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In my country there's a saying: 'ahneella on paskainen loppu', translated: 'the greedy has a bad ending.' When you try to get too much because of your greed, you end up losing what you have and getting nothing.
So they can’t make plans or create a strategy in general because this means Using a rule book. Chaos seems to be the only rule they actually do follow.😮
Amazing to hear. Every boundary I have seems to be trampled on and laughed at. Especially when she knows this hurts my feelings. Normal people try to avoid hurting their partners. My partner seems to enjoy breaking rules and calling me a control freak for simply asking to not cover our roof with used cigarettes 🚬 Just to feel she has the freedom to do whatever she wants. 😢
@@maryfrances1307 I believe it’s her trying to prove she can do whatever she wants and because I made a rule (restrictive trigger) she must now break this rule. She is compelled to prove she has control not me.
My wife called me the tone police and said I was escalating arguments every time I would express that I was not appreciating her raising her voice at me or otherwise being disrespectful. I never raised my voice or said anything willfully disrespectful or hurtful whatsoever. But my wife did both of those things to me almost every day. I know that if I did 1% of that to her, all hell would break loose. I couldn't see the double standards until I got out of the situation as a result of her initiating a trial separation. I expected we'd get back together, but now that I've not been under her spell for a while, I have zero interest.
I'm glad there are some actually decent people who see when something's not right and stand up to it. But there's no doubt some psychopaths join those movements (because why wouldn't they) and make a bad thing worse.
My ex wanted to have his cake and eat it too. The first infidelity destroyed our marriage but I continued for another 6 years till the second one and then divorced him.
I saw one narcissist, having a YT channel about mbti and red pill, who calls himself a "psychologist" on Instagram, and he is not even a psychologist at all. He fucks people's egos. It's sad that apart from people's negative comments, there's nothing anyone can do about it
@@Sound-Eater That' why I think Sam's channel is really important. To help educate people so they can continue living their lives and know how to deal with these kinds of people.
psychologists are a governed community. And you made attempt to report him to his local governing body? Maybe they have strategies for dealing with imposters (legal actions? dont know really) I do agree that no one should misrepresent. If you coach then coach (despite wht your message is) but adopting a regulated title is misleading and can cause harm. (Red pill, which I have dove deep into after my divorce, is full of men who cant or wont heal their traumas, although the info is not all bad (just like in any forum) its very negative and promote manipulation.
@@alchemical.fitness Unfortunately, I don't live in the same country, so I don't even know what I could do, apart from warning people who enter this environment. That's about 60,000 subscribers. And many people are just blinded by how he manipulates. People with unprocessed traumas often need such unity and become easy targets. I believe that something wise can be learned from many ideologies, but here the masculinity he describes is very toxic. I hope that at least psychologists will sometimes also warn their patients against any kind of coaching, these things can often be dangerous and do harm, especially if a coach is a narc. I'm sorry about your divorce, hope you find some peace and balance in your life. It is important to get out of bed in every morning with a smile
I am wondering if my childs father is a narc. He expects total freedom but also wants total control. He also seems to regress to a child like state when we argue. I think he regresses to the age when he experienced his first big trauma.
Interesting... regressing to a childlike state where, they could have experienced a significant major trauma. Perhaps, it's now a built-in trigger, buried deep within. Oiginally, this would be coming from the place where his first "S.O.S." was sent out to the world... but nobody came to help. And so, it replays again, and again, and again. His boundaries were destroyed at that point. Every revisit is his intuitive attempt to climb into that timeline and 'rewire' the faulty connection.
Sam, i find that my partner becomes very aggressive and hypervigalant around any medical help ,eg , doctors, hospitals and hospital staff. Is this due to the defiance disorder. Would love hear you veiw on this personality in the medical environment
🕵️♀️great info sir...thanku👍...im so glad I FIND true FREEDOM thru "taking responsibility" 4 myself.NOT RUNNING FROM MY UP & COMINGS))..i experience alot of peace when i try 2 walk a straight line and stay above board ...i don't suffer addictions..mayb a bit 2 much SUGAR 😄I LIKE 2 SHARE A SAYING WITH U ALL...AS FOLLOWS: ( THE AVENUE 2 TRUE FREEDOM OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT IS THRU HUMILITY...A GENUINE ACCEPTANCE OF WHAT U REALLY R, COUPLED WITH A SINCERE DESIRE 2 B COME WHAT U COULD B...STAY RIGHT SIZED AND U FEEL JUST FINE...VERY POWERFUL MEDICINE 4 THE SPIRIT
❤Today civilization gives the child all the benefits. What other “freedom” can you talk about with a narcissist? Let him first free himself from the clutches of his monsters😂😂😂
So "modern woman" is model narc /psycho. All new privilages without any new responibilities + getting old time perks. All of that cause I'm unique and special.
I can have Any man I want she said.. Do you know how many Men want to be on your shoes she said.. Out of ALL the people I could be calling she said... I AM the table .. She said. Grandiose maybe I said.
Interestingly, most comments on videos regarding personality disorders people are venting and demonizing their ex's. Perhaps personality disorders are actually transmittable?
