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Just stumbled onto your videos, great stuff, it'll be helping out viewers too. If you ever feel that others don't have your back, know that I, and I won't be the only one, have your back and support you in what you're going through and what you're doing here, these videos are helping us all. Thanks for sharing.
Hey Peter - I found your RU-vid channel by chance a few weeks ago. After watching a few of your videos, I feel like we are really similar because I can relate to almost everything you're going through - it's like I've found my twin on RU-vid lol. I am in my 30's too (a bit older than you though, late 30's) and feeling old like I wasted my 20's ... I'm struggling with depression and hair loss too. Everything you've said in your videos about your childhood sounds really similar to what happened with me also. The cruel thing about life is that when I was younger (and better looking) I had no direction and wasted a tonne of time. Now that I'm a bit older, I feel like I'm finally starting to figure things out but it feels like it's too late ... It's harder to get a girlfriend at this age and things like hair loss start to creep up on you. Anyway - I just wanted to say thanks so much for making these videos. I don't really have too much advice but I just wanted to let you know there's someone else out there in the world who is going through almost everything you are as well. I have a lot of respect for you sharing your journey the way you have and I hope you can keep on making more videos soon.
Hi. It’s nice to know you. I am Vietnamese and living in the UK now. I appreciate your channel. However, could you insert engsub into your videos for the people dont know too much English like me?
keep going bro. I just got out of a really dark time. theres been some great moments and also so many fuked up ones. it really does feel like theres more fuked up negative suffering moments vs positive but im hoping that if i hang in there . maybe elon musk can get his neruo link stuff happening and then i can just plug that shit into my head and control my chemicals! :D
I dont think you have depression, it more to do with stress. The Vietnamese expect you to do well at school , get a good job, buying a house , have a girlfriend. You dont have any of that , they consider you are fail in life. that when the stress come in and you compare yourself with others.
Personally I think it's more to do with identity crisis, which is the core of the problem. It's relatable. I had gone through the same thing when young. I was so lonely, so sad and always wondering what I really was. I was not American enough, having Asian features; I was not Vietnamese enough, speaking improper Vietnamese. Accepting who I really am and returning to my roots help me understand where I came from. I have finally found my inner peace and happiness.
@@nguyenhoanganh4586People facing identity crisis because they went to school where 80% of the student are native (white european). At school , every student are treated equal and the student have to respect each other. After they finish highschool, they join the workforce.Then the manager and the native dont see migrant employee are equal . They dont get promotion or priority when they apply for job. that when you facing identity crisis because you see yourself a Canadian, Australian, AMerican, European. The muslim very proud of their religion , they look down on the western society and culture , they dont face identity crisis like the Asian.
You're feeling down because you haven't established a stable career, found a wife, or settled into a home at this stage of your life. Many men experience this, and it's a common experience. I also sense that you pretend not to speak Vietnamese and act as if you struggle with the language. Anyway, good luck.
