I knew God led me to your channel. I wasnt sure if you were Christians or not. But it didnt take long to notice the principals were biblical. Its brilliant how you present Gods truths in a way everyone can relate to and understand. I really appreciate it. I feel God's favor on you and your ministry. Keep up the great work. May He bless you and your family in the name of Jesus.
Oh I have watched many of your videos and I love them and I am thankful for all the work that you do. I just found this one and it has been SO simple and so inspiring! Thank you!
I know I comment a lot on these videos (I hope I'm not getting annoying! 😬), but this was so good! I have always stayed away from "self help gurus" because they seem so fake (as in, "give me your $$ & I'll tell you how wonderful you are) 😒. I don't consider you, Dr. Paul, a self help guru, but you are helping me! The thing that sets you apart in my opinion, is that you are so genuine. I love, LOVE, L💚VE the analogy of the tuning fork!! That is perfect - it makes so much sense. THANK YOU. 🙂
Dr. Paul has excellent insight and a God-given gift for helping us figuring these things out. This is what makes him different. Thank you, Dr. Paul for your wonderful advice, God is using you to speak into my life! May He bless you richly !
Hi Dr Paul... love all your videos! Just a FYI the thumbnail for this video is typed "HOW DO "YO" KEEP THE SPARK?". Maybe you were keeping this video hip and cool for young couples? Lol. You're the best!
There are several suggestions for saving your marriage Try to discuss more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I learned these and the reasons they work from Pavs Partner Pundit website )
I think a lot of problems comes from an ungrateful spouse. Men usually marry the one they want, women marry the one they want to change. With the legal system, no incentive or accountability, their true nature comes out as soon as there is opportunity for the man to be liable. Ladies, keep your holes closed until you are out of debt, no mental illness, stem degree and multiple practical skills, and only use holes on similar men, and the bs of "where are the good men" will never be uttered.
You made me have last hope for me to get good from my self to be beter partner and father to make enjoyable relationships with my wonderful partner and my tweens who I last tame treated bad because yelling and loosing my cool. I am so thankful 🙏for you Dr.Paul Jenkins 💓
I'm watching this video from a relationship perspective (we're not married). I have always thought your attitude is a result of your pent-up frustration about a particular situation(s) or how you deal with it. I notice that in my current relationship, I am much more easy-going. Once upon a time I would pick apart every little thing. (in past relationships) I would always be in 'detective-mode'. Trying to figure out if what I was being told was the truth or lie. It's exhausting. I would become defensive still not even knowing the results of my 'test'. UGH. Now, I'm older (50), I have a son (7) and my boyfriend and I have been in communication for 4 years now (I used to live across the country) and we've been pretty much inseparable since I moved back to NYC (going on 2 yrs). I view things differently now. Maybe he doesn't do things that would cause my 'detective' to come out, IDK. Maybe now I let the little b*llsh*t go because it's not worth a disagreement. Maybe, I am finally happy and feeling secure. We often say, oh my type of guy/gal is ........and my bf isn't exactly all of what I 'thought' was for me. But we're a good team, we're friends, we don't disrespect each other, never call each other hurtful names...basically, we're a yin/yang balance. We balance each others weaknesses and share many of the same morals. ((He loves my cooking - which is probably the whole thing right there...lol) Ok, that's all....he he
Thank you for viewing the video, Douriatou Diallo. I hope you can find a way to become happier in your marriage. There are other videos on the playlist and you can always talk to someone.
I got into that a bit in this episode - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-FvxBYuVw22c.html I will also put that in the production list, so keep watching! DrPaul
If he/ she is an ADULT but lies to you then you don't want such a pathological, immature, and self-centered person in your life. Unless the person honestly regrets their lies and wants to change, maybe see a therapist, then the only solution is to leave them. Never look back! A liar is as bad as a cheater in my mind. How can you ever trust them?
@@sunniharrison9639 it takes a conscious choice to be emotionally honest and present. You have to allow yourself to be vulnerable with your spouse. You have to trust your spouse. You have to stop being emotionally unfaithful with other people.
Do you mean the mobile phone? %and and qqNithya Neethu, do not give the child the phone, tell them that it is a tool for grownups and then use it like one. If the child sees you playing games on it, they will want to play. You could also get them a cheaper tablet for kids if you are o.k. with them having screen time. If not, tell them it is not a toy and they can't play with it.
That's kind of explained with the other 4 letters of the acronym. If all you are doing is having a positive attitude but not doing anything else in the relationship it is still not healthy.
