Trans Guys Comparing Transitions ft. Noah Finnce 

I'm 3 weeks late but if you want any other channels that are from trans people's perspectives there is a guy named Sam Collins (ftm) and a lady named Samantha Lux (mtf). Also, good on you for being a supportive parent :)

@@nikkibella1607 oh those two are great.

Thank you, so much, for supporting your kid. You have no idea how important that is to a trans kid, or at least the majority of trans kids. Thank you for taking the time to look into this sort of thing. Thank you for believing them, and that what they are telling you is right for them. Sorry for the cringey comment. Keep kicking ass; you’re being a great parent.

Thank you for being such awesome parents

yoo i’m thirteen too as well as trans and let me tell you testosterone has given me a huge confidence boost!

Man you're right, Noah talks soooo fast

its because hes really really smart it sometimes happens when youre really smart

Jennifer From leeuwarre i'm not smart, but i talk fast

@@user-ww1ns6hv1r same

@@jenniferfromleeuwarre54 people with adhd also talk fast and it seems like he has it a bit so

Charlie ReedNo, that’s not his last name.

Fin is his middle name :)

Haha that took me like a full minute to get the joke 😂

Gay Wizard that’s just his user, it’s meant to sound like No Offense 😂 his middle name is Finn so I guess it does partially come from that

I JUST realized that

This is me. I'm more interested in learning about this than I am maths

Relatable

Mood

Lol I said this two years ago. And whoops I am ftm trans.

Shouldn't your name be ottosdottir (according to the traditional naming system, which is only used in Iceland to my knowledge)?

Bruh youtube auto generate captions are drunk

@@pixiesh1850 yum, spuds

Omg yes, I don’t know how to turn my subtitles off so I have made so many comments on people’s videos when the subtitles mess up in a funny way.

@@AlexNoIts press "cc" at the top it'll turn them off

My Coca Cola tastes like a mix of gummy vitamins and doctor gloves. I’m so confused

not all people get acne

Ok I was not prepared for someone to want someone else’s skin today and I figured out how he does it Lazarus pit

@@kimorabo only if your skin is already acneec

Super Man, Batman and Skin Man

I thought he was underage, baby face, great skin.

i hope that works out! we love supportive parents ❤️

hope everything works out💖💖💖

Good for you!! I wish you well💙

@@transamination UGHHHHHHH go awayyyyyyy. We don’t need transphobes here. Why did you even click on the video? I’m so fucking sick of you people.

Im happy for you! Greatest of luck!

Thank you mate!

I am the same way and do the same thing. I don't really have an issue with body image, but I can agree they help with the appearance

I've personally started going for tapered pants, which are snug around the hips and narrow down to the ankles, but are not as fitted as skinny fit pants. They look trim and give a good silhouette with straight sides without causing that flappy boat-sails look around your knees that you get with a straight cut. I've also gotten into watching out for men with wide hips when I'm out and about. There really is a big variety of hip sizes in men, you do get the guys who are straight thin sticks, but I've spotted guys with hip proportions that are as big as mine and they absolutely look very guy despite it. I find that upper-body proportions matter a lot more than lower-body proportions.

As a woman with the opposite problem., who gains weight in their belly, arms and chest, with no changes to my butt or hips thanks for the tip on what not to wear!

As a girl who dresses masculine I can confirm that those have contributed to me being mistaken for a boy before. They are very comfortable as well

Ana2908 yeah yeah

I cant unhear it now

yeah yeah yeah yeah?

Wow, wow, wow as well

Honestly it applies to all british conversations

honestly

NoahFinnce Oh my fucking god.

@@NOAHFINNCE And you're the love of my life

Julia oh yikes

ship it

wh- SIOBHAN?? Whatre you doin here

The real tea

[GwynTM ] or he has no time to bother about it,chatting is his thing,really🤣

You got me thinking now...if Deadpool had chesticles and yeeted them...would they grow back?

She/He/they knows to much

Was gonna ask, why would one freeze sperm, then I understood...medical sciences are friggin awesome 👍

@@z_ed It makes a good ice cream topping.

Zernium LMAOO NOOO

it is good tho

@Tasha Fox thanks

Even as a straight cis woman it sounds bad! But so understandable that he did it. He was very brave.

Ya just adopt. Don't force anyone into this dying planet for selfish reproductive wants.

JustJ8 You must be fun at parties

Sounds good scary and I'm trans ftm I don't want that to happen to me

22mm eggs. 26 of them. I'm q u a k i n g. It sounds horrifying, I can't even imagine...

I was like "Ova?" but then I realised you meant over, not the plural of ovum.

I acknowledge this Harry Potter joke and it made me happy

What Harry Potter movie is that from it’s killing me

omg right after I commented that it came to me I’m so stupid omg

@@snipermask8766 Prisoner of Azkaban. Its when Harry is getting of the Knight bus. Its Stan shunpike saying it to him.

Sustain The Higher thank you

G B r u asking what the nhs is or..?

Very much true @Sustain The Higher, but the thing is, when people are experiencing the onset of puberty or are scared of starting the puberty belonging to the birth sex while being screened for the onset of puberty in order to delay/block it, it can be an excruciating long time knowing puberty is going to be able to do some of it's irreversible damage because of a waiting list.

I've had a referral to genetics since spring 2019, I'm going for my appt next month. You will get there eventually.

I don’t remember commenting this lol, anyway I start t tomorrow :D

Ryan 1234 SAME

Same

He's matured a lot thankfully

thank u :)

NoahFinnce omg you replied ! crazy lol😮😄 Thanx for your video with Jamie it’s great as someone whose dating a trans person

Noah is a legend

Chaos Good luck 🌟

Chaos stay strong friend, you're strong enough for this. **Hugs**

How old are you and what are your pronouns

Same ♥️ We will get there

dee Clarke 18 he/him Just started the whole process since in my country we're not allowed to start transitioning under 18. I have yet to get on hormones.

Try to not beat yourself up over it honey. You didn't waste years, you were discovering yourself. I hope you're in a good place now, maybe transitioning or thinking about it. Whatever you decide I'm sure will be wise. **Hugs** it'll all be ok

I didn’t know what it was until I was 18/19! Some people know at 5, we all know at different times. What matters is that now you know and now you can take care of yourself properly:)

I had the same problem! At 26, I just had top surgery and was still in denial about my gender identity. I started T a month after surgery and now I just wish I had figured it out sooner

I'm 26 and I have no idea what my sexuality is. It's weird that I'm unable to make sense of my own experiences, because I don't know if I actually like guys or just get a high off of their validation. I don't know if that's at all similar to questioning your gender, but I do know what it feels like to have "lost" many years of my life (to depression and DDD, in my case). The only thing that helps me is to think of what these years have given me, even if I couldn't experience joy like I wish I could. Without this experience I couldn't understand and help people who are in a similar situation. And who knows, when I finally get out of it I might be able to get more out of life than I would have been otherwise, because I'll never take the opportunity to live fully for granted.

I mean I figured it out around 21 but can’t do anything cuz family won’t support me even if I did come out

Yeah, I doubt all of their viewers are trans. I honestly just got here because I watched a video that Noah happened to be in, not even knowing he was trans, and he just seemed like a cool person. And I got to this video because Noah advertised it on his Channel. That's just how the internet works

i’m gay but same

Same fellow bi lol

I'm cis and hey, but it fascinates me as well! I have a lot of empathy for what people go through, and these videos really help me to know how to support anyone I know who decides to transition.

@@rainyrainold Same! I know it sounds weird, but sometimes I wish I knew more trans people. Just so I could give them ALL the support.

I am 20 and have been very confident in my decision for years :) its different for each person. I know that I'll never want biological kids, I want to adopt or at least foster.

It takes more time for some people! I knew since I was very young I wanted children. I'm about to turn 21 in Novemeber and I already have an 18 month old son ☺️

I realize some people don't know at 18 if they want to be parents at 18 or in their early 20s and maybe that is a little different with disphoria. I am cis and i knew i wanted kids at six or 8 years old. literaly craved the physical sensation of being pregnant starting at ten and a few years later I think before I craved breastfeding. and by ten I absolutly knew I wanted to physically give birth. I had a sister who said she never wanted to give birth or be pregnant or any of that she was going to adopt and I am not abosed to adoption I think it is beautiful but I also knew i wanted to bear children. I did have some level of disphoria not that i felt male but I thought there was some sort of mistake because I couldn't identify with gender norms in the way that I preicived them. my point is though that may be young for making that decision it is not at all young for knowing you want kids.

@@gettintherejanice6216 I mean I wasn't even sure at 20 and I'm cis so I don't think it has anything to do with disphoria

I have to start thinking whether i want to freeze my eggs or not and i am 12 😬

its really cool when ppl use youtube and vids like this to educate themselves

Yes, Helen. Your an ally

@@jamesbw2 *you're, lol jk but totally agree 😅

Same!

We Stan a ally 🏳️‍🌈💖, I’m trans and bi

What's the update? I'm trying to get my ADHD assessed and I'm told to wait list for 2 years. I'm Asian and bi

Oh, that's interesting! Hello from a bisexual autistic girl. I don't remember much about the waiting list stuff because I got diagnosed at 11 and my parents didn't tell me I was autistic until I reached the top of the waiting list, but it is definitely a problem.

Congrats dude!

That’s it. I’m moving to Norway.

Bro im coming with you, i want top surgery

@Amanda B In norway when you reach a limit on how much you have payed for medical services its all free after that, like I have at the moment. I can go to the doctor/hospital and I don't pay for anything, even the meds I use are free when the limit is crossed. And its not really that high either. Think its around 285 Usd or 2500Nok. So once that is reached you can go to the doc everyday for the rest of the year for free. And if you are in an accident and end up in hospital (ambulance and everything) It will cost you nothing even if the limit isn't reached.

LucasWerewolf Oh my gosh that is so cheap.

LucasWerewolf can I come to Norway?

I had that realisation too! Mind. Definetly. Blown.

Well some non binary, genderfluid etc people understand to

Jackson Sanders I don’t know a lot about non binary and genderfluid people, can they identify as guys? In that case I’m sorry for not including them

Letterborne yeah non-binary people can identify as guys, too, same way they could identify as a girl, both a girl and boy, neither, etc!😁

mKiroussiva ok, thanks for educating me on that! ☺️

Tate Lorraine Shark Week

Satan's waterfall

Tate Lorraine China’s attacking, because chinas flag is a red dot

Clever The Cat actually it's Japan who's flag is the red dot. China's is solid red with a yellow star in the corner

Hannah Brooks ah damn your right. I was typing that down worried I was wrong Gdhhdjd

Totally!!!!

Dad's gfs kinda sick tbh

@@marc-jn6ti lol u have no idea

@@orca3413 I have a bit of one...just a bit...

Damn she must be a bit of a bitch then. My dad's girlfriend would love the idea of donating binders for free to those who need them. Sorry bout that m8.

@@orca3413 Is it bad?

Howd it go? :]

@@dont-mind-mejust-passing-b1761 Fantastic! I should be getting some vocal changes soon, I am breaking out quite a bit unfortunately. Nothing super huge quite yet but everyone I know tells me I look so much happier!

@@Riley-uy6uf how r u now? :D

@@DustyZz i'm 4 months on T, voice has dropped a bit (may just be from training it tho), acne has gotten awful and uncomfy af, i'm starting to notice hair in new places where it used to be thinner (tummy and thighs etc). I think im building muscle a lot faster than i used to. and well,, even better news: i have a consultation with a plastic surgeon for top surgery on June 10th :D Thanks for asking

@@Riley-uy6uf I'm so happy for you!!

Hope you get that fixed and you get better

pog doctor :D

They were female at birth

Yusuf Gazi okay. But they’re still dudes...

Yusuf Gazi what’s your point??

Hazza Styles That they were sisters separated at birth...

Yusuf Gazi no. They’re both male. You do realize that the whole point of being a trans man is *not* being a woman right?

Love from Illinois

this is late but what did he do to change your view on lgbtqia+ people it’s nice to be able to help educate people

Literally everything is covered in the us you must have some bad insurance both of mine cover mtf stuff.

@@pilsplease7561 depends on the state and your income tbh

@@pilsplease7561 yeah maybe its different from state to state? im in md, and nothing covers trans fertility treatments or surgeries. t is more commonly covered, but only if you have good insurance

@@grimeydanny4214 It is covered out in california, matter of fact surgery is pretty much universally covered and hormones are cheap enough that it isnt a real factor.

@@pilsplease7561 dangg i gotta move lol thats incredible

sarah 221263 dude they practically have the same haircut

@@sage2658 haha I don't mean older than Jamie, I mean it makes him look a lot older than he did before he got it cut 😂

I think he look max 15, but if I saw him walking on the streets and didn't know who he is, I would think he is a 13-14 years old cisgender boy.🤷😅

ME TOO

Sending virtual head pats Noahhhh!

His hair looks so awesome here

I genuinely thought they were brothers until this comment

They look like siblings

Same. I started crying 😐

Lol trypanophobia is pretty much the whole reason I dont want HRT

im dyslexic and i read that transphobia and i was so concerned until i read the rest of the comment 😅

@@kyky8110 OOP-

@@holyshinx6391 I was like yes pills can have like a 1% higher chance of clots but fuck that ill take a pill, and or patches or gel for mtf but not needles you cant pay me to use a needle ever. I hate needles and couldnt inject.

❤️

actually same!! i mean acne sucks but it helps .

i didn't either

yep we can still have bio kids

That sounds so much like departments not communicating with each other....worst I had was being scheduled an appointment at an endocrinologist at 30 years of age who worked at the children-side of the gender clinic, and the hospital seemed to find out in time that wasn't going to work very well...

@@Dutch3DMaster wow.. imagine the doctors surprise when they think theyre gonna be getting some young teen, then a whole ass 30 year old human walks in 😂

​@@somedude172 Honestly, I was curious if the doctor would have recognized me, because it was the endocrinologist who had screened me as a child because I was very short for my age and they wanted to rule out any hormonal causes (I didn't know back then I was transgender) because if there would've been any, I would've gotten growing hormones if my body would not have entered boy puberty on it's own. I would've liked to see if my last name (I was the endocrinologist's first patient after his graduation as one) and the note in my file that I'm one part of an identical twin rang a bell for him. :P (Fate is a weird thing sometimes...) As for getting a surprise as a doctor: I had a doctor's assistent suddenly measure my body height (body weight and fat and bone mass is done on a regular basis and when you are younger height is as well) because she estimated my age going of on my appearance. Since I had the shit measured out of me as a child I knew the drill, but before I had my heels firmly against the wall and my chin up just slightly she pulled the measuring tape down and got a reading, screwing up the process and shortening me by 2 centimeters (168 instead of 170). 6 months later, I had an appointment at the endocrinologist again and the assistent (a different one basically everytime) saw I had been measured and decided to do that as well, did it right and saw I had an increase in height by 2 centimeters and without any reservation asked me if I had noticed myself growing, and I blurted out something like "Well, that would certainly take a scientific miracle!" and was so gobsmacked that I at that moment was unable to explain it further, so we got to the weighing station thing which requires entering the patients age, so I mentioned I am 31, and she went "Oh, now I get why you mentioned the scientific miracle thing...." (As for being estimated younger, that's not exactly new, but it was stupid that it happened in a hospital)

I'm curious what you got diagnosed with! Did you know yourself what you had and just need the official stamp? Did they manage to treat it or is it just managable? And how did university go?

Hang in there. Just try to keep in mind how much happier you will feel later on down the line when it's all over with. The wait will all be worth it in the end, and you can make it.

I know, waiting times fucking suck

Same here....

Ellis, it fucking sucks. I'm there with you. I am so so happy that these guys got the healthcare that, honestly, we all deserve. But in the past 18 months, Noah has spent over 11 grand on healthcare. I'm 27 and I do not have access to anything near that kinda finance. It's my own jealousy I have to deal with, it's just fucking hard.

It’s fucking miserable transitioning in the UK. It was a lot easier even 1-2 years ago when my friend transitioned. I haven’t even started yet but I fully expect to be waiting like 2 years

Billie eilish is bae

@@6luelights2 she surely is

Shes a industry plant but I love ocean eyes tbh

Some years later and I've only been watching him for about six weeks or so, but I really like him here. Not a fan of his currently blond, floppy hairdo, it isn't very masculine. I love his music, too

That’s irresponsible. I’m sorry they didn’t discuss your future fertility chances

How long ago was that Kieran? And I’m sorry you weren’t given that option. Because even if you end up never wanting a child, not being given that option when that option exists was so wrong. I just wonder when asking about fertility became a standard procedure.

maybe they assumed you knew you needed to do that if you wanted kids?

The people who react badly to the trans community simply can't accept another person's need or right to be comfortable in their own skin when nature didn't see fit to give them that. They seem to enjoy trying to impose misery upon trans people and almost welding them into a gender designed body cast of the biosex they are which will destroy them psychologically, which is unnecessarily sadistic and inhumane

THAT WAS IT!

Strongnite - N.B. YE, he mentions them in his room tour video :)

Also Pretty.Odd

spooky trash hope you’re doing ok :(

That's AWFUL. I so hope things get better for you.

That is so wrong, I hope you’re ok 👌

Hey pal, how's it going? I hope you feel better right now then when you wrote this. I remember when I came out. With some people it felt like I was walking right into a Strom, with other I was surer of myself. But with everyone, it ended up turning out ok, and if it didn't, then it would have been a good riddance. Feeling terrible because you try to please other doesn't work out in the long run. I'm just a little ways from coming out to my extended family (with the support of my immediate family) so that's something that'll be quite nerve-wracking, but itll be alright. I hope you are happy(-er) by now, lots of love! :) (I just realized that, since I'm from Germany as well, I could have written this in German. Well. It be like that)

I hope you're doing OK mate All I can say is that anyone you lose as a friend because you come out to them, was never a real friend. It's actually a great way to cut out all the people in your life that are bringing you down, or are toxic, because this really reveals who they are if they abandon you. Then you're left with your true friends, and you get so so much closer to them, you can end up telling them everything, intimate things, and get their help and advice and their shoulder to lean on. My experience is quite a bit different, in that I'm not trans, I have schizophrenia. You'd be shocked at how easily friends you've known for years abandon you when you tell them you're mentally ill. The stigma is real, bro. And it did hurt me a lot for a time. But yeah the friends I have left I am closer to than ever, they are my family, legitimately. They've genuinely saved my life numerous times when I was close to suicide. But yeah I know that's obviously a different sort of thing, mental illness, compared to coming out as trans. But the thing of losing friends is the same. And trust me, it's absolutely the best thing to get rid of those toxic people. I've never been happier since telling everybody. Genuinely. Fortunately when I came out as bi, none of them cared. Even the ones who left because of the schizophrenia. Like I guess in my country it's such a non issue, oh you're gay or bi? Well you also have blonde hair and are 6ft tall. That's how normalised and accepted it is in my country, luckily. We don't have radical fundamentalist Christians in my country really, unlike say the USA, so it's just not a big deal, and that's great. But yeah, coming out. It's scary, really scary. But do you want friends that don't even respect who you are? And the relationship thing. I don't know really, every relationship I've had I tell them pretty early on I'm schizophrenic because I don't want to sort of lead them on in a way. And none of them left, they didn't get scared and run away, they just accepted it. Schizophrenia is legally a disability, in my country at least, and so they sort of treated it like that, like they were worried about me, but they weren't scared off or anything. In a long term relationship? Well you're going to have to tell them sometime. You can't live a lie for the rest of the time you're with them. If they leave because of it, it's going to hurt. But hurt passes. Eventually. We all have sad breakups in our life. And it's tricky, because if it's a guy and they're not gay or bi, it's just perhaps not gonna be compatible, even if you still both love each other. I dunno. But you've got to tell them. Happiness comes from within, not from other people, from friends or boyfriends or girlfriends or whatever. Getting a relationship to fix your unhappiness has never worked in the history of relationships. Your happiness has got to be your own, and being your true self is gonna be the way to do that. And casting off the toxic people who can't even accept the reality of who you are, is only going to make you happier in the long term. And that's what it's all about.

!!!! Hi dude, i didnt think id come across your yt channel, im a fan of your insta!

@@higuerap1975 thank you💖

The end result is positive and you can see their joy at how far they've come to being them men on the outside that they are on the inside

congratulations dude !

Congrats king!

Congrats dude!!

That’s the most relatable thing I have ever seen

Vomiting isn't inevitable. I didn't do it after top surgery, maybe you won't either 🤷‍♂️ I wish you all the best 😁👍

Ohmygod same

Is this something that happens.

i never threw up or was even nauseous, and if you think you'll react badly to the anaesthesia (since thats why most ppl throw up) just let the surgery team know! typically you can predict your response based on whether your close family reacts poorly. your anesthesiologist can help by using a dif dose, giving IV anti-nausea before you wake up, etc. they did this for me during my top surgery and even though my mom and her mom both react badly I was totally fine.