys and girls growing up, p.e was mixed and i played for the boys team in school tournaments and even the local boys football club. when i decided i hated pink and dresses my parents were like lol okay you'll grow out of it and just left me to wear what i want, a lot of my clothes were my brothers clothes that he grew out of :) .
If I have a kid when I'm older I am not going to make them wear things they don't want to wear just because it's the gender norm like if I have a girl I'm not going to go out of my way to get more dresses for her and if I have a boy I'm not going to go out of my way to get him a little suit but I'm also not going to go out of my way to buy them clothes that are typically worn by the opposite gender if I see something cute I'm going to get it and not really care if its not meant for my child's gender. Also with that, it would just be when they are too young to care what they wear when they're old enough to choose what they want to wear if my son wants to wear a dress then I'll buy him a dress its really not that hard to let your kid wear the clothes they want to wear
10:19 so, im a trans boy. im still a minor and my parents claim im “too young” to be thinking about “adult topics” but they don’t understand it makes me uncomfortable. they use she/her, my deadname, call me a girl, try to get me to wear feminine clothes, wont let me cut my hair in a more masc way and they wonder why i wont open up to them. this is why noah is one of my favorite people on the internet.
You poor poor thing. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Don’t give up, it is 100% possible to live as your true self, even if that life seems a million light years away❤️
I told someone I use he/they pronouns and their response was "wait because u have ""they"" pronouns does that mean if u go to McDonald's and buy a big Mac for $9 does that mean you have to pay $18?"🤯
literally, my sister came out as a lesbian to my grandma and my grandma said, "well that's a bit sad, isn't it". like, we're not crying grandma, get over it, my sister is super happy in her life
My grandmother went on about it being a phase, stole my binders and undid my sewing so they're literally just disgusting bras now, like the design is NOT suited for that kind of use, it's supposed to be a binder. I literally hate old people so much
She shouldnt be touching your stuff ik shes old but if u have let her know how u feel and ur boundaries and to never touch ur stuff again (depends on ur age be careful with my advice)
@@katiejohnson3571 What would be the best is to tell them that men have been wearing skirts for centuries, you see paintings of kings, queens, nobles etc. wearing skirts. Same with heeled shoes, they were originally designed for men, but later became a fashion for women which eventually became the norm. Clothing is a social structure, but these people act like its related to biology, which is bs of course.
Ok here opinion as a cis woman, pee and leave, literally it does not affect anyone if a trans woman pees, and if it does affect you seek therapy, let people be themselves
@@FreeTheDonbas uhh because then if they are able to enter the bathroom with the gender they are in freely then they’d feel more accepted and validated?
boy am I glad my parents actually let me play with more "boyish" toys like Avengers figurines and dinosaurs and remote control cars... and see? I'm cis. I don't think giving your kids certain toys affects their gender at all, toys are toys. They're fun to play with. and if your kid ends up being trans in the end?? Don't blame it on the toys.
"I bet every time these people have arguments they'll sit in the shower for hours on end, and you know, come up with comebacks or things they should've said in the argument." -Noah 2021
Yeah I once saw this tweet that was like “I went to a pride march and people kept asking me my pronouns and it felt like they were attacking my femininity!” And I was just like: Girl wut?🤨
@ThatCoolKid pls I’m from the south in America and people are like “huh? I’m straight” or “I don’t have pronouns” when I ask them their pronouns and it’s so funny🤣
Noah taking about having transphobic parents really makes me feel a lot better about my situation. I’ve have to deal with transphobic parents for the last three years, I’ve come out four times and each time was dismissed. I’ve started recently socially transitioning, and I’ve found that my friends are living examples that my parents *should* be more accepting. I’ve asked them to call me by my chosen name and pronouns and was turned down, I asked to buy a binder and was told that it was, “a big commitment that we’re not ready to make” not a commitment for me. For them. I also bought the binders with my own money and they were stolen by my parents. I struggle with coming to terms with the fact that they could be better and that they should be better. I feel like they aren’t bad parents, but if it were someone else’s situation, I would say they were. Thank you Noah, you saying that transphobic parents are sh*tty means more than you know.
Similar situation here. I knew my parents wouldn't support me so i didn't come out to them, but they found out on their own. Not once have they even tried to gender me correctly, use my name, or let me dress fem. I had to do all of that in secret. And yet they still claim to "support" me, even tho all they did was try to talk me out of being trans and misgender and deadname me daily. And i never really said anything about it, because i knew it was pointless. I'm sorry you're in that situation. Just know that there are people who've also been there and that you aren't alone ❤
8:51 When I told my parents I’m lesbian, they said that they “accept me”, but that they still think I’m too young to make that type of decision, and that the internet has been feeding me lies?? Like how is that acceptance 💀
@@wingsofthv aaaa same!! I want to adopt; but they keep saying that they don’t care if I’m lesbian, I need to have children! I’m legit NEVER having children.
@@bunny.boo531 uhuh same if i’m ever having kids - which is unlikely, i prefer getting a dog instead - i’d adopt. And I’m sorry they’re being like that, it must suck :(
I’ve tried offing myself twice, one because I was scared of myself, and what people would think of me for being trans. One because my mother rejected me when I did tell her, when I realized I don’t know how to do anything. Today I’m lucky, I live with my father who supports me, I have friends who are my family. And I’m six months on T. It is still hard, some days more then others, but I’ve worked hard and I’m almost at my top surgery goal. The only thing keeping me going is my best friend/brother who wants to chill in a hot tub when we both can be shirtless. Stay strong everyone.
I am cis female and, when I had short hair, a child asked me if I was a “boy or a girl”. The child asked innocently and I don’t hold it against them, but it was tough for me to hear that I didn’t look feminine.. I’ve had multiple men say “thank you, sir” and it upset me.. I think for trans people it must be 1000x worse
I'm FtM and the first time I came out my mom and her partner forced me back in the closet. I came back out and my mom still isn't accepting. She refuses to use my pronouns and consistently uses my dead name, she also says I'm selfish for being myself and how badly it's going to hurt my kids and how much they will be bullied because I'm trans. She even got mad at me because my two year old got into nail polish and painted his nails and I didn't tell him it was wrong, she says I have some agenda to turn my son gay...
when my little brother was ages 2-5 he would always ask our mother if she could paint his nails, today he is 13 and probably one of the straightest boys I know so yeah anyone who says that boys liking nail polish is an agenda to turn them gay, can deal with it because guess what make-up and clothing has no gender you can be a cishet boy who likes make-up you can be a cishet boy who likes wearing skirts or croptops wear and do things that make you happy not other people
Kids are curious little things 💀 my brother always wants to paint his nails when my mom paint her's and she does only one finger ( he currently has one toe that painted purple) but aside from like nail painting , he may be three but he is the perfect definition of a boy 😭
I can sadly relate. I came out of the closet as FtM Trans, but my parents forced me back into the closet again. It’s been quite a while, and I don’t know if I should come out again. I don’t want them to like hurt me again or something.
It's so tiring as an LGBT+ person to have the same arguments OVER and OVER again when there's evidence out there supporting us and our right to exist, jeez
Your right to exist is never disputed. Stop your transperbole. The objection is to men, and that includes transwomen, using women's facilities and competitions.
Folks arguing against a point that wasn’t actually made by the opposing group is called a “Straw Man Argument.” So like saying that trans people are saying cis people can’t raise their children as their AGAB, I’ve never heard that come from a trans person and never thought that myself. Something I do identify is looking back and wishing I had grown up with less strict gender stereotypes and had been able to dress the way I wanted, and done the things I wanted to do. Straw men arguments are designed to be weak because as the name would imply, they’re a lot easier to burn than any actual argument one is making.
Im cis, i have a baby who is afab, i use she/her pronouns for her (but if she realises others suit her better when she is older then absolutely i will use other ones). I dont dress her girly and have asked people to avoid dresses and pink because as soon as people hear you have a girl that is allllll they get her. Her clothes are very neutral, mainly from the boys section but some from the girls. I bought her one dress recently but i keep things like that to a minimum. Partly because i would hate for her to be trans and then hate that i dressed her all super girly, whereas if the clothes are a bit more neutral she wouldn't necessarily be as ashamed to show baby photos etc... but also because i dont want to put gender stereotypes on her. Like regardless of anything trans related, i don't want her thinking she has to play with "girls" toys and only wear pink dresses. That way, when she gets old enough to show a preference she hasnt been pre-programmed to like those things. And no doubt the world will try and put stereotypes on her, but i want to try and limit any that we put on her (nobody's perfect, we all live in this world after all). That's just my opinion on it and i dont look down on anyone who wants to dress their child more gendered (although you would be surprised how offended other mums are or they tell you, oh she will choose pink herself anyway!), like what you do is up to you. I didnt find out the sex and i remember a woman at my work saying if you have a boy, your partner can go take him to play sports.... i just said, oh he can take a girl too... 🙃 what person in this day and age thinks only boys like sports... its 2021.
@@smhmyhead9184 no but with clothing comes lots of expectations and I know if i had a boy i probably wouldnt put a dress on him for fear of backlash from people (although if he chose to then I absolutely would let him). So keeping clothes a bit more neutral just feels more comfortable to me than overly gendered. It's not just about clothing because as she understands more, it's about not overly reinforcing stereotypes. Clothes may not have a gender but in society they are treated like they do. Her grandma has already bought her a bright pink walker that is shaped like a pushchair with a doll in it but waited until her boy cousin was out of the room (3 weeks between them) to tell me it was for my child. Even though i have explained not wanting to overly gender her with clothes and toys.. Also it feels like colour coding my child for her genitals which to me feels a bit icky. Like, i dont care what others do, but i just dont want to.
hey Noah! just wanted to say thank you because you educated me and showed me how to be there for my trans friend. i didn't know how, until like six months ago when I found your videos. i met him three months ago and if i wouldn't watch you i wouldn't know how to act. i really want to be kind to people so thank you for showing me what should i do. my friend is suffering now (because of gender dysphoria and family stuff) and i really want to be there for him because he is a lovely person and i just want him to be happy. so again thank you, love your content
I’m gay, and in middle school (eighth grade I think) someone in my class asked me if I would date a trans guy. And I said “yes, trans guys are guys too” and he told me that made me bi because I apparently was willing to date girls 🙄
My parents once called me 'princess' in an argument, of which, I've been out as non-binary for more than a year, and man, did that make me feel hurt. I felt so hurt, I didn't want to come downstairs, all I did was cry. They told me I was being 'sensitive'. My mum did 'apologise' but did so in a way like I was being dramatic, like my feelings didn't matter.
Heres the thing about trans women in bathrooms I'm a trans woman, and I like men. I'm in the closet so I'm in the mens restroom all the time But I'm not attacking men in the restroom And by their logic those men would be safer if I was in the womens restroom... right?
And above all they straight up ignore gay, lesbian,queer and bisexual people's whole entire existence. Like literally I'm into women, but that doesn't mean I'd do anything stupid, as in attacking/violating their privacy and making them uncomfortable
@@vanessadmitrivosco5631 yeah, and sometimes they say "women don't want exposed to male genitalia" Oh yes, let me just walk into the bathroom with my junk out, totally, people do that
The thing is, it’s not just transphobia, it’s also sexist because if we strip away some of the layers the core premise is that all afab people are weak and delicate and need protecting and all amab people are beasts whose sole motive in life is sex. Like I can understand not wanting people to get assaulted, but maybe then we should teach cis men to not assault people, instead of assuming that is inevitable and forcing women to have to be afraid of men?? But also if not wanting people to get assaulted is their supposed premise, then they should want trans women to be protected most of all since they are statistically the most likely to be assaulted.
If they were seriously so worried about people getting attacked in restrooms maybe they should plan the spaces better. Like offer gender-neutral single toilets that are not hidden in some shady back corridor of a shopping center like too many public restrooms at the moment. But of course they won't, because they're not really worried about women getting attacked, but of trans people being accepted as humans!
LOL, I love how Terfs and Transphobes think that simply liking (gender associated product) means that is the only sign that someone is trans. No Honey. knew I was trans because whenever I looked into the mirror pre transition, I would break down from dysphoria. And transitioning made me happier with my very existence.
my grandmother and grandfather have two lgbtq+ kids, have an lgbtq+ daughter in law (one of my moms) and all three of my siblings are in the lgbtq community, and they are accepting. You can be old and okay with the lgbtq, you cant use your age to not like the lgbtq.
Had a trans girl on my football team, absolutely lovely, and when my mom found out she called it all the cliche stuff like 'its unfair' misgendered her publically, and she still brings it up.
To help with Noah’s detransition statistic argument, one of my classmates had a 3% chance of surviving his brain cancer (dw hes alive and no longer has cancer!!). The doctors still wanted to go through with the treatments. 3%. And ppl are tryna say that more than a 99% chance isn’t worth it?? Yes that -1% still exists. That’s why it’s so hard to get these transitions in the first place -Sincerely, your local trans man who almost became part of that 40 something % bc his parents suck
Just wanna say, Hope you’re better now dude & things are easier for you. And if not that’s kinda sad but well, it happens, regardless what it is, I hope you have a good life out there, good luck, much love & you're awesome for keeping your grip on life. Btw I like your channel design, both pfp and background heh.
@@FreeTheDonbas i believe i was referencing something said in the video, but it’s a statistic of how many trans people have unalived themselves. frankly i’m not sure why i mentioned it
@@Anasumi i know it’s been over a year but you have no idea how much i appreciate this. i didn’t see it at the time and frankly i don’t remember exactly how i was doing but i’m doing so much better now than i was before, i can guarantee that much
@@contravictoire You think 40% of trans people have unalived themselves? i haven't been able to find a source for that stat. At best it might be 40% self-reported attempted unaliving themselves. Actual unaliving stats are under 1%, even the high ones.
the amount of transphobic people on tiktok is rising currently but at the same time more and more people are coming out as trans. I guess its a good and bad time for the trans community.
it reminds me hella of the time when tumblr was a very open and safe space for queer (especially trans people) there were endless jokes about “1000 genders” and “apache helicopter” and what not. while awareness is raising it seems so is hate. 2020&2021 have been the most deadly year for trans non-binary people and yet our community is growing and stronger than ever. it’s a horrible double edged sword
@@FreeTheDonbas There's this thing where when times get safer and safer for gay and trans people, the more they'll feel safe coming out. There's nothing trendy about about being trans/non-binary and there's nothing trendy about being cis. I'm non-binary myself. Sorry, having barely any rights doesn't seem like a fun trend, buddy. And, clearly you're just here to stir up drama, as I've seen you in other comments sections. And, maybe, I'm proud to be non-binary and like to flaunt it as I damn well please. It is not my fault that people are transphobic. Transphobes are gonna find ways to be transphobic regardless. I wasn't put on this Earth to please ANYBODY, especially transphobes. So, your problem is with transphobes, not us. I do experience dysphoria, but euphoria is way more positive and clear. It's why I'm planning on going on hormones and getting top surgery, but not bottom surgery because I'm not dysphoric down there. You can kindly fuck off about with your whole "they make us look bad". No, I am not gonna pretend to be someone I'm not just so I can get some cis approval. I ain't nobody's bitch, you got that? Suck on a dick.
@@esausanchez473 good as in it's a good thing more people are coming out as transgender or good as in there are more people who feel the right/need to disrespect others?
I came out to my mom when I was like 12 for the first time she gave me the whole "it's a phase you'll grow out of it your just not comfortable with your femininity" talk and then acted like I never said anything and straight up ignored me and she would let me cut my hair and she would force me to be feminine and dress girly and then she also ignored my depression and SH even after I attempted to unlive myself she paid no attention to it and play it off like it was just "a stressful time" for me and about a week ago (now 16) I tried to come out to her again and she kicked me out of the house and I moved in with my older brother (21) and yea that was ✨FUN✨
Yeah, my kid has a problem that destroys all his self-confidence, that makes him hate himself, destroys his mental health and maybe self-****, develop eating disorders or addictions and more, anxiety and depression that wil last for many years if not kinda all their life once its there, prevent him to be successfull in school and so have all the chances to have the job he wants, and not have a joyfull social life. We should definitely wait until he's 18 to do anything.
i love how there are people from countries where english is official language that have problem with they/them prounauns. like dude, it's gramaticly correct. what the f am i suppouse to do with language, where even a table has a gender?
IKR!! Are you Polish? I'm just guessing based on the lightning bolt on your pfp. But yeah English speakers don't realise how lucky they are compared with many European languages when it comes to gender and gender neutral pronouns etc. In Polish gender neutral = masculine, basically, which is, uh, not great :/
Same with Romanian. We literally learn the gender of nouns in school and they/they pronouns don't even exist. Wish me luck telling my Romanian parents in Romanian that my pronouns are she/they 🤪
I think parents should always be supportive of their children that come out to them. At least they could entertain the idea of a social transition. If they truly are “confused” they’ll realize at some point “oh this isn’t right for me, I was wrong,” but that’s when you support them unconditionally like pls
The funny thing is, before I realized I was non-binary, I was the most confused and now that I know I am non-binary, I have more clarity than ever. Like I feel like I’m an actual whole person now.
I really think teaching kids about LGBTQIA+ is extremely important, and somewhat easy I don’t believe kids are born homophobic and therefore we can prevent them from hurting people in the future I can only speak for myself but as a kid who were taught without it being some extremely odd thing to look at wide eyed it was clear as glass that I was going to support the community. It’s horrible to face discrimination and oppression by people of something you can’t change
It's confusing when people are against hormone blockers and their argument is that "they're confused" and "they'll change their mind later." Hormone blockers are fully reversible. You know what's not? Puberty. The whole point of them is to give someone time to figure it out!
I’m very glad I have very supportive sisters, parents and family. They’re letting me dress goth, dye my hair black, cut my hair and get bangs have my own room, trust me and just having someone who’s by your side is amazing, if you don’t, maybe I can help
my mom told me 'no you're not trans" and 'you're confused' next morning she apologised, like yea nice but it doesnt fix what you said, and now im actually questioning if i am really trans :/ before i came out i was like 99% sure i was trans .
@@elisaciardiello9308 yeah my mom told me that she “didn’t think i was” and said “satan is at work”. like, thanks but i’m pretty sure i know myself better that you. also, i think the best way to figure out if you’re trans is to just socially transition and see how comfortable you are with that first. gender is fluid and you don’t need to know right away. so no pressure. i hope you’re doing well
Hi Noah, I love your videos. I’m non binary and when I told my parents and they just said I’m confused but I figured it out when I was 12 (I’m 14 now) and is horrible when my parents use the wrong pronouns it makes me rly uncomfortable and now I have a partner who is non binary and I don’t know how to tell my parents. But thank you for making my day better. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️💜
Ahh, thank you for this. I had to spend the day in a doctor's office with a transphobe, and today was the first day that the doctors and staff started to call me by my preferred name. That was a really pleasant surprise for me, and a horrific one for her. The result of the whole thing was my arm being too petrified to move since I got two shots and two vials of blood drawn from me and my mom's blatant transphobia and newfound hatred for my dad, all combining to make my head feel lighter than air. Again, I thank you.
I know a cis girl that changed her name in kindergarten. She didn't feel comfortable with her birth name, and she is still going by the name she chose at the age of 3. If her parents weren't letting her go by the name she chose it was weird, right? So why is it ok for transphobic parents not to allow their kids chose their own name?
my mom cornered me the other day about my gender bc while i was away at uni i was totally out and dressing how i feel comfy. came back wearing what i had been wearing out in school. So i come out to her (by force) and she said she supported me and wanted to learn but has since never correctly gendered me or made any effort to support me and i feel CRAZY yall
just want to say that watching your videos and listening to your music helped me come out as trans to family and they were super supportive and i just wanted to say thank you
little bit of a vent tbh sorry (Tw: Transphobia and mentioning unaliving) My mother being extremely transphobic and putting me down for it, and gas lighting me and saying im a terrible horrible kid and making me cry and feel so uncomfy even being by her, and she expects me to keep it to myself and not to talk about it at all, and she expects me to not unalive myself, and let it rot my insides, and then when she catches me telling my friends that shes kind of a sh***y mother she goes straight into a panic mode and she doesnt understand why I said it and she takes everything away from me thinking that would 'fix' it, and she found out by accident that I was trans and she keeps saying im 'lying' to her about my gender like woman thats what coming out is for ahhh sorry
): i'm sorry u have to deal with people like this they're terrible i think ur mother will except you soon, try to explain it a little more maybe i wish u luck, and PLS dont unalive urself
I'm trans male and I made a joke about how I'm not a girl and my dad and older brother got all pissy about how "why is that even a thing" and when I gave my opinion he said "Well ur always gonna be my daughter and I'll always love you." 😑
I look up to you for a number of reasons Noah, i am starting to find myself and realise that, I think I'm trans, your videos have helped me so much, I spent a few hours binging your trans videos and they have really helped, I just wanted to say thank you 🖤
I came out to my parents and they basically said no and refuse to call me by the right name so I watch funny transphobic tiktoks to make me feel better
i loved this video, i normally can’t engage in content that looks into transphobic/hateful content, but it feels like you’re holding my hand through this so thank you
I am so glad my parents didn't freak out over me playing with cars and plastic- peppers-. Like I wasnt forced to be girly and I'm still not trans, I'm just a tomboy. Forcing gender roles on children wont help anything, it's okay to let them play with toys that are labeled ,,for the opposite gender" that's not gonna make them turn gay or whatever
“They’ll have all the time when adults.” But the damage is already done by then. All the time in the world to deal with the trauma of going through a puberty that dramatically alters your body in ways that are so abhorrent to you. What’s fair in that?
Exactly. My parents say I can only transition when I'm over 18. Now, I would understand this if they were referring to me getting top and bottom surgery because it's a pain to reverse if I get this wrong and two, it's expensive to reverse. But they said that I need to 'tow the line' as a girl and that hurt. It hurt knowing they knew what I was going through and were still forcing me be a girl with girl pronouns and a girl name. Hell, I couldn't even change my style of dressing. Luckily, I have three of my big bro's shirts that I wear all the time.
@@LAURA--- Great people like you are the only thing keeping me going. Continue being your amazing self and if someone exploits you for that, i dont know, punch em in the mouth😅🤣❤
5:27 he’s right, i WOULDNT want to date a trans woman. i’m gay, she’s a girl, so i wouldnt date her 🤷🏼♂️ update: i wouldn’t date anyone actually ☠️ aroacecore
I've only recently accepted I'm trans and what always annoys me is when people say it's a choice. It's really not. I'd choose to be cis if I could. I'd choose not to be a demiguy if I could. Being a demiguy is really complicated to explain and it only complicates my life. But I know deep down that I'm a masculine person. I don't like she/her pronouns. It feels wrong to be referred to as female. I know I won't be happy pretending I'm a woman because I'm not a woman. I feel extremely dysphoric over my own body rn since I have "feminine features" as my family puts it.
I tried killing myself multiple times coz I didn't have support my family abandoned me and it took me alot to get where I am and the help of u Noah too I'd watch your videos and be like right I can do this so thank u for doing your videos am so happy your doing well I wish. I could come to your tours 💝
I have semi transphobic parents as a trans man, they say I can’t go on T until I become 18 they also say I can’t even use hormone blockers they said I can’t cut my hair too short and the worst part is my mom is a literal mental heath councilor.
Kinda a lil story of my life: I'm an afab enby and usually wear more feminine clothes, but this day I was wearing jeans and a hoodie. I was on the bus and had my headphones in, and the lady that asked for the ticked called me a guy, how I love wearing a mask
trans people deserve for their identity to be affirmed i remember a buddy i had in high school and he went to the guys group and he would talk about how happy it made him
ppl be like "children aren't allowed to make any lifelong permanent decisions" then tell 12 y/o kids to choose a carreer path. like, when I was 16 I still didn't have an idea what I wanted to work as, but I sure knew whether or not I was comfortable with the pronouns people addressed me with/the way I looked etc.
@@ray-13-T.S yeah I was allergic to it but my brother wore it so they wanted to see me in it or something 😭 This happened with so many hats from relatives to
Do those washrooms not lock from the inside? They either added a needless hurdle for women to be judged or they expect men to be completely okay with people opening the door while they're going to the washroom and I'm not comfortable with either of those scenarios.
I was going through a really tough time 2 years ago where I was chain smoking, drinking constantly and just getting stoned everyday to escape my dysphoria and depression. My parents at the time who I was still living with didn’t know I was gender fluid were worried about me so they sat me down and tried speaking to me so I just told them, they refused to believe that I was gender fluid and kept saying I was always going to be their little girl. I continue to tell them I want to go by Noxx but they keep not listening
Love coming to this channel to hear Noah school transphobes right after I was misgendered by my grandma and her boyfriend today.. don’t you just love people using the wrong pronouns for you? especially on your birthday?! 🥲🙃🎉 I suck at correcting people I just melt internally lol anybody got advice?
Look the person in the eye and say,"my name is (insert name here). My pronouns are (insert chosen pronouns here). I would like you to use my correct name and pronouns." Practice saying it alone. And lemme know if you need more help,ok?
