I Took Fresh and Fit’s Advice for Approaching Girls - Day 7

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@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

👫 My 3 step formula to approach & attract women (full course): benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-fit

@AnthonyManzio 5 месяцев назад

Stop smoking weed

@andrew3006 5 месяцев назад

That bro hug at 4:35 was solid. Heard the handshake clap and everything. We need approach guides to find genuine bros on the street like that🤣

@Boe3 5 месяцев назад

🤣🤣🤣💯

@lieutenantundercover9329 5 месяцев назад

Yeah because they were clapping checks to each other

@cvnyouseeit 5 месяцев назад

@@lieutenantundercover9329… yea you really need some bros man ‘cause wtf 😭

@johnnyprays6657 5 месяцев назад

😂😂

@luiscoello5655 5 месяцев назад

HAHAHAHAHA

@cyberpegusus 5 месяцев назад

I know this channel is all about picking up girls and all… but can we take second to appreciate the bro hug at 4:37. There’s some serious man feelings going on there, like they met up the next day, after a night of catching L’s on Fortnite. We all know that feeling.

@gastongatekeeper 5 месяцев назад

The social awareness tips are great, just being normal and letting the girl know you’re normal through body language is huge

@mario125ww 5 месяцев назад

Models talk about this. Walking up to someone is extremely invasive. Naturally they are going to be guarded however by just being honest about your intentions. You can get a girl to open up pretty quickly

@deranged311 5 месяцев назад

The two bros hugging at 4:35 was epic

@rupey4582 5 месяцев назад

It would genuinely be incredibly useful to know how many of these girls you date and then close fully with. You probably won't want to share but getting a realistic account of that would help us understand what/where things are going wrong in our own interactions.

@cryptogreen3578 5 месяцев назад

Her getting your instagram is to see if you’re rich. Then she decides 😂😂😂

@sparkle4211 5 месяцев назад

Thanks for this video Benjamin😊

@darthvejdor4434 5 месяцев назад

I was wondering if you could make a video where you approach groups of girls like 2, 3 and more because I've always found it difficult to approach a girl that is not alone?

@rudyamezquita2440 5 месяцев назад

I've done dat it's harder but I have got some numbers out of doing this

@CT-Sythic 5 месяцев назад

Great video as always

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Appreciate that

@636Knight 5 месяцев назад

Hey there, So, I used to be all about that James Bond serious and dark seduction vibe. At 6'4 and 190lbs, I unintentionally came off as intimidating, especially to those who didn't know me well. A friend pointed out my somewhat arrogant way of talking, suggesting I lighten up a bit. Taking her advice, I experimented with a more playful approach. It wasn't about cracking jokes or teasing, but rather embodying a vibe through body language and tonality. Instead of the usual "Excuse me. Hi, I like your outfit," I'd go for a more enthusiastic "Excusee me!! Your outfit today is on point!" Surprisingly, this change made a difference. Acquaintances found me unexpectedly fun and extroverted, and with strangers, my success rate went up. The key was accentuating words, prolonging others, and adopting a more open body language. It breaks down defenses and gives off a friendly vibe that works wonders. Remember to keep it genuine, avoid overdoing it, and always calibrate based on the situation. Give it a shot, and you might notice a significant improvement in your approaches or at least leave a better impression.

@dmaldonado33 5 месяцев назад

W MYRON

@jimmyvargas3999 5 месяцев назад

You should leave the description of your fits because they look fire 🔥

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Was wearing club Monaco pants. Joe merino sweater, all saints shoes!

@tom-vx1lp 5 месяцев назад

i liked the guys huggin @4:36

@richko 5 месяцев назад

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@MMat1as 5 месяцев назад

The girl never pointed her feet towards him... she always wanted to leave... that girl had to see "some hi value" on his Instagram to give him a date.

@oseksamim1984 5 месяцев назад

I think what benjamin's trynna say is that no matter what you say to a girl- just say something (not something stupid of course)

@chinmunkdesigns1750 5 месяцев назад

good stuff

@modalsoul6511 5 месяцев назад

Even if all this works … it’s not going to matter if the women don’t find you physically attractive.

@itsjacobgandy 5 месяцев назад

Incorrect

@modalsoul6511 5 месяцев назад

@@itsjacobgandy nope I’m correct , you can’t make someone like you , you should know this. I don’t care how cool, Kind or sweet a woman is to me … if I dint find her attractive we dint have a match.

@shajeedakber3813 5 месяцев назад

@@modalsoul6511that's quite normal for guys...with girls things work quite differently ...

@itsjacobgandy 5 месяцев назад

@modalsoul6511 nope. Your incorrect. Physically unattractive males can easily attract attractive females because of their personality, body language etc. It has nothing to do with "making" someone like you. If someone could "make" people like them then theyd have a 100% success rate. No one in the history of the world has ever had a 100% success rate picking up girls

@user-ju6zx3rm8d 5 месяцев назад

@@shajeedakber3813 cope, things work same with girls. You've been lied to

@nicksonGK2008 5 месяцев назад

W mans

@brockfuller2074 5 месяцев назад

You look like the car wash owner from breaking bad

@RoccaFelipe 5 месяцев назад

Hey Benj, your style in this video, is it on purpose? Could be a pro or a con to be more flamboyant, like in the old times of the mystery method?

@curiousconsultant7922 5 месяцев назад

Man, this stuff is awesome! Thanks for listening to the audience and showing the full interaction, it definitely adds an element of completion to the video. While F&F tend to go too far sometimes into the red pill, I gotta admit the line works perfectly since it comes off very casual and natural. I do wonder what your conversion rate is via Instagram closes. Personally, I tend to score the date if the chatting happens via phone number (or WhatsApp) just because the investment is bigger for the girl when she gives her phone number as opposed to the gram since she probably has 1000 DMs as it is.

@ua6919 5 месяцев назад

What would you recommend someone like me, who doesn't use social media? I don't have ig to showcase and would prefer staying away from this kind of things

@tnasr3254 5 месяцев назад

Go straight for their number and if they won't give it to you then they may not be interested, alternately put the ball in her court and give her yours- that can be a little easier for her and can make it look like you aren't needy

@adamhilmiofficial 5 месяцев назад

2:00 3:55 this is how you interact with a girl that's in a rush 4:40 don't block off the girl's exit

@AkameGaKill194 5 месяцев назад

Block of girls exit???? Dude that's basically the whole road of a 30m radius

@adamhilmiofficial 5 месяцев назад

I'm not telling him not to block the girl's exit, these time stamps are notes for me when I cold approach later and I can refer to it by watching the specific time stamp@@AkameGaKill194

@starwarfan8342 5 месяцев назад

I'm pretty early for a channel I'm not even subscribed to

@Kimjongun19841 5 месяцев назад

He’s the son of Susan

@jakehageman4852 5 месяцев назад

So in your anecodotal have you had more success in person or dating apps? I feel like the former just curious to ask!

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

That crosswalk approach was solid 🦍

@usamehatip4153 5 месяцев назад

Is cameraman Casper the ghost?

@applebong9843 5 месяцев назад

First bro

@illadeligut 5 месяцев назад

Is bleeping out where they're from necessary? It's just a state or country not an exact address

@NoahTahiliani 5 месяцев назад

Les gooooooo

@lyonlee9648 5 месяцев назад

First!!

@mindsetmotivation9124 4 месяца назад

I guess i just dont get the IG thing a number would be better.

@Realkassian 5 месяцев назад

What brand and model are those pants

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

Club Monaco

@Quovix1 5 месяцев назад

So yes it does work lol

@anthonyhill4639 5 месяцев назад

I've been rebelling against this idea that in order to peak a woman's interest, my IG has to be on point but the way the dating market has evolved it seems i need to get with the program

@VincenT-qh9le 5 месяцев назад

gigachad

@Housestationlive 2 месяца назад

why she should looks very nice "today" if it's the first day you saw her? dude! myron!

@AK-hi4hm 5 месяцев назад

how many of these girls have you met up with so far

@darthvejdor4434 5 месяцев назад

Good question

@miladshakouri7 5 месяцев назад

None

@emilianosigales1443 5 месяцев назад

1:59 bro stopped caring about Benjamin

@Kimjongun19841 5 месяцев назад

Will it also work on Korean girls?

@animequenchers 5 месяцев назад

You don't need rizz for North Koreans, just offer them a big mac

@Kimjongun19841 5 месяцев назад

@@animequenchers not gonna lie, a Big Mac would also work on me

@JohnnyBlaze_616 5 месяцев назад

3:35 🚩SMH

@friskybeav9927 5 месяцев назад

unfortunatly itslikek 50 50 for me wont work im 5'3 and abs butskinny. Mainly works on ugly or super tall girls

@RichDatingDragon 5 месяцев назад

👍

@achillies40 5 месяцев назад

It helps that you are good looking. I have a head like a bucket of smashed crabs....and I'm 53.......so.......... I don't have a chance.

@NitroMusicc 5 месяцев назад

**Patched**

@jamesdeak630 5 месяцев назад

Her feet are pointing away from him, she wants to leave, and no ig!

@AkameGaKill194 5 месяцев назад

Step one pay people to pretend they don't know you and act interested.

@JudahKahn. 5 месяцев назад

If they don't ask for you to blur the face their is no need to blur it

@joshuabaker6066 5 месяцев назад

He knows the kind of trolls that exist on the internet and respects their privacy.

@Zydn5 5 месяцев назад

the videos fake they’re all actors from previous videos with voice editing

@theultimateartist4153 5 месяцев назад

@@joshuabaker6066 Harassment is no joke, it happens so often. Im quite impressed that he was mature enough to to think ahead

@theultimateartist4153 5 месяцев назад

@@Zydn5 Anytime I see someone selling something, red alerts in my skepticism always go off. It's quite possible you are correct and even the rejections are made up, would be insane to true any of this stuff. The internet is flooded with frauds

@whatevereyewant 5 месяцев назад

Actually think it depends on the state.

@dlu714 5 месяцев назад

showing yourself smoking in the end if a turn off before a pick-up, please show that you are sober during pickups.

@realbenjaminseda 5 месяцев назад

It was a cigar

@StylesT20 5 месяцев назад

Let him do his thing @dlu714 That "cigar" looks good, Ben

@kenpachi465 5 месяцев назад

Prove that it works with a regular guy

@timmenhoff 5 месяцев назад

if a regular guy goes to hot woman, what do u expect? of course he gets rejected. but regular guy can go to regular woman and find success

@kenpachi465 5 месяцев назад

@@timmenhoff I want to see it in action. Show the regular people examples.

@greenstar32 5 месяцев назад

I like your channel and you're pretty good Ben... but The reason her body language was bad was because your body language was bad. that was kind of a weak approach on your part. props for doing it for sure because she was all sexy looking... butt you were speaking in very monotone voice and you seemed nervous and stiff. again tho, props for doing it. and yeah crosswalks are hard

@MrMagoo-rg8er 5 месяцев назад

Click bait I was looking for the woman in red.

@unwokeneuropean3590 5 месяцев назад

Yeah. That woman is superhot.

@dimsuminab0x 5 месяцев назад

based on her feet pointing away looks like she just wants to go...

@raphacooljohnson3469 5 месяцев назад

@alejandrosolis3376 5 месяцев назад

Hey just one thing you have to consider about Latinas, in Latin America girls are more malicious because of each country situation, approaching a girl in the street is tough without being considered a latent hazard, maybe the Colombian girl just acted as she would've done if she was in Colombia.