Day 3 in the bag. After seeing lots of your feedback I will be including longer portions of some of the interactions in future videos, starting with tomorrow on Day 4 😎stay tuned. If you want to learn exactly how I successfully approach women with ease, check out my full in-depth course: benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=YT-tate-line-ch
Honestly this is my favorite pickup line and the only one I ever use. It's so vulnerable and so non needy it's also extremely polarizing and will get either a fuck yes or a fuck no
It works even better with your fly down and your junk hanging out. You connect over the laugh you both have when they point it out and you tell them you had no idea.
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547meh, if you're thinking about frame you've already lost. Honest communication is more important for meaningful relationships
@@terraflow__bryanburdo4547 Don't overthink the theory. It fucks with your head if you get too analytical. We cannot force the entirety of a social interaction into formulae
i almost never approached a girl before but last time i did it, i was stuttering n lost my mind but still got the job done bcs the girl was flattered n thought it was cute
Hey Benjamin. Nice approaches and videos. I just want to say Red pill isn't completely delusional. Infact red pill helped me a lot to get back myself and improved version after my breakup. It also helped me to learn about female psychology. However I agree with you in point that just because one is rich, and girl aren't going to come to you without any approach effort.
Absolutely. All you need to do is look like him and then unless she's dodging f--kboys, she'll roll with pretty much whatever you say. And to those who'd deny it... He's fit, muscular, head full of hair, confident in looks (tank top, fanny pack) and approach. I'm not here to praise the guy, just to say that this is another PUA bulls--t. Most of you don't look like him and thus will rarely get similiar results chasing hot chicks and lets face it, you rarely chase mid's. I'm not saying don't try... I'm just saying: be ready to be rejected.
A great way of stopping a girl walking by, without running in front of her, is to firmly say, "Excuse me, sorry to stop you." It's kind of using NLP to "command" them, and the phrase presumes they've already done it. It actually works, give it a try.
Hey Benjamin great video! Are you also following up with the girls from this challenge over text and try to get a date? If yes can you maybe show it to us I think that would be interesting to see how you follow up. Keep up the streak!
Can you put the whole interaction in as well in all the videos? Like the small talk portion? I feel like that's where i'm feeling the struggle most of the time while talking. . Like i feel uncomfortable to make a transition from one topic to another since it feels like i end up just interviewing her at that point.
Watching this vid because one of the most gorgeous woman I've ever seen just walked by me in a gorcery store and I didn't say shit 😂 I think my main reason for hesitating so much is because I don't think my face is all that attractive and I have a really skinny body. So I can't help but think that women will just reject me.
if she likes U u can say almost anything.. u can say U are beautiful and U can omit that.. U can be sofisticated or even timid... U just need to go talk to her... if U get rejected U would have been rejected with 80/90 percent of the lines U would have possibly come out with.
Hey Benjamin you motivated me to challenge myself as well. I will achieve one successful approach per week until the end of your 30 days. I have got 3 days for number one left. I will do my best! If somebody wants to join my little challenge: feel free!
I'm in kenya 🇰🇪 (Africa) give me the 10 k if you fail,i will highly appreciate.I'm zeus fan from day one.i could request the 10k should be given random fan in the internet (me)
What about a scenario where you guys are at some event or a social gathering with mutuals? What would be good opening lines coming up to that person? I usually just either ask a mutual friend to introduce me or come around and try to start a conversation about whatever is around I guess
“Yo I don’t think we’ve met yet. I’m [insert name here]” Follow up by asking how she knows the host and from there make a bit of small talk. Close off by asking for her insta so you can stay in touch then tell her you’ll see her around. I may not be able to cold approach by day but at a party (an environment at which I feel most confident) and fuelled by liquid courage, I’m unstoppable with approaching. I’ve had a lineup of 21st parties in the past year and this works every time. Cause remember it’s not what you say but how you say it.
I want to see way more of the conversations and less tips. You can give some tips but i think you're giving too many. Still good job on going up to them
Game is pretty simple the one that picks are the winner. Trying to play the impress the girl kinda game never really works maybe 1 in 10 tries. She needs to want to impress you or its not gonna work. In her eyes you need to be seen as high value it does not matter if you are or not. She want to be the one chasing you. Never ever chase a women she will only run away from you. calling a women pretty from the get go in tryhard and your setting the frame that she is the one that decides how this is gonna go witch is a horrible frame to come from. In every interaction there is a person more in power if your not it then your like a hubby dog licking her boots. You can tell who not in power by who is seeking approval in the interaction.
i'm affraid to try it because in france nobody shake hands since 2020. @1:55 you don't seems to put too much pressure on her hands, probably not a viril hand shake, just a gentle one. i might be wrong, but it's the 10th time i'm watching this part.
this is probably the most interesting video of your channel, especially when you said that men like andrew tate, super viril, musculated, tall, hiigh self confidence, can have a cold approach, while nice guy must build on their sympathy and be more chatty.. this is a nuance to figure that there is not an universal approaching technique because each guy is different, each guy must rely on his own qualities. fun-fact lot of coaches saay you should never approaches saying "excuse me" cause you don't have to apologies for anything, otherwise you're weak.
There was a woman at the gym who I walked past today. She looked up, held eye contact, and gave me a really inviting smile. I smiled at her, and she continued to hold eye contact and smile again. So I walked off, hit some more sets, and circled back around when I saw her walking in my general vicinity. We chatted for a bit with good flow. I asked her name, and she asked for mine, which is usually a green flag like Tate says. She even went on to say that my name is one of her favorites for a guy with a huge smile. So I go for the number and she says that she is married. Then she added that she'd be sure to keep an eye out for me around the gym in the future. On paper, it was textbook and should've hit with so many IOI's. But with the mixed signals it was like getting 20 and the dealer drawing blackjack. 🤣
Could you consider trying older women ? I'm 27 after years of loneliness and not succeeding in building a deep relationship with a girl, I feel like I need to feel to warmth of a mom in her 30s/40s/even50s to make up for my frustration with young girls. So I wanna see how their reaction can be if approached by younger men like us
Dude, I freaking died laughing. Older women are totally into younger men if you're talking just for some fun. But I gotta say it's kinda cringe to want one to step into the mother role for you. And I say that as a 50 year old guy. LOL
@@scottverge938 haha I understand how it's amusing for you. Older women for me are pretty attractive. When they get into their mid 30s their hips start getting wider, their tits get bigger and they become like a softer, warmer pillow I can hug🥰 I believe it's the equivalent of girls who want daddies/older guys. Also they're more mature and know how to handle us and pleasure us more than younger girls. So I'd love to spend some time with a milf but to have a younger girl as my soulmate/wife
Ameture, be a man and use the pickup line that kings use.... My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die!!!! _Say as you shake her hand_
Great video so far, but I would still ask her for the phone number rather than Instagram because what to show there? Two face pictures? I have Twitter where I will do face reveals soon and will stick to that platform for long since I am actually offering value there.
Some people has no rizz and need a line, but i know I've got rizz but dont have the guts😢😅 ya we exist, and the worst part is we dont want to use the line
This direct approach is creepy as hell so it will never gonna work and it's not just because of picking up line as a whole talking to strangers is creepy for women
going in telling a girl she is absolutely beautiful just sounds a little bit off no? if you were to make a compliment Id go off something she was wearing ( dress, accessories etc ) and its an easier follow up after, I do like his trick about asking the name and if they don't ask back its a red flag , haven't heard that one before and it does make sense
using insta means she can social media stalk you. And if your insta is on point and appealing to her, it ups your chances of getting her out on a date or whatever.
@@gesamtkunstwerk8431 don’t need to be a Roid rat. But being so skinny is definitely a hindrance in how you are perceived. It’s like being less of a man. Simply engrained in our evolutionary psychology.
Andrew tate said that a girl would give anyone her instagram cause it a extra follower but their phone number they give it out less because it is more personal
no offense at all , but why do you ask for instagram instead of whatsapp , getting her number is so much solid than getting an instagram account , because there are so many girls which use whatsapp a lot , and they are not active at all on social medias , personally i prefer the number than the social media platforms
